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I Have Never Been Kissed

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    Ashamed

    It is the one thing about myself I am the most ashamed of. I can live with the fact that I am a virgin because it is so much more intimate than a kiss not to mention the possible consequences and that as a christian I can see the positives to being one, but this isn't about that...
    Anuzen Anuzen 19-21, M 9 Responses Jul 4, 2007

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    MookieTheBezt MookieTheBezt 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I really want a perfect kiss,

    and I don't want to do it backwards either. I want to get to know someone first, then date them for a while and hopefully when I kiss them it'll be fantastic and heart stopping. A girl can dream, right? :)
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    What is wrong with me me?

    Sophomore in college never had a boyfriend or been kissed. Don't even have close guy friends 😐
    balletlover21 balletlover21 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    I don't care

    I'm nineteen never been kissed, never been approached pursued, never talked to a guy of interest, had a boyfriend and all that jazz. I've had friends who've been puzzled by this. And I don't care. I don't think I'm ugly in fact I think I was created beautiful as I am. ...
    ladynau ladynau 19-21, F 11 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    It's weird because some guys actually tried to

    kiss me but I refuse. Funny story, my mom's first kiss, first boyfriend, first everything is all from my father. I think I would follow my mom and wait until my Prince Charming comes for me.
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i have never kissed anyone.

    .........i am waiting for my first liplock and my gf........hope it would be a greatday when i find her and when i kiss her
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M Jul 13

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    26 & Humiliated

    I'm 26 years old & have never been kissed. It's absolutely humiliating to admit this, especially as how it seems everyone else who has shared a story in this group is 18 or 19 years old. I have very serious social anxiety disorder which has left me basically...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 13, 2008

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    I've seen tons of experiences here

    that most got there first kiss by their early teen years 13-15 Which is really depressing since I'm a 19 year old and I've NEVER gotten my first kiss I should have at least had one kiss before I left high school but no Man my life sucks sometimes
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M May 20

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    Im 19.. ive never been kissed

    and i dont care 💋😱
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I Wish I Never Been Kissed!

    Every guy I ever been with I felt no real love for.I kissed this guy that I didn't love who was a total *** bec I was made fun of for not being kissed, it was not even good at all.Then I dated three guys after that and the truth is thst I kissed them all and each kiss felt...
    kat511 kat511 18-21, F 17 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    I'm 24 and i have never been kissed.

    I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic... Meaning i'm feeling hopeless about finding romance. Haha. But seriously i'm both the romantic and the hopeless. It's hard being this age and not knowing the warmth of being loved. Heck at some point i would have jumped at the first...
    mynameisdreamer mynameisdreamer 22-25, F 15 Responses Apr 20

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    I've always wondered what it would be like to

    kiss someone I really like. I feel like it's better to wait for the right person than to waste it on someone I would regret later.
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F 2 Responses May 28

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    I have got a peck on the cheek by my (former)

    girlfriend before she was my girlfriend. But I want a real kiss lips to lips with the emotion, the passion, the feelings, and the love along with it.
    HeyItsJay HeyItsJay 13-15, M Apr 22

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    Never Before....

    I am 23 and yet no one has ever came that far.... may be there is something awesome is waiting to happen.... may be there is the most amazing first kiss story written in my fate.. I have saved it for the one who is may be not that perfect not a dream girl type...but shes worthy...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    "When was your first kiss?

