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I Have Never Had a One Night Stand

they're just not for me 6,218 People

    Missed opportunity

    I was once offered one but I turned it down. 
    Gaz7 Gaz7 51-55, M 10 Responses Dec 19, 2009

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    Just never really had the opportunity,

    and never really sought it out. The idea of casual sex has its appeal, of course, as well as its down sides. Sometimes I think that I missed out on that experience, but I'm happy enough where I am that it doesn't bother me. I'm married, and I've said goodbye to the prospect of...
    canichangethislater canichangethislater 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    Intended To .....

    Just celebrated 6 months with someone I thought would be my first ever one night stand.  I was in an odd place in my life.   I wanted to break out of my rule following nature.   I wanted to do something totally out of character for myself.   Met someone after chatting with...
    Annikka Annikka 51-55, F 11 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    I don't get it...

    I've never understood why people,men in particular, are so eager to get the hell out. If you had that kind of crazy passion and desire for someone, why would you want it just one night? Why not hold on as long as possible, even if it didn't work out in the long run? I guess some...
    WOMBAT5 WOMBAT5 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Never

    I have had a few chances yet turned them all down only to see them move onto the next guy that pays them attention which maybe the reason I don't play that game. I would rather wake up next to someone I cared about every morning with no sex then have sex with someone I don't even...
    KidYamamoto KidYamamoto 22-25, M Jan 1, 2012

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    I Would Never Have One

    It's just gross, having sex with someone you dont know well. I'd wait till I would have a boyfriend, I would never have a one night stand!
    DarkLoveLiesWithYou DarkLoveLiesWithYou 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    It's Come Up

    There have been a couple of times when I was approched by women, but I walked away because I want a relationship lasting and meaningful.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jul 2, 2012

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    Train Left The Station

    I have never had one night stand before getting married. Stupid me *Sigh* no one didnt give me a medallion for not doing it lol
    Nightdew Nightdew 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    I'M Lying If I Said I Haven'T . I Was A Ankled And Wrist. She Was To.

    It was my first oversea experience overseas. It was great.
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M Sep 9, 2013

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    But That Needs To Change.

    I need a rough one night stand. Feeling so naughty since I've turned 22, need to loose my last bit of innocence. If your an older guy or girl or group of people that wanna gag and **** me in the UK. Drop me a message xx
    Jayjayuk22 Jayjayuk22 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I don't see the satisfaction in it.

    It is just meaningless sex and I believe that it should be saved for the one you can share yourself with. Not marriage but for a man who can commit himself to me wholeheartedly.
    crazytophat crazytophat 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Never Have ... But

    Never a one mightier but I have had plenty of one weekend stands..... Meet Friday, **** through to Sunday then never meet them again. A fun period in my life many years ago....
    pheon pheon 36-40, M Nov 24, 2013

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    Never Have And Never Will

    One night stands are not just for me. I'm not going to judge people who do but I would just prefer to know the person before I sleep with them. There's just so many diseases being passed around these days that you don't know who you can trust, especially with people as crazy as...
    Kneth55 Kneth55 18-21, M Jul 20, 2012

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    Never Could Do It

    Since I equate sex with love or consider sex an act of love I know I could Never do it.... I use to think that it was sexy and erotic to be drawn to someone sexually AND end spending the night together having mind blowing sex... But somehow One Night Stands With Some Random...
    SearchingForSanity SearchingForSanity 18-21, F Jul 1, 2012

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    My View

    I have nothing against one night stands on a moral/ethical level. If people find pleasure in sexual release without any binding agreements, who am I to condemn them? The main reason I'm abstaining from sexual intercourse until I'm married is sexual diseases. You might think you...
    lizeleth lizeleth 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2011

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    I Want More.

    Sure, hooking up could be fun. But I'd rather have that fun and excitement with someone I'm going to keep seeing. I love to get close, and feel that connection. Knowing that I'm wanted again and again by the same person, that's better than being wanted once by some random guy who...
    LadyC93 LadyC93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    Nope!

    If I care enough for you to be intimate with you in any way, then I care enough for you to be there for you after that first night.  I am not into, "wham, bam, thank you mam".  Read my story about the difference between having sex and making love.  If I am intimate with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    Not Much To Say...

