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I Have Never Had a Boyfriend

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    Will I Always Be Single

    I am 33 almost 34 and still have never had a boyfriend I really am starting to think their is no one for me or that i am just not good enough to have one. Maybe I juast am not worthy.
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 31-35, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    21 And Single

    I am 21 years old and have never been on a date much less received any attentions from the opposite sex. I'm kind of a loner anyway, but there is a certain sense of dread and despondency that comes with the idea that one may never find love.
    IveyRose IveyRose 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I Am Almost 19...

    ...and have never had a boyfriend. I've never even been close to having a boyfriend, no one has ever asked me out. I think that's not because I'm ugly - I actually like myself and the way I look. It's just that I'm extremely shy and have no social life at all, so it's impossible...
    forevermichael forevermichael 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    Im 17

    Never had a bf in my life..i would love to have one it would make me so happy seeing im depressd 24/7 sigh.
    xkity123x xkity123x 18-21, T 12 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 10

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    Having High Standards

    I never had a boyfriend and I am turning 24 this year.  I don't think I lack anything, aesthetically, so I really can't  figure out what's wrong. I asked my friends about it and most of them tell me that I'll probably marry in my 30's because I have high standards when it...
    spiritgurl11 spiritgurl11 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    Ugh ! What's wrong with me ?

    I don't think I'm ugly or mean or anything ! Maybe it's because I don't go out much idk ugh I'm tired of this I want a boyfriend !!!
    lunaluna13 lunaluna13 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I Asked Santa For A Guy For Christmas....he Got Me Socks.

    Every time I start to get those butterflies for a guy the first thing I picture is bringing him home for the holidays. Its stupid soooo stupid. right? but it happens everyyyy time. I was joking around with my cousin and he asked me on thanksgiving what i wanted for christmas and...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    I'm Still Alone

    It's strange kind of feeling, because I like loneliness, but sometimes everybody needs someone. My relationship with other people are terrible. People still expect something from me, but I don't want to change my all personality to be a better woman for example. What does it mean...
    meganza meganza 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    Will I Ever Have a Boyfriend?

    My deepest darkest fear is that NO, I'll never have a boyfriend...EVER. At first, I was always defensive.  I thought that I was too pretty, smart and funny to not have a boyfriend.  Sure, I had some excess pounds here and there, a stubby nose, etc. - but so did the...
    queen1986 queen1986 22-25 8 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Turning 24, Never Had a Boyfriend

    i am turning 24 this year and have never had a boyfriend. i've had what i would call 'romantic dalliances' but i don't feel like they were really real. i keep developing crushes on guys, and usually end up being quite close or good friends with these guys, but nothing ever...
    esteebebe esteebebe 22-25, F 29 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Hey Im Confused

    I'm 19yr old guy vo loves doing crossdressing I love being a gal I always dress up like gal nd go for ladis shoping nd now many guys looks at me. Nd dis days I love this feeling I'm straight guy but now I'm confused demj wen I see tall guys wid gud body I get attracted to dem now...
    meenal77 meenal77 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    Never Had A Boyfriend...but Kinda Proud Of It... Was Not Distracted.

    Ive been asked out a lot of times. Talked to boys. Had friends as boys. Still have friends as boys. I just never went down the path of being in a relationship with a guy because I am so busy with trying to figure out who I am and what I want to do with my life. A guy wanted to be...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Hello, I Am 26 Years Old And I Am Scared That I Will Never Have A Real Boyfriend.

    I been told, we are all special and there's it's supposed to by someone special for us, but honestly I hadn't find that person, I don't know why but until I was 22 i haven't been asked on a date, then my friends introduced my somebody he looked like a nice guy and was...
    Sonia777 Sonia777 26-30, F 2 Responses May 28, 2012

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    I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend

    or a girlfriend or a partner or whatever. Never been kissed, asked out, on a date, nothing. It's super great for the self-esteem especially when all your friends are dating... Anyone got any advice to get out of this rut?
    pensieve pensieve 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    Loneliness Leaves A Bitter Taste

    I'm 20 years old, and over the course of these 20 years, I have been completely single. No relationships, no initiation of relationships, no long distance relationships. Nothing. When I was in high school, a relationship was something that I really wanted. I would see guys and...
    ShawLandon ShawLandon 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    I have never had any guys interested in me

    and I haven't been kissed..nothing. It makes me very depressed and I think I will be alone my whole life. All of the couples I see makes it even harder. I am shy and have a very low self esteem, so that explains why no one has taken interest. I know most of you will say I'm...
    Ginger135 Ginger135 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    I Think I Like Him

    I met this guy during my first day in college. We were in the same class. We really became close friends. We would hangout all the time together. Back then I thought he was really cool. I was kinda the tomboyish type and well I'm kinda on the heavy side so I never really thought...
    zeesims zeesims 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    Long Distance

