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I Have Never Been On a Real Date

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    I'm not sure if that's sad

    or not, considering my age and what other kids my age are doing these days.
    thequietpanda thequietpanda 16-17, F Dec 14, 2014

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    Does This Count?

    So it was my Sophmore year, and her Senior year. It was homecoming week, and wasn't planning on going to the dance, never thought of it. My dad was really on my *** about takeing a date, and I was more than ready for the weekend. So it was Thursday and the girl of my dreams, the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Third Wheel

    Maybe it's my fault for not getting a boyfriend in high school. I didn't think I was ugly but I didn't think I was the prettiest either. I was kind of wallflower but I wasn't a total loner. I had good friends I could laugh with and trust. I guess when it came to guys I just wasn...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Jul 31, 2013

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    iv been on a double date with some friends

    before. but iv also asked someone to go with me to a more fancy restraint like olive garden, her mother would never her let her leave town. I believe a good date should require you to dress nice, eat in a fancy restaurant, and have a good time there and afterwards.
    aadamchick aadamchick 18-21, M Dec 14, 2014

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    Not Sad Anymore

    A pot to every lid- so the saying goes. I suppose that i am not a pot then! I am an awesome person and i work hard. I am intelligent. I am outgoing. I am athletic. Still- never had 1 real date. I am unsure why but it might be beyond my control. So i smile each day and am proud to...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M Jun 10, 2012

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    Talk about not being on a "real" date.

    I've NEVER been on a date to even consider defining a no existent experience a "non-real" one. : (
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    By "real," I mean, I've never met a stranger,

    they asked me on a date, and then we went somewhere together at later and specified time to learn more about each other.
    loveVSlust loveVSlust 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Old Enogh to Date

    i am 31 years old and i just went on my actual first date yesterday. i wasn't even really aware of it until after everything was over. i met this nice guy on the internet of course. he came up to my work and we officially met. the next day we had made plans to meet up and do some...
    metalgirl99 metalgirl99 36-40, F 1 Response May 16, 2008

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    So I haven't had an actual girlfriend

    since I was in 7th grade, and how we met was that my friend back then set us up on a kind of blind date. Two weeks later we went out again on a double date (we kind of became bf and gf a week after we met), and on that double date she brought her friend and was more focus on...
    Dembubble Dembubble 18-21, M Nov 18, 2014

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    I'm 25 and have never been out on a real date!

    Really? I have a child [I'm devoted] but I've never been to the movies or out with a man. I've never really had a boyfriend either. I've had FWB situations but that's it. I've always felt it was because I don't think I'm attractive. I'm fat (but I own that ****!) and I have a...
    Chunkydunkin Chunkydunkin 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    Yup, that's pretty much the truth.

    The headline just sums it all up.
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 15, 2014

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    Would Be Nice...

    The last time I did a date proper was...well, I don't know, really. All I know is the kinda "dates" I tend to get are fast food and a movie at mines or his place, which never gets finished because either he wants some or I do and boom, that happens and he leaves or I'm dropped...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Dec 18, 2012

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    Solrentia Solrentia 18-21, F Nov 19, 2014

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    But That Is Ok I Maried The One I Loved

    we got married at age 13 outof love so we did go to movies and many place with each other we had many adventures in our young lifes and we never looked back she was killed age 19
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 30, 2011

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    Never was on a date, never had a chance to go

    on one. Seems like I'm just not what girls are looking for these days :D
    SorrowSong SorrowSong 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I been in 4 relationship in my life

    but have never been on a real date. Each one of them I knew before we were together but the friendship become relationship. I wonder what a real date would be like for me.
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M Dec 14, 2014

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    onedayatatime01 onedayatatime01 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    if someone physically in the state of iowa

    wants I would love to have a real romantic date with whoever. need to find someone in Iowa usa.
    transgirl28 transgirl28 26-30, T Dec 15, 2014

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    Dates. . .

