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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    Yup and I never had one.

    Ever. I used to have girls that are friends but they didn't last long and I was too dense to notice that they probably liked me. I just didn't bother to act on it because I was afraid. I was afraid that if I get into a relationship with someone I enjoy spending time with...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I've never had a real one

    because a relationship when you're 11 doesn't count haha
    newcarsmell newcarsmell 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sadaccaa sadaccaa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 8 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    An Uninterest?

     I am 18 years old and have yet to find that one special girl.  Do I feel any self pity? I don't. I have never felt any desperation in not having a girlfriend. Interest? Of course. But never a burning desire within to have someone to hold and cuddle with. I do find...
    Cajaro Cajaro 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    I'm easily one of the oldest people in this

    group: I'll be 37 in July. Never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and only been kissed three times (every time, alcohol was involved, and they initiated it). It's a combination of things: fear of rejection (I would just hate to be given "the cheek" when I go in for a kiss...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    This is not a sob story,

    im not looking for sympathy, its just how it is, I was born with a disability have been deformed and in a wheelchair all my life, I am 42 years old and never had a girlfriend or found anyone who is interested. I am at a point in my life now where I have tried and tried but now I...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    asterwesley asterwesley 16-17, M 1 Response May 18

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    Never had and it makes me feel angry,

    bitter, hateful and callous but above all, sad.
    ColdPhoenix ColdPhoenix 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I have liked many girls in high school,

    middle school and from my neighborhood, but I never really had a girlfriend. I have been to the movies and to a few parties with girls, but not a real girlfriend. I would love to have the opportunity to enjoy a relationship with a young lady that isn't afraid to just open up and...
    AllanTWhite AllanTWhite 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL 31-35 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    its couple of days to my 18th birthday

    and i am still alone i want a girl in my life to be my own and i will be her own girl that loves me. i am the most friendzoned person i can tell that my life is good but it could be perfect if i had a girl even if she's my best friend not my lover , i think i will stay virgin...
    sostacho sostacho 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend

    In my early to mid twenties I was in really good shape, then as time wore on and I found every girl I ever asked out wasn't interested (all of them!) I got more and more depressed. This led to gaining weight and avoiding people in general. Anyway, I've started to lose weight...
    red2000 red2000 26-30 10 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    Never really gotten close.

    .. Ehhh that is all I'm going to write for now.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Im 13 im bad with girls I guess Never kissed a

    girl not even on the cheeks 😑
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 5

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    I'm not saying oh hey girls I'm desperate

    please go out with me, I'm just saying that I haven't found her yet (or I have but I'm just too chicken to ask her out) I'm not sure if it's good or bad but I have gone 14 and a half years without and survived just fine so yeah, that's it really one day I'm sure I'll find...
    Ralbarda Ralbarda 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    It never really bothered me

    until this past year, my junior year in high school, when my (twin) brother and his girlfriend started dating. Ever since then it seems like everyone around me are starting to get in relationships. Friends, other siblings, hell even my dad got a new girlfriend. I've always been...
    AGuyStandingHere AGuyStandingHere 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 4

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    No I haven't but I'm gay

    so that is probably way!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 14

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    iamurfriend143 iamurfriend143 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    Ok so I'm 19, almost 20.

    I'm a freshman in college, and I find it very hard to talk to girls. I'm a pretty shy person up until I get to know someone well. My main problem is that I have zero confidence in myself. I'd say I'm an average looking guy, I love to work out and to play sports, but for the most...
    quietcontender quietcontender 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 24

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    Nor do I want to sure I mean I like to tease a

    girl but I don't want one yet anyway
    Ihan13 Ihan13 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2014

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    I never had a girlfriend

    even when some of my friends that are girls have asked me how come I never had a girlfriend because I'm so sweet and a gentleman. I'm starting to believe I never had a girlfriend because of my big lips. I been thinking like this for awhile but it may just be that I'm trying to...
    ShyKidz ShyKidz 16-17, M 1 Response May 7

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    I don't think i had or no .

    ... i was with only one girl but only for four months nd in these 4 mnths she betrayed me so many times. ... i forgive her everytime but she. .....
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M May 23

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    Need an online girlfriend?

    Just someone to talk to or someone to show your friends? Come hire one for $40 a week. Included texting and flirting for the whole week and pictures to show off to your friends as proof interested pm me
    onlinegirlfrieng19 onlinegirlfrieng19 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6

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    the biggest heartbreak I've ever had.

    well if you read my first post then you know I don't have any luck with girls because, well to put in plainly I'm a loser so here's another great story. it was April 15 2011 I had been chatting with a girl online for a few weeks and things were looking great. I knew I needed to...
    computerguy71 computerguy71 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I suppose not really.

    Recently I had gotten into somewhat of a relationship (just friends) and it seemed to be going somewhere, but then she immediately left me without any explanation. I erased her from my phone and text, but she still has contacted me a couple of times obviously not taking me off...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M May 11

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19, 2014

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    I am a tall highly educated well-paid

    professional who doesn't smoke, use drugs and rarely drinks. I have always treated women with honesty, caring and respect. At 51 years of age, I have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger, I always believed that I would go out on a number of dates, meet a decent woman...
    physicsguy3999 physicsguy3999 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 27, 2014

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    Nope.

    I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

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    28 and never had a girlfriend.

    never kissed a girl, never held a girls hand, never had any intimacy whatsoever with a girl. i walk around everyday seeing beautiful women, dream girl types, fantasizing, ************ at home, and just sick of everything.. im so sick of this life. i dont even want to...
    mrhancock2014 mrhancock2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    Only Pretend...

    When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I remember the moment so clearly. She suddenly said: "Be my Boyfriend!", I was just floored. I knew she was a lesbian...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F Aug 12

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    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 18-21, M Apr 21, 2014

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    Yes I've never had a girlfriend it's kind of

    hard to have one being to shy to around women.
    TheMidNightCrow TheMidNightCrow 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    The reason is that I look too young.

    I am 15 but very short, only 154 cm, so I look like 11-12, my parents also make me wear shorts all year and that makes me look even younger. So many girls ofmy age say that I am very cute and they like me and hug me or comfort me if I get punisments from my parents but they don...
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 11

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    Here I am at the age of 22

    and have never actually been in a relationship with a girl. Ive had many almost girlfriends but those girls always seemed to get too shy and back out at the last second. So I guess here I am, any girls want to be involved with me?
    TheCuddlySuccubi TheCuddlySuccubi 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009