I Have Never Cheated On Anyone In Any Relationship

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    Yeah, I think I'm pretty trustworthy.

    .. though I did have that little make-out fling with a married woman. I suppose she was cheating, despite being separated, I was just an enabler.
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    May 4, 2014

    Cheating Is A Deal Breaker

    I have never cheated on anyone, and I will never be the other woman. I will not date people who have cheated, I have broken up with people because I found out they cheated on someone else. I strongly believe, once a cheater always a cheater. It shows a complete lack of respect...
    demonpanda demonpanda
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2011

    Cause I've never been in one :D *cue

    Beyoncé's Single Ladies*
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn
    18-21, F
    Sep 26, 2014

    Loyalty.

    I am always loyal to the people I Iove. When I have a meaningful relationship with someone, I give my loyalty to him/her. I think this is why i can never cheat.
    FishPasteAndRice FishPasteAndRice
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 2, 2013

    The One

    It started with a dream; both figurative and literal. It was when i was in a depression that was like being trapped in a dark and room that cut off the 5 senses; i was too scared to explore, i couldn't see, hear or feel anything and i was alone. Every now and then there would be...
    icktomi icktomi
    22-25, M
    Feb 18, 2013

    Why Would I ?

    I believe in monogamy, without it you don't & won't have a true union. Third parties, no thanks. Online emotional affairs are cheating to me. These things are intriguing in fantasy, but to act on them, never. I've never cheated, even when I could have by means of revenge, by a...
    Brodieme Brodieme
    26-30, M
    Aug 30, 2013

    Never Have, Never Will

    I just don't understand cheating.  If you aren't happy with who you are with, then maybe you should end that relationship, but cheating is just so wrong.
    jasonk jasonk
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 26, 2008

    There is absolutely no reason to cheat

    if you don't like the person break up with them
    oilchick1488 oilchick1488
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2014

    I am proud to say that I have never physically

    cheated on anyone while in a relationship (ie having sex) and I never will. The only things I have done which are similar, is kissing a guy while I was drunk, and feeling emotionally attached to another guy. I don't count emotional attachment as cheating really because it's not...
    AryaFairgloom AryaFairgloom
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 30, 2014

    Naw But Then Again...

    I've NEVER been in a relationship. ROFLMAO. Oh that's right, I only find MYSELF funny. *walks out* Umm on a serious note, I don't think I could ever cheat on anyone if I did manage to date. Not my thang. It's better to break if you wanna be with someone else.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    2 Responses May 30, 2011

    Well...

    Considering I've never been in a relationship in the first place, I've never really had the chance to cheat on anyone... But if I ever was in a relationship, I wouldn't cheat.  I would just be so grateful to be in one, I wouldn't care about anyone else.
    RopinTexan RopinTexan
    22-25, M
    10 Responses Jan 19, 2009

    I have views on dating anyways(different story)

    but I see no point in ever cheating just break up? If you have other views id love to hear them
    doc15 doc15
    18-21, F
    Mar 17, 2015

    Never have and never will.

    If it comes to a relationship then he is the only one for me, there's no thing such cheating, not even flirt with other guys. Just end it right away if one of us feel we can't keep our relationship anymore, cheating just make both of us get hurt.
    Ellanese Ellanese
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    Nope, Never...

    It's not worth it. If you don't want to be with someone you should be honest with them, and if you do want to be with them, you should never cheat or lie to them.....
    MathewJT MathewJT
    18-21, M
    Oct 27, 2012

    Never Cheated

    I've been very fortunate. I've had many wonderful, beautiful, intelligent women in my life. But only one at a time. That's simply a matter of honor. If she's good enough to be with, she deserves respect. Anyway, what's so f-ing hard about breaking up before you move on? Yeah...
    Sacron11 Sacron11
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2011

    I'm in a long distance relationship.

    And so, I'm growing a fluffy chastity belt in his absence. He knows damn well I'm not up to anything bad looking like a samsquanch under my leggings. :)
    prettyprude prettyprude
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    Never A Cheater

    Cheating? It never made sense for me to betray my closest allies. Some (mostly cheaters) say that temptation is everywhere, well how about for starters avoiding those kinds of situations? I was promoted to bartender and the opportunity to work until 2-3am presented itself. My...
    TheLoneCharles TheLoneCharles
    26-30, M
    May 10, 2012

    I think trust and honesty are the most

    important thing in a relationship. It hurts to be chested on. I couldn't live with myself if I gave that pain to someone else.
    EllieAmazing EllieAmazing
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2014

    I have never cheated any partner in any

    relationship. If you are married and cheating then why even get married? No sense to me and a no brainer. Go figure.
    mominpool mominpool
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2014

    Never have...never will.

