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I Have Never Been On a Real Date

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    But That Is Ok I Maried The One I Loved

    we got married at age 13 outof love so we did go to movies and many place with each other we had many adventures in our young lifes and we never looked back she was killed age 19
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 30, 2011

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    Sad

    I've never had a real date. You know, he likes you, you like him, he asks you on a date, gets dressed up, brings you flowers, takes you somewhere nice for dinner, maybe a movie, and then a sweet little goodnight kiss. I always wanted that. But I never dated people who were...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Does This Count?

    So it was my Sophmore year, and her Senior year. It was homecoming week, and wasn't planning on going to the dance, never thought of it. My dad was really on my *** about takeing a date, and I was more than ready for the weekend. So it was Thursday and the girl of my dreams, the...
    Bat258 Bat258 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Dates. . .

    I have never been on a date outside of someone I was in a relationship with. I have always wanted to ask a girl on a date but don't know what to do, even if she said yes, then what? What would I talk about? I want to go on a date, I want to pop that cherry so then I...
    unspokenconfessions unspokenconfessions 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18, 2009

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    I Regret It, But No

    In my fantasy, a real date is when the guy dresses up, buys you flowers, comes to your door to pick you up, and takes you to some restaurant or something. The kind of date you always see in romantic comedies. The kind of date that ends with a cute kiss when he brings you back...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    Would Be Nice...

    The last time I did a date proper was...well, I don't know, really. All I know is the kinda "dates" I tend to get are fast food and a movie at mines or his place, which never gets finished because either he wants some or I do and boom, that happens and he leaves or I'm dropped...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Dec 18, 2012

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    Old Enogh to Date

    i am 31 years old and i just went on my actual first date yesterday. i wasn't even really aware of it until after everything was over. i met this nice guy on the internet of course. he came up to my work and we officially met. the next day we had made plans to meet up and do some...
    metalgirl99 metalgirl99 36-40, F 1 Response May 16, 2008

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    Not Sad Anymore

    A pot to every lid- so the saying goes. I suppose that i am not a pot then! I am an awesome person and i work hard. I am intelligent. I am outgoing. I am athletic. Still- never had 1 real date. I am unsure why but it might be beyond my control. So i smile each day and am proud to...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M Jun 10, 2012

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    Third Wheel

    Maybe it's my fault for not getting a boyfriend in high school. I didn't think I was ugly but I didn't think I was the prettiest either. I was kind of wallflower but I wasn't a total loner. I had good friends I could laugh with and trust. I guess when it came to guys I just wasn...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Jul 31, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have never been kissed before and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm this type of girl that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I am 17 years old, and i have never been legitimately kissed. I know, i know i am a horrible person, but hey! i am okay with that. I would rather make my first kiss special, with...
    emptyspaces009 emptyspaces009 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I have always liked someone, or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm in the closet so I've never been in a relationship or on a date
    shawow057 shawow057 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 12

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    "Im 10 11 12 13 14...etc.. never been kissed, forever alone" Okay Guys Okay <3
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Nope, never been kissed. I'm not quite sure how I feel about that.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Never been in a relationship and I'm 18. Maybe because I don't have the body guys don't like me or maybe because I can talk back..
    ki2su ki2su 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have a boyfriend... But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F a week ago

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    I want to love him... But he wasn't there. Happy moment just lasted for a few dates. Making me feeling myself not good enough. There were many nights that I cried alone. Hoping...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I almost went Sunday. I had been stuck behind this semi on 331 in lower Alabama for quite a while. Every time the road added a passing lane, he would stay in the left lane, not...
    System113 System113 18-21, M Jul 24

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    The only time I ever bumped lips with someone, which in my opinion doesn't count as kissing, was when I was 12 for a dare and I didn't even feel it (thankfully). I don't really...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    For so long I have been hurt or jealous by seeing other people in love. I would even judge them. I'd see people covered in piercings and tattoos and think if they can find a mate...
    rawvegan rawvegan 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Lol cuz it's not really all of that. I have a deep voice for a woman. It's not creepy gross deep. Like not on the borderline of a man's. It's just, if I screamed, I'd sound more...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I honestly considered paying a guy to kiss me but then I realized that's prostitution and that's be awkward to explain to my parents if I got arrested....
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    I really want to have this experience
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M Jul 25

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    When I was in high school, I did not care what so ever. I did even consider dating any guys or having a boyfriend and to me it wasn't a big deal. I was always oblivious to anyone...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm 16 and I haven't kissed anyone for real. In a way I want to get it overwith but I also want it to be special.
    bryceeeh bryceeeh 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Never have and never will.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I know i'm not beautiful or cute as all of other guys but i'm still human and i think every human needs to be loved and to feel wanted but it's really hard nowadays to feel loved...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have this big group of friends, and it was me and my friend who hadn't been kissed. Everyone else in the group had. Then my friend got a boyfriend. So now I'm the only one who...
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    "When was your first kiss?" Everyone else: "10" "13" "11" Me:"..... I think I accidentally miight have bumped into a guy and our lips touched but it might've been a dream so..."
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm 22 never had a boyfriend wtf is wrong with me?
    sourpatchkid578 sourpatchkid578 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    I have a huge crush on two of my best friends. I told the one how I felt two years ago and a week later found out he was dating my now ex-best friend. Which is why I'm afraid to...
    KittKattSparklerz KittKattSparklerz 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    And I will never! EVER! I only need my lovely family, my awesome friends, and my dreams to come true. That's what makes me happy c:
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    Why did he kiss me!? It was out of nowhere and it just happened so fast! In a blink of an eye his lips were on mine, they were soft and plush but I'm not attracted to him it that...
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F a week ago

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a tom boy that love comics, video games, and american football. I'm very open minded to any sports though. I am just now getting into football(soccer). I just don't have any...
    geminiqueen94 geminiqueen94 18-21, F Jul 23

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    I'm 15 and haven't had my first kiss yet.... But oh well ._.)/ when I do I want it to be special ^-^
    PrincessAyyoBbyBoo PrincessAyyoBbyBoo 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I can't fall in love with someone because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    My wife an I are looking to have a 3 done. We have no idea how to start out. We are looking for a girl for fmf. Want to step up to the plate?
    strange111 strange111 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I suppose I can leave this experience now. I had my first kiss and beyond. When the rest of you get there be sure to enjoy it :D
    HeyItsJosh HeyItsJosh 13-15, M Jul 21