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I Have No Children of My Own

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 46 People

    Don't Want Either

    I am sorry for those who want and can't have. I don't want the responsibility at all. My husband and I want to have our fun to much. We love our little goodies. He is always in front of the computer and I am usually playing a game. Plus once you have them you have to give all...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F Nov 30, 2012

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    3 Step Children..

    I am 30 years old and happily married.  I married a man who had 3 children (all boys) from a prior marriage.    I always knew I would never expierence motherhood, never have any children of my own.  I didn't know how or why I felt this way but I did. ...
    furfur furfur 26-30 Jan 16, 2009

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    We Never Could

    we were married very young and i think the biggest reason it was allowed as we were livie with each other any way and we could never have kids i had cancer as a child and she had other issues but it never stopped us from loving eachother and spoiling the kids our friends had ill...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 19, 2011

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    It Makes Me Sad

    I have 2 stepchildren and no children of my own and I am often sad about it, and I really try to not think about it too hard since I might cry...but I just go, yeah, one day it will happen, eventually...and then this will go away. Because this has become a real problem for me...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    This is a true story of what happened to Greg Zaffuto. I have just experienced much the same and do not want this to happen to you, so I am sharing the following. I apologize for...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 2 days ago

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    I do too. I had two girls and I spanked them both, neither of us liked it at the time but they have both told me they are happy for the way they were raised. They are both good...
    silverwings2012 silverwings2012 61-65, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    More Grandmother's Childhood This is a sequel to the first story I told about my grandmother's childhood. Here, I thought I would tell some stories about specific incidents where...
    julietx julietx 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    i guess that some people really are stupider than i thought. i can't count the number of different places it says in my profile that i am owned. i even state the fact during...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    If they deserve it. It clears the air and lets everyone know who is in charge. Children need boundaries and limits for their own peace of mind.
    GorgeousGeorgina GorgeousGeorgina 56-60, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    My man boobs have their own fat rolls now!
    fattyfatt8 fattyfatt8 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hey everyone. I'm new to this group. Hoping to get a little support and more insight about having narcissistic parents. I grew up in a big family (6 siblings, mom and dad) it's...
    PainfullyAvoidant PainfullyAvoidant 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    We both Hurt each other in different ways. Very bad... I feel responsible for everything, but I know everyone is responsible for their own decisions, including what we put in our...
    Starkizzed21 Starkizzed21 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I'm not yet a parent, but I think a good spanking now and then has its place. I don't dismiss out of hand the studies that discourage spanking, though, nor do I assume that these...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I apologies for being who I am, with my flaws and my moody ways, with my past and my scars. I am sorry to not always be good enough and forgetting to ask how you are. I am sorry to...
    ChantouKimmy ChantouKimmy 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I could never say that "I don't judge"... Even in the presence of a perfect God or in the face of the poorest of souls. Truth is, without judgement... Why try your best? From...
    Maricopa Maricopa 18-21 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I never want to have children. For some people it seems like an impossible concept that a female does not to mother children. It is an individual choice, some women want to have...
    moonlightflower moonlightflower 22-25, F a week ago

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    Stage 4 since 2014. Dxd in 2012 with stage 2-3. I've done a year and a half of Lupron, a year of Progesterone, 1 D&C, two laps, two hysteroscopys, 1 cystoscopy, a $400,000 DaVinci...
    apresm0i apresm0i 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    When do I speak my truth? Or haven't I all these years? I'm going to be 42 years old. I have not spoken to my mother in 5 months and my father - about 4 (I went from low contact...
    thegirlwithnomom thegirlwithnomom 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    i am not in a HUGE rush to have children but i would LOVE a kid or 2. i am looking forward to it but even if i don't have any children i would be okay with that. These things...
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 30

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    Today, my family and I mourn the list of a very special lady, my most amazing aunt, she and my Uncle had 17 children lost count how many grand kids, and great grand youngons, they...
    AngeleyesUponU AngeleyesUponU 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 29

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    I don't want children nor do I have children and it's staying that way. First when becoming intimate with my husband when get the mood all of the sudden kids come in no thank you...
    Cynthia1976 Cynthia1976 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I'm 34 now. in my 20s I thought I wanna get married quickly & have children but the older I get the more scarier I become from commitment & marriage responsibility. recently I met...
    rashahan rashahan 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Me and my dad use to be really close, but he has changed the older he has gotten. He's having affairs, gambling all the time and is very antisocial. When my mom finally decided to...
    kewlchicc kewlchicc 36-40, F Jan 28

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    I just happen to have my own font, that's all. :)
    QueenVen QueenVen 16-17, F Jan 25

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    Never have had a crush on a coworker, so this is my first. It happened over time. I didn't realize until a couple of months ago but looking back it's been about 8 months since it...
    crushlime crushlime 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I would do all my own baking and I would have a section for those who are diabetic. i would have coffee and smoothies. I would make homemade soups and sandwiches. I would let the...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Let's be honest. Unplanned pregnancies are happening every millisecond. Unfortunately, many kids are kept by parents who are unfit financially and/or emotionally because of the...
    yesnoyesyes yesnoyesyes 22-25, F Jan 24

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    maybe i'm a bit too young or unexperienced to post such a question, but why do people want so badly to have their own kids? I mean, their biological kids. there are plenty of...
    WitheredMind WitheredMind 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 23

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    maybe i'm a bit too young or unexperienced to post such a question, but why do people want so badly to have their own kids? I mean, their biological kids. there are plenty of...
    WitheredMind WitheredMind 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    When I was a young girl growing up I always dreamed of marrying a cowbow and owning a ranch with horses and cows and all the aimals involved in having a ranch . It was my passion...
    keenalialau keenalialau 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    single daddy living alone with just my son and I, looking for a sexy younger female interested in moving in and making a baby. no Bs. im in los Angeles willing to relocate you if...
    NikSin NikSin 36-40, M Jan 22

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    I'm 21 and this horrendous problem has robbed me of so much in my life. I think I was shy ever since I was a child but I read young children are supposed to grow out of it. I think...
    Jason947 Jason947 18-21, M Jan 22

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    Car accident comes back to haunt me. What do you think of this situation? So back in June, I let two buddies of mine borrow my car while I was duty. They call me later and say they...
    Vietnamlee94 Vietnamlee94 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    This should say "I no longer have PCOS". After 15-17yrs (dx in 2000-2001) of dealing with symptoms that changed my looks, my spirit, and left me unable to have children. All my...
    Nix820 Nix820 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Going to work today I notice just how unfit today's children are, as parents were pulling their children along on balance bikes and other parents was pulling their children along...
    Tin1964 Tin1964 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    He was beating me as child and my mom stopped me for visiting him from when I was 4. But she wanted me to get to know my dad, so she arrange to meet tougher with supervisor every...
    realcomplicated realcomplicated 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    This title is a bit misleading but the closest tittle .. So a more appropriate titIe would be I'm scared of having children.. (Side note : I would be open to having children when...
    littlesailor littlesailor 18-21, M Jan 18

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    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 21 Responses Jan 18

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    Yes, I have two associate degrees in the computer field. Even though I never found the job that I was looking for. I plan to use my college technical skills for my business...
    CaliTexan37 CaliTexan37 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 17

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