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I Have Never Been In a Long Term Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 202 People

    Are Some People Just Not Relationship Material?

    I am a 33-year-old woman with a lot going for her - attractive (I've done a bit of modeling), intelligent (went to college on a full scholarship and also have a Masters degree), come from a solid family (I have 5 siblings and my parents are still married), cultured...
    moonmaiden76 moonmaiden76 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    At what point does this become a worry?

    Is there a consensus mark where past that time one Shiism worry?
    sharnold1914 sharnold1914 18-21, M Jun 4, 2014

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    I Forgot--ooops

     I  have been in one long term relationship but he was the last. He  really broke my heart. I was 19 and he was 35. He was really sweet. He used to take my  shopping and let me borrow his car but he drank waaaay  too much and smoke  weed.  He is...
    AnonymousDiva AnonymousDiva 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    I am 36 and never had a boyfriend.

    I have dated, but one of 2 things happens, either the guy just wants sex or the chemistry is missing. (Meaning they like me, but aren't attracted to me and I am put in the friend zone)
    oceanscalm oceanscalm 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    From What I Can Tell....

    I've been friendzoned again. **** sucks. I guess I should be glad to have somebody who seems cool with hanging out with me. I guess I should be happy that I had enough delusional hope left to actually think that she might actually like me when she contacted me about going hiking...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M Mar 19, 2011

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    I Haven't Even Had A Relationship (oh Crap!)

    so i join these group because yes, i've never been on a long term relationship... hell i haven't even had a relationship. the reason accordings to some friends is that i'm way too gentle (yeah... What a good reason...) since when been gentle makes you a freak? i have 16 and...
    lost54 lost54 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per

    se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for guys if the girl he's seeing has never been in a committed relationship? I often find myself scared / weary to tell guys this. Because I think it...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    I Guess Thats Just The Way It Is

    I am a 27 year old woman who is a mother to a beautiful baby boy.  Who came from one of the very short and few relationships I have experienced.  It just seems like nothing or no one seems to stick.  I would have to say my longest relationship which just ended...
    arosesmile arosesmile 26-30, F Oct 9, 2009

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    Don't Know If It's For Me

    I'm only 21, so people always say I still have time to find that "special someone." Maybe they are right, but for now, I am actually fine with it. I have been in quite a few relationships, and none of them have been for more than 4 months--and in all of them, I ended it. Now don...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    Just Another Day

    I am 26 years old and I only dated one girl for only 3 months. It is painful not to be able to experience a true loving relationship. Everyday I don't look forward to the fact that I don't have a girlfriend when I wake up every morning. I am a intelligent and nice...
    free112 free112 26-30, M 8 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    It's got to the point

    where I find it hard to imagine myself in one.
    Romanadvoratrelundar Romanadvoratrelundar 22-25, M Apr 17

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    Tired Of All Of The Pressure

    I'm a 24 year old who wants to have a relationship but is scared of getting into one because I'm sick of the rejection and the hurt. I will admit that I have a lot of good qualities and many of my friends and family keep wondering why I'm still single. I've been overweight my...
    MegANN87 MegANN87 22-25 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    Boring Men

    at this stage i have got fed up with relationships coz no matter who i m meeting, i can only see lots of similarities of guys i met before in the ways they talk and act and how ordinary and boring these guys are, even though they have very different occupations or interests. and...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F Nov 25, 2011

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    Am I Relationship Material?

