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I Have Never Had a Real Friend

For people who aren't satisfied with the friends they've had in life. 76 People

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    My idea of a real friend is someone who calls every now and then just because they miss you and because they want to know how you're doing. Someone who remembers your birthday, or at least wants to spend time with you on it if you ask. Someone who doesn't constantly blow you...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    Never Had A Real Friend

    Well im 16 and for as long as i can remember i have never had that "real friendship" with anyone. I go to a all girls school, so the odds of me making a real friend while being surrounded by a whole bunch of petty females its low. Half the females out here are fake. Like all i...
    AdoreDiiorx3 AdoreDiiorx3 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2011

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    The Title Says It All, I've Never Had A Real Friend

    I've always been a strange kid... when I was younger, I thought I had a friend, I considered a person a friend even being much older than me, we've had all the kinds of conversations. But then I realized that "the kind" of relationship we've had was exactly what she had with...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    no one cared for me as a human

    for my entire life. I was just being used. everyone would put me down because I wasn't like them. my so called friends wanted me to bully innocent people. I did what they said but it never felt right and I never realised that they were using me until they were gone.
    yummythedrummer yummythedrummer 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2015

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    Thinking Back....

    Pretty much never.I've had people that have came & went, but a true friendship I'm not so sure anymore. I have had friends over the years, but it was never easy for me. It seems as though I always made the wrong choices, or they have moved away on me. There was the guy who...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2012

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    I can't believe from the day I started school

    to the day I left I never had a "friend" All those years and I had no one. I did "have"two from age 9-13 but both were using me and mistreated me. Shared some stories of that. I'm in my twenties now and it does still hurt that no one was ever there for me or ever stuck up for me...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 46-50 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    I Have Never Known What Its Like To Have A Real Friend

    most people I have had around me are users, bullies, rude, drag my self esteem down and insult me... undermine me til I live in abstract poverty and like its some concentration camp in russia... I get bullied to the point of neverous breakdown and then they take more from me...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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    Never in my life had I experience having a real

    friend by my side.Well,I guess it is because I'm an introvert.There's a time that I step out of my shell.I tried to do the mainstream stuff young people like me wants to do.I got a few talks with some of my classmates.But when the next school year comes,I'm like AIR again,I can...
    jaadees jaadees 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Well Where Do I Start..read This And Tell Me What You Think

    i was stuck in the middle ever since i was young. you know that place where you're not exactly either of the opposite ends. you're just in between. as a result, i've never felt like i belong. i should tell you this though, i made a choice when i was 10 years old. i'm 21 now...
    atyourback18 atyourback18 18-21 1 Response Jun 21, 2011

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    No one accepts the real me.

    I'm not doing anything wrong.
    IReallyWantToKnow IReallyWantToKnow 13-15, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    My Social Life

    I was born with aspergers. I have been socially awkward so far in my life and I have yet to ever make atleast one friend. I am 16 as of now. I really used to try and try to overcome my shy fears and anxiety. I always ended up feeling dead inside and just stayed indoors alone with...
    Subert Subert 16-17 2 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    It hit me - hard - a few months ago

    and I went into a tailspin of anxiety, loneliness and self-pitying. I realized my life after high school has been one of moving from place to place trying to find where I belong. I have not found that place. I've only found trite cliches. "You will....someday." "Just be yourself...
    avatar576 avatar576 31-35, M Mar 23, 2014

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    and he constantly gets me in trouble. he wants me to keep being his bff and wingman but I'm engaged now. and he's having trouble adjusting. when we hang out I regress into the...
    ShannieB ShannieB 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    No date on valentines day?? Valentines day is here again , If you haven't got a date then apparently all the people who have feel sorry for us . Just a little thought but if your...
    yak3 yak3 41-45, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Sure I dated a couple gals when I was in high school and college but that was over 20 years ago and it was really just a bunch of puppy dog bumbling. I don't think that really...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 13 hrs ago

