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I Have Never Been Told Someone Has Or Had a Crush On Me

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    Mostly No

    Besides the 'special' kid who used to eat my hair in 3rd grade i don't think anyone has ever had a crush on me lol My friend told me of one person once but i have reasons to believe she was lying or just making it up. Other then that.... i don't think so : / 
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    People Don't Seem To Crush On Me Much

    I have been told people have fancied me in the past, but not like a deep intense crush or anything I think those type of crushes are reserved for really beautiful model-like girls. I am ''pretty'' but that is all besides my natural hair is reddish, and I think a lot of guys hate...
    IrishEyes84 IrishEyes84 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    I have always wondered

    if someone ever liked me but never told me.. Usually I tell someone I like them and then they reciprocate, no one ever tells me first.. I wish they would one day, it would be flattering.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    A Broken Doll

    First off, I have 2 gorgeous sisters.  All of our life they get the stares, the curshes, and the relationships.  Here I am.  I'm a little overweight (but not obese) and not foul-looking.  I've heard at least that I'm not bad as far as looks go... yet here I...
    ASleepyDreamer ASleepyDreamer 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    Nobody Has Ever Had A Crush On Me.......

    I am now 23 years old and no guy has ever had a crush on me or said that they have a crush on me. I guess im not that hot to like or consider liking as a date. It sucks coz girls all had guys who fancied them or was shy of them but me ...no never!! If i go to the mall with my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 8, 2010

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    16 But Still

    I'm only 16 but I still find it weird that no one has ever crushed on me. I don't think I'm extremely hideous or anything, and my personality isn't terrible so I don't really get it. I've always thought that there is someone for everyone out there, but I'm starting to think that...
    Lifestooshort252 Lifestooshort252 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    The Force Behind My Depression.

    Yeah. Thats what causes my depressive state. Ive been told Im attractive etc, but never been told that Im liked.
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Never Ever Not Even Once...

    im 16 (and i know im still only young but still) and i have never known of any one who has had a crush on me. Not even once and all the rest of my friends have. I feel ugly because of it and i have a lowish self esteem. I just think it would be flattering to know someone out...
    DeMiDeMiSe DeMiDeMiSe 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2008

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    Nah...i Dont Want a Stalker!

    oh....*cringes in embarassment*....never. my friends get told all the time. i would be mostly "ooooh"-ing or "wow!"-ing for them. aargh! all those times that i had wanted to scream at the boys (or girls) who were making me feel like a worthless piece of...
    madamoiselle madamoiselle 16-18, F Oct 13, 2008

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    I have not ever been told by someone

    as well. Even though my family says I'm pretty and a few other friend have as well I don't believe it. For a time I really did think I was but then I became afraid and stopped thinking it. In seventh grade me and a boy became so close that my friend thought we should go out...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 18

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    So I'm 20 years old.. Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I am 19 I have never been in a relationship or even kissed a boy, it is very embarrassing if someone ask if I have been in a relationship I always lie and I've been in a few...
    MissLadyJay MissLadyJay 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I've never been in mutual romantic love before. I've had strong feelings for men but they have never been returned. (sound the little violin) lol I don't mean to sound like a...
    23starinthesky 23starinthesky 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have never been in a relationship with anyone. Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 22

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    I have never been in a relationship. My little sister has had a lot of boyfriends. It is lonely yes but it is hard to find a good guy.
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I have never been kissed and I am turning 17 in a month.. All of my friends have been kissed and I am the only one who hasn't. It has definitely taken its toll on my self esteem...
    Grace1123 Grace1123 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm 25 and have never been out on a real date! Really? I have a child [I'm devoted] but I've never been to the movies or out with a man. I've never really had a boyfriend either. I...
    Chunkydunkin Chunkydunkin 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    My sister has always bed the smart pretty one. All of my friends loved and adored her. Every guy I liked, liked her, or wanted her. Some guys would only date me to make her jealous...
    MarisoleLane MarisoleLane 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I have never been rejected cause i have never asked anyone :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I was 8years old mom thought he was great i however disagreed he raped me several times and would make me promise not to say anything he would hit to ensure i wouldnt say anything...
    Liv4 Liv4 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    im 34 now, and have still never been in a relationship of any kind!! i never really can understand myself sometimes, i mean, i totally wish i could be in a relationship, but i cant...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    I am 20 year old girl that has never been kissed or anything else like even go on a date and not because I'm waiting for the one. Is there something wrong with me that guys aren't...
    Ari555 Ari555 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Never been in a relationship and I'm 18. Maybe because I don't have the body guys don't like me or maybe because I can talk back..
    ki2su ki2su 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Idk what to write, what to say, what to do................................... I just know I have never ever been this depressed and sad..... I am lonely.......................I don...
    00Lordiran00 00Lordiran00 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Im turn 21 in two weeks and ive never been in a relationship and ive accepted the fact that i never will be in one
    anonymous2456 anonymous2456 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 1

