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I Have Never Been Told Someone Has Or Had a Crush On Me

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    Never Ever Not Even Once...

    im 16 (and i know im still only young but still) and i have never known of any one who has had a crush on me. Not even once and all the rest of my friends have. I feel ugly because of it and i have a lowish self esteem. I just think it would be flattering to know someone out...
    DeMiDeMiSe DeMiDeMiSe 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    I have not ever been told by someone

    as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but then I became afraid and stopped thinking it. In seventh grade me and a boy became so close that my friend thought we should go out...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    Nobody Has Ever Had A Crush On Me.......

    I am now 23 years old and no guy has ever had a crush on me or said that they have a crush on me. I guess im not that hot to like or consider liking as a date. It sucks coz girls all had guys who fancied them or was shy of them but me ...no never!! If i go to the mall with my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 8, 2010

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    A Broken Doll

    First off, I have 2 gorgeous sisters.  All of our life they get the stares, the curshes, and the relationships.  Here I am.  I'm a little overweight (but not obese) and not foul-looking.  I've heard at least that I'm not bad as far as looks go... yet here I...
    ASleepyDreamer ASleepyDreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    Mostly No

    Besides the 'special' kid who used to eat my hair in 3rd grade i don't think anyone has ever had a crush on me lol My friend told me of one person once but i have reasons to believe she was lying or just making it up. Other then that.... i don't think so : / 
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    People Don't Seem To Crush On Me Much

    I have been told people have fancied me in the past, but not like a deep intense crush or anything I think those type of crushes are reserved for really beautiful model-like girls. I am ''pretty'' but that is all besides my natural hair is reddish, and I think a lot of guys hate...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    Nah...i Dont Want a Stalker!

    oh....*cringes in embarassment*....never. my friends get told all the time. i would be mostly "ooooh"-ing or "wow!"-ing for them. aargh! all those times that i had wanted to scream at the boys (or girls) who were making me feel like a worthless piece of...
    madamoiselle madamoiselle 16-18, F Oct 13, 2008

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    16 But Still

    I'm only 16 but I still find it weird that no one has ever crushed on me. I don't think I'm extremely hideous or anything, and my personality isn't terrible so I don't really get it. I've always thought that there is someone for everyone out there, but I'm starting to think that...
    Lifestooshort252 Lifestooshort252 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    The Force Behind My Depression.

    Yeah. Thats what causes my depressive state. Ive been told Im attractive etc, but never been told that Im liked.
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am 18 and have never been kissed, or have dated. I feel pathetic for writing this because I know that the vast majority off people my own age have at least gone on a date. I have...
    Narp12 Narp12 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I have never been in a relationship. I'm 36, gay and never been in a relationship with a male or female. I'm scared out of my mind because I'm sensitive to people and there...
    monteJ monteJ 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Yes, it is true. I have never been to Disneyland. Hopefully one day I will :)
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F Jan 29

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    I'm 26 and have never been kissed. It's just gotten to the point where I'm too embarassed that it will be my first kiss to have my first kiss. if that makes sense.
    sfoss21 sfoss21 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 16

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    I have never been kissed I am still waiting for a girl to kiss me
    paul642 paul642 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is not a regret, it's something I've known would happen. Parents thankfully divorced at age 4. My dad had weekend custody and is a great dad. Still, I saw how hard being a...
    MissASC77 MissASC77 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've had women friends; like a str8 guy has guy friends. Have never really had desire to be with a woman. Never had desire to chase after one.
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    Yep...not sure I even spelt it right but I've never been there.
    Codycope17 Codycope17 16-17, M Jan 28

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    I never been in a 3 year relationship. I should say 2 but I be lying. In the 2 years it was off and on. The max of my relationships was 6 months total.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have never tho or real one fake people
    ridleyswaq ridleyswaq 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's a little past midnight, and here I am thinking about a conversation I had with someone earlier. He pm'd me and asked, what one thing I really want in life. My answer was to...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    I'm 35 years old, and I've never kissed a woman. I'd like to, but I never seem to get to the point where it would be a reciprocated feeling. I've often tried to imagine what it's...
    halfblind79 halfblind79 31-35, M Feb 6

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    I'm 26 and have been single for my entire life. I was close to a relationship once when I was 22 and had my first kiss; but then he decided to go back to his ex, so ever since then...
    worrier07 worrier07 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 27

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    That asked me to meet 3am. I said no. He said pls. its the only time He has because in 3 days he will leave. I said why not reschedule it when both of us are free at night time...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Never was on a date, never had a chance to go on one. Seems like I'm just not what girls are looking for these days :D
    SorrowSong SorrowSong 18-21, M Feb 4

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    I have noticed several people in relationships, even going so far as to get married. They're all like "you'll find someone one day" this and "you need a partner" that and I'm...
    orderedchaos orderedchaos 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    It sucks because all around me I see and I think is it too much to ask for someone to love?
    Frozenfireflies Frozenfireflies 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    i had my own table to myself in 7th grade, 'cause no one wanted to sit by me.:/ it was very depressing.
    andylovesyou23 andylovesyou23 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    I mean I'm 13 what do you expect? 😂 I've had boyfriends but nothing deep
    Uhilikepizza Uhilikepizza 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    The only one I had was a online one but I don't count that, and I'm 15 I find it a little sad, but I know I will find a girl I like later in life.
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I never kiss anyone before.I want to kiss a woman. :( I wonder how does it feel.I always want to kiss my former therapist,teachers and professors because they were very beautiful...
    Stephanieloveowl Stephanieloveowl 26-30, F Jan 29

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    Gonna go with my Bf on a Carnival Cruise, anyone ever been? How is it?
    prettyg1 prettyg1 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Not to sure it sounds too great tbh though I am partial to a glass of cider. I did shots out of egg cups once with my friend and we got a bit tipsy but never drunk
    Minutes2Midnight Minutes2Midnight 13-15, F Feb 11

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    This suppose to be a negative thing?
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I should Just get used to it. Its not for me and Im fine with that.
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I'm 24 years old and being the wheel around your friends who are all couples just sucks. Sleeping alone at night in a big bed hugging pillows wishing it was a person instead, then...
    nubianprince21 nubianprince21 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    I dont really know how it feels to be in love
    johnny437 johnny437 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    But I did ride in the passenger's side of a cop car :)
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    I mean I'm pretty young but I want that experience like "talking", going on dates, falling asleep on the phone, surprise visits, everything like that, I want to see what its like.
    FrankietheCat FrankietheCat 16-17, F Feb 8

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    I´m so hard to handle... difficult to convince ... except, of course, by the gentle persuasion of his kisses... mmmm......
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    kinda, totally lame for a sixteen year old lol
    Tomboygirl98 Tomboygirl98 16-17, F 17 Responses Feb 18

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    Yup . true I'am still in the closet I guess that's why but one day I hope i kiss the one and I will feel the magic huh I watch a lot of movies But I rly hope someday
    brokenV brokenV 18-21 1 Response Feb 19

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    I caught part of it right here
    Shhhhandenjoy Shhhhandenjoy 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    It's true and kinda sad. I want a boyfriend so bad
    ciarajones179 ciarajones179 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm almost 33 and have never had a "real" girlfriend. I say "real" because I had a girlfriend in high school, but you're so young and it's such a learning experience can that be...
    dirtydan3 dirtydan3 26-30 Feb 1

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    my eyes are a dark green and in the sun I have been told that they look like emeralds. I absolutely love my eyes :)
    AceTeen123 AceTeen123 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I was born on the Philippines. As a baby I was adopted by my Swiss parents. I've always been told I've been a foundling and my biological parents probably died in a storm or...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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