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I Have No Children of My Own

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    We Never Could

    we were married very young and i think the biggest reason it was allowed as we were livie with each other any way and we could never have kids i had cancer as a child and she had other issues but it never stopped us from loving eachother and spoiling the kids our friends had ill...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 19, 2011

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    It Makes Me Sad

    I have 2 stepchildren and no children of my own and I am often sad about it, and I really try to not think about it too hard since I might cry...but I just go, yeah, one day it will happen, eventually...and then this will go away. Because this has become a real problem for me...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    3 Step Children..

    I am 30 years old and happily married.  I married a man who had 3 children (all boys) from a prior marriage.    I always knew I would never expierence motherhood, never have any children of my own.  I didn't know how or why I felt this way but I did. ...
    furfur furfur 26-30 Jan 16, 2009

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    Don't Want Either

    I am sorry for those who want and can't have. I don't want the responsibility at all. My husband and I want to have our fun to much. We love our little goodies. He is always in front of the computer and I am usually playing a game. Plus once you have them you have to give all...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    What you do, always comes with a consequence. Good or bad. ------------------------------- So here's a 100% true story, that is currently going on in my life. I won't say names...
    HannahMarieX HannahMarieX 18-21 Jan 13

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    I am disappointed in a way that I am 24 years old and have yet to be married or have children, although- I had a long and very hard childhood which hindered my growth mentally and...
    Kaia99 Kaia99 22-25, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Im 15 years old and due to a medical condition i cant have children its destoyed my life and i dont think its fair! I feel like i am going to be alone for the rest of my life...
    GEJ14 GEJ14 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend (yes I'm straight) so of course I've never been married and though some wouldn't think so, I'm way to young to have children.
    AvaDay AvaDay 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love my husband and have been with him for 5yrs and married for 3yrs. due to a medical condition a few years back I was told I cant have children. my husband has a daughter from...
    rebeccalouise1987 rebeccalouise1987 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    So I have a question that all of you may be able to help me with. I am 28 years old, actually turning 29 this weekend! Anyways, I have pre menopause which means I cannot have...
    curiousviolinist curiousviolinist 26-30, F Jan 20

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 18

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    I am not saying that I am a great mom or the best in the world but am trying to be. Being a single parent is really hard.My daughter's birthday was last week. She had 2...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 11

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    There's this girl who I'm sure will grow up to be a perfect little B*tch. She strives too hard to be at the top of everything, even to the point of being annoying. She never...
    2Paz 2Paz 26-30, F Jan 20

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    I have a question that i am hoping someone has advice on. When my husband was 19 he had a daughter with a woman that has refused to allow him to see the child since birth. He was...
    hinton5 hinton5 31-35, F Jan 1

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    My cousins' story: They lived with their mother and father for a while. The kids slept late. Didn't do homework. Their parents couldn't care less. "Do your homework" is not enough...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M Jan 16

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    if you have to pass a test to drive a car i feel you should have to pass a test before you can have a kid...mandatory birth control for those who fail! just sayin!
    mamaberry27 mamaberry27 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    If any woman want to have baby i will help her.... Feel free msg me.. I already helped a female in UK..
    scancelm scancelm 31-35, M Jan 19

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    I refer to them as my 'Personal Guidelines,' and they are a set of rules I've given myself, through evaluation of what I believe and what I expect of myself as I go through life...
    KoalaRising KoalaRising 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    .. No Pay rent anymore just taxes And bills.. Id like a House designed by myself With all the crazy things tht i Want in it .. I think thts gonna happened some day i just have to...
    ladany19 ladany19 22-25, F Jan 4

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    This seems like an interesting forum so i will say i hate the way people on earth treat each other and i wanna set up a thing where i do a live streaming show every coupla nights...
    elephant3000 elephant3000 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    Je suis pas Charlie. I am not Charlie. I have my reasons. I am peaceful and I want to express this opinion here. I am not charlie.
    00Wieme00 00Wieme00 22-25, F Jan 17

