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I Have Never Had a Boyfriend

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    Having A Boyfriend Isn't Everything

    Seriously, to be perfectly honest I don't see the point of having a boyfriend at my age, I'm 17 (2 months from now) btw and in my final year of college. And to me having a boyfriend is like pointless cause he isn't going to get me good grades in school or help me get accepted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    I sometimes wonder what role love will play in

    my life and if I will be alone. But yes I am 17 and I haven't had a real "boyfriend" or my first kiss yet.
    Zoekosmopoulos Zoekosmopoulos 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    Is there anyone out there over 35

    that have never had a boyfriend? Most of these similar experiences are from younger females that haven't even begun to experience life. I just want to hear from someone closer to my age
    SW4225 SW4225 36-40 4 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    So yeah I'm 17 and I haven't had a boyfriend.

    I have had a kiss but it was one of those icky disgusting ones when you're at a disco so I don't really count it as a kiss... I know I am not exactly perfect or anything but I just wish someone would see that I am more than just a fat girl. The guys at school don't notice me and...
    eirbear eirbear 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I am almost 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend. It has never really bothered me until now, and I almost feel stupid for thinking like this, but I want to end up with someone. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for over a year and they always talk about their future life together. When...
    ehm0204 ehm0204 18-21, F Dec 13, 2014

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    I just found out the guy I like is gay.

    *sigh* Well this sucks.
    SociallyAwkwardGirl SociallyAwkwardGirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I Asked Santa For A Guy For Christmas....he Got Me Socks.

    Every time I start to get those butterflies for a guy the first thing I picture is bringing him home for the holidays. Its stupid soooo stupid. right? but it happens everyyyy time. I was joking around with my cousin and he asked me on thanksgiving what i wanted for christmas and...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    Will I Ever Have a Boyfriend?

    My deepest darkest fear is that NO, I'll never have a boyfriend...EVER. At first, I was always defensive.  I thought that I was too pretty, smart and funny to not have a boyfriend.  Sure, I had some excess pounds here and there, a stubby nose, etc. - but so did the...
    queen1986 queen1986 22-25 8 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Will I Always Be Single

    I am 33 almost 34 and still have never had a boyfriend I really am starting to think their is no one for me or that i am just not good enough to have one. Maybe I juast am not worthy.
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Yep. I know I know. Well

    since I've lost weight people have started calling me hot and being interested in me but I still have that 'fat girl' mentality like everyone who shows interest in me is just playing around. I'm trying to break that but I can't help thinking that a lot of people who like me now...
    staygoldenbaby staygoldenbaby 16-17, F Jan 18

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    Im almost 18 and i have never had an actual

    boyfriend. The last time i kissed someone was when i was thirteen and our "love story" lasted for like three months, and i say it wasn't real because he kept making fun of me and calling me fat and stuff. Now i have grown up and im more mature, im ready to have a boyfriend but...
    whateverqqq whateverqqq 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    I am 30 years old. I have a good,

    steady job, a Master's, a sensible car that's paid off, and own my own home, but I have never even been on a date. I've never been kissed. Unlike the women who boast it proudly though, they won't write articles about me. I wish that I was like them, like the friends who...
    NeverBee NeverBee 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    Turning 24, Never Had a Boyfriend

    i am turning 24 this year and have never had a boyfriend. i've had what i would call 'romantic dalliances' but i don't feel like they were really real. i keep developing crushes on guys, and usually end up being quite close or good friends with these guys, but nothing ever...
    esteebebe esteebebe 22-25, F 37 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    I'm not suprised since I don't want one

    and I'm not interested in bad guys either.
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F Oct 4, 2014

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    Hi all, I'm a 21 year old guy

    who have never had a bf or gf before, I'm gay, but I still never approached any girls nor boys even when I didn't know what I am exactly. I honestly cry myself to sleep every single night because these thoughts of me getting old alone keep storming my head and I have no idea how...
    LonelySimo LonelySimo 18-21, M Mar 16

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    No Boyfriend

    so i have never had a boyfriend! I am 22, a student attending on of the best schools in the country. it just happens that every time a guy wants to go out with me they are technically one my friends, and i just cant go out with them!  they are cool people, but i just dont...
    therightme therightme 18-21 4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Okay... Here we go...

