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I Have Never Been In Love

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    Is there really something wrong with me?

    I just can’t seem to get emotionally involved with a man. I've been with a few guys now, long-term and short-term relationships. But I've never been in love; most of my relationships have ended because I've just lost interest.I just see people all the time that love each...
    chazneychimp chazneychimp 22-25, F Mar 4

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    Never..as In Never Never..

    I know about love. I've read about it in books. I've seen it in movies and around me among my friends. I've heard it in songs and from people. Wow!I can do a PhD in love! This "Knowing" doesnt change a thing..ofcourse it only make the longing stronger almost tangible!because even...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    It's strange i have loved

    but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last relationship he was head over heels in love with me and i just didn't feel the same or as strongly as he did and i stuck it out...
    JuniperMoon JuniperMoon 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 3

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    Being Alone

    I am a 63 year old that has never been in love. I have no kids and am estranged from my family. Friends are few and far between and I believe that I will never be in love. It is very sad for me because I really want to feel something. I feel like I do not matter to anyone. It all...
    only63 only63 61-65, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Never Had A Boyfriend Or Been In Love. What Is Wrong With Me, Where Are You?

    Sometimes I think about You. And I wonder if You even exist. I pray to God for and about You... That one day I'll meet You... And that there is a You. I wonder if I've met You before and I've already ****** Us up. I'm sorry I'm stubborn, difficult, aloof and indecisive. I know...
    home1916 home1916 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Certified Nbsb

    i'm 21 years old, in my last semester in college, but guess what I have never been in love in my entire life. In fact there are times when I wonder am I normal? lOL.Because people around me seems to have their own love stories to share.But me, I never had one. My friends will...
    lachica001 lachica001 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    I have never been in love.

    I never really wanted a relationship. I actually want to be single forever and have no kids. I don't want to fall in love. Save myself the heartbreak.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    I have never been in love x_X .

    .. When is it happening LOL? :/
    starmel94 starmel94 18-21, F Jul 17

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    Superficial Or Love Level Attraction But Never Love

    Some people have felt crushes and minor attractions of sorts to some others but rarely is this truly love in the sense that that person to whom you are attracted is one who'd you want to marry and live with for the rest of one's life. I am one such person: I've felt pings of...
    WK95 WK95 18-21, M Oct 17, 2013

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    I'm Scared...

    I've just turned 24 and have never fallen in love. I've never held a girl's hand, never kissed a girl, never even had a girl develop a crush for me. I've never looked deeply into a woman's eyes and smiled as she gazed back at me with her own loving eyes. I walk through each day...
    Dysiog Dysiog 22-25 24 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    I like this guy who doesn't like me back.

    This other guy likes me but I don't like him back. This always happens to me. I've never had a relationship because nothing has ever been mutual. It's so frustrating.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    And My Only

    concern is when i do..if i do ever fall in love..will it be love or deep infatuation..will i LOVE the person..or love the IDEA that the person is with me..I see how seemingly sensable girls turn into pure asswipes over boys..i just pray i'd never turn into that.
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2010

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    I wish I knew a perfect guy

    who I could talk to and cuddle >< I've never been in love and no one loves me. Maybe I'll die an unloved hag.
    silentpage silentpage 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I'm turning 26 and never been in love

    or been in a serious relationship. There are a couple reasons why I used to be very shy, I don't have an outgoing personality and I started dating when I was in my early 20's when I had my first boyfriend, I met him online. The relationship lasted a few months and since then...
    apny12 apny12 26-30, F May 29

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    I can't fall in love with someone

    because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I have never been in love.

