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I Have Never Been So Unsure of Myself

For those who have found themselves between a rock and a hard place 149 People

    I've Been Pretty Low Before, But...

    Lately it seems to me that I can't really do anything right.I am not good at anything especially, and my people skills are lacking. I am not pretty or funny or clever. I have tried many things in my life and my shortcomings always ruin them for me.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Looked So Forward To It All And Now, Now Im Not Sure About It.

    an incident happened a couple of days ago that made me question my relationship and everything we were suppose to do together. We are trying to work things out however I dont want to see him, he doesnt want to see me and we have an anime convention coming up on the 31st and i...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Mar 18, 2012

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    Be Your Self

    im a young strong & energetic unbelievable royal star in Gymnastics & bboy (breakdance).during my experience internationaly i got to realize that some people are cheaters & users of other human beings :(.........
    Tyro69 Tyro69 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    Im So Unsure of Myself.

    I'm not really sure what I want to do with my life. I don't know where I want to go from here.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    I Feel Like It's Useless to Make Plans Anymore In My Life

    None of my goals ever go as planned, & I'm always setting myself up for disappointment when things don't go as I expected. I never thought I'd have a college degree & NO job! I never knew my depression, anxiety, & OCD would get worse. Bad enough to the point where I REALLY can't...
    otad12 otad12 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    I Do Nothing Right

    I'm always Unsure of myself I'm always second guessing I can never make a choice All of this is consuming me, eating me alive, and its like theres nothing I can do about it. Especially I'm not even okay with myself, I question myself on everything, on every thought on every...
    Candy1211 Candy1211 16-17, F Sep 13, 2012

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    Lost At The Corner Of Dazed And Confused...

    Sometimes I wonder if we are meant to really find out who we are, do we change as people or do we change to make people? As I am sitting here typing this, I thinking about how there is only one thing in my life I am sure about.... being a chef this is my way of making people...
    CRP2 CRP2 18-21, M Nov 4, 2011

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    Unsurity

    First off, you have to understand, I'm the oldest of 4 children. About 6 months ago, one of my sisters was arrested becasue of "The Stunt" as my parents are calling it. "The Stunt" was, in a nut shell, embezzlement. Her excuse was that she was tired of not...
    EternalLady EternalLady 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2007

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    Teenagehood

    I have just turned 18 and am about to start university to do a subject that I love but am only doing to please my family. I can't talk to anyone about the things going through my head and can't work out why, for a girl that cries about once a year, I suddenly find myself falling...
    holly4eva00 holly4eva00 18-21 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    ...oh Lordy

    I've never thought of saying this, but I'm thinking of getting a breast reduction. Probably take it down to a C, if I'm lucky..I never saw myself getting a reduction, I mean, most girls would kill to have size D's, but I'm just feeling like I get unwanted attention from perverts...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2012

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    So Whats Left To Be Sure Of?

    Never in my life have I felt so confused and unsure of myself, I'm used to knowing being able to give me the answers to settle my mind in these situations but now I can't even help myself. One person just randomly wants to pop back up but hide behind someone else, and of course...
    hiddenbeautii hiddenbeautii 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    I wonder at times why i am

    so unsure of myself. I KNOW i look alright, i KNOW i am very smart and i learn quickly and that i can be wonderful conversation. Yet, i still doubt myself so much as to where it comes to a point that i do not want to take part in social activities no matter what they are. I need...
    Qwert143 Qwert143 22-25 2 Responses Oct 23

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    I Have Never Been So Unsure About Myself :/

    I have a long history of friends betraying/being two faced to me. However recently I have made many friends who I can trust. Or who I THOUGHT I could trust. After happiness for two years, two of my friends have turned on me again, and it's starting to make me unsure of my own...
    VGValerie VGValerie 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    I have completed 26 years of my life and I never had any relationship with anyone. Also, I have never been in any sexual relationship with anyone either. I am happy for myself as...
    Deepak2J Deepak2J 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 17

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    i have never been in a real relationship with anyone. i have always been insecure, and i have trouble meeting new people. Probably becuase i have bpd. also introverted. ive never...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M Nov 17