    " Everyone else: "10" "13" "11" Me:"..... I think I accidentally miight have bumped into a guy and our lips touched but it might've been a dream so..."
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 18 and just got out of high school,

    and I've never even had a boyfriend or been kissed. I've had so many opportunities to, but I always turn guys down because I guess my standards are too high. Now I regret it a bit because my best friend just lost her virginity and I feel so behind. I need to stop waiting for my...
    kayydiana kayydiana 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    I'm not the type of girl to complain about

    being "forever alone". However, lately that's what I'm genuinely concerned about. I am in a group of very tight-knit friends who have all had boyfriends, been asked on dates, and are frequently the object of many of our peers' attention. I've never experienced this. Every time...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Im saving my first kiss

    for some1 special :-p
    Bananabonzana Bananabonzana 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I really wish i had. It sounds

    so amazing. Kissing a guy you like him kissing you back because he likes you back. Just ughhhh
    olsonn322 olsonn322 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm going to turn 16 next month

    and I still haven't been kissed. I remember when I was younger, I had told myself that I would have kissed someone before I turn 16. Now I just feel like I will never find anyone or ever be with someone in my life. I'm constantly getting picked on about it and it really gets me...
    cara1998 cara1998 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 23

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    Im too awkward around guys

    that I like. Im pretty sure I scare them off hahaha.
    Kittenfire Kittenfire 16-17, F 6 Responses Jun 24

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    I have this big group of friends,

    and it was me and my friend who hadn't been kissed. Everyone else in the group had. Then my friend got a boyfriend. So now I'm the only one who hasn't been kissed. XD
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is really weird.

    I'm 17, and have had my first boyfriend for six months. Yet, no kiss. No signs of a kiss. It makes me sad. I wonder why he hasn't kissed me.
    Beachball9 Beachball9 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I honestly considered paying a guy to kiss me

    but then I realized that's prostitution and that's be awkward to explain to my parents if I got arrested....
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've never been kissed I really want to by

    certain someone right now
    BrookeDuchanne16 BrookeDuchanne16 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Going along with the fact

    that I am a virgin by choice, I have never had a girlfriend. In high school my mind was on my future, and now? I don't know really... Honestly I've gotten to the point where settling down with someone as a more steady companion sounds wonderful... Or maybe that's just me wishing...
    badgerman42 badgerman42 22-25, M Jul 13

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    It Creeps Like An Ant Up the Back of My Neck

    It's always been something I've been aware of.  That is, I'll never deny it--nor do I think of it very often, for better or for worse--but for the longest time I was immensely ashamed to admit that I had never been kissed.  It's immensely easy to do so in this expansive...
    Nougat Nougat 19-21, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2007

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    I am not a hideous monster

    or anything but I am a grown man who is over 30 and has never been kissed. Even hugs I can basically count in my head. I have never been good at socializing, especially with girls. I have an extremely hard time opening up to people. I can only think of a few times in my life...
    GurneySlade GurneySlade 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    I suppose I can leave this experience now.

    I had my first kiss and beyond. When the rest of you get there be sure to enjoy it :D
    HeyItsJosh HeyItsJosh 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Happiness Passing Me By

    Hello everyone!!! First off I would like to say how wonderful it is to find a place where I can be completely honest about my life experiences and others can truly relate to those experiences, here goes. I'm a 25 yr old college student who has never been kissed, the thing about...
    HarkonnenZombie HarkonnenZombie 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    I'm 18 and I never kissed anyone

    before :( Is that weird? Or just pitiful? What do u think?
    Mikgi Mikgi 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 13

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    I just graduated high school.

    I'm turning 18 soon and I'm going to be a college freshman. I still haven't had my first kiss. I have only had one boyfriend and that only lasted a week. We never even held hands. But in all honesty it doesn't bother me. When people ask why I haven't had my first kiss I just...
    Raven628 Raven628 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11

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    Well I mean I have, but it was a game,

    and we were like 6 or 7. I didn't even really know what kissing was then. So I don't count that at all. I have never been kissed by a lover or on New Year's Eve. That is what I long for, a girl for me to call mine. Where are you at?
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Well I'm 15 and I've never been kissed.

    Never been in a relationship. I really hope that'll change soon because I think I'm almost in a relationship :) My almost-bf and I have briefly slow danced, held hands, and piggy back rides. I love his hugs. He's a foot taller than me so I feel really safe in his arms. He says...
    anongirl135 anongirl135 13-15, F Jun 22

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    I am a sophmore in high school,

    and I have never been kissed. There are kids in my class having sex and I still have not had my first kiss. Also I'm wondering WHEN IT WILL HAPPEN cuz all my friends are going way farther with guys and then there's me over here who has never had a boyfriend or been kissed. Even...
    jenseb jenseb 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 23

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    Never Been Kissed.

