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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    thebigscottishguy thebigscottishguy 22-25, M May 9

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    Ive had plenty boyfriends.

    But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    I've been told I'm attractive

    and funny and cute and really romantic many times. I don't know what's wrong with me.
    Thuynder Thuynder 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    I am 20 years of age,

    and I have never had a girlfriend ; at first, it was certainly not for lack of effort. But, during junior year of high school, I asked out one particular girl on a date, and the unthinkable happened, She was so embarrassed, she tried to kill herself ; left a note blaming me and...
    Csheesley Csheesley 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 7

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    Alone In The World.

    Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of oppurtunity is getting smaller and smaller. I know im still "young" but as i look at some other posts and see that some people are...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    i loved a girl for like 5 years.

    last month i told her and she said she's not into relationship thing and she do not want to loose me i did what i could i've always started the conversation and she ignore me or respond for a while i found out that she's talking about me to a guy but when i asked her she was like...
    nothingbuteach nothingbuteach 18-21, M Jan 28

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    lexinwonderland lexinwonderland 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    I need girlfriend....

    ...............for chat, fiendship........and may for relation ........lol
    hamzaqayyum12 hamzaqayyum12 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    I never had a girl friend at the first place.

    It's not lack of confidence or something. But I was never fond of having long term relationships right now. Sure, I'm good with women and have a good number of them as my friends. But I am not in that mood to have one.
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Nope.

    I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

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    Total Apathy

    I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some hideous freak that cannot show his face in daylight (my picture had an overall rating of 9/10 on hotornot.com, for what...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    I'm 16 years old and I'm about to be 17.

    I'm a 2nd year student on an Engineering school, which means that on every 40 people that I meet in the campus, only 5 are girls, 2 of them are probably professors. -__- I. NEED. HELP.
    QW321 QW321 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I don't think i had or no .

    ... i was with only one girl but only for four months nd in these 4 mnths she betrayed me so many times. ... i forgive her everytime but she. .....
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    This Cannot Be Reality

    THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons experiences. Somehow reading about others experiencing my pain starts a fire in my belly, moreso that some among is are in...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I want someone to wake up to

    and love. I'll probably be forever alone though. I want someone to have fun with and share my life with for better or worse.
    fuzzman96 fuzzman96 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 18

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    I'm thinking that I'll finish high school

    without ever finding someone. I really want a girl friend. A real one. Someone I can love, and look at, and just feel amazed that I have found someone so wonderful to be my best friend for life. College will be harder for me to meet people. Not that it would make much...
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M Feb 9

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    I am 17 years old and I have never gone out on

    a date, and have never been in a relationship. Like I've said in other experiences, I'm confused on my sexuality. So I'd like to find out what I'm into.
    H0ST0NWEDG1E H0ST0NWEDG1E 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I'm easily one of the oldest people in this

    group: I'll be 37 in July. Never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and only been kissed three times (every time, alcohol was involved, and they initiated it). It's a combination of things: fear of rejection (I would just hate to be given "the cheek" when I go in for a kiss...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 19

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    I kind of know why I've never had one

    but now I want to change that, I want to find a lass that I can connect with and actually get to know and I have been told I am realy wierd by folk for saying this but I don't care about sex in a lass which most of my friends think is really stupid :(
    COG1997 COG1997 16-17, M 2 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I never had a girlfriend

    even when some of my friends that are girls have asked me how come I never had a girlfriend because I'm so sweet and a gentleman. I'm starting to believe I never had a girlfriend because of my big lips. I been thinking like this for awhile but it may just be that I'm trying to...
    ShyKidz ShyKidz 16-17, M 1 Response May 7

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    Ok so I'm 19, almost 20.

