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I Have No Friends

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    I've cut many people out of my life to get rid

    of drama. But I seemed to have left myself no one to hang out with. I have an odd personality which makes it hard to hang onto relationships of any sort...
    Mj13ahestrella Mj13ahestrella 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Friendless

    Regardless of the fact that I think I am a good person, and help others when I can, I find that no one wants to return the favor.  I am continually overlooked and just plain left out.  People at work have even commented that I just assumed I had friends in the workplace...
    Zvezda Zvezda 41-45, F 15 Responses May 4, 2007

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    I have always taken life very seriously.

    Studying and work left no time for friends. I don't have a single friend to meet over the weekend.
    Freethinker26 Freethinker26 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Lonely.

    Apart from the four friends I've made in the last year online, I have no "real life" friends. I've never been one to have a whole group of friends, only a few, but I lost those when I left school due to bullying in 2009. They weren't genuine nor did they really care about me as a...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 57 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Doesn't Anyone Like Me?

    I've had friends before; the problem is, I have trouble maintaining relationships with my friends. For the most part, I don't want to have to put out the effort it takes to keep friends. I don't want to have to keep calling everyone and finding out what everyone is doing and if...
    brokenxtooxoften brokenxtooxoften 18-21, F 114 Responses May 23, 2007

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    I guess it's me I find it hard to keep people's

    interest. And when I try to talk about what they want I carnt keep the conversations going and they just start talking to each other. When I was at school, college and uni people only bothered with me to talk their issues thru and then would go off with others. No wonder the ex...
    teacupsandroses teacupsandroses 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 5

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    Friends are over-rated.

    That's why I have pizza, Netflix and books.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 22

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    I am 20 pregnant with my ex's baby

    and have no friends. I'm depressed, lonely and need someone to talk to.
    danieapplex danieapplex 18-21, F 38 Responses 5 days ago

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    So there is this major sporting event happening

    this weekend and I would really love to go... Only problem is that I have no friends to go with and I don't know what to do
    shrinkingvi0let shrinkingvi0let 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Does it make anyone else sad to be home alone

    on a friday night and not have any friends to call to hangout with?
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    Wandering Alone At Night.

    It happened again last night, that feeling. I went out on a very busy street at night and had a walk, there were clubs, pubs, cafe's restaurants, etc. The walk started out fine, when I locked my thoughts up in my own little world and keep them to myself. But I soon found out...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 13 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    It's my birthday soon.

    A party by myself isn't ideal :/
    ssssmills ssssmills 18-21, F 25 Responses May 21, 2014

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    I Don't Care For Them

    For the majority of my life i have been a loner , in school i was really quiet and shy so i didn't go and approach people like other kids did. It was the same through out elementary, middle and high school- the so called "friends" i did have were just people that approached me...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    I went out today to meet my friends to see

    Spider-Man 2. I was walking to the front of the theater when I received a phone call. Two of them were able to get tickets but the movie had just sold out. I walked back to my car so I could go back home. I don't even know what the other friends in the group were doing since...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 39 Responses May 3, 2014

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    I'm 21 yr old female

    and I have no friends and I mean not one friend ...when I was in school I was friends with these girls but I had to cut them out of my life as they were just bad people at 21 I don't seem to make any friends I worked in jobs were I meet people and I talk to but they don't invite...
    jdscanlon11 jdscanlon11 22-25, F 17 Responses Jun 18

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    I Am a Grown Woman With No Friends . . .

    In a short while I will be 31 years old and I have no friends. If I had to ask someone for help at this very moment, there is no one I could call. However, I know lots of people on both professional and personal levels but not a single individual from these groups EVER...
    WynsomeGreen WynsomeGreen 31-35, F 130 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    You know what sucks? When the only person you

    can freely talk to drifts away... You then don't talk about this to anyone because there is no one to tell... I'm done with trying.
    AskingAllTimeHorizon AskingAllTimeHorizon 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I feel so lonely. I'm going through tough times

    and I don't have anyone to talk to . I'm always sad . I don't know what to do or where to turn anymore. All my friends just drifted away...
    pinkyprincess22 pinkyprincess22 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Days Of Silence

    I can go days without any text messages or phone calls and the only people that do contact me are my two brothers. I get so jealous when everyone else around me are constantly on their phones. Sometimes I feel like I would be happier if I just gave up and accepted my loneliness.
    chasingMonday chasingMonday 31-35, M 28 Responses May 22, 2013

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    No Friends!!!

       I've always had some really nice friends growing up, I actually felt really good with who I hung out with, then as soon as I moved I didn't know anyone at my new school, over all I was being bullied as well, for things that were even true. I gave it time, and I did meet some...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 87 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    When I was in school I saw how my classmates

    were bullying weaker ones, I listened how they talked **** behind their own friends backs. And I always imagined what it feels like to be bullied, what unwound do at their position , in fact I even wished to be bullied yet I was let's say to strong for other to bully me.... I...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 70+ 5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Apr 15

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    i've always been shy

    and awkward. 3 years ago i moved away from home to get start new. Now everything is new... but i still have no friends.
    ABMarie ABMarie 22-25 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Imagine the reaction you'd get telling someone

    you have no friends. I have told two people one said none at all.. The other said that's not very good is it. :( it's worrying.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I am always waking up at 4 A.

