I Have Never Had a Boyfriend

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    No Guy Ever Talks To Me

    I'm about to be 21 yrs old, and I've never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'd love to have one though you know to have someone really know me and love me for who I am (my family doesn't they practically ignore me) I get jealous when I see or hear people talk about their...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Mar 9, 2011

    but than being a straight guy I never wanted a

    boyfriend and still don't want one now
    Canuck86 Canuck86
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 10, 2016

    Loneliness Leaves A Bitter Taste

    I'm 20 years old, and over the course of these 20 years, I have been completely single. No relationships, no initiation of relationships, no long distance relationships. Nothing. When I was in high school, a relationship was something that I really wanted. I would see guys and...
    ShawLandon ShawLandon
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2013

    I know I could get a boyfriend,

    but I don't really want one.
    mckennars mckennars
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    I never had a boyfriend

    that gets horny whenever I remove my bra or underwear I find it annoying when it happens everyday but also sexy at the same time. I can get nuded and he can't pay attention to what he was doing :)
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 20, 2015

    I Asked Santa For A Guy For Christmas....he Got Me Socks.

    Every time I start to get those butterflies for a guy the first thing I picture is bringing him home for the holidays. Its stupid soooo stupid. right? but it happens everyyyy time. I was joking around with my cousin and he asked me on thanksgiving what i wanted for christmas and...
    NRF25 NRF25
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Dec 28, 2012

    I've never wanted to have any kind of intimate

    relationships. I was always "asexual" and "aromatic". I love being in love though, it's very deep inspiring feelings that makes me focused on what I want to achieve in life. Maybe I'm such a coward that makes me a very pragmatic girl, I don't know. But I don't understand the...
    Nonotu Nonotu
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2016

    I mean I had one in elementary school

    but that doesn't count but I never had a boyfriend in middle school or most of my high school years. It sucks when you see all your friends in relationships and you cant get one to save your own life.
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2014

    Well, I'm officially the only one out of my

    friends who has never had a boyfriend. I just found out my friend has been seeing this guy for a couple months, I'm happy for her. But this is doing wonders for my self esteem, how much lower can it get. Its already at rock bottom. I see someone, & I immediately think, well...
    IntrovertedHuman IntrovertedHuman
    18-21, F
    Apr 23, 2014

    Not in real life, online,

    in my head. Nothing. I don't know what I am doing wrong because everyone online says I'm "beautiful" but in real life I'm not even acknowledged. It makes me upset. Sometimes I wish I could die because I feel like everyone's been lying to me my whole life.
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    So I'm in my late 20s

    and have only ever had a 'boyfriend' for less than 2weeks when I was 15. First of all, I'm a normal girl. I get told I'm beautiful all the time, throughout school I was a cheerleader, top athlete, I was an A grade student who achieved Bs/Cs out of laziness lol, Im not a cliquey...
    ekdreamer ekdreamer
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    all the boys i talked to only ever wanted sex,

    or really wasn't for the whole "Relationship" thing. I want one but at the same time...... I don't?
    deleted deleted
    Jun 14, 2015

    Will I Always Be Single

    I am 33 almost 34 and still have never had a boyfriend I really am starting to think their is no one for me or that i am just not good enough to have one. Maybe I juast am not worthy.
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter
    36-40, F
    13 Responses May 9, 2012

    I honestly wished I never started dating in the

    first place. tooo much heartache
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    because what I had was a girlfriend ?

    ?. Touchdown lesbos islands!
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    Hi, girls. I am hot guy,

    add me pls, skype - mengak
    mengak mengak
    26-30, M
    Apr 10, 2016

    I'm 22 and still single,

    since birth... Though I did date a guy once for two weeks, I don't count that because it was stupid and only 3 double dates. People always tell me that now the first one will be the only one. I think I'll end up a crazy cat lady (I do like cats :))
    DanaJuliana DanaJuliana
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    blond, fun, attractive 30yr old virgin??

