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I Have No Children of My Own

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    We Never Could

    we were married very young and i think the biggest reason it was allowed as we were livie with each other any way and we could never have kids i had cancer as a child and she had other issues but it never stopped us from loving eachother and spoiling the kids our friends had ill...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 19, 2011

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    3 Step Children..

    I am 30 years old and happily married.  I married a man who had 3 children (all boys) from a prior marriage.    I always knew I would never expierence motherhood, never have any children of my own.  I didn't know how or why I felt this way but I did. ...
    furfur furfur 26-30 Jan 16, 2009

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    It Makes Me Sad

    I have 2 stepchildren and no children of my own and I am often sad about it, and I really try to not think about it too hard since I might cry...but I just go, yeah, one day it will happen, eventually...and then this will go away. Because this has become a real problem for me...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Me Tooo

    I to am married to a woman with three children none of witch is mine but I do what I can to make sure they are happy, and I would like it to be known that we are happily married even if the children is another mans oh and by the way they have different daddy's and we are more...
    frank1A frank1A 41-45, M May 18, 2010

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    Don't Want Either

    I am sorry for those who want and can't have. I don't want the responsibility at all. My husband and I want to have our fun to much. We love our little goodies. He is always in front of the computer and I am usually playing a game. Plus once you have them you have to give all...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    I realize that If i'm going to accomplish, those accomplishments won't mean much unless I have children that are going to bear that legacy. So that's why i want kids eventually. I...
    indosavior indosavior 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    When I was young, I wanted to have kids without really thinking about it. I thought it was a part of growing up. You get a job, a girl, a house and kids. The road to happiness...
    HermitKatWan HermitKatWan 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    Infinite Passion Real Beauty True Solace Internal Youth Timeless Wisdom Ultimate Life Purposes Ah as life it is full with curiosity, thus i have my own infinite curiosity...
    NonchalantEros NonchalantEros 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I have my own business and I need a serious business partner, to expand my business.
    WalkingOnTheMilkyWay WalkingOnTheMilkyWay 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    My bf is ready, and I mean I'm kinda ready. I have my college degree, he is close to his. But.. Idk i just want to do it proper. Give my children a good role model and something to...
    krazykaylove krazykaylove 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    I've wanted to have a baby for about 3 years now but I knew it wouldn't be good if I got pregnant before I finished school. I'm done with school now so I'm ready for the next...
    KacyB98 KacyB98 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    I suppose it'd be natural to want kids, but I actually hate the thought of having to care for something that helpless. And by the time it gets older, there's a risk we wouldn't...
    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M Aug 24

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    Why have kids if you can't nurture and protect them?! Um hello they're a part of you. You have to take care of your mini me. IF you don't, they'll be traumatized. I won't have kids...
    youknowwhothefuckiam youknowwhothefuckiam 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 4

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    ************* need to grow the **** up first before raising their child how to mature. I hate when parents complain about the things they're missing out in life when they have a...
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I feel like it makes fully functioning people into gooey voiced zombies. My sister used to be rational and intelligent before having a kid. Now that she has one, it's all gooey...
    tinywoman tinywoman 18-21 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I have 3 kids already one is bio mine I want one more me & my g.f are waiting lol for the "one" mr perfect ***** lmao
    tightblunt tightblunt 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    i'm at the time in my life where i wanna find a guy, be in love and have kids. being pregnant is a fantasy of mine i wished it be true
    deedeebear deedeebear 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Me and some friends have been fighting and the club is starting to grow. Essentially the rules are the same as the movie, its pretty brutal, there isn't any winning or losing, its...
    TheRealDeal14 TheRealDeal14 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I think our minds have gone back to the Middle Ages, in a way of speaking... Our world has gone mad and regressed in terms of human potential. The mainstream media, drugs...
    loveVictorandDumas loveVictorandDumas 16-17, F Sep 2

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    I haven't take any heart medicine for years
    DarianB DarianB 18-21, F Sep 8

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    haha okay this sounds really dumb "theories about everything" but I do this a lot. I believe that everything has to have a reason. it really bothers me how we don't know so much...
    julianbeyonce julianbeyonce 13-15, M Sep 10

