I Have Never Had a One Night Stand

they're just not for me 24,262 People

    because i have no desire

    for relations with someone i dont love. it cheapens something special to share with someone you love. turns it into some sort of impersonal handshake.
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    My husband was my first

    and last one night stand LOL
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2014

    The closest I've ever gotten to having a one

    night stand was in college. I was at a Halloween party, and ended up going back to this girl's dorm afterwards. We made out and fooled around a little bit on her bed. But there was no actual sex. So I guess this wouldn't count as a real one night stand.
    J120925 J120925
    26-30, M
    Mar 29

    I don't see the point.

    For me, if something is gonna lead to sex, there needs to be some sort of connection. I'd even **** my friends if I were attracted to them. But not a random stranger I'll never see again.
    emiveritas emiveritas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2015


    If I care enough for you to be intimate with you in any way, then I care enough for you to be there for you after that first night.  I am not into, "wham, bam, thank you mam".  Read my story about the difference between having sex and making love.  If I am intimate with...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

    I am not if I can ever do that.

    .. Sex without love is not for me... I will always prefer love and intimacy...!
    crazihilary crazihilary
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    Not That I Would Never Never But

    I'm just not wired that way. Because I think sex is holistic and fun and giggly and involves trust and passion and the sharing of souls... I like to know them on the inside before I decide if they are worth going inside them (haha bad pun). And it really is the 'sex' thing for...
    1nourmindseye 1nourmindseye
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 19, 2011

    I believe in total faithfulness to my wife.

    Also I don't think one night stands are emotionally healthy (and often physically unhealthy if not downright dangerous). Actually, I've had several if you count the piece of furniture next to my side of the bed.
    bookishlutheran bookishlutheran
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Feb 5

    Is Marriage Becoming Extinct?

     I am a news junkie and I was reading an article that reported Cameron Diaz declaring that marriage is a “dying institution.” She added, “I don’t think we should live our lives in relationships based off old traditions that don’t suit our world any longer.” I guess...
    charityjh charityjh
    22-25, F
    10 Responses May 9, 2011

    I thought I did. But it turned into many nights.

    Then weeks. Now months lol I'd still like to have a one night stand.
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 14, 2015

    One Night Stands are a lack of morals.

    Who in the hell could **** someone they don't know? Really? How disgusting, trashy and filthy!!!!!!!
    no1sbabeedoll no1sbabeedoll
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jul 2, 2014

    I've never been into having sex with perfect

    strangers. While I don't diss anyone that does... I won't fully understand it. At least until I have sex with more than one person.
    Sophia117 Sophia117
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 13, 2015
    lonelyandyb lonelyandyb
    26-30, M
    Oct 7, 2015
    nil7july nil7july
    22-25, M
    Aug 17, 2015
    Bisexbaby Bisexbaby
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    I have two night stands.

    ..one for my cellphone and the other one usually holds my magazines
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 11, 2015

    except once really, any other attempts failed.

    ...one night was not enough and there was always a way to find each other and reconnect. The one time, there was no that could have happened.
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I only had one partner in my life.

    It was 10years + night stand lol
    Eriane Eriane
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Feb 21

    That makes me kinda to a "looser",

    but girls (or woman) are like something too precious to me (grew up in a woman family) that I can't even touch them. I know it's stupid, but I feel kinda really very bad..
    Bircos Bircos
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 6

    I never had a one night stand.

    I'm to young but when I have one, I'm going to hope he calls me again for round. I don't like seeing one night stands on tv because the dude doesn't say bye! He just sleeps. At least kiss her hand or say "talk to you LATER"
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    To be honest, the whole concept baffles me.

