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I Have Never Been So Confused

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    Dazed

    I just talked with my ex boyfriend's brother and he told me some things that revealed some new light to our break up some months ago. Soon my ex-boyfriend will come online to talk with me... I'm so confused, I have no idea what to say to him or how to react. I'm crying as I write...
    Fennella Fennella 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    Confused, Looking For Someone to Share An Adventure In Peace or Just Suggestions.

    I hope to think that if you write it out the truth will come out and so I'll write my story hoping for the next chapter. I'm back from teaching English abroad.  A year and half of travel and world exploration.  I look back in my journals and feel the only...
    haymana haymana 22-25 1 Response Aug 28, 2009

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    Gone Too Far

    I have been caught up with a very stressful situation in my life right now and I have lost track of school work. Usually, I make sure that I don't miss a deadline and I even have a planner for the assignments that are due. I didn't think that this problem would make me so...
    beautywithin20 beautywithin20 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2011

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    Confusion

    Confusion,A terrible thing,Been there before,It's scary,When you're all confused,Don't know where to turn,Thank goodness,I've overcome,It's in the past.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 21, 2012

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    Can't Let Go Of My Ex, But I Am In A Happy Healthy Relationship...

    So I dated a guy for 2 years, he was 19 when i met him and i was 17.. so naturally I thought he was the cool older guy. During the whole relationship I completely and utterly adored him, I was like the puppy dog following him around. I would do anything for this guy and I...
    ubercute ubercute 18-21 Sep 26, 2011

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    2 Be Or Not to Be

    HAVENT WROTE A STORY IN A WHILE SO YOU KNOW I MUST BE INTO SOMETHING.WELL HERE GOES.BY NOW MOST OF YOU KNOW ME AND THE WIFE HAD A BIG FIGHT,I PULLED A KNIFE,AND WE GOT SEPERATED.DID YA KNOW WE WERE SEPERATED LIVING IN THE SAME HOUSE?YEP ******* CRAZY.SO THE WIFE GOES OUT...
    SINISTERMEMPHISTO SINISTERMEMPHISTO 26-30, M 15 Responses Jul 12, 2007

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
    vwilliams69 vwilliams69 41-45, F Apr 2

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    I have never been spanked, but I feel like because I haven't been spanked im missing out on something.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I am 18 and I have never been kissed. This is probably a big shocker to people since they are always telling me how pretty or cute I am. I guess there's just something wrong with...
    Juliette18 Juliette18 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    Well I mean I have, but it was a game, and we were like 6 or 7. I didn't even really know what kissing was then. So I don't count that at all. I have never been kissed by a lover...
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F Apr 1

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    im almost 17 years old and never been kissed does any one else find that pathetic
    bloodincubus bloodincubus 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have to appear in court today from a car accident I had last month. I have never appeared in front of a judge before. I wrecked after driving on icy roads. I wasn't speeding or...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I have been with my lover for over six years. We have a little boy now, he's about 19 months old. I think I will never ever be married. My heart sinks at the thought of it..I want...
    bunz610 bunz610 26-30, F a week ago

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    i'm only 15 so i'm not too worried about not having been in a relationship yet. but it really bothers me that when people ask about my dating life and i say that i've never dated...
    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have not ever been told by someone as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    It's strange i have loved but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    So the only ones who have called me pretty are my friends and they said it just because I was talking about it. There was never a time when someone saw me and said "you look great...
    VayaKilljoy VayaKilljoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I've never had that feeling no girl wants to kiss me they can do so much better than me
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I wish I could have a kiss on the lips even tho I never have all I have had was a kiss on the cheek 😩😄
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    technically im sure weve all been kissed when were little. ;)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    And I don't plan on it any time soon! It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am 17. I have a boyfriend. He has been my boyfriend for six months now. Still, no signs of a kiss. I feel like a failure, that my first kiss is at an old age.
    LostDreamz LostDreamz 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    People keep telling me, it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You have no idea what you are missing out on by not being religious. God gives me an inner peace that no human could ever and I have a place to turn to when the world makes me want...
    lilykyra lilykyra 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Use to really want this but I seem to have transformed into a crazy germaphobe in the past year, and kisses sound like a nightmare now. At least french ones do. I could go for a...
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm 20 now, and I just feel like I should be in a relationship or at least dating. In the past- when I was in high school- this used to bother me a lot, however, I've done a lot of...
    blackeccentric blackeccentric 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    It's sad. Fourteen and havent had my first kiss, first hug by the opposite sex, held hands with the opposite sex, or a relationship. Girls all around me have at least had their...
    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I've always said I would get my first kiss before I turned 16. I have 4 days.
    mozerellabitch mozerellabitch 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    This is really weird. I'm 17, and have had my first boyfriend for six months. Yet, no kiss. No signs of a kiss. It makes me sad. I wonder why he hasn't kissed me.
    Beachball9 Beachball9 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want my first kiss so badly. 19 and I feel so embarrassed. I had the chance to kiss a guy but I just wanted to take things slow with him and he didn't so I didn't kiss him...
    simplexo simplexo 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F Mar 19

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    I really want a perfect kiss, and I don't want to do it backwards either. I want to get to know someone first, then date them for a while and hopefully when I kiss them it'll be...
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm almost 20 years old and it still hasn't happened. I'm just not pretty enough I guess. And I'm DEFINITELY not smooth with the opposite sex. I feel so pathetic.
    CookieMischief CookieMischief 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I can now say that paying for a clean record 😉😀👍
    vividdreamer97 vividdreamer97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I like my first kiss to be special
    kaitlinpeige kaitlinpeige 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Kinda feels fun and carefree being 'untied' with someone, but sometimes, you can just get really jealous of couples ogling their eyes with each other. Sometimes it's scary how you...
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm actually very embarrassed by it. I don't know what it is about me but I just seem to repel the opposite sex. For example I'll talk to a guy for a while and then he just seems...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Sad but true Maybe il make it to 18 without a ever having a boyfriend or being kissed 😂😭
    Dreamsarepoison Dreamsarepoison 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Still 17 and no one has showed any interest in me whatsoever. It's really frustrating because I'm constantly wondering what it is that's wrong with me.
    escapingnow escapingnow 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm tired of unrequited love. I'm still afraid of breaking my heart once more by wasting time on someone who doesn't deserve me. It really hurts. It made me feel myself always not...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My girlfriend is 37 and dying to meet a decent man to marry. Where are they all??
    itemember1221 itemember1221 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't know what happened to it but its a huge turn off to other people its ****** up and weird meh whatever pfffft :3 #foreveralone :3
    yaysandwich yaysandwich 18-21, F Apr 5

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    i have never been to jail because im scared of going to jail,im scared not for me but for my parents because if i go to jail then who will look after my parents nobody will look...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Mar 20

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    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Maybe it's because I don't drink, or because I'm just lame, but I have never been to a single party. It's just not my scene. I wouldn't have any fun. My idea of fun is not getting...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Although I have a kind family. They love me. I am healthy that I grateful, But I hate myself ,I am nothing, I wish I had never been born
    hani89 hani89 22-25, F Mar 29

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    I have never met a man that made me feel like I can't go on without seeing him or hearing his voice...A man in the presence of which I would feel pure love, excitement, comfort...
    intere intere 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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