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I Have No Children of My Own

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    It Makes Me Sad

    I have 2 stepchildren and no children of my own and I am often sad about it, and I really try to not think about it too hard since I might cry...but I just go, yeah, one day it will happen, eventually...and then this will go away. Because this has become a real problem for me...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Don't Want Either

    I am sorry for those who want and can't have. I don't want the responsibility at all. My husband and I want to have our fun to much. We love our little goodies. He is always in front of the computer and I am usually playing a game. Plus once you have them you have to give all...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    We Never Could

    we were married very young and i think the biggest reason it was allowed as we were livie with each other any way and we could never have kids i had cancer as a child and she had other issues but it never stopped us from loving eachother and spoiling the kids our friends had ill...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 19, 2011

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    3 Step Children..

    I am 30 years old and happily married.  I married a man who had 3 children (all boys) from a prior marriage.    I always knew I would never expierence motherhood, never have any children of my own.  I didn't know how or why I felt this way but I did. ...
    furfur furfur 26-30 Jan 16, 2009

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    I have six amazing children, 3 boys and 3 girls. *Elise, age 17 *Aster, age 13 *Iris, age 12 *Heather, age 9 *Connor, age 9 (Twins w/ Heather) *Casey, age 6 Elise, a senior...
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    This is not a regret, it's something I've known would happen. Parents thankfully divorced at age 4. My dad had weekend custody and is a great dad. Still, I saw how hard being a...
    MissASC77 MissASC77 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Owning my own cafe would be awesome, id genrally use high end food to make a awesome fry up, not like what what many cafes severe up now, I would allso openingon a sunday and...
    roastlamb roastlamb 31-35, M Jan 30

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    I often see these vulnerable young kids wondering around and smoking at the weekend nights in the city where I live. Quite young and probably in their early or mid teens. I wonder...
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M Feb 8

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    I am sooo ready to have a baby! I would LOVE to share that with someone who is 100% ready like I am. If I meet someone now, I won't hold back at all. No preventing it.
    infinity2014 infinity2014 31-35, M Feb 16

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    I've tried for about 2 years. I have some months where I think maybe we have a baby and then it turns out no we don't. It gets hard after everyone around seems to have kids after...
    CrystalDMB CrystalDMB 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    When we sing our life like a lullaby, luv will come to us on its own... but remember... luv is just one side of the coin... with love comez...suffering.....! So its like u want sun...
    celestialsoul celestialsoul 36-40, F Feb 9

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    I quit a lucrative corporate executive position to start my own consulting business last summer. Although I am doing OK, I am not where I thought I'd be, and I am still searching...
    KeithAtLarge KeithAtLarge 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    "The gods had given me almost everything. But I let myself be lured into long spells of senseless and sensual ease. I amused myself with being a flaneur, a dandy, a man of...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 6 days ago

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    my own theme song would have to be by rhyme asylum "holding on" very powerful song
    JustBeYourSelff JustBeYourSelff 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    www.smj12.com I am a freelance writer. I provide content for a lot of websites, along with various gigs I can find through craigslist. I have made a lot of progress in just 4...
    stephenmj12 stephenmj12 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I guess just my own set of beliefs. I can explain them. My Religious beliefs: (You don't have to agree with any of them. I won't bash you for your religious beliefs as long as...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    so do I but did anyone realize how insignificant it is to own a website this decade onwards?
    cross2play cross2play 31-35 1 Response 4 days ago

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    as a cross dresser I don't share anything with my room mates - due to horrific issues only when I move to new apartment if I feel I need to go back I will but haven't just moved on...
    cross2play cross2play 31-35 Jan 28

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    I don't have many rules for myself. The ones I know I have and must keep is... 1) Don't make promises. Can't break something that was never made. 2) Do not physically hurt someone...
    Skuggington Skuggington 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I joined "the site" Awhile ago. I would be interested in meeting Other (females) Who find the site Enjoyable as well, and perhaps Have a profile on it ??
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 Feb 8

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    Haha I wish I could! Even if I can't, I do feel mature enough, physically, emotionally and romantically to be the mother of a man's child. I want to feel that pure innocent love...
    xxxSissyGabriellaxxx xxxSissyGabriellaxxx 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 28

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    There isn't a maternal bone in my body,I don't want marriage(NO illegitimates for this sister!),and the very thought of taking time and energy away from my academics/career...
    Joha0505 Joha0505 18-21, F Jan 29

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    If there are any women in the Sacramento area who would like to get pregnant, please let me know and I will help. :)
    ElkGroveGuy ElkGroveGuy 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    Left it too late :( Need a fecund intelligent woman ...
    smoulder smoulder 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ready to share this experience with someone
    RunningMichigan10 RunningMichigan10 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I seem to recall.... I am meant to serve drinks... Since am kinda clumsy... I come with an early warning *wine stains ahead*
    warriormama warriormama 41-45, F Feb 17

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    http://youtu.be/8PMqIw6bahM lol :)
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Not much anymore. I'm just waiting for Ragnarok.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Are you listening? By area 11 because I feel ignored and used and no one really notices that I am who I am and not defined by the people I am friends with (we are all we are by...
    bradymossy1 bradymossy1 18-21 5 days ago

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    The pretender by the foo fighters
    londepV londepV 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    the king is dead but the queen is alive by pink
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    Every night at sundown the voices come out to play, but they disappear every morning like clock work.
    SunshineAnderson13 SunshineAnderson13 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Make Yourself by Incubus. Makes me feel like a badass lady.
    mradaroni mradaroni 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    What if by Plain White T's. Describes me perfectly
    GuadaS GuadaS 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Teenage Frankenstein, by Alice Cooper I ain't one of the crowd, I ain't one of the guys They just avoid me, they run and they hide Are my colors too bright, are my eyes set too...
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 1 day ago

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    **stupid rant incoming** Every day, I start to think more and more about how stupid and ignorant my grandfather is. He picks the most STUPID fights with me, and never believes...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Wrote this as a sample for when I was teaching my students about memoir :) I still have the photograph of what looked like the most perfect day. I'm sitting on the dock with my...
    Classangel00A Classangel00A 31-35, F Feb 18

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    I'm 18 and have PCOS! I found out at the age of 14 that there was a 99.5% chance I would never be able to have children! That was the most hurtful words I had heard. It hurts...
    topsy96 topsy96 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    I know that I have not discussed it here but I am now in a loving relationship with an older man. I still have my own apartment but I stay over at his house more often than not...
    teresasimpson teresasimpson 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I have always wanted a baby since I was about 6 I would always ask my mom if we could get a baby and the want for one has only gotten stronger since then and that's 13 years ago...
    skie800 skie800 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have a large family. My mom only 35 has had 11 children. I'm the second oldest and only 15. The rest are Brothers: 16, 13 , 13, 12, 10, 7, 3 Sisters: 15 (me) , 11, 9, 8 When...
    Jillian252 Jillian252 13-15, F Feb 16

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    I am almost 32 years old, unemployed for 6 month as I returned to my home country and again living with my parents, actually me and my husband both are living with my parents. My...
    bubucis bubucis 31-35, F Feb 17

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    anyone in the UK age 19-25 wanting a relationship and children my strongest desire is to have children but I find it so hard to socialize :(.
    Rachel1001 Rachel1001 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 8