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I Have No Dad

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    I'm 15 years old and out of my years I have no

    clue who my Father is. Every Father's Day is just a depressing day for me. My father was a druggie so he dithed my mum and I and she hasn't heard from him since she was 7 months pregnant. Right now I live with my grandparents and aunt along with her 2 sons. The boys know there...
    beckyg19 beckyg19 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    I Have No Dad ¬¬

    Already had a depressing mood, to suddenly find a friends request from my so called ‘long lost’ sister And not only to know that my dad ain’t bothered seeing my since I was 4 but to find out that he does bother to visit the rest…. And more! Soo I’m guess it ain’t him...
    Thatgirldaily Thatgirldaily 18-21, F Mar 20, 2012

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    Letter To Dad #1

    Dear dad, Dad, youve never been there for me. why not? oh wait is it because you were to into the drugs? or was it because you needed to go to one of your fat ex wifes and get laid. you have never been there for me, ever, but now you want me to support you when you get...
    robdawg3434 robdawg3434 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    My Dad

    well... i lost my dad when I was 7... til then, most of what i remember about him was that he was always drunk and him and mom would always fight about it. I remember me asking him to please dont drink anymore... and he just ignored me i guess. we ran away from him... i remember...
    WhiteMushroom WhiteMushroom 26-30, F Apr 3, 2013

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    I have 2 moms & so I was made in a lab.

    Never met my dad (the donor) but I've read information. I haven't seen pictures and i want to know what he looks like and if he looks like me. I can meet him when I'm 18 if he wants but I don't know if I will.
    livyroro livyroro 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I Found My Father

    I haven't seen my real father since i was about three. When I was still a newborn he had come at my mother and I with a knife. My mother then made myt father leave. It wasn't his fault however that he acted that way. He was abused as a child and had mental problems such as...
    christa355 christa355 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    Dads gone missing he wandered off

    and now I can't find him :'(
    Georgiexx4 Georgiexx4 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    A Letter From Your Unknown Dad

    I don't know what you've been told, but I would never purposely hurt you. I don't care how you got here, or who your mother is, you are part of me, and hurting you is hurting myself. I know we have never met, but I want to explain something to you just in case we never do. There...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2013

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    I always wanted a dad

    but too bad
    naclala25 naclala25 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I have no dad he left me along time ago

    and has never been a dad to me He never stood up and played the father figure he was never in my life so idk why he expects me to stand up and say his a great dad he's not
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    No one tells me anything about the man

    who created me. So I usually just sit here and sob about what I could be when I don't have to ask what if you don't have a dad in class when I don't have to explain why I don't have a dad. I just want to know his name? Is that too much to ask!
    UnlikelyNeighbor UnlikelyNeighbor 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Who Knows Where He Is Now...

    My dad left when I was only 3 years old and I have never seen him since. He cheated on my mum and went off with his new girlfriend and her 2 kids. He could find me if he wanted to, but he never has. I wonder if her has ever wondered about me.... Im not fussed though, my...
    StarrysLove StarrysLove 26-30, F Sep 24, 2008

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    No Dad

    My dad did his best to be a good dad. He didn't know how to, because he never had a dad. His dad left him and his brothers with his mom, my grandma, when he was just 1 years old. His dad never came back..he went to live in another country, and married another woman. So my dad...
    Mark1997 Mark1997 16-17 1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    My father left before i was born

    and the whole relationship has been rocky since. We used to be sort of close but a few years ago he got married and had a kid. His wifes rude and awful to me and my brother and his kid is his world. Its like we dont exist. The things he made us do as children such as only eat...
    Littlepistolanna Littlepistolanna 16-17, F Jun 9

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    My dad ripped our family apart when he cheated on my mom and although my dad mostly provided physical needs for my brother and I, when it came time for the emotional needs he just...
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    It's true , my dad might as well not have been around because all he's ever done to this day is give me money. Growing up, all I ever wanted was his attention and love, to this day...
    angelicahcah angelicahcah 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I woke up one morning to all the screaming and fighting y'all said words like lightning I'm crying on the door step mom said she ganna take me out of school to put me in...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    By daddy issues, I mean my dad and I do not get along, and that we have a complicated relationship. Not that I have no morals and sleep around to **** him off. Just so the creeps...
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Any girls need a dad pm me or add
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M Aug 4

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    My dad is a addict I'm tired of telling to quit and I can't watch him kill himself everyday with Booz and smoking I don't know what to do ? He's all I got but he doesn't...
    chiragvijay chiragvijay 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I am sorry i didn't get into uni. I'm sorry that I wasn't an A* student. I'm sorry. I will always be a failure in your eyes. instead of being positive and helping me get through...
    Ghostpage Ghostpage 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    My dad used to do drugs and was abusive to my mom and my little brother and I. We used to run away from him growing up. Never been stable. Have mental issues. When he drinks...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    As someone who grew up without a father, I can undertand the tremendous void in can leave in one's life, as well as the pain and disappointment it can cause. For that reason, I...
    FollowMyLead FollowMyLead 31-35, M Aug 23

