Post

I Have Never Cheated On Anyone In Any Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,245 People

    It's You And Only You

    And I doubt I ever will. It's not who I am.My LOYALTY to a partner is one of my strongest qualities. If I am in a HEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP there is no one else for me but you...whoever YOU are...although there is no you, right now.If I love you, and you love me, then my...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've been cheated on by almost every girl I've

    dated. I have yet to cheat. But I think people, mostly girls, write off emotional cheating. It's still cheating, folks.
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Never Cheated On Anyone

    im just tring to find out why im the one who always gets cheated on, my ex of 10 years cheated on me several times, i took her back every time. but this time it hurts so bad
    justme1961 justme1961 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The One

    It started with a dream; both figurative and literal. It was when i was in a depression that was like being trapped in a dark and room that cut off the 5 senses; i was too scared to explore, i couldn't see, hear or feel anything and i was alone. Every now and then there would be...
    icktomi icktomi 18-21, M Feb 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Loyalty is my policy.

    If you want to be a cheater, leave the relationship
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective 18-21, F Dec 31, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Can It Be Worked Out???

    I have never cheated in a relationship, but I have had it done to me. It is a horrible feeling. It causes a sense of insecurity in the relationship. I found myself questioning every move he made & not trusting him @ all. Wondering if or when it would happen again because I didn't...
    ojerch ojerch 31-35, F Sep 26, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Always Been Faithful

    Never cheated. Never could. Guess I'm old fashioned or something. Yes, I thought about it and still do. Never acted on that thought.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I never cheated ,, I go out with few man,

    , but i never cheated on then,, most of then left,,, because i don't kiss on the first date or have sex with then,,,what loser some of them are,,,that all they are....until i met my boyfriend i have now he treat me good ,,,
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Can't Imagine Doing It.

    Cheating. I am not a cheater and haven't even thought cheating! I have been faithful to the man I was married to and feel good about that.  I feel that it is the most disrespectful, unloving act that anyone can do to a person whom they "love". I have not been "cheated upon" so...
    fightn4me fightn4me 46-50, F Apr 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Even Though It Was Tempting, I didn't.

    I dated this one girl whom I had absolutely no feelings for for a short time about 2 or 3 years ago, because she was the only person that seemed willing to date me. Turned out she was just using me for sex too, so it wasn't even a real relationship anyway. But during this fling...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Cheat.

    So I was at the boys and girls club today and I'm taken so this dude was trying to do the red nose with me .. And I got really pissed off because I didn't want him touching me when I'm taken cause my boyfriend will think IM cheating. Thank god I ain't never seeing that dude again...
    LenaCarrabbia LenaCarrabbia 18-21, F Sep 12, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never.

    My ex has cheated on me at least once... I say at least because even though he said it was just the once, but I have my doubts... I don't believe a word he ever said to me... But no, I have never cheated on anyone. I wish I could get up and say that I will never cheat on anyone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 9, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have never cheated any partner in any

    relationship. If you are married and cheating then why even get married? No sense to me and a no brainer. Go figure.
    mominpool mominpool 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Cheated, It's a Sin, But What Do You Call Wanting To?

    my husband has cheated with one person, several times since we've been married and at least 3 times a year for the 5 years that we dated before then. he's always found the girls online and i've always wondered how do you find the scum of the earth so many times over? how can...
    true1woman true1woman 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 24, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He Would Tell You Another Story

    My stalker/abuser would tell you that I did and kept on even after he "showed" me that "I was his". I have never and never would.
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F May 12, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Jealous

    Despite having one or two jealous bfs one of which tracked me down after only 1 or 2 dates to an obscure location on campus I was found to be working alone on my project.  One was simply unusually upset not to find me where he expected to find me while visiting me at work...
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Ever

    i have never done that. never cheated with a woman i was with neither friend or relationship and i really cannot understand why do that... you fool yourself, not the other...you will loose in the end...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The thing is that i never had been in a

    relationship so that means i have never cheated anyone :D *high five for my wise thinking*
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Twice She Did It...

    I am 16 by the way, which may make the story easier to understand...   There was this girl that i really liked and was going to ask out, we had been mates for a while. To my horror she told me that she liked this other guy and asked me to take tome pictures of him for...
    comet1993 comet1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Up - Grades

    I have always had to much respect for the ladies that I have dated to ever cheat on them. The same is true for my ex-wife. It has never been in my charter to do that. Its not who I am. Love means more to me than that. I have had many chances to up-grade as you will but the...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 7 Responses Jul 5, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Would I ?

    I believe in monogamy, without it you don't & won't have a true union. Third parties, no thanks. Online emotional affairs are cheating to me. These things are intriguing in fantasy, but to act on them, never. I've never cheated, even when I could have by means of revenge, by a...
    Brodieme Brodieme 26-30, M Aug 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never

    ive never cheated on anyone even though i was cheated on. 
    rhadhd rhadhd 31-35, M Nov 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Was Tempted In One And Was The Other Woman In Another

    My first actual boyfriend was a long distance online affair.... he was a couple years older than me and I was only 16 at the time. I thought we were in love. We'd be up all night on webcams for about 6 months straight. Things then hit a rough patch.... we both wanted to be...
    Jupiterfalling Jupiterfalling 18-21, F Aug 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Naw But Then Again...

