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I Have Never Been Kissed

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    I'm almost 17 and I've never been kissed,

    had a boyfriend or girlfriend, or even had someone show interest in me. As a result of this(along with a few other issues), I've developed crippling social anxiety. The anxiety and depression started creeping up on me when I went into sixth grade and this is the first year I've...
    libbyizard libbyizard 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    Well I mean I have, but it was a game,

    and we were like 6 or 7. I didn't even really know what kissing was then. So I don't count that at all. I have never been kissed by a lover or on New Year's Eve. That is what I long for, a girl for me to call mine. Where are you at?
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2014

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    I'm 15, a sophomore,

    and I've never been kissed, or had a boyfriend. I feel like guys don't like me. Honestly.. I don't like boys, I like men. I want someone mature that doesn't make any drama or act like a tick that's sucking the life from me. All my friends have boyfriends and I'm always the third...
    CoexistXx CoexistXx 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Ashamed

    It is the one thing about myself I am the most ashamed of. I can live with the fact that I am a virgin because it is so much more intimate than a kiss not to mention the possible consequences and that as a christian I can see the positives to being one, but this isn't about that...
    Anuzen Anuzen 18-21, M 12 Responses Jul 4, 2007

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    I've been kissed but

    that was in third grade. Didn't mean anything. I want a kiss that's filled with love. But yet I don't know how to kiss. LOL. Might be awkward.
    PoopieNoodle PoopieNoodle 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    I'm this type of girl

    that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F Dec 15, 2014

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    All my friends have been kissed

    yet i have not and that gets to me sometimes.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    I'm 18 and I never kissed anyone

    before :( Is that weird? Or just pitiful? What do u think?
    Mikgi Mikgi 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    Im saving my first kiss

    for some1 special :-p
    Bananabonzana Bananabonzana 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    When Is The Day Going To Come

    I'm a 16 year old girl and a guy has never had interest in me l've never kiss anyone , never had a boyfriend, never felt wanted. l wonder what is wrong with me i was overweight but i've lost 40lbs and guys look at me now but no one wants to date me still, maybe im too rude but...
    LonelyGiiirl7 LonelyGiiirl7 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M Mar 18

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    Im 21 years old and Ive never been kissed.

    The thing is, Ive never been in a relationship either. I come from a religious family and I think that being kissed is an intimate thing and I dont want to give my first kiss to just anybody. I know this may seem crazy. Nobody believes me when I tell them this because they...
    iwanttochangemyself iwanttochangemyself 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 2, 2014

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    What is wrong with me me?

    Sophomore in college never had a boyfriend or been kissed. Don't even have close guy friends 😐
    balletlover21 balletlover21 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    26 & Humiliated

    I'm 26 years old & have never been kissed. It's absolutely humiliating to admit this, especially as how it seems everyone else who has shared a story in this group is 18 or 19 years old. I have very serious social anxiety disorder which has left me basically...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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    I am an 18 year old girl,

    and I have never been kissed. Nope! Not even once! The closest I've ever come to it was during a truth or dare game when I had to pass a marshmallow from my mouth into this really cute guy's mouth and our lips sorta touched. My friends all say that I'm gorgeous and I could date...
    clv321 clv321 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Never Been Kissed.

    I'm nineteen, and I've never been kissed. I know that thirteen year old's have kissed and experienced far more than I have, and I'm practically an adult. And society is very quick to judge me on that. There's the occasional person who praises me for it, but most people are just...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 47 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    I'm 24 and i have never been kissed.

    I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic... Meaning i'm feeling hopeless about finding romance. Haha. But seriously i'm both the romantic and the hopeless. It's hard being this age and not knowing the warmth of being loved. Heck at some point i would have jumped at the first...
    mynameisdreamer mynameisdreamer 22-25, F 12 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    I’ve never been kissed

    and I see my friend kiss her boyfriend almost everyday. I don’t want to say anything since it feels like I’m the only one out there who hasn't.
    princess9800 princess9800 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    24 And Never Been Kissed

    I'm 24 years old and I have never been kissed. I have tried but she pushed me away. I don't understand why no girl will give me a chance?? I'm caring, funny, intelligent, a good listener, tall, open-minded, and I put my best into everything I do. I thought it was just high...
    MikeNeverBeenKissed MikeNeverBeenKissed 26-30, M 5 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Had my 1st one today

    that was by a non relative
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Dec 7, 2014

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    I'm 26 and have never been kissed.

