I Have No Children

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    At 32, I'm Not A Father And I'm Okay With It

    I don't mind not having any right now, biological or adopted.  It's not one of my goals at the moment.  There are still many things that I want to do that I feel I couldn't if I had kids.  I do wonder what it would be like though.  Even more, I wonder when I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 15, 2010

    No Kids Or Wife But A Small Part Of Another Family.

    I am 45, no wife or kids. I have a stable career, am financially secure and have been told that am handsome. Better than being told I look like an ogre. I guess the main reason for being alone is that many years ago back in 1992, my girlfriend and daughter were killed in an auto...
    NMleo NMleo
    41-45
    1 Response May 24, 2012

    Hi I'm Frank I'm 62 now

    and I have been married 5 times, yes sad I know but in those marriages I had no children, it's not a case of not wanting any just never happened. I hate days like today Father's day and Christmas and my Birthday. These are all family times and being as I am now on my own, it...
    billyboy1952 billyboy1952
    61-65
    Jun 21, 2015

    No,i Don't.

    I was asked by an older family member,to name the amount of children I have.The answer is none. It was really awkward. I think he thought I was my sister.  
    KeepsingingAOM KeepsingingAOM
    18-21, F
    Jan 28, 2012

    Childless Now But You Never Know

    I've never tried to have children in this life but then I have also never worked hard NOT to... and thus far I have no children.  I'm okay with that... but as I don't believe it is physically impossible so if the fates decree it still, I would be happy to be a mom! ...
    nevermore123 nevermore123
    36-40
    Oct 14, 2008

    I Feel Lost.

    My is Lena and I am a 59 year old woman who has no kids. I came from a big family but most of my brothers and sisters are gone, and I am stuck with the last two who dont give a damm about no one but themselves. I am also disabled and confined to a wheelchair so that make things...
    sparkles2020 sparkles2020
    56-60
    3 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    I Don't Have Kids Of My Own

    A few days ago, a customer at worked asked me if I had any children. When I said no ,she asked why not? My answer was "I never met anyone I wanted to have kids with". We both just laughed and that was pretty much the end of it. But the truth is that every time I met someone I...
    xj287 xj287
    41-45, M
    Sep 15, 2013

    I Am Going To Be Alone

    I never planned this but time flew by so fast. I was cursed with an overbearing Mother who wanted to hold onto me forever!!! She did not want to be lonely but instead now I will be alone with no one there for me. This is a form of child abuse. I was too good to her and she could...
    WilBarn99 WilBarn99
    46-50
    Nov 19, 2011

    I Don't Have Any Kids...

    For the first 26 years of my life I thought my one true purpose was to become a mother.  I worried about it a lot, and tried to do the right things to plan for supporting a child.... Then I came to realize that if I'm meant to have children, I will.  I still would...
    CoracaoQuebrado CoracaoQuebrado
    26-30, F
    Apr 19, 2010

    Free To Roam

    At 27 years old I have no children nor do I plan to have any.  People ask me all the time why I won't have children and I can't help but answer "because I want!"  Might sound stupid but I'm the type of person who wants a lot of things up to and including lots of money...
    RighteousGirl RighteousGirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2010

    No Kids - Not Sure If Ever

    I have a wonderful husband and I just turned 30. All my friends are having children and there is a part of me that wants a child very badly. At the same time I find myself loving my current life - with my husband and our dog - and our ability to do mostly what we want when we...
    gordon64 gordon64
    26-30
    Aug 30, 2012

    Would Love To Have A Little Girl.

    All through my life I have been not sure if I wanted kids. Growing up In A big family kinda poor dysfunctional type. Over the years hearing how well I am with them and the idea growing on me . I have finally gotten the desire to create life that is a part of me. None to my name...
    inoduh inoduh
    31-35, M
    Dec 10, 2010

    I Have Never Craved Children

    I am 39 and have never craved children enough to be willing to give up my freedom. During my 20's I found there to be something far more interesting to be doing other than having a baby and making a huge sacrafice which would have a large impact on my life and limit my free time...
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

    Never to Be a Mommy

    My story is like a lot of others, I know, however I cant help but feel alone in not being a mom,  because for me, even going to the grocery store is a reminder that I dont have kids - especially seeing girl scouts with their friends and mothers trying to...
    merijoe merijoe
    46-50
    5 Responses Apr 26, 2009

    Middle Age and No Children

    My wife and I were truly blessed in that we met in High School and fell in love early. We always knew that we were meant to be together. We attended college together and then we went our serperate ways for a brief time , in our twenties....but then we realized that the grass is...
    SadBob SadBob
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 10, 2009

    I am childless. All black women do not go

    around having babies they can't afford!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 2, 2015

    My entire being longs to have a child of my own.

    I have wanted to have a baby my entire adult life but I have none. I have witnessed the birth of 13 babies from my sisters and friends, I always took the pictures or fetched the ice or whatever else was needed. I would try to imagine what it would be like for me to be the one in...
    reluctantamazon reluctantamazon
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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