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I Have Never Been In a Relationship

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    It's true and kinda sad.

    I want a boyfriend so bad
    ciarajones179 ciarajones179 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    The only one I had was a online one

    but I don't count that, and I'm 15 I find it a little sad, but I know I will find a girl I like later in life.
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 4 Responses Feb 25

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    I'm 24 years old and being the wheel around

    your friends who are all couples just sucks. Sleeping alone at night in a big bed hugging pillows wishing it was a person instead, then crying myself to sleep. Just wish that I could just accept being single but it is so hard
    nubianprince21 nubianprince21 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    Although I'm turning 21 soon,

    I'm actually okay with not being in a relationship. I want to focus on myself and be at the place I want to be at before meeting a guy and being in a relationship with him. My priority is to finish school and get that career I love and eventually I'm sure the right guy will come...
    JeannieInAChampagneBottle JeannieInAChampagneBottle 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    I have never been in any remote relationship

    with anyone and I'm not in the prime of my life and don't know what to do. I have nobody and have absolutely zero confidence with myself. My fear isn't being alone in the present, it's being alone in the future. I'm a college student and still I feel horrible about myself and...
    rugby78 rugby78 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I have never been in a relationship.

    I'm 36, gay and never been in a relationship with a male or female. I'm scared out of my mind because I'm sensitive to people and there feelings purely because I don't want to be hurt. I think too much with my emotions and not enough with my head. and on top of that I've only...
    monteJ monteJ 31-35, M Feb 24

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    Sometimes I don't understand

    why I don't have a boyfriend. I understand having a boyfriend is not everything and school is a higher priority than guys however, I just don't understand how I've never been ask out not once. I've had guys hit on me, holler at me but never ask me out or ask for my number . Is...
    livelaughlove365 livelaughlove365 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    Men are crazy. I'm a kind normal beautiful woman

    and basically get used abused and crapped on by men. Men are worthless psychos and minions that need to be beaten. Seriously. I hate men.
    Menrgayy Menrgayy 31-35 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    To Be Human

    I have never been in a relationship.  That is in a mature, or even an immature, romantic relationship.  I have been kissed, but I was 6 and so was he so I don't think it counts.  I have never been out on a date, never been with anyone ever.  I am a virgin...
    DarkPhoenix DarkPhoenix 26-30, F 44 Responses Oct 1, 2007

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    What's the deal? Are some people just special?

    Are some of us destined to be alone forever, never to question fate? I just don't understand. I am 25 years old soon and all of my experiences have been few and far between. I don't think I'm ugly, I try to make myself approachable, friendly, kind. Somehow though I'm always the...
    ExoFae ExoFae 22-25, F 4 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I'm a 19 year old straight guy

    who has never been in a relationship, I feel that most girls look the same and have the same personality somehow. I don't know why
    deleted deleted 22-25 9 Responses May 2, 2014

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    Yea, I'm young I get it.

    But it really sucks not having ever been in a relationship or anything close to one. Now a days anyone and everyone are in a relationship. I don't know if it's my fault for being to shy or insecure. But I absolutely refuse to throw myself at guys just cause I feel lonely or that...
    AMB97 AMB97 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    I'm not the type of girl to complain about

    being "forever alone". However, lately that's what I'm genuinely concerned about. I am in a group of very tight-knit friends who have all had boyfriends, been asked on dates, and are frequently the object of many of our peers' attention. I've never experienced this. Every time...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I wanna find someone to be my everything.

    👭👯🙆🙅💁🙋💆💇💅👰🐱❤
    justalittlehuman justalittlehuman 22-25, F 4 Responses May 5, 2014

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    I have noticed several people in relationships,

    even going so far as to get married. They're all like "you'll find someone one day" this and "you need a partner" that and I'm thinking "why should I?". I just can't wrap my head around it.
    orderedchaos orderedchaos 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Im about to turn 18 and have never been kissed

    or been in a relationship. My mother thinks im a lesbian, and my family laughs at me. Im not an unattractive person, ive been called beautiful and other things by boys, its not like they dont like me. I just dont want a boyfriend? Or maybe at the same time i do? But its...
    Comocres Comocres 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Close To 30 And Still Nothing

    So I posted here before years ago, and I am posting again. I have never OFFICIALLY been in a relationship. People either took advantage of me and/or lied to me. Well I have larned my lesson. never trust anyone who says "they care about you" because it's their way of saying...
    hornyv hornyv 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    I want to find my soulmate,

    someone who cares and loves me as I am. I'm always imagine that he is with me. I'm just too shy and I have body image issues too. I hope I will find him soon because I don't want to be lonely anymore.
    Lyna4 Lyna4 18-21, F 5 Responses May 24, 2014

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    ridleyswaq ridleyswaq 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    Let the Right One In

    I spend a significant amount of time in my head. My mind is an infinite being, and my thoughts are its asymptotes; they get so damn close to the walls, but never reach them. So when I stare at the girl with the jet black hair in the mirror, it astounds me that my mind has an...
    Devly Devly 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    I should Just get used to it.

    Its not for me and Im fine with that.
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 29

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    staystrongandlive staystrongandlive 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Am I That Scary?

