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I Have Never Had a Girlfriend

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    I wish I had a girlfriend. I want someone who would kiss and hold me.
    tommy2020 tommy2020 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I'm Not Sure... - I'm really not sure if I want/need one...I mean, sometimes I see guys with girlfriends and think it would be nice if I had one.  I always get enraged when I...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 12 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    I'm a freshman in college and things are going better than they ever have for me, speaking in social terms. But any kind of relationship past friend has just never happened for me...
    swamiepstein swamiepstein 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 19

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    Still Single At 53 - I'am still single at 53 and it doesn't bother me much, at least not yet. I,ve never had a serious relationship at all even in high school. I,ve had some girls...
    gownlover gownlover 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    I am a tall highly educated well-paid professional who doesn't smoke, use drugs and rarely drinks. I have always treated women with honesty, caring and respect. At 51 years of...
    physicsguy3999 physicsguy3999 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    I never have a girlfriend and I am 19 it sucks.
    Bigtan123 Bigtan123 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 13

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    This Cannot Be Reality - THIS IS BULLSHIT GUYS, B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T We dont deserve this, were good people. **** that Im reading all these sad posts and resonate with each persons...
    Kaizen1993 Kaizen1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Nothing I Can Do - I am tired of feeling like this, it's every day now EVERY DAY. every day.. the same thing I wake up feeling like ****, I just want to sleep until mid day and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Always Kept To Myself - I am 25 and I never had a girlfriend. The real reason for this is that I never really put myself in a position where I could meet someone. When I was a kid...
    Mereth Mereth 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    I'm sure there's millions of people That have the same problem right? Or is it just me. I am 18 and never been with a girl. I'm not sure if something's wrong with me Or I just...
    DaftPnk DaftPnk 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    I just don't know where to complain about my issue so I'll complain here. I am only physically attracted to fat girls. I hate it because women always want to lose weight and when...
    bassmasterflea bassmasterflea 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I Am 29 And I Have Never Had A Gf - I am kind of a shy guy, I am a geek and I have Asperger's which is a form of autism that makes social situations...
    nerd8192 nerd8192 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF. I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Still Single, No Change Yet - Its been awhile and still life hasnt changed its shape or form or anything really, but the one thing which has been in a constant in my entire life...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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    It Gets Better - I once felt the same way, but my life has completely changed. For me it was a confidence thing, and then the women came in droves. I'm now married to what most...
    Seather43 Seather43 46-50, M 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places - I am 19 and never had a girlfriend plus I have no friends, I have always been a hopeless romantic. I wanted to go to prom and never got...
    Konner94 Konner94 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24, 2013

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    Extremely Awkward With Women - I want to start out by saying I'm currently happily married, and now feel like I understand people very well. Before that, it was a different story...
    acctju acctju 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    Never Had Any Luck - well in all my 16 years almost 17 never once been on a date had a girlfriend or even gone to a dance with one I've tried to much I suppose every time I've...
    suffieldguy suffieldguy 16-17, M Oct 4, 2013

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    I Don't Understand - That's it,I don't understand what's going on with the world and people,in my experience and world (unfortunately) I live in,a woman who never had a boyfriend...
    theWolfUndertheMoon theWolfUndertheMoon 22-25 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend. But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be...
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Nope. - I don't really want one either. I'm happy liking boys.
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2008

