Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,976 People

    WhateverBruhhh WhateverBruhhh 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm thinking that I'll finish high school

    without ever finding someone. I really want a girl friend. A real one. Someone I can love, and look at, and just feel amazed that I have found someone so wonderful to be my best friend for life. College will be harder for me to meet people. Not that it would make much...
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M Feb 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Im still Bi-Curious aha,

    taking life slow aha xx
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I think girls try to knock you down to test

    your confidence and resilience. Unfortunately, I have fragile self-confidence and crumble in such situations. I'm afraid that I'll never make it with a girl.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 18-21, M Apr 21, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 26 and still waiting.

    I just pray to meet her soon.
    TidalMoon TidalMoon 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ok so I'm 19, almost 20.

    I'm a freshman in college, and I find it very hard to talk to girls. I'm a pretty shy person up until I get to know someone well. My main problem is that I have zero confidence in myself. I'd say I'm an average looking guy, I love to work out and to play sports, but for the most...
    quietcontender quietcontender 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never have had a gf but I am bisexual :3 Merp

    :3 it's my thing to say Merp :3
    BiXwolfsXbears BiXwolfsXbears 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Nope.

    I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ive had plenty boyfriends.

    But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    An Uninterest?

     I am 18 years old and have yet to find that one special girl.  Do I feel any self pity? I don't. I have never felt any desperation in not having a girlfriend. Interest? Of course. But never a burning desire within to have someone to hold and cuddle with. I do find...
    Cajaro Cajaro 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    thebigscottishguy thebigscottishguy 22-25, M May 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This is not a sob story,

    im not looking for sympathy, its just how it is, I was born with a disability have been deformed and in a wheelchair all my life, I am 42 years old and never had a girlfriend or found anyone who is interested. I am at a point in my life now where I have tried and tried but now I...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want someone to wake up to

    and love. I'll probably be forever alone though. I want someone to have fun with and share my life with for better or worse.
    fuzzman96 fuzzman96 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I kind of know why I've never had one

    but now I want to change that, I want to find a lass that I can connect with and actually get to know and I have been told I am realy wierd by folk for saying this but I don't care about sex in a lass which most of my friends think is really stupid :(
    COG1997 COG1997 16-17, M 2 Responses May 2, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I suck at writing so I'll just dive in.

    so I see myself at the bottom of the dating spectrum. I'm not confident, attractive in anyway, lazy, boring, pretty stupid, broke as a joke, and just plain undesirable. I guess I should give a little background to how I got like this. Well I guess I really realized this when I...
    computerguy71 computerguy71 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yup and I never had one.

    Ever. I used to have girls that are friends but they didn't last long and I was too dense to notice that they probably liked me. I just didn't bother to act on it because I was afraid. I was afraid that if I get into a relationship with someone I enjoy spending time with...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    lexinwonderland lexinwonderland 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't think i had or no .

    ... i was with only one girl but only for four months nd in these 4 mnths she betrayed me so many times. ... i forgive her everytime but she. .....
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    the biggest heartbreak I've ever had.

    well if you read my first post then you know I don't have any luck with girls because, well to put in plainly I'm a loser so here's another great story. it was April 15 2011 I had been chatting with a girl online for a few weeks and things were looking great. I knew I needed to...
    computerguy71 computerguy71 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The reason is that I look too young.

    I am 15 but very short, only 154 cm, so I look like 11-12, my parents also make me wear shorts all year and that makes me look even younger. So many girls ofmy age say that I am very cute and they like me and hug me or comfort me if I get punisments from my parents but they don...
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Im 13 im bad with girls I guess Never kissed a

    girl not even on the cheeks 😑
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 16 years old and I'm about to be 17.

    I'm a 2nd year student on an Engineering school, which means that on every 40 people that I meet in the campus, only 5 are girls, 2 of them are probably professors. -__- I. NEED. HELP.
    QW321 QW321 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sadaccaa sadaccaa 26-30, F Jun 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    hi everyone I just woke up at midnight

    and thought I'll post my experience here because I feel so much emptiness inside for the fact I've never had a girlfriend, not even a friend who is a girl ever. it's all this ****** conservative country's fault (Pakistan) . men and women are segregated in almost all public...
    despair1 despair1 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    asterwesley asterwesley 16-17, M 1 Response May 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i loved a girl for like 5 years.

    last month i told her and she said she's not into relationship thing and she do not want to loose me i did what i could i've always started the conversation and she ignore me or respond for a while i found out that she's talking about me to a guy but when i asked her she was like...
    nothingbuteach nothingbuteach 18-21, M Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Only Pretend...

    When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I remember the moment so clearly. She suddenly said: "Be my Boyfriend!", I was just floored. I knew she was a lesbian...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It never really bothered me

    until this past year, my junior year in high school, when my (twin) brother and his girlfriend started dating. Ever since then it seems like everyone around me are starting to get in relationships. Friends, other siblings, hell even my dad got a new girlfriend. I've always been...
    AGuyStandingHere AGuyStandingHere 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    All i want is a girl

    who loves me for me and not for what have . being eighteen i feel that i still have a chance but girls won't give me that chance. they would either ignore me or laugh in my face. i know single life isn't so bad but i just want someone to say i love you too. if any of you can...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF.

    I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 22-25, M Apr 16, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    28 and never had a girlfriend.

    never kissed a girl, never held a girls hand, never had any intimacy whatsoever with a girl. i walk around everyday seeing beautiful women, dream girl types, fantasizing, ************ at home, and just sick of everything.. im so sick of this life. i dont even want to...
    mrhancock2014 mrhancock2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak 51-55, M 111 Responses Oct 17, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I need girlfriend....

    ...............for chat, fiendship........and may for relation ........lol
    hamzaqayyum12 hamzaqayyum12 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Need an online girlfriend?

    Just someone to talk to or someone to show your friends? Come hire one for $40 a week. Included texting and flirting for the whole week and pictures to show off to your friends as proof interested pm me
    onlinegirlfrieng19 onlinegirlfrieng19 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    when ever I am near any girl I feel to nervous

    due to my short height to even say hi to her . thats why I end up either running away from the place if possible or start acting like freak. and mostly end up making fun of myself..thats why I never had a girlfriend.. I want a serious solution to this problem...
    divyam18 divyam18 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 23

    Your Response

    Cancel