    The subject line says it all. I've had sex with about 20 women, but never have I had a one night stand. I knew every girl I had sex with, and I don't mean I met her at a bar at 8, left at midnight, so I knew her for 2 days. I always got to know anyone I eventually became...
    pf1oyd pf1oyd 51-55, M Oct 10, 2012

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    Empty Bliss

    I have never had an one night stand. I have been approach several times over the years to have one. I have always declined. To me I have never had sex with someone unless, I had some type of emotional feeling or I was in love with that person. Yes, it has been some time since I...
    enchantedebonybutterfly enchantedebonybutterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Not Interested In Short Term Sex

    It would take much more than physical attraction for me to give in to the temptation of a one-night stand. Well first off, I'm currently married so it's definately out of the question regardless; despite the fact that my wife has been having some major ...
    AbandonedArchangel AbandonedArchangel 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Casual?

    Casual sex? Casual relationships? are you kidding! I'm an ARIES. EVERYTHING I do Is deliberate planned and thought about.
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    I Just Couldn't.

    I'm 23 but I would never dream of having a one-night stand. Kudos to those who are into that kinda thing but I just don't think it's for me.I view sex as really intimate and personal. I've only ever slept with 3 men over the last 7 years and I really, really liked all of those...
    Blueblack89 Blueblack89 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Score :d

    I don't like clubbing because as much as I love dancing I don't want it to go anywhere.I danced I drank and now I'm going home.I'm not giving numbers and you're not taking me home...I'm friendly too so it's like I'm inviting them but it's false advertisement.Nothing to see here...
    Thepinkcoconut Thepinkcoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    Why Do That To Your Body?

    There are far to many STDs around to just have relations with random people. If you are going to have sex, its better to at least know the person first lol.
    X2Helix X2Helix 16-17, F Nov 9, 2013

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    I have never had sex with a random person

    or friend or anyone :) just my boyfriends consensually :)
    popanator popanator 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Not That I Would Never Never But

    I'm just not wired that way. Because I think sex is holistic and fun and giggly and involves trust and passion and the sharing of souls... I like to know them on the inside before I decide if they are worth going inside them (haha bad pun). And it really is the 'sex' thing for...
    1nourmindseye 1nourmindseye 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Never Say Never

    I have never had a one-night stand. When I was younger, I used to think how can anybody just go and **** some random stranger? It's such an intimate act and yet, people do this, like it means nothing? Well, I've gotten older. I haven't had a one-night stand because I've been...
    SGE3 SGE3 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    One Night Stand..

    I never had any relation with anyone..not even a one night stand..and I'm not sad..because I really don't like the idea of one night stand..
    MeDaphne MeDaphne 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    Two Night Stand...

    lol A very young woman (21) came down 250 miles to spend the weekend with me once.. She was very demanding and didn't listen to what I needed. That was a very unpleasant experience.
    thejurg31 thejurg31 41-45, M Sep 9, 2012

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    Proud Of This Fact.

    I'm 23, a virgin, and waiting for marriage to have sex. I pledged this at 15, and it's something I'm very proud of. I firmly believe sex is a gift you give someone and for that reason shouldn't be tossed around like it is meaningless. I know that when I get married, I'll be able...
    BridgetMcKenzie BridgetMcKenzie 22-25 6 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    Like 7-up - Never Had It, Never Will

    The idea of a one night stand has just never appealed to me.  I know, you're probably saying - but isnt he a guy?   Yes, I am.  To me, sex should be with someone who means something to you.  Not to mention the fact that there are alot of diseases out...
    jasonk jasonk 41-45 2 Responses Jun 7, 2008

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    2 Partners, 1 Too Many (Story 2)

    I was a virgin until I was 20 because I just wasn't ready. I was interested since I was 12, but not ready. It took alot of begging for him to convince me to let him perform oral sex on me. I didn't understand why anyone would want to do that. I didn't like it, it was so intense...
    LadyIndiscretion LadyIndiscretion 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    Emotionally Attached

    I get emotionally attached whenever I have sex, so it wouldn't make sense to have one.
    joycub joycub 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    I'm Practically a Virgin!

