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I Have Never Been Understood

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    Forever And Ever

    Not one has ever understood me. I get that. I'm so used to people not understanding that I just shrug whenever I notice it. That doesn't bother me. As soon as I realized it, I accepted it whatever. But that's not what bugs me. What really gets to me is when they try. My family...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F Aug 10, 2010

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    Maybe Im Just

     too confusing... :/ i think I'm pretty simple but maybe I'm disillusioning myself D:
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Dec 13, 2009

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    I Don't Mind

    I have stopped explaining myself years ago. Nobody cares to understand, so why should I take time to explain.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Nobody Understands

    People look at me like I am insane. I keep to myself for reasons that nobody understands. Its like I am ugly, well I am so tahts true.. I am different from others I know but doesn't give people a right for them to tease me or throw things at me. I just wish one person would...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F Mar 14, 2011

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    Never Been

    A few understands me, many doesn't.  When we don't see eye to eye on certain issues, then you can never understand me.  Anyway, I have always felt different and it is hard for people to understand me, there; I have never been understood and not a bad thing either, lol.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 7, 2011

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    Maybe I Expect Too Much

    I am used to it, never having anyone who understands me, but sometimes I just wish I had someone who at least tried.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    I Guess I Say The Wrong Things

    Sometimes I try to make myself understood and it always back fires.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Rarely Understood It Seems

    When I talk people seem to missunderstand what I say or try to get across. However in writing they understand me it seems.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Nov 24, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I am 17 years old, and i have never been legitimately kissed. I know, i know i am a horrible person, but hey! i am okay with that. I would rather make my first kiss special, with...
    emptyspaces009 emptyspaces009 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm this type of girl that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I have never been kissed before and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F a week ago

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    I have always liked someone, or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    Lol, woot woot. Club never been kissed, who's with me? XD
    ZeeBrah ZeeBrah 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    "Im 10 11 12 13 14...etc.. never been kissed, forever alone" Okay Guys Okay <3
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Nope, never been kissed. I'm not quite sure how I feel about that.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm in the closet so I've never been in a relationship or on a date
    shawow057 shawow057 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Never been in a relationship and I'm 18. Maybe because I don't have the body guys don't like me or maybe because I can talk back..
    ki2su ki2su 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a boyfriend... But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    My wife an I are looking to have a 3 done. We have no idea how to start out. We are looking for a girl for fmf. Want to step up to the plate?
    strange111 strange111 36-40, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    The only time I ever bumped lips with someone, which in my opinion doesn't count as kissing, was when I was 12 for a dare and I didn't even feel it (thankfully). I don't really...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I almost went Sunday. I had been stuck behind this semi on 331 in lower Alabama for quite a while. Every time the road added a passing lane, he would stay in the left lane, not...
    System113 System113 18-21, M Jul 24

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    I have this big group of friends, and it was me and my friend who hadn't been kissed. Everyone else in the group had. Then my friend got a boyfriend. So now I'm the only one who...
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I have a huge crush on two of my best friends. I told the one how I felt two years ago and a week later found out he was dating my now ex-best friend. Which is why I'm afraid to...
    KittKattSparklerz KittKattSparklerz 16-17, F Aug 4

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    Never have and never will.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've never actually had a first kiss but I'm only 14 so I guess it'll happen though I doubt it.
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F Jul 20

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    I find it really sad that I'm 14 and I never kissed a girl
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    "When was your first kiss?" Everyone else: "10" "13" "11" Me:"..... I think I accidentally miight have bumped into a guy and our lips touched but it might've been a dream so..."
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm 22 never had a boyfriend wtf is wrong with me?
    sourpatchkid578 sourpatchkid578 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    And I will never! EVER! I only need my lovely family, my awesome friends, and my dreams to come true. That's what makes me happy c:
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Why did he kiss me!? It was out of nowhere and it just happened so fast! In a blink of an eye his lips were on mine, they were soft and plush but I'm not attracted to him it that...
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I am in 8th grade and I'm literally like the only one who hasn't had their first kiss yet! I also have ever had a boyfriend before. And I'm scared of getting my first kiss. Like...
    captainamericafan captainamericafan 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I am a tom boy that love comics, video games, and american football. I'm very open minded to any sports though. I am just now getting into football(soccer). I just don't have any...
    geminiqueen94 geminiqueen94 18-21, F Jul 23

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    I really want to have this experience
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M Jul 25

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    When I was in high school, I did not care what so ever. I did even consider dating any guys or having a boyfriend and to me it wasn't a big deal. I was always oblivious to anyone...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm 16 and I haven't kissed anyone for real. In a way I want to get it overwith but I also want it to be special.
    bryceeeh bryceeeh 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I'm 15 and haven't had my first kiss yet.... But oh well ._.)/ when I do I want it to be special ^-^
    PrincessAyyoBbyBoo PrincessAyyoBbyBoo 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Lol cuz it's not really all of that. I have a deep voice for a woman. It's not creepy gross deep. Like not on the borderline of a man's. It's just, if I screamed, I'd sound more...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F a week ago

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    I know i'm not beautiful or cute as all of other guys but i'm still human and i think every human needs to be loved and to feel wanted but it's really hard nowadays to feel loved...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't fall in love with someone because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    Nope elementary school doesn't count I'm literally forever alone
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F Jul 20