    I'm 18 and my only relationships have been long distance. It sucks.
    Mkay2013 Mkay2013 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    Concerned About The Future

    I know it is meaningless to be concerned about things that are going to happen but maybe because I know it it's that I feel even more concerned about it. Everybody is always telling me that someday I'll find someone special for me but the fact is, it's been more than 10 years...
    HadaraNight HadaraNight 22-25, F Sep 17, 2013

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    No Boyfriend

    so i have never had a boyfriend! I am 22, a student attending on of the best schools in the country. it just happens that every time a guy wants to go out with me they are technically one my friends, and i just cant go out with them!  they are cool people, but i just dont...
    therightme therightme 21-25 4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    28, Still Alone.

    I noticed that many of you who posted stories are either in your teens or early 20's, so it makes some sense that you haven't had a boyfried.  I, on the other hand am edging towards 30 and have not so much as kissed a man.  I know part of the problem is that I don't get out...
    Harui Harui 26-30, F 11 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    I'm 45...and I Have Never Had A Boyfriend...

    I am 45 years old  and I have never had a boyfriend...at least not since I was in grade school.  I don't know why either.  I'm no Jennifer Aniston...but, I'm not all that bad looking.  I'm not into the league thing...although I am sure I know what league I'm in...the league...
    piapaj piapaj 41-45 7 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Turned 16 the other day

    and I was kind of ashamed because I still have never had a boyfriend. A unicorn would be so much easier to find. Like that joke that goes.. Me: I want a unicorn for Christmas Santa: be realistic Me: ok I want a boyfriend Santa: so, what color do u want your unicorn? Lmao story...
    foreveralone25 foreveralone25 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    28 And Never Had A Boyfriend, But Working On It :)

    To begin with - hi everyone, I'm new  :)  Well, I'm 28 (soon to be 29, not that I'm counting down the days) and have never had a boyfriend. I've been on dates, but it's been years and it never eventuated to anything serious anyway. Nothing longer than a few weeks, at any...
    lonepilgrim lonepilgrim 26-30 3 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    No Guy Ever Talks To Me

    I'm about to be 21 yrs old, and I've never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'd love to have one though you know to have someone really know me and love me for who I am (my family doesn't they practically ignore me) I get jealous when I see or hear people talk about their...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    Going On 18 and Still Single...

    Im almost 18 years old and I have never EVER had a boyfriend. I have never been asked out. I have been flirted with but I dont know how to flirt properly. I think I scare boys away or something. I dont mind it because I see the drama my friends go through, but when Im feeling...
    thepeaceful1 thepeaceful1 16-17 6 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    Confused

    Well I'm in middle school and we shower together and I find myself fantasizing over having sex with the other boys or teachers at school but i like girls
    crock2321 crock2321 13-15 1 Response Mar 26, 2013

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    Being a 15 year old girl,

    people are always shocked when I say this. The first time a boy shared his feelings with me I was five and so was he. "I like you," he said with a big ol smile on his face. Instead of saying "I like you!" back, I terrorized him....If there was a basketball by my said, I would...
    Heyyalikeblue Heyyalikeblue 22-25, F Jan 8

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    I'm A 36-year Old Guy, & Model, But Never Had Girlfriend

    I'm sorry if i'm posting this in the wrong section since i'm a GUY who's never had a GIRLFRIEND, but i'm so frustrated with seeing guys with hot girlfriends everywhere i go (i need to express myself). I'm 36 years old, never had a girlfriend, & in fact still a virgin (i've never...
    Jonathan48 Jonathan48 36-40 3 Responses Apr 21, 2013

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    It's Eating Me Up Inside

    I'm 25 and I've never had a boyfriend. I always thought that I would have been married by now. I feel so weird and different from everyone else, like I'm missing out on an important part of my life. I've been trying to let it happen naturally for the past ten years but nothing...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I am 30 years old. I have a good,

    steady job, a Master's, a sensible car that's paid off, and own my own home, but I have never even been on a date. I've never been kissed. Unlike the women who boast it proudly though, they won't write articles about me. I wish that I was like them, like the friends who...
    NeverBee NeverBee 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    is cuz im shy and dont put myself together well.

