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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    Non That I'm Aware Of

    there might have been one or two, but they soon enough came back to their senses and fell out of love with me!! lol so all in all the sum is 0 :)
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2010

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    From what I understand, you need to have had S in order to get an S T D. :P
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    avatar576 avatar576 26-30, M Mar 23

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    Funny you mention it. I have always been supper safe(not really just lucky). Now in my life I'm supper selective and careful.
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