    .. sex is a very intimate thing and the enjoyment of the closeness to another person is the thing that is most important to me. I can potentially imagine a situation where I would have a "one night stand" with a long-term friend, just sharing an intimate moment, but definitely...
    AAJames AAJames
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    I know that many people have had one night

    stands nothing wrong with having one I just feel that there not for me and never had a one night stand i don't like the feeling of using that person and I also don't like to be used I am strange when it comes to sexxxl things I like there to be feelings and a relationship there...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 10

    Talk to me baby Tell me what you're feeling You

    say you don't need to go Don't you pretend you didn't know How all of this would end up Girl I saw it in your eyes And baby I can read your mind And expectations were not in sight You knew that talking dirty to me on the phone would get me here Cause we both wanted to do this...
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 3

    It's sucks really. It sometimes make me feel

    so not special and not handsome enough for woman. Yes, sex is not everything but it something that I want to experience really.
    nothing44 nothing44
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 18

    up until JUST THERE!!

    Seriously he is in the bathroom right now and it was...terrible :( that's what I get for trying to date in my age range!!
    AlmostNotaTeen AlmostNotaTeen
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    I'm a virgin so.... Yeah lol.

    Just thought I'd put that out there haha.
    CallMeShy CallMeShy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    feistccaa feistccaa
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2015
    RonnieN RonnieN
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 14

    Intended To .....

    Just celebrated 6 months with someone I thought would be my first ever one night stand.  I was in an odd place in my life.   I wanted to break out of my rule following nature.   I wanted to do something totally out of character for myself.   Met someone after chatting with...
    Annikka Annikka
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Jul 28, 2012

    Not sure if I ever could.

    Don't think I could sleep with someone unless I have a close friendship with them, at the very least.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    Now that I know it does not define

    who I am. I shoulda. I coulda. I'm glad that I still can.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2015

    I Just Couldn't.

    I'm 23 but I would never dream of having a one-night stand. Kudos to those who are into that kinda thing but I just don't think it's for me.I view sex as really intimate and personal. I've only ever slept with 3 men over the last 7 years and I really, really liked all of those...
    Blueblack89 Blueblack89
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2012
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015

    I'm proud of this. At my age,

    with this crazy world, I can honestly say I never had a one night stand. In fact, I married the one man that I ever slept with. How many others can say that these days?????
    deleted deleted
    14 Responses Mar 4

    For awhile I wanted to have a one night stand.

    I thought I could handle it but then two weeks ago I found out that I could not. I went to a club in Boston with my friends. I got super drunk and this guy offered to buy me a drink. Usually, I would say no but I was drunk so that rational mindset was gone and I said yes...
    bawstenbrewin bawstenbrewin
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    Just never really had the opportunity,

    and never really sought it out. The idea of casual sex has its appeal, of course, as well as its down sides. Sometimes I think that I missed out on that experience, but I'm happy enough where I am that it doesn't bother me. I'm married, and I've said goodbye to the prospect of...
    ThejaMT ThejaMT
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2014

    My current girlfriend took my virginity,

    and we're still together. We started in high school, and she's the only person I've had sex with. We do it quite a bit as well.
    KingLaserDestroyer KingLaserDestroyer
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 22, 2015

    One night stands are just about sex I can take

    care of that myself, I really want to connect with someone first.
    klaraklara18 klaraklara18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    I don't see the satisfaction in it.

    It is just meaningless sex and I believe that it should be saved for the one you can share yourself with. Not marriage but for a man who can commit himself to me wholeheartedly.
    crazytophat crazytophat
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2014

    I have never had sex with a random person

    or friend or anyone :) just my boyfriends consensually :)
    popanator popanator
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    Not even once. I always thought it'd be really

    awkward the morning after. Like, what if you wanted to get out of bed but they're still there by the morning? It'd be odd I think.
    deleted deleted
    Aug 18, 2015

    But That Needs To Change.

    I need a rough one night stand. Feeling so naughty since I've turned 22, need to loose my last bit of innocence. If your an older guy or girl or group of people that wanna gag and **** me in the UK. Drop me a message xx
    Jayjayuk22 Jayjayuk22
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2013
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve
    26-30, F
    14 Responses May 13, 2015

    And I will never have one.

    I think having easy intimacy with many partners will make it less satisfying. The quality is more important than quantity. Like I don't buy cheap stuff with less quality, I won't go for a cheap companionship just for a few hours.
    LeahNl LeahNl
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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