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I Have No Dad

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    Letter To Dad #1

    Dear dad, Dad, youve never been there for me. why not? oh wait is it because you were to into the drugs? or was it because you needed to go to one of your fat ex wifes and get laid. you have never been there for me, ever, but now you want me to support you when you get...
    robdawg3434 robdawg3434 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    I don't know the man,

    never met him he skipped out before I was born. I don't even care where he is anymore I gave up on that long ago for all I know he could be dead.
    RuthlessAgression RuthlessAgression 26-30, M Apr 4

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    My dad was never around.

    He left me at a young age, I sometimes think it's my fault. When my mom and him got a divorce, I would go to his house every other weekend. I remember the times I waited hours for him by the door with my bags packed and ready to go, but no show. He picked his other kids over me...
    GabbyChronister GabbyChronister 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23

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    I Found My Father

    I haven't seen my real father since i was about three. When I was still a newborn he had come at my mother and I with a knife. My mother then made myt father leave. It wasn't his fault however that he acted that way. He was abused as a child and had mental problems such as...
    christa355 christa355 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    I Have No Dad ¬¬

    Already had a depressing mood, to suddenly find a friends request from my so called ‘long lost’ sister And not only to know that my dad ain’t bothered seeing my since I was 4 but to find out that he does bother to visit the rest…. And more! Soo I’m guess it ain’t him...
    Thatgirldaily Thatgirldaily 18-21, F Mar 20, 2012

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    Who Knows Where He Is Now...

    My dad left when I was only 3 years old and I have never seen him since. He cheated on my mum and went off with his new girlfriend and her 2 kids. He could find me if he wanted to, but he never has. I wonder if her has ever wondered about me.... Im not fussed though, my...
    StarrysLove StarrysLove 26-30, F Sep 24, 2008

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    A Letter From Your Unknown Dad

    I don't know what you've been told, but I would never purposely hurt you. I don't care how you got here, or who your mother is, you are part of me, and hurting you is hurting myself. I know we have never met, but I want to explain something to you just in case we never do. There...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2013

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    No one tells me anything about the man

    who created me. So I usually just sit here and sob about what I could be when I don't have to ask what if you don't have a dad in class when I don't have to explain why I don't have a dad. I just want to know his name? Is that too much to ask!
    UnlikelyNeighbor UnlikelyNeighbor 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    No Dad

    My dad did his best to be a good dad. He didn't know how to, because he never had a dad. His dad left him and his brothers with his mom, my grandma, when he was just 1 years old. His dad never came back..he went to live in another country, and married another woman. So my dad...
    Mark1997 Mark1997 16-17 1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    I believe I may have daddy issues. Although I have two brothers in my life who are kind of like a dad and I've formed very strong relationships with, I still want more. I don't go...
    AuroraDawnEstelle AuroraDawnEstelle 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 19

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    I have daddy issues because my dad was forced out I the house because of me now it's been over a year since I talked to him! I miss him so much so now I'm attracted to older men...
    lifeishurtful lifeishurtful 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Confused Little Girl- I did not even know I had a biological father until a judge ordered me to his custody in Europe. Before that I lived with my widowed stepfather. My mother had...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 1

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    My biological father desired a title that was NEVER his to claim. Rather he failed to impress me as best I can put it. My stepfather took back my mother even after she had an...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 1 Response Apr 4

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    I can say that all of the people around me say that their dads shared a lot of joy and love towards their sons...but me was different as when dad used to stay at home...he kept...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Help me my dad always hates it when i play on my laptop and my dad now comes in and says you should be doing your homework. I said "I am (and I'm telling the truth)" He says "well...
    BlockyEnder BlockyEnder 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    My Long Overdue Escape From An Undeserving ***** Donor- "Querida nina Araceli!" I was almost 12 and had been sent to answer the door by my stepmother. A tallish Italian looking...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 6 days ago

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    My dad loves me to death...I'm his favorite. But he hates my little sister. I'm dead serious, he doesn't love her at all. I see it, he gets me everything I want but when she wants...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    I don't know how to explain this. I mean, I know my dad loves me and cares about me but he doesn't show that. I'm not a bad daughter. Yes, I have defects, but I'm not on drugs, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 21

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    My dad has not been aloud to see me since l was 6 or 7 a few weeks ago his cousin messaged me on Facebook saying your dad in the paper cos he's using a mobile soup kitchen cos he...
    Donnaxauntiextox15 Donnaxauntiextox15 26-30, F Apr 8

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    The way I came to have two men vying to be Daddy isn't complicated although it is backwards. Most people have a biological father first then a stepfather after remarriage. My...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 Apr 2

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    He Allowed It All-After my father's arrest conflict broke out between his mother and my mother. My mother wanted a divorce&to return to America with us kids. My grandmother wanted...
    2ndGenPuppet 2ndGenPuppet 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Forced To Be Man Of The House- My mother had me at 16 and left me with my Cuban great grandmother(my dad's granny) in Florida. When I was 3 or 4 she married my stepfather and...
    DiamondsBoy DiamondsBoy 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I grew up mostly without a father. He would call every few weeks when I was a kid, but then for several years we didn't speak or see each other. I found him on facebook a couple...
    asouladrift asouladrift 22-25, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I already don't really get on with him or anything, and I always have problems -.- but he's constantly trying to upstage my mum, if we have something good happen then something...
    Xxxshanxxx Xxxshanxxx 13-15, F Mar 19

