I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    Almost 30 and no girlfriend 29,

    in 2 months will turn 30, single, no real girlfriend. I don't socialized much as I used to and sometimes feel lonely. 12 years after I finish high school I had meet several girls but in the end none of them didn't became my girlfriend. Yes I did ask, yes I was rejected, and I...
    taiho110 taiho110
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 3

    The girls in my school are never serious

    and mature about relationships. Majority of my friends relationship end within one month. I really just want a girl that has goals and know what she wants in a relationship. Been dreaming when will I ever be able to be in a relationship with a girl who hopes for the things that...
    ShyKidz ShyKidz
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc
    18-21, M
    8 Responses Mar 6, 2012

    I am 15 from India.All my school friends have

    girlfriends except me.But I am good looking than most of them. I feel so sad of it.if there is some girl on here facing a similar situation I would love to be your friend. I would love to advices too
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 23

    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak
    51-55, M
    115 Responses Oct 17, 2009

    How am i supposed to get a girlfriend

    when i'm shy and modest before i know people, then arrogant and confident when they get to know me. I pretty much never talk to girls my own age because i'm too shy... its not even really being shy its just i have no idea what to say because i've never had one and never even...
    Th3Notorious Th3Notorious
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 31

    I don't really mind that I've never had a

    girlfriend. It just means there's someone out there i need to search for. I love a treasure hunt.
    Foot94 Foot94
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 4

    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL
    31-35
    6 Responses Jun 2, 2013

    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder
    18-21, M
    Apr 21, 2014

    I suck at writing so I'll just dive in.

    so I see myself at the bottom of the dating spectrum. I'm not confident, attractive in anyway, lazy, boring, pretty stupid, broke as a joke, and just plain undesirable. I guess I should give a little background to how I got like this. Well I guess I really realized this when I...
    computerguy71 computerguy71
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 5, 2015

    Especially when my best friend is over a year

    younger than me and married, it's disappointing to be nearly 26 and the closest I've come to girls is in school dance classes in PE. It never did my confidence any good to be last selected when the girls chose partners. Even then, I wasn't really 'chosen'. Still, it was so...
    Nexile90 Nexile90
    26-30, M
    Apr 2

    I wish I had a girlfriend right now.

    I want someone to spend all of my time with, someone to make feel better when she is feeling down, someone to spend my money on, and someone to care for more than anything else in the world. I guess I don't want just a girlfriend, I want the girl of my dreams who will do...
    stewartgreen stewartgreen
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    I have been talking to a young women on FB

    messenger on & off since Boxing Day She asked me to friend her on there she lives in Ghana & she posted a picture of herself which I thought was very sexy in a long black dress but she is 28 & I am 55 & single as she is. She was in a relationship but he betrayed her. Does...
    Johnteenth Johnteenth
    51-55, M
    Jan 3
    Anujshrestha1231 Anujshrestha1231
    18-21, M
    Nov 2, 2015

    me and Priscilla were going out

    for a while after that I kinda messed up I said some nasty things to her Facebook page and she was really upset about it so I felt bad about it and I want to make things right with her
    Johnny1446 Johnny1446
    18-21, M
    Sep 29, 2015

    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson
    16-17, M
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014

    Never have i ever had a girlfriend,

    been kissed, went on a date, or hold hands with a female ever in my whole existence. I was always like the deep, strict, quiet and much slightly timid type of guy.
    Knickster24 Knickster24
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Apr 19

    Here I am at the age of 22

    and have never actually been in a relationship with a girl. Ive had many almost girlfriends but those girls always seemed to get too shy and back out at the last second. So I guess here I am, any girls want to be involved with me?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 2, 2015

    What a Shocker indeed.

    Yes and it's True, I've never had a Girlfriend. Never had the experience either. It does resonate within me if I ever will have one.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    I have a date this Sunday with someone I met,

    I hope this means I can leave this group soon. I hope she is the one for me! Fingers crossed!
    stewartgreen stewartgreen
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 1
    fvhjzcvjj fvhjzcvjj
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 9

    All i want is a girl

    who loves me for me and not for what have . being eighteen i feel that i still have a chance but girls won't give me that chance. they would either ignore me or laugh in my face. i know single life isn't so bad but i just want someone to say i love you too. if any of you can...
    SladeBolinLeaderofEp SladeBolinLeaderofEp
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad
    18-21, M
    16 Responses Oct 19, 2008

    The reason is that I look too young.