    Not even puppy love when I was younger. I have never even really dated someone. I have been on a few dates but they never went anywhere. I have only hooked up because that's the only way that I have ever felt semi wanted. But no one has ever wanted to date or even just get to...
    magzmae18 magzmae18 26-30, F 2 Responses May 17

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    I would like to know

    if it is possible for me to write a romance. I consider myself a writer. I write a lot, and I have never had a class or anything, but there have been people who have told me I am good. Can I write a romance though, never having been in love? I've never really finished writing...
    beaisforbliss beaisforbliss 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Love Is Never- Never Land

    I am age 44 and have never been in love. Ever. I honestly don't know if I'm capable of it. But perhaps I am, because I would like to experience it before I die. I have dated sporadically in the not too distant past. And I've actually had 1 girlfriend in my life. But I felt no...
    mikeylikes mikeylikes 41-45 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old

    and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I often become bored easily. I do wish I could be in love at least once, to know what it feels like instead of only knowing what it...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    People keep telling me,

    it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly meet a guy and we become friends. 3. I develop feelings. 4. He doesn't feel the same way. 5. Friendship is now awkward and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    I honestly feel that I have never been in love

    even when I was in a long relationship.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F Feb 24

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    Love....one Time, For A Lifetime.....oneday

    I have never been in love....I have had crushes growing up....I'm 30 now, & I have had mutual interest....but it seems it never has been more than that. I am optimistic, loving, attractive, sensitive, conservative and confident enough to stand firm in my values, beliefs and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    Awkward In Love

    I don't think I have ever been in love. For me I just like the attention that the other person gives me and when I get bored of that I tend to get bored of the person. It is awful, I know, but that is the way I feel. I hope that I find someone that I can fall in love with someday...
    emc257 emc257 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    What Is Love?

    I have never been in true love with someone.. I love my best friends and I love my family but I never have been truly in love... I don't even know what to expect? I hope there is that one girl out there for me and that I will know the feeling soon. Because I just feel alone.. I...
    Tyes Tyes 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    Never Been In Love

    I'm 34 years old. I have 17 yrs old son but I've never been in a relationship longer than 3 months. And I love my son ofcourse. I love my cat and my dog too. So I CAN love, but I just cannot fall in love. Still I long so much to have a serious loving relationship have a family...
    111guest 111guest 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2012

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    I have always liked someone,

    or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Nope! ^_^

    Lol...it's not like I wouldn't mind it....but it's just never happened. And I'm a bit glad you see.... It would damper my 22 year-old crazy partying. There's time for that later. :P
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    Not Any Girl Has Ever Loved Me Back

      I want to share my story, I am a 22 years old guy. And to this day i too have never been loved by anyone. the only experience i had was when i was 13 i think. This girl asked me to be her boyfriend. i had her for 2 weeks in wich i saw her once. It was really not worth...
    cosmo394 cosmo394 22-25 Nov 10, 2013

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    You've probably read a lot of stories like this

    on EP. Still, I'd like to put it up here; because that sort of gives me a relief, even if nobody's gonna read it. Lets see then.. I'm not your average guy. I've always been different from the others, I could never blend in any community. Since my second year in elementary...
    DisguisedPotato DisguisedPotato 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    I want to be in love with somebody.

    I want to be able to tell someone everything about me. I want to listen to the stories of their life and talk all day. I want to laugh and be myself and not care who's watching. I want to hold hands and walk together. I just want to be in love. It's sounds like the greatest...
    ebbiethebullet325 ebbiethebullet325 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    I never had a real boyfriend

    or texted a guy. In first grade I had my first love kinda, when kids hold hands that type of thing. But I never had a real one everyone aways texts boys and hangout with them I never hung out with one on my own outside of school family or after school actives. And most people...
    Victoria0290 Victoria0290 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    Maybe One Day

    I'm still young so I'm not feeling desperation's clutches yet. Still, it would be nice to have my heart skip a beat. I've heard that love is the most terrible and wonderful thing a person can have. I've heard that it literally takes your breath away and comes at the strangest...
    FallenFromGrace FallenFromGrace 16-17, F Apr 4, 2010

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels

    when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone, it always turns out to be "LIKE", not "LOVE"
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    I'm So Afraid That I'll Never Fall In Love.

    I'm so afraid that I'll never fall in love... even more than I am afraid that I won't be the one for him... I'm scared that I am incapable of love that I have no one to love that I am as hard and cold as stone I'm so afraid that I will never fall in love... I want to love...
    CharlieAfrica CharlieAfrica 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    I Always Feel Alone

    I am almost 25, and I've never had a relationship. I feel like I've missed out on something important in life. Sometimes I feel like I'm younger than I really am because I'm so inexperienced. "We accept the love we think we deserve." I think my problem is that I think that I...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Ive never been in love.

