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I Have No Children of My Own

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    Don't Want Either

    I am sorry for those who want and can't have. I don't want the responsibility at all. My husband and I want to have our fun to much. We love our little goodies. He is always in front of the computer and I am usually playing a game. Plus once you have them you have to give all...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    3 Step Children..

    I am 30 years old and happily married.  I married a man who had 3 children (all boys) from a prior marriage.    I always knew I would never expierence motherhood, never have any children of my own.  I didn't know how or why I felt this way but I did. ...
    furfur furfur 26-30 Jan 16, 2009

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    It Makes Me Sad

    I have 2 stepchildren and no children of my own and I am often sad about it, and I really try to not think about it too hard since I might cry...but I just go, yeah, one day it will happen, eventually...and then this will go away. Because this has become a real problem for me...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I read here in this experience about people who don't want to have children because being a parent isn't for them or it's just how they feel about the matter, which is fine...
    charlie4edwards charlie4edwards 16-17, F Apr 9

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    This is something I think about every now and then. I have PCOS which doesn't make it impossible to have children but in some women it can cause infertility. So I have adjusted to...
    hayleyRebeccaE hayleyRebeccaE 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    hey when i was 15 i got told i couldn't have children my boyfriend at the time was so supportive so understanding and in doing so it put me off the physical side of a relationship...
    dreams15 dreams15 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    For a long time now it seems that I cannot have children. I try to not think about it much and just avoid the topic. I even stay away from family movies or anything to do with...
    polo03 polo03 31-35, F Apr 5

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    I believe in what I believe. I have to actually see it to believe it. I'm totally supportive of people who have their own religions and beliefs but DO NOT push your religion on...
    Mandy94 Mandy94 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Beliefs/Religions Sorry if this seems sarcastic because I am. I think we all have the rights to believe in anything we want. I always try to accept the fact that people have...
    Chirogymnast Chirogymnast 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    My children are missing. When I was 19 years old, I got pregnant by a college boyfriend. The man - Toby was his name - left me as soon as I found out. Eight and a half months...
    DoYouBelieveWeAreInfinite DoYouBelieveWeAreInfinite 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I have always wanted to marry a beautiful woman and have 3 to 8 children. I know it's a lot, but I ADORE kids!
    Pancake17 Pancake17 13-15, M Mar 28

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    I have two daughters, 9 and 11.
    ESEddy ESEddy 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Imperfect Life I'm not quite sure what I'm going to write though.. >< here goes.. At some point we're all the same; we're humans. We are imperfect. We all have our faults...
    Chirogymnast Chirogymnast 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    This one is not my own view but it's what I agree to. It's what Pascal's Wager says...Basically, it goes like this:1) If I believe in God and God does not exist, I lose nothing. I...
    Chirogymnast Chirogymnast 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I was thinking about religion... I forgot what it is called when you believe that there is a possibility that god exists but you haven't seen enough to believe
    Crazycheese15 Crazycheese15 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I DON'T: SKYPE GIVE OUT ANYTHING BUT TWITTER GIVE OUT INDECENT IMAGES FACETIME BE OVERLY DIRTY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE WANT TO 'GET IT ON' ASK ME I BLOCK YOU UNLESS I'VE...
    shadowgem shadowgem 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Him - There is this one man who keeps tormenting me in my nightmares to the point that I can't even think of him the same way in real life without having flashbacks of those...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am a ***** donor to a pair of lesbians. I was asked while out shopping with my kids one day and I thought why not. So I asked that I not be apart of the child's life no matter...
    threshold75 threshold75 36-40, M Mar 19

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    Boy - Ashton Gwyn Howard Elger-Grogan Eastwick-Field Girl - Honour Phyllis Elizabeth Joslin prior Eastwick-Field
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    then DONT?! as simple as that :)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F Apr 9

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    i dress very differently from most people. i love changing up my outfits and wearing thinga that help me express myself!! i like to wear jean overall dresses with cute little...
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F Apr 6