    I've NEVER been in a relationship. ROFLMAO. Oh that's right, I only find MYSELF funny. *walks out* Umm on a serious note, I don't think I could ever cheat on anyone if I did manage to date. Not my thang. It's better to break if you wanna be with someone else.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 2 Responses May 30, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Have, Never Will

    I just don't understand cheating.  If you aren't happy with who you are with, then maybe you should end that relationship, but cheating is just so wrong.
    jasonk jasonk 41-45 1 Response Jul 26, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Cheating Is A Deal Breaker

    I have never cheated on anyone, and I will never be the other woman. I will not date people who have cheated, I have broken up with people because I found out they cheated on someone else. I strongly believe, once a cheater always a cheater. It shows a complete lack of respect...
    demonpanda demonpanda 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Just Can't Do It.

    Towards the end of my marriage, my Ex and I were having a conversation.  I asked him if he ever thought that I cheated on him.  He let out a laugh and said....knowing you..I can almost swear that you haven't.  At that very moment, I hated the fact that he knew too well that I...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Nope, Never...

    It's not worth it. If you don't want to be with someone you should be honest with them, and if you do want to be with them, you should never cheat or lie to them.....
    MathewJT MathewJT 18-21, M Oct 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Haven't Cheated On Anyone, But Have Been The Other Woman.

    Me and my current boyfriend had been together for 2 years when this happened, we was unhappy and fighting all the time. Each of us where our first real romances, and one day he broke up with me. A month later he got with a girl he had claimed to just be his 'friend' for the last...
    bubblesbubbles bubblesbubbles 18-21 Sep 7, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never have...never will.

    I hate cheaters.
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never A Cheater

    Cheating? It never made sense for me to betray my closest allies. Some (mostly cheaters) say that temptation is everywhere, well how about for starters avoiding those kinds of situations? I was promoted to bartender and the opportunity to work until 2-3am presented itself. My...
    TheLoneCharles TheLoneCharles 26-30, M May 10, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm the only person in my family

    that has never cheated. Everyone has a cheating problem but somehow I didn't get that gene. I'm too loyal and caring.
    cuteshyginger cuteshyginger 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why

    Why would I bother causing myself grief or someone else.  When my first marriage went bad I could have started an affair but why.  Why would I put myself through that. Why would I put someone else through it?  Why would I complicate a situation by adding another person to the...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M Mar 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well...

    Considering I've never been in a relationship in the first place, I've never really had the chance to cheat on anyone... But if I ever was in a relationship, I wouldn't cheat.  I would just be so grateful to be in one, I wouldn't care about anyone else.
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 10 Responses Jan 19, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm just a loyal, honest,

    caring person and i feel that cheating is unfair.
    breannainreverse breannainreverse 13-15, F Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have a problem my twin sister is going on A

    date with her boyfriend but he cheating on her and she will not hear me out
    Triplepower Triplepower 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yeah, I think I'm pretty trustworthy.

    .. though I did have that little make-out fling with a married woman. I suppose she was cheating, despite being separated, I was just an enabler.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M May 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am proud to say that I have never physically

    cheated on anyone while in a relationship (ie having sex) and I never will. The only things I have done which are similar, is kissing a guy while I was drunk, and feeling emotionally attached to another guy. I don't count emotional attachment as cheating really because it's not...
    AryaFairgloom AryaFairgloom 22-25, F 2 Responses May 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    liveforever1 liveforever1 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Loyalty.

    I am always loyal to the people I Iove. When I have a meaningful relationship with someone, I give my loyalty to him/her. I think this is why i can never cheat.
    FishPasteAndRice FishPasteAndRice 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Thud

    I remember when I blithely hit the 'Me Too' button on this one I was a little bit proud of my record of commitment!  I was so confident I hit it with a thud.But then I've thought about it a little and decided I'm not even sure it's a good thing.  I might have had a much better...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 1 Response Feb 27, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Ever Happened To Loyalty ?

    To cheat on a partner, someone whom you love ...NOwhy would you think it would be ok .I have never cheated ...never will!we took our vows and made a pact to one-anotherNow the lies you used, the lies that are killing me.... aren't hurting you..you sleep soundly .. yet i toss...
    Englishgent1970 Englishgent1970 36-40, M Apr 2, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Naturally Monogamous

    I've never felt the need to cheat on someone I was with. If I'm with someone, it's because they are the one I want to be with, and no one else. If I wasn't being satisfied in the relationship, I wouldn't bother to cheat- I'd just end the relationship.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Refuse to Comment On the ...

    I refuse to comment on the grounds that it might incriminate me.
    smallseight smallseight 31-35 Dec 7, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I don't understand people who cheat, it's disgusting. I experienced a boyfriend who had a side-thing during part of our relationship, because he was THAT desperate for sex...
    Cindell Cindell 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have never been in a relationship with anyone. Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 19 I have never been in a relationship or even kissed a boy, it is very embarrassing if someone ask if I have been in a relationship I always lie and I've been in a few...
    MissLadyJay MissLadyJay 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have never been in a relationship. My little sister has had a lot of boyfriends. It is lonely yes but it is hard to find a good guy.
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Never cheated. I always viewed cheaters as cowardly and pathetic and I'm neither of those things.
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've never cheated! I've been cheated on though. Cheaters never seem to get the concept of how much pain they inflict on others! Cheating is selfish... Just be single if you want...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    im 34 now, and have still never been in a relationship of any kind!! i never really can understand myself sometimes, i mean, i totally wish i could be in a relationship, but i cant...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel