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I Have Never Cheated On Anyone In Any Relationship

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    Never Have, Never Will

    I just don't understand cheating.  If you aren't happy with who you are with, then maybe you should end that relationship, but cheating is just so wrong.
    jasonk jasonk 41-45 1 Response Jul 26, 2008

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    Never Have

    i have never done this and dont see the point if someone cares about you enough to be with you they deserve better
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 1, 2008

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    I've been cheated on by almost every girl I've

    dated. I have yet to cheat. But I think people, mostly girls, write off emotional cheating. It's still cheating, folks.
    MickeyRager MickeyRager 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    Even Though It Was Tempting, I didn't.

    I dated this one girl whom I had absolutely no feelings for for a short time about 2 or 3 years ago, because she was the only person that seemed willing to date me. Turned out she was just using me for sex too, so it wasn't even a real relationship anyway. But during this fling...
    tjlkitty tjlkitty 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    I Just Can't Do It.

    Towards the end of my marriage, my Ex and I were having a conversation.  I asked him if he ever thought that I cheated on him.  He let out a laugh and said....knowing you..I can almost swear that you haven't.  At that very moment, I hated the fact that he knew too well that I...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    liveforever1 liveforever1 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    Why Would I ?

    I believe in monogamy, without it you don't & won't have a true union. Third parties, no thanks. Online emotional affairs are cheating to me. These things are intriguing in fantasy, but to act on them, never. I've never cheated, even when I could have by means of revenge, by a...
    Brodieme Brodieme 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    The One

    It started with a dream; both figurative and literal. It was when i was in a depression that was like being trapped in a dark and room that cut off the 5 senses; i was too scared to explore, i couldn't see, hear or feel anything and i was alone. Every now and then there would be...
    icktomi icktomi 18-21, M Feb 18, 2013

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    I Haven't Cheated On Anyone, But Have Been The Other Woman.

    Me and my current boyfriend had been together for 2 years when this happened, we was unhappy and fighting all the time. Each of us where our first real romances, and one day he broke up with me. A month later he got with a girl he had claimed to just be his 'friend' for the last...
    bubblesbubbles bubblesbubbles 18-21 Sep 7, 2012

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    Twice She Did It...

    I am 16 by the way, which may make the story easier to understand...   There was this girl that i really liked and was going to ask out, we had been mates for a while. To my horror she told me that she liked this other guy and asked me to take tome pictures of him for...
    comet1993 comet1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Up - Grades

    I have always had to much respect for the ladies that I have dated to ever cheat on them. The same is true for my ex-wife. It has never been in my charter to do that. Its not who I am. Love means more to me than that. I have had many chances to up-grade as you will but the...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 7 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    Never Cheated, It's a Sin, But What Do You Call Wanting To?

    my husband has cheated with one person, several times since we've been married and at least 3 times a year for the 5 years that we dated before then. he's always found the girls online and i've always wondered how do you find the scum of the earth so many times over? how can...
    true1woman true1woman 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Never A Cheater

    Cheating? It never made sense for me to betray my closest allies. Some (mostly cheaters) say that temptation is everywhere, well how about for starters avoiding those kinds of situations? I was promoted to bartender and the opportunity to work until 2-3am presented itself. My...
    TheLoneCharles TheLoneCharles 26-30, M May 10, 2012

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    Jealous

    Despite having one or two jealous bfs one of which tracked me down after only 1 or 2 dates to an obscure location on campus I was found to be working alone on my project.  One was simply unusually upset not to find me where he expected to find me while visiting me at work...
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    Nope, Never...

    It's not worth it. If you don't want to be with someone you should be honest with them, and if you do want to be with them, you should never cheat or lie to them.....
    MathewJT MathewJT 18-21, M Oct 27, 2012

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    Naw But Then Again...

    I've NEVER been in a relationship. ROFLMAO. Oh that's right, I only find MYSELF funny. *walks out* Umm on a serious note, I don't think I could ever cheat on anyone if I did manage to date. Not my thang. It's better to break if you wanna be with someone else.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 2 Responses May 30, 2011

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    Of Course Not

    When it comes to relationships, I can be too forgiving at times. However, one thing I can't abide is cheating. I have had four relationships (two with the same person) and some form of cheating or suspicion of it or something even remotely pertaining to cheating has happened...
    Quetzal Quetzal 18-21, F Jul 15, 2009

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    Never.

    My ex has cheated on me at least once... I say at least because even though he said it was just the once, but I have my doubts... I don't believe a word he ever said to me... But no, I have never cheated on anyone. I wish I could get up and say that I will never cheat on anyone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 9, 2008

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    I Refuse to Comment On the ...