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    It seems very hard for SOME people to differentiate between family and family. I have said numerous times that im sad because I want my own family and I feel alone and incomplete...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I think people should have children when they're ready. Only they know when that is. It's not really about whether the child is planned or not. I'm always thinking about how the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Since I was young, I have never wanted to have children. I feel like females are expected to follow the footsteps; grow up, go to university, get married, have children and then...
    MellifluousMilkshake MellifluousMilkshake 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I am 26 years old, happily married, and have no children. As far back as I can remember, I've never been in any hurry to have children. It's just never been a desire in me, as...
    AbbeyRoad2 AbbeyRoad2 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I used to want to have a baby when I was younger (well,in the future,of course),but realized some of my reasons for wanting one weren't so good.I've done a lot of changing and now...
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Glad to find this group. I hate children , I can not see, hear or anything that has to do with children. I'm sick of people asking me to have children. Not because I'm married mean...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love kids so much. I honestly can't wait to have children of my own :)
    HeyItsMirandaa HeyItsMirandaa 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I sometimes wish I had never had children too. I started out relatively early. I was 20 when I had my daughter and 24 when I had my son. My daughters father was abusive in every...
    BBMS BBMS 41-45, F Mar 30

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I really can't wait to have children. But I know I am not ready yet and also want to be happily married before. I want to give them a great childhood and teach them so many things...
    TheDarkOak TheDarkOak 18-21, M Mar 30

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and I am completely in love with him. He' my best friend and the love of my life. I can't imagine life without him. He...
    lithium123 lithium123 22-25 6 Responses Mar 30

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    my mom recently told me that I need to stop seeing my psy before summer vacation starts, " I need to work on my depression alone " although depression is not the only thing I'm...
    thelostgirl25 thelostgirl25 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    We think we know right from wrong but we don't. We have our laws and our regulations and our expectations, social or otherwise and they change all the time. Laws are added and...
    T4RD15 T4RD15 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    OK... so I really don't know what is wrong with me. I get these urges to have my own babies and it completely consumes my thoughts. I spend so much time just thinking about it...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 28

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    I miss having my own room. I cannot stand having three other minds in one place. If only I had more money, I would have my own room next year. Maybe? I just might get it, if I get...
    87athleteunknown 87athleteunknown 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I guess I am lucky and it could be worse. Technically, I am awaiting the official report back from the biopsy but my last round of blood work was positive for autoimmune. My liver...
    Dawn0421 Dawn0421 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Reading these stories lets me know I'm not alone. When I met my fiancé he was just getting out of a seven year relationship I thought it was odd that she moved out with 2 kids in...
    Walkedinblind Walkedinblind 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    These past 5 months have been a very emotional roller coaster as I've spoken to someone everyday, through xbox. We then proceeded to using viber, which wasn't working to well, so I...
    LaParee LaParee 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I am 17 and I have 2 etsy shops Ive made around 25 sales.. I opened around dec And all my friends just sit on the computer. On facebook. Instagram doing nothing with there lifes. I...
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    If you're reading this, let me tell you... You're an amazing person, and a child of God! Why do you'll need to put yourselves down? It's not worth anything... In fact it just makes...
    sagittariansunderathena sagittariansunderathena 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    I am 32 years of age, my brother is 37. After our father passed away when I was 10 and my brother was 15, he helped raise me. I may of picked up a few bad habits but I know deep...
    MyShaddow MyShaddow 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    Give love with all of your heart Never assumed no expectations You have your own rule You have a voice to say yes or no If your happy go..... If not leave.... If had a vacant share...
    mjmjharu mjmjharu 26-30, F Mar 19

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    Love should just exists, minus the ego plays and attachment. I know some people will think one person should just love one person only. It's not true. We can love more than one...
    SolitarySol SolitarySol 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Like all others we all have our own dark side. Some worse then others. Some can be easily directed to do harmful things to themselves. Some minds are set on thinking that they are...
    esarosa esarosa 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Just this weekend my life fell a part. Before I left to work I kissed my husband good bye, did not know it was the last one. He said was going to an event for "work". He was all...
    hazel4 hazel4 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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