I Have Never Been On A Date

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    ?"I have never been on a date" My family

    and relatives are pushing me to go on a date because among us; sisters, I am the only one left that have never been on a date. I would then asked them, "Oh is it required?" Instead of answering me, they would tease me and tell me that maybe I am a lesbian that's why I've never...
    XxSleepyHeadxX XxSleepyHeadxX
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 14

    I don't really know if I want to,

    but I certainly would like to try. I don't think anyone I have ever met has had an interest in me. As in they want to get to know me better in hopes of becoming more than friends. Sometimes I think it's because I'm South Asian and religious family. all around seemingly...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo
    18-21
    Jun 15, 2015

    I am in 8th grade and most of my friends have

    dated or have a girlfriend, what should I do or how do I become friends with a girl?
    FedExPizza FedExPizza
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    Almost 16 and Still Waiting

    I guess cos I'm younger than some people who have joined this group you might say stuff like 'you've got ages, your still young, don't worry' The truth is it seems like everyone I know has been on a date and I sort of fell like I'm not a proper teenager as I've never been on a...
    mascaratearsx mascaratearsx
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 27, 2008

    How sad is that? Then again,

    people's idea of date is not what it used to be
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    I have never been on a real date!

    I am 21 and had a relationship with BAD BOYS who never really took me out an made me feel special. My ex was i jail for three years an came out an was on probation always brought it up but now i see on his you tube he was out clubbing a night! I don't get it is it me!
    CAMBRIA22 CAMBRIA22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2014

    I went on a date couple weeks ago with this

    amazing girl she remind me of me. She loves games and she is a pretty cool girl :)
    thefilmguy thefilmguy
    22-25, M
    Nov 4, 2015

    Not Ashamed...

    to say I haven't been on a date. Never been kissed. Never talked to a guy of interest. And now I understand why. My life has been prepared to go to a different direction. I'm a singer, rapper, songwriter...I've been writing love songs ever since the 5th grade. I would...
    ladynau ladynau
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 28, 2008

    Is It Me?

    I am 17 years old about to be 18 in a month and i have never been on a date. Everyone tells me i'm attractive, funny, smart, etc... i've had boys interested in me, but they never ask me out. My mother and father say that they're just intimidated, but i don't buy it. I don't know...
    ArabellaBlythe ArabellaBlythe
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2009

    That asked me to meet 3am.

    I said no. He said pls. its the only time He has because in 3 days he will leave. I said why not reschedule it when both of us are free at night time.. Which means to say "no forget our date". He said he really has to see me before his trip back since he is here a business...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2015

    Probly Cause I'm Not Very Trusting of People

    17 year old girl, never been on a date, not sure if I can. my "father" was very abusive so I don't trust many men, I only have 2 men I trust one is my uncle and the other is my cousin. That is pretty sad if you ask me. I never let my guard down so I tends to look mean...
    vetra vetra
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 21, 2008
    Leo231 Leo231
    16-17, M
    5 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    So today I was waiting

    for the city bus at the bus station bc I'm poor. I've been there for about an hour. It's like 100° outside. I'm hot as ****. My hair is all frizzy but at that point I give zero *****. And I'm starving. Im listening to blink 182. Jamming out bc what else should I do. Then this...
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    Not a Real One...not Really!!

    Quite sad I know - but I started dating my ex when I was 18 - he was 32...we met at my sisters wedding - he was best friends with the groom - and we spent all of that day (all 16 hours of it) talking...after that we started going out as part of a group and eventually alone...so...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues
    31-35, F
    17 Responses Sep 27, 2008

    I am confessing that I haven't been on a date

    ever. I am not ashamed or......
    AngelsinDevon AngelsinDevon
    18-21, M
    May 19, 2015
    aliadele aliadele
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    It has never interested me.

    I've never met anyone who made me want to date. I've never felt compelled to go out to bars or sign up for internet dating sites. There are others out there like me, but I still feel weird admitting this.
    TeaAndReading TeaAndReading
    26-30, F
    Aug 7, 2015

    Did I Create This Group?

    I had to check if I created this group, because I wouldn't be surprised if I had, but alas, I didn't. The irony is that there is no story to tell, that is what makes the story. I did try to join a dating site for the first time ever a few months ago, but that has no success what...
    Hairstyle Hairstyle
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 19, 2010

    I'm 18, turning 19 in a couple days.

    I've never been asked out on a date, never been kissed, never really experienced anything more than friendship with a boy. To my knowledge I don't think anyone has ever even liked me. It's starting to be on my mind a lot. Especially with my birthday coming up so soon. I often...
    TheSearchingHeart TheSearchingHeart
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2014

    I feel like society pushes dating at the

    earliest and I feel that it makes kids like me who have never dated feel worse because of being single and such. I've never done all of the above 1. I've never kissed anyone 2. I've never had a girlfriend 3. I've never been on a date I'm 17 at the moment and beg to ask the...
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32
    18-21, M
    Mar 25, 2015

    Never Been Asked On One...

