I Have Never Dated

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    I've never dated before,

    except for one online relationship that lasted for 3 years but who i never end up meeting.
    NotYourWifey NotYourWifey
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2014

    I always see couples

    either kissing in the halls and I don't know how to feel about it. I never dated anyone before, and I don't why so many couples do PDA out in front of everyone. My friends who are dating or who have dated and kissed someone would probably know, but its kinda uncomfortable asking...
    olive8976 olive8976
    16-17, F
    Feb 29, 2016

    I know there's nice guys out there,

    but I'm going to point something out: A lot of women are wanting guys to treat them like crap. When a lot of nice guys find out about this, they start turning into ********, and they start believing all women are the same. Women who want a good guy, are having trouble finding...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 28, 2015

    I would but I need a boyfriend

    for that. If I were to go on a date I would want it to be at the movies. I want our dates to sometimes be us going to comic con or playing video games.
    animegirl304 animegirl304
    22-25, F
    Mar 18, 2014

    Sooo, here is my story: I'm 26,

    average looking(i guess), and i never dated a girl. More than that, such shame to admit: i never ever kissed girl (insert “dum dum dummm” music here). WOW YOU ARE SUCH A LOOSER! I know right?! But first things first: I think the main problem of my life was that I grew up...
    FinnnTheHuman FinnnTheHuman
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2014

    And don't want to for a few years

    or so. There are certain goals I need to achieve before I would be ready to date such as eliminating **** from my life (it's not nearly as bad as it use to be but its still a problem), gaining complete control over my sexual urges, and learning to transmute that sexual energy...
    Chirieleison Chirieleison
    22-25, M
    Oct 20, 2014

    I was with the same man from age nine to twenty

    so I never really got around to actually dating and mingling with other people
    Daddydomless Daddydomless
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2016

    I'm just way too shy plus NO girls have shown

    the signs of attraction to me so I've no dating experience. It's a shame I get on well with some really beautiful girls I work with
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014

    Not because I don't want to,

    but because I feel that I'm not ready to be in a relation ship yet. I need time to get my act together.
    CreativeKitty CreativeKitty
    22-25, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    So this guy I met like last month has been

    texting me. I would ignore him but Id text back. And when I thought we were having a good conversation, when I actually text back in a mannerly time, he didn't reply. And I woke up to a text from him saying "What you been up 2..." Like does he think he can just message me out...
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch
    18-21, F
    Dec 22, 2015

    I've only never dated cuz I'm waiting

    for the one. is that stupid?
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    Getting Counselling Etc

    I have finally made up my mind to go see a therapist for my GAD problem. I know this has very little to do with not having dated anybody but i'm certain that my anxieties have been the cause of this. I saw my doc about this last year & he told me I have to go to see a therapist...
    Johnteenth Johnteenth
    51-55, M
    Apr 17, 2011

    I'm actually ok with that.

    I don't have the desire to, anyway.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 2, 2015

    More than 1/3 of Americans have an STD

    and there are 20,000,000 new cases each year, half of which occur in my age range. If this fact doesn't petrify you then you are oblivious to the reality that dating/hooking up is a game of Russian roulette except there are 2 loaded chambers instead of just one. About 1/3 of...
    Chirieleison Chirieleison
    22-25, M
    Sep 27, 2015

    It's weird, because I've never been in a

    relationship. I never wanted to date anyone, I used to be so sexuually fueled, expressing my sexuual energy, but being completely uninterested in anything romantic at all. I've changed so much now. Still never been a relationship, I still don't think anyone is 'good' enough to...
    FireflyOasis FireflyOasis
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2016

    I ve never dated, never been kissed

    and never been in a relationship and I'm 20. Everyone, around seem to have their own personal exprience. And I'm usually the one giving the advice. The irony right? Sometimes I'll ask my friends if I look ugly, they usually reply no you look fine, you look great in fact. Weight...
    Complicatedlikarainbow Complicatedlikarainbow
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    I have never dated in high school,

    or even now in college. I mean, I've been talking to this one girl I met, and we've might have flirted back and forth, but I don't think she's serious about taking it a step forward. So as of right now, I can't say that I've ever dated.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 23, 2015

    80% of sexually active adults will contract an

    STD at some point in their lives. I am spreading this inconvenient truth to anyone out there who may feel desperate.
    Chirieleison Chirieleison
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    All my friends had dates to prom

    so I went to my garage and found a plastic life size skeleton from Halloween. i dressed him up and had a jolly good time with my "date".
    Lanajamba Lanajamba
    18-21, F
    Aug 4, 2015

    Twenty Five And Waiting

    I have never I had a date either. I know I'm young.. my time will come. But seriously? The loneliness is frustrating as hell. I hate being around my cousins you are in loving relationships, and I loath Valentine's Day. I've tried, temporarily, but I tried eharmony. What a joke...
    Stripped628 Stripped628
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 12, 2010

    I've always tried to find someone to date

    but most just want sex. I'm not ready for that and with the way most people are I don't think I'll find that person
    ladyyukihime ladyyukihime
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

    I haven't ever dated.

