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I Have Never Been In Love

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    I'm Not Sad, I'm Glad

    I have never fallen in love with anyone yet and I'm not rushing it. People act differently when their in love. I don't like it. I prefer to stay single. I'm too busy thinking and studying to be with anyone.
    revolution77 revolution77 18-21, M 12 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Maybe It's How I Define It...

    I sometimes wonder if what other people have felt and called love is just a different 'standard' or conception of what love is.  Maybe by their definition I have been in love.  At least I think that with each partner I am getting closer and closer to it.  I used to...
    av789 av789 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 7, 2007

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    I never had a real boyfriend

    or texted a guy. In first grade I had my first love kinda, when kids hold hands that type of thing. But I never had a real one everyone aways texts boys and hangout with them I never hung out with one on my own outside of school family or after school actives. And most people...
    Victoria0290 Victoria0290 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    Patience

    I always thought to myself why hasn't any guy ever looked at me in a loving way I'm 22 years old and never been in a relationship no guy has ever tried to get to know me on another level I've been lead on I've been the side chick and I guess it could be the way I grew up but not...
    Purpleeyez Purpleeyez 22-25 2 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    Love....one Time, For A Lifetime.....oneday

    I have never been in love....I have had crushes growing up....I'm 30 now, & I have had mutual interest....but it seems it never has been more than that. I am optimistic, loving, attractive, sensitive, conservative and confident enough to stand firm in my values, beliefs and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    Bad Luck I Guess

    I dated for 15 years before I got married, I went out with dozens of women over the years but never fell in love. I wanted to and I always expected it would happen but it didn't. Many of the women I dated turned out to be good buddies after the break ups but it never was more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 13, 2009

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    Nope! ^_^

    Lol...it's not like I wouldn't mind it....but it's just never happened. And I'm a bit glad you see.... It would damper my 22 year-old crazy partying. There's time for that later. :P
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    I feel like I wouldn't know it

    if I were, being that Ive never been in a relationship. "boyfriend" (seriously what an awkward term), Anyway, I would think I'm too f.ucked up to be in love, I just think that most descent guys look for that girl with pure sunshine that radiates from the inside out all the time...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    You've probably read a lot of stories like this

    on EP. Still, I'd like to put it up here; because that sort of gives me a relief, even if nobody's gonna read it. Lets see then.. I'm not your average guy. I've always been different from the others, I could never blend in any community. Since my second year in elementary...
    DisguisedPotato DisguisedPotato 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    In Love = In Lust?

    Think about it - are you really missing much if it's all about sex with people anyway? When a couple first gets together, what are they doing most of the time? Is that love? A lot of the time "relationships" like that crash and burn, just a few of them last...
    Chrisanna Chrisanna 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    gvjhkj gvjhkj 18-21 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    The Romantic Sense

    I love people. I love my parents, as far away and embarrassing as they are. I love my sister, I wish we were closer, but we're so different. I love my best friend, the person I can tell anything to without judgment and can always  turn to for advice. She's a...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M 8 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    "i'm To Scared To Fall In Love"

    I have never been in love and I get ask out all the time.....and I'll tell them I'm in a relationship or I like the opposite of what they are...just so they will leave me alone.I know why I do this I just don't know how to stop! Everyone in my life uses me and the only thing left...
    AsAlwaysAlone AsAlwaysAlone 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    The Name Says It All

    I'm 24, and all my life, I've been getting compliments about how beautiful or stylish I am, so people who meet me now would be surprised that I don't have a boyfriend, and have never had a serious relationship.  However, people who have known me longer would...
    ClassOf200Hate ClassOf200Hate 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 5, 2010

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    It's strange i have loved

    but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last relationship he was head over heels in love with me and i just didn't feel the same or as strongly as he did and i stuck it out...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old

    and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I often become bored easily. I do wish I could be in love at least once, to know what it feels like instead of only knowing what it...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    No Love

    Well I have had 3 boyfriends and I never been In love with them and that was when I was like 12 but now I'm 14 almost 15 and well there's reasons for that and here they are. 1 my twin is os much hotter then me. 2 if I date someone I don't know what to do. 3 every one at school...
    Rejectfreak Rejectfreak 13-15, F Jul 11, 2013

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    Eh. *Shrugs* :)

    People here seem to want to rush to be in it. As a writer of erotic fan-fiction...and lover of emotional turmoil within novels....I have felt the shards of a broken heart constantly piercing one's insides. I have sensed every knot in their chest and stomach, experienced the slow...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    I Can'T Love

    Do you know Amortentia, the Love-Potion in Harry Potter? In my case, I would not choose to give it to someone else. I should be the one taking it. I need Amortentia and I wish someone could secretly put some in my drink or chocolates... I am 23 years old. I have never been in a...
    Amortentia Amortentia 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    Superficial Or Love Level Attraction But Never Love

