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I Have Never Been In a Long Term Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 178 People

    I Forgot--ooops

     I  have been in one long term relationship but he was the last. He  really broke my heart. I was 19 and he was 35. He was really sweet. He used to take my  shopping and let me borrow his car but he drank waaaay  too much and smoke  weed.  He is...
    AnonymousDiva AnonymousDiva 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Am I Relationship Material?

    After living 35 years I now have discovered that my worst enemy hasn’t been life or others; but simply myself.  I always wanted to be a pleaser,  in fact I fit best in this role.  I like harmony and peace, I shy at confrontation or disagreement, I am usually the first to...
    lostinlife2 lostinlife2 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Are Some People Just Not Relationship Material?

    I am a 33-year-old woman with a lot going for her - attractive (I've done a bit of modeling), intelligent (went to college on a full scholarship and also have a Masters degree), come from a solid family (I have 5 siblings and my parents are still married), cultured...
    moonmaiden76 moonmaiden76 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Tired Of All Of The Pressure

    I'm a 24 year old who wants to have a relationship but is scared of getting into one because I'm sick of the rejection and the hurt. I will admit that I have a lot of good qualities and many of my friends and family keep wondering why I'm still single. I've been overweight my...
    MegANN87 MegANN87 22-25 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    From What I Can Tell....

    I've been friendzoned again. **** sucks. I guess I should be glad to have somebody who seems cool with hanging out with me. I guess I should be happy that I had enough delusional hope left to actually think that she might actually like me when she contacted me about going hiking...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M Mar 19, 2011

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    Boring Men

    at this stage i have got fed up with relationships coz no matter who i m meeting, i can only see lots of similarities of guys i met before in the ways they talk and act and how ordinary and boring these guys are, even though they have very different occupations or interests. and...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F Nov 25, 2011

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    Just Another Day

    I am 26 years old and I only dated one girl for only 3 months. It is painful not to be able to experience a true loving relationship. Everyday I don't look forward to the fact that I don't have a girlfriend when I wake up every morning. I am a intelligent and nice...
    free112 free112 26-30, M 8 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    I Guess Thats Just The Way It Is

    I am a 27 year old woman who is a mother to a beautiful baby boy.  Who came from one of the very short and few relationships I have experienced.  It just seems like nothing or no one seems to stick.  I would have to say my longest relationship which just ended...
    arosesmile arosesmile 26-30, F Oct 9, 2009

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    I Haven't Even Had A Relationship (oh Crap!)

    so i join these group because yes, i've never been on a long term relationship... hell i haven't even had a relationship. the reason accordings to some friends is that i'm way too gentle (yeah... What a good reason...) since when been gentle makes you a freak? i have 16 and...
    lost54 lost54 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    I am 36 and never had a boyfriend.

    I have dated, but one of 2 things happens, either the guy just wants sex or the chemistry is missing. (Meaning they like me, but aren't attracted to me and I am put in the friend zone)
    oceanscalm oceanscalm 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Don't Know If It's For Me

    I'm only 21, so people always say I still have time to find that "special someone." Maybe they are right, but for now, I am actually fine with it. I have been in quite a few relationships, and none of them have been for more than 4 months--and in all of them, I ended it. Now don...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    When Will This Hell End?

    A bit about me - I grew up without a father, and my mother is Chinese and had a very "hands off" approach to raising me. She loved me alright, but I never had anyone to talk about in terms of relationships with the opposite sex. So I went through secondary school (11-18) never...
    Ayahuasca Ayahuasca 31-35 1 Response Nov 27, 2010

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    At what point does this become a worry?

    Is there a consensus mark where past that time one Shiism worry?
    sharnold1914 sharnold1914 18-21, M Jun 4, 2014

