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I Have Never Been "in Love"

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    I've never been in mutual romantic love before. I've had strong feelings for men but they have never been returned. (sound the little violin) lol I don't mean to sound like a...
    23starinthesky 23starinthesky 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 12

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    Haha yeah thats me.. Idc tbh , for me love is so not important to me.what is that actually??. "Love,love,love what so good about it . Absolutely nothing"-effy stonem I Agreed...
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Actually im not sure about it, my friends were like 'omg love is so unbelievable so strong emotion its like miracle...' I was like my bf so much but it wasnt like miracle or...
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Love doesn't exist. It's not real
    kellylopez kellylopez 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have never been in a relationship with anyone. Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 22

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    I am 19 I have never been in a relationship or even kissed a boy, it is very embarrassing if someone ask if I have been in a relationship I always lie and I've been in a few...
    MissLadyJay MissLadyJay 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I have never been in a relationship. My little sister has had a lot of boyfriends. It is lonely yes but it is hard to find a good guy.
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I have never been in a relationship and I really just want a girlfriend
    225pro 225pro 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    im 34 now, and have still never been in a relationship of any kind!! i never really can understand myself sometimes, i mean, i totally wish i could be in a relationship, but i cant...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Im turn 21 in two weeks and ive never been in a relationship and ive accepted the fact that i never will be in one
    anonymous2456 anonymous2456 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I honestly do not get why everyone wants one, or thinks I am lame for not having a boyfriend. I am only 14 years old, I do not need a boyfriend or sex or love, I believe I am not...
    HelloKittyBaby HelloKittyBaby 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I am talking to this guy and I've never really done this type of thing before... you know... flirting... And today he asked me what was up and I responded as usual and then he...
    Kairagnes Kairagnes 18-21, F Sep 2

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    And I'm about to be 18. I moved a lot so I never accepted any offers and when high school came around, I still to this day haven't accepted any offers. I'm done with high school...
    lunalancing lunalancing 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    One of the worst things in the world is loving a girl who doesn't love you back
    225pro 225pro 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    I look around and see all these people in relationships and I see how happy they are. Then I think of how alone I am and how happy I'd be to have a relationship like theirs.
    225pro 225pro 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    I've had some setbacks, but am now ready for a man in my life. I'm scared that he'll judge me for it. If I do meet someone, should I not tell them?
    SingleSuz SingleSuz 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sorry if I sound like a wuss But I don't know when I'll ever be ready
    Princeofthesky Princeofthesky 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    When will my loneliness end?
    225pro 225pro 16-17, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    So I'm 20 years old.. Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I have never been rejected cause i have never asked anyone :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I'm 25 and have never been out on a real date! Really? I have a child [I'm devoted] but I've never been to the movies or out with a man. I've never really had a boyfriend either. I...
    Chunkydunkin Chunkydunkin 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    My sister has always bed the smart pretty one. All of my friends loved and adored her. Every guy I liked, liked her, or wanted her. Some guys would only date me to make her jealous...
    MarisoleLane MarisoleLane 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I have never been kissed and I am turning 17 in a month.. All of my friends have been kissed and I am the only one who hasn't. It has definitely taken its toll on my self esteem...
    Grace1123 Grace1123 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    its sad and really hurts my self esteem. no guys at my school find me attractive and ive never been in a serious relationship that wasnt long distance :(
    kkkeeennnzzz kkkeeennnzzz 13-15, F Sep 3

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    I was 8years old mom thought he was great i however disagreed he raped me several times and would make me promise not to say anything he would hit to ensure i wouldnt say anything...
    Liv4 Liv4 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    Catch my breath, close my eyes Don't believe a word. Things she said, overheard Something wrong inside Hits you in a minute, Ooo Then you know you're in it, aah. I've been in love...
    SweetEmotions SweetEmotions 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I am 20 year old girl that has never been kissed or anything else like even go on a date and not because I'm waiting for the one. Is there something wrong with me that guys aren't...
    Ari555 Ari555 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    Idk what to write, what to say, what to do................................... I just know I have never ever been this depressed and sad..... I am lonely.......................I don...
    00Lordiran00 00Lordiran00 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I can say a lot of people have come and gone into and out of my life... i hope the same thing cant be said for her.. I didn't mean to meet her.. i didn't think it would happen like...
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M a week ago

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    How do I mend my broken heart now that my world has fallen apart. I struggle to get through each new day knowing the man I loved gave up on me and walked away. My tears seem never...
    dybbukbox dybbukbox 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I have two kids and don't know anyone to babysit, I still haven't been to a bar. They aren't really what I'm into but I've always wanted the experience.
    thefeels21 thefeels21 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Do I really have to write stuff here? But ja. Never been kissed.. I'm that girl in the class who everyone's mates with but no one thinks of me as more than a mate..
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Twice. When I was 14, my first (and so far only "official") gf revealed to me after we'd dated for two weeks that she was two-timing me, and that she only said she'd date me...
    mhenson144 mhenson144 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    I have never said it. I've screamed it in my mind but never said it out loud to anyone. Even when I was in a long term relationship. I'm still working out why.
    separatepeace separatepeace 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    Ok here's the deal. I have always been a pretty independent person. I had a perfect childhood. Two very loving parents. I had a vision of the way life is supposed to be. Fast...
    slim156 slim156 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Crazy to think about the roller coaster of emotions from this week. From knowing how close I was to having the best and possibly the biggest, most important thing in my life come...
    Shiningstar26 Shiningstar26 16-17, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I can go against peer pressure! All my life I've been my own person and quite independent! I remember back at school people seem to put people in groups depending on what type of...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The one that I love with all my soul and being left me all alone without warning. I feel nothing but anger right now and it sucks that I have to go through this alone. Why did you...
    rayray87 rayray87 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I can't believe it... It's just never happened...
    Alex033 Alex033 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    It's depressing it's why I can never watch any movie that shows a passionate kiss it's just way to painful to watch
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 3

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    How does it feel to kiss someone? I have had few dreams where I was kissing some girl, and I have only that. Does it feel similar?
    GhostLoveScore GhostLoveScore 22-25 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Words do hurt and will last far more than you think! Especially when its from people you care and especially when they point out your insecurities in their words toward you!
    Brokenwing88 Brokenwing88 22-25, F Aug 22

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    Yes. I'm 27 and I fall in this category
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I always feel like I'm not good enough I am a nice person very friendly but it seems like the people who are mean get everything I'm seeing people I used to go to school with...
    fairycake1 fairycake1 22-25, F Aug 31

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    I love her. I miss her. I need to get over her. Can anybody help me?
    katiepritula katiepritula 16-17, F Sep 5

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    About a few years ago I was going out with this guy from school, we were both into each other, had sex a lot but we were quiet about it, no one knew about our relationship but...
    Mary4you Mary4you 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 8

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    Yes and he's my man. Loved him since we met 16 years ago and that love grew stronger as we aged.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 11