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I Have Never Been Married

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    I Hope To Get Married Someday , But !

    In fact this Idea scared me so much , I can't afford that I am going to share my life and bed with a woman every day , I know it is so wonderful to sleep with a woman in the same bed , but for me not every day , especially if the love disappeared and it happens ( as I have...
    listenup listenup 26-30, M 7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    And I'm So Ok With That!

    I'm 50, female, been engaged twice and in three very long term relationships, the last ending two years ago. I've really never felt any pressure to get married (except from my mom!) I'm a professional in academia, love my job, and have great friends of all ages. Whenever I...
    bathkamikaze bathkamikaze 46-50 3 Responses Jun 14, 2008

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    Someday My Prince Will Come

    I've never been married but I want too, especially if God has it planned. I pray for the right moment, right man... I dream in the life of my everyday I will captivate his attention with a inner and outer beauty that shines. I one of few, but I want a interacial relationship...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 24, 2012

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    No Reason!

    I haven't found the right guy yet that's all!!! I wish I could find him but I have no time during the week to go anywhere!!
    Bettyboop1983 Bettyboop1983 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2009

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    Nope

    No I have never been married but that doesn't mean I don't want to be.  I think I do.  Eventually.  I am not in a real big hurry.  I've heard horror stories! 
    Valentine Valentine 26-30, F Dec 3, 2007

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    It's Just Not That Important

    I've never been married but have been in long term relationships and have two sons. I've been proposed to four times mind but never actualy got round to getting married, never did a thing about it. I guess I just never wanted it that much. I never had that dream of a big white...
    Eggyegg Eggyegg 46-50, F Jul 30, 2011

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    What Is Sweet Isnt Always Tasty

    after filing for a divorce there was this guy i became friends with to convince myself that i wasnt donna allow depression or my ex to hold me down.the sweeties white guy i ever met.he fixed my car when it was broken,and even let me use his car to take my son to doctors...
    ccstruggledaily ccstruggledaily 36-40, F Mar 29, 2012

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    But I Wanna Be Someday.

    I long to find a girl, who actually likes me for once. Ask her out and actually get a yes. Like turns to really like, and really like turns to love. Then propose and get a big "Yes!". And then finally, get married. Sounds easy, but its not.
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M Jun 4, 2012

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    Not Yet...

    But I can't wait! I am praying to be married within the next ten years!
    TiPoupon TiPoupon 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2008

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    Nope!!!

    But someday I'm going to get married, I hope. I'd make someone a damn good wife and best friend.
    Vbot123 Vbot123 31-35, F Aug 4, 2013

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    And I don't plan on it any time soon!

    It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the person they are married to. Then what is the point?? It confuses me and its not something that I look forward to as much as I did when...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Odd One Out

    I used to think I'd get married. It's just something that happens, one of those things that society seems to expect of everyone. Deep down, I like the idea. I want the security and stability. I long to know that someone else could be that committed to me. I've still got time...
    Alopex Alopex 26-30 Dec 29, 2011

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    It's Just Not That Important to me

    I've never been married but have been in long term relationships and have two sons. I've been proposed to four times mind but never actualy got round to getting married, never did a thing about it. I guess I just never wanted it that much. I never had that dream of a big white...
    Eggyegg Eggyegg 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2011

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    I never been married

    and I have faith that before I turn 35 I will be idk I just think it will happen ..
    skittlrlz skittlrlz 31-35 1 Response Jan 31

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    What Is Sweet Isnt Always Tasty

    after filing for a divorce there was this guy i became friends with to convince myself that i wasnt donna allow depression or my ex to hold me down.the sweeties white guy i ever met.he fixed my car when it was broken,and even let me use his car to take my son to doctors...
    ccstruggledaily ccstruggledaily 36-40, F Mar 29, 2012

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    I Have Learnt to Accept My Situation.

     I am 54 now, been through some really rough times over the years and come through the other end. I am quite spiritual in my thinking and so am content with whatever life throws at me.  I have had 2 long-term relationships and 4 grown-up children and 6 grand-children...
    Undella Undella 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2008

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    Destined to Be a Cat Lady?

    i am 36 years old, have two kids, but have never been married.  i have been engaged; been close to marriage more than a couple times, but never tied the knot.  now that i've gotten older, i realize that almost everyone around me is married or has been married. and here...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2008

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    Duh

    Well, for anyone who's ever met me, this has to be one of the least surprising things about me. May not be very surprising for anyone else either.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 3, 2012

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    Single

    I came close to marriage once but it wasn't to be. I have no regrets.
    RitJaCa RitJaCa 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    And Never Will Be

    I don't see the point in marriage. Why would you need someone else's approval? A lot of marriages end badly and there is that extra drama about it.If you truly love and trust someone and he/she loves and trusts you what more could you ask for?
    MadMuffin MadMuffin 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2011

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    ...but I've Proposed To Many Times..

