I Have Never Had a Pap Smear

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    So I had my first pap smear 3 days ago

    and it hurted like HELL! Every since I was 18-19 I have dreaded the procedure because I knew then that I would have to face it eventually because it's mandatory. I have asked a few women how did it feel and they told me that it didn't hurt at all, So me 3 days ago thinking it...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    Why?!?

    Why do girls have to endure so much stuff??  I do not want my cervix scraped.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    Scared Of Doctors

    I'm a month shy of turning 25 years old. Up until I was 10/11 I had a family doctor - after that we moved to a new city and the doctor we ended up with I wasn't comfortable with, so I only saw him a couple times. Up until I was 11 my mom made all of my appt's, did all the talking...
    searchingformyself searchingformyself
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    I Salute You

    Ladies, When I think that women have it easy, I like to remember the pap smear. You have my admiration. GA.
    GoldenArrow GoldenArrow
    31-35, M
    9 Responses May 24, 2009

    Pap Smear Support!

    I found the Pap Smear experience lightened by receiving this card: http://neilsnotes.com/index.php?page=13&catid=11&sku=ENGL--CD00330  
    VanT VanT
    22-25
    Nov 5, 2009

    Pap Smear

    I only had a few paps done in my life.  Not something I'm really fond of.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2011

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