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I Have Never Been "in Love"

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    It's strange i have loved but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    People keep telling me, it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I just read an article about being in love with someone. Now I am not sure if I have ever been in love with anybody. I have dated, married, and divorced. So far, men I was...
    marion13 marion13 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I have never met a man that made me feel like I can't go on without seeing him or hearing his voice...A man in the presence of which I would feel pure love, excitement, comfort...
    intere intere 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I think I have the capacity for love because I care about friends deeply. I dated a few guys back in highschool. But I usually picked guys specifically so that we had physical...
    Growlin Growlin 22-25, F Apr 10

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    Kinda feels fun and carefree being 'untied' with someone, but sometimes, you can just get really jealous of couples ogling their eyes with each other. Sometimes it's scary how you...
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    i'm only 15 so i'm not too worried about not having been in a relationship yet. but it really bothers me that when people ask about my dating life and i say that i've never dated...
    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm tired of unrequited love. I'm still afraid of breaking my heart once more by wasting time on someone who doesn't deserve me. It really hurts. It made me feel myself always not...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 20 now, and I just feel like I should be in a relationship or at least dating. In the past- when I was in high school- this used to bother me a lot, however, I've done a lot of...
    blackeccentric blackeccentric 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    It's sad. Fourteen and havent had my first kiss, first hug by the opposite sex, held hands with the opposite sex, or a relationship. Girls all around me have at least had their...
    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    Haha. This is me right here...
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I love the feeling of love and have genuinely been in love twice in my life so far. I love the feeling of being cared for and being intimate with someone. It makes me feel whole...
    AikaMelodia AikaMelodia 16-17, F Mar 24

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    I have never been spanked, but I feel like because I haven't been spanked im missing out on something.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
    vwilliams69 vwilliams69 41-45, F Apr 2

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    Well I mean I have, but it was a game, and we were like 6 or 7. I didn't even really know what kissing was then. So I don't count that at all. I have never been kissed by a lover...
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am 18 and I have never been kissed. This is probably a big shocker to people since they are always telling me how pretty or cute I am. I guess there's just something wrong with...
    Juliette18 Juliette18 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I have to appear in court today from a car accident I had last month. I have never appeared in front of a judge before. I wrecked after driving on icy roads. I wasn't speeding or...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    im almost 17 years old and never been kissed does any one else find that pathetic
    bloodincubus bloodincubus 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I didn’t think I would post about this one so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic 22-25, F 16 Responses Mar 26

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    My whole life I have never lived at the same place for longer then three years. I have moved from family member to family member, county to county, and state to state. Sometimes by...
    whodidthat1296 whodidthat1296 18-21, M Mar 29

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    I want to be in love ..... Real, life changing, long lasting . Love.
    laU21 laU21 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I'm a bisexual woman and have recently began my first relationship with a woman which is not just a one night stand. We spent time together and recently the night together...
    Elena36 Elena36 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    So the only ones who have called me pretty are my friends and they said it just because I was talking about it. There was never a time when someone saw me and said "you look great...
    VayaKilljoy VayaKilljoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I've never had that feeling no girl wants to kiss me they can do so much better than me
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I wish I could have a kiss on the lips even tho I never have all I have had was a kiss on the cheek 😩😄
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    technically im sure weve all been kissed when were little. ;)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have been with my lover for over six years. We have a little boy now, he's about 19 months old. I think I will never ever be married. My heart sinks at the thought of it..I want...
    bunz610 bunz610 26-30, F a week ago

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    And I don't plan on it any time soon! It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am 17. I have a boyfriend. He has been my boyfriend for six months now. Still, no signs of a kiss. I feel like a failure, that my first kiss is at an old age.
    LostDreamz LostDreamz 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have not ever been told by someone as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I grow up and raised by a Catholic parents and studied in catholic schools from high school to college..and as I grew up I use to view relationship as a sacred one, and even...
    Anne38 Anne38 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 22

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    I've always said I would get my first kiss before I turned 16. I have 4 days.
    mozerellabitch mozerellabitch 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    This is really weird. I'm 17, and have had my first boyfriend for six months. Yet, no kiss. No signs of a kiss. It makes me sad. I wonder why he hasn't kissed me.
    Beachball9 Beachball9 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want my first kiss so badly. 19 and I feel so embarrassed. I had the chance to kiss a guy but I just wanted to take things slow with him and he didn't so I didn't kiss him...
    simplexo simplexo 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    You have no idea what you are missing out on by not being religious. God gives me an inner peace that no human could ever and I have a place to turn to when the world makes me want...
    lilykyra lilykyra 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm actually very embarrassed by it. I don't know what it is about me but I just seem to repel the opposite sex. For example I'll talk to a guy for a while and then he just seems...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Use to really want this but I seem to have transformed into a crazy germaphobe in the past year, and kisses sound like a nightmare now. At least french ones do. I could go for a...
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Still 17 and no one has showed any interest in me whatsoever. It's really frustrating because I'm constantly wondering what it is that's wrong with me.
    escapingnow escapingnow 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 19

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    I was gullible and a vulnerable queen to promises. Perhaps, it is because I had this craving that no one else could feed but the man that took the vows with me. I only wanted a...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I was very very young but I knew it was love, REAL love. He was a douche, but the only positive outcome was he made me smarter with men.
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Heeey, guys!How are you guys? I hope you guys are doing fine. Well, I'm not here to post a story about me needing advice. Instead, I'm here because I want you guys to know that if...
    Maoli Maoli 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    At my worst time, and when I needed someone most in my life, he shut me out. I later learned he had begun dating my best friend. I felt outraged, humiliated, completely alone, and...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    My ex changed as soon as he got his police badge. I noticed for a whole year an increase in arrogant self esteem. By the second year he had become emotionally and physically...
    Francesca004 Francesca004 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    And never will! I'm only here to talk about random, interesting things. Anyone trying to message me sexual things shall be shunned. Shunnnnnnnnnnnedddd
    SickFascination SickFascination 22-25, F Apr 9

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    The feeling always stays. For this reason I have trust issues and I have a problem with letting people into my life. The first success in solving a problem is admitting you have...
    DeAundreVP DeAundreVP 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I have a boy that I like and we talked a lot but I have my friend who he hate but I feel like he's leaving me to go to her.. Even though he said he doesn't like her.. But we had...
    tigerunited tigerunited 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Please don't get Me wrong, Im not harsh/rude in any way. I feel that the truth good or bad helps us to understand things in our lives so we can correct what may need correcting...