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I Have Never Been Told Someone Has Or Had a Crush On Me

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    Never Ever Not Even Once...

    im 16 (and i know im still only young but still) and i have never known of any one who has had a crush on me. Not even once and all the rest of my friends have. I feel ugly because of it and i have a lowish self esteem. I just think it would be flattering to know someone out...
    DeMiDeMiSe DeMiDeMiSe 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    16 But Still

    I'm only 16 but I still find it weird that no one has ever crushed on me. I don't think I'm extremely hideous or anything, and my personality isn't terrible so I don't really get it. I've always thought that there is someone for everyone out there, but I'm starting to think that...
    Lifestooshort252 Lifestooshort252 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    Mostly No

    Besides the 'special' kid who used to eat my hair in 3rd grade i don't think anyone has ever had a crush on me lol My friend told me of one person once but i have reasons to believe she was lying or just making it up. Other then that.... i don't think so : / 
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    I have not ever been told by someone

    as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but then I became afraid and stopped thinking it. In seventh grade me and a boy became so close that my friend thought we should go out...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    The Force Behind My Depression.

    Yeah. Thats what causes my depressive state. Ive been told Im attractive etc, but never been told that Im liked.
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    A Broken Doll

    First off, I have 2 gorgeous sisters.  All of our life they get the stares, the curshes, and the relationships.  Here I am.  I'm a little overweight (but not obese) and not foul-looking.  I've heard at least that I'm not bad as far as looks go... yet here I...
    ASleepyDreamer ASleepyDreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    Nah...i Dont Want a Stalker!

    oh....*cringes in embarassment*....never. my friends get told all the time. i would be mostly "ooooh"-ing or "wow!"-ing for them. aargh! all those times that i had wanted to scream at the boys (or girls) who were making me feel like a worthless piece of...
    madamoiselle madamoiselle 16-18, F Oct 13, 2008

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    People Don't Seem To Crush On Me Much

    I have been told people have fancied me in the past, but not like a deep intense crush or anything I think those type of crushes are reserved for really beautiful model-like girls. I am ''pretty'' but that is all besides my natural hair is reddish, and I think a lot of guys hate...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    Nobody Has Ever Had A Crush On Me.......

    I am now 23 years old and no guy has ever had a crush on me or said that they have a crush on me. I guess im not that hot to like or consider liking as a date. It sucks coz girls all had guys who fancied them or was shy of them but me ...no never!! If i go to the mall with my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 8, 2010

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    I have never been in any remote relationship with anyone and I'm not in the prime of my life and don't know what to do. I have nobody and have absolutely zero confidence with...
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    Yes, it is true. I have never been to Disneyland. Hopefully one day I will :)
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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 18

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    I've never been in love but I've had crushes for guys. The strongest feelings I ever had was for a Counselor I had. I don't want to fall in love if they don't love me back.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 14

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    I just had one of those crazy dreams where you think everything that is happening is real, I just had a thought that maybe it's my mind trying to tell me something. I've been to...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I've had women friends; like a str8 guy has guy friends. Have never really had desire to be with a woman. Never had desire to chase after one.
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I apologize for my English. And I'm bad with words. And I'm seldom able to put my feelings into words. But how I've been feeling these past few months, it's the worst ever. I've...
    MargoRothSpiegelman MargoRothSpiegelman 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    So as of a few days ago I was convinced that I have been in love 3 times in my life. Twice with co workers and once with someone on EP. But I've started to think, maybe I wasn't in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I don't know.. I guess I'm not rich enough, or smart enough, or handsome enough whatever.. I don't really care anymore, life's just a big competition full of winners and losers...
    xColdxWorldx xColdxWorldx 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I am 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend (yes I'm straight) so of course I've never been married and though some wouldn't think so, I'm way to young to have children.
    AvaDay AvaDay 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Unlike a ton of people I know I haven't been married as of yet. Two of my closest friends are married. I feel like if I was in a much better financial situation than my life has...
    eartheyes82 eartheyes82 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have liked many girls but never been in love with anyone, not even myself haha maybe i'll never get feelings for anyone, who knows ? XD
    MrImperfect MrImperfect 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    Yep...not sure I even spelt it right but I've never been there.
    Codycope17 Codycope17 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I told myself I wont post anything anymore about me being alone and lonely and sad about my none existent lovelife... but recent event made me write and I just have no one to share...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 41 Responses Jan 6

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    i always used to think to myself "whats wrong with me?" but these days i dont ask myself that any more,i just became more accepting of who i am, and tell myself that the world...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    I'm 26 and have been single for my entire life. I was close to a relationship once when I was 22 and had my first kiss; but then he decided to go back to his ex, so ever since then...
    worrier07 worrier07 26-30, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    It has never appealed to me at all. Why pay over the odds when there is so much space outside to be used for free!!?
    Supastition Supastition 22-25, M Jan 6

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    That asked me to meet 3am. I said no. He said pls. its the only time He has because in 3 days he will leave. I said why not reschedule it when both of us are free at night time...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Is it bad that I dated a girl for 6 months my longest relationship so far I never kissed her once I held her hand hugged her cuddled but never kissed because I wanted to wait till...
    PabloBoyyyy PabloBoyyyy 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    how dare he say what he did. he has no right.
    kitkat2797 kitkat2797 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I think if a guy has a gf... I shouldn't be talking to him, because I would definitely get jealous if my guy was talking to girls, but that's just my opinion. And I have no if des...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been cuffed and spanked and now self cuff and self spank. Any questions? Ask away!!!
    canadarm canadarm 61-65, M 6 days ago

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    Majority of my relationships have been failures both on my part and theirs. I know I'm just going to have to wait but single city sucks :p
    Iceynoember Iceynoember 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I've been kissed but that was in third grade. Didn't mean anything. I want a kiss that's filled with love. But yet I don't know how to kiss. LOL. Might be awkward.
    PoopieNoodle PoopieNoodle 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    By "real," I mean, I've never met a stranger, they asked me on a date, and then we went somewhere together at later and specified time to learn more about each other.
    loveVSlust loveVSlust 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I never kiss anyone before.I want to kiss a woman. :( I wonder how does it feel.I always want to kiss my former therapist,teachers and professors because they were very beautiful...
    Stephanieloveowl Stephanieloveowl 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    this thought often creeps up on me; quietly and uninvited throughout the day. i have no recollection of a period of time where i have felt truly happy, uninhibited, free...not even...
    mariegander mariegander 26-30, F Jan 6

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    that is...until I found this site...I've met a lot of truly sincere, funny, and kind people here. and I guess I just want to say thanks to those people and let you know that all of...
    Inara24 Inara24 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I like the picture for this experience hahaha!
    AICLover AICLover 13-15, F Jan 10

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    I wish I could kiss a boy it will make 2015 so much better than 2014
    proud2Bgay proud2Bgay 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Although I'm turning 21 soon, I'm actually okay with not being in a relationship. I want to focus on myself and be at the place I want to be at before meeting a guy and being in a...
    JeannieInAChampagneBottle JeannieInAChampagneBottle 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    Oh wait...... There was one time......... Alright nvm this
    Lollipop948 Lollipop948 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 10

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