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I Have No Friends

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    I moved to a different state almost 3 years ago

    and I still have no friends. I eat lunch by myself and I'm really quiet and I don't know how to talk to people. I'm really not sure how I ever made friends in the past.
    dejajed dejajed 18-21, F 3 Responses May 8

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    I just merely have acquaintances.

    I never had a true friend and if I were to count one then I guess it was with that one girl in high school. It sucks to know that a friendship I would have won't last long and I always feel like it was my fault. It probably was my fault anyways. Plus I have trust issues. I can...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 2 Responses May 22

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    Days Of Silence

    I can go days without any text messages or phone calls and the only people that do contact me are my two brothers. I get so jealous when everyone else around me are constantly on their phones. Sometimes I feel like I would be happier if I just gave up and accepted my loneliness.
    chasingMonday chasingMonday 31-35, M 28 Responses May 22, 2013

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    I don't think I have anyone around me whom I

    can consider nor call a friend. Part of it is because I push away everyone and part is because I see their true colors. F it.
    coraimaal coraimaal 18-21, F 2 Responses May 7

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    I truly do have no friends.

    It is really sad because these people I used to call my 'friends' said they would be there for me, that we are the best of friends and that anything I tell them is between us. I am one who has been abused their whole life in all aspects of abuse really, I deal with bullying...
    MeaninglessMemories MeaninglessMemories 13-15, F 10 Responses Mar 18

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    I Am a Grown Woman With No Friends . . .

    In a short while I will be 31 years old and I have no friends. If I had to ask someone for help at this very moment, there is no one I could call. However, I know lots of people on both professional and personal levels but not a single individual from these groups EVER...
    WynsomeGreen WynsomeGreen 31-35, F 128 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    I have never had "friends"

    or a friend. Not the real kind anyway. People I hung out with once or twice or people who just used me. I last had one of those people many many years ago. Since then I've had no one. It is hard because I long to laugh and talk to someone. I just don't get along or have anything...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 Responses May 15, 2014

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    When I was in school I saw how my classmates

    were bullying weaker ones, I listened how they talked **** behind their own friends backs. And I always imagined what it feels like to be bullied, what unwound do at their position , in fact I even wished to be bullied yet I was let's say to strong for other to bully me.... I...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 70+ 5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    What is the reason you have no friends?

    I hated my main friend and we fell out and I don't go anywhere to make them.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't know why. Ever

    since I had my son, everyone bailed. I'm funny and kind and pretty (not that that matters) I don't gossip much and I don't backstab people. Ugh anyone wanna be my friend?
    milkynine milkynine 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    It is better than I thought

    Everyone seems to like me and be friendly with me. Β I might not have anyone to hang out with now but I will keep on joining drama club, board game club, church youth group, chorus and other things I enjoy and I know once I get to know people in these groups more and they get to...
    Gabet Gabet 16-17, M 28 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 17 Responses May 23

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    I have no one .......

    ..im always the second friend or not even the friend I hate it I lost all the people I thought were my friends. I guess im not worth it mann shoker .
    teal00 teal00 13-15, F 3 Responses May 13

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    If you ever feel like a loser just remember that

    for my entire senior year I sat alone in a dark room for lunch because I had no one to sit by lol
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 12 Responses May 13

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    I am a 17 year old girl living in Australia,

    and I have struggled with having a solid friend group my whole life. I have had good friends throughout the years, but mostly they have ended or faded away due to interests changing or them moving countries. I have been dealing with clinical depression and previously eating...
    spoorenism spoorenism 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My nights include going to the movie theater to

    see the new Avengers movie all by myself. How wonderful is that
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I'v moved around Alot

    and never settled anywhere longer than a few months I'v been living in this town for nearly 4 years now and I still have no friends no one I can really call close I have severe anxiety and depression and agoraphobia so making friends is so hard even just talking to someone is...
    Beauty1Rose Beauty1Rose 22-25, F 2 Responses May 7

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    I moved here and now im

    even more friendless than i was before πŸ˜“
    gloangel93 gloangel93 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Apr 15

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    All my life I've never had a friend.

    Maybe I just am not the "type". People moan they "only have one". But they sound so unappreciative and ungrateful. If I had one friend I wouldn't need more. I don't know why people have the need to have a lot. But that's just me. One true one is ok for me.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response a week ago

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    I have no friends. No fake friends.

    No kind of friends. No best friends. No "lets go shopping" friends. No one to console me when I cant talk to my husband about something... I dont even have family that I am close to. Dont talk to my mom, and dad doesnt talk to me because I dont talk to her. I miss having friends...
    HarborLove HarborLove 22-25, F 15 Responses Apr 23, 2014

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    So I am trying to figure out

    why I literally have three friends. Here is my story,I am a amateur jujitsu / muay thai practice and I like to work out daily work a full time job. I have 1 best friend and 2 good friends. My best friend is a lady and we have been friends for 14 years. We dated the first 3 years...
    xskug xskug 26-30, M 1 Response May 4

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    I think I have friends now.

    Long distance but friends. I went to visit my family then ended up hanging out with an old friend from high school and her group of friends last weekend and it actually was really fun. I didn't feel awkward or judged by any of them. I'm planning of moving to the area in 2 months...
    poodahpop poodahpop 18-21, T 1 Response May 13

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    Lately, people I thought were my friends barely

    talk to me anymore. We're in college, and I thought these people were going to be my friends through thick and thin. Now, no one iniates a conversation with me. I feel painfully visible and completely ignored, which is so much worse than just being invisible to me. I cry...
    alexjholliday alexjholliday 18-21, F 4 Responses May 21

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    malnei0 malnei0 18-21, F 1 Response May 25

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    Does it make anyone else sad to be home alone

    on a friday night and not have any friends to call to hangout with?
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I just want one person,

    one friend, whom I can do the stupidest **** with. I don't want a lot of friends. Just one real one. Are they a dime a dozen or some ****? Or am I so ****** up no one wants to be my friend?
    MyCrookedSmile MyCrookedSmile 22-25, F 5 Responses May 19

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    I'm 21 years old and I have social anxiety.

