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I Have No Children of My Own

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    It Makes Me Sad

    I have 2 stepchildren and no children of my own and I am often sad about it, and I really try to not think about it too hard since I might cry...but I just go, yeah, one day it will happen, eventually...and then this will go away. Because this has become a real problem for me...
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Don't Want Either

    I am sorry for those who want and can't have. I don't want the responsibility at all. My husband and I want to have our fun to much. We love our little goodies. He is always in front of the computer and I am usually playing a game. Plus once you have them you have to give all...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    We Never Could

    we were married very young and i think the biggest reason it was allowed as we were livie with each other any way and we could never have kids i had cancer as a child and she had other issues but it never stopped us from loving eachother and spoiling the kids our friends had ill...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 19, 2011

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    3 Step Children..

    I am 30 years old and happily married.  I married a man who had 3 children (all boys) from a prior marriage.    I always knew I would never expierence motherhood, never have any children of my own.  I didn't know how or why I felt this way but I did. ...
    furfur furfur 26-30 Jan 16, 2009

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    I know i may be a bit too young to worry about this, but im getting a surgery next summer, which will cause me to not have children. It kinda hurts knowing that. I mean, I would...
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    I do not agree. I am a single mother of a beautiful baby girl. She is the first baby I held, first bottle I've fed, first diaper I changed. In fact, I breastfed my baby for 19...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    I would love to have a family of my own some day.
    kellywedgieknickers kellywedgieknickers 18-21, F Nov 28

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    Some women are just too shameful and cunning, they would use pregnancy to tie dumb rich guys down. Children being used as a means to an end. Those kind of people who bring innocent...
    Peccare Peccare 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 22

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    Seriously! at my age my friends are always teasing me for being single, their words are "When are you going to sentence yourself to life imprisonment" and i am just trying to joke...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I've always wanted babies but ever since my miscarriage 2 years ago I haven't been able to fall pregnant I don't know what's wrong with me
    BlondieBabyMwahX BlondieBabyMwahX 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Matter and energy. The two basic foundations of everything, and of which cannot be created, not destroyed. With their existence, you take away the existence of time. If they cannot...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T Nov 28

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    The more I have grown older. The more I'm like "**** that and **** them". Doesn't mean I've grown all too stronger. But I'm not taking the crap that it's always 'my fault' and that...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Nov 29

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    have you ever missed someone so much that it made you physically sick
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    In no way is anyone the same. Sure, people can dress the same, and have things in common, but that does not mean they are the same. I'm sick of people comparing me to someone else...
    AutumnLeeWindstar AutumnLeeWindstar 16-17, F Dec 6

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    Willing to help. Healthy, experienced donor here.
    experiencedbreeder experiencedbreeder 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Feeling lonely isn't something you can fix with a relationship. When God is with you, you won't be lonely, Ever.
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F Nov 22

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    My style includes wearing t-shirts with bands or movies on them, skinny jeans, chuck taylors, and top it all off with a beanie. *drops mic*
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F Nov 24

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    More like a coffee shop with a library attached. *_* that'd be amazing
    ChthonicMassacre ChthonicMassacre 16-17, F Nov 26

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    I found the perfect one that I'd love to buy.What do you think?
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    I always thought I was firing blanks, but in the last month it's been confirmed that I have a daughter! She's just turned 4 and she's gorgeous. She must get her looks from her...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I'm a negative person. A pessimist at my best! It's tragic. I have no clue why I've let life do this to me for this long. I'm only 21 years old and I am already tired, bitter and...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 26

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    Dreams and Goals: 1.Become a best-selling author. 2. Own my own children's day care. 3. Help my mom get her restaurant. 4.Build a shelter for the homeless. 5. Give back to...
    ALostSiren ALostSiren 13-15, F Nov 26

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    When people tell me that I MUST have kids, I literally feel like this: http://theoatmeal.com/comics/kids I don't want children, and have never been interested in children. The...
    spacepixie spacepixie 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 10

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    I have always had a love and joy for children. Even before I concieved my son and adopted my daughter earlier this year. Both my husband and I have had a hard time conceiving. He...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 10

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    I have my own 3 sons and also a friends 3 boys - we enjoy lots of sports and commit a lot of time to get the boys to training etc. I just wondered what other parents thought or...
    mikedadof3 mikedadof3 31-35, M Dec 9

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    For as long as I could remember I've never liked to have responsibilities. I never cared for taking care of our family pets. I never liked to babysit my sibling. I never liked to...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M Dec 10

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    I was never able to have children due to a disorder, but back when I had hopes of having a family, I dreamt of having two boys and two girls. Hope Corlise / Morgan Elise/ Caden...
    Sunny352 Sunny352 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I don't want to have children, because I fear I may be forced to abandon them. If life happens, and I end up in poverty I'd rather abandon them, then spend the rest of my life...
    benson5132 benson5132 18-21, M Dec 10

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    I always say I can't wait to have children one day, and everybody always says don't have children live your life and party while you can. I hate this! I'm not that type. I want to...
    wildrise2 wildrise2 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 26

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
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    I'm from Louisiana. I thought I was doing the responsible thing in waiting til I was older to have children. Now... I'm almost 31 and feel like I may have waited too long. I don't...
    hairstylistkrg hairstylistkrg 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    I'm unable to have children:( when i type it or say it i bust out in tears. This is the hardest thing I have to deal with in my life. I'm so depressed and it really hurts me to my...
    lovelyt98 lovelyt98 31-35, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Last April I started out a forum with someone even though I am its actual owner and founder. Since I do not see much of these kinds of forums, the original intent was to develop...
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    I'm 14 and have shared a room with my little brother for 6 years and there's a spare room in our flat that my dad keeps his computer in and he could keep it in his room but I'm...
    Miserablechildhood Miserablechildhood 13-15, M 1 day ago