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I Have Never Been On a Real Date

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    I never been on a actually date

    that last 3 hours. When I go on dates it last about 1 hour then we leave each other. Kiss and say goodbye I want to go on a date that would last 4 hours or more
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2014

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    I Regret It, But No

    In my fantasy, a real date is when the guy dresses up, buys you flowers, comes to your door to pick you up, and takes you to some restaurant or something. The kind of date you always see in romantic comedies. The kind of date that ends with a cute kiss when he brings you back...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    Would Be Nice...

    The last time I did a date proper was...well, I don't know, really. All I know is the kinda "dates" I tend to get are fast food and a movie at mines or his place, which never gets finished because either he wants some or I do and boom, that happens and he leaves or I'm dropped...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Dec 18, 2012

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    Sad

    I've never had a real date. You know, he likes you, you like him, he asks you on a date, gets dressed up, brings you flowers, takes you somewhere nice for dinner, maybe a movie, and then a sweet little goodnight kiss. I always wanted that. But I never dated people who were...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    if someone physically in the state of iowa

    wants I would love to have a real romantic date with whoever. need to find someone in Iowa usa.
    transgirl28 transgirl28 26-30, T Dec 15, 2014

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    onedayatatime01 onedayatatime01 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2014

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    Yup, that's pretty much the truth.

    The headline just sums it all up.
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 15, 2014

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    iv been on a double date with some friends

    before. but iv also asked someone to go with me to a more fancy restraint like olive garden, her mother would never her let her leave town. I believe a good date should require you to dress nice, eat in a fancy restaurant, and have a good time there and afterwards.
    aadamchick aadamchick 18-21, M Dec 14, 2014

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    I'm not sure if that's sad

    or not, considering my age and what other kids my age are doing these days.
    thequietpanda thequietpanda 16-17, F Dec 14, 2014

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    But That Is Ok I Maried The One I Loved

    we got married at age 13 outof love so we did go to movies and many place with each other we had many adventures in our young lifes and we never looked back she was killed age 19
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 30, 2011

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    Not Sad Anymore

    A pot to every lid- so the saying goes. I suppose that i am not a pot then! I am an awesome person and i work hard. I am intelligent. I am outgoing. I am athletic. Still- never had 1 real date. I am unsure why but it might be beyond my control. So i smile each day and am proud to...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M Jun 10, 2012

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    Until recently, I wasn't sure of the difference

    between a date and hanging out one-on-one. As far as I know, a date is hanging out except with romantic feelings or intentions. I have gone on "dates" before, but I feel like those didn't really count.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F Dec 13, 2014

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    Dates. . .

    I have never been on a date outside of someone I was in a relationship with. I have always wanted to ask a girl on a date but don't know what to do, even if she said yes, then what? What would I talk about? I want to go on a date, I want to pop that cherry so then I...
    unspokenconfessions unspokenconfessions 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18, 2009

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    Old Enogh to Date

    i am 31 years old and i just went on my actual first date yesterday. i wasn't even really aware of it until after everything was over. i met this nice guy on the internet of course. he came up to my work and we officially met. the next day we had made plans to meet up and do some...
    metalgirl99 metalgirl99 36-40, F 1 Response May 16, 2008

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    Does This Count?

    So it was my Sophmore year, and her Senior year. It was homecoming week, and wasn't planning on going to the dance, never thought of it. My dad was really on my *** about takeing a date, and I was more than ready for the weekend. So it was Thursday and the girl of my dreams, the...
    Bat258 Bat258 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Third Wheel

    Maybe it's my fault for not getting a boyfriend in high school. I didn't think I was ugly but I didn't think I was the prettiest either. I was kind of wallflower but I wasn't a total loner. I had good friends I could laugh with and trust. I guess when it came to guys I just wasn...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Jul 31, 2013

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    Never was on a date, never had a chance to go

    on one. Seems like I'm just not what girls are looking for these days :D
    SorrowSong SorrowSong 18-21, M Feb 4

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    Solrentia Solrentia 18-21, F Nov 19, 2014

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    By "real," I mean, I've never met a stranger,

    they asked me on a date, and then we went somewhere together at later and specified time to learn more about each other.
    loveVSlust loveVSlust 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Talk about not being on a "real" date.

    I've NEVER been on a date to even consider defining a no existent experience a "non-real" one. : (
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I'm 25 and have never been out on a real date!

    Really? I have a child [I'm devoted] but I've never been to the movies or out with a man. I've never really had a boyfriend either. I've had FWB situations but that's it. I've always felt it was because I don't think I'm attractive. I'm fat (but I own that ****!) and I have a...
    Chunkydunkin Chunkydunkin 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    Been dating this guy

    for almost 18 months. Never been on an actual date.
    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    So I haven't had an actual girlfriend

    since I was in 7th grade, and how we met was that my friend back then set us up on a kind of blind date. Two weeks later we went out again on a double date (we kind of became bf and gf a week after we met), and on that double date she brought her friend and was more focus on...
    Dembubble Dembubble 18-21, M Nov 18, 2014

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    I been in 4 relationship in my life

    but have never been on a real date. Each one of them I knew before we were together but the friendship become relationship. I wonder what a real date would be like for me.
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M Dec 14, 2014

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    I feel like society pushes dating at the earliest and I feel that it makes kids like me who have never dated feel worse because of being single and such. I've never done all of the...
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    one of my great life achievements so far is I've never been arrested or done anything that would potentially lead to an arrest. I also have never yet had a crime committed against...
    louisetiger1 louisetiger1 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 29 years old, no kids, educated, has a dream and goals for my future, and I've never been in a relationship. I have been trying so hard not to turn into a bitter b!tch but I...
    MJP88 MJP88 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    It's true lol. I've never known what it feels like haha. I don't really care That I've never been kissed- it just means the right guy hasn't come along yet :)
    TundraIvy TundraIvy 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm honestly okay with it. Things like this (kissing, relationships etc.) have never really been of interest to me. d: oh well
    Falling2high Falling2high 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have never had my first kiss, boyfriend, or crush. And now I think I do. How do I know if I actually do like him?
    Tsubaki16 Tsubaki16 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    It's taken me a long time to get around to writing this letter. I've been putting it off for years, to be honest. I suppose that I was waiting for you to get in touch with me. An...
    courtney24850 courtney24850 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Just want one single date, one yes just to end the cycle of no dates, anybody?:)
    shutterbg35 shutterbg35 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    I am in 8th grade and most of my friends have dated or have a girlfriend, what should I do or how do I become friends with a girl?
    FedExPizza FedExPizza 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Single pringles unite! haha I've just never really met a guy that I really really like and have him like me back. because lets face it, i am weird as f and i accept that, in fact i...
    Angelyn2097 Angelyn2097 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 19 years old and I've been kissed and never made out. I've also never had a boyfriend. I'm beginning to think that there is something wrong with me. i don't' think that i'm bad...
    dreamingthinmo dreamingthinmo 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    yeeeeah never :p If my crush likes me back I really hope he will be my first because I've had some guy who I thought I wanted to be my first but I realized I didn't but I'm pretty...
    shamrok11 shamrok11 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I wrote this a long time ago but I still feel this way so I am sharing it here. --------------------------------- Many do not share my take on kissing and the sensuality of it. I...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Willingly, no I have not yet had my first kiss. I was attacked. I will only willingly let my man of heart Joe (the real one knows who he is) get my kisses and if and when we marry...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    "If only" I had my life to live over - I would never get in a relationship. I have received nothing but pain and abandonment from the opposite, so called fairer, sex.
    moenoodleman2 moenoodleman2 56-60, M a week ago

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