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    It has occurred to me that there is something about my father I have been repressing....the night he was arrested. I remember him only vaguely. He was tall with pale eyes and he...
    2ndGenPuppet 2ndGenPuppet 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Take a Hike,Play in Traffic,Just Get the **** Out of My Life- Because I avoid drama like the plague I am not on any social media websites. If I actually want to keep contact with a...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Letting Go Of Him Because He Cannot Let Go Of Her- Self-condemnation is the gateway to drug abuse,suicide,and worse. When I get sick of being the child of a drug addict,convicted...
    2ndGenPuppet 2ndGenPuppet 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Forced to Be Catholic-The only thing I dislike about my stepfather is the issue of religion. In order to save my surely damned soul eternal fire I was baptized Catholic shortly...
    StandoffishBrat StandoffishBrat 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My relationship with my father is all wrong. I was the eldest. I was the one he always took out his anger on. I usually had honestly not done anything wrong, or, even if I had, it...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Sins Of My Late Father- I am 22 and started losing my sight at age 5. My parents were sort of self-absorbed party animals and neither me or my siblings attended school so my loss...
    BlipsieSwag BlipsieSwag 22-25, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I actually have. Daddy dom is best i enjoy being told what to do :)
    kateboobear kateboobear 13-15, F 10 Responses Mar 23

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    i dont know why but today it seems a little hard to say i love my daddy.He has always been my hero,an angel in my eyes but now he is far from that. I am ashamed of him. I dont...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm new here and I just really wanna let this out, and maybe get some advice. So, my mom and I are extremely close, she is my bestfriend. I live with my mom and my dad lives in...
    xoxocs xoxocs 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    Today I felt sOo sad to see my dad depressed .....I feel shy to go & hug him ... :'(
    stoneseeker stoneseeker 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I wish I could break down in tears in front of my parents, especially my dad, so that they could see how their insults and verbally abusive tendencies take a toll on my sanity. I...
    Haylay Haylay 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    **** you *******!! I hate you so much. You have killed me a thousand times. You make me feel like I'm a problem. I have no self confidence because of you. I'm dead because of YOU...
    xXsmilesKillmeXx xXsmilesKillmeXx 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm 14 but will be 15 in May. We live on a farm here in Montana and my dad is super strict. I am not allowed to leave the property without permission.
    tabikat tabikat 13-15, F 10 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Well not so much now since I learnt the Three magic words "**** off dad!"
    rocketman84 rocketman84 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    my dad has been separated with my mom for more than 2 years ago,, and now my dad has 2 girlfriend. a nurse and a teacher. and i really hate the teacher she's really really feeling...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Yesterday, my dad told me that he's just trying to make me a "likable person". Not MORE likeable, just likable. Wow. I'm not popular at school or anything, but, since I've joined...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    SUMMARY We were best friends for a while, but then he started traveling a lot. Every other week he was gone and that's when we stopped getting along. Now, he is always going out...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Im not anymore but I was when I was little. There was this creaking noise our staircase would make but only when my dad walked on it because me and my siblings were too small to...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M Apr 8

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Good morning, I have no idea where to start. I have four children one is almost 21 and moved out of the house and I now have three teen age kids at home. My daughter 14 no problems...
    therockdog therockdog 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I guess hate is too strong a word. I hated him as a child but I feel like I've matured enough to see him as a person now instead of a monster. Anyways his current offenses are...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F Mar 20

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    Hello. I am a 14 year old girl, and VERY shy. But, I am clever and recently I found out that my dad was cheating on my mom. He is 46 years old, and he shouldn't be having an affair...
    wondur wondur 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I miss my dad, I still get to see him but it's like he's just a stranger. I thought he was trying to get off drugs and wanted to be part of my life but I was wrong. My dad is at my...
    16countrygirl 16countrygirl 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Why what goes in his mind I wanted to go to a school and my dad spoke his mind and said kids schools be in the same school and that man is an idiot he is well I guess my dad I...
    TinaBuckel TinaBuckel 13-15, F Apr 6

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    I don't want anything to do with my dad. He left me and my mom when I was just a baby. It was hard trying to get through life without a fatherly figure. I hate it when I hear what...
    patrick199 patrick199 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My name is Hailey, and I am from a small town in Missouri called Moberly. I am a devout distance runner and was a personal running trainer for my incredible dad, Eric...and I...
    HaileyBee92 HaileyBee92 18-21, F Apr 1

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    People at school make fun of me for not having a dad. They say "What Dad" and "Get a Dad kid" to me. It's very depressing and I want to find my dad so I can show them I do have a...
    Nodad Nodad 22-25 2 Responses 4 days ago