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I Have Never Been In Love

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    I'm 28 years old, and haven't

    even had a proper relationship. Allthough I absolutely hate being single, I can't be in a long term relationship with someone I'm not in love with.
    LillithMeiwes LillithMeiwes 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 25

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    Being Alone

    I am a 63 year old that has never been in love. I have no kids and am estranged from my family. Friends are few and far between and I believe that I will never be in love. It is very sad for me because I really want to feel something. I feel like I do not matter to anyone. It all...
    only63 only63 61-65, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    I'm Not Sad, I'm Glad

    I have never fallen in love with anyone yet and I'm not rushing it. People act differently when their in love. I don't like it. I prefer to stay single. I'm too busy thinking and studying to be with anyone.
    revolution77 revolution77 18-21, M 12 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    27 years old and ive never been in a meaningful

    relationship. I've never wanted one and not sure if I do now, but I'm curious if I'm missing anything....
    BlondeQueenOfSpades BlondeQueenOfSpades 26-30, F 22 Responses Sep 22

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    Love Is Never- Never Land

    I am age 44 and have never been in love. Ever. I honestly don't know if I'm capable of it. But perhaps I am, because I would like to experience it before I die. I have dated sporadically in the not too distant past. And I've actually had 1 girlfriend in my life. But I felt no...
    mikeylikes mikeylikes 41-45 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    I can't tell if it's love,

    or just infatuation. It's so deceiving.
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    Love....one Time, For A Lifetime.....oneday

    I have never been in love....I have had crushes growing up....I'm 30 now, & I have had mutual interest....but it seems it never has been more than that. I am optimistic, loving, attractive, sensitive, conservative and confident enough to stand firm in my values, beliefs and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    I'm So Afraid That I'll Never Fall In Love.

    I'm so afraid that I'll never fall in love... even more than I am afraid that I won't be the one for him... I'm scared that I am incapable of love that I have no one to love that I am as hard and cold as stone I'm so afraid that I will never fall in love... I want to love...
    CharlieAfrica CharlieAfrica 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    17 years old, there's one thing in life I want

    to experience even if it's just once. There's two things we have the closest to magic disney and love. Sometimes I wonder if it's my fault, cause I'm shy maybe I'm not pretty enough... The list goes on and on. But i accepted it's just not my time to fall in love, but waiting for...
    libb3yjan3 libb3yjan3 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    I can't fall in love with someone

    because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F Aug 19

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    The reason I never had a girl

    as a friend just aquintances that turn to be nothing some people are lucky to have friends that are girls and this is the point from where everything turns well.
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Sep 27

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    I Always Feel Alone

    I am almost 25, and I've never had a relationship. I feel like I've missed out on something important in life. Sometimes I feel like I'm younger than I really am because I'm so inexperienced. "We accept the love we think we deserve." I think my problem is that I think that I...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    I know I will never feel love.

    I have sunk deep down where no girl will find me. My life is just pain I have no happiness to give, girls all have lives they all have things going on for them, why would they notice me.
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 15

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    I'm turning 26 and never been in love

    or been in a serious relationship. There are a couple reasons why I used to be very shy, I don't have an outgoing personality and I started dating when I was in my early 20's when I had my first boyfriend, I met him online. The relationship lasted a few months and since then...
    apny12 apny12 26-30, F May 29

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    I have always liked someone,

    or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I've never been in love

    but it's fine by me. I'm still young and certainly am not prepared to waste my time by chasing boys who have yet to fully form their minds. Instead I intend to do things that will make me a better person. And frankly I think love is overrated…
    Livinglife95 Livinglife95 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    The Romantic Sense

    I love people. I love my parents, as far away and embarrassing as they are. I love my sister, I wish we were closer, but we're so different. I love my best friend, the person I can tell anything to without judgment and can always  turn to for advice. She's a...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M 8 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    I've never been in mutual romantic love before.

    I've had strong feelings for men but they have never been returned. (sound the little violin) lol I don't mean to sound like a martyr. I'm just merely curious about love. I saw a couple holding hands today. They looked so happy and I can't help but wonder if I'm missing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Sep 12

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    Never Had A Boyfriend Or Been In Love. What Is Wrong With Me, Where Are You?

    Sometimes I think about You. And I wonder if You even exist. I pray to God for and about You... That one day I'll meet You... And that there is a You. I wonder if I've met You before and I've already ****** Us up. I'm sorry I'm stubborn, difficult, aloof and indecisive. I know...
    home1916 home1916 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Never..as In Never Never..

    I know about love. I've read about it in books. I've seen it in movies and around me among my friends. I've heard it in songs and from people. Wow!I can do a PhD in love! This "Knowing" doesnt change a thing..ofcourse it only make the longing stronger almost tangible!because even...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    I am 46 years old. Married twice.

    Divorced twice. I have never been in love or felt that anyone was in love with me. I have no concept of what this experience feels like and it doesn't appear that --even after two marriages-- I never will. This is pretty god-awful depressing actually, to be sitting here and...
    naviculargirl naviculargirl 46-50, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I'm kind of glad also.

    .. Because if I was in love that would mean I'm not anymore and is probably be sad
    PuppyGirl748 PuppyGirl748 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    A Man's Appetite...

    There’s one association women aren’t aware of, as far as men’s classification. We are, but a food in a long list of menu. The appetizers are the good looking ones who temporarily disguises fullness but was never enough for their lack of content. The main-meal women are...
    pursuitoftheblackwidow pursuitoftheblackwidow 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    I have never been in love.

