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I Have Never Been On a Real Date

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    Dates. . .

    I have never been on a date outside of someone I was in a relationship with. I have always wanted to ask a girl on a date but don't know what to do, even if she said yes, then what? What would I talk about? I want to go on a date, I want to pop that cherry so then I...
    unspokenconfessions unspokenconfessions 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18, 2009

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    Sad

    I've never had a real date. You know, he likes you, you like him, he asks you on a date, gets dressed up, brings you flowers, takes you somewhere nice for dinner, maybe a movie, and then a sweet little goodnight kiss. I always wanted that. But I never dated people who were...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Old Enogh to Date

    i am 31 years old and i just went on my actual first date yesterday. i wasn't even really aware of it until after everything was over. i met this nice guy on the internet of course. he came up to my work and we officially met. the next day we had made plans to meet up and do some...
    metalgirl99 metalgirl99 36-40, F 1 Response May 16, 2008

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    Not Sad Anymore

    A pot to every lid- so the saying goes. I suppose that i am not a pot then! I am an awesome person and i work hard. I am intelligent. I am outgoing. I am athletic. Still- never had 1 real date. I am unsure why but it might be beyond my control. So i smile each day and am proud to...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M Jun 10, 2012

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    Does This Count?

    So it was my Sophmore year, and her Senior year. It was homecoming week, and wasn't planning on going to the dance, never thought of it. My dad was really on my *** about takeing a date, and I was more than ready for the weekend. So it was Thursday and the girl of my dreams, the...
    Bat258 Bat258 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Would Be Nice...

    The last time I did a date proper was...well, I don't know, really. All I know is the kinda "dates" I tend to get are fast food and a movie at mines or his place, which never gets finished because either he wants some or I do and boom, that happens and he leaves or I'm dropped...
    MissusBrightside MissusBrightside 31-35 Dec 18, 2012

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    Third Wheel

    Maybe it's my fault for not getting a boyfriend in high school. I didn't think I was ugly but I didn't think I was the prettiest either. I was kind of wallflower but I wasn't a total loner. I had good friends I could laugh with and trust. I guess when it came to guys I just wasn...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Jul 31, 2013

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    I Regret It, But No

    In my fantasy, a real date is when the guy dresses up, buys you flowers, comes to your door to pick you up, and takes you to some restaurant or something. The kind of date you always see in romantic comedies. The kind of date that ends with a cute kiss when he brings you back...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
    vwilliams69 vwilliams69 41-45, F Apr 2

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    Well I mean I have, but it was a game, and we were like 6 or 7. I didn't even really know what kissing was then. So I don't count that at all. I have never been kissed by a lover...
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I have never been spanked, but I feel like because I haven't been spanked im missing out on something.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I am 18 and I have never been kissed. This is probably a big shocker to people since they are always telling me how pretty or cute I am. I guess there's just something wrong with...
    Juliette18 Juliette18 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    im almost 17 years old and never been kissed does any one else find that pathetic
    bloodincubus bloodincubus 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have to appear in court today from a car accident I had last month. I have never appeared in front of a judge before. I wrecked after driving on icy roads. I wasn't speeding or...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I really want to experience this since I never have before. I've never had a mutual bond with someone in which we feel strongly for each other. I am jealous of other people who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    i'm only 15 so i'm not too worried about not having been in a relationship yet. but it really bothers me that when people ask about my dating life and i say that i've never dated...
    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I really want a perfect kiss, and I don't want to do it backwards either. I want to get to know someone first, then date them for a while and hopefully when I kiss them it'll be...
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I have not ever been told by someone as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    It's strange i have loved but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Kinda feels fun and carefree being 'untied' with someone, but sometimes, you can just get really jealous of couples ogling their eyes with each other. Sometimes it's scary how you...
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I have been with my lover for over six years. We have a little boy now, he's about 19 months old. I think I will never ever be married. My heart sinks at the thought of it..I want...
    bunz610 bunz610 26-30, F a week ago

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 19

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    Use to really want this but I seem to have transformed into a crazy germaphobe in the past year, and kisses sound like a nightmare now. At least french ones do. I could go for a...
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    So the only ones who have called me pretty are my friends and they said it just because I was talking about it. There was never a time when someone saw me and said "you look great...
    VayaKilljoy VayaKilljoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Still 17 and no one has showed any interest in me whatsoever. It's really frustrating because I'm constantly wondering what it is that's wrong with me.
    escapingnow escapingnow 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm tired of unrequited love. I'm still afraid of breaking my heart once more by wasting time on someone who doesn't deserve me. It really hurts. It made me feel myself always not...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is really weird. I'm 17, and have had my first boyfriend for six months. Yet, no kiss. No signs of a kiss. It makes me sad. I wonder why he hasn't kissed me.
    Beachball9 Beachball9 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want my first kiss so badly. 19 and I feel so embarrassed. I had the chance to kiss a guy but I just wanted to take things slow with him and he didn't so I didn't kiss him...
    simplexo simplexo 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I've never had that feeling no girl wants to kiss me they can do so much better than me
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I wish I could have a kiss on the lips even tho I never have all I have had was a kiss on the cheek 😩😄
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    technically im sure weve all been kissed when were little. ;)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    And I don't plan on it any time soon! It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am 17. I have a boyfriend. He has been my boyfriend for six months now. Still, no signs of a kiss. I feel like a failure, that my first kiss is at an old age.
    LostDreamz LostDreamz 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    People keep telling me, it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've always said I would get my first kiss before I turned 16. I have 4 days.
    mozerellabitch mozerellabitch 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    You have no idea what you are missing out on by not being religious. God gives me an inner peace that no human could ever and I have a place to turn to when the world makes me want...
    lilykyra lilykyra 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm 20 now, and I just feel like I should be in a relationship or at least dating. In the past- when I was in high school- this used to bother me a lot, however, I've done a lot of...
    blackeccentric blackeccentric 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    It's sad. Fourteen and havent had my first kiss, first hug by the opposite sex, held hands with the opposite sex, or a relationship. Girls all around me have at least had their...
    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I'm almost 20 years old and it still hasn't happened. I'm just not pretty enough I guess. And I'm DEFINITELY not smooth with the opposite sex. I feel so pathetic.
    CookieMischief CookieMischief 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I can now say that paying for a clean record 😉😀👍
    vividdreamer97 vividdreamer97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I like my first kiss to be special
    kaitlinpeige kaitlinpeige 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I'm actually very embarrassed by it. I don't know what it is about me but I just seem to repel the opposite sex. For example I'll talk to a guy for a while and then he just seems...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I don't know what happened to it but its a huge turn off to other people its ****** up and weird meh whatever pfffft :3 #foreveralone :3
    yaysandwich yaysandwich 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Sad but true Maybe il make it to 18 without a ever having a boyfriend or being kissed 😂😭
    Dreamsarepoison Dreamsarepoison 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My girlfriend is 37 and dying to meet a decent man to marry. Where are they all??
    itemember1221 itemember1221 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    i have never been to jail because im scared of going to jail,im scared not for me but for my parents because if i go to jail then who will look after my parents nobody will look...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Mar 20

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