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I Have Never Been Understood

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    Forever And Ever

    Not one has ever understood me. I get that. I'm so used to people not understanding that I just shrug whenever I notice it. That doesn't bother me. As soon as I realized it, I accepted it whatever. But that's not what bugs me. What really gets to me is when they try. My family...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F Aug 10, 2010

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    Never Been

    A few understands me, many doesn't.  When we don't see eye to eye on certain issues, then you can never understand me.  Anyway, I have always felt different and it is hard for people to understand me, there; I have never been understood and not a bad thing either, lol.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 7, 2011

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    Maybe Im Just

     too confusing... :/ i think I'm pretty simple but maybe I'm disillusioning myself D:
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Dec 13, 2009

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    I Guess I Say The Wrong Things

    Sometimes I try to make myself understood and it always back fires.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    I Don't Mind

    I have stopped explaining myself years ago. Nobody cares to understand, so why should I take time to explain.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Rarely Understood It Seems

    When I talk people seem to missunderstand what I say or try to get across. However in writing they understand me it seems.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Nov 24, 2011

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    Nobody Understands

    People look at me like I am insane. I keep to myself for reasons that nobody understands. Its like I am ugly, well I am so tahts true.. I am different from others I know but doesn't give people a right for them to tease me or throw things at me. I just wish one person would...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F Mar 14, 2011

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    Maybe I Expect Too Much

    I am used to it, never having anyone who understands me, but sometimes I just wish I had someone who at least tried.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I have never been in a relationship with anyone. Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 22

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    I have never been rejected cause i have never asked anyone :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I have always liked someone, or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm this type of girl that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I have never been kissed before and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F Aug 12

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    My sister has always bed the smart pretty one. All of my friends loved and adored her. Every guy I liked, liked her, or wanted her. Some guys would only date me to make her jealous...
    MarisoleLane MarisoleLane 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have never been in a relationship. My little sister has had a lot of boyfriends. It is lonely yes but it is hard to find a good guy.
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have never been kissed and I am turning 17 in a month.. All of my friends have been kissed and I am the only one who hasn't. It has definitely taken its toll on my self esteem...
    Grace1123 Grace1123 16-17, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have never been in love nor do I want to. I am also a virgin. I use to that girl. That wanted to fall in love ,get married, have a family, be a stay at home mom, and live...
    Ellebella1 Ellebella1 22-25, F a week ago

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    So I'm 20 years old.. Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm 18 and never been in a relationship, never been kissed. It's easy for me to talk to guys because I'm a tomboy, but now I'm in college I really would like alittle more male...
    CayaMonet CayaMonet 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 12

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    "Im 10 11 12 13 14...etc.. never been kissed, forever alone" Okay Guys Okay <3
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Nope, never been kissed. I'm not quite sure how I feel about that.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I have a boyfriend... But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F Aug 13

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    I'm in the closet so I've never been in a relationship or on a date
    Swagmuch123 Swagmuch123 13-15, F Aug 15

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    Never been in a relationship and I'm 18. Maybe because I don't have the body guys don't like me or maybe because I can talk back..
    ki2su ki2su 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Idk what to write, what to say, what to do................................... I just know I have never ever been this depressed and sad..... I am lonely.......................I don...
    Lordiran Lordiran 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    And I'm about to be 18. I moved a lot so I never accepted any offers and when high school came around, I still to this day haven't accepted any offers. I'm done with high school...
    lunalancing lunalancing 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have a huge crush on two of my best friends. I told the one how I felt two years ago and a week later found out he was dating my now ex-best friend. Which is why I'm afraid to...
    KittKattSparklerz KittKattSparklerz 16-17, F Aug 4

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    Never have and never will.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    And I will never! EVER! I only need my lovely family, my awesome friends, and my dreams to come true. That's what makes me happy c:
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    Why did he kiss me!? It was out of nowhere and it just happened so fast! In a blink of an eye his lips were on mine, they were soft and plush but I'm not attracted to him it that...
    XSimplyXSuicideX XSimplyXSuicideX 13-15, F Aug 14

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I honestly do not get why everyone wants one, or thinks I am lame for not having a boyfriend. I am only 14 years old, I do not need a boyfriend or sex or love, I believe I am not...
    HelloKittyBaby HelloKittyBaby 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was in high school, I did not care what so ever. I did even consider dating any guys or having a boyfriend and to me it wasn't a big deal. I was always oblivious to anyone...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm 16 and I haven't kissed anyone for real. In a way I want to get it overwith but I also want it to be special.
    bryceeeh bryceeeh 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Lol cuz it's not really all of that. I have a deep voice for a woman. It's not creepy gross deep. Like not on the borderline of a man's. It's just, if I screamed, I'd sound more...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I know i'm not beautiful or cute as all of other guys but i'm still human and i think every human needs to be loved and to feel wanted but it's really hard nowadays to feel loved...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I can't fall in love with someone because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F Aug 19

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    My wife an I are looking to have a 3 done. We have no idea how to start out. We are looking for a girl for fmf. Want to step up to the plate?
    strange111 strange111 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Haha yeah thats me.. Idc tbh , for me love is so not important to me.what is that actually??. "Love,love,love what so good about it . Absolutely nothing"-effy stonem I Agreed...
    Medinaprathama Medinaprathama 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    How does it feel to kiss someone? I have had few dreams where I was kissing some girl, and I have only that. Does it feel similar?
    GhostLoveScore GhostLoveScore 22-25 2 Responses a week ago

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    fairycake1 fairycake1 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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