I Have Never Been Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 559 People

    Nope

    No I have never been married but that doesn't mean I don't want to be.  I think I do.  Eventually.  I am not in a real big hurry.  I've heard horror stories! 
    Valentine Valentine
    26-30, F
    Dec 3, 2007

    It's Just Not That Important to me

    I've never been married but have been in long term relationships and have two sons. I've been proposed to four times mind but never actualy got round to getting married, never did a thing about it. I guess I just never wanted it that much. I never had that dream of a big white...
    Eggyegg Eggyegg
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2011

    Never

    I have never been married. But, I am still young. And will someday find the man of my Dreams!
    Cynn Cynn
    41-45, F
    Jun 11, 2008

    Someday My Prince Will Come

    I've never been married but I want too, especially if God has it planned. I pray for the right moment, right man... I dream in the life of my everyday I will captivate his attention with a inner and outer beauty that shines. I one of few, but I want a interacial relationship...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 24, 2012

    Listen what´s happened to me: I was married to

    a man, who always left me immediately after marraige for months, then he came back for some weeks and left me again. AFTER my divorce I got the news: My "husband" was already married with another wife in Africa long time before he married me. Conclusion: Although I married I...
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    ... This Is What My Parents Think, Anyway! :)

    Despite the name of this forum, I have been married.  I was married to a terrific guy for five awesome years, and can honestly state that we never had a single fight in all that time.  There was no jealousy, no drama, no discord whatsoever, really.  We were the...
    RedRover RedRover
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2009

    And Never Will Be

    I don't see the point in marriage. Why would you need someone else's approval? A lot of marriages end badly and there is that extra drama about it.If you truly love and trust someone and he/she loves and trusts you what more could you ask for?
    MadMuffin MadMuffin
    22-25, M
    Apr 8, 2011

    I Have Learnt to Accept My Situation.

     I am 54 now, been through some really rough times over the years and come through the other end. I am quite spiritual in my thinking and so am content with whatever life throws at me.  I have had 2 long-term relationships and 4 grown-up children and 6 grand-children...
    Undella Undella
    56-60, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2008

    Don't Want to

    I don't want to get married. This doesn't mean I want to stay single for the rest of my life, but I don't think this little piece of paper means that much in a relationship. And if she wants a wedding in church with a white dress, that is exactly what we'll do. And a ring on...
    rocker6346 rocker6346
    18-21, M
    Jun 12, 2008

    Unlike a ton of people I know I haven't been

    married as of yet. Two of my closest friends are married. I feel like if I was in a much better financial situation than my life has been in over the past several years I would have been married by now. Hopefully my Mrs. Right is still out there.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 25, 2015

    Nope!!!

    But someday I'm going to get married, I hope. I'd make someone a damn good wife and best friend.
    Vbot123 Vbot123
    31-35, F
    Aug 4, 2013

    No Reason!

    I haven't found the right guy yet that's all!!! I wish I could find him but I have no time during the week to go anywhere!!
    Bettyboop1983 Bettyboop1983
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2009

    What Is Sweet Isnt Always Tasty

    after filing for a divorce there was this guy i became friends with to convince myself that i wasnt donna allow depression or my ex to hold me down.the sweeties white guy i ever met.he fixed my car when it was broken,and even let me use his car to take my son to doctors...
    ccstruggledaily ccstruggledaily
    36-40, F
    Mar 29, 2012

    I have had two rings on my finger

    but they both have been returned. It's not that I have anything against marriage. Maybe someday.....
    TKD1 TKD1
    51-55, F
    Jan 28, 2014

    Not Yet...

    But I can't wait! I am praying to be married within the next ten years!
    TiPoupon TiPoupon
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2008

    I am 29 years old and I have never been married.

    I got engaged once but we broke it off due to differences. I believe in the institution of marriage and would like to get married to the man I love. I know I will make a good wife and I have the maternal instincts that will make me a good mother. I hope I find that man soon :) I...
    Susana1985 Susana1985
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2014

    And I don't plan on it any time soon!