    BIG UPDATE ----> Scroll to the bottom! SO im 29, Im blond (dyed but everyone thinks its real), Im fit, intelligent, sporty, outgoing, have  a ton of friends, Im told Im rather attractive.... blah blah... So why am I 29, and have never had a real bf? yeah ive been...
    ayabe ayabe
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

    This is the case: my mom always thinks I'm

    beautiful; my dad always threaten me that he's going to kill whoever appears at our doorstep to take me to a date; my grandparents always tell me that they think boys are drooling over me at school when boys at school can't even look at me straight in the eyes. I'm that weird.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone
    16-17, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    Please don't be shocked

    if u say I haven't had a boyfriend. I have never had a boyfriend in all my life. My "boyfriends" that I met online and off chat rooms I don't consider them boyfriends.Why? Because I didn't know them and plus they treated me as n object tricking me into things I wasn't ready for...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever
    16-17, F
    Jun 14, 2015
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    I feel like all the guys my age are too childish

    but I feel like if I start dating someone when I'm about older then I will be inexperienced at kissing etc.
    loulou232 loulou232
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015
    Idontcaaree Idontcaaree
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2015

    So I've never had a boyfriend

    and it's starting to bother me. I haven't found the right guy and all guys ever want me for is sex (which surprises me because I don't flirt my body around or come off sexual). For the longest time, I didn't want to be in a relationship because I didn't like my body but people...
    AllyBaby13 AllyBaby13
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 19, 2015

    One in real life, I've only got virtual

    relationships and it all ended badly. Meh...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    Yep. I know I know. Well

    since I've lost weight people have started calling me hot and being interested in me but I still have that 'fat girl' mentality like everyone who shows interest in me is just playing around. I'm trying to break that but I can't help thinking that a lot of people who like me now...
    staygoldenbaby staygoldenbaby
    18-21, F
    Jan 18, 2015

    I currently like my old crush

    who I've liked 3 yrs on and off his name is Zyon but he still has feelings for his ex which is my friend but she says she doesn't even like him but he keeps going back and forth with the relationship and Breniah has moved on but if he doesn't move on he is going to end up...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    and I'm scared and I don't know what to do

    or how to react or how to feel.
    heyydutchy heyydutchy
    18-21, F
    Aug 18, 2015

    Never had one but here's a tip

    that I would recommend to catch my attention. If boys want to seem more approachable and attractive, they should smile in pics or make a silly face that complements and shows more of your personality.
    FrannieXPandie2361 FrannieXPandie2361
    16-17, F
    Sep 9, 2015

    Having A Boyfriend Isn't Everything

    Seriously, to be perfectly honest I don't see the point of having a boyfriend at my age, I'm 17 (2 months from now) btw and in my final year of college. And to me having a boyfriend is like pointless cause he isn't going to get me good grades in school or help me get accepted...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Aug 11, 2013

    Finding someone worth liking is hard enough in

    my ****** town, top that with the fact that I'm an INTJ woman personality type... Impossible.
    calleux calleux
    16-17, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    many guys have asked me to be their girlfriend

    but i never wanted to. Every person i liked didnt like me back, and people who i didnt have a crush on liked me. so i was never satisfied. i know girls who dated guys who did not love, just to say they have a boyfriend. in my case though, i would date only someone i truly love...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    . He(Carlos) act totally different

    after school when I texted him and actually one day he blamed his grandmas death in and and he told me not to talk to him again.one morning I write this huge text to him of how I was sorry because I had no clue of what I did to him but he was being a jerk and told me no don't...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    My dad didn't let me have friends

    that were guys when I was younger. Now, I'm a complete mess around guys I find attractive. I don't know how to hold conversations with them and get somewhat awkward. I've been asked out a couple times but I didn't even know them. I'm getting better at it but no where near having...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    I am almost 16 and going into 11th grade

    and I have never had a boyfriend.
    mckennars mckennars
    18-21, F
    Jun 14, 2015

    I keep telling myself not to think

    or care too much about it, because I don't want to be that person whose happiness is dependent on another. At least whenever someone brings it up, that's the atitude I put on...but truthfully it makes me feel very sad and lonely (and not in the smutty way btw...). I alternate...
    escapemyreality escapemyreality
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    I'm Still Alone