    Not real love, the kind you spend with your boyfriend cuddling up in front of a fire and kissing under the rain. Ive loved from afar, but as soon as they ask me out, i convince myself i dont like them anymore. But the truth is, im scared. Im scared of committing myself to...
    nataliacutie nataliacutie 70+, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    That Thing Called "Love"

    And after all how do you know that you are truly in love with someone? Why your heart chooses before asking you? Why you can't resist it? To be in love..to wanna be a better person only for him.. When you thought that even with him is just a crush, which will pass, which will not...
    anna17hearts anna17hearts 18-21, F Sep 12, 2013

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    I'm already in my mid twenties,

    and I've never had a boyfriend. I have loved them from afar, but as soon as it seems someone is interested, I push them away. I guess I'm afraid of it becoming real, even though I crave it too....sigh, I guess I'll end up as a crazy old lady with only cats for company
    cheechako cheechako 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    The Romantic Sense

    I love people. I love my parents, as far away and embarrassing as they are. I love my sister, I wish we were closer, but we're so different. I love my best friend, the person I can tell anything to without judgment and can always  turn to for advice. She's a...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M 8 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Incapable Of Love?

    I'm 33 years old and have had numerous long term relationships. My last one was 5 years. I've even had quite a few puppy love crushes but I have never been in love! I have never known that can't stop thinking about him, can't eat, can't sleep butterflies in my belly feeling. It...
    Heath80 Heath80 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2013

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    I am 46 years old. Married twice.

    Divorced twice. I have never been in love or felt that anyone was in love with me. I have no concept of what this experience feels like and it doesn't appear that --even after two marriages-- I never will. This is pretty god-awful depressing actually, to be sitting here and...
    naviculargirl naviculargirl 46-50, F 2 Responses May 5

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    A Man's Appetite...

    There’s one association women aren’t aware of, as far as men’s classification. We are, but a food in a long list of menu. The appetizers are the good looking ones who temporarily disguises fullness but was never enough for their lack of content. The main-meal women are...
    pursuitoftheblackwidow pursuitoftheblackwidow 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    I'm Not Sad, I'm Glad

    I have never fallen in love with anyone yet and I'm not rushing it. People act differently when their in love. I don't like it. I prefer to stay single. I'm too busy thinking and studying to be with anyone.
    revolution77 revolution77 18-21, M 12 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    I know what it's like to have someone deeply in

    love with me, but I myself have never been in love. I'm not even in love with my husband! Now don't get me wrong. I care about him and I'm very sweet, but it's not a deep, romantic love. I have crushes on guys and I have felt chemistry and lust but never that deep love that I...
    SexyBaBe31 SexyBaBe31 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I've NEVER been In love

    and I don't want to. personally I find love cheesy.
    Laquii Laquii 18-21, F Mar 10

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    Is There Someone For Me?

    I am a 31 year old man who has never fallen in love.  It used to not bother me as I didn't think I needed female companionship to be happy.   However, just over a year ago a series of unlikely events occurred that brought me into contact with a female coworker...
    Revec Revec 31-35 6 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Whats Wrong W Me??

    first off let me tell you a little about myself i am a 18 year old girl, im a senior in highschool n i have many friends i wouldnt say im popular as in cheerleaders or jocks more as popular in the older kids party life, im not a virgin but im not a hoe, im just a lonley girl who...
    foreveral0ne foreveral0ne 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    Never have never will.

    With the society is love is pointless.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M Jul 7

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    When She Met Him One Summer-prelude

    When She Met Him One Summer- Prelude My story is not an ordinary autobiography. I thought it was, but the pursuit led me to the discovery of the unknown.. at least not to me now. Men to me are classified into average ******** and then the psychopathic ones. The former are the...
    pursuitoftheblackwidow pursuitoftheblackwidow 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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