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I Have Never Been Kissed

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    Im 21 years old and Ive never been kissed.

    The thing is, Ive never been in a relationship either. I come from a religious family and I think that being kissed is an intimate thing and I dont want to give my first kiss to just anybody. I know this may seem crazy. Nobody believes me when I tell them this because they...
    iwanttochangemyself iwanttochangemyself 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Gonna be 20 later this month

    and I still have not had my first kiss yet Reminds just how ugly and worthless I am to girls
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    All my friends have been kissed

    yet i have not and that gets to me sometimes.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I have never been kissed before

    and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Im saving my first kiss

    for some1 special :-p
    Bananabonzana Bananabonzana 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 21

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    It Creeps Like An Ant Up the Back of My Neck

    It's always been something I've been aware of.  That is, I'll never deny it--nor do I think of it very often, for better or for worse--but for the longest time I was immensely ashamed to admit that I had never been kissed.  It's immensely easy to do so in this expansive...
    Nougat Nougat 19-21, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2007

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    24 And Never Been Kissed

    I'm 24 years old and I have never been kissed. I have tried but she pushed me away. I don't understand why no girl will give me a chance?? I'm caring, funny, intelligent, a good listener, tall, open-minded, and I put my best into everything I do. I thought it was just high...
    MikeNeverBeenKissed MikeNeverBeenKissed 22-25, M 5 Responses May 1, 2013

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    I'm 24 and i have never been kissed.

    I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic... Meaning i'm feeling hopeless about finding romance. Haha. But seriously i'm both the romantic and the hopeless. It's hard being this age and not knowing the warmth of being loved. Heck at some point i would have jumped at the first...
    mynameisdreamer mynameisdreamer 22-25, F 14 Responses Apr 20

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    "When was your first kiss?

    " Everyone else: "10" "13" "11" Me:"..... I think I accidentally miight have bumped into a guy and our lips touched but it might've been a dream so..."
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I've never been kissed.

    No, not even amiss people class as 'not a real kiss'. I've never kissed or been kissed at all. Never been asked out or dated anyone. I'm 22 and don't see this changing. Men still think I'm ugly and all that is too me is my job and looks
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I'm almost 18 and have never been kissed,

    although I've had two "almost" boyfriends. I can't tell my friends this because they always talk about who they banged at a party etc, and I'm as virgin as you can possibly be. I'm embarrassed
    mahe18 mahe18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    Im 19.. ive never been kissed

    and i dont care 💋😱
    daneean daneean 18-21, F Jun 24

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    I don't care

    I'm nineteen never been kissed, never been approached pursued, never talked to a guy of interest, had a boyfriend and all that jazz. I've had friends who've been puzzled by this. And I don't care. I don't think I'm ugly in fact I think I was created beautiful as I am. ...
    ladynau ladynau 19-21, F 11 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    I honestly considered paying a guy to kiss me

    but then I realized that's prostitution and that's be awkward to explain to my parents if I got arrested....
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I sometimes hate school it full of couples

    kissing and holding hands.Honestly I wish that were me and I am having a hard time believing that it ever will. No one wants to go out with someone as BLACK as I am. I just want to know what it feels like:(
    Jb359 Jb359 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Paradox Of Life

    As i grow older and more familiar with what life is- im just realizing ive made it this far without any affection or romance in my life. I am getting in good shape again and doing good in school. I am not after romance or affection anymore- i mean i do get some looks from decent...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    I am 20 year old girl

    that has never been kissed or anything else like even go on a date and not because I'm waiting for the one. Is there something wrong with me that guys aren't attracted to me? Or something?
    Ari555 Ari555 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    I’ve never been kissed

    and I see my friend kiss her boyfriend almost everyday. I don’t want to say anything since it feels like I’m the only one out there who hasn't.
    princess9800 princess9800 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 25

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    What does it feel like to be

    that close to a man? To know that he's all yours and all you want? How do you find someone willing to let you inside of them if only for a brief moment? What does it feel like to be loved?
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I think im a late bloomer.

    I never was into guys in high school. Now all the sudden i want a bf and i feel like an inexperienced dummy who is playing catch up.
    jenpoop jenpoop 18-21, F 8 Responses May 6

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    It's depressing it's

    why I can never watch any movie that shows a passionate kiss it's just way to painful to watch
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 3

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    Lol i have like never been kissed

    before u knu and lol frankly speaking right now I don't even wanna be. I mean like I'm almost 18 and lol I don't feel like I'm missing out on something becuz I haven't been kissed. lol I'll kiss when I wanna.
    mynameisismyname mynameisismyname 16-17, F Dec 9

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    That is why when I watch movies with kissing

    scenes, I get envious haha.
    Quincyy Quincyy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Or at least be kissed by a guy I mean like I

    kiss girls but that's just whatever because I'm gay they know that but yea I still can't believe I haven't kissed a guy thoe
    noelol noelol 13-15, M Dec 4

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    Well I mean I have, but it was a game,

    and we were like 6 or 7. I didn't even really know what kissing was then. So I don't count that at all. I have never been kissed by a lover or on New Year's Eve. That is what I long for, a girl for me to call mine. Where are you at?
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I'm 18 and I never kissed anyone

    before :( Is that weird? Or just pitiful? What do u think?
    Mikgi Mikgi 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 13

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    I've never been kissed.

