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I Have Never Had a Boyfriend

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    Yep. I know I know. Well

    since I've lost weight people have started calling me hot and being interested in me but I still have that 'fat girl' mentality like everyone who shows interest in me is just playing around. I'm trying to break that but I can't help thinking that a lot of people who like me now...
    staygoldenbaby staygoldenbaby 16-17, F Jan 18

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    No Guy Ever Talks To Me

    I'm about to be 21 yrs old, and I've never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'd love to have one though you know to have someone really know me and love me for who I am (my family doesn't they practically ignore me) I get jealous when I see or hear people talk about their...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    It's true, never had one

    and I'm 17. Haha this is probably sad, but oh well , what's the use in rushing if someone who genuinely likes you will eventually come along ? What's the use in trying if the guy doesn't make me feel like I'm flying?!
    Shlynn17 Shlynn17 16-17, F Oct 24, 2014

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    ALL THE SINGLE LADIES ALL THE SINGLE LA- do you

    see where I'm going with this??
    Ezla617 Ezla617 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Oh Dear...

    ...I fear I now owe Sparkles a new laptop.... :-D
    BonVie BonVie 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Sometimes it's good, other times I feel down about it. My friends have boyfriends an so I compare myself to them, like am I not as interesting or as pretty as them. Also seeing as I've never had a boyfriend I've never held hands with a guy, or kissed a guy, or gone all the way...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I am turning 22 this month,

    and I have never had a real boyfriend. My freshman and sophomore year of high school I liked 4 guys and they all reciprocated and we even went on some "dates" ( I was 14/15, they aren't real dates if your mom has to drive you- lol) But ever since then I have had very few guys...
    kkaitlyn kkaitlyn 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Okay... Here we go...

    Painful confession time: I am 28 and have never had a boyfriend, been on a date, or even been kissed. I was overweight my whole life, and I'm actually working on fixing that. I've lost 66 lbs in the last 10 months and I'm getting in shape and feeling better about myself. Things...
    pianodreams pianodreams 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So yeah I'm 17 and I haven't had a boyfriend.

    I have had a kiss but it was one of those icky disgusting ones when you're at a disco so I don't really count it as a kiss... I know I am not exactly perfect or anything but I just wish someone would see that I am more than just a fat girl. The guys at school don't notice me and...
    eirbear eirbear 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    The guys I've met have only wanted to talk to me

    for sex, never for a real relationship. Or they don't like the fact that I have a daughter. But I still believe that I will find a man.
    sandraquetzalli sandraquetzalli 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Turning 24, Never Had a Boyfriend

    i am turning 24 this year and have never had a boyfriend. i've had what i would call 'romantic dalliances' but i don't feel like they were really real. i keep developing crushes on guys, and usually end up being quite close or good friends with these guys, but nothing ever...
    esteebebe esteebebe 22-25, F 37 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    I am 20 and I have never had a boyfriend.

    I just had my first kiss a few months ago and it did not last very long. We were both drunk and have not talked about it since. I feel so behind from all of my friends to the point where I know they don't talk about their boyfriends with me because I am just the virgin friend. I...
    orangemc orangemc 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    Having A Boyfriend Isn't Everything

    Seriously, to be perfectly honest I don't see the point of having a boyfriend at my age, I'm 17 (2 months from now) btw and in my final year of college. And to me having a boyfriend is like pointless cause he isn't going to get me good grades in school or help me get accepted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    I am so strange around guys

    that I am the least bit attracted to. The irony is that most of my friends are guys. I know guys think I am cute but I am too hardcore and not enough like a girl (so I have been told). When I think a guy is cute, its like I get stupid. I can not think straight. I am young and I...
    LatinJustice LatinJustice 16-17 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I am almost 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend. It has never really bothered me until now, and I almost feel stupid for thinking like this, but I want to end up with someone. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for over a year and they always talk about their future life together. When...
    ehm0204 ehm0204 18-21, F Dec 13, 2014

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    So I'm in my late 20s

    and have only ever had a 'boyfriend' for less than 2weeks when I was 15. First of all, I'm a normal girl. I get told I'm beautiful all the time, throughout school I was a cheerleader, top athlete, I was an A grade student who achieved Bs/Cs out of laziness lol, Im not a cliquey...
    ekdreamer ekdreamer 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    whenever i like a guy i'm too shy to admit it

    and if a guy trys to flirt with me i turn into a giggling twit and normally say dumb things out of nerves
    Sumptous Sumptous 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    blond, fun, attractive 30yr old virgin??

    BIG UPDATE ----> Scroll to the bottom! SO im 29, Im blond (dyed but everyone thinks its real), Im fit, intelligent, sporty, outgoing, have  a ton of friends, Im told Im rather attractive.... blah blah... So why am I 29, and have never had a real bf? yeah ive been...
    ayabe ayabe 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    I'm 28. I had a sort of boyfriend

    when I was 17 but it wasn't serious, I just wanted someone to look after me. He still says he loves me. I don't get out enough to meet people and I lack in self confidence.
    LinkinParkMuse LinkinParkMuse 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Im almost 18 and i have never had an actual

    boyfriend. The last time i kissed someone was when i was thirteen and our "love story" lasted for like three months, and i say it wasn't real because he kept making fun of me and calling me fat and stuff. Now i have grown up and im more mature, im ready to have a boyfriend but...
    whateverqqq whateverqqq 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    So I really like this guy called Wiki (that's

    his codename) and we've shared a lot of moments. We were in the same group for a project and we flirted a lot and made each other laugh. We also love the same TV shows! So there's another girl in my class who is really nice but we share the same name (lets say our name is Gigi...
    justanothertwelvie00 justanothertwelvie00 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I never had a boyfriend

    that gets horny whenever I remove my bra or underwear I find it annoying when it happens everyday but also sexy at the same time. I can get nuded and he can't pay attention to what he was doing :)
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm a 13 y/o bi guy looking

    for a bf.... No specific requirements just be 13-16 and be nice
    Seane0226 Seane0226 13-15, M 11 hrs ago

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    Nope. Never had one and never will.

    you know why? It's cause I'm not into dudes, lulz
    SaiyanCat SaiyanCat 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I seriously never had a bf.

