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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    I have never had a girlfriend

    and people under my age have and I mean a real relationship not just "hi your my girlfriend and whatever" and break up in 2 days. Oh no I mean ones that are happy. I am jealous of a lot of people cause they at least have friends I only have a few and I barely talk to them. :.(
    catbradley catbradley 13-15, M Jun 12

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    A few months ago I went won't with a friend

    and I thought we were pretty good for each other but she didn't think so and it sucks because I invested so much of myself into her without even knowing how she felt about me. I was too scared to ask her out before I felt so totally passionate, and I tend to get passionate too...
    Cupier Cupier 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    There is nothing wrong with being Single.

    And the more you wait for it, the more it won't come to you.
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M Jul 19

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    An Uninterest?

     I am 18 years old and have yet to find that one special girl.  Do I feel any self pity? I don't. I have never felt any desperation in not having a girlfriend. Interest? Of course. But never a burning desire within to have someone to hold and cuddle with. I do find...
    Cajaro Cajaro 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 13-15, M Apr 21

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    A Loner

    Hi, I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. Now it is not like I have not tried, I have tried many times but always get hurt in the end. You see I have been rejected by or just made a fool of by every girl that I have ever liked, going all the way back...
    WayneTakeshi WayneTakeshi 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I never had a girlfriend depsite im very sweet,

    very kind and very affective :'(
    mariostyle mariostyle 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL 26-30 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    Girls do say i'm attractive

    and fun around but reject me
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 22

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    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend

    In my early to mid twenties I was in really good shape, then as time wore on and I found every girl I ever asked out wasn't interested (all of them!) I got more and more depressed. This led to gaining weight and avoiding people in general. Anyway, I've started to lose weight...
    red2000 red2000 26-30 9 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    Still Single At 53

    I'am still single at 53 and it doesn't bother me much, at least not yet. I,ve never had a serious relationship at all even in high school. I,ve had some girls say to me --are you married-- and i politly say to them--no i,am not. I,am the youngest of 4 siblings and all of them are...
    gownlover gownlover 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Still Single, No Change Yet

    Its been awhile and still life hasnt changed its shape or form or anything really, but the one thing which has been in a constant in my entire life is the fact that i havent found my girlfriend or i havent had a girlfriend yet. i am still single and being single feels much like...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19

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    I never have a girlfriend

    and I am 19 it sucks.
    Bigtan123 Bigtan123 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 13

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Nope, never. I'm straight

    so it makes sense. Hah
    SpiffyNinja SpiffyNinja 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm sure there's millions of people That have

    the same problem right? Or is it just me. I am 18 and never been with a girl. I'm not sure if something's wrong with me Or I just haven't met anyone. it sucks trying to imagine myself with a beautiful girl Siting beside me because I'm so use to being alone. I want somebody to...
    DaftPnk DaftPnk 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak 46-50, M 104 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    I am a tall highly educated well-paid

    professional who doesn't smoke, use drugs and rarely drinks. I have always treated women with honesty, caring and respect. At 51 years of age, I have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger, I always believed that I would go out on a number of dates, meet a decent woman...
    physicsguy3999 physicsguy3999 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    Advice to younger guys: Try getting a job

    somewhere where other young girls work. You get long hours side by side and they get to know you and see your sense of humor and work ethic and you'll begin to grow on them. The university dining hall or where ever. It's important for you to know you're not alone. Thousands of...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Let's say that i don't decide what is the real

    reason for that,, actually i'm shy sometimes maybe that's the reason ,, but let's say that here where I live boys school are separated and girls school too, that mean i've never treat with girls except some relatives ,, I don't know what is the sollution
    RamyMB RamyMB 18-21, M Jun 17

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    Don't Feel Bad

    The whole dating game is a scam so don't feel bad if you are left out. When you're younger it's all about looks, charisma, coming from a wealthy family, and being the most aggressive person in the room. After you turn 28 it's all about how much money you make. The dirty little...
    lepton lepton 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I'm easily one of the oldest people in this

    group: I'll be 37 in July. Never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and only been kissed three times (every time, alcohol was involved, and they initiated it). It's a combination of things: fear of rejection (I would just hate to be given "the cheek" when I go in for a kiss...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    There is this girl I really want to be with,

    but I am shy to ask her out. I really want to be with her but she likes someone different not saying she might not be into me but she said I was socially awkward cause I was afraid to look at her when we where both talking if I do look at her I feel like a pervert help me please...
    catbradley catbradley 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    I am now in my final semester of college,

    and I have never had a girlfriend or even dated a girl. I have, in my life, asked out 4 girls (one in high school, two in my freshman year in college, and one just over a month ago). I am just too shy with girls, strangers, and authority figures. Now, I have felt left out from...
    charlesrook charlesrook 18-21 Jan 27

