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I Have Never Been In a Long Term Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 178 People

    Tired Of All Of The Pressure

    I'm a 24 year old who wants to have a relationship but is scared of getting into one because I'm sick of the rejection and the hurt. I will admit that I have a lot of good qualities and many of my friends and family keep wondering why I'm still single. I've been overweight my...
    MegANN87 MegANN87 22-25 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    At what point does this become a worry?

    Is there a consensus mark where past that time one Shiism worry?
    sharnold1914 sharnold1914 18-21, M Jun 4, 2014

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    Are Some People Just Not Relationship Material?

    I am a 33-year-old woman with a lot going for her - attractive (I've done a bit of modeling), intelligent (went to college on a full scholarship and also have a Masters degree), come from a solid family (I have 5 siblings and my parents are still married), cultured...
    moonmaiden76 moonmaiden76 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    I Haven't Even Had A Relationship (oh Crap!)

    so i join these group because yes, i've never been on a long term relationship... hell i haven't even had a relationship. the reason accordings to some friends is that i'm way too gentle (yeah... What a good reason...) since when been gentle makes you a freak? i have 16 and...
    lost54 lost54 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    Boring Men

    at this stage i have got fed up with relationships coz no matter who i m meeting, i can only see lots of similarities of guys i met before in the ways they talk and act and how ordinary and boring these guys are, even though they have very different occupations or interests. and...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F Nov 25, 2011

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    I Guess Thats Just The Way It Is

    I am a 27 year old woman who is a mother to a beautiful baby boy.  Who came from one of the very short and few relationships I have experienced.  It just seems like nothing or no one seems to stick.  I would have to say my longest relationship which just ended...
    arosesmile arosesmile 26-30, F Oct 9, 2009

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per

    se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for guys if the girl he's seeing has never been in a committed relationship? I often find myself scared / weary to tell guys this. Because I think it...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    I am 36 and never had a boyfriend.

    I have dated, but one of 2 things happens, either the guy just wants sex or the chemistry is missing. (Meaning they like me, but aren't attracted to me and I am put in the friend zone)
    oceanscalm oceanscalm 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    From What I Can Tell....

    I've been friendzoned again. **** sucks. I guess I should be glad to have somebody who seems cool with hanging out with me. I guess I should be happy that I had enough delusional hope left to actually think that she might actually like me when she contacted me about going hiking...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M Mar 19, 2011

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    When Will This Hell End?

    A bit about me - I grew up without a father, and my mother is Chinese and had a very "hands off" approach to raising me. She loved me alright, but I never had anyone to talk about in terms of relationships with the opposite sex. So I went through secondary school (11-18) never...
    Ayahuasca Ayahuasca 31-35 1 Response Nov 27, 2010

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    Just Another Day

    I am 26 years old and I only dated one girl for only 3 months. It is painful not to be able to experience a true loving relationship. Everyday I don't look forward to the fact that I don't have a girlfriend when I wake up every morning. I am a intelligent and nice...
    free112 free112 26-30, M 8 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    Don't Know If It's For Me

    I'm only 21, so people always say I still have time to find that "special someone." Maybe they are right, but for now, I am actually fine with it. I have been in quite a few relationships, and none of them have been for more than 4 months--and in all of them, I ended it. Now don...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I Forgot--ooops

     I  have been in one long term relationship but he was the last. He  really broke my heart. I was 19 and he was 35. He was really sweet. He used to take my  shopping and let me borrow his car but he drank waaaay  too much and smoke  weed.  He is...
    AnonymousDiva AnonymousDiva 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Am I Relationship Material?

    After living 35 years I now have discovered that my worst enemy hasn’t been life or others; but simply myself.  I always wanted to be a pleaser,  in fact I fit best in this role.  I like harmony and peace, I shy at confrontation or disagreement, I am usually the first to...
    lostinlife2 lostinlife2 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    I have never been in a relationship. I'm 36, gay and never been in a relationship with a male or female. I'm scared out of my mind because I'm sensitive to people and there...
    monteJ monteJ 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    I never been in a 3 year relationship. I should say 2 but I be lying. In the 2 years it was off and on. The max of my relationships was 6 months total.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I have noticed several people in relationships, even going so far as to get married. They're all like "you'll find someone one day" this and "you need a partner" that and I'm...
    orderedchaos orderedchaos 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I have never tho or real one fake people
    ridleyswaq ridleyswaq 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm 26 and have been single for my entire life. I was close to a relationship once when I was 22 and had my first kiss; but then he decided to go back to his ex, so ever since then...
    worrier07 worrier07 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 27

