I Have Never Been In Love

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    Ive never been in love.

    Not real love, the kind you spend with your boyfriend cuddling up in front of a fire and kissing under the rain. Ive loved from afar, but as soon as they ask me out, i convince myself i dont like them anymore. But the truth is, im scared. Im scared of committing myself to...
    nataliacutie nataliacutie
    70+, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

    I just want somebody

    where I can look into their eyes and for once don't have to worry.
    indecisive20 indecisive20
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    I'm already in my mid twenties,

    and I've never had a boyfriend. I have loved them from afar, but as soon as it seems someone is interested, I push them away. I guess I'm afraid of it becoming real, even though I crave it too....sigh, I guess I'll end up as a crazy old lady with only cats for company
    cheechako cheechako
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2014

    And My Only

    concern is when i do..if i do ever fall in love..will it be love or deep infatuation..will i LOVE the person..or love the IDEA that the person is with me..I see how seemingly sensable girls turn into pure asswipes over boys..i just pray i'd never turn into that.
    lostprophet lostprophet
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Jan 8, 2010

    I'm turning 26 and never been in love

    or been in a serious relationship. There are a couple reasons why I used to be very shy, I don't have an outgoing personality and I started dating when I was in my early 20's when I had my first boyfriend, I met him online. The relationship lasted a few months and since then...
    apny12 apny12
    26-30, F
    May 29, 2014

    I have never been in love.

    I never really wanted a relationship. I actually want to be single forever and have no kids. I don't want to fall in love. Save myself the heartbreak.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2014

    I'm Scared...

    I've just turned 24 and have never fallen in love. I've never held a girl's hand, never kissed a girl, never even had a girl develop a crush for me. I've never looked deeply into a woman's eyes and smiled as she gazed back at me with her own loving eyes. I walk through each day...
    Dysiog Dysiog
    22-25
    23 Responses Dec 26, 2010

    I have a feeling. I've never been in love

    so how will I ever know when I am in love? I've heard there's a spark but I don't believe that. I guess I will have to wait and find out.
    beamystery beamystery
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 1

    I believe in soulmates,

    I just don't think everyone has one.
    Livinglife95 Livinglife95
    18-21, F
    Mar 27

    I'm Not Sad, I'm Glad

    I have never fallen in love with anyone yet and I'm not rushing it. People act differently when their in love. I don't like it. I prefer to stay single. I'm too busy thinking and studying to be with anyone.
    revolution77 revolution77
    18-21, M
    12 Responses Feb 4, 2011

    I love someone, who don't love me back,

    I feel like I will never love anyone else, so I will never be loved.
    rckedar rckedar
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 15

    Never..as In Never Never..

    I know about love. I've read about it in books. I've seen it in movies and around me among my friends. I've heard it in songs and from people. Wow!I can do a PhD in love! This "Knowing" doesnt change a thing..ofcourse it only make the longing stronger almost tangible!because even...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Dec 28, 2010

    I keep reading peoples experience about being

    in love but I can not ever honestly say I was in love with anyone. I have not felt that joy warmth feelings towards any one not even towards my now ex boyfriends. even when dating them I just was not in love with them. Just the you will do for now kind of feeling. After awhile...
    nostalkerswelcome nostalkerswelcome
    22-25
    Mar 12

    Everyone's getting married at 22

    or 25 and I never been in love in my life. How crazy is that?
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    I am 30 and I have never been in love.

    I have never even dated.
    mousekeys mousekeys
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    I mean I'm pretty young

    but I want that experience like "talking", going on dates, falling asleep on the phone, surprise visits, everything like that, I want to see what its like.
    FrankietheCat FrankietheCat
    18-21, F
    Feb 8, 2015

    And I don't believe I will ever be in love.

    If I actually find someone interested in me I'm more likely to think "huh, someone wanted to meet me." Rather than thinking something like "wow, she wanted to meet me! Her!"
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    41-45, M
    Feb 15

    Love Is Never- Never Land

    I am age 44 and have never been in love. Ever. I honestly don't know if I'm capable of it. But perhaps I am, because I would like to experience it before I die. I have dated sporadically in the not too distant past. And I've actually had 1 girlfriend in my life. But I felt no...
    mikeylikes mikeylikes
    41-45
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

    It makes me feel sad😞 I wonder

    if I'll find someday
    Blackwolf1604 Blackwolf1604
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    I've never been in mutual romantic love before.

    I've had strong feelings for men but they have never been returned. (sound the little violin) lol I don't mean to sound like a martyr. I'm just merely curious about love. I saw a couple holding hands today. They looked so happy and I can't help but wonder if I'm missing...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    I've never been I love

    and I'm 18, I struggle to commit to anything more than FWB.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 4
    kellylopez kellylopez
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    Majority of my relationships have been failures

    both on my part and theirs. I know I'm just going to have to wait but single city sucks :p
    Iceynoember Iceynoember
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2014

    I would like to know

    if it is possible for me to write a romance. I consider myself a writer. I write a lot, and I have never had a class or anything, but there have been people who have told me I am good. Can I write a romance though, never having been in love? I've never really finished writing...
    beaisforbliss beaisforbliss
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2014

    I'm So Afraid That I'll Never Fall In Love.