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    She's a 1980 Harley Ironhead. Looks her age but is gradually being restored and is slim unlike many Harleys. We don't have the road space here in the UK for the wide bikes and in...
    notext notext 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    It's probably not smart to surprise a woman by letting her know you plan on getting her pregnant while having unprotected sex, but I did it anyway. I'll share the story in the...
    Oracler Oracler 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    In India they say.."Parents are never wrong" i totally disagree.. i was neglected as a child.... they never cared about my depression problems,my health,my studies...and my future...
    lovebug19980 lovebug19980 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 7

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    It's a long story. I'll try to shorten it. I've had three miscarriages, the last one being less than a year and a half ago. After several months, I finally decided to get tests...
    TaraF822 TaraF822 36-40 Jan 11

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    I went to the mall the other day. I was in the ladies room and there was a woman with a little baby. After I left, I realized that I hadn't gotten upset. That's progress.
    TaraF822 TaraF822 36-40 Jan 15

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    All the colors of my made up rainbow!
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F Jan 10

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    I think I'm gonna pass out pretty soon... All this BS! Is just too much...
    persayous persayous 22-25, F Jan 17

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    If it is what I we all think it is, I don't know what I'd do. All I know Is That I'll Drink My Sorrows Away. Drink, Drink,Drink,Drink myself to death. I can't even Image what life...
    persayous persayous 22-25, F Jan 20

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    BrandonDay BrandonDay 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    CurtisBarron CurtisBarron 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Okay, what's with women, and even some men, looking down upon and even bashing other women who choose not to have children? what is the big problem with that? Not every woman...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My husband and I just married in April 2014. I didn't even want to get married, but he did, so we did. Now I'm at the perfect time and age to have children. I'm almost 28 (will be...
    raziel1687 raziel1687 22-25, F Jan 6

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    I am scarrd to have children of my own because this world is so crazy and extreme. I would probably shelter my child and I know that's not good in the long run.
    namedashley namedashley 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    My uncle is 54 he has twin daughters, lives in telford which is about 45mins to an hour away from my family. He is a grandfather to two beautiful little girls. He is divorced and...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I have known since I was 11 that I didn't want to have children. I didn't like kids as a kid, and couldn't fathom that my sole future was entwined with dirty diapers and tween...
    MoniquetheBlonde MoniquetheBlonde 18-21, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I've never truly loved my wife, nor do we have great sexual chemistry, but our relationship is otherwise very open and honest. I was mildly depressed getting into it almost a...
    Haplava Haplava 26-30, M Dec 31, 2014

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    I'm in love with my husband.. but he doesn't want to have children with me..I'm 41 w/no kids because I wanted to wait until I got married to have the family i always wanted for...
    desi35 desi35 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I have literally never met a child I liked. Not even in my family... I don't beat myself up about it, though. It's just who I am. People tell me that will change when I have my own...
    justarandom justarandom 22-25, F Jan 10

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    I can't take it anymore my crazy abusive mother is calling me about every 30 mins to an hour all through the night on the phone trying to terrorize me. I eventually quit answering...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It may not be the only purpose but to say that a woman's purpose is to go against having babies is like saying cats shouldn't eat birds or mice. Feminists and other people who...
    Nigel1224 Nigel1224 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Ok so here goes, I was diagnosed with PCOS in July 2014 and I feel its about time I shared my story and hopefully hear from people who feel the same way. After searching through...
    genna genna 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I know what could have made me like this. I've never been tested for reasons behind my problems, (I was told I have social phobia and I know that but I'm sure I also have APD too...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 14

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    My dream is how I would like my life to play out. At the moment I'm 21 years of age. Would like to find a good job where I have the opportunity the go somewhere in the company...
    LAlbertoG LAlbertoG 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    My Mother is 66 years old and my Father is 91 years old. I am only 24 years old. I am the parent and they are the children. They never married and have children in their 40's and 5...
    scarlettsunday scarlettsunday 22-25, F Jan 2

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    Ok here it is. I also have Anorchia. I was born in 1975 to a single mother. At about 3 or 4 years of age I had exploratory surgery but the surgeon only found a small nub of one...
    emtchris emtchris 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014