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I Have Never Been In a Long Term Relationship

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    I Haven't Even Had A Relationship (oh Crap!)

    so i join these group because yes, i've never been on a long term relationship... hell i haven't even had a relationship. the reason accordings to some friends is that i'm way too gentle (yeah... What a good reason...) since when been gentle makes you a freak? i have 16 and...
    lost54 lost54 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    Are Some People Just Not Relationship Material?

    I am a 33-year-old woman with a lot going for her - attractive (I've done a bit of modeling), intelligent (went to college on a full scholarship and also have a Masters degree), come from a solid family (I have 5 siblings and my parents are still married), cultured...
    moonmaiden76 moonmaiden76 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Tired Of All Of The Pressure

    I'm a 24 year old who wants to have a relationship but is scared of getting into one because I'm sick of the rejection and the hurt. I will admit that I have a lot of good qualities and many of my friends and family keep wondering why I'm still single. I've been overweight my...
    MegANN87 MegANN87 22-25 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    Don't Know If It's For Me

    I'm only 21, so people always say I still have time to find that "special someone." Maybe they are right, but for now, I am actually fine with it. I have been in quite a few relationships, and none of them have been for more than 4 months--and in all of them, I ended it. Now don...
    JustDevynn JustDevynn 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    When Will This Hell End?

    A bit about me - I grew up without a father, and my mother is Chinese and had a very "hands off" approach to raising me. She loved me alright, but I never had anyone to talk about in terms of relationships with the opposite sex. So I went through secondary school (11-18) never...
    Ayahuasca Ayahuasca 31-35 1 Response Nov 27, 2010

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per

    se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for guys if the girl he's seeing has never been in a committed relationship? I often find myself scared / weary to tell guys this. Because I think it...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    At what point does this become a worry?

    Is there a consensus mark where past that time one Shiism worry?
    sharnold1914 sharnold1914 18-21, M Jun 4

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    Am I Relationship Material?

    After living 35 years I now have discovered that my worst enemy hasn’t been life or others; but simply myself.  I always wanted to be a pleaser,  in fact I fit best in this role.  I like harmony and peace, I shy at confrontation or disagreement, I am usually the first to...
    lostinlife2 lostinlife2 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Just Another Day

    I am 26 years old and I only dated one girl for only 3 months. It is painful not to be able to experience a true loving relationship. Everyday I don't look forward to the fact that I don't have a girlfriend when I wake up every morning. I am a intelligent and nice...
    free112 free112 26-30, M 8 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    I Guess Thats Just The Way It Is

    I am a 27 year old woman who is a mother to a beautiful baby boy.  Who came from one of the very short and few relationships I have experienced.  It just seems like nothing or no one seems to stick.  I would have to say my longest relationship which just ended...
    arosesmile arosesmile 26-30, F Oct 9, 2009

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    Boring Men

    at this stage i have got fed up with relationships coz no matter who i m meeting, i can only see lots of similarities of guys i met before in the ways they talk and act and how ordinary and boring these guys are, even though they have very different occupations or interests. and...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F Nov 25, 2011

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    I Forgot--ooops

     I  have been in one long term relationship but he was the last. He  really broke my heart. I was 19 and he was 35. He was really sweet. He used to take my  shopping and let me borrow his car but he drank waaaay  too much and smoke  weed.  He is...
    AnonymousDiva AnonymousDiva 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    From What I Can Tell....

    I've been friendzoned again. **** sucks. I guess I should be glad to have somebody who seems cool with hanging out with me. I guess I should be happy that I had enough delusional hope left to actually think that she might actually like me when she contacted me about going hiking...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M Mar 19, 2011

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    I am 36 and never had a boyfriend.

    I have dated, but one of 2 things happens, either the guy just wants sex or the chemistry is missing. (Meaning they like me, but aren't attracted to me and I am put in the friend zone)
    oceanscalm oceanscalm 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I am a male 24 yr old professional. I own a house and work hard. According to a friend of mine I am a catch, yet I have never been in a relationship.
    blicky1234 blicky1234 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm 20 & have never had a real relashionship. I've had some flings but nothing truly serious, to me at least. One of those I really got my Heart broken. I tend to push people away...
    Scarlett13 Scarlett13 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Ok so for the past couple of weeks I've started to have feelings for my friend. Yeah it's the usual situation about a girl liking her friend but what shock me the most is how he...
    Brogann Brogann 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Never had and never will XD
    ArcticPotato ArcticPotato 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    If I'm going to die alone it might as well be an epic death. So I imagine that I must first acquire a weather balloon and an air tight capsule and suit. From that point I space...
    Youngnerd Youngnerd 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 3

