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I Have Never Had a Serious Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 58 People

    I feel rather ashamed

    and I'm in my 40s. Have had brief romances but it's taken me a long time to open up and get comfortable with people. Not sure how to get started. Anyone want to talk? (Men or women but I am only interested in women).
    graff18 graff18 46-50, M 1 Response May 17

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    I've Never Been A Serious Realtionship

    I have never been in a serious relationship, I am 21 : let me better explain that I have been in a relationships but they always end with me falling too deep in love and giving myself when they give nothing in return. I think most of that comes from our differences in what I...
    diamondluv32 diamondluv32 18-21 3 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    Fearing Love

    I have never had a serious relationship because I always felt that no man would ever truly love and accept me for me. I am sure that growing up in a dysfunctional household didnt help. I have had relationships and have children, but cant get to a point were I can trust enough...
    kimmykatt kimmykatt 36-40 2 Responses Aug 27, 2008

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    Relationships

    I have never had a serious relationship. Well actually ive never had a relationship with a man at all. Two reasons ive figured out for this is. I have already settled down to a quiet life on my own. A lot of people dont understand that or accept it. I not a person that is up for...
    firespeed28 firespeed28 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    Have you? I have never heard of such a thing.
    bubbawi bubbawi 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I've never had a real one because a relationship when you're 11 doesn't count haha
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    Just turned 20 and have never dated anyone! I feel like it has to do with that I'm like really shy especially with new people which come off as rude? Well that's what some of my...
    Taniays Taniays 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    To be honest, the whole concept baffles me... sex is a very intimate thing and the enjoyment of the closeness to another person is the thing that is most important to me. I can...
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    Yes I've never had a girlfriend it's kind of hard to have one being to shy to around women.
    TheMidNightCrow TheMidNightCrow 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I had been dating this girl for about a year and a half now. But about 3 weeks ago she ended it with me. I had been moody from my medication and I guess I said something that upset...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 20

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    Is it bad I never had my first kiss yet? :c
    pinkkitten11 pinkkitten11 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    What's it like, I wonder.
    Nickf20 Nickf20 18-21, M Aug 19

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    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I've never been into having sex with perfect strangers. While I don't diss anyone that does... I won't fully understand it. At least until I have sex with more than one person.
    Sophia117 Sophia117 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    and I'm scared and I don't know what to do or how to react or how to feel.
    heyydutchy heyydutchy 18-21, F Aug 18

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    ...and am glad I gave no guy the opportunity to break my heart. I never wanted to be one of the high school girls who were together with 50 boys from the school and I think if u r...
    MutedVoice MutedVoice 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I am 24 and I have never been kissed why won't a girl kiss me
    cane4500 cane4500 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Let's do this if anyone (girl) interested....
    nil7july nil7july 22-25, M Aug 17

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    Never really gotten close... Ehhh that is all I'm going to write for now.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Woo! You can't go wrong if you shield your dong!
    WhiskeyRoger369 WhiskeyRoger369 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 15

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    fluteplayer1519 fluteplayer1519 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    before I understood my sexuality I had boyfriends but none of those relationships ended up lasting too long. one big reason was that I wasn't attracted to them and I thought I was...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21 Aug 14

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    serapphine serapphine 31-35, F Aug 12

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    How do you get over the fact that you've never had one, especially when girls much younger than you are getting one and there's talk of romance everywhere you go -.-
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    Since I've never had one, just thinking about the reality of me having a boyfriend gives me a really... "weird"?... feeling
    Outline Outline 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F Aug 12

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