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I Have Never Been Loved

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    I Am A 26 Year Old Man Who Has Never Been Loved Or Admired By Any Woman

    Hi there im danny and i am a young man, 26 years old actually and i am a very generous, friendly, caring and kind person and i am very compassionate and considerate with everyone, but for some reason neither life nor love never really treated me like such in return. i also...
    rainforestshadowspirit rainforestshadowspirit 26-30 8 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    I've been in foster care

    since I was two. Never stay anywhere long and I shut people out. I know the exact number of times that another person has hugged me.
    Lewshun Lewshun 16-17, M Dec 4, 2013

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    I Never Been Loved By A Man....

    I have a good amount of people in my life that love me. God loves me, my family loves me, and my friends love me. However, I have never been loved by a man and I have never been in a relationship. I used to think about it all of the time and the fact I have never been loved by a...
    krs89 krs89 22-25 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Tired Of Loneliness

    I JUST LOST ANOTHER BF TODAY N IM BACK TO THIS LONELY FEELING.... N THIS PAIN I KNOW SO WELL WHERE I JUST FEEL LIKE I WAS EVEN WANTED IN SITUATION.. AS OF RIGHT IM JUST SO DONE WITH LOVE.. WEN AM I GOING TO HAVE MY DAY WEN AM I GOING TO FEEL LOVED FRM SOMEONE.. WHY DO I HAVE TO...
    Neverloved89 Neverloved89 22-25 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    The Unlovable

    I know love. I love my family i love my friends but I have never been in love with a guy. And I assume none have loved me seens as none have told me they do. Ive always thought it didnt bother me. Id just tell myself the reason I havnt fallen in love is because I havnt met the...
    misindecisive misindecisive 18-21, F Dec 1, 2013

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    I Am Becoming Desperate

    I have never been loved by a man---I am now turning 40.. I loved a lot hoping that one day I will get the love that I need... Recently I fell in love with a younger guy.. I guess the feelings he shared with in the beginning was out of sympathy.. now he never texts me back or...
    needtolove needtolove 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    What 's Lover

     Because  if never been loved your whole life not by family or  friends ,or boyfriends ,co-workers so what's is feeling. And why do I have to gave  600 times the love out to just get one tiny pit back so why why ,so I ...
    chrians312 chrians312 41-45 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    Just Now....

    It JUST hit me…. Literally NOW… I have never been loved No one has ever said they loved me (other than family) I’ve never had a serious relationship. I’ve had relationships.. if yah know what I mean… but no one exclusively. No one to hold me close during a slow song...
    MavDay MavDay 41-45 10 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    Hey guys, sorry but I just have to get this out.

    I am usually optimistic but I can't take it anymore. There is too much on my mind and my brain is about to explode. So I would describe myself as a romantic. I see beauty where most people don't. I make connections in my past and my present and in other people's lives and see...
    Anticloud Anticloud 18-21, M 1 Response May 23

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    The Look In His Eyes..

      So, today my grandma was in a therapy session and I went to pick her up, when I made it to the office I saw this guy smiling like an idiot to the secretary while she was writing something. It seems that no matter how many noise there was in the office he wouldn't wake up from...
    EiramZaid EiramZaid 18-21, F Mar 7, 2012

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    I Love, But Never Seem To Be Loved

    I've never been loved. It's rather odd admitting that online. I suppose that is the beauty of anonymity. My father was abusive when i was very young, and i am now convinced that he is a sociopath. He is unable to feel emotions toward other people, even his children. My mother was...
    Delilah00021 Delilah00021 18-21 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I like my therapist but am afraid to tell her

    cause she might stop seeing me.
    TheRealSpecialK TheRealSpecialK 31-35, M Mar 8

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    Never

    i've never had someone telling me "i love you" not even my parents not that they don't love me but they don't tell me things like that , no one fell in love with me (maybe liked me but not love) and i would love to hear those words
    opentalk opentalk 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Some People Just Are Not Supposed To Be Loved...

    Eversince I can remember I have had the feeling that I'm not supposed to be with anyone. I'm 30 now and up until this point I have never had a 'serious' relationship and no-one has ever told me that they love me (apart from friends/family). I've been fine with it and honestly I...
    SamWhatever SamWhatever 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    I Have Only Been Asked Out Once In My Life

    and the guy was gay and just trying to have a cover.. yeah i joke about it and laugh but it really does get me anger me that no one else has ever asked me out....
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    Will I ever be loved?

    Twenties and never had a friend or boyfriend. Not even a kiss
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Never Been Loved For Real

    I have always known that my mother doesn't quite loves me. She might have cared for me when I was little, specially due to my health problems. My dad has always been emotionally unreachable, never actually showing his true feelings, I mean, he somewhat cares but perhaps never in...
    loneguy loneguy 31-35 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    But I'M Only 16....

    Yeah, so you're probably thinking, she's only 16 and she's got her whole life ahead of her, she doesn't know what she's talking about... I guess you'd kind of be right.. I'm 16 and have never been loved, never loved, nor do I believe in love. How can you believe in something...
    SaharaD SaharaD 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Lonely

    I have never been loved. I'm 21 and already so many of my friends are getting engaged and married and I just feel like I am lightyears behind them. I lie about it because it is embarrassing, so none of my friends know.
    minnisun minnisun 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Giver Not Receiver

    I know what it's like to love someone but I don't know what it's like to be loved back.   
    left14 left14 46-50 4 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    This Is Just Me ...