    I'm scared of getting into an relationship. I know I'm supposed to be focusing on school. It's just when I'm ready I'm ready to be someone else girlfriend.
    manotham manotham 13-15, F May 2

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    could anybody fill that place

    for me? you HAVE to be 13-14 and not some old perv or a old fart.
    Marshmallowlover9 Marshmallowlover9 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    Will I Ever Have a Boyfriend?

    My deepest darkest fear is that NO, I'll never have a boyfriend...EVER. At first, I was always defensive.  I thought that I was too pretty, smart and funny to not have a boyfriend.  Sure, I had some excess pounds here and there, a stubby nose, etc. - but so did the...
    queen1986 queen1986 22-25 8 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Janetcc11 Janetcc11 26-30, F Nov 5, 2014

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    and maybe never will.

    Seriously, who would want to date an outcast like me?
    reivven reivven 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I mean I had one in elementary school

    but that doesn't count but I never had a boyfriend in middle school or most of my high school years. It sucks when you see all your friends in relationships and you cant get one to save your own life.
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    Will I Always Be Single

    I am 33 almost 34 and still have never had a boyfriend I really am starting to think their is no one for me or that i am just not good enough to have one. Maybe I juast am not worthy.
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I Asked Santa For A Guy For Christmas....he Got Me Socks.

    Every time I start to get those butterflies for a guy the first thing I picture is bringing him home for the holidays. Its stupid soooo stupid. right? but it happens everyyyy time. I was joking around with my cousin and he asked me on thanksgiving what i wanted for christmas and...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    Hi all, I'm a 21 year old guy

    who have never had a bf or gf before, I'm gay, but I still never approached any girls nor boys even when I didn't know what I am exactly. I honestly cry myself to sleep every single night because these thoughts of me getting old alone keep storming my head and I have no idea how...
    LonelySimo LonelySimo 22-25, M Mar 16

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    It is not that I really care of having a

    boyfriend and it's not that I'm so desperate to have one that I'm gonna go with the first boy that likes me, but seing other couples being happy makes me think "I wanna have that". I want to feel how it is like to be in love
    JustCallMeDaniela JustCallMeDaniela 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    In my twenties. Haven't had a boyfriend to date,

    and thinking it might never happen to me. I wonder why I happened to be this lucky? I think maybe I must have done something awry in a past life, because I grew up with severe self-esteem issues, and I always thought I was ugly and unwanted. When I was a child, I got the very...
    kisstherainn kisstherainn 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I never had a boyfriend ,

    but who cares ?
    AnneQueenofDarkness AnneQueenofDarkness 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 30 years old. I have a good,

    steady job, a Master's, a sensible car that's paid off, and own my own home, but I have never even been on a date. I've never been kissed. Unlike the women who boast it proudly though, they won't write articles about me. I wish that I was like them, like the friends who...
    NeverBee NeverBee 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    So I've never had a boyfriend

    and it's starting to bother me. I haven't found the right guy and all guys ever want me for is sex (which surprises me because I don't flirt my body around or come off sexual). For the longest time, I didn't want to be in a relationship because I didn't like my body but people...
    AllyBaby13 AllyBaby13 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is the case: my mom always thinks I'm

    beautiful; my dad always threaten me that he's going to kill whoever appears at our doorstep to take me to a date; my grandparents always tell me that they think boys are drooling over me at school when boys at school can't even look at me straight in the eyes. I'm that weird.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    raise your glass if you've never been in a

    relationship! whoop whoop! well I'd like to one day but its cool for now :)
    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm Still Alone

    It's strange kind of feeling, because I like loneliness, but sometimes everybody needs someone. My relationship with other people are terrible. People still expect something from me, but I don't want to change my all personality to be a better woman for example. What does it mean...
    meganza meganza 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    28 And Never Had A Boyfriend, But Working On It :)

    To begin with - hi everyone, I'm new  :)  Well, I'm 28 (soon to be 29, not that I'm counting down the days) and have never had a boyfriend. I've been on dates, but it's been years and it never eventuated to anything serious anyway. Nothing longer than a few weeks, at any...
    lonepilgrim lonepilgrim 26-30 3 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    I sometimes wonder what role love will play in

    my life and if I will be alone. But yes I am 17 and I haven't had a real "boyfriend" or my first kiss yet.
    Zoekosmopoulos Zoekosmopoulos 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    i'm 16 and i've never had a boyfriend.

    seeing everyone else around me in relationships makes me sad sometimes. i trully believe that i don't need anyone to make me happy but myself but you know i still wonder.
    bluespottedtail bluespottedtail 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I've never had an boyfriend either

    but there are times when i wish I could be with one..then I realize that I don't have one ahah :P
    TheWhispersReloaded TheWhispersReloaded 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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