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I Have Never Been Understood

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    Never Been

    A few understands me, many doesn't.  When we don't see eye to eye on certain issues, then you can never understand me.  Anyway, I have always felt different and it is hard for people to understand me, there; I have never been understood and not a bad thing either, lol.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 7, 2011

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    Forever And Ever

    Not one has ever understood me. I get that. I'm so used to people not understanding that I just shrug whenever I notice it. That doesn't bother me. As soon as I realized it, I accepted it whatever. But that's not what bugs me. What really gets to me is when they try. My family...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F Aug 10, 2010

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    I Guess I Say The Wrong Things

    Sometimes I try to make myself understood and it always back fires.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Maybe Im Just

     too confusing... :/ i think I'm pretty simple but maybe I'm disillusioning myself D:
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F Dec 13, 2009

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    Rarely Understood It Seems

    When I talk people seem to missunderstand what I say or try to get across. However in writing they understand me it seems.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Nov 24, 2011

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    Nobody Understands

    People look at me like I am insane. I keep to myself for reasons that nobody understands. Its like I am ugly, well I am so tahts true.. I am different from others I know but doesn't give people a right for them to tease me or throw things at me. I just wish one person would...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F Mar 14, 2011

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    I Don't Mind

    I have stopped explaining myself years ago. Nobody cares to understand, so why should I take time to explain.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Maybe I Expect Too Much

    I am used to it, never having anyone who understands me, but sometimes I just wish I had someone who at least tried.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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