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I Have Never Been Told Someone Has Or Had a Crush On Me

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    16 But Still

    I'm only 16 but I still find it weird that no one has ever crushed on me. I don't think I'm extremely hideous or anything, and my personality isn't terrible so I don't really get it. I've always thought that there is someone for everyone out there, but I'm starting to think that...
    Lifestooshort252 Lifestooshort252 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Never Ever Not Even Once...

    im 16 (and i know im still only young but still) and i have never known of any one who has had a crush on me. Not even once and all the rest of my friends have. I feel ugly because of it and i have a lowish self esteem. I just think it would be flattering to know someone out...
    DeMiDeMiSe DeMiDeMiSe 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    I have not ever been told by someone

    as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but then I became afraid and stopped thinking it. In seventh grade me and a boy became so close that my friend thought we should go out...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    A Broken Doll

    First off, I have 2 gorgeous sisters.  All of our life they get the stares, the curshes, and the relationships.  Here I am.  I'm a little overweight (but not obese) and not foul-looking.  I've heard at least that I'm not bad as far as looks go... yet here I...
    ASleepyDreamer ASleepyDreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    I have always wondered

    if someone ever liked me but never told me.. Usually I tell someone I like them and then they reciprocate, no one ever tells me first.. I wish they would one day, it would be flattering.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    Nobody Has Ever Had A Crush On Me.......

    I am now 23 years old and no guy has ever had a crush on me or said that they have a crush on me. I guess im not that hot to like or consider liking as a date. It sucks coz girls all had guys who fancied them or was shy of them but me ...no never!! If i go to the mall with my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 8, 2010

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    The Force Behind My Depression.

    Yeah. Thats what causes my depressive state. Ive been told Im attractive etc, but never been told that Im liked.
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    People Don't Seem To Crush On Me Much

    I have been told people have fancied me in the past, but not like a deep intense crush or anything I think those type of crushes are reserved for really beautiful model-like girls. I am ''pretty'' but that is all besides my natural hair is reddish, and I think a lot of guys hate...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    Nah...i Dont Want a Stalker!

    oh....*cringes in embarassment*....never. my friends get told all the time. i would be mostly "ooooh"-ing or "wow!"-ing for them. aargh! all those times that i had wanted to scream at the boys (or girls) who were making me feel like a worthless piece of...
    madamoiselle madamoiselle 16-18, F Oct 13, 2008

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    Mostly No

    Besides the 'special' kid who used to eat my hair in 3rd grade i don't think anyone has ever had a crush on me lol My friend told me of one person once but i have reasons to believe she was lying or just making it up. Other then that.... i don't think so : / 
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    I'm just going to be honest. I have never been in a real relationship. Sometimes I feel like no one understands what it's like to truly be alone and I mean alone alone. I can...
    106hopfulrhoughts 106hopfulrhoughts 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    I'm just going to be honest. I have never been in a real relationship. Sometimes I feel like no one understands what it's like to truly be alone and I mean alone alone. I can...
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    I'm just going to be honest. I have never been in a real relationship. Sometimes I feel like no one understands what it's like to truly be alone and I mean alone alone. I can...
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    I try to avoid making decisions because I do not want to be held liable if I mess up. I have no clue if I chose the right major in college, or what I will even do with it. When I...
    mike1989r mike1989r 22-25, M Nov 30

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    I been in 4 relationship in my life but have never been on a real date. Each one of them I knew before we were together but the friendship become relationship. I wonder what a...
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I'm 21 and never been in a relationship. I know that there are other people who are in the same boat, but everyone else in my life has had a relationship or are in a...
    rysac rysac 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 12

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    I'll be completely honest, I've never been in a real relationship. I'm gay and I hate that the gay community is mainly centered around sex. I don't want sex, I want friendship...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 3

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    I have received many emails after posting my last experience here claiming that i am a cheater. Let me put it right that even in the relationships that I had before getting married...
    Rirchu Rirchu 26-30, M a week ago