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    So I'm a teenager not and my father didn't come into my like till around 5th grade . They only thing he does for me is pay child support and sometimes talk to me . He also has a...
    princessA112 princessA112 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Crazies NOT Welcome!-For many many years I felt utterly worthless thanks to my adopted father's abuse then my biological father found me and I'll be damned if he didn't act like he...
    UnwantedMutt UnwantedMutt 22-25, M Aug 8

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    So I'm looking for a nice daddy who will give me what I need. I'm 16 but I'm willing to wait until I'm older if necessary. I've been with older men before but none were into daddy...
    PrincessPayton PrincessPayton 18-21, F 5 Responses 51 mins ago

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    I love my girls they are my world but I just get a but down being the only adult they have to make their world perfect. We are halfway through our main summer holidays and I...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    i think we should understand the meaning of our dad and mom before we have lost them :(
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 28 mins ago

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    My whole life i have always had a close relationship with ALL of my family members. But ever since my dad has passed away my family doesn't seem close anymore. Like when we have...
    armchairlama9 armchairlama9 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    Only cause mommy yelled at him .. And daddy told her to leave and dont come back until she's sober... I didn't think men cried until that night when I went up stairs to see if...
    rosey20 rosey20 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Ever since I can remember, my dad has never seemed to like me. I know he loves me (I mean, he's my father..he HAS to love me right?) but I feel like he wishes he had different...
    mad1051 mad1051 16-17, F Aug 14

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    I was "borrowed" when i was 3 months old. My real parents were really young when they had me and my sister who is a year older than me. My real dad's aunt actually borrowed me...
    KatieRose88 KatieRose88 22-25, F Aug 15

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    An update on the situation... I swear it just gets worse, he doesn't bother trying to communicate with me unless I contact him first and when i do I get one word answers or a very...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    After I got pregnant at 18 I told my parents and dad said he never wanted to see me again and I had ruined my life. That was fine by me. At that point I hated dad for how he...
    Renee305 Renee305 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 100% daddy's girl and proud of it :) My daddy is my entire life, if something happens to him I will never want to live anymore. He's always the first person I go to when I need...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My daddy wants to share me with another Daddy. He wants us to Skype all together and listen as the other Daddy plays with me. He wants me to enjoy myself and be comfortable with...
    Daringhoney Daringhoney 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Hi guys... right now I'm watching a show called The Haunted, and I'm in a mood to share an erie story that happened to me as a little boy. Ok, so one night I was sitting in the...
    KSniper KSniper 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    My poor old dad was quite outnumbered in our house with mum and three girls. In the summer months (and at other times in the year sometimes) we girls thought it wasn't worth...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 12 hrs ago

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    My poor old dad was quite outnumbered in our house with mum and three girls. In the summer months (and at other times in the year sometimes) we girls thought it wasn't worth...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 12 hrs ago

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    My family and relations are huge on their own. First things, first: I am from Hawaii and I am half Chinese (Cantonese), three-eighths Black (African) and one-eighths Native...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Aug 4

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    Dear mum, you are the strongest woman i know. You can hold a roof over your head and still manage to cope. You are doing amazing with your life. Who am i to tarnish that, so i wont...
    ticklishvampire ticklishvampire 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Okay, so this pretty much is a 3 part story so ill post it 3 seperate times, but it all intertwines and stuff so yeah. And noone really knows all this except my mom and bf so im...
    Jessiesgirl98 Jessiesgirl98 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I was going back to an old journal I typed up about my sophmore years in college (current Senior). In it I had met this classmate who is known to boast a lot. Her father is a brain...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    He has no idea what he's doing. I went to search on google for hockey start date and when I typed the H these were the suggestions from the historySome of this stuff is weird like...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    For sure!!!! Daddy can I have this? Daddy can I have that? Daddy can I go there? Daddy can I do this? Daddy can I do that? LOOOOL I live my dad <3
    watermelongirl watermelongirl 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My dad is a prev . One time I just came home and he made me lay on the ground and he sat on me and I was shouting and screaming but he just jumped and jumped on me and two of my...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I wish I could tell my dad the following :" dad u r a heartless person who makes his children live in horror and in front of ppl u act like the most perfect dad . U r a heartless...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F Aug 4

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    A little conversation with her the other day. She was wearing a pretty little dress, spinning round so the skirts puffed out. She looked so cute. She turned to me and said "Daddy...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M Aug 8

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    Turning 20 years old in a few days, my mom will be there, my half brother and half sister will be there, my step dad will be there, I mean they always have been. It seems like...
    jaycee3719 jaycee3719 18-21, M