    I've only been with 2 guys in my life.  The first one was my high school sweetheart who became my husband.  The second is my current boyfriend.  I was raised in a conservative Christian home.  I'm proud of the fact that I've only been with 2 guys.
    HappyWithMyNewMan HappyWithMyNewMan 26-30, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Be Classy Not Trashy!

    one night stand DEF do not look good .I believe at least wait to have sex when your actually dating the person , sleeping around will give bad impressions to others and make you look easy. Just WAIT !
    armywife2244 armywife2244 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Seven Minutes In Heaven To Eternaty In Hell

    This is what I think of one nighters. For he or she isn't thinking about the future what matters is the now and the now is the sex. It doesn't matter if she or he knows his name or her name. It's all about the party, it's all about the moment, it's all about the thrill of it all...
    PureEvil PureEvil 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2011

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    Never Had One

    I don't really know how having a one night stand works. like what do people say what do they do to have one I really don't know how the mechanism works.
    iggyboi06 iggyboi06 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Lost "me"

    Again its about to rain :( and i am sad.... depress...irritate.......... i've been noticing i feel so irritate all the time.. i can be fine one minuTe and agian i feel like not to talk with anybody ...God! get out me frm this hell.. everythings around me is annoying me.. i get...
    mebinny mebinny 22-25 1 Response Jun 8, 2012

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    Let's assume that we are in a Utopia were the

    one night stand is the male shinning shield and he's about to loose his virginity for the first time and something is capturing that thought that he will marry you as being a woman of his life . Yikes I think you've been manipulative enough - that world is unreal and it...
    NimN NimN 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    Not My Cup Of Tea

    I don't need to experience a one night stand to know that it's not for me. Why would anyone want to use another's body for their own sexual gratification? Have we as a society shut off our higher consciousness and traded it in for basic animal instincts? I can never share that...
    tessa4ever tessa4ever 31-35, F Jun 22, 2011

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    Never Had

    i have never had a one nighter ,,,,the first time was on our wedding night ...never cheated ...even now ..still is the same ...dont think i could handle doing that with someone i didn't love just to do it ...i really never got the thrill of it .
    goodseemore goodseemore 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    This Should Have Been On My "50 Things I've Done In My Life" List, But...

    ...actually, since it's something I've never done, I guess it fits best here. I'm 53, and while certainly not the best-looking guy, I did have friends who were more extroverted and, through them, I was able to meet an average number of people through school/college and after...
    pf1oyd pf1oyd 51-55, M Feb 6, 2012

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    Ons, Bad Rap?

    White Rose, Louisiana Sweet, Seria Gold... Chilled or room temperature? At a little more than $100/42 gallons they appear to be cheap, pleasant wine labels. In reality each are trade names for crude oil. If Ale (beer) was "Liquid Bubbly Drugs" would it have almost universal...
    Rosiesex Rosiesex 46-50, M Aug 22, 2012

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    Is Marriage Becoming Extinct?

     I am a news junkie and I was reading an article that reported Cameron Diaz declaring that marriage is a “dying institution.” She added, “I don’t think we should live our lives in relationships based off old traditions that don’t suit our world any longer.” I guess...
    charityjh charityjh 22-25, F 11 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Though I don't judge you

    if your morals aren't the same as mine, I was raised knowing that I'm going to save my virginity for marriage. I expect my future wife to do the same. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Not Sure Anymore...

    ... I'm not sure if a booty call counts if you stay in contact afterwards... especially if you plan to do it again at a later date... so... I'm just gonna go ahead and leave this group.
    StillRadioactive StillRadioactive 22-25, M Feb 28, 2013

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    Really Want A 1 Night Stand

    hey all i havent even had any thing s*xuall or a gf and i just really want to experince some of this stuff like t*tt **** slip my c*ck in a p*ssy & a*s and a deep thought blow job i really have tryed so hard to get a gf and one night stand i been to so many clubs and bars and get...
    ethanje ethanje 22-25, M Sep 13, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Well one night stands, if i can call it so? I still didn't have it, but its been i while i have known this guy, I am his teacher in fact. He is 3 years older than me. I extremely...
    WhispersOfTheDark WhispersOfTheDark 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I did once but it was awful I told him never again. He was mad . He was horrible.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    I don't know whats wrong with me, I randomly had sex with a girl I met online last night and now I feel empty, Not because I want anything else to come of it, I just don't know...
    barnest2 barnest2 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I spent all night with a random Saturday having hard sex in every position. Lots of oral too perfect 😉
    36EGirl 36EGirl 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm still a virgin and I am proud of it. I am 19 years old and I will admit that to anyone I know, meet or whatever it may be. I don't care about one night stands and busting a...
    libking0104 libking0104 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    No never had one. I protect myself always. Wrap it up people.
    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I have never had any guys interested in me and I haven't been kissed..nothing. It makes me very depressed and I think I will be alone my whole life. All of the couples I see makes...
    Ginger135 Ginger135 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    I am 16 not a virgin and have never had an std at all
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Very proud of the fact I can say I have never had an STD
    mongo275 mongo275 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 28