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I Have Never Had An Orgasm

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 60 People


    True. Never have. But I'll not lose hope. Someday, somewhere, sometime I'll be set free and have the best gosh darn earth shaking over-the-top quakes to rock my body ever experienced.
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2008

    Eat, Pray, ******—How Sex Saved A Woman In Crisis

    Oh wow. ' After being single for a short while, Pooja met a guy named Eli on OK Cupid (natch). Eli just so happened to work at One Taste, a center for Orgasmic Meditation (OM) where men sensually stroke women's clits for fifteen-minute sessions. (On the streets it's called...
    trilo2 trilo2
    18-21, M
    Aug 10, 2013

    Never Had An O

    I'm 21 years old and never had an ******. I have tried everything. I began ************ when I was very young. I can get to that point JUST BEFORE ******, but I just cannot get pushed/push myself over that cliff. Toys, ************, sex, oral, fingering, etc etc etc... nothing...
    pollyanna90 pollyanna90
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2011

    That seemingly elusive peak

    It’s sad and a tad bit embarrassing to admit it out loud, but the perpetual frustration is even worse. I have never had an org*sm. I’m 25 years old, married, and have only been with two men sexually. The other guy was, I guess you could say, a one-night stand. The other was...
    gypsysoul08 gypsysoul08
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 30, 2013

    Fake It And Take It.

    As old as I am, I have never had an ****** while having sex with my man.  I can have an ****** without touching myself just by thinking about having sex and watching ****.  While touching myself, I can ****** but not while having sex.  Gosh, I hope that my next sexual...
    TerVon TerVon
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2011

    **** O

    i want to be able to push past the intensity and have an amazing release into an ****** but it never comes... I don't know how to push over the edge and feel the amazing rush.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jul 12, 2011

    I Feel Bad That I Can't ****** During Sex

    Every guy I have dated has never been able to make me have the big finish. For some odd reason, I can play with myself and boom! I'm good, but I have never had the exciting feeling of that feeling during intercoarse. My bf tries to avoid foreplay cause that will just make him...
    AlbinoLapineRedQueen AlbinoLapineRedQueen
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Sep 10, 2009

    I've tried and done everything I could possibly

    think of and absolutely nothing works. I'm beyond sexually frustrated. I've read somewhere that it's not uncommon for a woman not to have an ****** until they are 25, well I'm almost 23 and running out of time. haha
    Sunkist10 Sunkist10
    22-25, F
    60 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    I'm Determined That This Year Will Be The Year.

    I am in the same boat as many of the other posts in this group . I've had plenty of ******* with toys but never any during sex :(. I got really close once when I added a vibrator in the mix but still haven't been pushed all the way over :( . I had a friend that ust to say I was...
    iameffystonem iameffystonem
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2012

    Have Never Had One During Sex

    I have been able in other ways but am just hoping that someday I'll be able to enjoy that moment at the same time as him. I have had people try very hard and believe I may have been close but it just hasn't happened. Maybe I'm broken or something. Lol
    Aminik Aminik
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2012

    I Think I'm Broken

    i've never had an ****** that wasn't through ************. i lost my virginity when i was 19. i've only been with 6 guys, and 2 of them have honestly tried really hard to get me off. and i enjoy it, i really get into it, but after awhile, instead of climaxing, i start to get...
    thirty30 thirty30
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 28, 2008

    I'm Not Sure If I've Had One...

    I'm an 18 year old girl and I have been ************ since I was 10 or 11, and having sex since I was 17. I have been with 2 guys and one girl. I am really horny for my age and gender... I think it's because I've never came. With the first 2 people I ****** it wasn't fun at all...
    Mi94 Mi94
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2012

    I Think I'm Broken

    I'm 22, married, and have slept with 3 men (not at the same time). While I enjoy sex immensly I don't ever ******. I read somewhere that it's because I'm inhibited - but I'm not... not really. I feel like I'm doing something wrong though. I've tried everything and nothing works...
    cdailey cdailey
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2011

    I Have Never Had An ******

    I am an older man who has trouble "taking" a woman. I feel that I make assaults on the woman. Perhaps it is also derfro that I have never experienced an ******. Is there anyone here who knows this problem and know what you can do about it?
    ugle2 ugle2
    61-65, M
    2 Responses May 28, 2012

    Why Oh Why Can I Not Have An O

    I am 43 and been sexually active since I was 16. I have no idea why I cannot just let go and enjoy the release. I used to think it was because I was young and knew I shouldn't be having intercourse. So I assumed that it was just the guilt preventing me. Then when I was dating...
    sassyrene87 sassyrene87
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2012
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