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    so in my family, we are cursed with only boys so i made a list of just boy names that i like. Bailey Alexander Avery Carlisle Gerard Michael Raymond Antonio Tobias Perry Devon...
    piercethemack piercethemack 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    And wanna keep it that way but I truly respect those that do, just not for me ;)) XX
    38NHotStill 38NHotStill 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Yes. I'm 27 and I fall in this category
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I think I might be pregnant at last!!
    littlelisauk littlelisauk 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 6

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    Having a child is a lifetime commitment. Birth control is available for free or very low cost. If you're not ready to raise a kid and be available to them for at least the next 2...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Well, I guess that just about confirms it :))
    littlelisauk littlelisauk 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    My style is unique, I can't really describe it, definitely not hipster,or preppy. I don't dress in the same outfit everyday. It's about a little bit of everything. I wear stuff...
    countrygirlISTaylor countrygirlISTaylor 16-17, F Aug 20

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    My idea of a perfect relationship: A guy that will tell me I'm beautiful and respect me, Someone who will kiss me.. Tease me Someone who will randomly start playing with me...
    youngdesirexoxo youngdesirexoxo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    It's just a little personal blog kind of thing Stephenjordanwrites.com
    stephenmj12 stephenmj12 22-25, M Aug 31

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    If you've ever faked it in bed, you're definitely not alone..
    longnblack longnblack 26-30, M Sep 3

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    Don't get me wrong, I don't consider myself to be anywhere near a sexual God our anything, but this girl sure made me feel that way.
    longnblack longnblack 26-30, M Sep 3

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    I'm starting to realize like flip flop might be the best shoes in the world..
    longnblack longnblack 26-30, M Sep 3

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    I swear they be tryin to trap me I always attract that kind...
    longnblack longnblack 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    you look like you'd be a great kisser"
    longnblack longnblack 26-30, M Sep 4

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    Why do females think all guys only want what's in between their legs? If u think like that then that's probably all you're good for. I'm jus saying.
    longnblack longnblack 26-30, M Sep 6

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    It's too much money and it's been my dream in life that I'll have my own business
    nonichecliche nonichecliche 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I have suffered with and lived with anxiety which i think stems from being verbally bullied at school, and when younger i was encouraged to be the quiet shy girl. I left school and...
    anxiety1sufferer anxiety1sufferer 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I wrote these words in meditation. "The seeds of peace are sown in the eyes of children, an innocent knowledge of the world, not corrupted by sin." I have known children who...
    quianominorleo quianominorleo 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    From castaway days to vivid Creole nights, bask inside the cultural and culinary essences with the Seychelles infused with legendary Four Seasons care.Treehouse villas have their...
    Ardellaeh Ardellaeh 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I was diagnosed with HS when I was about 3 months old. I started having blood transfusions soon after. I became very ill and after each blood transfusion I would get a little...
    KathrynRobyn KathrynRobyn 22-25, F Aug 21

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    I'm a mid-30's divorced woman. I've been with my current boyfriend for several years and know he cherishes and adores me. I have a tough time accepting he actually loves me. I...
    flc80 flc80 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    I know I'm still to young to have children but Iv always wanted children. Ever since that day when I went to the mall by myself when I was 12 I wanted kids, everywhere I walked I...
    AriaDream AriaDream 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    It has been two very long weeks since I was told I would need surgery. My fiancee and I found out we were pregnant and quickly scheduled our first baby appointment thinking it...
    cdwinters83 cdwinters83 26-30, F Sep 10

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    Eh, I say I don't but I wouldn't mind it. Then I realize that my fertility is questionable for one. My uterus and hormones hate me. For real. Two, I am ALWAYS in dire straits. I...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I really struggle to think of any boys' names I feel really passionate about. I can think of girls' ones like that. I could be watching a film or reading a book, and any names I...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I am 34 and he is 22. Next week will have been two years that we have been together. Age means nothing as far as I'm concerned. I really don't even acknowledge the difference...
    Rabs22482 Rabs22482 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 29

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