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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    I'm 36 and been single all my life I've never

    had a girlfriend nor have I've had sex. Every woman I've liked never liked me back I feel people just don't give a crap whether or not a guy is single they just expect him to be like every other guy other there and get with a woman and get married. but considering the divorce...
    lokie4040 lokie4040 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 10, 2015

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    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 18-21, M Apr 21, 2014

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    I am 15 from India.All my school friends have

    girlfriends except me.But I am good looking than most of them. I feel so sad of it.if there is some girl on here facing a similar situation I would love to be your friend. I would love to advices too
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 23

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    Are you single and open to dating someone from

    another race? Then join >-millionairemeetup.c0m -< Thousands of singles have joined in this had become couples.
    talorbi talorbi 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    gigglekitty gigglekitty 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2015

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    I swear maybe it's my looks

    since my personality attracts everyone but I guess nobody can ever look past looks :/
    ShyKidz ShyKidz 16-17, M Oct 6, 2015

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    All i want is a girl

    who loves me for me and not for what have . being eighteen i feel that i still have a chance but girls won't give me that chance. they would either ignore me or laugh in my face. i know single life isn't so bad but i just want someone to say i love you too. if any of you can...
    SladeTheLegend SladeTheLegend 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M Apr 16, 2014

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19, 2014

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I think I dont need someone else to be happy in

    my life, I hope so........:'(...*~*. Girls are just cruel and complicated. ....
    DarkRepulsser DarkRepulsser 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 5, 2015

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    I hate when my family asks me "Why don't you

    ever bring a nice girl home?" Or "Why have you never been in a relationship?". First of all, because I'm gay and everyone just refuses to ask the obvious question. Second of all, because even if I was in a relationship, it wouldn't be anybody's damn business. D:< *Kindly...
    EatMyWaffleTaco EatMyWaffleTaco 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 7, 2015

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    I've never had a real one

    because a relationship when you're 11 doesn't count haha
    newcarsmell newcarsmell 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 24, 2015

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    Only Pretend...

    When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I remember the moment so clearly. She suddenly said: "Be my Boyfriend!", I was just floored. I knew she was a lesbian...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    asterwesley asterwesley 16-17, M 1 Response May 18, 2015

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    Well, that's because I'm a straight girl.

    But I've never had a boyfriend either.
    RH17 RH17 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    It never really bothered me

    until this past year, my junior year in high school, when my (twin) brother and his girlfriend started dating. Ever since then it seems like everyone around me are starting to get in relationships. Friends, other siblings, hell even my dad got a new girlfriend. I've always been...
    AGuyStandingHere AGuyStandingHere 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2015

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    sometimes i wonder will I ever find a

    Girlfriend cause its been 18 years
    joeagosto joeagosto 18-21, M Dec 2, 2015

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    its couple of days to my 18th birthday

    and i am still alone i want a girl in my life to be my own and i will be her own girl that loves me. i am the most friendzoned person i can tell that my life is good but it could be perfect if i had a girl even if she's my best friend not my lover , i think i will stay virgin...
    sostacho sostacho 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 26, 2015

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    I wish I had a girlfriend right now.

    I want someone to spend all of my time with, someone to make feel better when she is feeling down, someone to spend my money on, and someone to care for more than anything else in the world. I guess I don't want just a girlfriend, I want the girl of my dreams who will do...
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 13, 2015

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    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    I would like to have a girlfriend,

    but haven't ever had any. Because I always feel shy to express my feelings...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    What a Shocker indeed.

    Yes and it's True, I've never had a Girlfriend. Never had the experience either. It does resonate within me if I ever will have one.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 25, 2015

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    Almost 30 and no girlfriend 29,

    in 2 months will turn 30, single, no real girlfriend. I don't socialized much as I used to and sometimes feel lonely. 12 years after I finish high school I had meet several girls but in the end none of them didn't became my girlfriend. Yes I did ask, yes I was rejected, and I...
    taiho110 taiho110 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Here I am at the age of 22

    and have never actually been in a relationship with a girl. Ive had many almost girlfriends but those girls always seemed to get too shy and back out at the last second. So I guess here I am, any girls want to be involved with me?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 2, 2015

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    I don't really mind that I've never had a

    girlfriend. It just means there's someone out there i need to search for. I love a treasure hunt.
    Foot94 Foot94 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL 31-35 6 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Nor do I want to sure I mean I like to tease a

    girl but I don't want one yet anyway
    Ihan14 Ihan14 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2015

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    I've never had a girlfriend.

    I've been in love over a dozen times, and some of those girls even knew about it. I am a 43 year old virgin. I feel it may have something to do with my Asperger's Syndrome and being an INTJ "Mastermind" personality type. I wonder if it's because I'm simply undesirable?
    Lobber Lobber 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 19, 2015

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    The girls in my school are never serious

    and mature about relationships. Majority of my friends relationship end within one month. I really just want a girl that has goals and know what she wants in a relationship. Been dreaming when will I ever be able to be in a relationship with a girl who hopes for the things that...
    ShyKidz ShyKidz 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    Even Isaac Newton never had.

    .. but did he ever feel sad about it?..... NO. Then why am I feeling sad? Why should I feel sad? and beside love thing.... $ecks is only for those who don't want to stay Pure all life, those who don't think that they should be best quintessence like Newton or Alfred Nobel or...
    TraitorIndian TraitorIndian 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bettyccaa bettyccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2015

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    This is not a sob story,

    im not looking for sympathy, its just how it is, I was born with a disability have been deformed and in a wheelchair all my life, I am 42 years old and never had a girlfriend or found anyone who is interested. I am at a point in my life now where I have tried and tried but now I...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 16, 2015

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    I'm not saying oh hey girls I'm desperate

    please go out with me, I'm just saying that I haven't found her yet (or I have but I'm just too chicken to ask her out) I'm not sure if it's good or bad but I have gone 14 and a half years without and survived just fine so yeah, that's it really one day I'm sure I'll find...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31, 2015

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    The reason is that I look too young.

    I am 15 but very short, only 154 cm, so I look like 11-12, my parents also make me wear shorts all year and that makes me look even younger. So many girls ofmy age say that I am very cute and they like me and hug me or comfort me if I get punisments from my parents but they don...
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2015

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    MrSilvertheNeko MrSilvertheNeko 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 8 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    I have been talking to a young women on FB

    messenger on & off since Boxing Day She asked me to friend her on there she lives in Ghana & she posted a picture of herself which I thought was very sexy in a long black dress but she is 28 & I am 55 & single as she is. She was in a relationship but he betrayed her. Does...
    Johnteenth Johnteenth 51-55, M Jan 3

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    And I really don't want to have one,

    either. I just don't want to have to carve out time for someone else. The only ones I'm willing to carve out time for are animals.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999 16-17, M Sep 12, 2015

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