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    its sad and really hurts my self esteem. no guys at my school find me attractive and ive never been in a serious relationship that wasnt long distance :(
    kkkeeennnzzz kkkeeennnzzz 13-15, F Sep 3

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    Do I really have to write stuff here? But ja. Never been kissed.. I'm that girl in the class who everyone's mates with but no one thinks of me as more than a mate..
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I have two kids and don't know anyone to babysit, I still haven't been to a bar. They aren't really what I'm into but I've always wanted the experience.
    thefeels21 thefeels21 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    My friend is a wonderful person. He's patient, honest, caring, and a dork. We've been (internet) friends for about a year now. Although we didn't talk much one-on-one(we mostly...
    PorcelainMaiden PorcelainMaiden 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I still remember my first crush clearly and i even know this isn't healthy. She worked across from me when i was 15 (AWkward years lol). Though this is an unhealthy obsession...
    SirKnight86 SirKnight86 26-30, M Aug 21

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    I am talking to this guy and I've never really done this type of thing before... you know... flirting... And today he asked me what was up and I responded as usual and then he...
    Kairagnes Kairagnes 18-21, F Sep 2

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    I can go against peer pressure! All my life I've been my own person and quite independent! I remember back at school people seem to put people in groups depending on what type of...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have a sweet friend who is a dork. He's younger than me by a couple of years, but he is a very nice guy. We're some pretty good internet friends. Unfortunately, I have no...
    PorcelainMaiden PorcelainMaiden 16-17, F Sep 8

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    I can't fall in love with someone because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F Aug 19

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    How does it feel to kiss someone? I have had few dreams where I was kissing some girl, and I have only that. Does it feel similar?
    GhostLoveScore GhostLoveScore 22-25 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I've had some setbacks, but am now ready for a man in my life. I'm scared that he'll judge me for it. If I do meet someone, should I not tell them?
    SingleSuz SingleSuz 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want to love him... But he wasn't there. Happy moment just lasted for a few dates. Making me feeling myself not good enough. There were many nights that I cried alone. Hoping...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F Aug 20

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    I dont even know if anyone has them anymore. I thought I would grow up and go to one, one day. But it wasn't that kind of life.
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F Aug 20

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    What does it feel like to be that close to a man? To know that he's all yours and all you want? How do you find someone willing to let you inside of them if only for a brief moment...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I honestly do not get why everyone wants one, or thinks I am lame for not having a boyfriend. I am only 14 years old, I do not need a boyfriend or sex or love, I believe I am not...
    HelloKittyBaby HelloKittyBaby 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    And I'm about to be 18. I moved a lot so I never accepted any offers and when high school came around, I still to this day haven't accepted any offers. I'm done with high school...
    lunalancing lunalancing 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I can't believe it... It's just never happened...
    Alex033 Alex033 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    It's depressing it's why I can never watch any movie that shows a passionate kiss it's just way to painful to watch
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 3

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    My wife an I are looking to have a 3 done. We have no idea how to start out. We are looking for a girl for fmf. Want to step up to the plate?
    strange111 strange111 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Haha yeah thats me.. Idc tbh , for me love is so not important to me.what is that actually??. "Love,love,love what so good about it . Absolutely nothing"-effy stonem I Agreed...
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I always feel like I'm not good enough I am a nice person very friendly but it seems like the people who are mean get everything I'm seeing people I used to go to school with...
    fairycake1 fairycake1 22-25, F Aug 31

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