    I never really wanted a relationship. I actually want to be single forever and have no kids. I don't want to fall in love. Save myself the heartbreak.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    kellylopez kellylopez 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    Maybe One Day

    I'm still young so I'm not feeling desperation's clutches yet. Still, it would be nice to have my heart skip a beat. I've heard that love is the most terrible and wonderful thing a person can have. I've heard that it literally takes your breath away and comes at the strangest...
    FallenFromGrace FallenFromGrace 16-17, F Apr 4, 2010

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    And My Only

    concern is when i do..if i do ever fall in love..will it be love or deep infatuation..will i LOVE the person..or love the IDEA that the person is with me..I see how seemingly sensable girls turn into pure asswipes over boys..i just pray i'd never turn into that.
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2010

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    I'm Scared...

    I've just turned 24 and have never fallen in love. I've never held a girl's hand, never kissed a girl, never even had a girl develop a crush for me. I've never looked deeply into a woman's eyes and smiled as she gazed back at me with her own loving eyes. I walk through each day...
    Dysiog Dysiog 22-25 24 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    I've had two or three major crushes max.

    but the 'in love' feeling is alien to me. i can't understand why people would go to so much lengths or trouble to be 'in love'.
    cooledown cooledown 22-25, F Dec 6

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    Nope never have an never will.

    Its just not in me.
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    Certified Nbsb

    i'm 21 years old, in my last semester in college, but guess what I have never been in love in my entire life. In fact there are times when I wonder am I normal? lOL.Because people around me seems to have their own love stories to share.But me, I never had one. My friends will...
    lachica001 lachica001 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    GarrettYdoom GarrettYdoom 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old

    and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I often become bored easily. I do wish I could be in love at least once, to know what it feels like instead of only knowing what it...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I only say this because I think being in love

    requires both parties complete infatuation . I love people who love me but loving them doesnt mean I'm in love with them . People aren't really genuine or strong enough for me to fall in love . I'll settle for happiness and stability .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I usually keep away from people,

    I don´t have interest in forming a meaningfull relationship, or getting married, or having children. Some friend try to set my up with guys, but I just turn them down right away. If they are looking for a relationship, they should try someone else.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I'm already in my mid twenties,

    and I've never had a boyfriend. I have loved them from afar, but as soon as it seems someone is interested, I push them away. I guess I'm afraid of it becoming real, even though I crave it too....sigh, I guess I'll end up as a crazy old lady with only cats for company
    cheechako cheechako 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Never have never will.

    With the society is love is pointless.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M Jul 7

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    When She Met Him One Summer-prelude

    When She Met Him One Summer- Prelude My story is not an ordinary autobiography. I thought it was, but the pursuit led me to the discovery of the unknown.. at least not to me now. Men to me are classified into average ******** and then the psychopathic ones. The former are the...
    pursuitoftheblackwidow pursuitoftheblackwidow 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Ive never been in love.

    Not real love, the kind you spend with your boyfriend cuddling up in front of a fire and kissing under the rain. Ive loved from afar, but as soon as they ask me out, i convince myself i dont like them anymore. But the truth is, im scared. Im scared of committing myself to...
    nataliacutie nataliacutie 70+, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    ** This is probably why.

    I fear this very thing. Vulnerability is beyond difficult. *** "When you love someone, truly love them, you lay your heart open to them. You give them a part of yourself that you give to no one else, and you let them inside a part of you that only they can hurt-you literally...
    SecretEscape SecretEscape 36-40, F 11 Responses Nov 24

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    MissGee22 MissGee22 18-21, F Nov 25

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    Incapable Of Love?

    I'm 33 years old and have had numerous long term relationships. My last one was 5 years. I've even had quite a few puppy love crushes but I have never been in love! I have never known that can't stop thinking about him, can't eat, can't sleep butterflies in my belly feeling. It...
    Heath80 Heath80 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2013

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    Whats Wrong W Me??

    first off let me tell you a little about myself i am a 18 year old girl, im a senior in highschool n i have many friends i wouldnt say im popular as in cheerleaders or jocks more as popular in the older kids party life, im not a virgin but im not a hoe, im just a lonley girl who...
    foreveral0ne foreveral0ne 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    It's strange i have loved

    but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last relationship he was head over heels in love with me and i just didn't feel the same or as strongly as he did and i stuck it out...
    JuniperMoon JuniperMoon 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 3

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    I would like to know

    if it is possible for me to write a romance. I consider myself a writer. I write a lot, and I have never had a class or anything, but there have been people who have told me I am good. Can I write a romance though, never having been in love? I've never really finished writing...
    beaisforbliss beaisforbliss 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    well I been in love before.

    .a couple times in my life..but I thought I put this song on to share since it reminded of that dope track from Talib Kweli :)
    jonnygoode74 jonnygoode74 36-40, M Nov 30

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    Haha yeah thats me.. Idc tbh ,

    for me love is so not important to me.what is that actually??. "Love,love,love what so good about it . Absolutely nothing"-effy stonem I Agreed with it .. I find it annoying! Oh go on judge me .. Thanks for reading btw.. Have a nice life u people :)) xx
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Actually im not sure about it,

    my friends were like 'omg love is so unbelievable so strong emotion its like miracle...' I was like my bf so much but it wasnt like miracle or something I think so many people overdo/stretch the truth about love ..
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I have never been in love.

    Not even puppy love when I was younger. I have never even really dated someone. I have been on a few dates but they never went anywhere. I have only hooked up because that's the only way that I have ever felt semi wanted. But no one has ever wanted to date or even just get to...
    magzmae18 magzmae18 26-30, F 2 Responses May 17

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    I have never been in love x_X .

    .. When is it happening LOL? :/
    starmel94 starmel94 18-21, F Jul 17

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    It makes me feel sad😞 I wonder

    if I'll find someday
    Blackwolf1604 Blackwolf1604 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 15

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