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I Have Never Been Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 279 People

    What 's Lover

     Because  if never been loved your whole life not by family or  friends ,or boyfriends ,co-workers so what's is feeling. And why do I have to gave  600 times the love out to just get one tiny pit back so why why ,so I ...
    chrians312 chrians312 41-45 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    And while I accept that,

    it's just who I am and my life, it doesn't mean that it's not hard sometimes. Tonight is one of those times. I was reading a book that I didn't expect to be a romance but it was anyway. It just opened up this hurt. I'm nearly thirty and I have no idea what an intimate...
    IrisArrow IrisArrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    A Lifetime Without Love

    I am 30-years old and grew up in an abusive home, so my early experiences were ones of neglect and they were lacking in love. I used to hold on to the belief that over time I'd be able to surround myself with loving friends and relationships, and that somehow my relationship...
    indigoblk indigoblk 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Never Felt Love, The Only Person I Thought I Loved Hurt Me.

    Im 15, depressed, lonely and every girl ive liked turned out to be a ***** or a ***** or sometimes both. im a good guy, but i hate that about me because no girl wants the good guy. I find it tough to distiguish with girls with im a push over of just a good guy. Biggest thing i...
    coltonconley coltonconley 13-15, M 16 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    This Is Just Me ...

    Hmm. I seem to be the first one to write here. Ok. Well, I've never been loved. Only 1 person has ever actualy said that they loved me, and it ended out that she only said it as a joke. My family aren't the very affectionate type, but then, it's not that kind of love that I...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 10 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    I was not loved by my own parents-they had no

    interest. I grew up had a family,still no love in sight,even with husband,just marriage of convenience. I suppose i dont know how to love-i was cold to my children -now their love for me is conditional and always comes down to money, never a card or taken out to dinner-never...
    jusme2014 jusme2014 51-55, F Feb 16, 2014

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    I Am A 27 Years Old Woman Who Never Been Loved

    I am so glad to have found this page because i feel i can tell my story without the fear of being known or judge.I am 27 years old and I can honeslty say i have never been love. Even though my situation has a way of making me quite sad sometime, I am bless to say that it has...
    sweetey1ca sweetey1ca 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    The Unlovable

    I know love. I love my family i love my friends but I have never been in love with a guy. And I assume none have loved me seens as none have told me they do. Ive always thought it didnt bother me. Id just tell myself the reason I havnt fallen in love is because I havnt met the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 1, 2013

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    Lonely

    I have never been loved. I'm 21 and already so many of my friends are getting engaged and married and I just feel like I am lightyears behind them. I lie about it because it is embarrassing, so none of my friends know.
    minnisun minnisun 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    I Am Becoming Desperate

    I have never been loved by a man---I am now turning 40.. I loved a lot hoping that one day I will get the love that I need... Recently I fell in love with a younger guy.. I guess the feelings he shared with in the beginning was out of sympathy.. now he never texts me back or...
    needtolove needtolove 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    I Am A 26 Year Old Man Who Has Never Been Loved Or Admired By Any Woman

    Hi there im danny and i am a young man, 26 years old actually and i am a very generous, friendly, caring and kind person and i am very compassionate and considerate with everyone, but for some reason neither life nor love never really treated me like such in return. i also...
    rainforestshadowspirit rainforestshadowspirit 26-30 8 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    I've been in foster care

    since I was two. Never stay anywhere long and I shut people out. I know the exact number of times that another person has hugged me.
    Lewshun Lewshun 16-17, M Dec 4, 2013

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    Never Been Loved For Real

    I have always known that my mother doesn't quite loves me. She might have cared for me when I was little, specially due to my health problems. My dad has always been emotionally unreachable, never actually showing his true feelings, I mean, he somewhat cares but perhaps never in...
    loneguy loneguy 31-35 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    Will I ever be loved?

    Twenties and never had a friend or boyfriend. Not even a kiss
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 5 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Some People Just Are Not Supposed To Be Loved...

    Eversince I can remember I have had the feeling that I'm not supposed to be with anyone. I'm 30 now and up until this point I have never had a 'serious' relationship and no-one has ever told me that they love me (apart from friends/family). I've been fine with it and honestly I...
    SamWhatever SamWhatever 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    It's a little past midnight,

    and here I am thinking about a conversation I had with someone earlier. He pm'd me and asked, what one thing I really want in life. My answer was to be loved. I never felt it. I have no idea what love feels like in return. When I tell you, I love you, it's from my heart...
    CowboysAndAngels CowboysAndAngels 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    Giver Not Receiver

    I know what it's like to love someone but I don't know what it's like to be loved back.   
    left14 left14 46-50 4 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    Just Now....