    Sometimes I feel beyond pathetic... After being done with high school, I would've thought that things would be different, but no.Junior High and High school were pure hell for me in about every single department. I was a social misfit, I was bullied alot because of my Weight...
    ArtExceteraESQ ArtExceteraESQ
    22-25, F
    Nov 28, 2012

    Just want one single date,

    one yes just to end the cycle of no dates, anybody?:)
    shutterbg35 shutterbg35
    36-40, M
    Apr 16, 2015

    And Never Want to Go...

    Dating is useless and perfunctory. There's no way I want to waste a dress, heels and perfume on some loser who just wants to "poke and run"... l have purely progressed from friendship to 'relationship' in all cases and it's worked out fine. We do dinner and movies any...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2008

    I've never been on a date.

    I either planned it or it was mutually planned.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 21, 2015
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2015
    kiiittykay kiiittykay
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015
    Catmandeath Catmandeath
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    I have never been on an actual date

    but I might get my first this Friday at the movies to see avengers. I want to date this girl badly so I have been googling date things and really only have time go off what I see sisters boyfriend does. If I fk it up, the only reasonable option for me will becoming a hermit and...
    BenedictJones BenedictJones
    16-17, M
    May 18, 2015

    Never Once In My Life..

    and never want to! Haha! I am so proud and happy to be platonic (look it up if you don't know it--it's a great word). I mean, look at all these sad mopey people mourning the fact that they've never dated, whereas I think making friends and real, deep relationships is so much more...
    Fireclaw Fireclaw
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 7, 2010

    Too Shy

     I've never been on a date there's been many girls that i've wanted to go out with but i've allways been to shy to ask them out, so they've never known how i've felt about them. 
    Gaz7 Gaz7
    51-55, M
    6 Responses May 6, 2009

    I never been on a date

    where we lasted 2 hours. It only last an hour. I never been on a date that traveled over to his place. I always wanted to go into someone home after a date and start to make out and you know the rest. It doesn't work out like I dreamed. When it comes I'm getting buck wild that...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    ...it's weird I'm 17

    and have never been on a date (": I'm not even that hard to please! Like take me to f**king KFC for all I care :') I'd just love to go on a date
    sawahdwaine sawahdwaine
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

    Jeez... Dating..

    I never been on a date before but ive had a girlfriend before... i think the only reason ive never had a date is because im to ugly to get another girlfriend or boyfriend....
    xean102192 xean102192
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2010

    I never been on a date

    that actually about 4 hours. It never me and that person talking for hours laughing laughing playing around. One day I will I know I will.
    staystyleandsmile staystyleandsmile
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2015
    puppylove42 puppylove42
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 28

    Not Even Close

    I've never even been liked by a guy.It makes me very sad but I think I'm getting over it...slowly but surely.I've come to accept the fact that I may never come anywhere close to being in a relationship.I think that even if I go on a date with a guy and he has no intention of ever...
    Hydronica Hydronica
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2011

    21 Years And Counting

    I guess I'm just not a people person. I have a small group of friends, and that is all it takes to satisfy my need to be around people. Usually even more than that, even the best of company gets quickly tiring for me. I'm somewhat unfamiliar with the whole concept of 'date', it's...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 20, 2011

    I'm turning 16 in a few days

    and i never been on a date or had a boyfriend sad right?
    TaylorsierraWilson TaylorsierraWilson
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2015

    and I think I would be really surprised

    if a guy actually asks me out. I wouldn't know how to react because it's something I don't expect on daily basis. Well let me tell you a story. There was this guy who said to my friend that he's interested in me. It was so unexpected and I was completely dumbfounded. The first...
    smallstepstobegin smallstepstobegin
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    I'm in the closet so I've never been in a

    relationship or on a date
    Yellow2468 Yellow2468
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2014

    And Never Will... :)

    I have never dated, and never will. I know some people say ‘Never Say Never’ But I honestly mean that I will never date. I know it sounds crazy to hear this from a 16 year old, but I have never been interested in dating, and I doubt that I will be in the future either...
    AMill1994 AMill1994
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2010

    But you know, I'm okay with that.

    I honestly don't want to bother with all that dating and romantic crap.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    I have a boyfriend...

    But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don't.
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky
    16-17, F
    Aug 13, 2014

    Sad But True

    I am 27 and I have never been on a date so needless to say I am also a virgin.(how sad)  Of course I don't even have the ***** to ask a girl out.  I have low self esteem and no self confidence so no woman would want me anyhow.  So needless to say its...
    loneranger loneranger
    31-35, M
    11 Responses Sep 5, 2007
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