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I Have Never Been In a Relationship

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    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Nor will i ever will be :( oh well,at least i have my hand
    AmberLovesRabbits AmberLovesRabbits 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    I Hat Being Single - I'm 15 years old, I never had a boyfriend, nor have been kiss. I hate being a third wheel and when my friends talk about there relationship. I just want to...
    chacha2816 chacha2816 16-17, F 25 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    What I Think About Never Being In A Relationship - I am twenty years old and I have never been in a romantic relationship and I am also a virgin. Reading through some of the...
    Lenina1 Lenina1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    And so what not the end of he world going to wait for the right one. It will all be worth it in the end 😄
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M Feb 5

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    I’ve recently entered into my first real relationship of my adult life, and it’s becoming clear to me that I have no idea what a relationship is. I feel so clueless about it...
    DV8ing DV8ing 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    Am I That Scary? - I don't know what it is. I've been described as kind, thoughtful, considerate, intelligent, a good listener. Even been called cute and handsome a few times...
    swordsaint swordsaint 22-25, M 14 Responses Jul 18, 2011

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    At least not a serious one, smh.. Too many guys playin games these days. :/
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    It's Not Everything - To tell the truth, it might actually be a good thing in some ways. To me, having a long list of exes might say more about poor decision-making skills than how...
    siamul siamul 22-25, M 9 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Never been in one. I'm like a dog chasing cars, can't catch one and if I do, I won't know what to do with it.
    sergie1980 sergie1980 31-35, M 4 Responses Mar 1

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    Well, as I'm a gay in the closet I never met another gay guy and I really don't like the idea of ​​dating a girl to hide my homosexuality (let me know if I make a mistake, I...
    infamouspink infamouspink 18-21, M Mar 15

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    Help? - I'm almost 21 and I'm so sick of being alone. Not only that, but I'm so sick of no one wanting me. It makes me feel awful and ugly inside and out. I used to be so confident...
    hugbees hugbees 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    Maybe Prince Charming Fell Off His Horse. Or Something. - I am the only person I know of in my immediate family, circle of friends, and general community of people in real life who...
    lostinapril lostinapril 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    Would Like To Be Strong, But Not Like This... - I hate to complain and sound stupid, but I just hate being alone with a passion. I feel like I am going to end up alone forever, and...
    missvelia missvelia 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    i'm only 15 so i'm not too worried about not having been in a relationship yet. but it really bothers me that when people ask about my dating life and i say that i've never dated...
    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have never ever been in a relationship. Im 26 and i havent even went on a date. And i know it has nothing to do with the looks or i might have gotten some dates.
    lonelybrokensoul lonelybrokensoul 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    No one can top this. I am almost 50 and have never been in a relationship! I have very little dating experience, and am a virgin! So there!
    Lindyme Lindyme 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    Unworthy. - I just feel like I wouldn't even know where to begin with a relationship. I have been alone for so long and my self-esteem is keeping me down. I just don't think I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Not an official one anyway. It's never really bugged me as I have never felt the intense urge to be someone's girlfriend, but it seems like a milestone of life that I have not...
    JustLazyLittleMe JustLazyLittleMe 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    And it's okay. One day when I'm not looking he will come. Persistence is the Key
    JessHer JessHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I have never at any point done anything that could even be remotely considered an expression of romantic affection. First I was a child, then I was fat, now I'm just weird and don...
    Arcadeus Arcadeus 16-17, M Jan 30

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    And Probably Never Will. (sorry This Ended Up Being Longer Than I Thought) - Always been single, looks like I always will be. It's not as if I've never had feelings for anyone...
    Adam42life Adam42life 22-25, M 9 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Well I guess I'm waiting for the right one ...
    marielis027 marielis027 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    I'm a guy . I'm my life I've been called so many variations of attractive . Girls have told me id be a good boyfriend. I'm well balanced , I'm always thinking of others.It's like I...
    noahjoah123 noahjoah123 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Well..... Not Really I Guess! - Well I have had about 4 or 5 Gfs but each relationship only lasted like 4 or 5 months!! and they all broke up with me!! Now that's BAD!! they...
    TheRenegade TheRenegade 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Actually, I had a one-month relationship in high school, but it does not count. I am not very interested in relationship though. I think no-relationship makes my life easier...
    deik deik 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    I'm Just A Weirdo, Right? - So I'm 27 and have never been in a relationship. Not even close. I've never even been on a second date. All through high school and college I felt...
    trickykarma trickykarma 26-30, F 11 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    I Want My First One - I want my first relationship. I know that teenage relationships are usually silly. I still want one, but I am afraid of being hurt.
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Kinda feels fun and carefree being 'untied' with someone, but sometimes, you can just get really jealous of couples ogling their eyes with each other. Sometimes it's scary how you...
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    To Be Human - I have never been in a relationship.  That is in a mature, or even an immature, romantic relationship.  I have been kissed, but I was 6 and so was he so I...
    DarkPhoenix DarkPhoenix 31-35, F 43 Responses Oct 1, 2007