    I'm a freshman in college, and I find it very hard to talk to girls. I'm a pretty shy person up until I get to know someone well. My main problem is that I have zero confidence in myself. I'd say I'm an average looking guy, I love to work out and to play sports, but for the most...
    quietcontender quietcontender 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 24

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    I dont know how to feel everyone i meet has

    experience with a girlfriend/boyfriend they talk about a relationship they had or are in and i feel left out and cant relate to them i feel like i am not apart of anything and i dont belong here.
    bp9686 bp9686 26-30, M Apr 19, 2014

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    hi everyone I just woke up at midnight

    and thought I'll post my experience here because I feel so much emptiness inside for the fact I've never had a girlfriend, not even a friend who is a girl ever. it's all this ****** conservative country's fault (Pakistan) . men and women are segregated in almost all public...
    despair1 despair1 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Forever Alone?

    When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time. Although I had been ignored by girls all through high school, I thought that perhaps I’d find someone in college – no...
    Shuhak Shuhak 51-55, M 111 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    asterwesley asterwesley 16-17, M 3 Responses May 18

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    WhateverBruhhh WhateverBruhhh 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I never had one, I wasn't able to find one,

    I couldn't get one, it's because everyone hates me and I've been too busy with school
    craz3f8g craz3f8g 18-21 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Not allowed in this country India I'm afraid.

    All my life watching TV and watching the western world always wanted to have one. But in this horrible country its not allowed. Never going to be allowed to have one. I used to have this crush on my classmate few years ago but could never tell her how I felt because I would end...
    Satorax Satorax 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I never had a girlfriend

    and feel very left out seeing everybody else date but me.
    asilva61 asilva61 18-21, M Dec 12, 2014

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    Well, I may be just 16,

    but I'm more mature than most adults out there. I am an awesome person. I always do new stuff. I am one of the most talented people one can ever find. I'm interesting, I'm funny, I ain't smart but I can fake that one easily. I was bullied during elementary school, junior high...
    ChrisFerguson ChrisFerguson 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    This is not a sob story,

    im not looking for sympathy, its just how it is, I was born with a disability have been deformed and in a wheelchair all my life, I am 42 years old and never had a girlfriend or found anyone who is interested. I am at a point in my life now where I have tried and tried but now I...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    i an feel lonely without girlfriend.

    no one girls interest in me .
    hareesh620 hareesh620 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I have never had a gf,

    I think the reason is that I don't know how to attract them. Do you have any advice?
    msignore msignore 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend.

    But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be able to open up to, etc. Some people are just meant to be alone I guess.
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2014

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    I'm 26 and still waiting.

    I just pray to meet her soon.
    TidalMoon TidalMoon 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 24

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    Need an online girlfriend?

    Just someone to talk to or someone to show your friends? Come hire one for $40 a week. Included texting and flirting for the whole week and pictures to show off to your friends as proof interested pm me
    onlinegirlfrieng19 onlinegirlfrieng19 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Extremely Awkward With Women

    I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story.... I had a somewhat normal childhood I suppose, other than living in a rural area where I rarely played with other kids outside of...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend

    i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don't have the confidence to invite them. probably I want to date my biggest crush, unfortunately she's an actress haha we have the...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One

    I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so effortlessly. Then I moved on to secondary/high school. By the end of the first month, some people were already going out with each other! And yet I...
    RayCL RayCL 31-35 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Yup and I never had one.

    Ever. I used to have girls that are friends but they didn't last long and I was too dense to notice that they probably liked me. I just didn't bother to act on it because I was afraid. I was afraid that if I get into a relationship with someone I enjoy spending time with...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I am a tall highly educated well-paid

    professional who doesn't smoke, use drugs and rarely drinks. I have always treated women with honesty, caring and respect. At 51 years of age, I have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger, I always believed that I would go out on a number of dates, meet a decent woman...
    physicsguy3999 physicsguy3999 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 27, 2014

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch

    Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend. The closest girl I would say was my girlfriend was one who lived in Maine. I was with her for around a year and a half. We grew very close...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Always Kept To Myself

    I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid in elementary school I was picked on a lot (more than anyone else in the school) and I ended up developing issues with...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend

    Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other people do, but you don't get the chance to socialize and touch in an online relationship so to me its more like a partial relationship since you don't...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF.

    I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 22-25, M Apr 16, 2014

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