    I'm so afraid that I'll never fall in love... even more than I am afraid that I won't be the one for him... I'm scared that I am incapable of love that I have no one to love that I am as hard and cold as stone I'm so afraid that I will never fall in love... I want to love...
    CharlieAfrica CharlieAfrica
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2009

    I find it unusual that at this age I have never

    been in love. My family is already getting worried.I don't know... I'm very aloof when it comes to these kinds of things. I just find it weird especially when seeing kids younger than me going into relationships and stuff.
    MiquePoms MiquePoms
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 3

    If I've ever been in love I wouldn't be typing

    here with a Starbucks coffee on a lonely depressed table that probably haven't been spanked by a clean sponge in a few weeks now. I never understood why this was something I could never find but others will easily jump from relationship to relationship, marriage to marriage...
    DarkPhoenix1985 DarkPhoenix1985
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Apr 5, 2015

    I'm debating whether

    or not to put my heat on the perpetual chopping block called love. I've known so many people that have had their hearts ripped from their chest after falling for a tainted lover. I really don't know if I have the energy to deal with a broken heart. Regardless, I haven't found...
    minisuko minisuko
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 16

    I've never liked someone before.

    I only had crushes (usually one-sided) but I wonder how being in love feels like. *random thoughts* (maybe because i'm just ugly so no one likes me) :/
    Whattheactualfuck Whattheactualfuck
    18-21
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015

    There it is, I'm 26 years old

    and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I often become bored easily. I do wish I could be in love at least once, to know what it feels like instead of only knowing what it...
    Walelah Walelah
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2014

    I only say this because I think being in love

    requires both parties complete infatuation . I love people who love me but loving them doesnt mean I'm in love with them . People aren't really genuine or strong enough for me to fall in love . I'll settle for happiness and stability .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2014

    I've been in lust but not in love.

    I thought it was love but when I think back I realize it was just lust.
    msjamison msjamison
    26-30, F
    Apr 26, 2015

    its the obvious that I have never been in love.

    yes I do have boyfriends from the past but for some reason I don't feel anything toward them.they said that when you're in love there is a spark every time we kissed but I never felt that way.I don't know if that was even real or someone making that up.maybe I'm just that...
    felicia123angel felicia123angel
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 15

    all my friends and brothers began thinking I'm

    secretly a lesbian, because i never said i loved anyone or much less been in a relationship, but i don't believe in love, it's just some chemical reactions inside our head
    x3nekox3 x3nekox3
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    I always wonder what it must feel like to be in

    love. I see it all around me and yet I've never known the feeling. Of course I know how love feels from a different perspective in the sense of family but I mean love love. The feeling of forgetting what life was ever like without that special someone and the thought of...
    dreamchaserr dreamchaserr
    22-25, F
    Feb 16

    Is it even possible? I don't think I can love

    someone. Every time I'm with a girl I just want to have sex. I try to care about her but it's like I have to force myself to. I want to love not just have sex. I want to care about a girl and love her but it's hard.
    RoIIingStone RoIIingStone
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 3

    The truth is I have never been in love.

    I'm in HighSchool and it sucks not having a girlfriend, I'm 17 and I'm a junior. I can't wait till high school is over and done with
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 25, 2015

    I have never been in love.

    I've went on dates and had my fair share of crushes but I have never been in love. I'm not looking for love as of yet because I'm just mainly working establishing a career and struggling financially so this guy is not dating or husband material yet. Is that wrong because I'm...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    Love....one Time, For A Lifetime.....oneday

    I have never been in love....I have had crushes growing up....I'm 30 now, & I have had mutual interest....but it seems it never has been more than that. I am optimistic, loving, attractive, sensitive, conservative and confident enough to stand firm in my values, beliefs and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 10, 2012

    I can't tell if it's love,

    or just infatuation. It's so deceiving.
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2014

    It's strange i have loved

    but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last relationship he was head over heels in love with me and i just didn't feel the same or as strongly as he did and i stuck it out...
    JuniperMoon JuniperMoon
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 3, 2014

    A Man's Appetite...

    There’s one association women aren’t aware of, as far as men’s classification. We are, but a food in a long list of menu. The appetizers are the good looking ones who temporarily disguises fullness but was never enough for their lack of content. The main-meal women are...
    pursuitoftheblackwidow pursuitoftheblackwidow
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 24, 2012

    Whats Wrong W Me??

    first off let me tell you a little about myself i am a 18 year old girl, im a senior in highschool n i have many friends i wouldnt say im popular as in cheerleaders or jocks more as popular in the older kids party life, im not a virgin but im not a hoe, im just a lonley girl who...
    foreveral0ne foreveral0ne
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 14, 2012

    I have never been in love

    and I know I'm only 16 and I will find it one day but I never even had a gf and I find it kinda of sad
    dominick6 dominick6
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 3

    It depends on how you look at it.

    I've never been in a full fledged relationship, and I don't believe I know what it's like to actually love someone you originally had no connection to. Time will tell, I guess...
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589
    18-21, M
    Dec 26, 2014

    Love. is it real!? may be it is just another

    way of our brain telling us what it needs.
    nh862 nh862
    26-30, M
    Jan 5

    Certified Nbsb

    i'm 21 years old, in my last semester in college, but guess what I have never been in love in my entire life. In fact there are times when I wonder am I normal? lOL.Because people around me seems to have their own love stories to share.But me, I never had one. My friends will...
    lachica001 lachica001
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jun 8, 2011

    I'm beginning to believe "Love" has been hyped

    up, maybe it's the same feeling as having a crush-but the other person has a crush on you as well: and that's "love". If so, I miss having crushes but I'm going to give up on the idea of falling in love, and just try to marry someone responsible/tidy/middle-class and who I can...
    PicklesAndPie PicklesAndPie
    26-30
    Aug 29, 2015

    I want a girl who wants the same thing I want

    to have a real relationship, going out places,not sex,getting to know each other holding hands,kissing , hugging, holding each other. Real love not fake love through sex.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 3
    mblan11 mblan11
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 3
    johnny437 johnny437
    13-15, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

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