I Have Never Been Asked Out Before

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    Are You Kidding Me...?

    I barely have people in general come up to me and talk, let alone a girl asking me out. Unless it was some kind of sorority prank to see who could pick up the biggest loser.
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest
    22-25, M
    Jan 12, 2010

    I'm 34 years old and NO ONE has ever really

    asked me out on a date in real life. Of course I have dated. I have even married, and now I'm separating. I dated people I met online, who did search and contact me, but to me that doesn't count, it's too safe, too easy. I just realized the other day that the guys I have gone...
    anginsan99 anginsan99
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2014
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2014

    I know I'm intimidating,

    but seriously,not a single person has ever liked me before. I'm not ready for a relationship but still,it makes me wonder..not even one person?!
    fortisparadys fortisparadys
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2014

    I asked the new guy out

    when I was in 6th grade. He had a sort of mullet (why did I find this hot?) and actually I had my friend ask him out for me. She was outgoing so I guess I used her as my go-between. He said no, not in a mean way though. He was still nice to me after that. But I never tried...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 19

    I have never been asked out,

    or liked by a guy, or anything. I don't get it. But here's the thing, I know that every answer would be "don't worry till you're older...it doesn't matter just enjoy your youth". And I actually am- I focus on my studies, I enjoy my friends...But I'm legitimately not even friends...
    ThatGirl92759 ThatGirl92759
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2014

    In Due Time?

    I'm of the philosophy that things will happen in due time. However, I think almost 23 years is long enough!! I have never been asked out before. I've been told I'm a really nice and sweet person (by a boy!) and yet... nothing. Girls ask me if I have a boyfriend and...
    necrosia necrosia
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 19, 2010
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