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I Have Never Been In a Relationship

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    I never been in a relationship.

    No one courted me or even told me that they have a crush on me. NOBODY, ZERO lovelife. :lol: I dont want to change myself to look attractive like wear heavy make up or wear mini skirts. I'm just a plain printed T-shirt and jeans girl but not too boyish, more like a nerdy one. I...
    thatnobody21 thatnobody21 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    Never been in a relationship before.

    I've never been in love. I'm 42 years old and I've been single for a long time. I want to start a relationship with someone soon.
    spaghetti12 spaghetti12 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2015

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    Well..... Not Really I Guess!

    Well I have had about 4 or 5 Gfs but each relationship only lasted like 4 or 5 months!! and they all broke up with me!! Now that's BAD!! they usually say that I'm way too busy and don't spend enough time with them, or that I need to be more affectionate...it sucks, but all I can...
    TheRenegade TheRenegade 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Although I'm turning 21 soon,

    I'm actually okay with not being in a relationship. I want to focus on myself and be at the place I want to be at before meeting a guy and being in a relationship with him. My priority is to finish school and get that career I love and eventually I'm sure the right guy will come...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 4, 2015

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    Sometimes I wonder how it would like to be in a

    relastionship. I could enjoy little things with this person like walking in woods ...
    chteon chteon 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    15abhi 15abhi 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 24, 2015

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    I'm 23 and till now I'm still single,

    , before I promise to myself that I have to finish my studies before entering the relationship, and I did.. Now I feel incomplete and empty because Im ready now to start and have someone to share my love, suddenly there was nothing to come.. I fallen In love for twice, first Guy...
    Sharot27 Sharot27 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2015

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    Everytime a significant other starts to get

    close, I quickly end the relationship before it begins. This has happened time and time again and I avoid starting new relationships in the fear of the continuation of this pattern. I also find it contridictory that this is not the case with casual partners or close friends. The...
    coltonf93 coltonf93 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

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    It's Not Everything

    To tell the truth, it might actually be a good thing in some ways. To me, having a long list of exes might say more about poor decision-making skills than how successful one has been romantically. But clearly society doesn't share that view with me, as most people use their...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I've never been in a relationship,

    but been on dates. Until I was 25 years old I wasn't interested in having one, but started to feel lonely. I've signed up to dating sites, but find it hard. I have had many first dates. Not many guys are interested in me, because I have a shaved head and other reasons I don't...
    kuroijukai kuroijukai 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 27, 2015

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    So I've never been in a relationship

    and I'm fine with that but when I see my friends get together with someone I feel happy for them but it just reminds me that I never had a gf and I know that I will get one I'm only 16 and it's not that I don't talk to girls it's just no girls like me
    dominick6 dominick6 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    Yea, I'm young I get it.

    But it really sucks not having ever been in a relationship or anything close to one. Now a days anyone and everyone are in a relationship. I don't know if it's my fault for being to shy or insecure. But I absolutely refuse to throw myself at guys just cause I feel lonely or that...
    AMB97 AMB97 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    Dear all, here is my experience (problem).

    I cannot stop thinking on some periods in my life when I was happy and keep on coming back with thought to different people I liked and who was nice to me. The problem is that it was very long ago, these moments will never come back (and I am afraid they won't repeat even with...
    Memonster Memonster 26-30 1 Response Oct 5, 2015

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    Is it because I'm ugly?

    Or is it because I don't know how to deal with people? Who knows? But really I do wanna experience a relationship. I really wanna be loved.
    Kittymeow7 Kittymeow7 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 27, 2015

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    I must be miserable. Some day some guy added me

    as a friend on some social network. We talked for a while and then today he deleted me. It was sudden. We didn't talk a lot, didn't discuss something significant, but somehow his deleting me made me feel sand and unpleasant. The worse thing is that I knew from the very beginning...
    Memonster Memonster 26-30 Dec 1, 2015

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    I guess it's just something with,

    I just won't settle, which is a good thing, but it's left me mostly by myself. Even though I do want to get my career off the ground, and own my own home, and see the world some , but that doesn't take the place of love I mean true love someone to hold you someone to make you...
    Sweetpea2010 Sweetpea2010 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2015

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    jrockthejoker13 jrockthejoker13 18-21, M Nov 9, 2015

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    Nope never been in a relationship.

    It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and get my life together before jumping into any relationship. I've been asked out on dates often but I politely decline because being in a...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Friday Night. Being 28,

    It's unusual to be single. I am not a bad person both externally or internally. I feel like crying tonight. It's not that I crave for physical intimacy with a random guy or a wild night. This is surely not what I waited for. I just want a hug, lots of kisses ( all over) in...
    chocolatesforever chocolatesforever 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    I told myself I wont post anything anymore

    about me being alone and lonely and sad about my none existent lovelife... but recent event made me write and I just have no one to share this except to you guys online... So recently I've downloaded an app that lets me chat with other people near me. My friend suggested I try...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 36 Responses Jan 6, 2015

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    I'm 14 and I have never had a boyfriend.

    It's not like I didn't get any proposals it's just that there has never been anyone I have been interested in.........except for my crush who thinks that we're just friends.
    weirdnerdgirl weirdnerdgirl 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 14, 2015

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    is it just me or have others been in the same

    shoes as me never being in a proper relationship???
    jaimz jaimz 31-35, F 12 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    Am I That Scary?