    When I was a child or teenager and lived at home my parents wouldn't allow it. My family moved a lot. I also have seizures and could not drive. My parents had total control and were over protective.
    Gambler715 Gambler715
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    Well in my 34 years of living,

    I try to not mention this one biggest somehow "embarrassment" I got in myself. I never admitted to anyone that I never been asked out by anyone. I think this is my main reason to sign up here to see if anyone ever experienced it too, and can empathize i dont need people to...
    TroglodyteWallflower TroglodyteWallflower
    36-40, F
    34 Responses May 5, 2014

    Relationships are harder now

    because conversations became texting, arguments became phone calls, feelings became subliminal messages online, sex became easy The word "love" gets used out of context insecurities have become your way of thinking getting jealous becomes a habit Trust has been lost...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    And since I never want to marry,

    I won't date either. What would be the purpose of dating if one didn't want to find a suitable marriage partner? It isn't worth the time, money or effort and it is one less stressor in my life.
    Chirieleison Chirieleison
    22-25, M
    Jan 5, 2016

    Some guys are like "I don't want much,

    but she has to have big boobs, big butt, nice eyes, nice teeth, and a flat stomach" Like no, this isn't build-a-***** workshop, this is what you get, you get what you get and you don't throw a fit.
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    I Haven't Dated Any Girl

    Actually I didn't try even to date any girl. This is the reasonnn...........
    viditparakh5 viditparakh5
    18-21, M
    Mar 22, 2010

    Olive Oil...

    When I see the label "Extra Virgin Olive Oil", the first thing I think is "I guess that's me". I mean the former two words significantly more than the latter two. Yeah, I'm 18 years old and the closest I've been to kissing is when my drunk friend kept nuzzling my neck. The...
    MyWhineAccount MyWhineAccount
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 11, 2010

    I happen to be one of the few girls

    who wants their first to be their last, so I have never dated anyone. I believe that I already know who this person is going to be, but I won't make a move nor rush things 'cause who knows I might meet someone better than him in a few months, or years. Also, things that are...
    tippyville tippyville
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    I've never dated because I'm not allowed :(

    If I could I would, but honestly have no experience in it what so ever and I'd probably be really bad at it! Thanks parents for not allowing me to experience dating just coz you want me to have an arranged marriage and don't want me to fall in love with anyone who isn't my...
    Bhavika18 Bhavika18
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    Ive never dated or even came close dating I

    feel like in awkward but I can usually see when someone is interested in one of my friends pretty easily but when I comes to me I over think every thing. I saw this girl I knew at college and she said hey and I said hey how ya doing but i couldn't tell if she was being nice or...
    sytrus sytrus
    Oct 5, 2015

    My best friend informed me

    that she is getting married this summer. I'm supposed to be happy but all I can think of "not fair". I have tried my best to be a good person and be a hard worker. Yes, I am overweight but I know my fair share of overweight people in relationships. So, I ask myself...why do...
    ashes2015 ashes2015
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 4, 2015

    I Have Never Dated Anyone

    I have had many secret crushes, but my life schedule and upbringing prevented me from ever dating. Besides, dating seems kind of pointless considering the fact that as many people do it break up so I feel that I'm not really missing anything. I feel I shouldn't have to look. It...
    fungirl21 fungirl21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2011

    I have had many female friends

    but never been on a date. Mainly they say im very nice but dont want to ask me out. I really dont know what the problem is .
    kart180 kart180
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2014

    More Normal Than I Thought....

    Let's just start by saying this:  I'm 23, well educated, outgoing, and (above all) a very devout Christian.  I have only been "asked out" twice in my life--once in 8th grade and kind of again in 10th grade.  My huge physical flaw is that I am overweight, but I am changing...
    mcdonny207 mcdonny207
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2011

    So this guy I met like last month has been

    texting me. I would ignore him but Id text back. And when I thought we were having a good conversation, when I actually text back in a mannerly time, he didn't reply. And I woke up to a text from him saying "What you been up 2..." Like does he think he can just message me out of...
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch
    18-21, F
    Dec 22, 2015

    Never got the chance.

    ....never been asked
    sisi19 sisi19
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 24, 2014

    I'm a 20 year old girl

    and I have never been on a date. I know sounds pathetic... Probably is pathetic but it's the truth. I'm sick of hiding and pretending that it doesn't hurt when the guys I like pick a different girl over me, but it does.
    shygirlxox shygirlxox
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    I used to really want to date

    but no one wanted to date me, and now I'm sure that I'll never date and I also don't feel like I can be friends with people who date.
    Singleforlife444 Singleforlife444
    18-21, M
    Feb 16, 2014

    I have never been in a serious relationship.

    Nor have I ever had a crush. There are times in the present and the past where I wanted a relationship. I do not have an urge to further a relationship to the point of a serious dating relationship. I do not mind; I enjoy being single and just having friends. Also, I lack sexual...
    Makalaster Makalaster
    22-25, T
    Oct 8, 2014

    Never Got The Chance

    Ive had many crushes but was already afired to pursue them. so i never got the chance to "date" im 19 and have never been on a date before. i wouldnt know what to if i ever did go out with someone. i was always the "friend" who had a bunch of guy friends and i was always the one...
    Silent20 Silent20
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2011

    I find it hilarious when people become

    uncomfortable when you tell them you have never dated. Seriously, why do people become uncomfortable? What is there to be uncomfortable about? Why do people pressure you into dating/relationships? If you're uncomfortable, then stay away from people who don't want to date. Either...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 5, 2015
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