    M.and reading posts like these out of desperation, so I figured I'd actually contribute. I'm a 21-year-old girl. I'm attractive, smart, sarcastic, and most importantly, I treated the friends I have had in the past like royalty. This is not the first time in my life I have been...
    cec75 cec75 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    You wanna know a secret?

    One of the main reasons I hate people and they don't like me. Is because I can't be myself. No one ever laughs at my jokes or with me. They always frown, look annoyed, look disgusted or angry. I can't ever be myself. So yes it's why I'm in my youth and haven't had a single...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Jul 10

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    Having an IQ over 130 makes you friendless.

    Thus the fact has been stated.
    Existentior Existentior 31-35, M 27 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    veiledsorrows veiledsorrows 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I can write a whole book here,

    but I'm not going to, cause people just don't like to read long posts. The thing is, I don't have any friends and sometimes it really bothers me and it lowers my self confidence. The "friends" I had or the people who I thought I could consider as some sort of friend(s...
    KenBu85 KenBu85 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Maybe it is me, or the people I choose.

    I cant seem to find true friends. I sure can find people that use me, lie to me, assault me, but friendship seem out of reach. Now days it seems more and more people don't hold much value when it comes to friendship. Just recently a older "friend" that I known most my life...
    vovine123 vovine123 41-45, M Jul 18

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    I always thought that not having any friends

    when I was younger was just a phase. But it wasn't. Always the third wheel and the tag-a-long in middle school. The weird quiet loner in high school. I tried to make friends in college but sororities didn't want me, people I tried to befriend already had their cliques and never...
    Jennnnla Jennnnla 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I have always struggled to make/keep friends.

    I became a hairdresser and that helped me connect with people but I only ever kept a real friend for a year or 2 before they would just stop talking to me. I don't know what's wrong with me that people just don't seem to like. I just stay home now. I got fired from my job...
    alice0493 alice0493 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 21 years old and I have social anxiety.

    I feel like I will never have friends in my future. It's hard to meet people when I am shy and certainly not talkative at all! I get depressed about it, especially after I come home from class and do nothing exciting like going out and have fun... I have a feeling this will be...
    Whatsername21 Whatsername21 22-25, F 17 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    I hate when someone says they don't have friends

    but they have 3 or more😁😒 I truly have zero friends!
    JosieLeblanc94 JosieLeblanc94 16-17, F 6 Responses May 31

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    Like seriously no joke.

    At school I hang out with girls from third year but I want friends from my tear but they all hate me for some unknown reason.
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Friends Betray...

    I've only ever experienced betrayal from friends, so I choose to no longer have any, and I'm happier that way.  My best friend slept with, and got pregnant by, my husband.  That was the last straw.  Because she wasn't the first.  I'd lost boyfriends to...
    aranarose aranarose 31-35 191 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    Remember who your real friends were

    and than remember you have no real friends after that.
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm tired of being lonely all of the time.

    I'm tired of the fact that I never leave my house, that no one ever texts or calls me on their own, and that when I text people I don't get replies. Everyone seems to have huge groups of friends yet I have no one. I don't even think my own boyfriend has interest in me...
    makailafish makailafish 16-17, F 6 Responses Jun 21

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    I've lost them all. Some of them weren't losses,

    but now I have no one. No one to call to hangout I'm always by myself, I try and make friendships but it never seems to work. I always put in the effort and get nothing in return. I'm tired of not having any true friends. I'm tired of having no one.
    Aflame22 Aflame22 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I Finally Figured Out Why I Have No Friends

    All this time, I thought it was because there was just something repellent about me. Or that it was due to my lacking social skills, or a doomed fate to forever-alone-dom, or mismatched frequencies between me and the rest of the world. But the real reason why I have no friends...
    toba122 toba122 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    I've always struggled with making friends,

    and then it got worse when I developed social anxiety. I've never been able to get along well with people, everyone always assumes I'm rude or stuck up because of my bluntness and sarcasm, or because I don't talk. But the weird thing is, I don't really feel lonely or desperate...
    Caricature1 Caricature1 70+, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm such a loner, really.

    My "bestest" and only friend left me for a kid named Camerine, and he's 9, I'm 15, and she's 12. She doesn't talk to me anymore. She turned shallow, selfish and heartless. When I try to talk to her, she pushes me away, and treats me like an annoying stranger. She hates me for NO...
    RainbowBlood RainbowBlood 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Even Team Rocket have each other

    and i have nobody. *sigh*
    mollypocket mollypocket 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Trying To Survive College Without Friends

    Hi guys! I'm currently an undergraduate freshman at a good-sized school. I just started my second semester and I realized that I have really no good friends here. Yeah, I get along with guys that live with on my floor, but I've never really "hung out" with any them on a regular...
    DK248HR DK248HR 18-21, M 66 Responses Jan 27, 2012

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    Yesterday was my birthday.

    I turned 21. I've never had friends, never celebrated my birthdays with anyone so there's no reason for me to be sad but for some reason, I feel so alone. Isn't it strange how you can still suffer from loneliness like it's something new even when it's the most constant and...
    allkindsofcolors allkindsofcolors 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 7

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