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I Have Never Been So Unsure of Myself

For those who have found themselves between a rock and a hard place 131 People

    Im So Unsure of Myself.

    I'm not really sure what I want to do with my life. I don't know where I want to go from here.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    Looked So Forward To It All And Now, Now Im Not Sure About It.

    an incident happened a couple of days ago that made me question my relationship and everything we were suppose to do together. We are trying to work things out however I dont want to see him, he doesnt want to see me and we have an anime convention coming up on the 31st and i...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Mar 18, 2012

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    I Have Never Been So Unsure About Myself :/

    I have a long history of friends betraying/being two faced to me. However recently I have made many friends who I can trust. Or who I THOUGHT I could trust. After happiness for two years, two of my friends have turned on me again, and it's starting to make me unsure of my own...
    VGValerie VGValerie 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    So Whats Left To Be Sure Of?

    Never in my life have I felt so confused and unsure of myself, I'm used to knowing being able to give me the answers to settle my mind in these situations but now I can't even help myself. One person just randomly wants to pop back up but hide behind someone else, and of course...
    hiddenbeautii hiddenbeautii 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    I've Been Pretty Low Before, But...

    Lately it seems to me that I can't really do anything right.I am not good at anything especially, and my people skills are lacking. I am not pretty or funny or clever. I have tried many things in my life and my shortcomings always ruin them for me.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Be Your Self

    im a young strong & energetic unbelievable royal star in Gymnastics & bboy (breakdance).during my experience internationaly i got to realize that some people are cheaters & users of other human beings :(.........
    Tyro69 Tyro69 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    Unsurity

    First off, you have to understand, I'm the oldest of 4 children. About 6 months ago, one of my sisters was arrested becasue of "The Stunt" as my parents are calling it. "The Stunt" was, in a nut shell, embezzlement. Her excuse was that she was tired of not...
    EternalLady EternalLady 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2007

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    Teenagehood

    I have just turned 18 and am about to start university to do a subject that I love but am only doing to please my family. I can't talk to anyone about the things going through my head and can't work out why, for a girl that cries about once a year, I suddenly find myself falling...
    holly4eva00 holly4eva00 18-21 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    I Do Nothing Right

    I'm always Unsure of myself I'm always second guessing I can never make a choice All of this is consuming me, eating me alive, and its like theres nothing I can do about it. Especially I'm not even okay with myself, I question myself on everything, on every thought on every...
    Candy1211 Candy1211 16-17, F Sep 13, 2012

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    Lost At The Corner Of Dazed And Confused...

    Sometimes I wonder if we are meant to really find out who we are, do we change as people or do we change to make people? As I am sitting here typing this, I thinking about how there is only one thing in my life I am sure about.... being a chef this is my way of making people...
    CRP2 CRP2 18-21, M Nov 4, 2011

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    I Feel Like It's Useless to Make Plans Anymore In My Life

    None of my goals ever go as planned, & I'm always setting myself up for disappointment when things don't go as I expected. I never thought I'd have a college degree & NO job! I never knew my depression, anxiety, & OCD would get worse. Bad enough to the point where I REALLY can't...
    otad12 otad12 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    ...oh Lordy

    I've never thought of saying this, but I'm thinking of getting a breast reduction. Probably take it down to a C, if I'm lucky..I never saw myself getting a reduction, I mean, most girls would kill to have size D's, but I'm just feeling like I get unwanted attention from perverts...
    takethispain takethispain 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I'm 24 and i have never been kissed. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic... Meaning i'm feeling hopeless about finding romance. Haha. But seriously i'm both the romantic and the...
    mynameisdreamer mynameisdreamer 22-25, F 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    i have never though of myself as beautiful. as people make fun of me for being tall and having a healthy skinny figure. :/
    nicolepie nicolepie 22-25, F 10 Responses Apr 16

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    I am a sophmore in high school, and I have never been kissed. There are kids in my class having sex and I still have not had my first kiss. Also I'm wondering WHEN IT WILL HAPPEN...
    jenseb jenseb 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Until now...... and this person Is not single. Just my damn luck. I have never been faithful to ANYONE except for now. For that reason I don't feel like I have ever really been...
    vwilliams69 vwilliams69 41-45, F Apr 2

