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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

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    They've liked me but not loved me.

    I don't really let anyone if that makes sense. I usually push guys away if I know they have some kind of feelings because I get really nervous and freak out.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Aug 10, 2014

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    canaan2000 canaan2000 13-15, M Aug 10, 2014

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    I can't wait for the day I've found the one.

    My guardian angel on earth.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 10, 2014

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    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    Every year for the past ten years

    since I was 16, I have been wishing for love every Christmas. And I haven't gotten it yet. I know that sounds corny and pathetic but it's also true. If I'm capable of loving a man for who he is, I feel like I deserve that type of love back. But I've never gotten it. I just...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    I don't think so... I've had strangers tell me

    I'm attractive but no one has ever told me they have romantic feelings for me. :/
    ElZombie ElZombie 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    I am 20 and I have never had a boyfriend. I just had my first kiss a few months ago and it did not last very long. We were both drunk and have not talked about it since. I feel so...
    orangemc orangemc 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I have never had a one night stand. I haven't had much experience at all really but the what I have had have all been relationships and no one night stands
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Jan 7

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    I have never had a gf, I think the reason is that I don't know how to attract them. Do you have any advice?
    msignore msignore 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 16

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    Well I have never had it because people in this town doesn't like me and my family and they used to bully me
    QueenOfTheDarkness QueenOfTheDarkness 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    No I haven't - and while I can never say never. I'm pretty certain that I won't in the future. However I do have a story about a night when I almost did. My friend J and I went...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    In my twenties. Haven't had a boyfriend to date, and thinking it might never happen to me. I wonder why I happened to be this lucky? I think maybe I must have done something awry...
    kisstherainn kisstherainn 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I'm 14 and have never been kissed . How old were u when u had your first kiss
    Mattsdragons Mattsdragons 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 15

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    This is not a sob story, im not looking for sympathy, its just how it is, I was born with a disability have been deformed and in a wheelchair all my life, I am 42 years old and...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Never had it. :P hahaha, I am kinda excited for it. I really want to remember it. Being an obsessed hopeless romantic I think I want it to be perfect, but then again Being with the...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    Which is completely awesome, because I would so so so drop the soap like pfffftt..50 times( those lil buggers are slippery) I would majorly be bi-t-chified completely. I do not...
    OrchidsNuBlu OrchidsNuBlu 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I have had sex with a lot of women in my life an I am thankful I never had an s t d
    luvps luvps 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    I've never had a partner, let alone a kiss. Haha
    LiamAlexHarper LiamAlexHarper 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Never had one! Even New Year's. :)
    moonchildd moonchildd 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 13

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    I never had a girl friend at the first place. It's not lack of confidence or something. But I was never fond of having long term relationships right now. Sure, I'm good with women...
    Tawheed1994 Tawheed1994 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    never in my entire life. I've legit never had a relationship. #baeless
    123peppy 123peppy 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Chance to have it came up tonight but I denied it and don't regret it. It's New Year's Day here in Australia because it's actually 1:49am on the 1st of Janurary but we had a party...
    Peelover94 Peelover94 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    53-years-old and have never contracted anything. :)
    curiousinomaha3 curiousinomaha3 51-55, M 7 Responses Jan 10

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    I've always wanted one. But now I'm not sure. Maybe I'm not ready. I should probably figure out myself and what I want first before getting involved with anyone else. It took going...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    There are things I can't tell anyone. I'm ashamed of it and I'm afraid of what will happen if I talk about it. I've always wanted to talk about it but I feel like no one would...
    MagicEyes95 MagicEyes95 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Not allowed in this country India I'm afraid. All my life watching TV and watching the western world always wanted to have one. But in this horrible country its not allowed. Never...
    Satorax Satorax 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Whenever I get sad about this, I think of two things. First, I think of Kim and Kanye. If those two assh0les found each other, my weird self can find someone too. Second, I think...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I don't see the point. For me, if something is gonna lead to sex, there needs to be some sort of connection. I'd even **** my friends if I were attracted to them. But not a random...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Nope, never! You can't give it to me! Ill ever catch it ever!
    scarletlocks scarletlocks 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 6

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    The only time I had a short-term relationship it was a friends with benefits relationship, and I don't think that counts as a series of one night stands in succession with the same...
    YetAnotherStoic YetAnotherStoic 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    i loved a girl for like 5 years.last month i told her and she said she's not into relationship thing and she do not want to loose me i did what i could i've always started the...
    nothingbuteach nothingbuteach 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    My mom tells me all the time that i did have my first kiss with this boy from kindergarten... but I don't remember so therefore it doesn't count haha.. ive only been kissed on the...
    angelwyn angelwyn 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    i an feel lonely without girlfriend.no one girls interest in me .
    hareesh620 hareesh620 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Yep. I know I know. Well since I've lost weight people have started calling me hot and being interested in me but I still have that 'fat girl' mentality like everyone who shows...
    staygoldenbaby staygoldenbaby 16-17, F Jan 18

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    This is kind of mind-blowing considering my "past". I've lost count of the people I've been with unprotected (I've stopped doing that in high school, became wiser than that...
    IngensImpetum IngensImpetum 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm honestly fine with it, but my family teases me about that and I try not to take it to heart because it's what's family does. Family is a major douchebag.
    FallingUp23 FallingUp23 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Yep that's me now once I was kissed on the cheek by my ex but that's the closest
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    My Secret - I was possibly almost raped one day but I was too young to understand. Until I realized they took advantage of me and it was a sexual assault.
    Ornah27 Ornah27 13-15, F Jan 18

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    I'm still young, I know that but I wish I could find someone.
    Erinn2 Erinn2 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    will wait for the right moment.
    ifaizanm ifaizanm 22-25, M Jan 4

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    melissasmi melissasmi 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6