I Have No Desire For a Relationship, Don't Need the Drama

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    The Perfect Man?!

     I need a man not a little boy. I need someone who is secure enough with themselves to understand that I have a life, just like he does, and sometimes I my focus can't always be on them...it doesn't mean that I'm doing anything wrong or that I am hiding anything I just have...
    BUncensored BUncensored
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 9, 2009

    I Thought That

    Well from the age of about 13 I have maintained a man was not needed in my life being single was fine and I was happy but then I found myself suddenly a couple of years ago looking at everyone around me getting married having children and a tiny part of me wished I had someone...
    shall13 shall13
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2012

    Flakiness And Relationships

    Has anyone else out there turned their back on relationships primarily due to constantly dealing with people who are flaky, unreliable, or seem like they just want attention? That's probably been my biggest motivator. Unfortunately there's no litmus test for those qualities...
    kiuz645 kiuz645
    31-35, M
    Jun 30, 2010

    Not Right Now

    I am not looking for a relationship right now. I am looking to have some fun. I am 23 years old, and I have never really had much fun in my life. I never did the party thing, the hanging out thing, it just wasn't me. Now its time for me to have some fun. I am not interested in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 2, 2012

    When I want good Enough For Him...

    there was a guy that once really liked me. I just wanted friendship and not a relationship hence why I am a member of this grOup. He wanted a relationship and became frustrated when I wouldnt agree to go out with him. So now he's p issuer at me and Won't continue our friendship...
    BoycotLove BoycotLove
    18-21
    1 Response Apr 23, 2011

    Nil

    Of course, i've seen relationships work out and i somewhat envy/pity those people. I have also seen relationships go horribly wrong and ruin everything a person ever worked for. Now, as much as i would like to experience one firsthand, I never gamble unless the odds are stacked...
    orderedchaos orderedchaos
    26-30, M
    Aug 22, 2013

    Hmmmm :0

    thinking about it. i dont really want a "perfect" guy >_> in reality i want someone whose flawed :] so i can fix him :D and at the same time have him help fix me. i dont think i deserve to ask for more in someone because i think if you want someone amazing you have to be amazing...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 31, 2010

    Cost-benefits Analysis Of A Relationship

    In my experience, the incentives haven't warranted the effort.  It typically leaves me with that "I really wish I could get the last few months of my life back" feeling.
    kiuz645 kiuz645
    31-35, M
    1 Response May 31, 2010

    Fix Yourself

     If you are in a relationship or just coming out of a relationship...I'm not your girl. No one wants to be a stand-in and no one wants to fix you. You've got problems, don't come asking me for help! This is how I feel! As of late relationships are beginning to seem over...
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    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2009

    Good Girls V. Bad Girls

     A friend of mine came back from "Bartenders Brawl", I think that is what it is called, and he was showing me pictures and videos of his trip. The one thing that I noticed through out all of the pictures where that most of the girls were either naked or nearly...
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    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2009

    Raindrops And Uncertainty

    From May to this very day, it seems as if a stress has been building steadily but surely. Though it would be safe to say I'm partially to blame. Well I met this young lady and we seemed to hit it off pretty great then about three days after we started talking she stayed the night...
    PalePonyRidesAgain PalePonyRidesAgain
    22-25, M
    Aug 22, 2013

    Belief

     We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.  The worst feeling you'll ever feel is sitting next to the person who means the world to you knowing that you mean nothing to them.  In the end it's not going to...
    BUncensored BUncensored
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2009

    Tired Of Feeling Pressured Into A Relationship

    Please tell me that I'm not theonly one who feels like this: all my friends are constantly On my case telling me that I need to get a boyfriend I've been single all my life and am happy to say so. But they constantly are braGging about their relationships (which are suckish...
    BoycotLove BoycotLove
    18-21
    3 Responses Apr 22, 2011
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