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I Have Never Been So Unsure of Myself

For those who have found themselves between a rock and a hard place 162 People

    ...oh Lordy

    I've never thought of saying this, but I'm thinking of getting a breast reduction. Probably take it down to a C, if I'm lucky..I never saw myself getting a reduction, I mean, most girls would kill to have size D's, but I'm just feeling like I get unwanted attention from perverts...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2012

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    I Feel Like It's Useless to Make Plans Anymore In My Life

    None of my goals ever go as planned, & I'm always setting myself up for disappointment when things don't go as I expected. I never thought I'd have a college degree & NO job! I never knew my depression, anxiety, & OCD would get worse. Bad enough to the point where I REALLY can't...
    otad12 otad12 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    Unsurity

    First off, you have to understand, I'm the oldest of 4 children. About 6 months ago, one of my sisters was arrested becasue of "The Stunt" as my parents are calling it. "The Stunt" was, in a nut shell, embezzlement. Her excuse was that she was tired of not...
    EternalLady EternalLady 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2007

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    Im So Unsure of Myself.

    I'm not really sure what I want to do with my life. I don't know where I want to go from here.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    I Do Nothing Right

    I'm always Unsure of myself I'm always second guessing I can never make a choice All of this is consuming me, eating me alive, and its like theres nothing I can do about it. Especially I'm not even okay with myself, I question myself on everything, on every thought on every...
    Candy1211 Candy1211 16-17, F Sep 13, 2012

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    Teenagehood

    I have just turned 18 and am about to start university to do a subject that I love but am only doing to please my family. I can't talk to anyone about the things going through my head and can't work out why, for a girl that cries about once a year, I suddenly find myself falling...
    holly4eva00 holly4eva00 18-21 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    I Have Never Been So Unsure About Myself :/

    I have a long history of friends betraying/being two faced to me. However recently I have made many friends who I can trust. Or who I THOUGHT I could trust. After happiness for two years, two of my friends have turned on me again, and it's starting to make me unsure of my own...
    VGValerie VGValerie 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    I try to avoid making decisions

    because I do not want to be held liable if I mess up. I have no clue if I chose the right major in college, or what I will even do with it. When I was younger I was so much more confident, now I just look forward to going to bed. I have never been so confused about what I am...
    mike1989r mike1989r 22-25, M Nov 30, 2014

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    I wonder at times why i am

    so unsure of myself. I KNOW i look alright, i KNOW i am very smart and i learn quickly and that i can be wonderful conversation. Yet, i still doubt myself so much as to where it comes to a point that i do not want to take part in social activities no matter what they are. I need...
    Qwert143 Qwert143 22-25 1 Response Oct 23, 2014

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    Looked So Forward To It All And Now, Now Im Not Sure About It.

    an incident happened a couple of days ago that made me question my relationship and everything we were suppose to do together. We are trying to work things out however I dont want to see him, he doesnt want to see me and we have an anime convention coming up on the 31st and i...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Mar 18, 2012

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    Lost At The Corner Of Dazed And Confused...

    Sometimes I wonder if we are meant to really find out who we are, do we change as people or do we change to make people? As I am sitting here typing this, I thinking about how there is only one thing in my life I am sure about.... being a chef this is my way of making people...
    CRP2 CRP2 18-21, M Nov 4, 2011

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    So Whats Left To Be Sure Of?

    Never in my life have I felt so confused and unsure of myself, I'm used to knowing being able to give me the answers to settle my mind in these situations but now I can't even help myself. One person just randomly wants to pop back up but hide behind someone else, and of course...
    hiddenbeautii hiddenbeautii 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    Be Your Self

    im a young strong & energetic unbelievable royal star in Gymnastics & bboy (breakdance).during my experience internationaly i got to realize that some people are cheaters & users of other human beings :(.........
    Tyro69 Tyro69 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    I've Been Pretty Low Before, But...

