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I Have Never Had a One Night Stand

they're just not for me 10,694 People

    My husband was my first

    and last one night stand LOL
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Is Marriage Becoming Extinct?

     I am a news junkie and I was reading an article that reported Cameron Diaz declaring that marriage is a “dying institution.” She added, “I don’t think we should live our lives in relationships based off old traditions that don’t suit our world any longer.” I guess...
    charityjh charityjh 22-25, F 11 Responses May 9, 2011

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    But I would like to, gay

    or straight...
    DickieG DickieG 13-15, M Jul 10

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    Never Had

    i have never had a one nighter ,,,,the first time was on our wedding night ...never cheated ...even now ..still is the same ...dont think i could handle doing that with someone i didn't love just to do it ...i really never got the thrill of it .
    goodseemore goodseemore 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    I don't see the satisfaction in it.

    It is just meaningless sex and I believe that it should be saved for the one you can share yourself with. Not marriage but for a man who can commit himself to me wholeheartedly.
    crazytophat crazytophat 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    But That Needs To Change.

    I need a rough one night stand. Feeling so naughty since I've turned 22, need to loose my last bit of innocence. If your an older guy or girl or group of people that wanna gag and **** me in the UK. Drop me a message xx
    Jayjayuk22 Jayjayuk22 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Seven Minutes In Heaven To Eternaty In Hell

    This is what I think of one nighters. For he or she isn't thinking about the future what matters is the now and the now is the sex. It doesn't matter if she or he knows his name or her name. It's all about the party, it's all about the moment, it's all about the thrill of it all...
    PureEvil PureEvil 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2011

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    Score :d

    I don't like clubbing because as much as I love dancing I don't want it to go anywhere.I danced I drank and now I'm going home.I'm not giving numbers and you're not taking me home...I'm friendly too so it's like I'm inviting them but it's false advertisement.Nothing to see here...
    Thepinkcoconut Thepinkcoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    Two Night Stand...

    lol A very young woman (21) came down 250 miles to spend the weekend with me once.. She was very demanding and didn't listen to what I needed. That was a very unpleasant experience.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M Sep 9, 2012

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    Intended To .....

    Just celebrated 6 months with someone I thought would be my first ever one night stand.  I was in an odd place in my life.   I wanted to break out of my rule following nature.   I wanted to do something totally out of character for myself.   Met someone after chatting with...
    Annikka Annikka 51-55, F 10 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    I don't get it...

    I've never understood why people,men in particular, are so eager to get the hell out. If you had that kind of crazy passion and desire for someone, why would you want it just one night? Why not hold on as long as possible, even if it didn't work out in the long run? I guess some...
    WOMBAT5 WOMBAT5 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Not Sure Anymore...

    ... I'm not sure if a booty call counts if you stay in contact afterwards... especially if you plan to do it again at a later date... so... I'm just gonna go ahead and leave this group.
    StillRadioactive StillRadioactive 22-25, M Feb 28, 2013

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    Never Say Never

    I have never had a one-night stand. When I was younger, I used to think how can anybody just go and **** some random stranger? It's such an intimate act and yet, people do this, like it means nothing? Well, I've gotten older. I haven't had a one-night stand because I've been...
    TheLadyWoreBlack TheLadyWoreBlack 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    I Just Couldn't.

    I'm 23 but I would never dream of having a one-night stand. Kudos to those who are into that kinda thing but I just don't think it's for me.I view sex as really intimate and personal. I've only ever slept with 3 men over the last 7 years and I really, really liked all of those...
    Blueblack89 Blueblack89 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Not Interested In Short Term Sex

    It would take much more than physical attraction for me to give in to the temptation of a one-night stand. Well first off, I'm currently married so it's definately out of the question regardless; despite the fact that my wife has been having some major ...
    AbandonedArchangel AbandonedArchangel 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    2 Partners, 1 Too Many (Story 2)

    I was a virgin until I was 20 because I just wasn't ready. I was interested since I was 12, but not ready. It took alot of begging for him to convince me to let him perform oral sex on me. I didn't understand why anyone would want to do that. I didn't like it, it was so intense...
    LadyIndiscretion LadyIndiscretion 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    Proud Of This Fact.

    I'm 23, a virgin, and waiting for marriage to have sex. I pledged this at 15, and it's something I'm very proud of. I firmly believe sex is a gift you give someone and for that reason shouldn't be tossed around like it is meaningless. I know that when I get married, I'll be able...
    BridgetMcKenzie BridgetMcKenzie 22-25 6 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    Really Want A 1 Night Stand

    hey all i havent even had any thing s*xuall or a gf and i just really want to experince some of this stuff like t*tt **** slip my c*ck in a p*ssy & a*s and a deep thought blow job i really have tryed so hard to get a gf and one night stand i been to so many clubs and bars and get...
    ethanje ethanje 22-25, M Sep 13, 2012

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    The Honest Wife

    I never been with man except my ex. I don't believe in intimacy outside of marriage. Why give yourself to a man for a one night stand . Marriage is the only place for ---. That's the holy and right way of doing it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 12, 2013

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    Not That I Would Never Never But

    I'm just not wired that way. Because I think sex is holistic and fun and giggly and involves trust and passion and the sharing of souls... I like to know them on the inside before I decide if they are worth going inside them (haha bad pun). And it really is the 'sex' thing for...
    1nourmindseye 1nourmindseye 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Train Left The Station

    I have never had one night stand before getting married. Stupid me *Sigh* no one didnt give me a medallion for not doing it lol
    Nightdew Nightdew 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    Nope!