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    A Loner - Hi, I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. Now it is not like I have not tried, I have tried many times but always get hurt in the end. You see I have been...
    WayneTakeshi WayneTakeshi 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Never Had One, Never Will Be Able To Get One - I always wanted a girlfriend. When I was little, I used to watch the James Bond films and wish I was him, get the women he did, so...
    RayCL RayCL 26-30 5 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Don't Feel Bad - The whole dating game is a scam so don't feel bad if you are left out. When you're younger it's all about looks, charisma, coming from a wealthy family, and being...
    lepton lepton 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Alright so I'm turning 18 next month and still never had a girlfriend. It kinda upsets me because i see all these other couples in school and it makes me jealous(not spiteful) and...
    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    Maybe Someday - I am a junior in college, and I have never had a girlfriend or even been kissed. Heck, I don't believe a girl has even been interested in me. At least never...
    charlesrook charlesrook 18-21 5 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    There Is Hope - I used to be worried all the time that I would never be in a relationship. I actually know 2 people who are like in their 40's and they never really dated anyone...
    afterthought12 afterthought12 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    A few months ago I went won't with a friend and I thought we were pretty good for each other but she didn't think so and it sucks because I invested so much of myself into her...
    Cupier Cupier 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    17 Years - Sometimes I stop and think about how absolutely ******* ridiculous this is. I'm well past dating age by 4 years, 2 or 3 if I'm feeling sympathetic. My god how have I not...
    Bat258 Bat258 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Im 22 And Still No Girlfriend - i had many crushes from my friends, classmates to celebrities. Well I still had NO girlfriend. I always dream of dating with pretty girls but i don...
    BeeJad1290 BeeJad1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Never Had a Girlfriend Whom I Could Touch - Here's my problem.. I've never had a girlfriend except in long distance relationships. I'm 18 years old, and have never had a girlfriend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Alone In The World. - Im 17 (almost 18) and i have never had a girlfriend. I always thought i would have one in high school. But with this year closing in, the window of...
    Jak123abc Jak123abc 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    The One. - I didn't know whether to update my other story or not, and in the end decided on a new one. I am 30 (nearly 31!) and still not managed to get a girlfriend. I recently...
    red2000 red2000 26-30 2 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    I'm easily one of the oldest people in this group: I'll be 37 in July. Never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and only been kissed three times (every time, alcohol was involved...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Something Wrong? - I've never had a girlfriend before, I'd like to think it is by choice because there are some girls who have tried to get with me, but I push them away because I...
    InspRedwood InspRedwood 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 20, 2008

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    Guys, Let's make it easier for you to understand. Girls are crazy, and they have this high and low state of mind. I'm just stating what I believe is a bit obvious when it comes to...
    wherethehealingbegins wherethehealingbegins 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I am now in my final semester of college, and I have never had a girlfriend or even dated a girl. I have, in my life, asked out 4 girls (one in high school, two in my freshman year...
    charlesrook charlesrook 18-21 Jan 27

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    An Uninterest? -  I am 18 years old and have yet to find that one special girl.  Do I feel any self pity? I don't. I have never felt any desperation in not having a...
    Cajaro Cajaro 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    Never Have, Doubt I Will - I know I'm still young and I shouldn't care what other people think but it sucks to be the only one in my school that doesn't have one. Even my friends...
    Straightedgepunk Straightedgepunk 13-15, M Jul 19, 2013

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    Total Apathy - I am a 23 year old male and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I often ask myself if a girlfriend is truly what I want in life. It is not because I am some...
    BlackClad BlackClad 18-21, M 19 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    Only Pretend... - When I was 18, I met this girl who had the same problem that I had. Our Families thought that we were gay. However, in her case, they were right. It's funny, I...
    BlackHaru BlackHaru 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    Have Never Had A Girlfriend - I am an 18 year old heart transplant recipient. Never having a girlfriend didn't bother me until i went to Highschool. Seeing everyone flirting and...
    DJDysfunctional DJDysfunctional 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    I had one when I was 12 (if that counts) but we broke up. I'm almost 18 now and I haven't had a gf since.
    Sx4000 Sx4000 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Forever Alone? - When I was in my 20’s, I figured I’d meet someone nice, perhaps even get married and raise a family. I wasn’t too concerned as I had plenty of time...
    Shuhak Shuhak 46-50, M 97 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    Same Here, 29 and Never Had a Real Girlfriend - Depending on how you define real. I personally don't count internet relationships, but that is just me. Its cool if other...
    Darwinsutopia Darwinsutopia 26-30 6 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Or Friend That Was Girl - I wanted to maybe wait till I was older to write this because it seems most stories are by people around my age. I am nearly 20 and I have never had a...
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I'm 18 years old and still never had a girlfriend I'm one pathetic person
    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    28 and never had a girlfriend. never kissed a girl, never held a girls hand, never had any intimacy whatsoever with a girl. i walk around everyday seeing beautiful women, dream...
    mrhancock2014 mrhancock2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    How Much More Waiting - I'm a few months away from turning 19 and I still have had no luck. I know that I want to have a girl in my life but she seems to be non-existent. I've been...
    Lucario11 Lucario11 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    But I Had A Dream That I Did.... - I've had the same dream several times, actually. I'm a woman and I think all of us women are sexyyyyyy  ; )  
    notjustamom30 notjustamom30 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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