    Some people have felt crushes and minor attractions of sorts to some others but rarely is this truly love in the sense that that person to whom you are attracted is one who'd you want to marry and live with for the rest of one's life. I am one such person: I've felt pings of...
    WK95 WK95 18-21, M Oct 17, 2013

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    Whats Wrong W Me??

    first off let me tell you a little about myself i am a 18 year old girl, im a senior in highschool n i have many friends i wouldnt say im popular as in cheerleaders or jocks more as popular in the older kids party life, im not a virgin but im not a hoe, im just a lonley girl who...
    foreveral0ne foreveral0ne 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    Not Any Girl Has Ever Loved Me Back

      I want to share my story, I am a 22 years old guy. And to this day i too have never been loved by anyone. the only experience i had was when i was 13 i think. This girl asked me to be her boyfriend. i had her for 2 weeks in wich i saw her once. It was really not worth...
    cosmo394 cosmo394 22-25 Nov 10, 2013

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    Awkward In Love

    I don't think I have ever been in love. For me I just like the attention that the other person gives me and when I get bored of that I tend to get bored of the person. It is awful, I know, but that is the way I feel. I hope that I find someone that I can fall in love with someday...
    emc257 emc257 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    Never Ever

    I've never been in love. Its the only thing i want. It consumes my life. and i know it will never happen because i'm a waste of life. I go to college, one that partys alot. I can't even get laid to save my life. I try to talk to people but it never works out. No girl has...
    mikedogg4000 mikedogg4000 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Never.

    I see people who I think are aesthetically pleasing every day, I've had plenty of crushes and there have been a very few people whom I have had legitimate feelings for. But love is a strong word, and I have yet to feel that strongly for someone, if ever.
    devouringflames devouringflames 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2013

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    On The Outside Of Love

    I suspect there are a lot of people out there who have never been in love. For I am such a person. When I was young, I believed in the idea of soulmates. I had crushes. However, I never dated my crushes. My crushes were not that into me. Guys that I've dated have always chosen me...
    sunkissed13 sunkissed13 31-35 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    I honestly feel that I have never been in love

    even when I was in a long relationship.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F Feb 24

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    All As It Is

    I'm almost 22. All these years I've seen no necessity to start romantic relationship. When I was at high school - "Oh, what's the point? That's silly! I should finish studying at first". When I entered a university - "It must be really difficult to study here. My private life...
    Hibana Hibana 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2013

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    Never Been In Love

    I'm 34 years old. I have 17 yrs old son but I've never been in a relationship longer than 3 months. And I love my son ofcourse. I love my cat and my dog too. So I CAN love, but I just cannot fall in love. Still I long so much to have a serious loving relationship have a family...
    111guest 111guest 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2012

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    Love Is Never- Never Land

    I am age 44 and have never been in love. Ever. I honestly don't know if I'm capable of it. But perhaps I am, because I would like to experience it before I die. I have dated sporadically in the not too distant past. And I've actually had 1 girlfriend in my life. But I felt no...
    mikeylikes mikeylikes 41-45 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    Am I Missing Out?

    So apparently it's better to have loved and lost than to have not loved at all. I wanna know what it's like to really be in love with someone because ya grrl has a lot of love to give. But I think I confuse a lot of the people who try and approach me because I'm still a bit...
    wickedfemme wickedfemme 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    When She Met Him One Summer-prelude

    When She Met Him One Summer- Prelude My story is not an ordinary autobiography. I thought it was, but the pursuit led me to the discovery of the unknown.. at least not to me now. Men to me are classified into average ******** and then the psychopathic ones. The former are the...
    pursuitoftheblackwidow pursuitoftheblackwidow 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Never Had A Boyfriend Or Been In Love. What Is Wrong With Me, Where Are You?

    Sometimes I think about You. And I wonder if You even exist. I pray to God for and about You... That one day I'll meet You... And that there is a You. I wonder if I've met You before and I've already ****** Us up. I'm sorry I'm stubborn, difficult, aloof and indecisive. I know...
    home1916 home1916 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    And My Only

    concern is when i do..if i do ever fall in love..will it be love or deep infatuation..will i LOVE the person..or love the IDEA that the person is with me..I see how seemingly sensable girls turn into pure asswipes over boys..i just pray i'd never turn into that.
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2010

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    What Is Love?

    I have never been in true love with someone.. I love my best friends and I love my family but I never have been truly in love... I don't even know what to expect? I hope there is that one girl out there for me and that I will know the feeling soon. Because I just feel alone.. I...
    Tyes Tyes 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    Being Alone

    I am a 63 year old that has never been in love. I have no kids and am estranged from my family. Friends are few and far between and I believe that I will never be in love. It is very sad for me because I really want to feel something. I feel like I do not matter to anyone. It all...
    only63 only63 61-65, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Is there really something wrong with me?