    I don't know what it is. I've been described as kind, thoughtful, considerate, intelligent, a good listener. Even been called cute and handsome a few times. Though they might have just been saying that since I never heard from any of those women again after the first date. Maybe...
    swordsaint swordsaint 22-25, M 14 Responses Jul 18, 2011

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    i always used to think to myself "whats wrong

    with me?" but these days i dont ask myself that any more,i just became more accepting of who i am, and tell myself that the world would be such a boring place if we were all the same,and i'm just an individual person living my life my way!! you see, its not that i dont want a...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I just had one of those crazy dreams

    where you think everything that is happening is real, I just had a thought that maybe it's my mind trying to tell me something. I've been to college and finished it, but I didn't have the experience I wanted for myself, basically I wish the colleges in the uk were more like the...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    And Probably Never Will. (sorry This Ended Up Being Longer Than I Thought)

    Always been single, looks like I always will be. It's not as if I've never had feelings for anyone, because I have. Lost too many friends because of it though so I don't see any point trying to have a relationship with anyone. I'm always going to be rejected. Trying to get used...
    Adam42life Adam42life 18-21, M 9 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Lonely Little Girl

    It had never been one of my priorities because I always thought I need to work my butt out in my studies. I am a nerd. And what's worst being a nerd is that I'm shy and introverted so I don't have much friends in school. To why I became the person I am today is a looong story...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2011

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    Guys lose interest in me.

    ... and I know deep down in the core of me I will never find love. I never had my first kiss (pathetic as it may sound). I'm a loser an loner... incapable of finding love and having someone to love me. Yet, I have so much love to give and no wants it. What am I supposed to do...
    kaymor kaymor 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    I've never have been I'n one

    and ill probably never have one and depressed I don't have one. I feel that I'm going to be single forever and never get married or have a wife and kids. I guess that's ok cause my heart can never be broken. #ForeverSingle
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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    I told myself I wont post anything anymore

    about me being alone and lonely and sad about my none existent lovelife... but recent event made me write and I just have no one to share this except to you guys online... So recently I've downloaded an app that lets me chat with other people near me. My friend suggested I try...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 39 Responses Jan 6

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    Nope never been in a relationship.

    It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and get my life together before jumping into any relationship. I've been asked out on dates often but I politely decline because being in a...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I've never been in a relationship

    and I never will I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I will forever be single
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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    I've never been in a relationship

    and I've never kissed anyone, but to be honest I would love to find my other half. Someone as my companion equal. Someone with understanding, affection and attention. Someone who would actually give me eye contact. Someone to whom I could tell anything. Someone to whom I could...
    chips24 chips24 18-21, M 3 Responses May 25, 2014

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    Well..... Not Really I Guess!

    Well I have had about 4 or 5 Gfs but each relationship only lasted like 4 or 5 months!! and they all broke up with me!! Now that's BAD!! they usually say that I'm way too busy and don't spend enough time with them, or that I need to be more affectionate...it sucks, but all I can...
    TheRenegade TheRenegade 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    225pro 225pro 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    I have never at any point done anything

    that could even be remotely considered an expression of romantic affection. First I was a child, then I was fat, now I'm just weird and don't have a social life. Not that any of it really matters because I'm in love with Joan of Arc.
    Arcadeus Arcadeus 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    I've Never Had a Relationship.

    I'm nearly 20 years old and I've never been in a relationship with anyone. I don't know, I see myself as a bit of a loner in that sense. It doesn't make me feel bad, but I don't tend to broadcast it because people find it strange.   I think it's my own fault, really. I'm...
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 21 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a

    relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only want men and women that have been with other people. I don't understand this. (Maybe because I've never been with anyone? Maybe.) It seems...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    It's Not Everything

    To tell the truth, it might actually be a good thing in some ways. To me, having a long list of exes might say more about poor decision-making skills than how successful one has been romantically. But clearly society doesn't share that view with me, as most people use their...
    deleted deleted 22-25 8 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a

    relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where I live do drugs and only want you for sex. I find it depressing how 12 year olds in my area have had several boyfriends when I can't even get one...
    DayFawn DayFawn 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    A new survey has revealed

    that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The study, conducted by online younger women older men dating site www.agemeet.com , collected data from 53,233 users with the...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F Nov 27, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    So I'm 21 and never been in a relationship.

    I know that there are other people who are in the same boat, but everyone else in my life has had a relationship or are in a relationship. I am hopeful that something will happen, and I think my lack of relationships has to do with my shyness and being completely focused on...
    rysac rysac 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    when I tell girl that I'm interested in

    that I never been in a relationship before . They become less interested in me and disappear.
    lmt1828 lmt1828 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I'm Just A Weirdo, Right?

    So I'm 27 and have never been in a relationship. Not even close. I've never even been on a second date. All through high school and college I felt okay with this because I just never met anyone I wanted to date. But I eventually realized this was just something I told myself...
    trickykarma trickykarma 26-30, F 16 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    And I'm about to be 18.

    I moved a lot so I never accepted any offers and when high school came around, I still to this day haven't accepted any offers. I'm done with high school now, but a lot of people assume it's weird that I haven't dated. I don't really see the point in dating in high school when...
    lunalancing lunalancing 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2014