    I have never been on a date outside of someone I was in a relationship with. I have always wanted to ask a girl on a date but don't know what to do, even if she said yes, then what? What would I talk about? I want to go on a date, I want to pop that cherry so then I...
    unspokenconfessions unspokenconfessions 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18, 2009

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    I never been on a actually date

    that last 3 hours. When I go on dates it last about 1 hour then we leave each other. Kiss and say goodbye I want to go on a date that would last 4 hours or more
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2014

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    I Regret It, But No

    In my fantasy, a real date is when the guy dresses up, buys you flowers, comes to your door to pick you up, and takes you to some restaurant or something. The kind of date you always see in romantic comedies. The kind of date that ends with a cute kiss when he brings you back...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    Sad

    I've never had a real date. You know, he likes you, you like him, he asks you on a date, gets dressed up, brings you flowers, takes you somewhere nice for dinner, maybe a movie, and then a sweet little goodnight kiss. I always wanted that. But I never dated people who were...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Until recently, I wasn't sure of the difference

    between a date and hanging out one-on-one. As far as I know, a date is hanging out except with romantic feelings or intentions. I have gone on "dates" before, but I feel like those didn't really count.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F Dec 13, 2014

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    Been dating this guy

    for almost 18 months. Never been on an actual date.
    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    my boyfriend is a pain but he is loyal,,,,until death do us apart
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 58 mins ago

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    Nope. Never been except on a tour way back when I was in grade school. I don't plan on going either. Since I don't do anything that would get me thrown in jail, it is actually...
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    I've only been in three relationships, two of which were long distance. I've never really been on a date, which is frustrating since I'm a romantic, and I want to be cutesy, and...
    Serrara Serrara 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My (half)brother is going into the army, and i have never been more happy about it. It's been his dream ever since we were little, and now he finally gets to experience it. He...
    HarleyHart HarleyHart 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I am almost 17 and I have never had my first kiss. My friends are so experienced and I'm not... I'm already gonna be a junior.
    Emmahlove Emmahlove 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Granmaw got this obscene phone call The dude on the line was whispering to her that he'd like a little p-ss- She died out laughing and told the caller .. " lord I would too...
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 4 days ago

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    I have never had someone tell me they liked me ??. There's this guy I like and he is always staring at me and I know he's interested but he doesn't say anything. Maybe one day...
    sendmetohogwarts sendmetohogwarts 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I Have Never Had Someone Telling Me They Have A Crush On Me except as a joke.
    LavenderHart009 LavenderHart009 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have never been to jail and I don't want to but they make jail look so fun In one of my favorite show called ORANGE IS THE NEW BLACK I wonder if jail is actually like that
    Vswagger Vswagger 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    It's try true. And I hope my first relationship is my last relationship!
    lexieloulou99 lexieloulou99 13-15, F a week ago

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    I'm almost 18 and have never kissed anyone...I dont know why, all my friends have and now I'm starting to think I'm either ugly or have a bad personality, I haven't even be in a...
    Terebithia Terebithia 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Some guys are like "I don't want much, but she has to have big boobs, big butt, nice eyes, nice teeth, and a flat stomach" Like no, this isn't build-a-***** workshop, this is...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I've never been to jail and don't plan on doing anything that would get me sent there.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I feel like I am never good enough at any job I have. Are there any other people out there that feel the same way?
    BabyTuna BabyTuna 41-45, F Jun 23

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    Just cause I have used in the past doesn't mean I did it to be "cool". I've never known what that feels like and Probly never will. I don't have a group who think I'm just okay...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Cuz true Gs never get caught.
    Whatsmystory Whatsmystory 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I just keep thinking I'm doing everything wrong. It just seems like everyone always have to tell me how to live life. why do I bother trying when apparently I'm doing everything...
    brknsilence79 brknsilence79 31-35, F Jun 21

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    So I got out of the fu'king car. Dashiell Hammett and his partner asked me a lot of questions. When I ended one my answers with "honest to god," Dashiell Hammett told me he didn...
    Swillbucket Swillbucket 36-40, M Jun 21

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    I gave the one kid my ten and the other kid gave me one of the little bags out of the big one. Despite the fact that what I really wanted was boy and what he was handing me...
    Swillbucket Swillbucket 36-40, M Jun 20

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    I have never entered a ***** club. Once, when I was really bored, I went to one of the many ***** clubs in my neighborhood. The guy wearing a dumb looking hat at the door said...
    Swillbucket Swillbucket 36-40, M Jun 20

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