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I Have Never Had Anyone Fall In Love With Me

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    I Have Had Someone In Love With Me

    but it has been over 10 years since that happened.  I don't think it can happen anymore.  Am I just not loveable?  Am I too intese?  Not pretty enough?  Not something men want these days?  It gets me down sometimes, but I know that everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    Im very insecure too,

    i think it gets in the way of lots of things and i hate being insecure but i can't help it. I think I'm insecure because of various reasons but the main one would probably be about how I've never had a boy treat me well, I've never had love, i crave that. It may seem stupid to...
    tatisthoughts tatisthoughts 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I can't wait for the day I've found the one.

    My guardian angel on earth.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F Aug 10, 2014

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    Maybe

    People love me, but they haven't fallen 'in love' with me... Not that I'm aware of. =/ But I would love to know if anyone did fall in love with me...though I highly doubt it. >.< I've been told "I love you!" many times. Always as a friend. For once I wish it was "I'm IN love...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    I've heard numerous times

    that I'm beautiful. I've heard numerous times that I'm sexy. But that fact that no one has ever been entranced by my personality makes me feel like the ugliest woman in the world.
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response May 17, 2015

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    Am I A Bad Person?

    I don't really care if I'm a bad person or not, but I guess that would explain why I've never had anyone love me. I mean, all I've ever wanted was someone to be romantically involved with but I've never even come close. Whenever I see couples who are especially happy together, I...
    grimspecter grimspecter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2012

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    Every year for the past ten years

    since I was 16, I have been wishing for love every Christmas. And I haven't gotten it yet. I know that sounds corny and pathetic but it's also true. If I'm capable of loving a man for who he is, I feel like I deserve that type of love back. But I've never gotten it. I just...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2, 2015

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    Maybe, Don't Know

    If that has ever happened, it will simply be a mystery. I have never fallen in love, always turn away afriad and still long to be in love. I am trying to overcome this with therapy and reading books authored by therapists. Although I have been able to relate to much of what is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Sep 16, 2012

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    I know that God created someone

    who was meant just for me. He created someone who would handle my changing moods, anti social personality, and overall weirdness. But I cant help but wonder if I was meant to be alone. I'm not the most outgoing person to be around. And I have ZERO experience in the romance...
    everlastingjoy770 everlastingjoy770 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I don't think so... I've had strangers tell me

    I'm attractive but no one has ever told me they have romantic feelings for me. :/
    ElZombie ElZombie 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2014

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    Never Fallen In Love Yet

    As the title says, I've never fallen in love in my whole life. Well, my ''whole'' life... I'm just 16, but still. All of my friends are having a girlfriend or they've had one, or more. Everywhere I look around, I see love. Of course there are people who are less fortunate than...
    Henkspank Henkspank 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 25, 2010

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    I Thought Maybe Once.........

              I've had those words said to me by one guy. I thought he meant it, but I now know he didn't. He felt sorry for me. I was an easy lay & he could do pretty much anything he wanted, I never said "Boo". I cleaned his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2009

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    They've liked me but not loved me.

    I don't really let anyone if that makes sense. I usually push guys away if I know they have some kind of feelings because I get really nervous and freak out.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Aug 10, 2014

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    Loving Is Different To Falling In Love...

    Three people in my life so far, have loved me enough to form an intimate bond. We were a couple, if you will. They told me that they: Loved Adored Needed Wanted Ached For Wanted To (euphemism for have sex with) Would Protect Me. None of them are my lovers today...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    canaan2000 canaan2000 13-15, M Aug 10, 2014