    Painful confession time: I am 28 and have never had a boyfriend, been on a date, or even been kissed. I was overweight my whole life, and I'm actually working on fixing that. I've lost 66 lbs in the last 10 months and I'm getting in shape and feeling better about myself. Things...
    pianodreams pianodreams 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    I mean I had one in elementary school

    but that doesn't count but I never had a boyfriend in middle school or most of my high school years. It sucks when you see all your friends in relationships and you cant get one to save your own life.
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    I am turning 22 this month,

    and I have never had a real boyfriend. My freshman and sophomore year of high school I liked 4 guys and they all reciprocated and we even went on some "dates" ( I was 14/15, they aren't real dates if your mom has to drive you- lol) But ever since then I have had very few guys...
    kkaitlyn kkaitlyn 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Well, I'm officially the only one out of my

    friends who has never had a boyfriend. I just found out my friend has been seeing this guy for a couple months, I'm happy for her. But this is doing wonders for my self esteem, how much lower can it get. Its already at rock bottom. I see someone, & I immediately think, well...
    IntrovertedHuman IntrovertedHuman 18-21, F Apr 23, 2014

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    It's true, never had one

    and I'm 17. Haha this is probably sad, but oh well , what's the use in rushing if someone who genuinely likes you will eventually come along ? What's the use in trying if the guy doesn't make me feel like I'm flying?!
    Shlynn17 Shlynn17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2014

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    This is the case: my mom always thinks I'm

    beautiful; my dad always threaten me that he's going to kill whoever appears at our doorstep to take me to a date; my grandparents always tell me that they think boys are drooling over me at school when boys at school can't even look at me straight in the eyes. I'm that weird.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    So, I'll be 25 on November 15th

    and the closer I get to the date, I feel more and more depressed because I have never had a boyfriend. I talk to people and we are "friends", do the hooking up, etc. but no one seems to want to give me a chance. I am college educated, independent, funny, I make my own living and...
    imtotallyamanda imtotallyamanda 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    I've never had a boyfriend,

    probably because I'm straight and don't like guys.
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    Oh Dear...

    ...I fear I now owe Sparkles a new laptop.... :-D
    BonVie BonVie 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    I'm Still Alone

    It's strange kind of feeling, because I like loneliness, but sometimes everybody needs someone. My relationship with other people are terrible. People still expect something from me, but I don't want to change my all personality to be a better woman for example. What does it mean...
    meganza meganza 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    Honestly sometimes I want a boyfriend,

    but other times I'm like "I don't even need one." What bothers me the most are my expectations/standards/interests. Like I can't find a guy with similar interests as me who actually likes me. And when there's a guy who likes me, I just don't like them; Whether it's their...
    Lokilover49 Lokilover49 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    Janetcc11 Janetcc11 26-30, F Nov 5, 2014

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    blond, fun, attractive 30yr old virgin??

    BIG UPDATE ----> Scroll to the bottom! SO im 29, Im blond (dyed but everyone thinks its real), Im fit, intelligent, sporty, outgoing, have  a ton of friends, Im told Im rather attractive.... blah blah... So why am I 29, and have never had a real bf? yeah ive been...
    ayabe ayabe 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    I honestly don't want a boyfriend in my life

    right now. I mean, I'm 18... I need to focus on college and my future career. One day I want to have a relationship and get married, but I'm just not anywhere near that point in my life right now!
    ksfree18 ksfree18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    Hey Im Confused

    I'm 19yr old guy vo loves doing crossdressing I love being a gal I always dress up like gal nd go for ladis shoping nd now many guys looks at me. Nd dis days I love this feeling I'm straight guy but now I'm confused demj wen I see tall guys wid gud body I get attracted to dem now...
    meenal77 meenal77 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    i'm 16 and i've never had a boyfriend.

