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I Have Never Had An Orgasm

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 59 People

    I Feel Bad That I Can't ****** During Sex

    Every guy I have dated has never been able to make me have the big finish. For some odd reason, I can play with myself and boom! I'm good, but I have never had the exciting feeling of that feeling during intercoarse. My bf tries to avoid foreplay cause that will just make him...
    AlbinoLapineRedQueen AlbinoLapineRedQueen
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Sep 10, 2009

    Never Had An O

    I'm 21 years old and never had an ******. I have tried everything. I began ************ when I was very young. I can get to that point JUST BEFORE ******, but I just cannot get pushed/push myself over that cliff. Toys, ************, sex, oral, fingering, etc etc etc... nothing...
    pollyanna90 pollyanna90
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2011

    I Think I'm Broken

    I'm 22, married, and have slept with 3 men (not at the same time). While I enjoy sex immensly I don't ever ******. I read somewhere that it's because I'm inhibited - but I'm not... not really. I feel like I'm doing something wrong though. I've tried everything and nothing works...
    cdailey cdailey
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2011


    True. Never have. But I'll not lose hope. Someday, somewhere, sometime I'll be set free and have the best gosh darn earth shaking over-the-top quakes to rock my body ever experienced.
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2008

    Fake It And Take It.

    As old as I am, I have never had an ****** while having sex with my man.  I can have an ****** without touching myself just by thinking about having sex and watching ****.  While touching myself, I can ****** but not while having sex.  Gosh, I hope that my next sexual...
    TerVon TerVon
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2011

    I'm Determined That This Year Will Be The Year.

    I am in the same boat as many of the other posts in this group . I've had plenty of ******* with toys but never any during sex :(. I got really close once when I added a vibrator in the mix but still haven't been pushed all the way over :( . I had a friend that ust to say I was...
    iameffystonem iameffystonem
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2012

    **** O

    i want to be able to push past the intensity and have an amazing release into an ****** but it never comes... I don't know how to push over the edge and feel the amazing rush.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jul 12, 2011

    I'm Not Sure If I've Had One...

    I'm an 18 year old girl and I have been ************ since I was 10 or 11, and having sex since I was 17. I have been with 2 guys and one girl. I am really horny for my age and gender... I think it's because I've never came. With the first 2 people I ****** it wasn't fun at all...
    Mi94 Mi94
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2012

    Have Never Had One During Sex

    I have been able in other ways but am just hoping that someday I'll be able to enjoy that moment at the same time as him. I have had people try very hard and believe I may have been close but it just hasn't happened. Maybe I'm broken or something. Lol
    Aminik Aminik
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2012

    I Think I'm Broken

    i've never had an ****** that wasn't through ************. i lost my virginity when i was 19. i've only been with 6 guys, and 2 of them have honestly tried really hard to get me off. and i enjoy it, i really get into it, but after awhile, instead of climaxing, i start to get...
    thirty30 thirty30
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 28, 2008

    That seemingly elusive peak

    It’s sad and a tad bit embarrassing to admit it out loud, but the perpetual frustration is even worse. I have never had an org*sm. I’m 25 years old, married, and have only been with two men sexually. The other guy was, I guess you could say, a one-night stand. The other was...
    gypsysoul08 gypsysoul08
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 30, 2013

    I've tried and done everything I could possibly

    think of and absolutely nothing works. I'm beyond sexually frustrated. I've read somewhere that it's not uncommon for a woman not to have an ****** until they are 25, well I'm almost 23 and running out of time. haha
    deleted deleted
    60 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    Eat, Pray, ******—How Sex Saved A Woman In Crisis

    Oh wow. ' After being single for a short while, Pooja met a guy named Eli on OK Cupid (natch). Eli just so happened to work at One Taste, a center for Orgasmic Meditation (OM) where men sensually stroke women's clits for fifteen-minute sessions. (On the streets it's called...
    trilo2 trilo2
    18-21, M
    Aug 10, 2013

    I Have Never Had An ******

    I am an older man who has trouble "taking" a woman. I feel that I make assaults on the woman. Perhaps it is also derfro that I have never experienced an ******. Is there anyone here who knows this problem and know what you can do about it?
    ugle2 ugle2
    61-65, M
    2 Responses May 28, 2012

    Why Oh Why Can I Not Have An O

    I am 43 and been sexually active since I was 16. I have no idea why I cannot just let go and enjoy the release. I used to think it was because I was young and knew I shouldn't be having intercourse. So I assumed that it was just the guilt preventing me. Then when I was dating...
    sassyrene87 sassyrene87
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2012
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