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    I am 18 and I have never been kissed. This is probably a big shocker to people since they are always telling me how pretty or cute I am. I guess there's just something wrong with...
    Juliette18 Juliette18 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I am 29 years old and I have never been married. I got engaged once but we broke it off due to differences. I believe in the institution of marriage and would like to get married...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I never thought of myself as cute. Always been told I was ugly so I believed it myself. I recently had a string of people say I'm cute and some asked me out. I doubt they mean it...
    smokygreywolf smokygreywolf 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    I'm going to turn 16 next month and I still haven't been kissed. I remember when I was younger, I had told myself that I would have kissed someone before I turn 16. Now I just feel...
    cara1998 cara1998 13-15, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    They say some girls you take home to mom, some girls you just take home. I'm 45 and have never gotten a marriage proposal. I finally put a "Do not disturb" sign on my pu**y and...
    sacredfire222 sacredfire222 41-45 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    im almost 17 years old and never been kissed does any one else find that pathetic
    bloodincubus bloodincubus 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I have to appear in court today from a car accident I had last month. I have never appeared in front of a judge before. I wrecked after driving on icy roads. I wasn't speeding or...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I've never seen myself as handsome. I don't have that confidence anymore. It's been beat out of me.
    Bwlane Bwlane 36-40 1 Response Apr 8

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    I'm tired of unrequited love. I'm still afraid of breaking my heart once more by wasting time on someone who doesn't deserve me. It really hurts. It made me feel myself always not...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    My mother says I was an unhappy baby, always screaming my head off for no reason, always red faced and ugly. Everyone says they tried their best to make me happy and excited, but I...
    JustLazyLittleMe JustLazyLittleMe 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I really never have and I've always thought I needed a guy to make me feel it but idk what it is. I mean, people tell me all the time that I'm beautiful but I've never actually...
    Msunderstood95 Msunderstood95 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    There's nothing special about my appearance and I have no idea how to dress myself to look pretty or fashionable.
    mahnouls mahnouls 16-17 Apr 8

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    I have been with my lover for over six years. We have a little boy now, he's about 19 months old. I think I will never ever be married. My heart sinks at the thought of it..I want...
    bunz610 bunz610 26-30, F Apr 12

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    My whole life I was told by the people i love that I am ugly. The sad thing is I really believe I am too. Sometimes it's really hard to look in the mirror without becoming...
    Marquinta Marquinta 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I really want to experience this since I never have before. I've never had a mutual bond with someone in which we feel strongly for each other. I am jealous of other people who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's strange i have loved but never really been "In love" with any man, maybe i have not found the right one as yet i'm picky when it comes to my men, and felt guilty in my last...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    i'm only 15 so i'm not too worried about not having been in a relationship yet. but it really bothers me that when people ask about my dating life and i say that i've never dated...
    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    So the only ones who have called me pretty are my friends and they said it just because I was talking about it. There was never a time when someone saw me and said "you look great...
    VayaKilljoy VayaKilljoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I've never had that feeling no girl wants to kiss me they can do so much better than me
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I wish I could have a kiss on the lips even tho I never have all I have had was a kiss on the cheek 😩😄
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    technically im sure weve all been kissed when were little. ;)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    And I don't plan on it any time soon! It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I am 17. I have a boyfriend. He has been my boyfriend for six months now. Still, no signs of a kiss. I feel like a failure, that my first kiss is at an old age.
    LostDreamz LostDreamz 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    People keep telling me, it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's sad. Fourteen and havent had my first kiss, first hug by the opposite sex, held hands with the opposite sex, or a relationship. Girls all around me have at least had their...
    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I've always said I would get my first kiss before I turned 16. I have 4 days.
    mozerellabitch mozerellabitch 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    This is really weird. I'm 17, and have had my first boyfriend for six months. Yet, no kiss. No signs of a kiss. It makes me sad. I wonder why he hasn't kissed me.
    Beachball9 Beachball9 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I want my first kiss so badly. 19 and I feel so embarrassed. I had the chance to kiss a guy but I just wanted to take things slow with him and he didn't so I didn't kiss him...
    simplexo simplexo 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have got a peck on the cheek by my (former) girlfriend before she was my girlfriend. But I want a real kiss lips to lips with the emotion, the passion, the feelings, and the love...
    HeyItsJay HeyItsJay 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I've always wondered am I handsome? What do u think?
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M Apr 8

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    I wish I had more confidence but I don't hopefully I can work on it
    grimesfoster grimesfoster 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I really want a perfect kiss, and I don't want to do it backwards either. I want to get to know someone first, then date them for a while and hopefully when I kiss them it'll be...
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm almost 20 years old and it still hasn't happened. I'm just not pretty enough I guess. And I'm DEFINITELY not smooth with the opposite sex. I feel so pathetic.
    CookieMischief CookieMischief 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28