    I don't know what it is. I've been described as kind, thoughtful, considerate, intelligent, a good listener. Even been called cute and handsome a few times. Though they might have just been saying that since I never heard from any of those women again after the first date. Maybe...
    swordsaint swordsaint 22-25, M 14 Responses Jul 18, 2011

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    Having one of those nights.

    ..feeling sorry for myself. Haha I really wish I knew what I'm doing wrong or why I'm unattractive to guys. My parents always told me my weight is the reason why...my friends think it's because I'm not open minded enough. Seriously, guys don't approach me when I'm out. Maybe I...
    Beyoutiful056 Beyoutiful056 22-25, F 66 Responses Aug 27, 2015

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    I wanna find someone to be my everything.

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    justalittlehuman justalittlehuman 26-30, F 4 Responses May 5, 2014

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    I am scared of getting into relationship.

    .I have strict parents and I am scared to go against them..But sometimes I feel I am missing out something very special..God this kind of irritates me
    SsunshineE SsunshineE 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 11, 2015

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    I honestly do not get

    why everyone wants one, or thinks I am lame for not having a boyfriend. I am only 14 years old, I do not need a boyfriend or sex or love, I believe I am not mature enough for this yet. I just wish more people thought this way instead of rushing to grow up, then when something...
    HelloKittyBaby HelloKittyBaby 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    katyccaa katyccaa 26-30, F Nov 9, 2015

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    like I havent had one single boyfriend in my

    entire life and I'm still single till this day I think guys don't take me serious they always think of me as a joke I always seem to get rejected by guys maybe its because I'm ugly maybe its because I'm fat but I'm not really sure why I just never been in a relationship I really...
    shey123 shey123 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I'm just too afraid talking to people,

    I'm afraid of being cheated on, I'm afraid of getting used and tossed aside, I'm afraid of being lonely forever and of not being good enough. I also have an inferior complex due to the fact, that I'm already 24 and didn't accomplish anything. I'm so damn shy and I wouldn't even...
    MiaVe MiaVe 22-25, T Jan 7

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    Hello all. I've never been in arelationship.

    But recently a guy appeared. But online. He came just as a penpall friend. He even told me he liked some girl (this girl also online) and we could discuss such things normally. But then he started to tell me he likes me more and more. And then that he loves me and want to marry...
    Memonster Memonster 26-30 1 Response Jan 24

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    Been with several guys

    but never relationship wise. This isn't by choice. They just never wanted anything to do with me except for sex. I'm absolutely petrified that I will never find a guy who will actually want me and love me. I've been heartbroken and disappointed so many times I'm losing hope and...
    UnbrokenDove UnbrokenDove 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 12, 2015

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a

    relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where I live do drugs and only want you for sex. I find it depressing how 12 year olds in my area have had several boyfriends when I can't even get one...
    DayFawn DayFawn 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    What's the deal? Are some people just special?

    Are some of us destined to be alone forever, never to question fate? I just don't understand. I am 25 years old soon and all of my experiences have been few and far between. I don't think I'm ugly, I try to make myself approachable, friendly, kind. Somehow though I'm always the...
    ExoFae ExoFae 26-30, F 4 Responses May 15, 2014

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    To Be Human

    I have never been in a relationship.  That is in a mature, or even an immature, romantic relationship.  I have been kissed, but I was 6 and so was he so I don't think it counts.  I have never been out on a date, never been with anyone ever.  I am a virgin...
    DarkPhoenix DarkPhoenix 31-35, F 44 Responses Oct 1, 2007

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    And I'm about to be 18.

    I moved a lot so I never accepted any offers and when high school came around, I still to this day haven't accepted any offers. I'm done with high school now, but a lot of people assume it's weird that I haven't dated. I don't really see the point in dating in high school when...
    lunalancing lunalancing 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    And Probably Never Will. (sorry This Ended Up Being Longer Than I Thought)

    Always been single, looks like I always will be. It's not as if I've never had feelings for anyone, because I have. Lost too many friends because of it though so I don't see any point trying to have a relationship with anyone. I'm always going to be rejected. Trying to get used...
    Adam42life Adam42life 22-25, M 9 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    I am looking for young men interested in the

    old woman! www.cougarloving.com
    silencesss silencesss 41-45, F Dec 11, 2015

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a

    relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only want men and women that have been with other people. I don't understand this. (Maybe because I've never been with anyone? Maybe.) It seems...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    I have never been in a relationship with anyone.

    Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I never feel those butterflies or that click. I don't mean to be self-righteous or smug, but I have not met someone that I feel is worth being with. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Dear Mr.Right, Always know

    that I will never get tired of waiting for you but can you please come very soon?because I badly need someone now!:( -4everrrr
    4everrrr 4everrrr 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2015

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    shy07me shy07me 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    elinccaa elinccaa 26-30, F Jan 7

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    There was some person

    that kind of dumped me. And there was one thing I liked before I met this person. Let call this thing avioation and call this person a guy. This guy studied aviation, wanted to become a pilote. And now, after he dumped me, when I read about aviation or just see planes or even...
    Memonster Memonster 26-30 Dec 19, 2015

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    I guess I don't know what I'm missing out on.

    However more people are open to complaining and sharing their relationship problems rather than good things.
    freeroamingspirit freeroamingspirit 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

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