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    I'm a virgin so of course I don't have a sexually transmitted disease
    LonelyGuy450 LonelyGuy450 16-17, M 14 hrs ago

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    Not really. I mean, usually I got all flirty and got flirted back but never really been in an relationship
    Ihan14 Ihan14 13-15, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I am a pretty quiet person and I don't have very many friends I have maybe three friends and that's it. I really wish that the kids at school liked me more than they do I feel like...
    wendiemyers46 wendiemyers46 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I guess I cant say that I have never told anyone anymore. I told a love I met on here . But outside of her, no one knows, not even my wife. It is so odd that i would meet a lady...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M 1 day ago

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    in real life all my relationships have been online...
    aby2015 aby2015 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs old. I have only been in 2 official relationships. One in elementary school and one in high school
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was a solo mother child. Real father was an evil, game playing violent person. I just wrote a brief story. As a child I was so afraid of him. Many times I would run under my bed...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 46-50 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Real father never wanted me, abused my mother and went on in his life without me. I was brought up by mum with him and his wicked ways, selfishness, stalking and manipulation and...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 46-50 1 day ago

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    I'm very tired of this, I'm so sick that only weird and strange people talk to me spontaneously or else it is always me that have to start conversation with a decent person , if I...
    sweeter944 sweeter944 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    One day, maybe two years ago, I had attempted scuicide, I felt as if I was alone and at the time I didn't have any friends, they had all began to dislike me due to another "friend...
    Gage13Flores Gage13Flores 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I got in the car with a friend who had smoked beforehand though.. She said she didn't smoke in the car but it f*****g reeked!!! Throughout the rest of the day, she would smoke her...
    cherrykoolaid92 cherrykoolaid92 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Depression keeps writing me a valentine written in Blood.
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    There was someone who I performed with years ago; for the sake of this story, I'll call him Greg. Greg and I had performed in several community theater productions. Being near him...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I believe in total faithfulness to my wife. Also I don't think one night stands are emotionally healthy (and often physically unhealthy if not downright dangerous). Actually, I've...
    bookishlutheran bookishlutheran 56-60, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    So at the end of 2014 I found out that my best friend of 9 years and her bf plotted to use me for my money and my helpfulness. We had always talked about our future and things we...
    aquamoongoddess aquamoongoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It is actually depressing for me since I will be most likely be alone. I will try to stay at hom but if I have to go to work and I will see couples on the road or at work, I will...
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I don't really mind that I've never had a girlfriend. It just means there's someone out there i need to search for. I love a treasure hunt.
    Foot94 Foot94 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Almost 30 and no girlfriend 29, in 2 months will turn 30, single, no real girlfriend. I don't socialized much as I used to and sometimes feel lonely. 12 years after I finish high...
    taiho110 taiho110 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Talk to me baby Tell me what you're feeling You say you don't need to go Don't you pretend you didn't know How all of this would end up Girl I saw it in your eyes And baby I can...
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have no girl friends or best friend I can call up anytime and talk to. No one to complain about my husband with, or go shopping for cute clothes with. No one to tell my secrets...
    heypei135 heypei135 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My ex friend would stalk my sister on social media and then lie about it to my face after my sister confronted me. I had been friends with him for years at that point and he never...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Jan 31

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    Communication is hard for me. And when I try and make an online friend it never works because I come off as hostile and just so standoffish. I'm really not... I'm just so terrible...
    Rucbrar Rucbrar 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I have an older brother who is 39 years old, still living with my parent, never been employed and complaints about almost everything. Like he was trying to give a **** about the...
    Armdrifter Armdrifter 31-35, M Jan 28

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    I've been realizing lately that the people who I will call first no matter the situation are my real friends. I've met alot of nice people who I like to talk to & laugh with but...
    HarmonyVents HarmonyVents 31-35, F Jan 28

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    If only finding a real friend was easy. Any other loners out there who wanna be friends?
    Iamaloner25 Iamaloner25 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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