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I Have Never Been Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 266 People

    Am I the only person

    who feels like God forgot to love them???
    h3art4luv h3art4luv 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    Giver Not Receiver

    I know what it's like to love someone but I don't know what it's like to be loved back.   
    left14 left14 46-50 4 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    I Love, But Never Seem To Be Loved

    I've never been loved. It's rather odd admitting that online. I suppose that is the beauty of anonymity. My father was abusive when i was very young, and i am now convinced that he is a sociopath. He is unable to feel emotions toward other people, even his children. My mother was...
    Delilah00021 Delilah00021 18-21 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    This Is Just Me ...

    Hmm. I seem to be the first one to write here. Ok. Well, I've never been loved. Only 1 person has ever actualy said that they loved me, and it ended out that she only said it as a joke. My family aren't the very affectionate type, but then, it's not that kind of love that I...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 10 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Some People Just Are Not Supposed To Be Loved...

    Eversince I can remember I have had the feeling that I'm not supposed to be with anyone. I'm 30 now and up until this point I have never had a 'serious' relationship and no-one has ever told me that they love me (apart from friends/family). I've been fine with it and honestly I...
    SamWhatever SamWhatever 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    I was not loved by my own parents-they had no

    interest. I grew up had a family,still no love in sight,even with husband,just marriage of convenience. I suppose i dont know how to love-i was cold to my children -now their love for me is conditional and always comes down to money, never a card or taken out to dinner-never...
    jusme2014 jusme2014 51-55, F Feb 16, 2014

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    I Am A 26 Year Old Man Who Has Never Been Loved Or Admired By Any Woman

    Hi there im danny and i am a young man, 26 years old actually and i am a very generous, friendly, caring and kind person and i am very compassionate and considerate with everyone, but for some reason neither life nor love never really treated me like such in return. i also...
    rainforestshadowspirit rainforestshadowspirit 26-30 8 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    Never

    i've never had someone telling me "i love you" not even my parents not that they don't love me but they don't tell me things like that , no one fell in love with me (maybe liked me but not love) and i would love to hear those words
    opentalk opentalk 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    I Never Been Loved By A Man....

    I have a good amount of people in my life that love me. God loves me, my family loves me, and my friends love me. However, I have never been loved by a man and I have never been in a relationship. I used to think about it all of the time and the fact I have never been loved by a...
    krs89 krs89 22-25 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    The Unlovable

    I know love. I love my family i love my friends but I have never been in love with a guy. And I assume none have loved me seens as none have told me they do. Ive always thought it didnt bother me. Id just tell myself the reason I havnt fallen in love is because I havnt met the...
    misindecisive misindecisive 22-25, F Dec 1, 2013

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    A Lifetime Without Love

    I am 30-years old and grew up in an abusive home, so my early experiences were ones of neglect and they were lacking in love. I used to hold on to the belief that over time I'd be able to surround myself with loving friends and relationships, and that somehow my relationship...
    indigoblk indigoblk 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    And will never be. I hide from people.

    I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved. ever/ :)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2014

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    Lonely

    I have never been loved. I'm 21 and already so many of my friends are getting engaged and married and I just feel like I am lightyears behind them. I lie about it because it is embarrassing, so none of my friends know.
    minnisun minnisun 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    I like my therapist but am afraid to tell her

    cause she might stop seeing me.
    TheRealSpecialK TheRealSpecialK 36-40, M Mar 8, 2014

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    I Am A 27 Years Old Woman Who Never Been Loved

    I am so glad to have found this page because i feel i can tell my story without the fear of being known or judge.I am 27 years old and I can honeslty say i have never been love. Even though my situation has a way of making me quite sad sometime, I am bless to say that it has...
    sweetey1ca sweetey1ca 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    Tired Of Loneliness

    I JUST LOST ANOTHER BF TODAY N IM BACK TO THIS LONELY FEELING.... N THIS PAIN I KNOW SO WELL WHERE I JUST FEEL LIKE I WAS EVEN WANTED IN SITUATION.. AS OF RIGHT IM JUST SO DONE WITH LOVE.. WEN AM I GOING TO HAVE MY DAY WEN AM I GOING TO FEEL LOVED FRM SOMEONE.. WHY DO I HAVE TO...
    Neverloved89 Neverloved89 22-25 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    What 's Lover

     Because  if never been loved your whole life not by family or  friends ,or boyfriends ,co-workers so what's is feeling. And why do I have to gave  600 times the love out to just get one tiny pit back so why why ,so I ...
    chrians312 chrians312 41-45 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    I Am Becoming Desperate

    I have never been loved by a man---I am now turning 40.. I loved a lot hoping that one day I will get the love that I need... Recently I fell in love with a younger guy.. I guess the feelings he shared with in the beginning was out of sympathy.. now he never texts me back or...
    needtolove needtolove 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    Will I ever be loved?

    Twenties and never had a friend or boyfriend. Not even a kiss
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 5 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I've been in foster care

    since I was two. Never stay anywhere long and I shut people out. I know the exact number of times that another person has hugged me.
    Lewshun Lewshun 16-17, M Dec 4, 2013

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    The Look In His Eyes..

