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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

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    I've heard numerous times

    that I'm beautiful. I've heard numerous times that I'm sexy. But that fact that no one has ever been entranced by my personality makes me feel like the ugliest woman in the world.
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response May 17

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    I can't wait for the day I've found the one.

    My guardian angel on earth.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 10, 2014

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    canaan2000 canaan2000 13-15, M Aug 10, 2014

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    Every year for the past ten years

    since I was 16, I have been wishing for love every Christmas. And I haven't gotten it yet. I know that sounds corny and pathetic but it's also true. If I'm capable of loving a man for who he is, I feel like I deserve that type of love back. But I've never gotten it. I just...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    They've liked me but not loved me.

    I don't really let anyone if that makes sense. I usually push guys away if I know they have some kind of feelings because I get really nervous and freak out.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Aug 10, 2014

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    I don't think so... I've had strangers tell me

    I'm attractive but no one has ever told me they have romantic feelings for me. :/
    ElZombie ElZombie 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    I'm worried that I might have too high standards or expectations for who I want to date. I haven't dated anyone yet and I always thought that when I got older I would find someone...
    ellpato ellpato 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Nope. Never had and never will. I never had someone telling me that they have a crush on me and I will never have someone telling me that either. Why should I expect that? I am...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 5 Responses May 7

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    I never had a girlfriend even when some of my friends that are girls have asked me how come I never had a girlfriend because I'm so sweet and a gentleman. I'm starting to believe I...
    ShyKidz ShyKidz 16-17, M 1 Response May 7

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    I see these pictures on the internet. You know the ones. A woman is kneeling on the floor and her face is covered in a guy's love juice. It's everywhere; lips, nose, cheeks, in her...
    FruitSlice FruitSlice 41-45, M May 17

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    Nope. Never had one and never will. you know why? It's cause I'm not into dudes, lulz
    SaiyanCat SaiyanCat 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I seriously never had a bf. I'm scared of getting into an relationship. I know I'm supposed to be focusing on school. It's just when I'm ready I'm ready to be someone else...
    manotham manotham 13-15, F May 2

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    This is true am 23 and I never had a gf more done any thin se*ual
    thebigscottishguy thebigscottishguy 22-25, M May 9

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    Never have. Never wanted to. Never will.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 2 Responses May 13

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    So I've never had a boyfriend and it's starting to bother me. I haven't found the right guy and all guys ever want me for is sex (which surprises me because I don't flirt my body...
    AllyBaby13 AllyBaby13 18-21, F 4 Responses May 19

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    I never had a boyfriend , but who cares ?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses a week ago

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    I never had a boyfriend that gets horny whenever I remove my bra or underwear I find it annoying when it happens everyday but also sexy at the same time. I can get nuded and he can...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I feel rather ashamed and I'm in my 40s. Have had brief romances but it's taken me a long time to open up and get comfortable with people. Not sure how to get started. Anyone...
    graff18 graff18 46-50, M 1 Response May 17

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    So I really like this guy called Wiki (that's his codename) and we've shared a lot of moments. We were in the same group for a project and we flirted a lot and made each other...
    justanothertwelvie00 justanothertwelvie00 13-15, F 2 Responses May 19

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    When I was 8-9, I planned to take my life on my 16th birthday. January 14th. That event was soon coming close and January came and I stayed home from school, I couldn't function. I...
    mightymouse69 mightymouse69 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a secret, which no one knows about...... and no one will, until I find the right person, which will be hard Don't trust anyone
    BloodCravings BloodCravings 13-15, M Apr 30

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    When I was a kid my mother made me sing in the choir at school. She thought it would help break me out of my shell (didn't work). She used to get so mad over the teacher not giving...
    SilverSpiderwebs SilverSpiderwebs 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    And I hope I never will! I believe strongly in no murder! A saying "one kill, devil drill." Lmao worst fail saying ever comment and heart if you support me!!!
    atfenix atfenix 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    and i never will by the way this **** is going
    ineedhelp122 ineedhelp122 18-21, F May 14

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    no one cared for me as a human for my entire life. I was just being used. everyone would put me down because I wasn't like them. my so called friends wanted me to bully innocent...
    yummythedrummer yummythedrummer 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Always got checked and my partners too because i can't use condoms because of skin friction over-reaction...i had only 3 partners and i like to choose wisely a partner before doing...
    herkeed herkeed 31-35, M May 3

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    I never have and never will!!! I'm exstreamly exstreamly cautious about who I am with STDs scare me to death
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    ..and I never will. The day I have sex casually is the day I put a 50c barrel to my temple. Thats not who I am and never will be.
    Socalsunset Socalsunset 22-25, F 26 Responses May 13

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    I've never done anything sexual with someone I wasn't in a committed relationship with, and I don't plan on changing that anytime soon. One night stands just seem dumb and risky.
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    when i tell people this they say really???? well yeah i wouldnt sit here and tell you ive never if i have. "but your're so pretty." *in whiney voice* well boo hoo ive turned them...
    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1

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    I suppose not really. Recently I had gotten into somewhat of a relationship (just friends) and it seemed to be going somewhere, but then she immediately left me without any...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M May 11

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    From my own design of taking precautions with who I've been intimate with. No way do I want to play Russian Roulette with my health. My sister and I would sing this song to remind...
    MzOnceUponAtime MzOnceUponAtime 26-30, F 4 Responses May 13

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    raise your glass if you've never been in a relationship! whoop whoop! well I'd like to one day but its cool for now :)
    sofiahafirda sofiahafirda 16-17, F 1 Response May 19

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    and maybe never will. Seriously, who would want to date an outcast like me?
    reivven reivven 13-15, F 1 Response May 19

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    I think I had 2-3 but I was unaware of them
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    The guys I've met have only wanted to talk to me for sex, never for a real relationship. Or they don't like the fact that I have a daughter. But I still believe that I will find a...
    sandraquetzalli sandraquetzalli 18-21, F 2 Responses