    It's strange kind of feeling, because I like loneliness, but sometimes everybody needs someone. My relationship with other people are terrible. People still expect something from me, but I don't want to change my all personality to be a better woman for example. What does it mean...
    meganza meganza
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Jul 8, 2012

    Turning 24, Never Had a Boyfriend

    i am turning 24 this year and have never had a boyfriend. i've had what i would call 'romantic dalliances' but i don't feel like they were really real. i keep developing crushes on guys, and usually end up being quite close or good friends with these guys, but nothing ever...
    esteebebe esteebebe
    22-25, F
    36 Responses Jun 17, 2009

    Oh Dear...

    ...I fear I now owe Sparkles a new laptop.... :-D
    BonVie BonVie
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 3, 2012

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    they are just not into me a tip

    if any one tells you are ugly deep down inside your really beautiful
    beautifulmetoo beautifulmetoo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2015

    I live in the middle of nowhere,

    and besides that, I am not that great at talking to people. It is something I am working on. I have tried online dating but it doesn't work out or they live too far away and we end up not meeting up. I won't get discouraged or give up hope that I will find the right one for me.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    I'm a 13 y/o bi guy looking

    for a bf.... No specific requirements just be 13-16 and be nice
    Seane0226 Seane0226
    13-15, M
    May 21, 2015

    I kissed 4 guys in my entire 16 years on this

    on the earth & I never had a serious relationship, I had a boyfriend for one day kinda & I broke up with him cause I wasn't ready too be with someone cause I still had feeling for someone & it wouldn't be right for me. 😪
    Idontcaaree Idontcaaree
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2015

    28 And Never Had A Boyfriend, But Working On It :)

    To begin with - hi everyone, I'm new  :)  Well, I'm 28 (soon to be 29, not that I'm counting down the days) and have never had a boyfriend. I've been on dates, but it's been years and it never eventuated to anything serious anyway. Nothing longer than a few weeks, at any...
    lonepilgrim lonepilgrim
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2011

    I am so strange around guys

    that I am the least bit attracted to. The irony is that most of my friends are guys. I know guys think I am cute but I am too hardcore and not enough like a girl (so I have been told). When I think a guy is cute, its like I get stupid. I can not think straight. I am young and I...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 10, 2015

    when i tell people this they say really?

    ??? well yeah i wouldnt sit here and tell you ive never if i have. "but your're so pretty." *in whiney voice* well boo hoo ive turned them down because i was scared of being in a relationship. i have some insecurities that kinda block me from having them. damn you voice in the...
    Aeril Aeril
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2015

    I am 18, soon to be 19,

    and I have still never had a boyfriend.I told myself I would never get to this point: desperate enough for someone to relate that I'm publicly moping about my singular issue on a publicly viewed website. But, well, here I am. The closest I've had to what I would consider a real...
    hardysoullovelybones hardysoullovelybones
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2016

    I am 30 years old. I have a good,

    steady job, a Master's, a sensible car that's paid off, and own my own home, but I have never even been on a date. I've never been kissed. Unlike the women who boast it proudly though, they won't write articles about me. I wish that I was like them, like the friends who...
    NeverBee NeverBee
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

    I just found out the guy I like is gay.

    *sigh* Well this sucks.
    SociallyAwkwardGirl SociallyAwkwardGirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 15, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    I am almost 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend. It has never really bothered me until now, and I almost feel stupid for thinking like this, but I want to end up with someone. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for over a year and they always talk about their future life together. When...
    ehm0204 ehm0204
    22-25, F
    Dec 13, 2014

    Will I Ever Have a Boyfriend?

    My deepest darkest fear is that NO, I'll never have a boyfriend...EVER. At first, I was always defensive.  I thought that I was too pretty, smart and funny to not have a boyfriend.  Sure, I had some excess pounds here and there, a stubby nose, etc. - but so did the...
    queen1986 queen1986
    8 Responses Jul 11, 2009
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