      So, today my grandma was in a therapy session and I went to pick her up, when I made it to the office I saw this guy smiling like an idiot to the secretary while she was writing something. It seems that no matter how many noise there was in the office he wouldn't wake up from...
    EiramZaid EiramZaid 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

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    Never Been Loved For Real

    I have always known that my mother doesn't quite loves me. She might have cared for me when I was little, specially due to my health problems. My dad has always been emotionally unreachable, never actually showing his true feelings, I mean, he somewhat cares but perhaps never in...
    loneguy loneguy 31-35 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    Is 49 Too Late To Find Love?

    I don't believe anyone has ever loved me in a romantic sense. I was married for 15 years to a man who never once said "I love you." I have lots of friends and two wonderful daughters. I am involved in my community. I date. I have been in relationships. I don't really know if I...
    Writergirl27 Writergirl27 46-50 Aug 24, 2012

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    But I'M Only 16....

    Yeah, so you're probably thinking, she's only 16 and she's got her whole life ahead of her, she doesn't know what she's talking about... I guess you'd kind of be right.. I'm 16 and have never been loved, never loved, nor do I believe in love. How can you believe in something...
    SaharaD SaharaD 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Never Felt Love, The Only Person I Thought I Loved Hurt Me.

    Im 15, depressed, lonely and every girl ive liked turned out to be a ***** or a ***** or sometimes both. im a good guy, but i hate that about me because no girl wants the good guy. I find it tough to distiguish with girls with im a push over of just a good guy. Biggest thing i...
    coltonconley coltonconley 13-15, M 16 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    I Have Only Been Asked Out Once In My Life

    and the guy was gay and just trying to have a cover.. yeah i joke about it and laugh but it really does get me anger me that no one else has ever asked me out....
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    Just Now....

    It JUST hit me…. Literally NOW… I have never been loved No one has ever said they loved me (other than family) I’ve never had a serious relationship. I’ve had relationships.. if yah know what I mean… but no one exclusively. No one to hold me close during a slow song...
    MavDay MavDay 41-45 10 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    I have never been kissed I am still waiting for my first kiss I have never been kissed probably because I am shy
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    At my age, i feel ive been with a nice amount of women when it comes to dating and gfs and so on. But i have never been with a black woman, not that i dont find black women...
    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Im about to turn 18 and have never been kissed or been in a relationship. My mother thinks im a lesbian, and my family laughs at me. Im not an unattractive person, ive been called...
    Comocres Comocres 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I am an 18 year old girl, and I have never been kissed. Nope! Not even once! The closest I've ever come to it was during a truth or dare game when I had to pass a marshmallow from...
    clv321 clv321 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I have never been in love, and I am fine with that. I am young and just having fun! I have had a few boyfriends but I knew with each of them that nothing was going to come from it...
    enviouseyes enviouseyes 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I have never been in any remote relationship with anyone and I'm not in the prime of my life and don't know what to do. I have nobody and have absolutely zero confidence with...
    rugby78 rugby78 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I work on a TV show and we are looking for people who have never been kissed to come on our show. Please contact me if you are interested at tvshow17@yahoo.com. Thanks!
    tvshow17 tvshow17 36-40 4 days ago

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    Unlike a ton of people I know I haven't been married as of yet. Two of my closest friends are married. I feel like if I was in a much better financial situation than my life has...
    eartheyes82 eartheyes82 31-35, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I've never truly loved my wife, nor do we have great sexual chemistry, but our relationship is otherwise very open and honest. I was mildly depressed getting into it almost a...
    Haplava Haplava 26-30, M Dec 31, 2014

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 a week ago

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    I have liked many girls but never been in love with anyone, not even myself haha maybe i'll never get feelings for anyone, who knows ? XD
    MrImperfect MrImperfect 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    So as of a few days ago I was convinced that I have been in love 3 times in my life. Twice with co workers and once with someone on EP. But I've started to think, maybe I wasn't in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I am 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend (yes I'm straight) so of course I've never been married and though some wouldn't think so, I'm way to young to have children.
    AvaDay AvaDay 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It depends on how you look at it. I've never been in a full fledged relationship, and I don't believe I know what it's like to actually love someone you originally had no...
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Dec 26, 2014

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    I apologize for my English. And I'm bad with words. And I'm seldom able to put my feelings into words. But how I've been feeling these past few months, it's the worst ever. I've...
    MargoRothSpiegelman MargoRothSpiegelman 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I've never been in love but I've had crushes for guys. The strongest feelings I ever had was for a Counselor I had. I don't want to fall in love if they don't love me back.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 14

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    I just had one of those crazy dreams where you think everything that is happening is real, I just had a thought that maybe it's my mind trying to tell me something. I've been to...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Not by a guy yet* I've kissed girls before and I loved it but no spark, I just want to hold and passionately kiss a man, someone I can trust but in the gay community now that's...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I told myself I wont post anything anymore about me being alone and lonely and sad about my none existent lovelife... but recent event made me write and I just have no one to share...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 41 Responses Jan 6

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    Is it bad that I dated a girl for 6 months my longest relationship so far I never kissed her once I held her hand hugged her cuddled but never kissed because I wanted to wait till...
    PabloBoyyyy PabloBoyyyy 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    My weight loss struggle began with the birth of my first child in 2009, I didn't gain an obscene amount of weight during the pregnancy; it was after. I suffered severely from...
    readum16 readum16 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2014