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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    They've liked me but not loved me.

    I don't really let anyone if that makes sense. I usually push guys away if I know they have some kind of feelings because I get really nervous and freak out.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F Aug 10

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    I can't wait for the day I've found the one.

    My guardian angel on earth.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 10

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    I don't think so... I've had strangers tell me

    I'm attractive but no one has ever told me they have romantic feelings for me. :/
    ElZombie ElZombie 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    i have never had a friend that was girl let alone girlfriend. i dont have anything to give anyone
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M Aug 25

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    its so weird to me to see guys. like they are aliens lol. i have never had a boyfriend and im afraid it wont happen. all bcus of how i look
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F Aug 28

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    I'm almost 18 and still haven't had my first kiss. Is that normal? Everyone else I know has already done that and sometimes more. Why do they make fun of me for it?
    Coletteisawesome Coletteisawesome 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I think once I finally have a boyfriend I'll be happy. I'll finally have someone I can share life with and make me feel like I have a purpose. I will experience love and romance. I...
    Bitterrsweet Bitterrsweet 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Not anyone in real life, anyway. I once had an account here and shared it, but I got tired of ONLY talking about that, so I got rid of the old account and made a new one. The...
    YuriXWolfram86 YuriXWolfram86 18-21, F a week ago

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    Does That Surprise You??? My secret is that I used to be a cutter and I still do sometimes. The only person that knows is my husband. Most of you know my history and pains from my...
    Blackbarbie27 Blackbarbie27 26-30, F Aug 23

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    I have fantasized about it but know that I never will
    Allbert Allbert 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    Any tips ? I've never been kissed and want to kiss this guy .
    Mattsdragons Mattsdragons 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    That i know of. Some may have given me power. Or credit. But i have yet to kill. In a non comic way.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M a week ago

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    Do Spiders count ? Because i will lay it down on a spider that come within 5 feet of me.
    TeddyOrTeddie TeddyOrTeddie 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I once was in a rather intimate long distance relationship with a Spanish girl. This relationship was fueled by sexual desire for one another, but lacking the ability to act upon...
    AlbertFeynstein AlbertFeynstein 13-15, M Aug 25

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    Ive had plenty boyfriends. But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I'm about to be 23 and have a girlfriend or kiss a girl. Man if i ever have one i would treat like a queen. With the most respect the most support. I do think I'm ready for a...
    tomasalmas6789 tomasalmas6789 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I think girls try to knock you down to test your confidence and resilience. Unfortunately, I have fragile self-confidence and crumble in such situations. I'm afraid that I'll never...
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Because I had two night-stands, and the other one exploded in the middle of the night. People who live with glass tables should not throw stones. Not that I did or anything, but it...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Im turning 20 this november and sadly still havent had a girlfriend. For a long time I felt lonely. How I wisj there was someone I could talk to who also understands me.
    KianZzy KianZzy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    It's funny how this generation shows most criticism Towards the man who holds a plan to rise above his egoism. They say to be a player just to simply catch a feel. I say that...
    OdeSlinger OdeSlinger 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    This past year has been a huge step for me. I went on dates for the first time in my life, and I learned how to open up and be more social. This year I had the chance to start 2...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I think you are all worried about nothing! Your kiss doesn't need to be a big special moment or with "the one" because if you're 14 or 15 years old, you aren't gonna be with this...
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F Sep 4

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    I wanna have a one night stand so badly. I think I would enjoy it cause I would get to have sex with a hot as chick hopefully
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    I'm sick of being single. I get really lonely and just need someone I can protect to do fun stuff with
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    no, i haven't.. not looking for one either. :p
    confushin confushin 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The statistics are alarmingly frightful, how many ppl out there actually do have stds that are permanent and Incurable, if it weren't for diseases, I would be much more liberal...
    Lthayer2011 Lthayer2011 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's true, and I don't want to either. :o
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Aug 21

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    I believe thats hell no exceptions . My "person" is in the army and I totally support him but I don't believe in murder.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F a week ago

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    sometimes i would like to feel how it feels like. does it feel good?
    yoshiyang yoshiyang 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    We are the elite part of humanity!
    LIZard0121 LIZard0121 16-17, F Aug 17

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    Nope and don't plan on getting one either
    imshy1234 imshy1234 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    Feel like I'm missing out, not sure though...
    lifesExploration lifesExploration 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I hope I will forever be STD free :)
    Confusedami7 Confusedami7 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 6

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    Been reading up on Herpes. That is a ****** up virus.
    akki123456789 akki123456789 22-25 1 Response Sep 6

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    Twig 'n berries are pristine, minus a little stubble. Time to call Aunt Mona again!
    biggunsatx biggunsatx 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So I'm 20 years old.. Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    So I'm 20 years old.. Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Basically:- He's always with me, hasn't spoken to any other girls for a year since I've known him, helps me when I need help and we have a strong bond, talk for hours...- Anyway I...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I have never been in a relationship with anyone. Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I...
    Steffi627 Steffi627 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 22

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