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per

    se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for guys if the girl he's seeing has never been in a committed relationship? I often find myself scared / weary to tell guys this. Because I think it...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    I have never been in any remote relationship with anyone and I'm not in the prime of my life and don't know what to do. I have nobody and have absolutely zero confidence with...
    rugby78 rugby78 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I just had one of those crazy dreams where you think everything that is happening is real, I just had a thought that maybe it's my mind trying to tell me something. I've been to...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M a week ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    I'm 26 and have been single for my entire life. I was close to a relationship once when I was 22 and had my first kiss; but then he decided to go back to his ex, so ever since then...
    worrier07 worrier07 26-30, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Although I'm turning 21 soon, I'm actually okay with not being in a relationship. I want to focus on myself and be at the place I want to be at before meeting a guy and being in a...
    JeannieInAChampagneBottle JeannieInAChampagneBottle 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    i always used to think to myself "whats wrong with me?" but these days i dont ask myself that any more,i just became more accepting of who i am, and tell myself that the world...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I told myself I wont post anything anymore about me being alone and lonely and sad about my none existent lovelife... but recent event made me write and I just have no one to share...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 41 Responses Jan 6

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    I think if a guy has a gf... I shouldn't be talking to him, because I would definitely get jealous if my guy was talking to girls, but that's just my opinion. And I have no if des...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't know.. I guess I'm not rich enough, or smart enough, or handsome enough whatever.. I don't really care anymore, life's just a big competition full of winners and losers...
    xColdxWorldx xColdxWorldx 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    This suppose to be a negative thing?
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I should Just get used to it. Its not for me and Im fine with that.
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have never been kissed I am still waiting for my first kiss I have never been kissed probably because I am shy
    Paul998 Paul998 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 2

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    At my age, i feel ive been with a nice amount of women when it comes to dating and gfs and so on. But i have never been with a black woman, not that i dont find black women...
    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    I have never been in love, and I am fine with that. I am young and just having fun! I have had a few boyfriends but I knew with each of them that nothing was going to come from it...
    enviouseyes enviouseyes 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I work on a TV show and we are looking for people who have never been kissed to come on our show. Please contact me if you are interested at tvshow17@yahoo.com. Thanks!
    tvshow17 tvshow17 36-40 Jan 21

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    Yes, it is true. I have never been to Disneyland. Hopefully one day I will :)
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 18

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    I have liked many girls but never been in love with anyone, not even myself haha maybe i'll never get feelings for anyone, who knows ? XD
    MrImperfect MrImperfect 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    So as of a few days ago I was convinced that I have been in love 3 times in my life. Twice with co workers and once with someone on EP. But I've started to think, maybe I wasn't in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I am 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend (yes I'm straight) so of course I've never been married and though some wouldn't think so, I'm way to young to have children.
    AvaDay AvaDay 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I apologize for my English. And I'm bad with words. And I'm seldom able to put my feelings into words. But how I've been feeling these past few months, it's the worst ever. I've...
    MargoRothSpiegelman MargoRothSpiegelman 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I've never been in love but I've had crushes for guys. The strongest feelings I ever had was for a Counselor I had. I don't want to fall in love if they don't love me back.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 14

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    Unlike a ton of people I know I haven't been married as of yet. Two of my closest friends are married. I feel like if I was in a much better financial situation than my life has...
    eartheyes82 eartheyes82 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've had women friends; like a str8 guy has guy friends. Have never really had desire to be with a woman. Never had desire to chase after one.
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yep...not sure I even spelt it right but I've never been there.
    Codycope17 Codycope17 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I am happy in my relationship but i know we both wish we'd had more experiences before we met he wanted to sleep with more women and i wanted an experience with a woman, has this...
    percy33 percy33 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I've been cheated by my ex earlier and seen most of the girls and guys faking relationshis and cheating on each other. What happened to everybody, why is there no value for love...
    itsghussain itsghussain 26-30, M Jan 5

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    Is it bad that I dated a girl for 6 months my longest relationship so far I never kissed her once I held her hand hugged her cuddled but never kissed because I wanted to wait till...
    PabloBoyyyy PabloBoyyyy 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    Majority of my relationships have been failures both on my part and theirs. I know I'm just going to have to wait but single city sucks :p
    Iceynoember Iceynoember 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I don't have experience but I do know one will always be right and the other is the boyfriend.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I have been cuffed and spanked and now self cuff and self spank. Any questions? Ask away!!!
    canadarm canadarm 61-65, M 6 days ago

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    It has never appealed to me at all. Why pay over the odds when there is so much space outside to be used for free!!?
    Supastition Supastition 22-25, M Jan 6

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    I've been kissed but that was in third grade. Didn't mean anything. I want a kiss that's filled with love. But yet I don't know how to kiss. LOL. Might be awkward.
    PoopieNoodle PoopieNoodle 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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