    Hmm. I seem to be the first one to write here. Ok. Well, I've never been loved. Only 1 person has ever actualy said that they loved me, and it ended out that she only said it as a joke. My family aren't the very affectionate type, but then, it's not that kind of love that I...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 10 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    I was not loved by my own parents-they had no

    interest. I grew up had a family,still no love in sight,even with husband,just marriage of convenience. I suppose i dont know how to love-i was cold to my children -now their love for me is conditional and always comes down to money, never a card or taken out to dinner-never...
    jusme2014 jusme2014 51-55, F Feb 16

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    I Am A 27 Years Old Woman Who Never Been Loved

    I am so glad to have found this page because i feel i can tell my story without the fear of being known or judge.I am 27 years old and I can honeslty say i have never been love. Even though my situation has a way of making me quite sad sometime, I am bless to say that it has...
    sweetey1ca sweetey1ca 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    Never Felt Love, The Only Person I Thought I Loved Hurt Me.

    Im 15, depressed, lonely and every girl ive liked turned out to be a ***** or a ***** or sometimes both. im a good guy, but i hate that about me because no girl wants the good guy. I find it tough to distiguish with girls with im a push over of just a good guy. Biggest thing i...
    coltonconley coltonconley 13-15, M 16 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    A Lifetime Without Love

    I am 30-years old and grew up in an abusive home, so my early experiences were ones of neglect and they were lacking in love. I used to hold on to the belief that over time I'd be able to surround myself with loving friends and relationships, and that somehow my relationship...
    indigoblk indigoblk 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Is 49 Too Late To Find Love?

    I don't believe anyone has ever loved me in a romantic sense. I was married for 15 years to a man who never once said "I love you." I have lots of friends and two wonderful daughters. I am involved in my community. I date. I have been in relationships. I don't really know if I...
    Writergirl27 Writergirl27 46-50 Aug 24, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I have never been in a romantic relationship, nor do I ever plan on it. I just don't have time for the heartache! I am completely happy with this decision, but the only reason I...
    WAWM WAWM 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 20 years old and i have never been in a relationship. I know i'm not very good looking or smooth talking cool guy but i do respect women and treat them good. I have had...
    mrh214 mrh214 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    ...it's weird I'm 17 and have never been on a date (": I'm not even that hard to please! Like take me to f**king KFC for all I care :') I'd just love to go on a date
    sawahdwaine sawahdwaine 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm 16 and have never been kissed. My friends always talk about the guys they hook up with, the ones they make out with, their fling of the day. I'm left out. Guys don't have an...
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I have never been in love x_X ... When is it happening LOL? :/
    starmel94 starmel94 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I would like to know if it is possible for me to write a romance. I consider myself a writer. I write a lot, and I have never had a class or anything, but there have been people...
    beaisforbliss beaisforbliss 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Nope.. Never, I use to think something was wrong with me but now I know that something is. I can remember playing on the playground with a cute boy and him constantly going Ew when...
    FireAndDesire FireAndDesire 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm not the type of girl to complain about being "forever alone". However, lately that's what I'm genuinely concerned about. I am in a group of very tight-knit friends who have all...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm not the type of girl to complain about being "forever alone". However, lately that's what I'm genuinely concerned about. I am in a group of very tight-knit friends who have all...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm turning 16 in a few days and i never been on a date or had a boyfriend sad right?
    TaylorsierraWilson TaylorsierraWilson 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I've never been to a Disney park in general but I would love to go someday it's in my bucket list when my sister went she got me light up Mickey Mouse ears with my name on them I...
    jwhood jwhood 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I don't know if it's weird But I've never been in a relationship as well..not that I never wanted to but I haven't asked a girl out before..and I wish I knew how to!!!
    gautamgk gautamgk 18-21, M Jul 11

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    Lol, woot woot. Club never been kissed, who's with me? XD
    ZeeBrah ZeeBrah 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yes, I've never been in a relationship.. There are times some guys and one girl confessed to me. But I've rejected them all. I support lesbians but I'm VERY VERY straight. I don't...
    IdioticBear IdioticBear 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I am 29, its getting silly for me. I understand i have always been shy, always had a hard time socializing because of my lack of experience. But i have tried different things. Yes...
    Chrisu28 Chrisu28 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    Never have never will. With the society is love is pointless.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M Jul 7

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    I have played football and boxed with my buddies with gloves on but I have never had to defend myself with my fists. I stay out of other people business and I do all that I can not...
    slait slait 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I had a peck in fifth grade but I have never had a real kiss
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    i have never kissed anyone..........i am waiting for my first liplock and my gf........hope it would be a greatday when i find her and when i kiss her
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M Jul 13

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    Going along with the fact that I am a virgin by choice, I have never had a girlfriend. In high school my mind was on my future, and now? I don't know really... Honestly I've gotten...
    badgerman42 badgerman42 22-25, M Jul 13

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    I'm 34 years old and NO ONE has ever really asked me out on a date in real life. Of course I have dated. I have even married, and now I'm separating. I dated people I met online...
    anginsan99 anginsan99 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Looking back at my life, I'm very surprised I never made the "mistake" of getting married and/or having kids too early on in life. I call it a mistake because, for me, it would...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I almost went Sunday. I had been stuck behind this semi on 331 in lower Alabama for quite a while. Every time the road added a passing lane, he would stay in the left lane, not...
    System113 System113 18-21, M 2 days ago

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