    It JUST hit me…. Literally NOW… I have never been loved No one has ever said they loved me (other than family) I’ve never had a serious relationship. I’ve had relationships.. if yah know what I mean… but no one exclusively. No one to hold me close during a slow song...
    MavDay MavDay 41-45 10 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    I Have Only Been Asked Out Once In My Life

    and the guy was gay and just trying to have a cover.. yeah i joke about it and laugh but it really does get me anger me that no one else has ever asked me out....
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    Is 49 Too Late To Find Love?

    I don't believe anyone has ever loved me in a romantic sense. I was married for 15 years to a man who never once said "I love you." I have lots of friends and two wonderful daughters. I am involved in my community. I date. I have been in relationships. I don't really know if I...
    Writergirl27 Writergirl27 46-50 Aug 24, 2012

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    And will never be. I hide from people.

    I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved. ever/ :)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2014

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    The Look In His Eyes..

      So, today my grandma was in a therapy session and I went to pick her up, when I made it to the office I saw this guy smiling like an idiot to the secretary while she was writing something. It seems that no matter how many noise there was in the office he wouldn't wake up from...
    EiramZaid EiramZaid 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

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    Never

    i've never had someone telling me "i love you" not even my parents not that they don't love me but they don't tell me things like that , no one fell in love with me (maybe liked me but not love) and i would love to hear those words
    opentalk opentalk 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    I Love, But Never Seem To Be Loved

    I've never been loved. It's rather odd admitting that online. I suppose that is the beauty of anonymity. My father was abusive when i was very young, and i am now convinced that he is a sociopath. He is unable to feel emotions toward other people, even his children. My mother was...
    Delilah00021 Delilah00021 18-21 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Tired Of Loneliness

    I JUST LOST ANOTHER BF TODAY N IM BACK TO THIS LONELY FEELING.... N THIS PAIN I KNOW SO WELL WHERE I JUST FEEL LIKE I WAS EVEN WANTED IN SITUATION.. AS OF RIGHT IM JUST SO DONE WITH LOVE.. WEN AM I GOING TO HAVE MY DAY WEN AM I GOING TO FEEL LOVED FRM SOMEONE.. WHY DO I HAVE TO...
    Neverloved89 Neverloved89 22-25 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    I like my therapist but am afraid to tell her

    cause she might stop seeing me.
    TheRealSpecialK TheRealSpecialK 36-40, M Mar 8, 2014

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    Am I the only person

    who feels like God forgot to love them???
    h3art4luv h3art4luv 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    I Never Been Loved By A Man....

    I have a good amount of people in my life that love me. God loves me, my family loves me, and my friends love me. However, I have never been loved by a man and I have never been in a relationship. I used to think about it all of the time and the fact I have never been loved by a...
    krs89 krs89 22-25 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    The truth is I have never been in love. I'm in HighSchool and it sucks not having a girlfriend, I'm 17 and I'm a junior. I can't wait till high school is over and done with
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    18 and have never even been kissed. I'm embarrassed about this kiss thing, not so much the never being in a relationship or being a virgin thing. Somedays I want to just get it...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I feel like society pushes dating at the earliest and I feel that it makes kids like me who have never dated feel worse because of being single and such. I've never done all of the...
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32 16-17, M a week ago

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    when I tell girl that I'm interested in that I never been in a relationship before . They become less interested in me and disappear.
    lmt1828 lmt1828 26-30, M Mar 5

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    i have too been never in a relationship str8male .love to talk to someone who really wanna fall in love wid me
    ashu15 ashu15 22-25, M Mar 15

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    I can get down about myself sometimes. I feel excluded, sort of lonely. I want a boyfriend but at the same time I don't. I'm afraid. I'm afraid of new experiences, new people. I'm...
    elley1 elley1 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I have a lot of mixed feelings when I mention this to people. You know, you always get the response of "How can that be? You are so pretty!" or the most frequent, "You will be soon...
    HopeInConstruction HopeInConstruction 18-21, F Mar 16

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    Nope...so not much to say on the subject. I have had boyfriends but too ill to go out. All I can imagine is I guess I would find it nerve wracking.
    stargirl58 stargirl58 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    This is me. I'm always a person who I tell myself , "I won't care what ppl think and Imma get myself a guy or a girl (I'm bi), and we gonna talk, kiss, cuddle, make love, go out to...
    wondering4me wondering4me 18-21, M Mar 11

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    I am in 8th grade and most of my friends have dated or have a girlfriend, what should I do or how do I become friends with a girl?
    FedExPizza FedExPizza 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's not that I don't want one, it's that I'm quite picky about who I want to have a relationship with. I'm a hopeless romantic, so I kind of expect Prince Charming to fall out of...
    AngelicDarkness AngelicDarkness 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's a dream of mine but I want to be with someone who is like me. I'm so unique that it's hard to find a girl like me. I find so many shallow girls who want me to be taller or...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 8

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    all gonna change tonight LOL :'D haha I hope I don't find it weird.
    WhatChrisDid4Love WhatChrisDid4Love 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    I'm not sure if it's more painful or embarrassing...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15