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    I'm almost 18 and have never been kissed, although I've had two "almost" boyfriends. I can't tell my friends this because they always talk about who they banged at a party etc, and...
    mahe18 mahe18 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    27 years old and ive never been in a meaningful relationship. I've never wanted one and not sure if I do now, but I'm curious if I'm missing anything....
    BlondeQueenOfSpades BlondeQueenOfSpades 26-30, F 11 Responses Sep 22

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    I've never been kissed. No, not even amiss people class as 'not a real kiss'. I've never kissed or been kissed at all. Never been asked out or dated anyone. I'm 22 and don't see...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I've never been "properly" kissed the last guy i kissed nearly licked my face like i was an ice cream cone or something! Now im affraid of kissing someone because i dont want to...
    Pingu113 Pingu113 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 24

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    I'm 16 years old, completely straight, I have had a peck on the lips once or twice and have even been naked with a girl in a room staring at eachother whilst drunk, but have never...
    CamQuick97 CamQuick97 16-17, M Oct 5

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    I should have been! I drive like a bat out of hell! I think my looks work in my favor:)
    Leopard3487 Leopard3487 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I know I'm intimidating,but seriously,not a single person has ever liked me before. I'm not ready for a relationship but still,it makes me wonder..not even one person?!
    fortisparadys fortisparadys 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 27

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    It makes me feel really sad sometimes. I deeply long to see the world. I wish someone could take me. I want to see all the beauty of this world that The Lord created
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 5 days ago

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    17 years old, there's one thing in life I want to experience even if it's just once. There's two things we have the closest to magic disney and love. Sometimes I wonder if it's my...
    libb3yjan3 libb3yjan3 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    I'm 61 but never met "the one" Dated dozens of women, even got married (for reasons other than love) but never even came close. I am very attracted to certain types of women but...
    Elcoman115 Elcoman115 51-55, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    The reason I never had a girl as a friend just aquintances that turn to be nothing some people are lucky to have friends that are girls and this is the point from where everything...
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Sep 27

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    I'd rather die on the day that I give you a kiss than spend the rest of my life knowing I never did.
    AsuraIV AsuraIV 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 10

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    I know I will never feel love. I have sunk deep down where no girl will find me. My life is just pain I have no happiness to give, girls all have lives they all have things going...
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Nope never have an never will. Its just not in me.
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    And I Never Will Be! Men have their uses, but not I am not into guys.
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Apparently, my niece and nephew have recruited me for Halloween this year. My niece wants to be Neytiri and my nephew wants to be Jake Sully's Na'vi avatar from the Avatar movie...
    Triscuitan Triscuitan 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I haven't met someone that understands me for who i am, i guess im still young but i do feel lonely most of the time
    Qcf257 Qcf257 18-21, M Sep 25

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    I always had asked them out They don't have the guts
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Gonna be 20 later this month and I still have not had my first kiss yet Reminds just how ugly and worthless I am to girls
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    I have met someone for the first time in my life and we have known each other for about five months. We talk every day and slowly growing closer.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I love being in love. Love it. I love people knowing that I love them. I need that. I want to wake up to a person and say good night to them in the same day. I miss that.
    Secondtimer Secondtimer 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Can we just be internet-lover each other? I'm ur smart electronic pet.
    Chinrussian Chinrussian 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Love doesn't exist. It's not real
    kellylopez kellylopez 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 21

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    I really want to get a Brazilian wax. Pretty sick of shaving.
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I sometimes hate school it full of couples kissing and holding hands.Honestly I wish that were me and I am having a hard time believing that it ever will. No one wants to go out...
    Jb359 Jb359 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I so what to... But not you silly my crush of course
    ForeverAutumnsLove ForeverAutumnsLove 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm kind of glad also... Because if I was in love that would mean I'm not anymore and is probably be sad
    PuppyGirl748 PuppyGirl748 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It makes me feel sad😞 I wonder if I'll find someday
    Blackwolf1604 Blackwolf1604 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I can't tell if it's love, or just infatuation. It's so deceiving.
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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