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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak 46-50, M 107 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19

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    I'm 18. I went to a very small highschool,

    my graduating class had 44 students. I would not consider myself unattractive, by any means, but I've found myself dateless time and time again to events throughout highschool. I'm attending a university in the fall, and I'm very worried I won't do well in college with women...
    jaken2014 jaken2014 18-21, M Jun 7

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF.

    I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M Apr 16

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    I am a tall highly educated well-paid

    professional who doesn't smoke, use drugs and rarely drinks. I have always treated women with honesty, caring and respect. At 51 years of age, I have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger, I always believed that I would go out on a number of dates, meet a decent woman...
    physicsguy3999 physicsguy3999 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    A Loner

    Hi, I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. Now it is not like I have not tried, I have tried many times but always get hurt in the end. You see I have been rejected by or just made a fool of by every girl that I have ever liked, going all the way back...
    WayneTakeshi WayneTakeshi 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Im turning 20 this november

    and sadly still havent had a girlfriend. For a long time I felt lonely. How I wisj there was someone I could talk to who also understands me.
    KianZzy KianZzy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    I'm easily one of the oldest people in this

    group: I'll be 37 in July. Never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and only been kissed three times (every time, alcohol was involved, and they initiated it). It's a combination of things: fear of rejection (I would just hate to be given "the cheek" when I go in for a kiss...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    The mystery of the universe is a woman that's ok

    when my business takes of and I'm making money I'll pay for it in vagus and Hong Kong
    att13 att13 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm about to be 23 and have a girlfriend

    or kiss a girl. Man if i ever have one i would treat like a queen. With the most respect the most support. I do think I'm ready for a relationship now. Not because I'm lonely but because i just to have someone that i can tell my everything. The good the bad and the ugly. Someone...
    tomasalmas6789 tomasalmas6789 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 21

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    I once was in a rather intimate long distance

    relationship with a Spanish girl. This relationship was fueled by sexual desire for one another, but lacking the ability to act upon such whims. But neither of us would admit ourselves as boyfriend and girlfriend. One day she wrote me that she had found a boy, and that they...
    AlbertFeynstein AlbertFeynstein 13-15, M Aug 25

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    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    I Am 29 And I Have Never Had A Gf

    I am kind of a shy guy, I am a geek and I have Asperger's which is a form of autism that makes social situations difficult for me. I have a few friends but they are mostly fellow geeks or crazy people. I seem to keep getting teased by girls and...
    nerd8192 nerd8192 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    There is nothing wrong with being Single.

    And the more you wait for it, the more it won't come to you.
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M Jul 19

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    I am a college graduate,

    and I have still never had a girlfriend. I believe this is because I tend to be socially anxious around strangers, authority figures, and girls that I like. If I go to an event with lots of people, I will be okay as long as there are people that I know there. I will then just...
    charlesrook charlesrook 18-21 1 Response May 18

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    I never had a girlfriend depsite im very sweet,

    very kind and very affective :'(
    mariostyle mariostyle 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    i have never had a friend

    that was girl let alone girlfriend. i dont have anything to give anyone
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M Aug 25

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    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    I never had a gf never in my school

    neither in my college nor at my workplace, never an online frnd.. i m jst a ashole and virgin. i miss the feeling i miss the talk.. wish i cud have had. hey any female EP user. ? i am alone. i need to talk . i want to make frnds for life.. anybody up there betwen 20 to 30''
    Nitish288 Nitish288 22-25, M Aug 14

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    ShadowStormAlphaMale ShadowStormAlphaMale 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    Nope, never. I'm straight

    so it makes sense. Hah
    SpiffyNinja SpiffyNinja 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I have never had a girlfriend

    and people under my age have and I mean a real relationship not just "hi your my girlfriend and whatever" and break up in 2 days. Oh no I mean ones that are happy. I am jealous of a lot of people cause they at least have friends I only have a few and I barely talk to them. :.(
    catbradley catbradley 13-15, M Jun 12

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    I think girls try to knock you down to test

    your confidence and resilience. Unfortunately, I have fragile self-confidence and crumble in such situations. I'm afraid that I'll never make it with a girl.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I was in S.S class and

    now me and the girl I love are together. I hope it last longer that what they have in the past.
    NozieBoy45 NozieBoy45 13-15, M May 20

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    I'm Not Sure...