    It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the person they are married to. Then what is the point?? It confuses me and its not something that I look forward to as much as I did when...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    I have been with my lover

    for over six years. We have a little boy now, he's about 19 months old. I think I will never ever be married. My heart sinks at the thought of it..I want to feel that wedding gown on my skin and be proud wife. It's been annoying me for the past year. I've been engaged for two...
    bunz610 bunz610
    26-30, F
    Apr 12, 2014

    But I Wanna Be Someday.

    I long to find a girl, who actually likes me for once. Ask her out and actually get a yes. Like turns to really like, and really like turns to love. Then propose and get a big "Yes!". And then finally, get married. Sounds easy, but its not.
    DGSteele DGSteele
    22-25, M
    Jun 4, 2012

    I've Never Been Married

    I haven't been married. A few females have proposed to me when I wasn't ready. For quite awhile I wasn't sure if I want to be married. Marriage isn't really important. Hope to get married though but there's no hurry for it. Some say I should be in a hurry cause I'm 61
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    1 Response Nov 18, 2011

    And I'm So Ok With That!

    I'm 50, female, been engaged twice and in three very long term relationships, the last ending two years ago. I've really never felt any pressure to get married (except from my mom!) I'm a professional in academia, love my job, and have great friends of all ages. Whenever I...
    bathkamikaze bathkamikaze
    46-50
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2008

    Is It Even Real?

    I'm a woman in her thirties who has never been married...I've never even been in love. I've been asked several times, but I knew it wasn't right. Maybe true love isn't in the cards just because I want it...maybe wanting isn't enough. Its just not out there.
    LaVidaSombra LaVidaSombra
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2012

    Odd One Out

    I used to think I'd get married. It's just something that happens, one of those things that society seems to expect of everyone. Deep down, I like the idea. I want the security and stability. I long to know that someone else could be that committed to me. I've still got time...
    Alopex Alopex
    26-30
    Dec 29, 2011

    I never been married

    and I have faith that before I turn 35 I will be idk I just think it will happen ..
    skittlrlz skittlrlz
    36-40
    Jan 31, 2014

    And I don't plan on it!

    I love my life the way it is.
    sassythang sassythang
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    What Is Sweet Isnt Always Tasty

    after filing for a divorce there was this guy i became friends with to convince myself that i wasnt donna allow depression or my ex to hold me down.the sweeties white guy i ever met.he fixed my car when it was broken,and even let me use his car to take my son to doctors...
    ccstruggledaily ccstruggledaily
    36-40, F
    Mar 29, 2012

    Married Or Not

    Not that I am complaining. As I look at my life now. I can tell that marriage life is not going to happen or come my way anytime soon. I am not dating or out and about looking. I am happy with my life and I do feel complete even though I dont have that significant other in my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 9, 2012

    I Have Never Been Married.

    I have not been Married, but maybe someday that will happen.
    more2lifethenthis more2lifethenthis
    46-50, M
    Dec 8, 2011

    It's Just Not That Important

    I've never been married but have been in long term relationships and have two sons. I've been proposed to four times mind but never actualy got round to getting married, never did a thing about it. I guess I just never wanted it that much. I never had that dream of a big white...
    Eggyegg Eggyegg
    46-50, F
    Jul 30, 2011

    I Hope To Get Married Someday , But !

    In fact this Idea scared me so much , I can't afford that I am going to share my life and bed with a woman every day , I know it is so wonderful to sleep with a woman in the same bed , but for me not every day , especially if the love disappeared and it happens ( as I have...
    listenup listenup
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

    Destined to Be a Cat Lady?

    i am 36 years old, have two kids, but have never been married.  i have been engaged; been close to marriage more than a couple times, but never tied the knot.  now that i've gotten older, i realize that almost everyone around me is married or has been married. and here...
    trixi trixi
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2008

    Probably For The Best

    I've been engaged twice (to the same man!) and was in a long-term committed relationship with Fey.  Being a same-gender pair, I couldn't have legally married her, though at one time I would have.  And Dave... *sigh*  Stuff just never worked out with him and me.  I finally...
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2011

    Duh

    Well, for anyone who's ever met me, this has to be one of the least surprising things about me. May not be very surprising for anyone else either.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 3, 2012
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 13, 2015

    My girlfriend is 37 and dying to meet a decent

    man to marry. Where are they all??
    itemember1221 itemember1221
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 14, 2014
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