    I refuse to comment on the grounds that it might incriminate me.
    smallseight smallseight 31-35 Dec 7, 2008

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    Thud

    I remember when I blithely hit the 'Me Too' button on this one I was a little bit proud of my record of commitment!  I was so confident I hit it with a thud.But then I've thought about it a little and decided I'm not even sure it's a good thing.  I might have had a much better...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 1 Response Feb 27, 2011

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    I Can't Imagine Doing It.

    Cheating. I am not a cheater and haven't even thought cheating! I have been faithful to the man I was married to and feel good about that.  I feel that it is the most disrespectful, unloving act that anyone can do to a person whom they "love". I have not been "cheated upon" so...
    fightn4me fightn4me 46-50, F Apr 30, 2012

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    I'm just a loyal, honest,

    caring person and i feel that cheating is unfair.
    breannainreverse breannainreverse 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I Have Always Been Faithful

    I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN FAITHFUL TO EVERY MAN I HAVE EVER LOVED. I DONT LIKE CHEATING AND I FEEL IF U HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP THEN U TWO SHOULD BE ABLE TO CONMUNICATE OPENLY AND HONESTLY ABOUT ANYTHING. THERE SHOULD BE NO SECRETS OR TRUST ISSUES.
    spicyxhotxandxlooking spicyxhotxandxlooking 36-40, F Jan 4, 2011

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    No Excuses

    Having been cheated on myself (more than once), and having felt the heart-wrenching effect of such a personalised rejection followed often by scant remorse on the part of the guilty, I am especially proud of having my own moral code, from which I have never strayed, in terms of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12, 2008

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    Always Been Faithful

    Never cheated. Never could. Guess I'm old fashioned or something. Yes, I thought about it and still do. Never acted on that thought.
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2008

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    He Would Tell You Another Story

    My stalker/abuser would tell you that I did and kept on even after he "showed" me that "I was his". I have never and never would.
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F May 12, 2008

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    I Am Too Nice

    Everyone says i am a nice person to be honest i think i am too nice. I have been cheated on by men but i would never ever cheat on someone especially if i thought they were the right person for me. it has taken me 2 years to get build up my confidence to go out with a man again...
    coolcat87 coolcat87 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    I Won't Put Anyone Else Through That Pain.

    I remember how broken I felt when I found out that I wasn't the only one. I remember how crushed I felt, how depraved of a single semblance of trust in humanity I was, when I realized that all those little things that seemed quaint, but not suspicious, were him trying to keep his...
    thispromo thispromo 16-17, F Jul 11, 2011

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    And I Don't Think I Ever Will..

    Though i've been dumped while at a **** up with family when my ex admitted to me he was with another woman, though i've found out another ex was actually ''happily'' married with three kids and have just been cheated on by others, i would never do that to anyone no matter how...
    173A 173A 18-21, F Jun 11, 2011

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    It's You And Only You

    And I doubt I ever will. It's not who I am.My LOYALTY to a partner is one of my strongest qualities. If I am in a HEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP there is no one else for me but you...whoever YOU are...although there is no you, right now.If I love you, and you love me, then my...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    NEVER!

    I would never want to hurt the person that I'm with. And I know how much pain cheating can cause a person! I've been cheated on a few times myself. :-/ So, I would never do the same to anyone else. EVER! If I simply fall out of love with someone or things don't work out, I do...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 19, 2009

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    Cheating Is A Deal Breaker

    I have never cheated on anyone, and I will never be the other woman. I will not date people who have cheated, I have broken up with people because I found out they cheated on someone else. I strongly believe, once a cheater always a cheater. It shows a complete lack of respect...
    demonpanda demonpanda 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    Never Cheated

    I've been very fortunate. I've had many wonderful, beautiful, intelligent women in my life. But only one at a time. That's simply a matter of honor. If she's good enough to be with, she deserves respect. Anyway, what's so f-ing hard about breaking up before you move on? Yeah...
    Sacron11 Sacron11 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    What Ever Happened To Loyalty ?

    To cheat on a partner, someone whom you love ...NOwhy would you think it would be ok .I have never cheated ...never will!we took our vows and made a pact to one-anotherNow the lies you used, the lies that are killing me.... aren't hurting you..you sleep soundly .. yet i toss...
    Englishgent1970 Englishgent1970 36-40, M Apr 2, 2012

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    Can It Be Worked Out???

