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I Have Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I mean I had one in elementary school

    but that doesn't count but I never had a boyfriend in middle school or most of my high school years. It sucks when you see all your friends in relationships and you cant get one to save your own life.
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    No Guy Ever Talks To Me

    I'm about to be 21 yrs old, and I've never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'd love to have one though you know to have someone really know me and love me for who I am (my family doesn't they practically ignore me) I get jealous when I see or hear people talk about their...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    One in real life, I've only got virtual

    relationships and it all ended badly. Meh...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 18, 2015

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    My dad didn't let me have friends

    that were guys when I was younger. Now, I'm a complete mess around guys I find attractive. I don't know how to hold conversations with them and get somewhat awkward. I've been asked out a couple times but I didn't even know them. I'm getting better at it but no where near having...
    swiggless swiggless 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    they are just not into me a tip

    if any one tells you are ugly deep down inside your really beautiful
    beautifulmetoo beautifulmetoo 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2015

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    Loneliness Leaves A Bitter Taste

    I'm 20 years old, and over the course of these 20 years, I have been completely single. No relationships, no initiation of relationships, no long distance relationships. Nothing. When I was in high school, a relationship was something that I really wanted. I would see guys and...
    ShawLandon ShawLandon 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    Okay... Here we go...

    Painful confession time: I am 28 and have never had a boyfriend, been on a date, or even been kissed. I was overweight my whole life, and I'm actually working on fixing that. I've lost 66 lbs in the last 10 months and I'm getting in shape and feeling better about myself. Things...
    pianodreams pianodreams 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    Well, I'm officially the only one out of my

    friends who has never had a boyfriend. I just found out my friend has been seeing this guy for a couple months, I'm happy for her. But this is doing wonders for my self esteem, how much lower can it get. Its already at rock bottom. I see someone, & I immediately think, well...
    IntrovertedHuman IntrovertedHuman 18-21, F Apr 23, 2014

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    many guys have asked me to be their girlfriend

    but i never wanted to. Every person i liked didnt like me back, and people who i didnt have a crush on liked me. so i was never satisfied. i know girls who dated guys who did not love, just to say they have a boyfriend. in my case though, i would date only someone i truly love...
    xofeelthelove xofeelthelove 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21, 2015

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    So I'm in my late 20s

    and have only ever had a 'boyfriend' for less than 2weeks when I was 15. First of all, I'm a normal girl. I get told I'm beautiful all the time, throughout school I was a cheerleader, top athlete, I was an A grade student who achieved Bs/Cs out of laziness lol, Im not a cliquey...
    ekdreamer ekdreamer 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    I'm 22 and still single,

    since birth... Though I did date a guy once for two weeks, I don't count that because it was stupid and only 3 double dates. People always tell me that now the first one will be the only one. I think I'll end up a crazy cat lady (I do like cats :))
    DanaJuliana DanaJuliana 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

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    Idontcaaree Idontcaaree 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13, 2015

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    blond, fun, attractive 30yr old virgin??

    BIG UPDATE ----> Scroll to the bottom! SO im 29, Im blond (dyed but everyone thinks its real), Im fit, intelligent, sporty, outgoing, have  a ton of friends, Im told Im rather attractive.... blah blah... So why am I 29, and have never had a real bf? yeah ive been...
    ayabe ayabe 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Please don't be shocked

    if u say I haven't had a boyfriend. I have never had a boyfriend in all my life. My "boyfriends" that I met online and off chat rooms I don't consider them boyfriends.Why? Because I didn't know them and plus they treated me as n object tricking me into things I wasn't ready for...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F Jun 14, 2015

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    This is the case: my mom always thinks I'm

    beautiful; my dad always threaten me that he's going to kill whoever appears at our doorstep to take me to a date; my grandparents always tell me that they think boys are drooling over me at school when boys at school can't even look at me straight in the eyes. I'm that weird.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F Jan 24, 2015

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    I currently like my old crush

    who I've liked 3 yrs on and off his name is Zyon but he still has feelings for his ex which is my friend but she says she doesn't even like him but he keeps going back and forth with the relationship and Breniah has moved on but if he doesn't move on he is going to end up...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2015

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    I honestly wished I never started dating in the

    first place. tooo much heartache
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 14, 2015

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    I'm a 13 y/o bi guy looking

    for a bf.... No specific requirements just be 13-16 and be nice
    Seane0226 Seane0226 13-15, M May 21, 2015

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    I keep telling myself not to think

    or care too much about it, because I don't want to be that person whose happiness is dependent on another. At least whenever someone brings it up, that's the atitude I put on...but truthfully it makes me feel very sad and lonely (and not in the smutty way btw...). I alternate...
    escapemyreality escapemyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Never had one but here's a tip

    that I would recommend to catch my attention. If boys want to seem more approachable and attractive, they should smile in pics or make a silly face that complements and shows more of your personality.
    FrannieXPandie2361 FrannieXPandie2361 13-15, F Sep 9, 2015