    I'm nineteen, and I've never been kissed. I know that thirteen year old's have kissed and experienced far more than I have, and I'm practically an adult. And society is very quick to judge me on that. There's the occasional person who praises me for it, but most people are just...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 45 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Im 21 years old and Ive never been kissed.

    The thing is, Ive never been in a relationship either. I come from a religious family and I think that being kissed is an intimate thing and I dont want to give my first kiss to just anybody. I know this may seem crazy. Nobody believes me when I tell them this because they...
    iwanttochangemyself iwanttochangemyself 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I'm 16 and have never been kissed.

    My friends always talk about the guys they hook up with, the ones they make out with, their fling of the day. I'm left out. Guys don't have an interest in me. It's not that I'm ugly. I would say I'm pretty, but I don't see the problem with me. My other problem is the fact that...
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    When Is The Day Going To Come

    I'm a 16 year old girl and a guy has never had interest in me l've never kiss anyone , never had a boyfriend, never felt wanted. l wonder what is wrong with me i was overweight but i've lost 40lbs and guys look at me now but no one wants to date me still, maybe im too rude but...
    LonelyGiiirl7 LonelyGiiirl7 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I am in 8th grade and I'm literally like the

    only one who hasn't had their first kiss yet! I also have ever had a boyfriend before. And I'm scared of getting my first kiss. Like how do u kiss someone the first time do u just give a peck or do u kiss them like in the movies? Like how do u kiss someone?
    captainamericafan captainamericafan 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I''m 23 never been kissed

    or any such thing. I suspect when I do have my first kiss it will be with someone special
    divinegimp divinegimp 22-25 3 Responses Jan 7

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    24 And Never Been Kissed

    I'm 24 years old and I have never been kissed. I have tried but she pushed me away. I don't understand why no girl will give me a chance?? I'm caring, funny, intelligent, a good listener, tall, open-minded, and I put my best into everything I do. I thought it was just high...
    MikeNeverBeenKissed MikeNeverBeenKissed 22-25, M 5 Responses May 1, 2013

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    It's Too Late

    I made it to 20 and never kissed. I don't think that's normal anywhere in the world at any time in history. Everyone called me weird, even my teachers. If I've made it this far, it's too late. I know people ten times more socially awkward than me that have had countless...
    matrixportal matrixportal 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed

    and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if you have never been kissed.♡
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 15, a sophomore,

    and I've never been kissed, or had a boyfriend. I feel like guys don't like me. Honestly.. I don't like boys, I like men. I want someone mature that doesn't make any drama or act like a tick that's sucking the life from me. All my friends have boyfriends and I'm always the third...
    CoexistXx CoexistXx 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 24

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    I think im a late bloomer.

    I never was into guys in high school. Now all the sudden i want a bf and i feel like an inexperienced dummy who is playing catch up.
    jenpoop jenpoop 18-21, F 7 Responses May 6

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    Never Kissed And Still Single

    Hi everyone! I'm 19 years old and I never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. Sometimes I really have the feeling I'd like to have someone special to be with, but sometimes I think it's really easy being single. But still.. the feeling sucks. I have no experience at all and I'm...
    irisve irisve 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    Never Been Kiss'd

    The faith and hope that one day, I will meet her who has kept herself for me as I keep myself for her, and that our lips will meet each other's for the first time, unencumbered by any expectation, any history, any attachment to others but the Us, and we will become one in body...
    jacobtheblue jacobtheblue 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    I had a peck in fifth grade

    but I have never had a real kiss
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Lol, woot woot. Club never been kissed, who's with me? XD
    ZeeBrah ZeeBrah 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I find it really sad that I'm 14 and I never kissed a girl
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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