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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF.

    I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M Apr 16

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I never had a gf never in my school

    neither in my college nor at my workplace, never an online frnd.. i m jst a ashole and virgin. i miss the feeling i miss the talk.. wish i cud have had. hey any female EP user. ? i am alone. i need to talk . i want to make frnds for life.. anybody up there betwen 20 to 30''
    Nitish288 Nitish288 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Advice to younger guys: Try getting a job

    somewhere where other young girls work. You get long hours side by side and they get to know you and see your sense of humor and work ethic and you'll begin to grow on them. The university dining hall or where ever. It's important for you to know you're not alone. Thousands of...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    28 and never had a girlfriend.

    never kissed a girl, never held a girls hand, never had any intimacy whatsoever with a girl. i walk around everyday seeing beautiful women, dream girl types, fantasizing, ************ at home, and just sick of everything.. im so sick of this life. i dont even want to...
    mrhancock2014 mrhancock2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Nope, never. I'm straight

    so it makes sense. Hah
    SpiffyNinja SpiffyNinja 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    The day we meet Its been almost 22 years,

    but still i have not been able to date a girl. Sometimes that makes me feel like a impotent or I am seriously one? I see my peer and people around me living a great life with their partners. So is it that important to have a girlfriend in this era. So is it like if you are or...
    askme4 askme4 22-25, M Nov 10

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    But I would if/when the right girl comes along

    because I'm bi :) ...as ok as I know that is, it's still scary though.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    hi everyone I just woke up at midnight

    and thought I'll post my experience here because I feel so much emptiness inside for the fact I've never had a girlfriend, not even a friend who is a girl ever. it's all this ****** conservative country's fault (Pakistan) . men and women are segregated in almost all public...
    despair1 despair1 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 29

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    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend

    In my early to mid twenties I was in really good shape, then as time wore on and I found every girl I ever asked out wasn't interested (all of them!) I got more and more depressed. This led to gaining weight and avoiding people in general. Anyway, I've started to lose weight...
    red2000 red2000 26-30 9 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    I never had a girlfriend

    and feel very left out seeing everybody else date but me.
    asilva61 asilva61 18-21, M Dec 12

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    Only Pretend...

    When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I remember the moment so clearly. She suddenly said: "Be my Boyfriend!", I was just floored. I knew she was a lesbian...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    The mystery of the universe is a woman that's ok

    when my business takes of and I'm making money I'll pay for it in vagus and Hong Kong
    att13 att13 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I once was in a rather intimate long distance

    relationship with a Spanish girl. This relationship was fueled by sexual desire for one another, but lacking the ability to act upon such whims. But neither of us would admit ourselves as boyfriend and girlfriend. One day she wrote me that she had found a boy, and that they...
    AlbertFeynstein AlbertFeynstein 13-15, M Aug 25

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    Hello, I'm a woman(25)

    and I'm dating a guy (31) who has been single his whole life. I have been in relationships before and he knows about it. We are not yet bf/gf, we just date, flirts and chat... But recently I'm wondering if he plays hard to get or loses interest in me? I know he is not a player...
    Sushi4ever Sushi4ever 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    Ive had plenty boyfriends.

    But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Im 16 in highschool and never had a girlfriend.

    I get so nervous around girls, yet so comfortable around guys. But i go home every night thinking about girls. I know im not gay, but Im starting to think people might think I am. I dont know how to talk to girls or kiss or anything. Girls definently give me chances, even girls...
    Brandon5565 Brandon5565 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 8

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    I think girls try to knock you down to test

    your confidence and resilience. Unfortunately, I have fragile self-confidence and crumble in such situations. I'm afraid that I'll never make it with a girl.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak 46-50, M 110 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    i have never had a friend

    that was girl let alone girlfriend. i dont have anything to give anyone
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    28 And Still Girlfriendless -- Why??

