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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    They've liked me but not loved me.

    I don't really let anyone if that makes sense. I usually push guys away if I know they have some kind of feelings because I get really nervous and freak out.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Aug 10, 2014

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    canaan2000 canaan2000 13-15, M Aug 10, 2014

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    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    I don't think so... I've had strangers tell me

    I'm attractive but no one has ever told me they have romantic feelings for me. :/
    ElZombie ElZombie 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    Every year for the past ten years

    since I was 16, I have been wishing for love every Christmas. And I haven't gotten it yet. I know that sounds corny and pathetic but it's also true. If I'm capable of loving a man for who he is, I feel like I deserve that type of love back. But I've never gotten it. I just...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    I can't wait for the day I've found the one.

    My guardian angel on earth.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 10, 2014

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    I suppose I'm very independent, set in my ways, solitary, whatever you want to call it. I've never had a best friend so it's not hard for me not to stop caring about someone if...
    EccentricalMind EccentricalMind 22-25, F Mar 13

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    is it possible to fall inlove with someone after you had sex? that person is your friend.
    fridaylove fridaylove 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I never had a girlfriend and I'm 15_
    WhateverBruhhh WhateverBruhhh 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I haven't had my first kiss and I'm 14 all of my friends have had there first kiss and not me I feel really jealous of them and I also don't have a boyfriend
    icecreamlove17 icecreamlove17 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not had one but would love to try the experience. Meet someone on a night out and go back for some great meaningless sex. Just two people have a great time and wanting to take the...
    Str8MaleCD Str8MaleCD 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    I have Only been blocked a couple of times for no apparent reason.
    Falcon27 Falcon27 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I'm afraid I won't know what an ****** feels like because of my disability and I'll have an accident during intercourse.
    confusedGirl84 confusedGirl84 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I am not if I can ever do that... Sex without love is not for me... I will always prefer love and intimacy...!
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 11

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    I have had several opportunities, but I am not the person who wants to make the first move. All of my friends have kissed people before. And I'm all like... "I now know how Leo...
    NobodyOfConcern NobodyOfConcern 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    It's true.. But I feel as if I could have one .. Just because I don't get emotionally attached after sex. šŸ˜³ Is that strange?
    bprice0600 bprice0600 18-21, F Mar 1

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    I don't ever want to have a one night stand.
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 4

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    I have two night stands...one for my cellphone and the other one usually holds my magazines
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    enjoy everything u have only one life while having sex use condom be happy simple .,...........
    raviraj242 raviraj242 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    Ahhhhh.... Usually I've been fine with waiting but lately I've been tripping up. I've recently looked into guys even though I know without a doubt I'm not gay or bi, it's just an...
    MrPiccoloPoo MrPiccoloPoo 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    That i know of. As of right now.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    Because I'm a virgin, I think it's a smart choice.
    Nual Nual 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 28

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    Deleted byEP due to content
    canuckrider canuckrider 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Really good post removed for no reason
    mattr1994 mattr1994 18-21, M Mar 2

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    I am looking for advice here because I fell in love with my co-worker. We work together in side by side offices in a sales team. We worked together for over 2 years but only within...
    ziggijaz ziggijaz 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 14

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    I'm 17 and I have never had a first kiss nor have I ever had a boyfriend like I don't understand what's wrong with me cuz every guy I like never likes me back I mean NEVER and I'm...
    babygotback97 babygotback97 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I honestly am in real love with a couple select fictional characters. There's one in particular though, I've cried about the sole fact that he's not real, it makes me feel sick to...
    oeN4 oeN4 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I Am In Love With Twodifferent Men At The Same Time I need advice. I am in love with two different men at the same time. I am almost married but have been carrying on an 'on again...
    Vodkating Vodkating 31-35, F Mar 1

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    I'm in love with my band director. I know it's inappropriate. He's married with kids. I'm one of his favorite students, if not his favorite. I couldn't help it. He thinks I just...
    winmkcanivadfan winmkcanivadfan 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    Starting at the beginningā€¦ First off, just letting you know, I am straight to everyone else on the planet, but I know that I am bisexual. This girl Jackie, she is actually...
    shancostello shancostello 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Life upon the internet for the most part is just for entertainment value. This site has offer me many opportunities to interact with many good people.As a single divorced man I...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Who you fall for isn't entirely up to you. It's up to your heart. I met him when I was 13, I went to visit my gramma in Ecuador from my moms side then we went to visit my aunt her...
    beautifulbud beautifulbud 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I didn't choose to fall for him; he tripped me. He somehow got to me fall in love with him... but I don't mind. One day, I was just minding my own business. I was watching some...
    PKFairytale PKFairytale 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    Dear Shammu , 6 months back , I had no idea who you were and one day you just walked into my life , I didn't think I'd ever fall for you and I did , i fell hopelessly in love with...
    rifki rifki 18-21, M Mar 10

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