I Have Never Had a Valentines Day

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 256 People

    Me Neither

    I've never as an adult had a valentines day with someone special.  How totally lame is that?
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton
    41-45, M
    12 Responses Jul 30, 2007

    I have never had a Valentine's Day ,

    because I was always single during those times of the year When I met my hubby it was a long distance relationship so on Val's day we mailed each other pressies, it's our first Val's day together and all restaurants are booked ! He's coming home from NYC tomorrow and still...
    Alexandra0210 Alexandra0210
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    My First Valentines Celebration Is Unconventionally Twisted

    Yes, i dolled up, yes i bought a heart cake, yes i bought wines and yes i am rocking heels. All this i have done for myself and two ladies. The one and only once AKA my friends. I have succeeded in bullying them into dolling up as well, because i refuse to have ANOTHER valentines...
    OldSoulYoungBody OldSoulYoungBody
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2013

    31....almost 32 .. and ive never had a

    valentine ...closest I got was in high school but he broke up with me on valentines day!
    bubblebobble83 bubblebobble83
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2015

    The Same Here...

    Well, I've never had a valentines day in my life.. I always seem to be busy doing other stuffs or something else happens on that day. however I do still enjoy the rest of the day.:) I spend all the day with my family and friends. No gifts, no flowers to give or take.. Man!! it's...
    Lovehatetragedy Lovehatetragedy
    22-25, M
    Apr 13, 2008
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2015
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer
    16-17, M
    Feb 7

    not a true one...I show my affection

    and get none in return. I've come to stop acknowledging the day as I never have someone who treats my heart tenderly.
    Zurea Zurea
    26-30, T
    1 Response Feb 11

    Never have I ever had a valentine

    but I do t care too much about that :) just go and spread the love with family and friends, give yourself the excuse for home made biscuits and chocolate, have a cup of hot chocolate or a smoothie. Just enjoy your day, not just this day but every day in general :) Happy...
    shaylusilax shaylusilax
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2014

    In the 31 years of my existence,

    i never received flowers or anything on Valentines Day! :(
    hopefaithlove84 hopefaithlove84
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    Concept of Love Only Once a Year?

    As I discover more about origins of holidays, I am learning the absolute contradiction of the original idea and the modern consumption of holidays. Over ten years ago, I started to make my own holidays where I would silently remember important events in my life, my...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2009

    My name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs old.

    I never had a Valentine's Day because I never had a girlfriend to spend Valentine's Day with
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 18

    Until This Year!

    I've never been with someone on any valentines day! But this year i'll be with my boyfriend. Valentines day is tomorrow! And he's staying over my place tonight. Valentines day isn't a big deal for me, no deal at all really. I wouldn't care if i didn't get anything, just to...
    jasminjane jasminjane
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2009

    It is actually depressing

    for me since I will be most likely be alone. I will try to stay at hom but if I have to go to work and I will see couples on the road or at work, I will go into full depression mode....
    Potchii Potchii
    22-25, M
    Feb 4

    I've just never understood the hype over it.

    Showing someone you care is so simple and should be done daily. It's the little things, like waking up to fresh coffee, coming home to a house you didn't have to clean for once, all of those little mundane things that are usually taken for granted. If someone were to ever give...
    cgould72 cgould72
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2015

    Never Have a Normal Valentine's Day

    even i had boyfriend and still have one right now, but he is oversea and i never had a normal valentine's day, nobody gives me flower and treat me a fancy dinner with special black tulip or blue roses.... and then i got into hating valentine's day, and still now, i being alone...
    boxyfish boxyfish
    26-30, F
    Feb 14, 2009

    I Have Never Had a Valentines Day...

    ...and as it looks like I won't have one this year either... Once again I will go out with my single friends and talk about how much we hate this day... But we will deeply know that we hate the fact that we can't celebrate this day... It's a bit pathetic but what else can...
    just4adream just4adream
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2008

    Do Not Do the Following...

    This is for all of you guys that have seriously messed up when it comes time to give your honey something on Valentine's Day. The following are NOT good gifts (this is generally speaking, of course!): Glade Candles...Don't believe the commercial! These are NOT the thing to...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2008
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2015

    HATE It!!!

    This is like, always the worst day of my year, along with new year's eve.  When I was a little girl, my daddy used to go out and buy me teddy bears and candy and he'd call and sing to me (I'm really about to cry) and my mom would make valentine's day cupcakes or cookies and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    Feb 12, 2009


    I never had a Valentines Day. Every year on this day I'm either single or had some king of argument with my boyfriend (if I had one) but somehow I'm not bothered at all. The only thing I don't like is all this artificial pressure it puts on people - that if you are alone then...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 12, 2013

    Happy Valentines day everyone!

    Whatever that means, i wish you are all having a blast!
    latebloomerDemi latebloomerDemi
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 14

    Always Single

    I've always been single on Valentine's Day. Boo.But it's still a lovely holiday, and I look forward to having a great one some day.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Feb 7, 2011

    I will propably stay FOREVER SINGLE cause

    nobody wants me, and heh.. the worst it's when it comes to Valentines. ;c i feel so.. empty .
    ppavarotti ppavarotti
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Feb 15, 2014

    Never Ever Ever....

    I've always been single so, I guess never having a real valentines day comes along with that. Hopefully that will change soon... All I know is that I don't want to spend the rest of them by myself, watchig the happy couples kissing, holding hands and exchanging gifts.... I want...
    darkraya darkraya
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2013

    Nope. Never. I'm thinking about changing it

    this year though. ^_^ Here's the deal: I already hung out with this girl once, and it was a pretty fun time. We're really good friends right now. I wanna try hanging out with her again the upcoming weekend, and surprise her by asking her to be my valentine. When we go up to my...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 3, 2014

    Will You Be My Valentine?

    I've never had a Valentine. A guy made me a card once a coupe of years ago, and put it in my locker at school. Although, he admitted it some time later and he was just a friend of mine. So, it wasn't very... uhm.. romantic. I still generally love Valentine's Day, because love is...
    bulletinmybutterflywing bulletinmybutterflywing
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2007


    I never had a Valentines Day, either. Even at school... the thing was, the teachers told everyone to make or buy valentines to exchange in class. I would make half and buy the other half. Having enough valentines for everyone in my class. :-) Then, when it was time to give them...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 12, 2009
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