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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    hi everyone I just woke up at midnight

    and thought I'll post my experience here because I feel so much emptiness inside for the fact I've never had a girlfriend, not even a friend who is a girl ever. it's all this ****** conservative country's fault (Pakistan) . men and women are segregated in almost all public...
    despair1 despair1 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I am 20 years of age,

    and I have never had a girlfriend ; at first, it was certainly not for lack of effort. But, during junior year of high school, I asked out one particular girl on a date, and the unthinkable happened, She was so embarrassed, she tried to kill herself ; left a note blaming me and...
    Csheesley Csheesley 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    I never had a girlfriend

    and feel very left out seeing everybody else date but me.
    asilva61 asilva61 18-21, M Dec 12, 2014

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    I'm sick of being single.

    I get really lonely and just need someone I can protect to do fun stuff with
    goonteam goonteam 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 9, 2014

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    A Loner

    Hi, I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. Now it is not like I have not tried, I have tried many times but always get hurt in the end. You see I have been rejected by or just made a fool of by every girl that I have ever liked, going all the way back...
    WayneTakeshi WayneTakeshi 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    i loved a girl for like 5 years.

    last month i told her and she said she's not into relationship thing and she do not want to loose me i did what i could i've always started the conversation and she ignore me or respond for a while i found out that she's talking about me to a guy but when i asked her she was like...
    nothingbuteach nothingbuteach 18-21, M Jan 28

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2014

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    I have never had a gf,

    I think the reason is that I don't know how to attract them. Do you have any advice?
    msignore msignore 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 16

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    Im turning 20 this november

    and sadly still havent had a girlfriend. For a long time I felt lonely. How I wisj there was someone I could talk to who also understands me.
    KianZzy KianZzy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28, 2014

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL 31-35 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Not allowed in this country India I'm afraid.

    All my life watching TV and watching the western world always wanted to have one. But in this horrible country its not allowed. Never going to be allowed to have one. I used to have this crush on my classmate few years ago but could never tell her how I felt because I would end...
    Satorax Satorax 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I'm nearly 18 and even

    though I've kissed a couple girls and nearly gone all the way with one in particular, I've never been able to say "I'm going out with..." It's getting harder and harder to think soon this Shrek'll find his Fiona.
    CasualSphinx CasualSphinx 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    i an feel lonely without girlfriend.

    no one girls interest in me .
    hareesh620 hareesh620 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I am 17 years old and I have never gone out on

    a date, and have never been in a relationship. Like I've said in other experiences, I'm confused on my sexuality. So I'd like to find out what I'm into.
    H0ST0NWEDG1E H0ST0NWEDG1E 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I think girls try to knock you down to test

    your confidence and resilience. Unfortunately, I have fragile self-confidence and crumble in such situations. I'm afraid that I'll never make it with a girl.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF.

    I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M Apr 16, 2014

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Im 16 in highschool and never had a girlfriend.

    I get so nervous around girls, yet so comfortable around guys. But i go home every night thinking about girls. I know im not gay, but Im starting to think people might think I am. I dont know how to talk to girls or kiss or anything. Girls definently give me chances, even girls...
    Brandon5565 Brandon5565 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    I never had a girl friend at the first place.

    It's not lack of confidence or something. But I was never fond of having long term relationships right now. Sure, I'm good with women and have a good number of them as my friends. But I am not in that mood to have one.
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    All i want is a girl

    who loves me for me and not for what have . being eighteen i feel that i still have a chance but girls won't give me that chance. they would either ignore me or laugh in my face. i know single life isn't so bad but i just want someone to say i love you too. if any of you can...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    I kind of know why I've never had one

    but now I want to change that, I want to find a lass that I can connect with and actually get to know and I have been told I am realy wierd by folk for saying this but I don't care about sex in a lass which most of my friends think is really stupid :(
    COG1997 COG1997 16-17, M 2 Responses May 2, 2014

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    The day we meet Its been almost 22 years,

    but still i have not been able to date a girl. Sometimes that makes me feel like a impotent or I am seriously one? I see my peer and people around me living a great life with their partners. So is it that important to have a girlfriend in this era. So is it like if you are or...
    askme4 askme4 22-25, M Nov 10, 2014

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Nope.

