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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    canaan2000 canaan2000 13-15, M Aug 10, 2014

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    I don't think so... I've had strangers tell me

    I'm attractive but no one has ever told me they have romantic feelings for me. :/
    ElZombie ElZombie 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    I can't wait for the day I've found the one.

    My guardian angel on earth.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 10, 2014

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    Every year for the past ten years

    since I was 16, I have been wishing for love every Christmas. And I haven't gotten it yet. I know that sounds corny and pathetic but it's also true. If I'm capable of loving a man for who he is, I feel like I deserve that type of love back. But I've never gotten it. I just...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    They've liked me but not loved me.

    I don't really let anyone if that makes sense. I usually push guys away if I know they have some kind of feelings because I get really nervous and freak out.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Aug 10, 2014

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    I never had anyone telling me that he had feelings towards me. Needless to say, I also never have someone returning my feelings towards him.( I have only had a bit feelings...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I have never had an STD. I do have sympathy for certain ones that do though. Sometimes a mate might have cheated or someone may have gave them the STD without their knowledge. I am...
    FrankK70 FrankK70 41-45, M Apr 22

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    Ok so I'm 19, almost 20. I'm a freshman in college, and I find it very hard to talk to girls. I'm a pretty shy person up until I get to know someone well. My main problem is that I...
    quietcontender quietcontender 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 24

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    Yup and I never had one. Ever. I used to have girls that are friends but they didn't last long and I was too dense to notice that they probably liked me. I just didn't bother to...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I'm worried that I might have too high standards or expectations for who I want to date. I haven't dated anyone yet and I always thought that when I got older I would find someone...
    ellpato ellpato 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    I seriously never had a bf. I'm scared of getting into an relationship. I know I'm supposed to be focusing on school. It's just when I'm ready I'm ready to be someone else...
    manotham manotham 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I never have and never will!!! I'm exstreamly exstreamly cautious about who I am with STDs scare me to death
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    And I hope I never will! I believe strongly in no murder! A saying "one kill, devil drill." Lmao worst fail saying ever comment and heart if you support me!!!
    atfenix atfenix 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    I have a secret, which no one knows about...... and no one will, until I find the right person, which will be hard Don't trust anyone
    BloodCravings BloodCravings 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I received a joke letter in disguise of a love letter one day... I couldn't BELIEVE the guy I had a thing for actually returned those feelings for once. I was walking on cloud nine...
    4everlonelyalone 4everlonelyalone 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    no one cared for me as a human for my entire life. I was just being used. everyone would put me down because I wasn't like them. my so called friends wanted me to bully innocent...
    yummythedrummer yummythedrummer 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Always got checked and my partners too because i can't use condoms because of skin friction over-reaction...i had only 3 partners and i like to choose wisely a partner before doing...
    herkeed herkeed 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    My heart will never be the same
    nipplelover43 nipplelover43 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I am so strange around guys that I am the least bit attracted to. The irony is that most of my friends are guys. I know guys think I am cute but I am too hardcore and not enough...
    UnPoeticJustice UnPoeticJustice 16-17 5 Responses Apr 10

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    Nope. Never. Surprised I didn't though from my ex wife.
    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M 6 Responses Apr 11

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    when i tell people this they say really???? well yeah i wouldnt sit here and tell you ive never if i have. "but your're so pretty." *in whiney voice* well boo hoo ive turned them...
    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    could anybody fill that place for me? you HAVE to be 13-14 and not some old perv or a old fart.
    Marshmallowlover9 Marshmallowlover9 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Awww...I think I have to delete myself from this group. 3 STD's in 6 months. Gladly all solved by antibiotics. Now why is it that in sex education they scare the hell out of us...
    AbsintheMinded08 AbsintheMinded08 26-30 2 Responses Apr 20

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    Need an online girlfriend? Just someone to talk to or someone to show your friends? Come hire one for $40 a week. Included texting and flirting for the whole week and pictures to...
    onlinegirlfrieng19 onlinegirlfrieng19 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    This is the my last post. Today this afternooon cup who has been sexual abused to me found my new adress and came to my apartment and force me ,open door of my apartment,force...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 28

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    well of course not, I'm still a virgin
    bluehappyness bluehappyness 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 11

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    Check yo self before you wreck yo self am I right y'all.
    AntiDepressantInTheMaking AntiDepressantInTheMaking 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 20

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    I'm 26 and still waiting. I just pray to meet her soon.
    TidalMoon TidalMoon 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Now that I know it does not define who I am. I shoulda. I coulda. I'm glad that I still can.
    complex7 complex7 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 28

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    Intentionally. Cant. My ethics scream no. There was a pal or two. That went stupid after. But stupid was not foreseen. And caring was there.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 28

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    it is something i wish i did/do, but am shy and cant read women
    j0505c j0505c 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Everyone hates me. My life is a miserable hell hole.
    atr7887 atr7887 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    One year ago, I was free falling, spinning and screaming from the depth of my core. I felt as if every piece of foundation had been removed from me and I was teetering on one leg...
    mistletoe41 mistletoe41 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    22 and I want something serious leading to marriage. I can't find anyone online. I don't like the world of dating. How do you find anyone? I am not in pubs or clubs. I wouldn't...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I am jealous, jealous of his wife. He doesn't love her, at least, he tells me he isn't "in love" with her. I know there are all kinds of love. I know that he still loves her...
    2ndinline 2ndinline 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    tell me something you have never told anyone before good.bad,happy,sad.........annnnnnnd go!
    thatgreyangel thatgreyangel 16-17, F 1 Response