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    This suppose to be a negative thing?
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I should Just get used to it. Its not for me and Im fine with that.
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I'm 24 years old and being the wheel around your friends who are all couples just sucks. Sleeping alone at night in a big bed hugging pillows wishing it was a person instead, then...
    nubianprince21 nubianprince21 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    It's true and kinda sad. I want a boyfriend so bad
    ciarajones179 ciarajones179 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The only one I had was a online one but I don't count that, and I'm 15 I find it a little sad, but I know I will find a girl I like later in life.
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 18 and have never been kissed, or have dated. I feel pathetic for writing this because I know that the vast majority off people my own age have at least gone on a date. I have...
    Narp12 Narp12 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Yes, it is true. I have never been to Disneyland. Hopefully one day I will :)
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F Jan 29

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    I'm 26 and have never been kissed. It's just gotten to the point where I'm too embarassed that it will be my first kiss to have my first kiss. if that makes sense.
    sfoss21 sfoss21 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 16

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    I have never been kissed I am still waiting for a girl to kiss me
    paul642 paul642 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Thren27 Thren27 26-30, F Feb 18

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    I've had women friends; like a str8 guy has guy friends. Have never really had desire to be with a woman. Never had desire to chase after one.
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    Yep...not sure I even spelt it right but I've never been there.
    Codycope17 Codycope17 16-17, M Jan 28

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    This is not a regret, it's something I've known would happen. Parents thankfully divorced at age 4. My dad had weekend custody and is a great dad. Still, I saw how hard being a...
    MissASC77 MissASC77 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am happy in my relationship but i know we both wish we'd had more experiences before we met he wanted to sleep with more women and i wanted an experience with a woman, has this...
    percy33 percy33 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    I've been looking for years now for a like minded woman accepting of all of me. I won't comprise my vaules,work ethics or beliefs to get one. I'd rather be single.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Feb 10

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    I am with my fiance for 4 years on June and engaged for 4 months. we have 2 boys together and everything is okay. can be better. I'm working on getting my own apt and my own car...
    jenniebaez1992 jenniebaez1992 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    It's a little past midnight, and here I am thinking about a conversation I had with someone earlier. He pm'd me and asked, what one thing I really want in life. My answer was to...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    Never was on a date, never had a chance to go on one. Seems like I'm just not what girls are looking for these days :D
    SorrowSong SorrowSong 18-21, M Feb 4

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    I'm 35 years old, and I've never kissed a woman. I'd like to, but I never seem to get to the point where it would be a reciprocated feeling. I've often tried to imagine what it's...
    halfblind79 halfblind79 31-35, M Feb 6

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    I never kiss anyone before.I want to kiss a woman. :( I wonder how does it feel.I always want to kiss my former therapist,teachers and professors because they were very beautiful...
    Stephanieloveowl Stephanieloveowl 26-30, F Jan 29

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    Gonna go with my Bf on a Carnival Cruise, anyone ever been? How is it?
    prettyg1 prettyg1 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Not to sure it sounds too great tbh though I am partial to a glass of cider. I did shots out of egg cups once with my friend and we got a bit tipsy but never drunk
    Minutes2Midnight Minutes2Midnight 13-15, F Feb 11

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    I want to find love so if any girls 13,14,15,16and 17 want to find it message me. That is me if you can stand how ugly I am. Just looking for love.
    Bluetigera Bluetigera 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 12

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    That asked me to meet 3am. I said no. He said pls. its the only time He has because in 3 days he will leave. I said why not reschedule it when both of us are free at night time...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    i had my own table to myself in 7th grade, 'cause no one wanted to sit by me.:/ it was very depressing.
    andylovesyou23 andylovesyou23 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    I mean I'm 13 what do you expect? 😂 I've had boyfriends but nothing deep
    Uhilikepizza Uhilikepizza 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I dont really know how it feels to be in love
    johnny437 johnny437 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    But I did ride in the passenger's side of a cop car :)
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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