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I Have Never Been Told Someone Has Or Had a Crush On Me

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    Never Ever Not Even Once...

    im 16 (and i know im still only young but still) and i have never known of any one who has had a crush on me. Not even once and all the rest of my friends have. I feel ugly because of it and i have a lowish self esteem. I just think it would be flattering to know someone out...
    DeMiDeMiSe DeMiDeMiSe 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    The Force Behind My Depression.

    Yeah. Thats what causes my depressive state. Ive been told Im attractive etc, but never been told that Im liked.
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Nobody Has Ever Had A Crush On Me.......

    I am now 23 years old and no guy has ever had a crush on me or said that they have a crush on me. I guess im not that hot to like or consider liking as a date. It sucks coz girls all had guys who fancied them or was shy of them but me ...no never!! If i go to the mall with my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 8, 2010

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    Mostly No

    Besides the 'special' kid who used to eat my hair in 3rd grade i don't think anyone has ever had a crush on me lol My friend told me of one person once but i have reasons to believe she was lying or just making it up. Other then that.... i don't think so : / 
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    Nah...i Dont Want a Stalker!

    oh....*cringes in embarassment*....never. my friends get told all the time. i would be mostly "ooooh"-ing or "wow!"-ing for them. aargh! all those times that i had wanted to scream at the boys (or girls) who were making me feel like a worthless piece of...
    madamoiselle madamoiselle 16-18, F Oct 13, 2008

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    People Don't Seem To Crush On Me Much

    I have been told people have fancied me in the past, but not like a deep intense crush or anything I think those type of crushes are reserved for really beautiful model-like girls. I am ''pretty'' but that is all besides my natural hair is reddish, and I think a lot of guys hate...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    A Broken Doll

    First off, I have 2 gorgeous sisters.  All of our life they get the stares, the curshes, and the relationships.  Here I am.  I'm a little overweight (but not obese) and not foul-looking.  I've heard at least that I'm not bad as far as looks go... yet here I...
    ASleepyDreamer ASleepyDreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    I have always wondered

    if someone ever liked me but never told me.. Usually I tell someone I like them and then they reciprocate, no one ever tells me first.. I wish they would one day, it would be flattering.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F May 12

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    I have not ever been told by someone

    as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but then I became afraid and stopped thinking it. In seventh grade me and a boy became so close that my friend thought we should go out...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    16 But Still

    I'm only 16 but I still find it weird that no one has ever crushed on me. I don't think I'm extremely hideous or anything, and my personality isn't terrible so I don't really get it. I've always thought that there is someone for everyone out there, but I'm starting to think that...
    Lifestooshort252 Lifestooshort252 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I think its soooo cute when someone has a crush and they think you don't know but their making it so obvious.😊😘 Doing little cute things to hint at it but not give it away...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jul 17

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    I'm 16 and have never been kissed. My friends always talk about the guys they hook up with, the ones they make out with, their fling of the day. I'm left out. Guys don't have an...
    Lindsey238 Lindsey238 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I have never been in a romantic relationship, nor do I ever plan on it. I just don't have time for the heartache! I am completely happy with this decision, but the only reason I...
    WAWM WAWM 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    ...it's weird I'm 17 and have never been on a date (": I'm not even that hard to please! Like take me to f**king KFC for all I care :') I'd just love to go on a date
    sawahdwaine sawahdwaine 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I have never been in love x_X ... When is it happening LOL? :/
    starmel94 starmel94 18-21, F Jul 17

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    Going along with the fact that I am a virgin by choice, I have never had a girlfriend. In high school my mind was on my future, and now? I don't know really... Honestly I've gotten...
    badgerman42 badgerman42 22-25, M Jul 13

