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I Have Never Been Loved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 253 People

    Never Felt Love, The Only Person I Thought I Loved Hurt Me.

    Im 15, depressed, lonely and every girl ive liked turned out to be a ***** or a ***** or sometimes both. im a good guy, but i hate that about me because no girl wants the good guy. I find it tough to distiguish with girls with im a push over of just a good guy. Biggest thing i...
    coltonconley coltonconley 13-15, M 16 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    The Unlovable

    I know love. I love my family i love my friends but I have never been in love with a guy. And I assume none have loved me seens as none have told me they do. Ive always thought it didnt bother me. Id just tell myself the reason I havnt fallen in love is because I havnt met the...
    misindecisive misindecisive 22-25, F Dec 1, 2013

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    This Is Just Me ...

    Hmm. I seem to be the first one to write here. Ok. Well, I've never been loved. Only 1 person has ever actualy said that they loved me, and it ended out that she only said it as a joke. My family aren't the very affectionate type, but then, it's not that kind of love that I...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 10 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Just Now....

    It JUST hit me…. Literally NOW… I have never been loved No one has ever said they loved me (other than family) I’ve never had a serious relationship. I’ve had relationships.. if yah know what I mean… but no one exclusively. No one to hold me close during a slow song...
    MavDay MavDay 41-45 10 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    I was not loved by my own parents-they had no

    interest. I grew up had a family,still no love in sight,even with husband,just marriage of convenience. I suppose i dont know how to love-i was cold to my children -now their love for me is conditional and always comes down to money, never a card or taken out to dinner-never...
    jusme2014 jusme2014 51-55, F Feb 16

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    Tired Of Loneliness

    I JUST LOST ANOTHER BF TODAY N IM BACK TO THIS LONELY FEELING.... N THIS PAIN I KNOW SO WELL WHERE I JUST FEEL LIKE I WAS EVEN WANTED IN SITUATION.. AS OF RIGHT IM JUST SO DONE WITH LOVE.. WEN AM I GOING TO HAVE MY DAY WEN AM I GOING TO FEEL LOVED FRM SOMEONE.. WHY DO I HAVE TO...
    Neverloved89 Neverloved89 22-25 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Giver Not Receiver

    I know what it's like to love someone but I don't know what it's like to be loved back.   
    left14 left14 46-50 4 Responses Oct 7, 2008

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    A Lifetime Without Love

    I am 30-years old and grew up in an abusive home, so my early experiences were ones of neglect and they were lacking in love. I used to hold on to the belief that over time I'd be able to surround myself with loving friends and relationships, and that somehow my relationship...
    indigoblk indigoblk 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I've been in foster care

    since I was two. Never stay anywhere long and I shut people out. I know the exact number of times that another person has hugged me.
    Lewshun Lewshun 16-17, M Dec 4, 2013

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    I like my therapist but am afraid to tell her

    cause she might stop seeing me.
    TheRealSpecialK TheRealSpecialK 36-40, M Mar 8

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    The Look In His Eyes..

      So, today my grandma was in a therapy session and I went to pick her up, when I made it to the office I saw this guy smiling like an idiot to the secretary while she was writing something. It seems that no matter how many noise there was in the office he wouldn't wake up from...
    EiramZaid EiramZaid 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

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    I Am A 26 Year Old Man Who Has Never Been Loved Or Admired By Any Woman

    Hi there im danny and i am a young man, 26 years old actually and i am a very generous, friendly, caring and kind person and i am very compassionate and considerate with everyone, but for some reason neither life nor love never really treated me like such in return. i also...
    rainforestshadowspirit rainforestshadowspirit 26-30 8 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    I Have Only Been Asked Out Once In My Life

    and the guy was gay and just trying to have a cover.. yeah i joke about it and laugh but it really does get me anger me that no one else has ever asked me out....
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    Lonely

    I have never been loved. I'm 21 and already so many of my friends are getting engaged and married and I just feel like I am lightyears behind them. I lie about it because it is embarrassing, so none of my friends know.
    minnisun minnisun 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 18, 2010

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    Is 49 Too Late To Find Love?

    I don't believe anyone has ever loved me in a romantic sense. I was married for 15 years to a man who never once said "I love you." I have lots of friends and two wonderful daughters. I am involved in my community. I date. I have been in relationships. I don't really know if I...
    Writergirl27 Writergirl27 46-50 Aug 24, 2012

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    Never

    i've never had someone telling me "i love you" not even my parents not that they don't love me but they don't tell me things like that , no one fell in love with me (maybe liked me but not love) and i would love to hear those words
    opentalk opentalk 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Some People Just Are Not Supposed To Be Loved...

    Eversince I can remember I have had the feeling that I'm not supposed to be with anyone. I'm 30 now and up until this point I have never had a 'serious' relationship and no-one has ever told me that they love me (apart from friends/family). I've been fine with it and honestly I...
    SamWhatever SamWhatever 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    I Am A 27 Years Old Woman Who Never Been Loved

    I am so glad to have found this page because i feel i can tell my story without the fear of being known or judge.I am 27 years old and I can honeslty say i have never been love. Even though my situation has a way of making me quite sad sometime, I am bless to say that it has...
    sweetey1ca sweetey1ca 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    But I'M Only 16....