    First off I just wanna say I'm glad I found this group on EP. All my guy friends since childhood have found "the one" and I haven't even found the first. So I've never met anyone in my situation that I can relate to. It's been frustrating bottling all this in for years. Anyway, I...
    RobAcid RobAcid 26-30, M 4 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    The reason I don't have a girlfriend is

    that I never had the courage to go up to the girl and ask her out because I am afraid of being rejected. Plus I never kissed a girl before or hold hands with one and even cuddle aslo hanged out and be alone with a girl to. I know in my heart that any girl out there will be...
    shycreativeguy shycreativeguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I kind of know why I've never had one

    but now I want to change that, I want to find a lass that I can connect with and actually get to know and I have been told I am realy wierd by folk for saying this but I don't care about sex in a lass which most of my friends think is really stupid :(
    COG1997 COG1997 16-17, M 2 Responses May 2

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    I'm about to be 23 and have a girlfriend

    or kiss a girl. Man if i ever have one i would treat like a queen. With the most respect the most support. I do think I'm ready for a relationship now. Not because I'm lonely but because i just to have someone that i can tell my everything. The good the bad and the ugly. Someone...
    tomasalmas6789 tomasalmas6789 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19

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    LOL well girls post I have never had a boyfriend

    but they never write I have never had a girlfriend :P well ive never had a girlfriend :D ive had like 20 boyfriends -.- but ive got one and his the perfect one<3
    ILoveBilly ILoveBilly 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    A Loner

    Hi, I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. Now it is not like I have not tried, I have tried many times but always get hurt in the end. You see I have been rejected by or just made a fool of by every girl that I have ever liked, going all the way back...
    WayneTakeshi WayneTakeshi 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I am 17 years old and I have never gone out on

    a date, and have never been in a relationship. Like I've said in other experiences, I'm confused on my sexuality. So I'd like to find out what I'm into.
    H0ST0NWEDG1E H0ST0NWEDG1E 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    I'm 33 and almost every single girl I've

    approached in India has been unnecessarily mean and rude to me. Most have only led me on and wasted years of my life. After I started losing hair in 1996 my own siblings stopped talking to me, my parents pretty much disowned me, nobody wants to be my friend, girls always reject...
    cooloften cooloften 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    So where do I start. It was my second semester

    in college around the month of February. It all stated when I was hanging out on the student center lobby and a karaoke event was taking place. So I stayed there. As I looked around I see this girl but I couldn't she her face because I was sitting behind her. I don't remember...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M Aug 25

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    Im turning 20 this november

    and sadly still havent had a girlfriend. For a long time I felt lonely. How I wisj there was someone I could talk to who also understands me.
    KianZzy KianZzy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    All i want is a girl

    who loves me for me and not for what have . being eighteen i feel that i still have a chance but girls won't give me that chance. they would either ignore me or laugh in my face. i know single life isn't so bad but i just want someone to say i love you too. if any of you can...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Still Single, No Change Yet

    Its been awhile and still life hasnt changed its shape or form or anything really, but the one thing which has been in a constant in my entire life is the fact that i havent found my girlfriend or i havent had a girlfriend yet. i am still single and being single feels much like...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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    lots of girls tell me

    that I'm not hot or they say I'm not there type: (
    danielcordovafl danielcordovafl 18-21, M Nov 15

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    An Uninterest?

     I am 18 years old and have yet to find that one special girl.  Do I feel any self pity? I don't. I have never felt any desperation in not having a girlfriend. Interest? Of course. But never a burning desire within to have someone to hold and cuddle with. I do find...
    Cajaro Cajaro 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    OK so I am 16 and I have never had a girlfriend

    in all my life. Is this normal or do girls just don't like my looks,hobbies and personality.
    ReeceDF98 ReeceDF98 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 1

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    I never had a girlfriend depsite im very sweet,

    very kind and very affective :'(
    mariostyle mariostyle 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 21

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    I'm sick of being single.

    I get really lonely and just need someone I can protect to do fun stuff with
    goonteam goonteam 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    I'm nearly 18 and even

    though I've kissed a couple girls and nearly gone all the way with one in particular, I've never been able to say "I'm going out with..." It's getting harder and harder to think soon this Shrek'll find his Fiona.
    SinnyBojangles SinnyBojangles 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    There is nothing wrong with being Single.

    And the more you wait for it, the more it won't come to you.
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M Jul 19

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    I would say I'm decently attractive,

    and have actually had couple of opportunities to have girlfriends, and everytime it's about to happen I shut them out. I honestly tell it is not you its me, and they take it to complete heart because they think that is just an excuse to get rid of them; in my case it is honestly...
    Miguelthemustang Miguelthemustang 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 22

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    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10

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