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I Have Never Had a One Night Stand

they're just not for me 20,284 People

    No I haven't - and while I can never say never.

    I'm pretty certain that I won't in the future. However I do have a story about a night when I almost did. My friend J and I went out for the evening, across town. Some place that we didn't usually go. Anyway we were having a laugh, and up for fun. When we met two guys. The...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    nycguy1a nycguy1a 26-30, M May 10

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    I am not if I can ever do that.

    .. Sex without love is not for me... I will always prefer love and intimacy...!
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 11

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    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F 19 Responses May 13

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    it is something i wish i did/do,

    but am shy and cant read women
    j0505c j0505c 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 30

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    Be Classy Not Trashy!

    one night stand DEF do not look good .I believe at least wait to have sex when your actually dating the person , sleeping around will give bad impressions to others and make you look easy. Just WAIT !
    armywife2244 armywife2244 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    ifaizanm ifaizanm 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I've never done anything sexual with someone I

    wasn't in a committed relationship with, and I don't plan on changing that anytime soon. One night stands just seem dumb and risky.
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    coolsahil coolsahil 26-30, M Mar 31

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    Never Say Never

    I have never had a one-night stand. When I was younger, I used to think how can anybody just go and **** some random stranger? It's such an intimate act and yet, people do this, like it means nothing? Well, I've gotten older. I haven't had a one-night stand because I've been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    It's true.. But I feel

    as if I could have one .. Just because I don't get emotionally attached after sex. 😳 Is that strange?
    bprice0600 bprice0600 18-21, F Mar 1

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    Empty Bliss

    I have never had an one night stand. I have been approach several times over the years to have one. I have always declined. To me I have never had sex with someone unless, I had some type of emotional feeling or I was in love with that person. Yes, it has been some time since I...
    enchantedebonybutterfly enchantedebonybutterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    I don't see the satisfaction in it.

    It is just meaningless sex and I believe that it should be saved for the one you can share yourself with. Not marriage but for a man who can commit himself to me wholeheartedly.
    crazytophat crazytophat 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2014

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    Intentionally. Cant.

    My ethics scream no. There was a pal or two. That went stupid after. But stupid was not foreseen. And caring was there.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 28

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    But That Needs To Change.

    I need a rough one night stand. Feeling so naughty since I've turned 22, need to loose my last bit of innocence. If your an older guy or girl or group of people that wanna gag and **** me in the UK. Drop me a message xx
    Jayjayuk22 Jayjayuk22 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I rather prefer to be with a guy

    that has no STD's, STI's or HIV/AIDS. Believe it or not people do lie about their sexual health just to sleep with you. I always ask if there is a possibility that they may have an STD, but I've only asked one guy this question and he's only one I've slept with. I can confirm...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 2 Responses May 13

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    Train Left The Station

    I have never had one night stand before getting married. Stupid me *Sigh* no one didnt give me a medallion for not doing it lol
    Nightdew Nightdew 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    My husband was my first

    and last one night stand LOL
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    Now that I know it does not define

    who I am. I shoulda. I coulda. I'm glad that I still can.
    complex7 complex7 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    I thought I did. But it turned into many nights.

    Then weeks. Now months lol I'd still like to have a one night stand.
    LDNB LDNB 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    Intended To .....

    Just celebrated 6 months with someone I thought would be my first ever one night stand.  I was in an odd place in my life.   I wanted to break out of my rule following nature.   I wanted to do something totally out of character for myself.   Met someone after chatting with...
    Annikka Annikka 51-55, F 10 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    is it possible to fall inlove with someone

    after you had sex? that person is your friend.
    fridaylove fridaylove 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    masterra masterra 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have never had a one night stand.

    I haven't had much experience at all really but the what I have had have all been relationships and no one night stands
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Jan 7

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    ..and I never will. The day I have sex casually

    is the day I put a 50c barrel to my temple. Thats not who I am and never will be.
    Socalsunset Socalsunset 22-25, F 26 Responses May 13

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    Is Marriage Becoming Extinct?

     I am a news junkie and I was reading an article that reported Cameron Diaz declaring that marriage is a “dying institution.” She added, “I don’t think we should live our lives in relationships based off old traditions that don’t suit our world any longer.” I guess...
    charityjh charityjh 22-25, F 11 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Only an idiot would do

    such a thing..
    Kida07 Kida07 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    One Night Stands are a lack of morals.

    Who in the hell could **** someone they don't know? Really? How disgusting, trashy and filthy!!!!!!!
    no1sbabeedoll no1sbabeedoll 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    I Just Couldn't.

    I'm 23 but I would never dream of having a one-night stand. Kudos to those who are into that kinda thing but I just don't think it's for me.I view sex as really intimate and personal. I've only ever slept with 3 men over the last 7 years and I really, really liked all of those...
    Blueblack89 Blueblack89 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I have never had sex with a random person

    or friend or anyone :) just my boyfriends consensually :)
    popanator popanator 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I'm a virgin so.... Yeah lol.

    Just thought I'd put that out there haha.
    CallMeShy CallMeShy 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My current girlfriend took my virginity,

    and we're still together. We started in high school, and she's the only person I've had sex with. We do it quite a bit as well.
    KingLaserDestroyer KingLaserDestroyer 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Not had one but would love to try the

    experience. Meet someone on a night out and go back for some great meaningless sex. Just two people have a great time and wanting to take the fun further. Seems like a great idea. Plus you never know if all goes well an amazing relationship could start from it.
    Morninglory69 Morninglory69 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    Just never really had the opportunity,

    and never really sought it out. The idea of casual sex has its appeal, of course, as well as its down sides. Sometimes I think that I missed out on that experience, but I'm happy enough where I am that it doesn't bother me. I'm married, and I've said goodbye to the prospect of...
    canichangethislater canichangethislater 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    Emotionally Attached

    I get emotionally attached whenever I have sex, so it wouldn't make sense to have one.
    joycub joycub 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 6

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    Nope!

    If I care enough for you to be intimate with you in any way, then I care enough for you to be there for you after that first night.  I am not into, "wham, bam, thank you mam".  Read my story about the difference between having sex and making love.  If I am intimate with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    Not That I Would Never Never But

    I'm just not wired that way. Because I think sex is holistic and fun and giggly and involves trust and passion and the sharing of souls... I like to know them on the inside before I decide if they are worth going inside them (haha bad pun). And it really is the 'sex' thing for...
    1nourmindseye 1nourmindseye 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    I have two night stands.

    ..one for my cellphone and the other one usually holds my magazines
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    The only time I had a short-term relationship

    it was a friends with benefits relationship, and I don't think that counts as a series of one night stands in succession with the same person.
    YetAnotherStoic YetAnotherStoic 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    no, i haven't.. not looking

    for one either. :p
    BIackyChan BIackyChan 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2014

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    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 4

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    I don't see the point.

    For me, if something is gonna lead to sex, there needs to be some sort of connection. I'd even **** my friends if I were attracted to them. But not a random stranger I'll never see again.
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    ........... not yet,

    but I wonder what one will be like. is it intense? is it passionate? I want to have one just for the experience. O.o
    BIackyChan BIackyChan 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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