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    I'm a freshman in college

    and things are going better than they ever have for me, speaking in social terms. But any kind of relationship past friend has just never happened for me and I feel real pressure to start one. Shouldn't this have happened by now? I have pretty low self esteem but I'm really...
    swamiepstein swamiepstein 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 19

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    I Am 29 And I Have Never Had A Gf

    I am kind of a shy guy, I am a geek and I have Asperger's which is a form of autism that makes social situations difficult for me. I have a few friends but they are mostly fellow geeks or crazy people. I seem to keep getting teased by girls and...
    nerd8192 nerd8192 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    Nope.

    I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship.

    My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay. Mostly I just am too lazy and afraid to talk to women. It took me a while to get a job(17 freshmen year), so I guess you could say I'm late to...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I'm 18. I went to a very small highschool,

    my graduating class had 44 students. I would not consider myself unattractive, by any means, but I've found myself dateless time and time again to events throughout highschool. I'm attending a university in the fall, and I'm very worried I won't do well in college with women...
    jaken2014 jaken2014 18-21, M Jun 7

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    The One.

    I didn't know whether to update my other story or not, and in the end decided on a new one. I am 30 (nearly 31!) and still not managed to get a girlfriend. I recently fell for someone who I couldn't have. It was a girl at work, 7 years younger than me. Absolutely gorgeous...
    red2000 red2000 26-30 2 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    I was in S.S class and

    now me and the girl I love are together. I hope it last longer that what they have in the past.
    NozieBoy45 NozieBoy45 13-15, M May 20

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    I am a college graduate,

    and I have still never had a girlfriend. I believe this is because I tend to be socially anxious around strangers, authority figures, and girls that I like. If I go to an event with lots of people, I will be okay as long as there are people that I know there. I will then just...
    charlesrook charlesrook 18-21 1 Response May 18

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    I'm Not Sure...

    I'm really not sure if I want/need one...I mean, sometimes I see guys with girlfriends and think it would be nice if I had one.  I always get enraged when I see couples displaying affection, and I think it may be out of jealousy. But at the same time, I wonder what the...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 12 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    28 and never had a girlfriend.

    never kissed a girl, never held a girls hand, never had any intimacy whatsoever with a girl. i walk around everyday seeing beautiful women, dream girl types, fantasizing, ************ at home, and just sick of everything.. im so sick of this life. i dont even want to...
    mrhancock2014 mrhancock2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Only Pretend...

    When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I remember the moment so clearly. She suddenly said: "Be my Boyfriend!", I was just floored. I knew she was a lesbian...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    But I would if/when the right girl comes along

    because I'm bi :) ...as ok as I know that is, it's still scary though.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF.

    I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M Apr 16

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    The mystery of the universe is a woman that's ok

    when my business takes of and I'm making money I'll pay for it in vagus and Hong Kong
    att13 att13 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    I'm 20 years old. I am always nice to women

    and I respect them. I have felt something special towards just 5 women in my life. I have shared my feelings to 3 of them and they all shot me down. The most recent one was really hurtful. I really liked this girl but she said that I'm a 5.5. She said that she wouldn't date me...
    mrh214 mrh214 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 26

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    I kind of know why I've never had one

    but now I want to change that, I want to find a lass that I can connect with and actually get to know and I have been told I am realy wierd by folk for saying this but I don't care about sex in a lass which most of my friends think is really stupid :(
    COG1997 COG1997 16-17, M 2 Responses May 2

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    But I Had A Dream That I Did....

    I've had the same dream several times, actually. I'm a woman and I think all of us women are sexyyyyyy  ; )  
    notjustamom30 notjustamom30 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    OK so I am 16 and I have never had a girlfriend

    in all my life. Is this normal or do girls just don't like my looks,hobbies and personality.
    ReeceDF98 ReeceDF98 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I just don't know where to complain about my

    issue so I'll complain here. I am only physically attracted to fat girls. I hate it because women always want to lose weight and when they do I lose attraction and if I happen to date them I lose the attraction and it just causes all sorts of issues. Now I don't date ever and I...
    bassmasterflea bassmasterflea 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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