    I am 15 but very short, only 154 cm, so I look like 11-12, my parents also make me wear shorts all year and that makes me look even younger. So many girls ofmy age say that I am very cute and they like me and hug me or comfort me if I get punisments from my parents but they don...
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200
    16-17, M
    Jun 11, 2015

    Well I've made it to 50

    and never had a girlfriend. Lots of girls who are friends and I love em all. But whenever I've tried to go to the next level I get the dreaded `I love you but as a friend' response. At this point in my life I've resigned myself to the fact that I'm going to be single all my life...
    Nuggy65 Nuggy65
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 4

    I think I dont need someone else to be happy in

    my life, I hope so........:'(...*~*. Girls are just cruel and complicated. ....
    DarkRepulsser DarkRepulsser
    16-17, M
    4 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    Well I'm leaving this group,

    but breakups suck, and I want to stay. I just want someone to cuddle with
    stewartgreen stewartgreen
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Apr 18

    Well, that's because I'm a straight girl.

    But I've never had a boyfriend either.
    RH17 RH17
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    I hate when my family asks me "Why don't you

    ever bring a nice girl home?" Or "Why have you never been in a relationship?". First of all, because I'm gay and everyone just refuses to ask the obvious question. Second of all, because even if I was in a relationship, it wouldn't be anybody's damn business. D:< *Kindly...
    FabledTacoOfDoom FabledTacoOfDoom
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    the biggest heartbreak I've ever had.

    well if you read my first post then you know I don't have any luck with girls because, well to put in plainly I'm a loser so here's another great story. it was April 15 2011 I had been chatting with a girl online for a few weeks and things were looking great. I knew I needed to...
    computerguy71 computerguy71
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686
    26-30, M
    Apr 19, 2014

    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia
    26-30
    6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

    Only Pretend...

    When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I remember the moment so clearly. She suddenly said: "Be my Boyfriend!", I was just floored. I knew she was a lesbian...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

    I swear maybe it's my looks

    since my personality attracts everyone but I guess nobody can ever look past looks :/
    ShyKidz ShyKidz
    16-17, M
    Oct 6, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 29, 2015

    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 9, 2012

    It's kinda difficult now,

    most of my really close friends have had girlfriends or boyfriends by now, and I've never had any sort of relationship like that before. They tell me that I'll find someone, but I know that they are lying to make me feel better. It really starts to **** me off. (Yes I know I'm...
    LukeEmerson LukeEmerson
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 31

    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00
    22-25, M
    Apr 16, 2014

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    talorbi talorbi
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2015
    SilverSapphireDragon SilverSapphireDragon
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jan 7

    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

    sometimes i wonder will I ever find a

    Girlfriend cause its been 18 years
    joeagosto joeagosto
    18-21, M
    Dec 2, 2015

    I've never had a girlfriend.

    I've been in love over a dozen times, and some of those girls even knew about it. I am a 43 year old virgin. I feel it may have something to do with my Asperger's Syndrome and being an INTJ "Mastermind" personality type. I wonder if it's because I'm simply undesirable?
    Lobber Lobber
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    Nor do I want to sure I mean I like to tease a

    girl but I don't want one yet anyway
    Ihan14 Ihan14
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    I'm 20 and still a virgin,

    I'm quite a good looking lad it's just I haven't got the minerals to approach a girl .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 16

    I would like to have a girlfriend,

    but haven't ever had any. Because I always feel shy to express my feelings...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2012
    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    I'm 36 and been single all my life I've never

    had a girlfriend nor have I've had sex. Every woman I've liked never liked me back I feel people just don't give a crap whether or not a guy is single they just expect him to be like every other guy other there and get with a woman and get married. but considering the divorce...
    lokie4040 lokie4040
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    It never really bothered me

    until this past year, my junior year in high school, when my (twin) brother and his girlfriend started dating. Ever since then it seems like everyone around me are starting to get in relationships. Friends, other siblings, hell even my dad got a new girlfriend. I've always been...
    AGuyStandingHere AGuyStandingHere
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2015
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    18-21, M
    1 Response May 18, 2015

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    22-25, M
    Jan 17
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