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    Sometimes I don't understand why I don't have a boyfriend. I understand having a boyfriend is not everything and school is a higher priority than guys however, I just don't...
    livelaughlove365 livelaughlove365 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've never been in a relationship and I never will I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I will forever be single
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    I feel like I will be forever single until like 50 or so. I've never been in a relationship, or had a first kiss those are the things I get sad over and I will never have. Mabey...
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    I think there are many reasons why I've never been in a relationship... Mainly because I'm always afraid of how it's going to turn out, or how much I will change once I'm in one...
    tayylah tayylah 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I've never been asked straight up...just like "hey kid...let's go eat some ice cream later." Or "I'll take you out to (insert amusement park) since you're younger. I don't know...
    SerineTheSquirrel SerineTheSquirrel 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    Lol i have like never been kissed before u knu and lol frankly speaking right now I don't even wanna be. I mean like I'm almost 18 and lol I don't feel like I'm missing out on...
    mynameisismyname mynameisismyname 16-17, F Dec 9

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    Talk about not being on a "real" date. I've NEVER been on a date to even consider defining a no existent experience a "non-real" one. : (
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've never been kissed. Hopefully soon.
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I mean Ive been in a relationship, and I still haven't been kissed and its so look freaking annoying! I know preschoolers who have it better than me in their love lives, and its...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am gay, i really want a man to kiss me.. I have never felt this way and i dream about the day i will..
    tommy21v tommy21v 18-21, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've had two or three major crushes max. but the 'in love' feeling is alien to me. i can't understand why people would go to so much lengths or trouble to be 'in love'.
    cooledown cooledown 22-25, F Dec 6

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F Nov 27

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    I'm in college and I've never even held hands romantically with anyone. I've had two relationships and the longest one lasted a week (it was messy and dumb) and I stopped talking...
    lmcrepsley lmcrepsley 18-21, T 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Guys lose interest in me.... and I know deep down in the core of me I will never find love. I never had my first kiss (pathetic as it may sound). I'm a loser an loner...
    kaymor kaymor 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Update Blood test today. Any of you had fever for two weeks? One week while taking antibiotics? Can it be a virus? Can it be that the virus has survived temperatures of 100.6 and...
    discovery5 discovery5 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    iv been on a double date with some friends before. but iv also asked someone to go with me to a more fancy restraint like olive garden, her mother would never her let her leave...
    aadamchick aadamchick 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    if someone physically in the state of iowa wants I would love to have a real romantic date with whoever. need to find someone in Iowa usa.
    transgirl28 transgirl28 26-30, T 5 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    ** This is probably why. I fear this very thing. Vulnerability is beyond difficult. *** "When you love someone, truly love them, you lay your heart open to them. You give them a...
    SecretEscape SecretEscape 36-40, F 12 Responses Nov 24

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    I usually keep away from people, I donĀ“t have interest in forming a meaningfull relationship, or getting married, or having children. Some friend try to set my up with guys, but I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I dated dozens of women from the ages of 15 when I started dating to age 38 when I finally got married and never once fell in love with any of them. I wanted to but it just wasn't...
    Elcoman115 Elcoman115 51-55, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've never have been I'n one and ill probably never have one and depressed I don't have one. I feel that I'm going to be single forever and never get married or have a wife and...
    jstaples534 jstaples534 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    16, never had a bf. Hopefully that changes tonight
    incrediblelife1011 incrediblelife1011 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 3

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    I was with a man for 13 years and even though we were married for I think 5 years(made a lasting impression I guess) I don't consider it an actual relationship. It was horribly...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Had my 1st one today that was by a non relative
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Dec 7

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    sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me or if I'm just flat out choosing partners that are not going to make it to that point. I'm going to be 34 on next Sunday, and...
    FoxyNC FoxyNC 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    well I been in love before..a couple times in my life..but I thought I put this song on to share since it reminded of that dope track from Talib Kweli :)
    jonnygoode74 jonnygoode74 36-40, M Nov 30

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