    I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

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    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    I want someone to wake up to

    and love. I'll probably be forever alone though. I want someone to have fun with and share my life with for better or worse.
    fuzzman96 fuzzman96 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Hello, I'm a woman(25)

    and I'm dating a guy (31) who has been single his whole life. I have been in relationships before and he knows about it. We are not yet bf/gf, we just date, flirts and chat... But recently I'm wondering if he plays hard to get or loses interest in me? I know he is not a player...
    Sushi4ever Sushi4ever 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    30 And Never Had A Girlfriend

    In my early to mid twenties I was in really good shape, then as time wore on and I found every girl I ever asked out wasn't interested (all of them!) I got more and more depressed. This led to gaining weight and avoiding people in general. Anyway, I've started to lose weight...
    red2000 red2000 26-30 9 Responses Jan 19, 2011

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19, 2014

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    Ive had plenty boyfriends.

    But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    lexinwonderland lexinwonderland 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    lots of girls tell me

    that I'm not hot or they say I'm not there type: (
    danielcordovafl danielcordovafl 18-21, M Nov 15, 2014

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    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak 51-55, M 110 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    I would say I'm decently attractive,

    and have actually had couple of opportunities to have girlfriends, and everytime it's about to happen I shut them out. I honestly tell it is not you its me, and they take it to complete heart because they think that is just an excuse to get rid of them; in my case it is honestly...
    Miguelthemustang Miguelthemustang 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    Im still Bi-Curious aha,

    taking life slow aha xx
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    The reason I don't have a girlfriend is

    that I never had the courage to go up to the girl and ask her out because I am afraid of being rejected. Plus I never kissed a girl before or hold hands with one and even cuddle aslo hanged out and be alone with a girl to. I know in my heart that any girl out there will be...
    shycreativeguy shycreativeguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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    I am a tall highly educated well-paid

    professional who doesn't smoke, use drugs and rarely drinks. I have always treated women with honesty, caring and respect. At 51 years of age, I have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger, I always believed that I would go out on a number of dates, meet a decent woman...
    physicsguy3999 physicsguy3999 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 27, 2014

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    28 and never had a girlfriend.

    never kissed a girl, never held a girls hand, never had any intimacy whatsoever with a girl. i walk around everyday seeing beautiful women, dream girl types, fantasizing, ************ at home, and just sick of everything.. im so sick of this life. i dont even want to...
    mrhancock2014 mrhancock2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    LOL well girls post I have never had a boyfriend

    but they never write I have never had a girlfriend :P well ive never had a girlfriend :D ive had like 20 boyfriends -.- but ive got one and his the perfect one<3
    ILoveBilly ILoveBilly 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2014

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    I need girlfriend....

    ...............for chat, fiendship........and may for relation ........lol
    hamzaqayyum12 hamzaqayyum12 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    when ever I am near any girl I feel to nervous

    due to my short height to even say hi to her . thats why I end up either running away from the place if possible or start acting like freak. and mostly end up making fun of myself..thats why I never had a girlfriend.. I want a serious solution to this problem...
    divyam18 divyam18 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Never have had a gf but I am bisexual :3 Merp

    :3 it's my thing to say Merp :3
    BiXwolfsXbears BiXwolfsXbears 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I never had one, I wasn't able to find one,

    I couldn't get one, it's because everyone hates me and I've been too busy with school
    craz3f8g craz3f8g 18-21 1 Response Feb 16

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    I'm thinking that I'll finish high school

    without ever finding someone. I really want a girl friend. A real one. Someone I can love, and look at, and just feel amazed that I have found someone so wonderful to be my best friend for life. College will be harder for me to meet people. Not that it would make much...
    charkzilla20 charkzilla20 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    This is not a sob story,

    im not looking for sympathy, its just how it is, I was born with a disability have been deformed and in a wheelchair all my life, I am 42 years old and never had a girlfriend or found anyone who is interested. I am at a point in my life now where I have tried and tried but now I...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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