    I just can’t seem to get emotionally involved with a man. I've been with a few guys now, long-term and short-term relationships. But I've never been in love; most of my relationships have ended because I've just lost interest.I just see people all the time that love each...
    chazneychimp chazneychimp 22-25, F Mar 4

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    I like this guy who doesn't like me back.

    This other guy likes me but I don't like him back. This always happens to me. I've never had a relationship because nothing has ever been mutual. It's so frustrating.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    That Thing Called "Love"

    And after all how do you know that you are truly in love with someone? Why your heart chooses before asking you? Why you can't resist it? To be in love..to wanna be a better person only for him.. When you thought that even with him is just a crush, which will pass, which will not...
    anna17hearts anna17hearts 18-21, F Sep 12, 2013

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    Incapable Of Love?

    I'm 33 years old and have had numerous long term relationships. My last one was 5 years. I've even had quite a few puppy love crushes but I have never been in love! I have never known that can't stop thinking about him, can't eat, can't sleep butterflies in my belly feeling. It...
    Heath80 Heath80 31-35, F Jun 30, 2013

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    A Man's Appetite...

    There’s one association women aren’t aware of, as far as men’s classification. We are, but a food in a long list of menu. The appetizers are the good looking ones who temporarily disguises fullness but was never enough for their lack of content. The main-meal women are...
    pursuitoftheblackwidow pursuitoftheblackwidow 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    What Is Love Itself.

    I am a girl of 21 year old. i don't any boy friend but am not a virgin. i lost my virginity as early as 14 years old bcos of my family background. i have never feel anything like love, i don't know how the feelings looks like as expressed in movies or reality. bcos of this i...
    liznne liznne 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2010

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    Never..as In Never Never..

    I know about love. I've read about it in books. I've seen it in movies and around me among my friends. I've heard it in songs and from people. Wow!I can do a PhD in love! This "Knowing" doesnt change a thing..ofcourse it only make the longing stronger almost tangible!because even...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    I'm Scared...

    I've just turned 24 and have never fallen in love. I've never held a girl's hand, never kissed a girl, never even had a girl develop a crush for me. I've never looked deeply into a woman's eyes and smiled as she gazed back at me with her own loving eyes. I walk through each day...
    Dysiog Dysiog 22-25 25 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    Is There Someone For Me?

    I am a 31 year old man who has never fallen in love.  It used to not bother me as I didn't think I needed female companionship to be happy.   However, just over a year ago a series of unlikely events occurred that brought me into contact with a female coworker...
    Revec Revec 31-35 6 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Ive never been in love.

    Not real love, the kind you spend with your boyfriend cuddling up in front of a fire and kissing under the rain. Ive loved from afar, but as soon as they ask me out, i convince myself i dont like them anymore. But the truth is, im scared. Im scared of committing myself to...
    nataliacutie nataliacutie 70+, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Certified Nbsb

    i'm 21 years old, in my last semester in college, but guess what I have never been in love in my entire life. In fact there are times when I wonder am I normal? lOL.Because people around me seems to have their own love stories to share.But me, I never had one. My friends will...
    lachica001 lachica001 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    People keep telling me,

    it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly meet a guy and we become friends. 3. I develop feelings. 4. He doesn't feel the same way. 5. Friendship is now awkward and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm already in my mid twenties,

    and I've never had a boyfriend. I have loved them from afar, but as soon as it seems someone is interested, I push them away. I guess I'm afraid of it becoming real, even though I crave it too....sigh, I guess I'll end up as a crazy old lady with only cats for company
    cheechako cheechako 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm So Afraid That I'll Never Fall In Love.

    I'm so afraid that I'll never fall in love... even more than I am afraid that I won't be the one for him... I'm scared that I am incapable of love that I have no one to love that I am as hard and cold as stone I'm so afraid that I will never fall in love... I want to love...
    CharlieAfrica CharlieAfrica 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    I want to be in love with somebody.

    I want to be able to tell someone everything about me. I want to listen to the stories of their life and talk all day. I want to laugh and be myself and not care who's watching. I want to hold hands and walk together. I just want to be in love. It's sounds like the greatest...
    ebbiethebullet325 ebbiethebullet325 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    I wish I knew a perfect guy

    who I could talk to and cuddle >< I've never been in love and no one loves me. Maybe I'll die an unloved hag.
    silentpage silentpage 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
    vwilliams69 vwilliams69 41-45, F Apr 2

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    I'm 24 and i have never been kissed. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic... Meaning i'm feeling hopeless about finding romance. Haha. But seriously i'm both the romantic and the...
    mynameisdreamer mynameisdreamer 22-25, F 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a sophmore in high school, and I have never been kissed. There are kids in my class having sex and I still have not had my first kiss. Also I'm wondering WHEN IT WILL HAPPEN...
    jenseb jenseb 16-17, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I am 29 years old and I have never been married. I got engaged once but we broke it off due to differences. I believe in the institution of marriage and would like to get married...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 day ago

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