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    When Is It My Turn? -      I'm gonna be 22 in a few months...and to date I have never been in a relationship, had a real boyfriend or experienced romantic love. I...
    Onehime Onehime 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Waiting... - (Sorry..this is kinda long...) Gosh, this has plucked a string with me. I've never been in a relationship and I'm just too old-fashioned/proud to ask anyone out. I...
    babyblueee babyblueee 18-21, F 1 Response May 23, 2010

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    A couple weeks ago a friend of mine asked me about my dating life. Now I'm not one to lie about my relationship experience so when I am asked I reply honestly. I told him I had...
    Chica2014 Chica2014 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    It's sad. Fourteen and havent had my first kiss, first hug by the opposite sex, held hands with the opposite sex, or a relationship. Girls all around me have at least had their...
    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F Apr 1

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    What a wonderful chance to get it all out. Stats: I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship. Opportunities have presented themselves, but as one who is at times immensely self...
    TheShortOut TheShortOut 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Ouch - yep that's me, never even been on a date. The closest i've come is having a friend hit on me during the rebound....yeah ouch. I'm usually ok with being single, i'm used to...
    hugbees hugbees 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    lol yes I have never been in a relationship which is why I belong to NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) and now I am 20 and still boyfriendless. I have many chances and opportunities...
    nightpizza nightpizza 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Ok...well, Ive had trust issues for a long time now, and I am on the path of fixing myself and healing my own wounds so I can someday learn and let someone love me and love that...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Al though I am currently in one I strongly believe its outta pity.
    jose616 jose616 13-15 1 Response Feb 2

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    I'm in my early 20's, and I have never dated or been in a relationship. Any time I've liked someone, it's always been one sided... and honestly, it's been years since I've even...
    lolwhutisthis lolwhutisthis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    How Do You Get In One!! - woah people still answering this.. Well currently I am 23. I've traveled to 12 different countries over that span of time. Lived in 4. Had one serious...
    LordBlazer LordBlazer 18-21, M 12 Responses Jul 1, 2008

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    Let the Right One In - I spend a significant amount of time in my head. My mind is an infinite being, and my thoughts are its asymptotes; they get so damn close to the walls, but...
    Devly Devly 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    I Want Somebody - I feel so weird at times but I want a boyfriend, sometimes i lay in bed at night and imagin what it would be like to have a guy that loved me, so what should I do...
    Corimem Corimem 13-15 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    I've Never Had a Relationship. - I'm nearly 20 years old and I've never been in a relationship with anyone. I don't know, I see myself as a bit of a loner in that sense. It doesn...
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 20 Responses Jul 31, 2009

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    I'm 20 now, and I just feel like I should be in a relationship or at least dating. In the past- when I was in high school- this used to bother me a lot, however, I've done a lot of...
    blackeccentric blackeccentric 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Yeah... Never, not even close, nothing, absolutely nothing. And to be very honest with you guys, it's starting to hurt. Little by little --for some reason--, I've been starting...
    Matt200 Matt200 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    They're Overrated - There is more to life than having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Yet so many people I know are so wrapped up in finding someone that they lose sight of things that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 29, 2013

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    I have never ever been in a relationship, in fact I have never had a boy ever call me pretty or say he likes me that way, unless it's over the internet which I don't count because...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 8 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I frankly haven't had time for it, and people I know tend to think I'm... Weird... But I don't really think I'm missing out? *shrugs*
    meinee meinee 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I'm tired of unrequited love. I'm still afraid of breaking my heart once more by wasting time on someone who doesn't deserve me. It really hurts. It made me feel myself always not...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago