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I Have Never Been Understood

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    Forever And Ever

    Not one has ever understood me. I get that. I'm so used to people not understanding that I just shrug whenever I notice it. That doesn't bother me. As soon as I realized it, I accepted it whatever. But that's not what bugs me. What really gets to me is when they try. My family...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F Aug 10, 2010

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    I Guess I Say The Wrong Things

    Sometimes I try to make myself understood and it always back fires.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Maybe Im Just

     too confusing... :/ i think I'm pretty simple but maybe I'm disillusioning myself D:
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Dec 13, 2009

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    Rarely Understood It Seems

    When I talk people seem to missunderstand what I say or try to get across. However in writing they understand me it seems.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Nov 24, 2011

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    Never Been

    A few understands me, many doesn't.  When we don't see eye to eye on certain issues, then you can never understand me.  Anyway, I have always felt different and it is hard for people to understand me, there; I have never been understood and not a bad thing either, lol.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 7, 2011

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    I Don't Mind

    I have stopped explaining myself years ago. Nobody cares to understand, so why should I take time to explain.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Maybe I Expect Too Much

    I am used to it, never having anyone who understands me, but sometimes I just wish I had someone who at least tried.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    I am 18 and I have never been kissed. This is probably a big shocker to people since they are always telling me how pretty or cute I am. I guess there's just something wrong with...
    Juliette18 Juliette18 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    There it is, I'm 26 years old and in ALL of the relationships I've been in (There have been a lot) I have never once been in love. I have been infatuated for a short time, but I...
    Walelah Walelah 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    im almost 17 years old and never been kissed does any one else find that pathetic
    bloodincubus bloodincubus 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    cara1998 cara1998 13-15, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    sacredfire222 sacredfire222 41-45 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    vierge vierge 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    VayaKilljoy VayaKilljoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I've never had that feeling no girl wants to kiss me they can do so much better than me
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I wish I could have a kiss on the lips even tho I never have all I have had was a kiss on the cheek 😩😄
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    technically im sure weve all been kissed when were little. ;)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    And I don't plan on it any time soon! It scares me how people that have been married for decades and decades feel about marriage.. It seems like they want/crave everybody BUT the...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I am 17. I have a boyfriend. He has been my boyfriend for six months now. Still, no signs of a kiss. I feel like a failure, that my first kiss is at an old age.
    LostDreamz LostDreamz 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    People keep telling me, it will happen when you least expect it. And I'm tired of hearing it because this is what happens when I least expect it: 1. I stop looking. 2. I randomly...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This is really weird. I'm 17, and have had my first boyfriend for six months. Yet, no kiss. No signs of a kiss. It makes me sad. I wonder why he hasn't kissed me.
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    HeyItsJay HeyItsJay 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm almost 20 years old and it still hasn't happened. I'm just not pretty enough I guess. And I'm DEFINITELY not smooth with the opposite sex. I feel so pathetic.
    CookieMischief CookieMischief 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I can now say that paying for a clean record 😉😀👍
    vividdreamer97 vividdreamer97 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I like my first kiss to be special
    kaitlinpeige kaitlinpeige 13-15, F Mar 30

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    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Sad but true Maybe il make it to 18 without a ever having a boyfriend or being kissed 😂😭
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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    Culinaryman23 Culinaryman23 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I don't know what happened to it but its a huge turn off to other people its ****** up and weird meh whatever pfffft :3 #foreveralone :3
    yaysandwich yaysandwich 18-21, F Apr 5

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    doesnt mean i wont sing tho :3
    yaysandwich yaysandwich 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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