    seeing everyone else around me in relationships makes me sad sometimes. i trully believe that i don't need anyone to make me happy but myself but you know i still wonder.
    bluespottedtail bluespottedtail 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I've never had a girlfriend lol,

    or a boyfriend (an do intend to not ever have a boyfriend :3)
    TheTrollinator TheTrollinator 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    whenever i like a guy i'm too shy to admit it

    and if a guy trys to flirt with me i turn into a giggling twit and normally say dumb things out of nerves
    Sumptous Sumptous 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    I'm 24

          I'm 24 years old. I have never had a boyfriend in my life. I have been out on dates with guys. Just no one that cared that much about me at all. I'm not used to having a guy that cares about me in my life. Its all new to me. I have had guys that hav...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16, 2010

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    Never Had A Boyfriend...but Kinda Proud Of It... Was Not Distracted.

    Ive been asked out a lot of times. Talked to boys. Had friends as boys. Still have friends as boys. I just never went down the path of being in a relationship with a guy because I am so busy with trying to figure out who I am and what I want to do with my life. A guy wanted to be...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    28 And Never Had A Boyfriend, But Working On It :)

    To begin with - hi everyone, I'm new  :)  Well, I'm 28 (soon to be 29, not that I'm counting down the days) and have never had a boyfriend. I've been on dates, but it's been years and it never eventuated to anything serious anyway. Nothing longer than a few weeks, at any...
    lonepilgrim lonepilgrim 26-30 3 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    I keep telling myself not to think

    or care too much about it, because I don't want to be that person whose happiness is dependent on another. At least whenever someone brings it up, that's the atitude I put on...but truthfully it makes me feel very sad and lonely (and not in the smutty way btw...). I alternate...
    escapemyreality escapemyreality 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Sometimes it's good, other times I feel down about it. My friends have boyfriends an so I compare myself to them, like am I not as interesting or as pretty as them. Also seeing as I've never had a boyfriend I've never held hands with a guy, or kissed a guy, or gone all the way...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Not in real life, online,

    in my head. Nothing. I don't know what I am doing wrong because everyone online says I'm "beautiful" but in real life I'm not even acknowledged. It makes me upset. Sometimes I wish I could die because I feel like everyone's been lying to me my whole life.
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    This thing is about posting thoughts

    and opinions and things. So there it is. I have never had a boyfriend. I just haven't met anyone I have liked that's asked me out. Oh well I can live with it.
    FlamingHomosexual FlamingHomosexual 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    Loneliness Leaves A Bitter Taste

    I'm 20 years old, and over the course of these 20 years, I have been completely single. No relationships, no initiation of relationships, no long distance relationships. Nothing. When I was in high school, a relationship was something that I really wanted. I would see guys and...
    ShawLandon ShawLandon 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    So I'm in my late 20s

    and have only ever had a 'boyfriend' for less than 2weeks when I was 15. First of all, I'm a normal girl. I get told I'm beautiful all the time, throughout school I was a cheerleader, top athlete, I was an A grade student who achieved Bs/Cs out of laziness lol, Im not a cliquey...
    ekdreamer ekdreamer 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    I am 20 and I have never had a boyfriend.

    I just had my first kiss a few months ago and it did not last very long. We were both drunk and have not talked about it since. I feel so behind from all of my friends to the point where I know they don't talk about their boyfriends with me because I am just the virgin friend. I...
    orangemc orangemc 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I think once I finally have a boyfriend I'll be

    happy. I'll finally have someone I can share life with and make me feel like I have a purpose. I will experience love and romance. I'll have someone to look forward to seeing and spend time with. I can't wait until I meet my life partner.
    Bitterrsweet Bitterrsweet 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    I don't know if I'm just really dense

    or what, but based on my experience I don't recall having someone who shows that they're interested to me..thus I still don't have a boyfriend. is there any tips for a guy to like you back?
    aintamuggle aintamuggle 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    It took me 2 years to finally talk to the guy I

    liked. He graduated Saturday. I'll only be a junior. I hate myself so much for waiting so long.