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I Have Never Been With A Man

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    Never Have And Never Will

    I never have been and never will be with a man, because I'm a lesbian, 100%, all the way, and proud and happy to be  Simple as that.  I could leave it there - like, enough said But when I noticed this group here, a thought did occurr, about peoples' perceptions of this - well...
    LadyWorsleysWhim LadyWorsleysWhim 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    I Have No ...

    ... desire to be with a man. I do like a woman who can be dominate and will use toys on me, but I have no desire for the real thing.
    kowpoke61 kowpoke61 46-50, M Jul 29, 2010

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    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I am 17 years old, and i have never been legitimately kissed. I know, i know i am a horrible person, but hey! i am okay with that. I would rather make my first kiss special, with...
    emptyspaces009 emptyspaces009 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I have always liked someone, or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm this type of girl that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I have never been kissed before and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F a week ago

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    Lol, woot woot. Club never been kissed, who's with me? XD
    ZeeBrah ZeeBrah 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    "Im 10 11 12 13 14...etc.. never been kissed, forever alone" Okay Guys Okay <3
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Nope, never been kissed. I'm not quite sure how I feel about that.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I have a boyfriend... But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I'm in the closet so I've never been in a relationship or on a date
    shawow057 shawow057 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Never been in a relationship and I'm 18. Maybe because I don't have the body guys don't like me or maybe because I can talk back..
    ki2su ki2su 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am a tom boy that love comics, video games, and american football. I'm very open minded to any sports though. I am just now getting into football(soccer). I just don't have any...
    geminiqueen94 geminiqueen94 18-21, F Jul 23

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    My wife an I are looking to have a 3 done. We have no idea how to start out. We are looking for a girl for fmf. Want to step up to the plate?
    strange111 strange111 36-40, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    It's kind of wierd all of my friends are starting too and it's not like I necessarily like I want to be in one. I want to wait until i find the right guy but some of my friends are...
    depthisyourfriend depthisyourfriend 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    The only time I ever bumped lips with someone, which in my opinion doesn't count as kissing, was when I was 12 for a dare and I didn't even feel it (thankfully). I don't really...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Lol cuz it's not really all of that. I have a deep voice for a woman. It's not creepy gross deep. Like not on the borderline of a man's. It's just, if I screamed, I'd sound more...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F a week ago

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    I almost went Sunday. I had been stuck behind this semi on 331 in lower Alabama for quite a while. Every time the road added a passing lane, he would stay in the left lane, not...
    System113 System113 18-21, M Jul 24

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    Never have and never will.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've never actually had a first kiss but I'm only 14 so I guess it'll happen though I doubt it.
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F Jul 20

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    I find it really sad that I'm 14 and I never kissed a girl
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I have this big group of friends, and it was me and my friend who hadn't been kissed. Everyone else in the group had. Then my friend got a boyfriend. So now I'm the only one who...
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    "When was your first kiss?" Everyone else: "10" "13" "11" Me:"..... I think I accidentally miight have bumped into a guy and our lips touched but it might've been a dream so..."
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm 22 never had a boyfriend wtf is wrong with me?
    sourpatchkid578 sourpatchkid578 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    I have a huge crush on two of my best friends. I told the one how I felt two years ago and a week later found out he was dating my now ex-best friend. Which is why I'm afraid to...
    KittKattSparklerz KittKattSparklerz 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    And I will never! EVER! I only need my lovely family, my awesome friends, and my dreams to come true. That's what makes me happy c:
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Why did he kiss me!? It was out of nowhere and it just happened so fast! In a blink of an eye his lips were on mine, they were soft and plush but I'm not attracted to him it that...
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am in 8th grade and I'm literally like the only one who hasn't had their first kiss yet! I also have ever had a boyfriend before. And I'm scared of getting my first kiss. Like...
    captainamericafan captainamericafan 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I wasn't allowed to date till I was 16. When I was 17 I had my first boyfriend and I'm still with him :)
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 22

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    a lot of my friends trust me with their secrets so they often tell me that they are in love.i smile at them.what fools there is no such thing as love.Agree??
    hilalkhan hilalkhan 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I really want to have this experience
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M Jul 25

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    When I was in high school, I did not care what so ever. I did even consider dating any guys or having a boyfriend and to me it wasn't a big deal. I was always oblivious to anyone...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm 16 and I haven't kissed anyone for real. In a way I want to get it overwith but I also want it to be special.
    bryceeeh bryceeeh 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    That is why when I watch movies with kissing scenes, I get envious haha.
    AlfieMark AlfieMark 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I'm 15 and haven't had my first kiss yet.... But oh well ._.)/ when I do I want it to be special ^-^
    PrincessAyyoBbyBoo PrincessAyyoBbyBoo 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I know i'm not beautiful or cute as all of other guys but i'm still human and i think every human needs to be loved and to feel wanted but it's really hard nowadays to feel loved...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't fall in love with someone because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F 14 hrs ago

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    I really love my boyfriend, we've been dating for 2 years this fall. And I don't want to hurt him, that's why I've tried to rationally explain that I think we should break up and...
    RomanticLesbian RomanticLesbian 18-21, F Jul 29

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    Nope elementary school doesn't count I'm literally forever alone
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F Jul 20

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