    I'm really not sure if I want/need one...I mean, sometimes I see guys with girlfriends and think it would be nice if I had one.  I always get enraged when I see couples displaying affection, and I think it may be out of jealousy. But at the same time, I wonder what the...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 12 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    Still Single At 53

    I'am still single at 53 and it doesn't bother me much, at least not yet. I,ve never had a serious relationship at all even in high school. I,ve had some girls say to me --are you married-- and i politly say to them--no i,am not. I,am the youngest of 4 siblings and all of them are...
    gownlover gownlover 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    I'm sick of being single.

    I get really lonely and just need someone I can protect to do fun stuff with
    goonteam goonteam 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Only Pretend...

    When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I remember the moment so clearly. She suddenly said: "Be my Boyfriend!", I was just floored. I knew she was a lesbian...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    I would say I'm decently attractive,

    and have actually had couple of opportunities to have girlfriends, and everytime it's about to happen I shut them out. I honestly tell it is not you its me, and they take it to complete heart because they think that is just an excuse to get rid of them; in my case it is honestly...
    Miguelthemustang Miguelthemustang 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm 20 years old. I am always nice to women

    and I respect them. I have felt something special towards just 5 women in my life. I have shared my feelings to 3 of them and they all shot me down. The most recent one was really hurtful. I really liked this girl but she said that I'm a 5.5. She said that she wouldn't date me...
    mrh214 mrh214 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 26

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    So where do I start. It was my second semester

    in college around the month of February. It all stated when I was hanging out on the student center lobby and a karaoke event was taking place. So I stayed there. As I looked around I see this girl but I couldn't she her face because I was sitting behind her. I don't remember...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M Aug 25

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    Ive had plenty boyfriends.

    But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL 26-30 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend

    In my early to mid twenties I was in really good shape, then as time wore on and I found every girl I ever asked out wasn't interested (all of them!) I got more and more depressed. This led to gaining weight and avoiding people in general. Anyway, I've started to lose weight...
    red2000 red2000 26-30 9 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    But I would if/when the right girl comes along

    because I'm bi :) ...as ok as I know that is, it's still scary though.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Girls do say i'm attractive

    and fun around but reject me
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 22

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    But I Had A Dream That I Did....

    I've had the same dream several times, actually. I'm a woman and I think all of us women are sexyyyyyy  ; )  
    notjustamom30 notjustamom30 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    I'm 33 and almost every single girl I've

    approached in India has been unnecessarily mean and rude to me. Most have only led me on and wasted years of my life. After I started losing hair in 1996 my own siblings stopped talking to me, my parents pretty much disowned me, nobody wants to be my friend, girls always reject...
    cooloften cooloften 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    28 and never had a girlfriend.

    never kissed a girl, never held a girls hand, never had any intimacy whatsoever with a girl. i walk around everyday seeing beautiful women, dream girl types, fantasizing, ************ at home, and just sick of everything.. im so sick of this life. i dont even want to...
    mrhancock2014 mrhancock2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I kind of know why I've never had one

    but now I want to change that, I want to find a lass that I can connect with and actually get to know and I have been told I am realy wierd by folk for saying this but I don't care about sex in a lass which most of my friends think is really stupid :(
    COG1997 COG1997 16-17, M 2 Responses May 2

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    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Still Single, No Change Yet

    Its been awhile and still life hasnt changed its shape or form or anything really, but the one thing which has been in a constant in my entire life is the fact that i havent found my girlfriend or i havent had a girlfriend yet. i am still single and being single feels much like...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Advice to younger guys: Try getting a job

    somewhere where other young girls work. You get long hours side by side and they get to know you and see your sense of humor and work ethic and you'll begin to grow on them. The university dining hall or where ever. It's important for you to know you're not alone. Thousands of...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    An Uninterest?

     I am 18 years old and have yet to find that one special girl.  Do I feel any self pity? I don't. I have never felt any desperation in not having a girlfriend. Interest? Of course. But never a burning desire within to have someone to hold and cuddle with. I do find...
    Cajaro Cajaro 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    OK so I am 16 and I have never had a girlfriend

    in all my life. Is this normal or do girls just don't like my looks,hobbies and personality.
    ReeceDF98 ReeceDF98 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 1

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    Nope.

    I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

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    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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