    Well, today I was at work and my boss (whose my grandma) isn't here, so as well as being the secretary, I'm also the recruiter if need be. So, I got in this morning and called all the appointments to get them rescheduled for Monday and there was one without a number, so I just...
    beautifulbaby069 beautifulbaby069 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    ... This Is What My Parents Think, Anyway! :)

    Despite the name of this forum, I have been married.  I was married to a terrific guy for five awesome years, and can honestly state that we never had a single fight in all that time.  There was no jealousy, no drama, no discord whatsoever, really.  We were the...
    RedRover RedRover 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2009

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    My girlfriend is 37 and dying to meet a decent

    man to marry. Where are they all??
    itemember1221 itemember1221 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Never

    I have never been married. But, I am still young. And will someday find the man of my Dreams!
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F Jun 11, 2008

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    I Have Never Been Married.

    I have not been Married, but maybe someday that will happen.
    more2lifethenthis more2lifethenthis 46-50, M Dec 8, 2011

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    I've Never Been Married

    I haven't been married. A few females have proposed to me when I wasn't ready. For quite awhile I wasn't sure if I want to be married. Marriage isn't really important. Hope to get married though but there's no hurry for it. Some say I should be in a hurry cause I'm 61
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 1 Response Nov 18, 2011

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    I have been with my lover

    for over six years. We have a little boy now, he's about 19 months old. I think I will never ever be married. My heart sinks at the thought of it..I want to feel that wedding gown on my skin and be proud wife. It's been annoying me for the past year. I've been engaged for two...
    bunz610 bunz610 26-30, F Apr 12

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    I have had two rings on my finger

    but they both have been returned. It's not that I have anything against marriage. Maybe someday.....
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F Jan 28

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    Probably For The Best

    I've been engaged twice (to the same man!) and was in a long-term committed relationship with Fey.  Being a same-gender pair, I couldn't have legally married her, though at one time I would have.  And Dave... *sigh*  Stuff just never worked out with him and me.  I finally...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2011

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    Is It Even Real?

    I'm a woman in her thirties who has never been married...I've never even been in love. I've been asked several times, but I knew it wasn't right. Maybe true love isn't in the cards just because I want it...maybe wanting isn't enough. Its just not out there.
    LaVidaSombra LaVidaSombra 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    Don't Want to

    I don't want to get married. This doesn't mean I want to stay single for the rest of my life, but I don't think this little piece of paper means that much in a relationship. And if she wants a wedding in church with a white dress, that is exactly what we'll do. And a ring on...
    rocker6346 rocker6346 18-21, M Jun 12, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
    vwilliams69 vwilliams69 41-45, F Apr 2

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    I am 18 and I have never been kissed. This is probably a big shocker to people since they are always telling me how pretty or cute I am. I guess there's just something wrong with...
    Juliette18 Juliette18 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm 24 and i have never been kissed. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic... Meaning i'm feeling hopeless about finding romance. Haha. But seriously i'm both the romantic and the...
    mynameisdreamer mynameisdreamer 22-25, F 16 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Well I mean I have, but it was a game, and we were like 6 or 7. I didn't even really know what kissing was then. So I don't count that at all. I have never been kissed by a lover...
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    They say some girls you take home to mom, some girls you just take home. I'm 45 and have never gotten a marriage proposal. I finally put a "Do not disturb" sign on my pu**y and...
    sacredfire222 sacredfire222 41-45 34 mins ago

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    im almost 17 years old and never been kissed does any one else find that pathetic
    bloodincubus bloodincubus 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have to appear in court today from a car accident I had last month. I have never appeared in front of a judge before. I wrecked after driving on icy roads. I wasn't speeding or...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    i'm only 15 so i'm not too worried about not having been in a relationship yet. but it really bothers me that when people ask about my dating life and i say that i've never dated...
    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I really want to experience this since I never have before. I've never had a mutual bond with someone in which we feel strongly for each other. I am jealous of other people who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have not ever been told by someone as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    It's strange i have loved but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    So the only ones who have called me pretty are my friends and they said it just because I was talking about it. There was never a time when someone saw me and said "you look great...
    VayaKilljoy VayaKilljoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I've never had that feeling no girl wants to kiss me they can do so much better than me
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I wish I could have a kiss on the lips even tho I never have all I have had was a kiss on the cheek 😩😄
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    technically im sure weve all been kissed when were little. ;)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I am 17. I have a boyfriend. He has been my boyfriend for six months now. Still, no signs of a kiss. I feel like a failure, that my first kiss is at an old age.
    LostDreamz LostDreamz 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    People keep telling me, it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's sad. Fourteen and havent had my first kiss, first hug by the opposite sex, held hands with the opposite sex, or a relationship. Girls all around me have at least had their...
    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I've always said I would get my first kiss before I turned 16. I have 4 days.
    mozerellabitch mozerellabitch 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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