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    I have never been in a fight but I have seen fights before.
    readerleader readerleader 22-25, F Nov 14

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    So I haven't had an actual girlfriend since I was in 7th grade, and how we met was that my friend back then set us up on a kind of blind date. Two weeks later we went out again on...
    Dembubble Dembubble 18-21, M Nov 18

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    I've never been in a relationship or even been on a date, probably due to confidence. So I thought "**** it" and ended up going out with a girl I liked a few times, we talked a lot...
    robbo1806 robbo1806 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    Been dating this guy for almost 18 months. Never been on an actual date.
    XxAllixX XxAllixX 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    I've never been in a relationship and I never will I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I will forever be single
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I feel like I will be forever single until like 50 or so. I've never been in a relationship, or had a first kiss those are the things I get sad over and I will never have. Mabey...
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 14 hrs ago

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    I've never been in love but it's fine by me. I'm still young and certainly am not prepared to waste my time by chasing boys who have yet to fully form their minds. Instead I intend...
    Livinglife95 Livinglife95 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    is it just me or have others been in the same shoes as me never being in a proper relationship???
    jaimz jaimz 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 18

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    Yeah I never been in a proper one, don't really see the point if I'm not going to marry them, you get in a relationship with someone at a young age you setting yourself up for...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M Nov 18

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    I never been on a actually date that last 3 hours. When I go on dates it last about 1 hour then we leave each other. Kiss and say goodbye I want to go on a date that would last 4...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    I think there are many reasons why I've never been in a relationship... Mainly because I'm always afraid of how it's going to turn out, or how much I will change once I'm in one...
    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've never been asked straight up...just like "hey kid...let's go eat some ice cream later." Or "I'll take you out to (insert amusement park) since you're younger. I don't know...
    SerineTheSquirrel SerineTheSquirrel 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've never have been I'n one and ill probably never have one and depressed I don't have one. I feel that I'm going to be single forever and never get married or have a wife and...
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Yep. I am that loud and funny girl who everyone automatically assumes must be in a relationship. I am walking neon sign of all that is an extrovert. I have been on dates,flings...
    filledspaces filledspaces 26-30, F Nov 5

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    Engaged but never fiscally wed.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    Cold yes. Hot almost. Cool never.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    I dream alot about this town off the highway. by the scary water. there is a casino and water park. It has a downtown in the valley with thin streets and stores very close together...
    Lungmyster Lungmyster 41-45, F Oct 28

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    All my friends have been kissed yet i have not and that gets to me sometimes.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 13-15, F Nov 9

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    sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me or if I'm just flat out choosing partners that are not going to make it to that point. I'm going to be 34 on next Sunday, and...
    FoxyNC FoxyNC 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes when I see someone staring at me in public, I think, are they looking at me because they like me, or because they are thinking, wow, this girl is ugly. I don't get how...
    IntrovertedHuman IntrovertedHuman 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 2

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    Around 8 hours of daylight! And that does not include the sun. Just clouds... Have not seen the sun for a week and a half! Was there a Northic god called Vitaminus D-ius? I am...
    discovery5 discovery5 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 19

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    I usually keep away from people, I don´t have interest in forming a meaningfull relationship, or getting married, or having children. Some friend try to set my up with guys, but I...
    DildoSlut DildoSlut 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F 13 hrs ago

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    Externally. Internally i am wayyy gorgeous.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    I am subconsciously afraid of rape, yet desire sex
    crazyandclever crazyandclever 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I really wanna go to a One Direction concert. I wanna meet them real bad.
    Directioner70 Directioner70 16-17, F Nov 10

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    All a guy wants anymore is sex, sex, sex.. I want love, love, happiness
    alexusk21 alexusk21 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I think I'm always going to be alone.
    staystrongandlive staystrongandlive 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 19

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    Story of my life since I can't get a date..
    Solrentia Solrentia 18-21, F Nov 19

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    For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind.
    panita2014 panita2014 16-17, F a week ago

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    ** This is probably why. I fear this very thing. Vulnerability is beyond difficult. *** "When you love someone, truly love them, you lay your heart open to them. You give them a...
    SecretEscape SecretEscape 36-40, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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