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    I never had a boyfriend

    that gets horny whenever I remove my bra or underwear I find it annoying when it happens everyday but also sexy at the same time. I can get nuded and he can't pay attention to what he was doing :)
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses May 20, 2015

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    I am 30 years old. I have a good,

    steady job, a Master's, a sensible car that's paid off, and own my own home, but I have never even been on a date. I've never been kissed. Unlike the women who boast it proudly though, they won't write articles about me. I wish that I was like them, like the friends who...
    NeverBee NeverBee 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    I Asked Santa For A Guy For Christmas....he Got Me Socks.

    Every time I start to get those butterflies for a guy the first thing I picture is bringing him home for the holidays. Its stupid soooo stupid. right? but it happens everyyyy time. I was joking around with my cousin and he asked me on thanksgiving what i wanted for christmas and...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    all the boys i talked to only ever wanted sex,

    or really wasn't for the whole "Relationship" thing. I want one but at the same time...... I don't?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 14, 2015

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    I live in the middle of nowhere,

    and besides that, I am not that great at talking to people. It is something I am working on. I have tried online dating but it doesn't work out or they live too far away and we end up not meeting up. I won't get discouraged or give up hope that I will find the right one for me.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    . He(Carlos) act totally different

    after school when I texted him and actually one day he blamed his grandmas death in and and he told me not to talk to him again.one morning I write this huge text to him of how I was sorry because I had no clue of what I did to him but he was being a jerk and told me no don't...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2015

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    I know I could get a boyfriend,

    but I don't really want one.
    mckennars mckennars 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

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    I am almost 16 and going into 11th grade

    and I have never had a boyfriend.
    mckennars mckennars 16-17, F Jun 14, 2015

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    Will I Always Be Single

    I am 33 almost 34 and still have never had a boyfriend I really am starting to think their is no one for me or that i am just not good enough to have one. Maybe I juast am not worthy.
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    ...and am glad I gave no guy the opportunity to

    break my heart. I never wanted to be one of the high school girls who were together with 50 boys from the school and I think if u r a student u r still a child! But I also have to say that no one ever wanted to date me! But that's fine now I am an adult and know what I want: an...
    50greysoface 50greysoface 18-21, F Aug 18, 2015

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    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom 18-21, M 1 Response May 20, 2015

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    ALL THE SINGLE LADIES ALL THE SINGLE LA- do you

    see where I'm going with this??
    Ezla617 Ezla617 13-15, F 1 Response May 19, 2015

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    Having A Boyfriend Isn't Everything

    Seriously, to be perfectly honest I don't see the point of having a boyfriend at my age, I'm 17 (2 months from now) btw and in my final year of college. And to me having a boyfriend is like pointless cause he isn't going to get me good grades in school or help me get accepted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    The guys I've met have only wanted to talk to me

    for sex, never for a real relationship. Or they don't like the fact that I have a daughter. But I still believe that I will find a man.
    sandraquetzalli sandraquetzalli 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20, 2015

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    I just found out the guy I like is gay.

    *sigh* Well this sucks.
    MediocreMirage MediocreMirage 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    because what I had was a girlfriend ?

    ?. Touchdown lesbos islands!
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

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    Oh Dear...

    ...I fear I now owe Sparkles a new laptop.... :-D
    BonVie BonVie 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    So I've never had a boyfriend

    and it's starting to bother me. I haven't found the right guy and all guys ever want me for is sex (which surprises me because I don't flirt my body around or come off sexual). For the longest time, I didn't want to be in a relationship because I didn't like my body but people...
    AllyBaby13 AllyBaby13 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19, 2015

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    I am almost 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend. It has never really bothered me until now, and I almost feel stupid for thinking like this, but I want to end up with someone. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for over a year and they always talk about their future life together. When...
    ehm0204 ehm0204 18-21, F Dec 13, 2014

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    I am so strange around guys

    that I am the least bit attracted to. The irony is that most of my friends are guys. I know guys think I am cute but I am too hardcore and not enough like a girl (so I have been told). When I think a guy is cute, its like I get stupid. I can not think straight. I am young and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10, 2015

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    Turning 24, Never Had a Boyfriend

    i am turning 24 this year and have never had a boyfriend. i've had what i would call 'romantic dalliances' but i don't feel like they were really real. i keep developing crushes on guys, and usually end up being quite close or good friends with these guys, but nothing ever...
    esteebebe esteebebe 22-25, F 37 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    I'm Still Alone

    It's strange kind of feeling, because I like loneliness, but sometimes everybody needs someone. My relationship with other people are terrible. People still expect something from me, but I don't want to change my all personality to be a better woman for example. What does it mean...
    meganza meganza 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...