    I always think Im gonna meet some man who will take me out the ghetto. A guy who have a real job like as a medical technisan or somethin. But it seem like only stupid boyz like me. boyz who think they tough and just want me from the back one time and das it.
    TeishaHK TeishaHK 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I Wish

    im bloody 18 years old for christ sake !!!!! i think im too tom boyish i need a boyfriend ive never even had a date or kissed anyone i wish their was someone out there for me im deppressed over this:((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(
    spongebobizdabomb spongebobizdabomb 18-21 5 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I Didn't Image My Life Like This

    When I was younger I always thought about the future. How would my life be? I pictured myself with a boyfriend. At that time it didn't seem impossible. I thought that is was going to be very easy. Having a boyfriend and such. I didn't image myself sitting behind my laptop...
    losttNconfused losttNconfused 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    Forever Alone

    We are currently preparing foods with my lovely cousins for the outing tomorrow so now while doing the cooking , they are all having a conversation with their own boyfriends via skype and here i am forever alone. :/
    xarah889 xarah889 18-21, F 3 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I Feel Useless

    I feel like I'm totally missing out on life. I'm 19 and never, ever have I been asked out, been kissed, had a boyfriend or had one ounce of attention from the opposite sex. My friends say I need to go out more and that there's nothing wrong with me, but I feel terrible every...
    katastrophywife katastrophywife 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    blond, fun, attractive 30yr old virgin??

    BIG UPDATE ----> Scroll to the bottom! SO im 29, Im blond (dyed but everyone thinks its real), Im fit, intelligent, sporty, outgoing, have  a ton of friends, Im told Im rather attractive.... blah blah... So why am I 29, and have never had a real bf? yeah ive been...
    ayabe ayabe 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Yup... Never ever been in a relationship before.

    I'm 16, so I guess it's acceptable, but in this society it feels like everyone has their boyfriends and girlfriends already! I'm not really embarrassed by it. I'm not a **** and I want to wait for the perfect guy. I'm been asked out by a few guys who had crushes on me, but...
    gogirl08 gogirl08 16-17, F Dec 15, 2013

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    Help Me.

    I'm 19yrs old, I've had one boyfriend in my entire life and that was when I was like 12 and lasted for about 3hrs lol. I seem to be having trouble with guys. ALOT. I'm not ugly & I get that I'm pretty all the time. I'm AA about 5'5, around 180lbs(most of it is my boobs). I've...
    Kaydoll19 Kaydoll19 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    never been kissed, never had a boyfriend,

    never been ask out. i have been told that a beautiful that am wise that am not like all those other girls. Am not shy i love meeting new people. am the type that goes with the flow and let life happen. i told my crush that i like him and he said nothing and it's been a year...
    ozchid2 ozchid2 18-21, F Feb 11

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    Ummm...

    Well I went through all of middle schhol, highschool and the so far college ( i still got 2 and a half years to go...) with out a kiss, date or any type of relationship. I dont want to seem desperate or anything but i am dying for one! I want someone i can share my life with and...
    gobanana5 gobanana5 19-21, F 5 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Yep I've never had a boyfriend.

    . Then again I don't really have much of a life to have one.. My friends tell me I'm like 'one of the lads' y'no always playing games, wearing boyish t-shirts and getting along with them a lot easier (and being slightly attracted to females :I ) There was one boy who liked me...
    Ch3rryBlossom Ch3rryBlossom 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I'm 24

          I'm 24 years old. I have never had a boyfriend in my life. I have been out on dates with guys. Just no one that cared that much about me at all. I'm not used to having a guy that cares about me in my life. Its all new to me. I have had guys that hav...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16, 2010

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    so yeah, I'm already on my twenties

    and i still haven't found that guy. where are you???? my friends told me i look unapproachable, but actually i'm just freaking shy. i couldn't understand why girls my age approach the guys but really, guys should approach the girls, not the other way around. forgive me for...
    WhimsicalNonsense WhimsicalNonsense 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    it makes me feel terrified

    and awkward. it's terrible to admit and i feel like everyone will judge me. nobody wants to get to know me and they're going to be turned-off when they realize how undesirable and inexperienced i am. i will be so awkward.
    ughomg ughomg 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Having A Boyfriend Isn't Everything

    Seriously, to be perfectly honest I don't see the point of having a boyfriend at my age, I'm 17 (2 months from now) btw and in my final year of college. And to me having a boyfriend is like pointless cause he isn't going to get me good grades in school or help me get accepted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    Not Interested

    I don't think I have been ever interested in boys not even since my dive in to puberty now I'm the big ONE SIX though I dont care if I have until my late twnenties. It is because (I may have ranted about this in a previous story) all boys my age want is something to hump and I...
    RoseOfAutumn RoseOfAutumn 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Never Had a Boyfriend and Frankly Don't Think I Ever Will

     I have never had a boyfriend. And no this isn't because i'm gay, scared of anyone getting close to me or just plain unable to get one. It's simply that i just don't think i'm intended to have one. I think some people are lone rangers in this life and that's what i think i...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    Not in real life, online,

    in my head. Nothing. I don't know what I am doing wrong because everyone online says I'm "beautiful" but in real life I'm not even acknowledged. It makes me upset. Sometimes I wish I could die because I feel like everyone's been lying to me my whole life.
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    No never had one. I protect myself always. Wrap it up people.
    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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