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    I mean, I have. But I think It's not a relationship. it took only about a month or less. And it's on and off kind of commitment. No proper yes' and no's, thank you's and goodbye's...
    cjg1289 cjg1289 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    Okay, so sophomore year, the year I started to come out of my shell. It was really a great year. I met all the new people I was supposed to meet my freshman year (They always say...
    HPlover394 HPlover394 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Depression keeps writing me a valentine written in Blood.
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    Is that normal I don't think it normal hummm
    alexxxa123 alexxxa123 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    not saying i never will because forever is a long time and there's still lots of arse holes I'm yet to meet !!!!!!!!! ??
    chris7379 chris7379 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I believe in total faithfulness to my wife. Also I don't think one night stands are emotionally healthy (and often physically unhealthy if not downright dangerous). Actually, I've...
    bookishlutheran bookishlutheran 56-60, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have never been in love, and I've always been scared of the idea. I've dated couple of guys and I had control over my emotions. I just needed a companion so as to never be alone...
    noorseen1 noorseen1 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not yet but might be my bf one day, he's a living human troll
    apperentlyicanthavemynameagain apperentlyicanthavemynameagain 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    It is actually depressing for me since I will be most likely be alone. I will try to stay at hom but if I have to go to work and I will see couples on the road or at work, I will...
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I don't really mind that I've never had a girlfriend. It just means there's someone out there i need to search for. I love a treasure hunt.
    Foot94 Foot94 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm in love with him,we've been go through this hard time for the past two years,i love him more than I've ever loved a man.he's special he loved his wife,but he loves me too.we...
    Sallina71 Sallina71 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    First post! Here goes... I fell in love with him the moment I met him. I knew it deep down, but couldn't bring myself to go for him. He is dangerous. Charming. Handsome. We are...
    MiniMeA MiniMeA 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Almost 30 and no girlfriend 29, in 2 months will turn 30, single, no real girlfriend. I don't socialized much as I used to and sometimes feel lonely. 12 years after I finish high...
    taiho110 taiho110 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Talk to me baby Tell me what you're feeling You say you don't need to go Don't you pretend you didn't know How all of this would end up Girl I saw it in your eyes And baby I can...
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to fall in love with someone who is equally yoked
    Aprildawnmarie Aprildawnmarie 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    So the first thing I thought of when I read this experience..... Well, DUH. Why would I want to fall in love with someone who doesn't love me? Unrequited love is one of the most...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Everyone has their own definitive principles for what they consider a true emotion, a philosophical concept, or a an aspiration. When it comes to the idea of falling love, I've...
    Lentocrates778 Lentocrates778 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ohhhhhhh damn I'm in a worst situation someone could ever be!!!!! Nope I don't fall in love with someone.... Someone else fall in love with me!!!! Ok I was chatting with one of...
    arshiazare arshiazare 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    100 reasons why I love my boyfriend! These are 100 reasons why I love you, you mean everything to me and I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to have you baby, I want to...
    aimeethompson233344 aimeethompson233344 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Yet again. I haven't been on this site in years. When I look back on it my stories were so.... ugh. But here I am again and yet again, I have a thing for one of my best friends...
    mayabutterfly mayabutterfly 16-17, F Jan 28

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    When I met her I knew I could never meet her in the real world. I had no idea I would fall in love with her but I did. So does it matter that I will never get to see her or hold...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jan 27

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    Okay... So I still have the biggest crush on my teacher. It's awful. Being in class with him gives me so much anxiety like my heart literally pounds to the point where I feel like...
    dance44 dance44 70+, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    The guy I want to talk to doesn't want to talk to me. The guy I don't want to talk to wants to talk to me. This is why I've never had a relationship. This always happens to me. I...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    She fell in love with his courage, his sincerity and his flaming self respect. She loves him the way she loves the ocean, with pride and fear. She fell in love with how he...
    MissQueenB MissQueenB 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    I am 15 from India.All my school friends have girlfriends except me.But I am good looking than most of them. I feel so sad of it.if there is some girl on here facing a similar...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 23

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    I worked at a prison until yesterday. I had to resign. I was writing and talking to one of the inmates. I have fallen head over heals in love with him. I am so worried about him...
    speshulk speshulk 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I am absolutely in love with my best friend. She is this amazing and beautiful woman who is so strong and smart. She makes me feel like I could conquer the world but if I didn't...
    toastymarshmallow toastymarshmallow 31-35 1 Response Jan 22