    I have never cheated in a relationship, but I have had it done to me. It is a horrible feeling. It causes a sense of insecurity in the relationship. I found myself questioning every move he made & not trusting him @ all. Wondering if or when it would happen again because I didn't...
    ojerch ojerch 31-35, F Sep 26, 2012

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    Never

    ive never cheated on anyone even though i was cheated on. 
    rhadhd rhadhd 31-35, M Nov 12, 2011

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    Never Did, Never Will

    I believe that one should be honest and loyal in any relationship. I don't believe in deceit, etc.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Was Tempted In One And Was The Other Woman In Another

    My first actual boyfriend was a long distance online affair.... he was a couple years older than me and I was only 16 at the time. I thought we were in love. We'd be up all night on webcams for about 6 months straight. Things then hit a rough patch.... we both wanted to be...
    Jupiterfalling Jupiterfalling 18-21, F Aug 20, 2012

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    It's Tough

    The temptation to do so has been there and licked me in the face a couple times and slid its hands up my shirt but I have had the strength and discipline to refrain from infidelity.   What an accomplishment...I don't think I've missed anything by rejecting temptation.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F Mar 17, 2010

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    Well...

    Considering I've never been in a relationship in the first place, I've never really had the chance to cheat on anyone... But if I ever was in a relationship, I wouldn't cheat.  I would just be so grateful to be in one, I wouldn't care about anyone else.
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 10 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    I'm Guilty Just Thinking About It....

    I've left someone for another guy but I never cheated. No reason to. My favorite actor in the world, Johnny Depp, once said "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one. Because if you truly loved the first one, you wouldn’t love another."
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    Naturally Monogamous

    I've never felt the need to cheat on someone I was with. If I'm with someone, it's because they are the one I want to be with, and no one else. If I wasn't being satisfied in the relationship, I wouldn't bother to cheat- I'd just end the relationship.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    I Have Been Cheated On

    I have been married 2 times. I was about to give up on love until I met my second husband. I fell  in love with him and I tried not to. I had just come out of an abusive marriage and I wasn't going to get involved nor get married ever. Then I met him. I honestly believed...
    stedman stedman 36-40 1 Response Aug 27, 2011

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    Loyalty.

    I am always loyal to the people I Iove. When I have a meaningful relationship with someone, I give my loyalty to him/her. I think this is why i can never cheat.
    FishPasteAndRice FishPasteAndRice 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    Never Have And Never Will.

    I dated 2 guys and i never cheated on them but later on in the relationship i found out that they did cheat on me though and even when i broke up with one of them he went to go be with two females who he said that they were just friends. Like i cared. We broke up what is that...
    MissSpookiness MissSpookiness 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2011

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    I Never Cheated On Anyone

    im just tring to find out why im the one who always gets cheated on, my ex of 10 years cheated on me several times, i took her back every time. but this time it hurts so bad
    justme1961 justme1961 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    I have a problem my twin sister is going on A

    date with her boyfriend but he cheating on her and she will not hear me out
    twinpower twinpower 13-15, F Mar 29

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    And never will! I'm only here to talk about random, interesting things. Anyone trying to message me sexual things shall be shunned. Shunnnnnnnnnnnedddd
    SickFascination SickFascination 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I am almost 20. I have virtually no friends. None that are close anyway. I have never been on a date or anything of that sort. In truth its probably because I have the social...
    WalterKronkite WalterKronkite 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I really want to experience this since I never have before. I've never had a mutual bond with someone in which we feel strongly for each other. I am jealous of other people who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    i'm only 15 so i'm not too worried about not having been in a relationship yet. but it really bothers me that when people ask about my dating life and i say that i've never dated...
    triannamn triannamn 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm turning 20 soon and I've never been in an actual relationship. I've dated sure, I've even loved. They've all been casual experiences. Nothing that lasted. All my friends around...
    blossomgirl101 blossomgirl101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I'm 20 now, and I just feel like I should be in a relationship or at least dating. In the past- when I was in high school- this used to bother me a lot, however, I've done a lot of...
    blackeccentric blackeccentric 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    It's sad. Fourteen and havent had my first kiss, first hug by the opposite sex, held hands with the opposite sex, or a relationship. Girls all around me have at least had their...
    WyettAmanda WyettAmanda 13-15 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I don't like to admit it, but so far in my life I haven't met anyone on a personal level that is good enough for me. I had felt that way for a while, but the truth to it became...
    superlooser superlooser 18-21 Mar 28

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    Kinda feels fun and carefree being 'untied' with someone, but sometimes, you can just get really jealous of couples ogling their eyes with each other. Sometimes it's scary how you...
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1