    I feel like I will never have friends in my future. It's hard to meet people when I am shy and certainly not talkative at all! I get depressed about it, especially after I come home from class and do nothing exciting like going out and have fun... I have a feeling this will be...
    Whatsername21 Whatsername21 22-25, F 18 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    I Have No Friends...

    All my life I have wished for a "best friend". I am tired of having no social life. I just want to have someone to laugh with or hang out with. I want to talk to someone when I am upset. I have always wanted to just have a friend. I try my best but it does not work :(
    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    I'm naturally a very lazy person.

    I've always been that way. So when it comes down to friends I've been horrid at showing dedication towards them. I've regretted this about middle school and High School as I was pretty shy. I'm just at a place in my life where I've been feeling pretty lonely and wonder all the...
    randomshoe19 randomshoe19 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Wandering Alone At Night.

    It happened again last night, that feeling. I went out on a very busy street at night and had a walk, there were clubs, pubs, cafe's restaurants, etc. The walk started out fine, when I locked my thoughts up in my own little world and keep them to myself. But I soon found out...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 13 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Friendless

    Regardless of the fact that I think I am a good person, and help others when I can, I find that no one wants to return the favor.  I am continually overlooked and just plain left out.  People at work have even commented that I just assumed I had friends in the workplace...
    Zvezda Zvezda 41-45, F 15 Responses May 4, 2007

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    Doesn't Anyone Like Me?

    I've had friends before; the problem is, I have trouble maintaining relationships with my friends. For the most part, I don't want to have to put out the effort it takes to keep friends. I don't want to have to keep calling everyone and finding out what everyone is doing and if...
    brokenxtooxoften brokenxtooxoften 18-21, F 113 Responses May 23, 2007

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    I'm 21 years old in Los Angeles without any

    friends. I have maybe 1-2 friends that talk baseball with me but no one that is a true friend. People flake on me and treat me like I have a disease - they stay away. People don't give two sh**s about me and so I do everything alone. I went to a Dodgers game alone last night and...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    And I am okay with that.

    I was never really a people person. The best group of friends I ever had was online and only lasted a few months anyway. The next best group were characters I created for a series of books I wrote. And since that's just crazy talk, well, moving on.... lol. I don't mind not...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 3 Responses May 14

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    well , here goes a pity party of a post .

    anyway , im pretty depressed , and the main source of my depression is my lack of friends . i think there is something innately wrong with me for not being able to connect with others on any kind of level that sticks and is meaningful . i used to try to make friends , but it...
    foxyoxy123 foxyoxy123 26-30, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I "try" to Be nice, yet No one (I 'Should'

    Specify FEMALE; as I am NOT gay = homosexual, and I therefore Block MALES, Fearing misunderstanding) EVER indicates "a Desire/Willingness to BE my friend". So I "feel" Alone, and Being alone Enables 'Fear'.
    sissydreams sissydreams 61-65, M 1 Response May 16

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    Having an IQ over 130 makes you friendless.

    Thus the fact has been stated.
    Existentior Existentior 31-35, M 27 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    No Friends!!!

    Β Β  I've always had some really nice friends growing up, I actually felt really good with who I hung out with, then as soon as I moved I didn't know anyone at my new school, over all I was being bullied as well, for things that were even true. I gave it time, and I did meet some...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 87 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    Yesterday was my birthday.

    I turned 21. I've never had friends, never celebrated my birthdays with anyone so there's no reason for me to be sad but for some reason, I feel so alone. Isn't it strange how you can still suffer from loneliness like it's something new even when it's the most constant and...
    allkindsofcolors allkindsofcolors 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 7

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    I went out today to meet my friends to see

    Spider-Man 2. I was walking to the front of the theater when I received a phone call. Two of them were able to get tickets but the movie had just sold out. I walked back to my car so I could go back home. I don't even know what the other friends in the group were doing since...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 39 Responses May 3, 2014

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    I guess it's me I find it hard to keep people's

    interest. And when I try to talk about what they want I carnt keep the conversations going and they just start talking to each other. When I was at school, college and uni people only bothered with me to talk their issues thru and then would go off with others. No wonder the ex...
    teacupsandroses teacupsandroses 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    I hate when someone says they don't have friends

    but they have 3 or moreπŸ˜πŸ˜’ I truly have zero friends!
    JosieLeblanc94 JosieLeblanc94 16-17, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Don't Care For Them

    For the majority of my life i have been a loner , in school i was really quiet and shy so i didn't go and approach people like other kids did. It was the same through out elementary, middle and high school- the so called "friends" i did have were just people that approached me...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Friends Betray...

    I've only ever experienced betrayal from friends, so I choose to no longer have any, and I'm happier that way.  My best friend slept with, and got pregnant by, my husband.  That was the last straw.  Because she wasn't the first.  I'd lost boyfriends to...
    aranarose aranarose 31-35 192 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    I've literally lost all of my friends

    and literally have no one lol nice 1 Zareena!πŸ‘ŒπŸ½
    zareenatoor zareenatoor 13-15, F 2 Responses May 4

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