    Hopefully soon.
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ashamed

    It is the one thing about myself I am the most ashamed of. I can live with the fact that I am a virgin because it is so much more intimate than a kiss not to mention the possible consequences and that as a christian I can see the positives to being one, but this isn't about that...
    Anuzen Anuzen 19-21, M 9 Responses Jul 4, 2007

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    Happiness Passing Me By

    Hello everyone!!! First off I would like to say how wonderful it is to find a place where I can be completely honest about my life experiences and others can truly relate to those experiences, here goes. I'm a 25 yr old college student who has never been kissed, the thing about...
    HarkonnenZombie HarkonnenZombie 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Never Been Kissed.

    I'm nineteen, and I've never been kissed. I know that thirteen year old's have kissed and experienced far more than I have, and I'm practically an adult. And society is very quick to judge me on that. There's the occasional person who praises me for it, but most people are just...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 46 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I have never been kissed

    and I am turning 17 in a month.. All of my friends have been kissed and I am the only one who hasn't. It has definitely taken its toll on my self esteem and I can barely look at myself in the mirror without feeling depressed about my appearance. I mainly blame myself for not...
    Grace1123 Grace1123 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    Being my age and being a virgin doesn't bother

    me as much, since I need my first time to mean something in terms of commitment. Maybe that's why I haven't ever kissed a woman/girl, because I think it should mean something. However, it's also because I'm terrified of it being negative for her, and I'm sure not going to "steal...
    jdhammer84 jdhammer84 26-30, M Oct 22

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    I really want a perfect kiss,

    and I don't want to do it backwards either. I want to get to know someone first, then date them for a while and hopefully when I kiss them it'll be fantastic and heart stopping. A girl can dream, right? :)
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    It's Too Late

    I made it to 20 and never kissed. I don't think that's normal anywhere in the world at any time in history. Everyone called me weird, even my teachers. If I've made it this far, it's too late. I know people ten times more socially awkward than me that have had countless...
    matrixportal matrixportal 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    I have a huge crush on two of my best friends.

    I told the one how I felt two years ago and a week later found out he was dating my now ex-best friend. Which is why I'm afraid to tell the other one how I feel because I'm afraid they'll reject me or it will ruin our friendship.... But sometimes being the only person in my...
    KittKattSparklerz KittKattSparklerz 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I'm 15, a sophomore,

    and I've never been kissed, or had a boyfriend. I feel like guys don't like me. Honestly.. I don't like boys, I like men. I want someone mature that doesn't make any drama or act like a tick that's sucking the life from me. All my friends have boyfriends and I'm always the third...
    CoexistXx CoexistXx 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 24

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    26 & Humiliated

    I'm 26 years old & have never been kissed. It's absolutely humiliating to admit this, especially as how it seems everyone else who has shared a story in this group is 18 or 19 years old. I have very serious social anxiety disorder which has left me basically...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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    When Is The Day Going To Come

    I'm a 16 year old girl and a guy has never had interest in me l've never kiss anyone , never had a boyfriend, never felt wanted. l wonder what is wrong with me i was overweight but i've lost 40lbs and guys look at me now but no one wants to date me still, maybe im too rude but...
    LonelyGiiirl7 LonelyGiiirl7 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    Why did he kiss me!? It was out of nowhere

    and it just happened so fast! In a blink of an eye his lips were on mine, they were soft and plush but I'm not attracted to him it that way. To be honest, I don't want a boyfriend! Because I know that I'll end up hurting him but he can't seem to get that through his head. He...
    XxBadXVibesxX XxBadXVibesxX 13-15, F Aug 14

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    I Wish I Never Been Kissed!

    Every guy I ever been with I felt no real love for.I kissed this guy that I didn't love who was a total *** bec I was made fun of for not being kissed, it was not even good at all.Then I dated three guys after that and the truth is thst I kissed them all and each kiss felt...
    kat511 kat511 18-21, F 19 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    I'm almost 17 and I've never been kissed,

    had a boyfriend or girlfriend, or even had someone show interest in me. As a result of this(along with a few other issues), I've developed crippling social anxiety. The anxiety and depression started creeping up on me when I went into sixth grade and this is the first year I've...
    libbyizard libbyizard 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 25

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    its sad and really hurts my self esteem.

    no guys at my school find me attractive and ive never been in a serious relationship that wasnt long distance :(
    kkkeeennnzzz kkkeeennnzzz 13-15, F Sep 3

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    Do I really have to write stuff here?

    But ja. Never been kissed.. I'm that girl in the class who everyone's mates with but no one thinks of me as more than a mate..
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Never Before....

    I am 23 and yet no one has ever came that far.... may be there is something awesome is waiting to happen.... may be there is the most amazing first kiss story written in my fate.. I have saved it for the one who might not be the perfect one not a dream girl type...but shes worthy...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 8 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    I've never been "properly" kissed the last guy

    i kissed nearly licked my face like i was an ice cream cone or something! Now im affraid of kissing someone because i dont want to get licked again.
    Pingu113 Pingu113 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 24

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    Had my 1st one today

    that was by a non relative
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Dec 7

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    Never Kissed And Still Single

    Hi everyone! I'm 19 years old and I never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. Sometimes I really have the feeling I'd like to have someone special to be with, but sometimes I think it's really easy being single. But still.. the feeling sucks. I have no experience at all and I'm...
    irisve irisve 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    I'm this type of girl

    that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I''m 23 never been kissed

    or any such thing. I suspect when I do have my first kiss it will be with someone special
    divinegimp divinegimp 22-25 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I'd rather die on the day

    that I give you a kiss than spend the rest of my life knowing I never did.
    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F