    Lately it seems to me that I can't really do anything right.I am not good at anything especially, and my people skills are lacking. I am not pretty or funny or clever. I have tried many things in my life and my shortcomings always ruin them for me.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I have never been tested for an STD, because I've never needed it. I've only been with my wife and she's only been with me. She was a sweet, innocent virginal girl when we met and...
    devotedhusband devotedhusband 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    The truth is I have never been in love. I'm in HighSchool and it sucks not having a girlfriend, I'm 17 and I'm a junior. I can't wait till high school is over and done with
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Have Never Been to Disneyland
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 21 hrs ago

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    18 and have never even been kissed. I'm embarrassed about this kiss thing, not so much the never being in a relationship or being a virgin thing. Somedays I want to just get it...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I feel like society pushes dating at the earliest and I feel that it makes kids like me who have never dated feel worse because of being single and such. I've never done all of the...
    TheStapes32 TheStapes32 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    when I tell girl that I'm interested in that I never been in a relationship before . They become less interested in me and disappear.
    lmt1828 lmt1828 26-30, M Mar 5

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    i have too been never in a relationship str8male .love to talk to someone who really wanna fall in love wid me
    ashu15 ashu15 22-25, M Mar 15

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    I have a lot of mixed feelings when I mention this to people. You know, you always get the response of "How can that be? You are so pretty!" or the most frequent, "You will be soon...
    HopeInConstruction HopeInConstruction 18-21, F Mar 16

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    This is me. I'm always a person who I tell myself , "I won't care what ppl think and Imma get myself a guy or a girl (I'm bi), and we gonna talk, kiss, cuddle, make love, go out to...
    wondering4me wondering4me 18-21, M Mar 11

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    And while I accept that, it's just who I am and my life, it doesn't mean that it's not hard sometimes. Tonight is one of those times. I was reading a book that I didn't expect to...
    IrisArrow IrisArrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I can get down about myself sometimes. I feel excluded, sort of lonely. I want a boyfriend but at the same time I don't. I'm afraid. I'm afraid of new experiences, new people. I'm...
    elley1 elley1 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    It's a dream of mine but I want to be with someone who is like me. I'm so unique that it's hard to find a girl like me. I find so many shallow girls who want me to be taller or...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 8

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    I kinda like to call myself virgin lips lol .
    momo335 momo335 13-15, F Mar 16

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    Nope...so not much to say on the subject. I have had boyfriends but too ill to go out. All I can imagine is I guess I would find it nerve wracking.
    stargirl58 stargirl58 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    all gonna change tonight LOL :'D haha I hope I don't find it weird.
    WhatChrisDid4Love WhatChrisDid4Love 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    I'm not sure if it's more painful or embarrassing...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    It's so embarrassing. I feel like I wouldn't even do it right.
    BlueGirl666 BlueGirl666 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Well.... I've had like 1 month boyfriend.... But it was just online t(s)exting he wasn't my boyfriend though....
    SadlySafe SadlySafe 13-15 1 Response Mar 16

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    Laugh as you want, and taunt as you like.
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M Mar 18

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    I know it sounds selfish but I want someone to take care of me. Not the way you think. Sometimes I get so sad because I am who I am. Sometimes I just want someone to put their...
    LastofmyPeople LastofmyPeople 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Almost done it , but one of the girls passed out from alcohol.
    TheMothMan TheMothMan 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    And I don't plan on it unless someone comes to me... I tried to make a move a little while ago and almost screwed up my life, so if it's gonna happen again then I'm not gonna be...
    Matthew7211 Matthew7211 13-15, M 16 hrs ago

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    I have presented many ideas for making the world a better place and some people have responded that "things have always been this way". The truth is that few things about now have...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Hi all, I'm a 21 year old guy who have never had a bf or gf before, I'm gay, but I still never approached any girls nor boys even when I didn't know what I am exactly. I honestly...
    LonelySimo LonelySimo 18-21, M Mar 16

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    I have Only been blocked a couple of times for no apparent reason.
    Falcon27 Falcon27 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I am turning 22 this month, and I have never had a real boyfriend. My freshman and sophomore year of high school I liked 4 guys and they all reciprocated and we even went on some...
    kkaitlyn kkaitlyn 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    My life has always been full of drama and chaos. From the time I was born, I've always been a problem for my parents. My mom was young, almost too young to raise a kid. My dad was...
    ktbugg ktbugg 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Ok, so this is something that has really damaged my life badly and I just need to vent it somewhere. It will be very long and I apologise for going off on tangents...
    inexperiencedguy94 inexperiencedguy94 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    I suppose I'm very independent, set in my ways, solitary, whatever you want to call it. I've never had a best friend so it's not hard for me not to stop caring about someone if...
    EccentricalMind EccentricalMind 22-25, F Mar 13

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