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I Have Never Been On a Real Date

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    if someone physically in the state of iowa

    wants I would love to have a real romantic date with whoever. need to find someone in Iowa usa.
    transgirl28 transgirl28 26-30, T 6 days ago

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    So I haven't had an actual girlfriend

    since I was in 7th grade, and how we met was that my friend back then set us up on a kind of blind date. Two weeks later we went out again on a double date (we kind of became bf and gf a week after we met), and on that double date she brought her friend and was more focus on...
    Dembubble Dembubble 18-21, M Nov 18

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    I never been on a actually date

    that last 3 hours. When I go on dates it last about 1 hour then we leave each other. Kiss and say goodbye I want to go on a date that would last 4 hours or more
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    Not Sad Anymore

    A pot to every lid- so the saying goes. I suppose that i am not a pot then! I am an awesome person and i work hard. I am intelligent. I am outgoing. I am athletic. Still- never had 1 real date. I am unsure why but it might be beyond my control. So i smile each day and am proud to...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M Jun 10, 2012

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    I been in 4 relationship in my life

    but have never been on a real date. Each one of them I knew before we were together but the friendship become relationship. I wonder what a real date would be like for me.
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I've never been asked straight up.

    ..just like "hey kid...let's go eat some ice cream later." Or "I'll take you out to (insert amusement park) since you're younger. I don't know what kids like these days." (even though he's probably like, a year older or something) I don't even know if that even counts. I doubt it...
    SerineTheSquirrel SerineTheSquirrel 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    Been dating this guy

    for almost 18 months. Never been on an actual date.
    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    But That Is Ok I Maried The One I Loved

    we got married at age 13 outof love so we did go to movies and many place with each other we had many adventures in our young lifes and we never looked back she was killed age 19
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 30, 2011

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    Old Enogh to Date

    i am 31 years old and i just went on my actual first date yesterday. i wasn't even really aware of it until after everything was over. i met this nice guy on the internet of course. he came up to my work and we officially met. the next day we had made plans to meet up and do some...
    metalgirl99 metalgirl99 36-40, F 1 Response May 16, 2008

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    I Regret It, But No

    In my fantasy, a real date is when the guy dresses up, buys you flowers, comes to your door to pick you up, and takes you to some restaurant or something. The kind of date you always see in romantic comedies. The kind of date that ends with a cute kiss when he brings you back...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    iv been on a double date with some friends

    before. but iv also asked someone to go with me to a more fancy restraint like olive garden, her mother would never her let her leave town. I believe a good date should require you to dress nice, eat in a fancy restaurant, and have a good time there and afterwards.
    aadamchick aadamchick 18-21, M a week ago

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    Dates. . .

    I have never been on a date outside of someone I was in a relationship with. I have always wanted to ask a girl on a date but don't know what to do, even if she said yes, then what? What would I talk about? I want to go on a date, I want to pop that cherry so then I...
    unspokenconfessions unspokenconfessions 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18, 2009

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    I'm not sure if that's sad

    or not, considering my age and what other kids my age are doing these days.
    thequietpanda thequietpanda 13-15, F a week ago

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    onedayatatime01 onedayatatime01 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    Sad

    I've never had a real date. You know, he likes you, you like him, he asks you on a date, gets dressed up, brings you flowers, takes you somewhere nice for dinner, maybe a movie, and then a sweet little goodnight kiss. I always wanted that. But I never dated people who were...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Until recently, I wasn't sure of the difference

    between a date and hanging out one-on-one. As far as I know, a date is hanging out except with romantic feelings or intentions. I have gone on "dates" before, but I feel like those didn't really count.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F a week ago

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    Does This Count?

    So it was my Sophmore year, and her Senior year. It was homecoming week, and wasn't planning on going to the dance, never thought of it. My dad was really on my *** about takeing a date, and I was more than ready for the weekend. So it was Thursday and the girl of my dreams, the...
    Bat258 Bat258 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Yup, that's pretty much the truth.

    The headline just sums it all up.
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Talk about not being on a "real" date.

    I've NEVER been on a date to even consider defining a no existent experience a "non-real" one. : (
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm 25 and have never been out on a real date!