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    I'm not the type of girl to complain about being "forever alone". However, lately that's what I'm genuinely concerned about. I am in a group of very tight-knit friends who have all...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    I would like to know if it is possible for me to write a romance. I consider myself a writer. I write a lot, and I have never had a class or anything, but there have been people...
    beaisforbliss beaisforbliss 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I'm not the type of girl to complain about being "forever alone". However, lately that's what I'm genuinely concerned about. I am in a group of very tight-knit friends who have all...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Yes, I've never been in a relationship.. There are times some guys and one girl confessed to me. But I've rejected them all. I support lesbians but I'm VERY VERY straight. I don't...
    IdioticBear IdioticBear 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I am 29, its getting silly for me. I understand i have always been shy, always had a hard time socializing because of my lack of experience. But i have tried different things. Yes...
    Chrisu28 Chrisu28 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I never danced with someone ever in my life. Well, back to my teenage days, I was very shy girl, I don't like to go to party. I never attend prom. They say JS prom was the best...
    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I'm turning 16 in a few days and i never been on a date or had a boyfriend sad right?
    TaylorsierraWilson TaylorsierraWilson 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm 34 years old and NO ONE has ever really asked me out on a date in real life. Of course I have dated. I have even married, and now I'm separating. I dated people I met online...
    anginsan99 anginsan99 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I had a peck in fifth grade but I have never had a real kiss
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I've never been to a Disney park in general but I would love to go someday it's in my bucket list when my sister went she got me light up Mickey Mouse ears with my name on them I...
    jwhood jwhood 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I don't know if it's weird But I've never been in a relationship as well..not that I never wanted to but I haven't asked a girl out before..and I wish I knew how to!!!
    gautamgk gautamgk 18-21, M Jul 11

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    Lol, woot woot. Club never been kissed, who's with me? XD
    ZeeBrah ZeeBrah 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    Never have never will. With the society is love is pointless.
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M Jul 7

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    i have never kissed anyone..........i am waiting for my first liplock and my gf........hope it would be a greatday when i find her and when i kiss her
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M Jul 13

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    I am in 8th grade and I'm literally like the only one who hasn't had their first kiss yet! I also have ever had a boyfriend before. And I'm scared of getting my first kiss. Like...
    captainamericafan captainamericafan 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    It kinda sucks I haven't .. I want to know what it's like to share everything with . To have someone to wake up and text immediately . Someone to laugh and cuddle with while...
    lilmisslouhoo lilmisslouhoo 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I have this big group of friends, and it was me and my friend who hadn't been kissed. Everyone else in the group had. Then my friend got a boyfriend. So now I'm the only one who...
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I almost went Sunday. I had been stuck behind this semi on 331 in lower Alabama for quite a while. Every time the road added a passing lane, he would stay in the left lane, not...
    System113 System113 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Yea, I'm young I get it. But it really sucks not having ever been in a relationship or anything close to one. Now a days anyone and everyone are in a relationship. I don't know if...
    AMB97 AMB97 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Hi, my name is Juliet I have been 30 lbs over weight since high school. I have tried a lot of programs but the weight always seems to come back. So I took some advice from my best...
    lossweight101 lossweight101 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm 27 .never had any boy in my life .forever alone :/ I've tried every chance before 25 ,I give up now .
    allnotmine allnotmine 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    literally, never in my whole life has anyone ever said they like me or anything lol at my life tbh. taking the single life to the next level 💁🙅
    nadinekate nadinekate 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I've never actually had a first kiss but I'm only 14 so I guess it'll happen though I doubt it.
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F Jul 20

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    I am 19 and never had a long term type relationship. You know recently I've tried meeting guys from dating sites but I get freaked our cause of my social and general anxiety. And I...
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Looking back at my life, I'm very surprised I never made the "mistake" of getting married and/or having kids too early on in life. I call it a mistake because, for me, it would...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I really wish i had. It sounds so amazing. Kissing a guy you like him kissing you back because he likes you back. Just ughhhh
    olsonn322 olsonn322 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I suppose I can leave this experience now. I had my first kiss and beyond. When the rest of you get there be sure to enjoy it :D
    HeyItsJosh HeyItsJosh 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    And I never will. Just too ugly to deserve a chance a love
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 30

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    Sometimes I wonder what it would feel like. Good? Bad? Amazing, and never want to quit? Or terrible and never want to again?
    msg767 msg767 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Well I mean being a mistake child, I really shouldn't have been bored, if only my dumbass parents were mature and smart. FML...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M Jul 14

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    Well never a serious one anyway. It's just my friends get all the boys they want then there's me, who always gets pushed away by the male species whenever f I show any intrest. I...
    ciciyoshi ciciyoshi 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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