    I hate cheaters.
    Smileeboo Smileeboo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014

    I have a problem my twin sister is going on A

    date with her boyfriend but he cheating on her and she will not hear me out
    Triplepower Triplepower
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2014

    I Can't Imagine Doing It.

    Cheating. I am not a cheater and haven't even thought cheating! I have been faithful to the man I was married to and feel good about that.  I feel that it is the most disrespectful, unloving act that anyone can do to a person whom they "love". I have not been "cheated upon" so...
    fightn4me fightn4me
    46-50, F
    Apr 30, 2012

    I've been cheated on by almost every girl I've

    dated. I have yet to cheat. But I think people, mostly girls, write off emotional cheating. It's still cheating, folks.
    MickeyRager MickeyRager
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 25, 2014

    Thud

    I remember when I blithely hit the 'Me Too' button on this one I was a little bit proud of my record of commitment!  I was so confident I hit it with a thud.But then I've thought about it a little and decided I'm not even sure it's a good thing.  I might have had a much better...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan
    46-50
    1 Response Feb 27, 2011

    Never Cheat.

    So I was at the boys and girls club today and I'm taken so this dude was trying to do the red nose with me .. And I got really pissed off because I didn't want him touching me when I'm taken cause my boyfriend will think IM cheating. Thank god I ain't never seeing that dude again...
    LenaCarrabbia LenaCarrabbia
    22-25, F
    Sep 12, 2013

    Why

    Why would I bother causing myself grief or someone else.  When my first marriage went bad I could have started an affair but why.  Why would I put myself through that. Why would I put someone else through it?  Why would I complicate a situation by adding another person to the...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords
    56-60, M
    Mar 9, 2012

    I'm just a loyal, honest,

    caring person and i feel that cheating is unfair.
    breannainreverse breannainreverse
    16-17, F
    Mar 29, 2014

    I would never cheat, it's wrong.

    I can't understand why anyone in their right mind would do it, it's so disrespectful to your partner and yourself.
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector
    22-25, F
    Sep 27, 2014

    My wife and I have been married

    for over thirty years. I have slept with at least twelve different women over these years and my wife knows about every one of them. She has slept with quite a few men over that time as well. I don't know for sure but I think it's around twenty. We have been swingers for many...
    Gloryous Gloryous
    61-65, M
    1 Response Dec 13, 2014

    It's You And Only You

    And I doubt I ever will. It's not who I am.My LOYALTY to a partner is one of my strongest qualities. If I am in a HEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP there is no one else for me but you...whoever YOU are...although there is no you, right now.If I love you, and you love me, then my...
    Carissimi Carissimi
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2012

    Can It Be Worked Out???

    I have never cheated in a relationship, but I have had it done to me. It is a horrible feeling. It causes a sense of insecurity in the relationship. I found myself questioning every move he made & not trusting him @ all. Wondering if or when it would happen again because I didn't...
    ojerch ojerch
    31-35, F
    Sep 26, 2012

    I don't see a point. If I don't like the guy

    anymore, I will just break up with him. It's that simple.
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog
    70+, F
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    It's actually funny cuz

    when I'm in a relationship I'm honest and open with the other person but yet I have always got cheated on in my past relationships which I don't think much about anymore but it's still not the best feeling in the world when u get cheated on I believe relationship is about trust...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    Never Cheated, It's a Sin, But What Do You Call Wanting To?

    my husband has cheated with one person, several times since we've been married and at least 3 times a year for the 5 years that we dated before then. he's always found the girls online and i've always wondered how do you find the scum of the earth so many times over? how can...
    true1woman true1woman
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Apr 24, 2009
    liveforever1 liveforever1
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 25, 2014

    I'm the only person in my family

    that has never cheated. Everyone has a cheating problem but somehow I didn't get that gene. I'm too loyal and caring.
    cuteshyginger cuteshyginger
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    Never Ever

    i have never done that. never cheated with a woman i was with neither friend or relationship and i really cannot understand why do that... you fool yourself, not the other...you will loose in the end...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 9, 2012

    I Never Cheated On Anyone

    im just tring to find out why im the one who always gets cheated on, my ex of 10 years cheated on me several times, i took her back every time. but this time it hurts so bad
    justme1961 justme1961
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Oct 30, 2012

    I used to regret this.

    After seeing how much it hurt the people in my life when it happened to them, I'm glad I never have. I never want to make someone feel that hurt.
    chlopo chlopo
    22-25, F
    Sep 1, 2015

    Always Been Faithful

    Never cheated. Never could. Guess I'm old fashioned or something. Yes, I thought about it and still do. Never acted on that thought.
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2008

    Loyalty is my policy.

    If you want to be a cheater, leave the relationship
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective
    22-25, F
    Dec 31, 2013
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4
    16-17, F
    Sep 26, 2014
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