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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 145 People

    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    I can't wait for the day I've found the one.

    My guardian angel on earth.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 10, 2014

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    Every year for the past ten years

    since I was 16, I have been wishing for love every Christmas. And I haven't gotten it yet. I know that sounds corny and pathetic but it's also true. If I'm capable of loving a man for who he is, I feel like I deserve that type of love back. But I've never gotten it. I just...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    I don't think so... I've had strangers tell me

    I'm attractive but no one has ever told me they have romantic feelings for me. :/
    ElZombie ElZombie 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    canaan2000 canaan2000 13-15, M Aug 10, 2014

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    They've liked me but not loved me.

    I don't really let anyone if that makes sense. I usually push guys away if I know they have some kind of feelings because I get really nervous and freak out.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Aug 10, 2014

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    I've heard numerous times

    that I'm beautiful. I've heard numerous times that I'm sexy. But that fact that no one has ever been entranced by my personality makes me feel like the ugliest woman in the world.
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response May 17

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    So I have been seeing this guy for 3 months now. We started as friends then after our incredible connection became obvious, we started our relationship. He is the best friend I...
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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. When we first met he was charming, charismatic, confident and sweet. Then things took a turn and I thought...
    marie2324 marie2324 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm 21, almost 22 and have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend. And I've only ever been kissed once just after high school. Recently I've started making friends for a change and one...
    InYourArms InYourArms 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    One night stands are just about sex I can take care of that myself, I really want to connect with someone first.
    klaraklara18 klaraklara18 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yes, very very far away...like I complete different world...for years I've forgot about my feelings for a cartoon that I used to be in love with, but lately he's all I can think...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    its couple of days to my 18th birthday and i am still alone i want a girl in my life to be my own and i will be her own girl that loves me. i am the most friendzoned person i can...
    sostacho sostacho 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really want to have one with a girl
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This is for a college essay lol, it's probably not a good one to send in, but I liked it. Please give me your opinion My Mother gave birth with one person in her hospital room...
    Lilique Lilique 16-17, F a week ago

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    I have been married for 16 years, together 17. We married fairly young, and quickly. My husband is a good guy (overall)and there is no abuse or red flags. Though, there are...
    emk38 emk38 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    To be honest, I am at a loss how it happened and I never intended to fall in love. Prior to finding her, I was mostly satisfied with my life; I thought that being content would be...
    alteregoeleven alteregoeleven 46-50, M 29 Responses Aug 25

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    I've never had a real one because a relationship when you're 11 doesn't count haha
    newcarsmell newcarsmell 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Just turned 20 and have never dated anyone! I feel like it has to do with that I'm like really shy especially with new people which come off as rude? Well that's what some of my...
    Taniays Taniays 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    To be honest, the whole concept baffles me... sex is a very intimate thing and the enjoyment of the closeness to another person is the thing that is most important to me. I can...
    AAJames AAJames 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I was just a small 6th grade kid who had terrible self-esteem issues. It comes with the territory when your father used to terrify you, when he would beat you for the most trivial...
    S1NK1LL3R S1NK1LL3R 22-25, M Aug 23

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    He was my gym teacher last year. He was 22 and had just gotten out of university. I met him on the first day back to school and I didn't feel anything or think he was attractive at...
    wildestdreamsxx wildestdreamsxx 13-15, F Aug 22

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    This is one of those stories that seems as I it is make believe. As I am in love with my best friend, whom I have known for nearly ten years now, having met him in the last year of...
    Karmimiyan Karmimiyan 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Yes I've never had a girlfriend it's kind of hard to have one being to shy to around women.
    TheMidNightCrow TheMidNightCrow 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    My Heart Is Breaking...it's horrible being in love with someone you can't be sure exists. I've never told anyone my story because I know my peers would never understand. Ever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 20

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    What's it like, I wonder.
    Nickf20 Nickf20 18-21, M Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I've never been into having sex with perfect strangers. While I don't diss anyone that does... I won't fully understand it. At least until I have sex with more than one person.
    Sophia117 Sophia117 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    and I'm scared and I don't know what to do or how to react or how to feel.
    heyydutchy heyydutchy 18-21, F Aug 18

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    Not even once. I always thought it'd be really awkward the morning after. Like, what if you wanted to get out of bed but they're still there by the morning? It'd be odd I think.
    Radomguy1000 Radomguy1000 22-25, M Aug 18

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