    Yeah, so you're probably thinking, she's only 16 and she's got her whole life ahead of her, she doesn't know what she's talking about... I guess you'd kind of be right.. I'm 16 and have never been loved, never loved, nor do I believe in love. How can you believe in something...
    SaharaD SaharaD 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    I Never Been Loved By A Man....

    I have a good amount of people in my life that love me. God loves me, my family loves me, and my friends love me. However, I have never been loved by a man and I have never been in a relationship. I used to think about it all of the time and the fact I have never been loved by a...
    krs89 krs89 22-25 2 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Never Been Loved For Real

    I have always known that my mother doesn't quite loves me. She might have cared for me when I was little, specially due to my health problems. My dad has always been emotionally unreachable, never actually showing his true feelings, I mean, he somewhat cares but perhaps never in...
    loneguy loneguy 31-35 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    What 's Lover

     Because  if never been loved your whole life not by family or  friends ,or boyfriends ,co-workers so what's is feeling. And why do I have to gave  600 times the love out to just get one tiny pit back so why why ,so I ...
    chrians312 chrians312 41-45 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 17

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    And will never be. I hide from people.

    I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved. ever/ :)
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I Love, But Never Seem To Be Loved

    I've never been loved. It's rather odd admitting that online. I suppose that is the beauty of anonymity. My father was abusive when i was very young, and i am now convinced that he is a sociopath. He is unable to feel emotions toward other people, even his children. My mother was...
    Delilah00021 Delilah00021 18-21 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Will I ever be loved?

    Twenties and never had a friend or boyfriend. Not even a kiss
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 Responses May 15

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    I Am Becoming Desperate

    I have never been loved by a man---I am now turning 40.. I loved a lot hoping that one day I will get the love that I need... Recently I fell in love with a younger guy.. I guess the feelings he shared with in the beginning was out of sympathy.. now he never texts me back or...
    needtolove needtolove 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2013

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    i have never been in a real relationship with anyone. i have always been insecure, and i have trouble meeting new people. Probably becuase i have bpd. also introverted. ive never...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I have completed 26 years of my life and I never had any relationship with anyone. Also, I have never been in any sexual relationship with anyone either. I am happy for myself as...
    Deepak2J Deepak2J 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have never been in a fight but I have seen fights before.
    readerleader readerleader 22-25, F Nov 14

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    So I haven't had an actual girlfriend since I was in 7th grade, and how we met was that my friend back then set us up on a kind of blind date. Two weeks later we went out again on...
    Dembubble Dembubble 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I think there are many reasons why I've never been in a relationship... Mainly because I'm always afraid of how it's going to turn out, or how much I will change once I'm in one...
    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I've only kissed someone once sober and it was a peck on the lips. I have never kissed anybody passionately or intensely other than when I have been pissed drunk and don't remember...
    kleox7x kleox7x 18-21, F Oct 26

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    I’ve never been kissed and I see my friend kiss her boyfriend almost everyday. I don’t want to say anything since it feels like I’m the only one out there who hasn't.
    princess9800 princess9800 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 25

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    I'm almost 17 and I've never been kissed, had a boyfriend or girlfriend, or even had someone show interest in me. As a result of this(along with a few other issues), I've developed...
    libbyizard libbyizard 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 25

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    I've never been in a relationship or even been on a date, probably due to confidence. So I thought "**** it" and ended up going out with a girl I liked a few times, we talked a lot...
    robbo1806 robbo1806 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yeah I never been in a proper one, don't really see the point if I'm not going to marry them, you get in a relationship with someone at a young age you setting yourself up for...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Been dating this guy for almost 18 months. Never been on an actual date.
    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I never been on a actually date that last 3 hours. When I go on dates it last about 1 hour then we leave each other. Kiss and say goodbye I want to go on a date that would last 4...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've never been in love but it's fine by me. I'm still young and certainly am not prepared to waste my time by chasing boys who have yet to fully form their minds. Instead I intend...
    Livinglife95 Livinglife95 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    is it just me or have others been in the same shoes as me never being in a proper relationship???
    jaimz jaimz 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yep. I am that loud and funny girl who everyone automatically assumes must be in a relationship. I am walking neon sign of all that is an extrovert. I have been on dates,flings...
    filledspaces filledspaces 26-30, F Nov 5

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    Engaged but never fiscally wed.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Cold yes. Hot almost. Cool never.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I dream alot about this town off the highway. by the scary water. there is a casino and water park. It has a downtown in the valley with thin streets and stores very close together...
    Lungmyster Lungmyster 41-45, F Oct 28

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    All my friends have been kissed yet i have not and that gets to me sometimes.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 13-15, F Nov 9

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    I'm 28 years old, and haven't even had a proper relationship. Allthough I absolutely hate being single, I can't be in a long term relationship with someone I'm not in love with.
    NOTtheMessiah NOTtheMessiah 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 25

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    Sometimes when I see someone staring at me in public, I think, are they looking at me because they like me, or because they are thinking, wow, this girl is ugly. I don't get how...
    IntrovertedHuman IntrovertedHuman 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 2

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    Around 8 hours of daylight! And that does not include the sun. Just clouds... Have not seen the sun for a week and a half! Was there a Northic god called Vitaminus D-ius? I am...