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I Have Never Had a Pap Smear

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    Pap Smear Support! - I found the Pap Smear experience lightened by receiving this card: http://neilsnotes.com/index.php?page=13&catid=11&sku=ENGL--CD00330  
    VanT VanT 22-25 Nov 5, 2009

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    Scared Of Doctors - I'm a month shy of turning 25 years old. Up until I was 10/11 I had a family doctor - after that we moved to a new city and the doctor we ended up with I wasn't...
    searchingformyself searchingformyself 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Why?!? - Why do girls have to endure so much stuff??  I do not want my cervix scraped.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    Pap Smear - I only had a few paps done in my life.  Not something I'm really fond of.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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    I am 16 not a virgin and have never had an std at all
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I have never had any guys interested in me and I haven't been kissed..nothing. It makes me very depressed and I think I will be alone my whole life. All of the couples I see makes...
    Ginger135 Ginger135 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 24

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    Very proud of the fact I can say I have never had an STD
    mongo275 mongo275 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm 21 and I have never had a GF. I'm not ugly nor shy, well a bit, but I don't actually want a gf. (I'm not gay) idk is it normal?
    monaxi monaxi 18-21, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I'm easily one of the oldest people in this group: I'll be 37 in July. Never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and only been kissed three times (every time, alcohol was involved...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm 18 years old and still never had a girlfriend I'm one pathetic person
    Jbt619 Jbt619 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm 21 and I have never been in a relationship. My father says it's a bad thing I've never had a girlfriend. For a while he thought I was gay. I can tell you I'm definitely not gay...
    mattjrocha mattjrocha 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    No never had one. I protect myself always. Wrap it up people.
    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 22 now and never had a girlfriend. But I'm extremely shy to nor am I good looking. Wished I had one, I'm extremely lonely. Someone to share laugh with, be myself around, be...
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Let's be real, this sucks. I feel like I'm missing out. I've always been the type of girl that has a lot of friends, but never a lot of guy friends. Being in college and feeling...
    LockedUpp LockedUpp 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Guys, Let's make it easier for you to understand. Girls are crazy, and they have this high and low state of mind. I'm just stating what I believe is a bit obvious when it comes to...
    wherethehealingbegins wherethehealingbegins 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Never have had someone I could truly trust... Or call my best friend. ): blah
    ally5101999 ally5101999 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The wonderful thing (in a bizarre way) is I have my gut instinct to thank for this blessing. My idiot ex, when I first met him was very pushy for sex. I said no. And he pushed...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    From what I understand, you need to have had S in order to get an S T D. :P
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm still a virgin and I am proud of it. I am 19 years old and I will admit that to anyone I know, meet or whatever it may be. I don't care about one night stands and busting a...
    libking0104 libking0104 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    It hit me - hard - a few months ago and I went into a tailspin of anxiety, loneliness and self-pitying. I realized my life after high school has been one of moving from place to...
    avatar576 avatar576 26-30, M Mar 23

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    Funny you mention it. I have always been supper safe(not really just lucky). Now in my life I'm supper selective and careful.
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    After months of looking for a job, I’ve recently settled for a minimum wage thing in a popular “Family Restaurant” that specializes in pizza and Italian food. I won’t name...
    JennyFilth JennyFilth 22-25, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Although looking back, that's probably due more to luck than anything else.
    proguitar proguitar 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    But I guess that just means I get more pizza to myself.
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    Still working on my moves there..
    Inmate4269 Inmate4269 26-30, M Mar 27

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    true story... I was pressing random letters in the title box and this came up and i was like, 'hey thats true' ...
    goldentwilight goldentwilight 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    But the problem is, I really want to. I hope someday, it happens :'(
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 Mar 28

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    But I did once try dating a kettle. It eventually left me as all kitchen appliances do
    sinkingwater sinkingwater 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    But the gift of herpes you can keep and re-gift
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    A couple weeks ago a friend of mine asked me about my dating life. Now I'm not one to lie about my relationship experience so when I am asked I reply honestly. I told him I had...
    Chica2014 Chica2014 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    I've never had a real boyfriend. I had a two week thing with a guy who had not yet come out of the closet. No, not a sex thing. But.. there were some heavy make out sessions. He...
    WhoNeedsNormal WhoNeedsNormal 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I sometimes wish I had never had children too. I started out relatively early. I was 20 when I had my daughter and 24 when I had my son. My daughters father was abusive in every...
    BBMS BBMS 41-45, F Mar 30

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    I'm turning 22 this year and I've never had a boyfriend. I just feel like I'm missing out on some big experience of life. Everyone around me has been on relationships or talked to...
    smnthavgeorge smnthavgeorge 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Its not the fact that i'm a 13 year old who's complaining. But the fact that i'm turning 19 this year and i've never had a boyfriend. Never even been kissed. Or more accurately...
    Lifeshouldsparkle Lifeshouldsparkle 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. Not that i'm itching for one. The thing is I don't even have guy friends! I've been in an all-girls school since primary till high school and...
    littlederps littlederps 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I grew up with my grandparents. My mother had a relationship with my father. He was abusive time to time, he had come issues with his life, I have heard that he robbed some close...
    melodie9 melodie9 18-21, F Mar 28

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    I had never had an ****** with anyone I dated until now. I'm seeing an amazing man who I feel like I've known all my life and am meant to be with and he's the only guy that can get...
    Jackson2033 Jackson2033 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    People say I should get a boy friend because I never had a boyfriend it's just, I don't trust any of the boys at my school because it is a prep school. /-: and I think I should...
    WonderinginWV WonderinginWV 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I am a 19 year old male that can't do anything right.I never had a girlfriend/never get laid etc.etc.Obviously I'm a virgin.When I was younger i wasn't preoccupied with these...
    TheWatcher11133 TheWatcher11133 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I've never had sex, but I'm willing to do most people. The idea of doing it with a stranger turns me on so much. Does that make me a wh*re?
    Done453 Done453 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I was a teenager in the early to mid 1980's the time when it felt like HIV was going to be a world wide epidemics you'd see in one of those zombie films. I'm not a perfectly...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I've been with one guy but never had a relationship before
    mbratz123 mbratz123 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yeah , I have dated very less , and never had a gf , so obviously I didn't have my first kiss. I dream and fantasize about it often , wish I would experience it soon .
    1nfern0 1nfern0 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    I've never had that feeling no girl wants to kiss me they can do so much better than me
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I pushed her away. I had to. Her and I couldn't see eye to eye. We couldn't get along anymore. We both changed. I still love her to death. More than anything in the world. I wouldn...
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M Mar 28

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    I have never met a man that made me feel like I can't go on without seeing him or hearing his voice...A man in the presence of which I would feel pure love, excitement, comfort...
    intere intere 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I have to appear in court today from a car accident I had last month. I have never appeared in front of a judge before. I wrecked after driving on icy roads. I wasn't speeding or...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and a half now, I am 23 and he is 24, he stays over and we have done stuff (sexually speaking) BUT we haven't had intercourse...
    Scar29 Scar29 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I am so self conscious and have so much social anxiety I never had the courage to date somone
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Yeah it sounds weird but, I have never needed to see a doctor. And I've been shot, stabbed, sliced, highly drugged, even survived a nuclear blast. Now your probably thinkin well...
    kuzuri kuzuri 70+, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I was adopted at 9 months old. I never really wanted to meet my birth parents. One of my adopted friends got a grant to go find her birth parents...but that never appealed to me. I...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 6