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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I'm 16 years old and I'm about to be 17.

    I'm a 2nd year student on an Engineering school, which means that on every 40 people that I meet in the campus, only 5 are girls, 2 of them are probably professors. -__- I. NEED. HELP.
    QW321 QW321 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I want someone to wake up to

    and love. I'll probably be forever alone though. I want someone to have fun with and share my life with for better or worse.
    fuzzman96 fuzzman96 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Hello, I'm a woman(25)

    and I'm dating a guy (31) who has been single his whole life. I have been in relationships before and he knows about it. We are not yet bf/gf, we just date, flirts and chat... But recently I'm wondering if he plays hard to get or loses interest in me? I know he is not a player...
    Sushi4ever Sushi4ever 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    I'm easily one of the oldest people in this

    group: I'll be 37 in July. Never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and only been kissed three times (every time, alcohol was involved, and they initiated it). It's a combination of things: fear of rejection (I would just hate to be given "the cheek" when I go in for a kiss...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    Never have had a gf but I am bisexual :3 Merp

    :3 it's my thing to say Merp :3
    BiXwolfsXbears BiXwolfsXbears 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    hi everyone I just woke up at midnight

    and thought I'll post my experience here because I feel so much emptiness inside for the fact I've never had a girlfriend, not even a friend who is a girl ever. it's all this ****** conservative country's fault (Pakistan) . men and women are segregated in almost all public...
    despair1 despair1 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I'm thinking that I'll finish high school

    without ever finding someone. I really want a girl friend. A real one. Someone I can love, and look at, and just feel amazed that I have found someone so wonderful to be my best friend for life. College will be harder for me to meet people. Not that it would make much...
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M Feb 9

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    I think girls try to knock you down to test

    your confidence and resilience. Unfortunately, I have fragile self-confidence and crumble in such situations. I'm afraid that I'll never make it with a girl.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    Yup and I never had one.

    Ever. I used to have girls that are friends but they didn't last long and I was too dense to notice that they probably liked me. I just didn't bother to act on it because I was afraid. I was afraid that if I get into a relationship with someone I enjoy spending time with...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    I never had a girl friend at the first place.

    It's not lack of confidence or something. But I was never fond of having long term relationships right now. Sure, I'm good with women and have a good number of them as my friends. But I am not in that mood to have one.
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2014

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    An Uninterest?

     I am 18 years old and have yet to find that one special girl.  Do I feel any self pity? I don't. I have never felt any desperation in not having a girlfriend. Interest? Of course. But never a burning desire within to have someone to hold and cuddle with. I do find...
    Cajaro Cajaro 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    A Loner

    Hi, I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. Now it is not like I have not tried, I have tried many times but always get hurt in the end. You see I have been rejected by or just made a fool of by every girl that I have ever liked, going all the way back...
    WayneTakeshi WayneTakeshi 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    Nope.

    I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Im 16 in highschool and never had a girlfriend.

    I get so nervous around girls, yet so comfortable around guys. But i go home every night thinking about girls. I know im not gay, but Im starting to think people might think I am. I dont know how to talk to girls or kiss or anything. Girls definently give me chances, even girls...
    Brandon5565 Brandon5565 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I need girlfriend....

    ...............for chat, fiendship........and may for relation ........lol
    hamzaqayyum12 hamzaqayyum12 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL 31-35 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I never had one, I wasn't able to find one,

    I couldn't get one, it's because everyone hates me and I've been too busy with school
    craz3f8g craz3f8g 18-21 2 Responses Feb 16

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    This is not a sob story,

    im not looking for sympathy, its just how it is, I was born with a disability have been deformed and in a wheelchair all my life, I am 42 years old and never had a girlfriend or found anyone who is interested. I am at a point in my life now where I have tried and tried but now I...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    i loved a girl for like 5 years.

    last month i told her and she said she's not into relationship thing and she do not want to loose me i did what i could i've always started the conversation and she ignore me or respond for a while i found out that she's talking about me to a guy but when i asked her she was like...
    nothingbuteach nothingbuteach 18-21, M Jan 28

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    Ive had plenty boyfriends.

    But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF.

    I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 22-25, M Apr 16, 2014

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    I am 20 years of age,

    and I have never had a girlfriend ; at first, it was certainly not for lack of effort. But, during junior year of high school, I asked out one particular girl on a date, and the unthinkable happened, She was so embarrassed, she tried to kill herself ; left a note blaming me and...
    Csheesley Csheesley 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 7

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    All i want is a girl

    who loves me for me and not for what have . being eighteen i feel that i still have a chance but girls won't give me that chance. they would either ignore me or laugh in my face. i know single life isn't so bad but i just want someone to say i love you too. if any of you can...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    lots of girls tell me

    that I'm not hot or they say I'm not there type: (
    danielcordovafl danielcordovafl 18-21, M Nov 15, 2014

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    I never had a girlfriend

    and feel very left out seeing everybody else date but me.
    asilva61 asilva61 18-21, M Dec 12, 2014

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    Ok so I'm 19, almost 20.

    I'm a freshman in college, and I find it very hard to talk to girls. I'm a pretty shy person up until I get to know someone well. My main problem is that I have zero confidence in myself. I'd say I'm an average looking guy, I love to work out and to play sports, but for the most...
    quietcontender quietcontender 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I am 17 years old and I have never gone out on

    a date, and have never been in a relationship. Like I've said in other experiences, I'm confused on my sexuality. So I'd like to find out what I'm into.
    H0ST0NWEDG1E H0ST0NWEDG1E 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    lexinwonderland lexinwonderland 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    The day we meet Its been almost 22 years,

    but still i have not been able to date a girl. Sometimes that makes me feel like a impotent or I am seriously one? I see my peer and people around me living a great life with their partners. So is it that important to have a girlfriend in this era. So is it like if you are or...
    askme4 askme4 22-25, M Nov 10, 2014

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    I kind of know why I've never had one

    but now I want to change that, I want to find a lass that I can connect with and actually get to know and I have been told I am realy wierd by folk for saying this but I don't care about sex in a lass which most of my friends think is really stupid :(
    COG1997 COG1997 16-17, M 2 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19, 2014

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    i an feel lonely without girlfriend.

    no one girls interest in me .
    hareesh620 hareesh620 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    Im still Bi-Curious aha,

    taking life slow aha xx
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    WhateverBruhhh WhateverBruhhh 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I have never had a gf,

    I think the reason is that I don't know how to attract them. Do you have any advice?
    msignore msignore 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 16

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    The reason I don't have a girlfriend is

    that I never had the courage to go up to the girl and ask her out because I am afraid of being rejected. Plus I never kissed a girl before or hold hands with one and even cuddle aslo hanged out and be alone with a girl to. I know in my heart that any girl out there will be...
    shycreativeguy shycreativeguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak 51-55, M 111 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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