    After living 35 years I now have discovered that my worst enemy hasn’t been life or others; but simply myself.  I always wanted to be a pleaser,  in fact I fit best in this role.  I like harmony and peace, I shy at confrontation or disagreement, I am usually the first to...
    lostinlife2 lostinlife2 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    I feel like I have never really been in love with anyone real. Don't get me wrong, I love my bf, I enjoy his company and appreciate him , he's cute, kind and he loves me more than...
    1EPcat 1EPcat 70+, F 10 hrs ago

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    Never! I have never ever been to a Spa. I'd Love to go, but I haven't. It be something nice to go to one day. But for now, its just something that I just have never done before.
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 13 hrs ago

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    I have never really ever thought of my self, as beautiful, hell I have never even thought of my self, as even average. I just always feel like, I am the ugliest person in the world...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    I have Read EP's terms of use, when I 1st joined EP, and over the years, I have read it, again and again, and I think everyone on EP should read it, and abide by the rules, but I...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    I never thought that I would be in a long distance relationship. It's not that it is something that I was against, just not something I ever really thought about. Until I met him...
    Iwantsomemore2 Iwantsomemore2 36-40, F 20 hrs ago

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    I have been in a long distance relationship for a few years while I've been at school. some days are hard but it's really not that bad... seriously
    dwill3 dwill3 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    my boyfriend is a pain but he is loyal,,,,until death do us apart
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I've only been in three relationships, two of which were long distance. I've never really been on a date, which is frustrating since I'm a romantic, and I want to be cutesy, and...
    Serrara Serrara 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I live two hours away from each other - as I live in New York and he lives in Pennsylvania - and we see each other probably 1 - 2 times monthly. He is in the PA...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My (half)brother is going into the army, and i have never been more happy about it. It's been his dream ever since we were little, and now he finally gets to experience it. He...
    HarleyHart HarleyHart 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I am almost 17 and I have never had my first kiss. My friends are so experienced and I'm not... I'm already gonna be a junior.
    Emmahlove Emmahlove 16-17, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Funny how i am writing this when my long distance relationship is breaking apart. but as they say if life is joke then it is a cruel one. but anyway i personally believe that a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    Granmaw got this obscene phone call The dude on the line was whispering to her that he'd like a little p-ss- She died out laughing and told the caller .. " lord I would too...
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M a week ago

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    In another story I already told you about finding my soul mate online but not being able to be together. This experience gave me some insight in my feelings about (long distance...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I have never been to jail and I don't want to but they make jail look so fun In one of my favorite show called ORANGE IS THE NEW BLACK I wonder if jail is actually like that
    Vswagger Vswagger 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    It's try true. And I hope my first relationship is my last relationship!
    lexieloulou99 lexieloulou99 13-15, F Jun 24

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    I am tired of long term relationships that don't end well. When I say "don't end well", i meant couples that don't end up together. I wish some good woman would find me and I could...
    leztat leztat 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I feel like I am never good enough at any job I have. Are there any other people out there that feel the same way?
    BabyTuna BabyTuna 41-45, F Jun 23

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    I'm in a long distance relationship. And so, I'm growing a fluffy chastity belt in his absence. He knows damn well I'm not up to anything bad looking like a samsquanch under my...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Just cause I have used in the past doesn't mean I did it to be "cool". I've never known what that feels like and Probly never will. I don't have a group who think I'm just okay...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I love my Girlfriend so much... When I miss her a lot, which let's be honest is often I find myself looking at her pictures and just staring at them, admiring her beauty... Her...
    mizzcomplicated mizzcomplicated 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I just keep thinking I'm doing everything wrong. It just seems like everyone always have to tell me how to live life. why do I bother trying when apparently I'm doing everything...
    brknsilence79 brknsilence79 31-35, F Jun 21

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    I want to be with someone for long term.I am tried of guys looking to hook-up and such.I just want something real.A connection that might last for a long time.I'm not looking for...
    punkglampire punkglampire 22-25, F Jun 20

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    I got out of my last LTR because it wasn't right for me. It's been a few years and I wish I could find someone who wants the same things I do.
    kitai12 kitai12 41-45, F Jun 19

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    Call me naïve, stupid or whatever you like, but I do believe that when two people share a connection and they tend to it with care then yes, long distant relationships can...
    JaneD22 JaneD22 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 19

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    It isn't on my bucket list either!
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19

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