I Have Never Dated Anyone

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    Yeah I haven't...ever.

    Tbh I do get a bit self conscious but then I tell myself that its no rush and I don't want to have to deal with someone who doesn't love me the way I think love should be. I have been asked a few times but I just can't...cuz its all the wrong ppl. The wrong feelings...the wrong...
    Andreyus Andreyus
    18-21, M
    Dec 11, 2015

    I'm worried that I might have too high standards

    or expectations for who I want to date. I haven't dated anyone yet and I always thought that when I got older I would find someone, but I haven't yet and I know everyone says to just wait and he'll come, but sometimes it doesn't feel like it.
    ellpato ellpato
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    Yeah I never dated anyone before.

    I have friends that come to me for help with their relationships and I listen and give them advice , but when I get home I think about it to much and start to beat myself down cuz I don't understand why a guy or a girl won't come ask me out? I feel ugly and like no one will...
    HBrianna HBrianna
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2013

    Only Child

    I am 18 and am not allowed to date till finish college - thank Gid thats soon!!!
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

    No one ever asked me out,

    and I also never attract to anyone except people that I definitely can't reach (famous people, etc). I want to try loving someone, but the problem is that I don't even know who I should love. I used to think to try date any random people that I know closely, but I feel it's...
    lollinggirl lollinggirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2014

    Just turned 20 and have never dated anyone!

    I feel like it has to do with that I'm like really shy especially with new people which come off as rude? Well that's what some of my friends tell me. I have had guys ask me out but I turn them down. I mean they are not my style and although I feel bad I just can't! I like not...
    Taniays Taniays
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    To Shy To Share

    When your growing up, you see all your peers having boyfriends and girlfriends, and i was jealous. Why didnt anyone like me, i am a nice enough person. To make things harder im a lesbian, and there is not many in my area. Anyway, for a long time i was really unhappy, i wanted...
    brookes111 brookes111
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2009

    Okay. This may sound insane

    and eveyone will be like "Oh, you're only a kid. Your time will come." etcetera etcetera, however everyone in my friend group is dating someone, and it's not only the fact that I've never dated anyone, I just don't see myself dating anyone... ever. It sucks, because I want to...
    gffkjfg gffkjfg
    18-21, F
    Oct 29, 2014

    I'm still young, I know that

    but I wish I could find someone.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 30, 2015

    I am so self conscious

    and have so much social anxiety I never had the courage to date somone
    Maddya Maddya
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    I was a teenager in the early to mid 1980's the

    time when it felt like HIV was going to be a world wide epidemics you'd see in one of those zombie films. I'm not a perfectly healthy human being, and if I had ever been infected with it, the end of my life would have come quicker than a cyanide pill a spy uses when captured...
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife
    46-50, M
    Apr 9, 2014

    I feel like I shouldn't try

    because I feel like the girls in my school hate me or would never go for me.
    Billy6549 Billy6549
    18-21, M
    Nov 17, 2014

    Never been on a date

    which really isn't surprising when you consider the fact that guys don't approach me. Dating seems fun, hopefully I'll get to do it soon😊 I haven't really liked anyone myself either in probably a year. It's hard to find someone that clicks with me, I don't know why though...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2014

    need someone to talk.

    MARCK741 MARCK741
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    It Hurts

    I feel so lonely sometimes...I have never ever loved...Yes, I'm 16, some of u may say, YOU'RE SO YOUNG!, but, im not inside...i feel mature beyond my age....i crave love, touch, a hand to hold...and, it hurts that no one likes me...if i had love, the pain would go away...i know...
    em3476 em3476
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2012

    I'm almost 18 and I have never dated a guy

    or had my first kiss, I don't understand how my love life could be so nonexistent
    undercontrl undercontrl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015
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