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I Have Never Had a Boyfriend

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    So I'm in my late 20s

    and have only ever had a 'boyfriend' for less than 2weeks when I was 15. First of all, I'm a normal girl. I get told I'm beautiful all the time, throughout school I was a cheerleader, top athlete, I was an A grade student who achieved Bs/Cs out of laziness lol, Im not a cliquey...
    ekdreamer ekdreamer 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    Not in real life, online,

    in my head. Nothing. I don't know what I am doing wrong because everyone online says I'm "beautiful" but in real life I'm not even acknowledged. It makes me upset. Sometimes I wish I could die because I feel like everyone's been lying to me my whole life.
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 14, 2014

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    One in real life, I've only got virtual

    relationships and it all ended badly. Meh...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 18

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    So I really like this guy called Wiki (that's

    his codename) and we've shared a lot of moments. We were in the same group for a project and we flirted a lot and made each other laugh. We also love the same TV shows! So there's another girl in my class who is really nice but we share the same name (lets say our name is Gigi...
    justanothertwelvie00 justanothertwelvie00 13-15, F 2 Responses May 19

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    Oh Dear...

    ...I fear I now owe Sparkles a new laptop.... :-D
    BonVie BonVie 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Sometimes it's good, other times I feel down about it. My friends have boyfriends an so I compare myself to them, like am I not as interesting or as pretty as them. Also seeing as I've never had a boyfriend I've never held hands with a guy, or kissed a guy, or gone all the way...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    whenever i like a guy i'm too shy to admit it

    and if a guy trys to flirt with me i turn into a giggling twit and normally say dumb things out of nerves
    Sumptous Sumptous 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    I'm Still Alone

    It's strange kind of feeling, because I like loneliness, but sometimes everybody needs someone. My relationship with other people are terrible. People still expect something from me, but I don't want to change my all personality to be a better woman for example. What does it mean...
    meganza meganza 22-25, F 11 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    The guys I've met have only wanted to talk to me

    for sex, never for a real relationship. Or they don't like the fact that I have a daughter. But I still believe that I will find a man.
    sandraquetzalli sandraquetzalli 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20

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    ...and am glad I gave no guy the opportunity to

    break my heart. I never wanted to be one of the high school girls who were together with 50 boys from the school and I think if u r a student u r still a child! But I also have to say that no one ever wanted to date me! But that's fine now I am an adult and know what I want: an...
    MutedVoice MutedVoice 18-21, F Aug 18

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    and I'm scared and I don't know what to do

    or how to react or how to feel.
    heyydutchy heyydutchy 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I've never had an boyfriend either

    but there are times when i wish I could be with one..then I realize that I don't have one ahah :P
    TheWhispersReloaded TheWhispersReloaded 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Having A Boyfriend Isn't Everything

    Seriously, to be perfectly honest I don't see the point of having a boyfriend at my age, I'm 17 (2 months from now) btw and in my final year of college. And to me having a boyfriend is like pointless cause he isn't going to get me good grades in school or help me get accepted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    I am almost 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend. It has never really bothered me until now, and I almost feel stupid for thinking like this, but I want to end up with someone. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for over a year and they always talk about their future life together. When...
    ehm0204 ehm0204 18-21, F Dec 13, 2014

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    because what I had was a girlfriend ?

    ?. Touchdown lesbos islands!
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    I mean I had one in elementary school

    but that doesn't count but I never had a boyfriend in middle school or most of my high school years. It sucks when you see all your friends in relationships and you cant get one to save your own life.
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    Okay... Here we go...

    Painful confession time: I am 28 and have never had a boyfriend, been on a date, or even been kissed. I was overweight my whole life, and I'm actually working on fixing that. I've lost 66 lbs in the last 10 months and I'm getting in shape and feeling better about myself. Things...
    pianodreams pianodreams 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    Nope. Never had one and never will.

    you know why? It's cause I'm not into dudes, lulz
    FacePalmCat FacePalmCat 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20

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    . He(Carlos) act totally different

    after school when I texted him and actually one day he blamed his grandmas death in and and he told me not to talk to him again.one morning I write this huge text to him of how I was sorry because I had no clue of what I did to him but he was being a jerk and told me no don't...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    I currently like my old crush

    who I've liked 3 yrs on and off his name is Zyon but he still has feelings for his ex which is my friend but she says she doesn't even like him but he keeps going back and forth with the relationship and Breniah has moved on but if he doesn't move on he is going to end up...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    I know I could get a boyfriend,

    but I don't really want one.
    mckennars mckennars 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    i'm 16 and i've never had a boyfriend.

    seeing everyone else around me in relationships makes me sad sometimes. i trully believe that i don't need anyone to make me happy but myself but you know i still wonder.
    bluespottedtail bluespottedtail 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I just found out the guy I like is gay.