    If I care enough for you to be intimate with you in any way, then I care enough for you to be there for you after that first night.  I am not into, "wham, bam, thank you mam".  Read my story about the difference between having sex and making love.  If I am intimate with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    Why Do That To Your Body?

    There are far to many STDs around to just have relations with random people. If you are going to have sex, its better to at least know the person first lol.
    X2Helix X2Helix 16-17, F Nov 9, 2013

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    I'M Lying If I Said I Haven'T . I Was A Ankled And Wrist. She Was To.

    It was my first oversea experience overseas. It was great.
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M Sep 9, 2013

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    I rather prefer to be with a guy

    that has no STD's, STI's or HIV/AIDS. Believe it or not people do lie about their sexual health just to sleep with you. I always ask if there is a possibility that they may have an STD, but I've only asked one guy this question and he's only one I've slept with. I can confirm...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Empty Bliss

    I have never had an one night stand. I have been approach several times over the years to have one. I have always declined. To me I have never had sex with someone unless, I had some type of emotional feeling or I was in love with that person. Yes, it has been some time since I...
    enchantedebonybutterfly enchantedebonybutterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Not Much To Say...

    The subject line says it all. I've had sex with about 20 women, but never have I had a one night stand. I knew every girl I had sex with, and I don't mean I met her at a bar at 8, left at midnight, so I knew her for 2 days. I always got to know anyone I eventually became...
    pf1oyd pf1oyd 51-55, M Oct 10, 2012

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    I don't really plan on doing this either!

    I'd like to get to know someone before sleeping with them. Preferably in a relationship.
    Iamevolved Iamevolved 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Never Had One

    I don't really know how having a one night stand works. like what do people say what do they do to have one I really don't know how the mechanism works.
    iggyboi06 iggyboi06 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Never Have ... But

    Never a one mightier but I have had plenty of one weekend stands..... Meet Friday, **** through to Sunday then never meet them again. A fun period in my life many years ago....
    pheon pheon 36-40, M Nov 24, 2013

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    Only an idiot would do

    such a thing..
    Kida07 Kida07 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Casual?

    Casual sex? Casual relationships? are you kidding! I'm an ARIES. EVERYTHING I do Is deliberate planned and thought about.
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Let's assume that we are in a Utopia were the

    one night stand is the male shinning shield and he's about to loose his virginity for the first time and something is capturing that thought that he will marry you as being a woman of his life . Yikes I think you've been manipulative enough - that world is unreal and it...
    NimN NimN 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    One Night Stand..

    I never had any relation with anyone..not even a one night stand..and I'm not sad..because I really don't like the idea of one night stand..
    MeDaphne MeDaphne 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2012

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    IMyOwnLeader IMyOwnLeader 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    Be Classy Not Trashy!

    one night stand DEF do not look good .I believe at least wait to have sex when your actually dating the person , sleeping around will give bad impressions to others and make you look easy. Just WAIT !
    armywife2244 armywife2244 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Just never really had the opportunity,

    and never really sought it out. The idea of casual sex has its appeal, of course, as well as its down sides. Sometimes I think that I missed out on that experience, but I'm happy enough where I am that it doesn't bother me. I'm married, and I've said goodbye to the prospect of...
    canichangethislater canichangethislater 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 25

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    I'm Practically a Virgin!

    I've only been with 2 guys in my life.  The first one was my high school sweetheart who became my husband.  The second is my current boyfriend.  I was raised in a conservative Christian home.  I'm proud of the fact that I've only been with 2 guys.
    HappyWithMyNewMan HappyWithMyNewMan 26-30, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Though I don't judge you

    if your morals aren't the same as mine, I was raised knowing that I'm going to save my virginity for marriage. I expect my future wife to do the same. :)
    katierose23 katierose23 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    flyoffsomewhere flyoffsomewhere 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Seeking Something Deeper

    I am seeking something deeper than a one night stand with someone. The bar scene has never really appealed to me at all. I never developed the taste for alcohol. Furthermore, the boisterousness of that a lot of them tend to have has never appealed to me. So I need someone that I...
    gmckdude711 gmckdude711 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    Emotionally Attached

    I get emotionally attached whenever I have sex, so it wouldn't make sense to have one.
    joycub joycub 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    Never

    I have had a few chances yet turned them all down only to see them move onto the next guy that pays them attention which maybe the reason I don't play that game. I would rather wake up next to someone I cared about every morning with no sex then have sex with someone I don't even...
    KidYamamoto KidYamamoto 22-25, M Jan 1, 2012

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    And I will never have one.

    I think having easy intimacy with many partners will make it less satisfying. The quality is more important than quantity. Like I don't buy cheap stuff with less quality, I won't go for a cheap companionship just for a few hours.
    LeahNl LeahNl 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    One Night Stands are a lack of morals.

    Who in the hell could **** someone they don't know? Really? How disgusting, trashy and filthy!!!!!!!
    no1sbabeedoll no1sbabeedoll 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    Ons, Bad Rap?

    White Rose, Louisiana Sweet, Seria Gold... Chilled or room temperature? At a little more than $100/42 gallons they appear to be cheap, pleasant wine labels. In reality each are trade names for crude oil. If Ale (beer) was "Liquid Bubbly Drugs" would it have almost universal...
    Rosiesex Rosiesex 46-50, M Aug 22, 2012

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    I have never had sex with a random person

    or friend or anyone :) just my boyfriends consensually :)
    popanator popanator 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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