    Really? I have a child [I'm devoted] but I've never been to the movies or out with a man. I've never really had a boyfriend either. I've had FWB situations but that's it. I've always felt it was because I don't think I'm attractive. I'm fat (but I own that ****!) and I have a...
    Chunkydunkin Chunkydunkin 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Solrentia Solrentia 18-21, F Nov 19

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    Third Wheel

    Maybe it's my fault for not getting a boyfriend in high school. I didn't think I was ugly but I didn't think I was the prettiest either. I was kind of wallflower but I wasn't a total loner. I had good friends I could laugh with and trust. I guess when it came to guys I just wasn...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Jul 31, 2013

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    Would Be Nice...

    The last time I did a date proper was...well, I don't know, really. All I know is the kinda "dates" I tend to get are fast food and a movie at mines or his place, which never gets finished because either he wants some or I do and boom, that happens and he leaves or I'm dropped...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Dec 18, 2012

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    I'm just going to be honest. I have never been in a real relationship. Sometimes I feel like no one understands what it's like to truly be alone and I mean alone alone. I can...
    106hopfulrhoughts 106hopfulrhoughts 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    I'm just going to be honest. I have never been in a real relationship. Sometimes I feel like no one understands what it's like to truly be alone and I mean alone alone. I can...
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    I try to avoid making decisions because I do not want to be held liable if I mess up. I have no clue if I chose the right major in college, or what I will even do with it. When I...
    mike1989r mike1989r 22-25, M Nov 30

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    I feel like I will be forever single until like 50 or so. I've never been in a relationship, or had a first kiss those are the things I get sad over and I will never have. Mabey...
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    I'll be completely honest, I've never been in a real relationship. I'm gay and I hate that the gay community is mainly centered around sex. I don't want sex, I want friendship...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 3

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    Sometimes I don't understand why I don't have a boyfriend. I understand having a boyfriend is not everything and school is a higher priority than guys however, I just don't...
    livelaughlove365 livelaughlove365 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So I'm 21 and never been in a relationship. I know that there are other people who are in the same boat, but everyone else in my life has had a relationship or are in a...
    rysac rysac 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 12

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    I've never been in a relationship and I never will I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I will forever be single
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    Lol i have like never been kissed before u knu and lol frankly speaking right now I don't even wanna be. I mean like I'm almost 18 and lol I don't feel like I'm missing out on...
    mynameisismyname mynameisismyname 16-17, F Dec 9

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    I have received many emails after posting my last experience here claiming that i am a cheater. Let me put it right that even in the relationships that I had before getting married...
    Rirchu Rirchu 26-30, M a week ago

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    I am gay, i really want a man to kiss me.. I have never felt this way and i dream about the day i will..
    tommy21v tommy21v 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think there are many reasons why I've never been in a relationship... Mainly because I'm always afraid of how it's going to turn out, or how much I will change once I'm in one...
    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I've never been kissed. Hopefully soon.
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I mean Ive been in a relationship, and I still haven't been kissed and its so look freaking annoying! I know preschoolers who have it better than me in their love lives, and its...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I dated dozens of women from the ages of 15 when I started dating to age 38 when I finally got married and never once fell in love with any of them. I wanted to but it just wasn't...
    Elcoman115 Elcoman115 51-55, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was with a man for 13 years and even though we were married for I think 5 years(made a lasting impression I guess) I don't consider it an actual relationship. It was horribly...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I'm in college and I've never even held hands romantically with anyone. I've had two relationships and the longest one lasted a week (it was messy and dumb) and I stopped talking...
    lmcrepsley lmcrepsley 18-21, T 1 Response a week ago

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    I've never have been I'n one and ill probably never have one and depressed I don't have one. I feel that I'm going to be single forever and never get married or have a wife and...
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    16, never had a bf. Hopefully that changes tonight
    incrediblelife1011 incrediblelife1011 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 3

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    Unless you count 1 long distance relationship that only lasted 2 months. -_- I personally don't. Any "relationship" under 6 months is just a theory, and not a real thing.
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M Dec 3

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    I've been in one but he wasn't true it only lasted a week he stole my first kiss.....
    Leslie1089 Leslie1089 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Every relationship I've been in, I was cheated on. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong.
    m6u8s7i4c2 m6u8s7i4c2 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I only say this because I think being in love requires both parties complete infatuation . I love people who love me but loving them doesnt mean I'm in love with them . People...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    And I really don't want to be.
    NarakunoHana NarakunoHana 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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