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I Have Never Been So Unsure of Myself

For those who have found themselves between a rock and a hard place 132 People

    Teenagehood

    I have just turned 18 and am about to start university to do a subject that I love but am only doing to please my family. I can't talk to anyone about the things going through my head and can't work out why, for a girl that cries about once a year, I suddenly find myself falling...
    holly4eva00 holly4eva00 18-21 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    I Have Never Been So Unsure About Myself :/

    I have a long history of friends betraying/being two faced to me. However recently I have made many friends who I can trust. Or who I THOUGHT I could trust. After happiness for two years, two of my friends have turned on me again, and it's starting to make me unsure of my own...
    VGValerie VGValerie 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    Looked So Forward To It All And Now, Now Im Not Sure About It.

    an incident happened a couple of days ago that made me question my relationship and everything we were suppose to do together. We are trying to work things out however I dont want to see him, he doesnt want to see me and we have an anime convention coming up on the 31st and i...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Mar 18, 2012

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    Be Your Self

    im a young strong & energetic unbelievable royal star in Gymnastics & bboy (breakdance).during my experience internationaly i got to realize that some people are cheaters & users of other human beings :(.........
    Tyro69 Tyro69 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    I Feel Like It's Useless to Make Plans Anymore In My Life

    None of my goals ever go as planned, & I'm always setting myself up for disappointment when things don't go as I expected. I never thought I'd have a college degree & NO job! I never knew my depression, anxiety, & OCD would get worse. Bad enough to the point where I REALLY can't...
    otad12 otad12 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    Lost At The Corner Of Dazed And Confused...

    Sometimes I wonder if we are meant to really find out who we are, do we change as people or do we change to make people? As I am sitting here typing this, I thinking about how there is only one thing in my life I am sure about.... being a chef this is my way of making people...
    CRP2 CRP2 18-21, M Nov 4, 2011

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    So Whats Left To Be Sure Of?

    Never in my life have I felt so confused and unsure of myself, I'm used to knowing being able to give me the answers to settle my mind in these situations but now I can't even help myself. One person just randomly wants to pop back up but hide behind someone else, and of course...
    hiddenbeautii hiddenbeautii 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    Unsurity

    First off, you have to understand, I'm the oldest of 4 children. About 6 months ago, one of my sisters was arrested becasue of "The Stunt" as my parents are calling it. "The Stunt" was, in a nut shell, embezzlement. Her excuse was that she was tired of not...
    EternalLady EternalLady 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2007

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    ...oh Lordy

    I've never thought of saying this, but I'm thinking of getting a breast reduction. Probably take it down to a C, if I'm lucky..I never saw myself getting a reduction, I mean, most girls would kill to have size D's, but I'm just feeling like I get unwanted attention from perverts...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2012

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    Im So Unsure of Myself.

    I'm not really sure what I want to do with my life. I don't know where I want to go from here.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    I've Been Pretty Low Before, But...

    Lately it seems to me that I can't really do anything right.I am not good at anything especially, and my people skills are lacking. I am not pretty or funny or clever. I have tried many things in my life and my shortcomings always ruin them for me.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    I Do Nothing Right

    I'm always Unsure of myself I'm always second guessing I can never make a choice All of this is consuming me, eating me alive, and its like theres nothing I can do about it. Especially I'm not even okay with myself, I question myself on everything, on every thought on every...
    Candy1211 Candy1211 16-17, F Sep 13, 2012

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    I have never been kissed and I am turning 17 in a month.. All of my friends have been kissed and I am the only one who hasn't. It has definitely taken its toll on my self esteem...
    Grace1123 Grace1123 16-17, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I have never been in a relationship with anyone. Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 22

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    I have never been in love nor do I want to. I am also a virgin. I use to that girl. That wanted to fall in love ,get married, have a family, be a stay at home mom, and live...
    Ellebella1 Ellebella1 22-25, F a week ago

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I have never been rejected cause i have never asked anyone :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I have always liked someone, or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm this type of girl that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I have never been kissed before and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    My sister has always bed the smart pretty one. All of my friends loved and adored her. Every guy I liked, liked her, or wanted her. Some guys would only date me to make her jealous...
    MarisoleLane MarisoleLane 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have never been in a relationship. My little sister has had a lot of boyfriends. It is lonely yes but it is hard to find a good guy.
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 12

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    So I'm 20 years old.. Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm 18 and never been in a relationship, never been kissed. It's easy for me to talk to guys because I'm a tomboy, but now I'm in college I really would like alittle more male...
    CayaMonet CayaMonet 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    "Im 10 11 12 13 14...etc.. never been kissed, forever alone" Okay Guys Okay <3
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Nope, never been kissed. I'm not quite sure how I feel about that.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I have a boyfriend... But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F Aug 13

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    I'm in the closet so I've never been in a relationship or on a date
    Swagmuch123 Swagmuch123 13-15, F Aug 15

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    Never been in a relationship and I'm 18. Maybe because I don't have the body guys don't like me or maybe because I can talk back..
    ki2su ki2su 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Idk what to write, what to say, what to do................................... I just know I have never ever been this depressed and sad..... I am lonely.......................I don...
    Lordiran Lordiran 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I want to love him... But he wasn't there. Happy moment just lasted for a few dates. Making me feeling myself not good enough. There were many nights that I cried alone. Hoping...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F Aug 20

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    I always feel like I'm not good enough I am a nice person very friendly but it seems like the people who are mean get everything I'm seeing people I used to go to school with...
    fairycake1 fairycake1 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Never have and never will.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I have a huge crush on two of my best friends. I told the one how I felt two years ago and a week later found out he was dating my now ex-best friend. Which is why I'm afraid to...
    KittKattSparklerz KittKattSparklerz 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    And I will never! EVER! I only need my lovely family, my awesome friends, and my dreams to come true. That's what makes me happy c:
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    Why did he kiss me!? It was out of nowhere and it just happened so fast! In a blink of an eye his lips were on mine, they were soft and plush but I'm not attracted to him it that...
    XSimplyXSuicideX XSimplyXSuicideX 13-15, F Aug 14

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I honestly do not get why everyone wants one, or thinks I am lame for not having a boyfriend. I am only 14 years old, I do not need a boyfriend or sex or love, I believe I am not...
    HelloKittyBaby HelloKittyBaby 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was in high school, I did not care what so ever. I did even consider dating any guys or having a boyfriend and to me it wasn't a big deal. I was always oblivious to anyone...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm 16 and I haven't kissed anyone for real. In a way I want to get it overwith but I also want it to be special.
    bryceeeh bryceeeh 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Lol cuz it's not really all of that. I have a deep voice for a woman. It's not creepy gross deep. Like not on the borderline of a man's. It's just, if I screamed, I'd sound more...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I know i'm not beautiful or cute as all of other guys but i'm still human and i think every human needs to be loved and to feel wanted but it's really hard nowadays to feel loved...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I can't fall in love with someone because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F Aug 19

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