    It's just gotten to the point where I'm too embarassed that it will be my first kiss to have my first kiss. if that makes sense.
    sfoss21 sfoss21 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 16

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    I have met someone for the first time in my life

    and we have known each other for about five months. We talk every day and slowly growing closer.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    I'm almost 18 and have never been kissed,

    although I've had two "almost" boyfriends. I can't tell my friends this because they always talk about who they banged at a party etc, and I'm as virgin as you can possibly be. I'm embarrassed
    mahe18 mahe18 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    Not by a guy yet* I've kissed girls before

    and I loved it but no spark, I just want to hold and passionately kiss a man, someone I can trust but in the gay community now that's just too much to ask for
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F Dec 14, 2014

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    I've never been kissed.

    Hopefully soon.
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M 6 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Never Before....

    I am 23 and yet no one has ever came that far.... may be there is something awesome is waiting to happen.... may be there is the most amazing first kiss story written in my fate.. I have saved it for the one who might not be the perfect one not a dream girl type...but shes worthy...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 8 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    It's so embarrassing.

    I feel like I wouldn't even do it right.
    BlueGirl666 BlueGirl666 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I think im a late bloomer.

    I never was into guys in high school. Now all the sudden i want a bf and i feel like an inexperienced dummy who is playing catch up.
    jenpoop jenpoop 18-21, F 7 Responses May 6, 2014

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    paul642 paul642 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    It sucks because all around me I see

    and I think is it too much to ask for someone to love?
    Frozenfireflies Frozenfireflies 13-15, M Feb 25

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    Is it bad that I dated a girl

    for 6 months my longest relationship so far I never kissed her once I held her hand hugged her cuddled but never kissed because I wanted to wait till marriage and she said she was fine but then I find out that she cheated on me I dumped her and said if all you wanted was a kiss...
    PabloBoyyyy PabloBoyyyy 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    I don't care

    I'm nineteen never been kissed, never been approached pursued, never talked to a guy of interest, had a boyfriend and all that jazz. I've had friends who've been puzzled by this. And I don't care. I don't think I'm ugly in fact I think I was created beautiful as I am. ...
    ladynau ladynau 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    I am 18 and have never been kissed,

    or have dated. I feel pathetic for writing this because I know that the vast majority off people my own age have at least gone on a date. I have been asked out before, and yes there have been a few people interested, but they have all been rather strange. One Im 95% sure is gay...
    Narp12 Narp12 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    Or at least be kissed by a guy I mean like I

    kiss girls but that's just whatever because I'm gay they know that but yea I still can't believe I haven't kissed a guy thoe
    FerrarixD FerrarixD 13-15, M Dec 4, 2014

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    momo335 momo335 13-15, F Mar 16

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    Never Been Kiss'd

    The faith and hope that one day, I will meet her who has kept herself for me as I keep myself for her, and that our lips will meet each other's for the first time, unencumbered by any expectation, any history, any attachment to others but the Us, and we will become one in body...
    jacobtheblue jacobtheblue 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    That is why when I watch movies with kissing

    scenes, I get envious haha.
    Quincyy Quincyy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    It Creeps Like An Ant Up the Back of My Neck

    It's always been something I've been aware of.  That is, I'll never deny it--nor do I think of it very often, for better or for worse--but for the longest time I was immensely ashamed to admit that I had never been kissed.  It's immensely easy to do so in this expansive...
    Nougat Nougat 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2007

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    Paradox Of Life

    As i grow older and more familiar with what life is- im just realizing ive made it this far without any affection or romance in my life. I am getting in good shape again and doing good in school. I am not after romance or affection anymore- i mean i do get some looks from decent...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 2, 2013

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    I'm 35 years old, and I've never kissed a woman.

    I'd like to, but I never seem to get to the point where it would be a reciprocated feeling. I've often tried to imagine what it's like, and yet it doesn't feel right. No, I'm not gay, but I am starting to believe that I'll never experience the joy of kissing a girl that I...
    halfblind79 halfblind79 31-35, M Feb 6

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    Yup . true I'am still in the closet I

    guess that's why but one day I hope i kiss the one and I will feel the magic huh I watch a lot of movies But I rly hope someday
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 19

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    It's Too Late

    I made it to 20 and never kissed. I don't think that's normal anywhere in the world at any time in history. Everyone called me weird, even my teachers. If I've made it this far, it's too late. I know people ten times more socially awkward than me that have had countless...
    matrixportal matrixportal 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    I honestly considered paying a guy to kiss me

    but then I realized that's prostitution and that's be awkward to explain to my parents if I got arrested....
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    I have never been kissed I am still waiting

    for my first kiss I have never been kissed probably because I am shy
    Paul998 Paul998 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I work on a TV show and we are looking

    for people who have never been kissed to come on our show. Please contact me if you are interested at tvshow17@yahoo.com. Thanks!
    tvshow17 tvshow17 36-40 Jan 21