    *sigh* Well this sucks.
    SociallyAwkwardGirl SociallyAwkwardGirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I seriously never had a bf.

    I'm scared of getting into an relationship. I know I'm supposed to be focusing on school. It's just when I'm ready I'm ready to be someone else girlfriend.
    manotham manotham 16-17, F May 2

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    Well, I'm officially the only one out of my

    friends who has never had a boyfriend. I just found out my friend has been seeing this guy for a couple months, I'm happy for her. But this is doing wonders for my self esteem, how much lower can it get. Its already at rock bottom. I see someone, & I immediately think, well...
    IntrovertedHuman IntrovertedHuman 18-21, F Apr 23, 2014

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    I am almost 16 and going into 11th grade

    and I have never had a boyfriend.
    mckennars mckennars 16-17, F Jun 14

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    No Guy Ever Talks To Me

    I'm about to be 21 yrs old, and I've never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'd love to have one though you know to have someone really know me and love me for who I am (my family doesn't they practically ignore me) I get jealous when I see or hear people talk about their...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    and maybe never will.

    Seriously, who would want to date an outcast like me?
    Reivven Reivven 13-15, F 1 Response May 19

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    Turning 24, Never Had a Boyfriend

    i am turning 24 this year and have never had a boyfriend. i've had what i would call 'romantic dalliances' but i don't feel like they were really real. i keep developing crushes on guys, and usually end up being quite close or good friends with these guys, but nothing ever...
    esteebebe esteebebe 22-25, F 37 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Will I Always Be Single

    I am 33 almost 34 and still have never had a boyfriend I really am starting to think their is no one for me or that i am just not good enough to have one. Maybe I juast am not worthy.
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 36-40, F 13 Responses May 9, 2012

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I'm a 13 y/o bi guy looking

    for a bf.... No specific requirements just be 13-16 and be nice
    Seane0226 Seane0226 13-15, M May 21

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    I honestly wished I never started dating in the

    first place. tooo much heartache
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 14

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    ALL THE SINGLE LADIES ALL THE SINGLE LA- do you

    see where I'm going with this??
    Ezla617 Ezla617 13-15, F 1 Response May 19

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    when i tell people this they say really?

    ??? well yeah i wouldnt sit here and tell you ive never if i have. "but your're so pretty." *in whiney voice* well boo hoo ive turned them down because i was scared of being in a relationship. i have some insecurities that kinda block me from having them. damn you voice in the...
    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1

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    Loneliness Leaves A Bitter Taste

    I'm 20 years old, and over the course of these 20 years, I have been completely single. No relationships, no initiation of relationships, no long distance relationships. Nothing. When I was in high school, a relationship was something that I really wanted. I would see guys and...
    ShawLandon ShawLandon 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom 18-21, M 1 Response May 20

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    I never had a boyfriend

    that gets horny whenever I remove my bra or underwear I find it annoying when it happens everyday but also sexy at the same time. I can get nuded and he can't pay attention to what he was doing :)
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses May 20

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    I'm 22 and still single,

    since birth... Though I did date a guy once for two weeks, I don't count that because it was stupid and only 3 double dates. People always tell me that now the first one will be the only one. I think I'll end up a crazy cat lady (I do like cats :))
    DanaJuliana DanaJuliana 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Please don't be shocked

    if u say I haven't had a boyfriend. I have never had a boyfriend in all my life. My "boyfriends" that I met online and off chat rooms I don't consider them boyfriends.Why? Because I didn't know them and plus they treated me as n object tricking me into things I wasn't ready for...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F Jun 14

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    I Asked Santa For A Guy For Christmas....he Got Me Socks.

    Every time I start to get those butterflies for a guy the first thing I picture is bringing him home for the holidays. Its stupid soooo stupid. right? but it happens everyyyy time. I was joking around with my cousin and he asked me on thanksgiving what i wanted for christmas and...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    I never had a boyfriend ,

    but who cares ?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I am so strange around guys

    that I am the least bit attracted to. The irony is that most of my friends are guys. I know guys think I am cute but I am too hardcore and not enough like a girl (so I have been told). When I think a guy is cute, its like I get stupid. I can not think straight. I am young and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10

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    So I've never had a boyfriend

    and it's starting to bother me. I haven't found the right guy and all guys ever want me for is sex (which surprises me because I don't flirt my body around or come off sexual). For the longest time, I didn't want to be in a relationship because I didn't like my body but people...
    AllyBaby13 AllyBaby13 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19