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I Have No Friends

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    I'm so tired of going out alone

    and feeling like **** and having no one to turn to when i have a problems
    anonymousxxg anonymousxxg 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I truly do have no friends.

    It is really sad because these people I used to call my 'friends' said they would be there for me, that we are the best of friends and that anything I tell them is between us. I am one who has been abused their whole life in all aspects of abuse really, I deal with bullying...
    MeaninglessMemories MeaninglessMemories 13-15, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    Doesn't Anyone Like Me?

    I've had friends before; the problem is, I have trouble maintaining relationships with my friends. For the most part, I don't want to have to put out the effort it takes to keep friends. I don't want to have to keep calling everyone and finding out what everyone is doing and if...
    brokenxtooxoften brokenxtooxoften 18-21, F 113 Responses May 23, 2007

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    In class pretending like I'm texting

    because I have no one to text and I don't want people looking at me xD lalala
    SadLittleFlower SadLittleFlower 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I had a best friend. He left me.

    I don't understand how someone can just leave like that and claim they lost interest in you. It hurts. I have nobody now. Do you know how it feels to be depressed, and completely alone ? It's possibly the worst feeling.
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    No Friends!!!

       I've always had some really nice friends growing up, I actually felt really good with who I hung out with, then as soon as I moved I didn't know anyone at my new school, over all I was being bullied as well, for things that were even true. I gave it time, and I did meet some...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 90 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    I am 23 and have no family

    or friends. My only family is in another country and they don't really care about me. My grandmother is alright but my mother is toxic. My girlfriend of 3 years is only with me now because I cook for her, keep her company and help her sleep. Although she claims I don't do much...
    thyrm thyrm 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It is better than I thought

    Everyone seems to like me and be friendly with me.  I might not have anyone to hang out with now but I will keep on joining drama club, board game club, church youth group, chorus and other things I enjoy and I know once I get to know people in these groups more and they get to...
    Gabet Gabet 16-17, M 28 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    I had no friends since high school.

    I think it is a blessing in disguise.
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I'm actually shy/scared of making friends.

    I'm not too confident around other people and worried if they will find me interesting or not.
    zarpanzur zarpanzur 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Does it make anyone else sad to be home alone

    on a friday night and not have any friends to call to hangout with?
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I went out today to meet my friends to see

    Spider-Man 2. I was walking to the front of the theater when I received a phone call. Two of them were able to get tickets but the movie had just sold out. I walked back to my car so I could go back home. I don't even know what the other friends in the group were doing since...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 39 Responses May 3, 2014

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    Lonely.

    Apart from the four friends I've made in the last year online, I have no "real life" friends. I've never been one to have a whole group of friends, only a few, but I lost those when I left school due to bullying in 2009. They weren't genuine nor did they really care about me as a...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 60 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    I moved away, all my old friends moved on

    and I have no new ones, I've never felt so lonely
    HJayne HJayne 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    i think i don't have any friends

    who can share each other..from silly jokes to meaningfull and deep soul conversation. And l’d love to make good friends who is fair for two of us. The end of the day,before go to bed, if we can share something like that... That must be peaceful and beautiful.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 12

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    So I am trying to figure out

    why I literally have three friends. Here is my story,I am a amateur jujitsu / muay thai practice and I like to work out daily work a full time job. I have 1 best friend and 2 good friends. My best friend is a lady and we have been friends for 14 years. We dated the first 3 years...
    xskug xskug 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    Sometimes, I feel like music has been the only

    real friend in my life. I've realized that I've never had the experience of a friend or just a person being there for me when I'm in a low mood. It's not poetic, it's not even a metaphor. Many people in my life believe that I am a talented musician and vocalist, but it's just...
    TheAnonymousINFx TheAnonymousINFx 18-21, F Apr 7

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    So you know how everyone has a best friend?

    That one person that will always be there no matter what and will love you and laugh with you? I don't have that. I don't have that and I get really sad about it when I think about it because I don't have that person that you can go on midnight adventures with or go to 2:00...
    Emmathedragonfly Emmathedragonfly 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am so lonely. I was doing

    so well pretending everything was ok and trying to feel happiness. But now i'm back in the dark. I feel numb, lost, scared, confused and very empty. I feel like i'm heading down a road to nowhere when all I really want is to be heading somewhere with good friends.
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 6

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    I Don't Care For Them

    For the majority of my life i have been a loner , in school i was really quiet and shy so i didn't go and approach people like other kids did. It was the same through out elementary, middle and high school- the so called "friends" i did have were just people that approached me...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    I have never had "friends"

    or a friend. Not the real kind anyway. People I hung out with once or twice or people who just used me. I last had one of those people many many years ago. Since then I've had no one. It is hard because I long to laugh and talk to someone. I just don't get along or have anything...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I'm about to graduate from college

    and or seems like everyone in my class is friends except me. They all go out together and take pictures and I have never once been invited. I haven't said anything cause I don't want to be invited out of social obligation but instead because I'm genuinely wanted.
    hipsterkitty hipsterkitty 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 20

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    Yesterday was my birthday.

    I turned 21. I've never had friends, never celebrated my birthdays with anyone so there's no reason for me to be sad but for some reason, I feel so alone. Isn't it strange how you can still suffer from loneliness like it's something new even when it's the most constant and...
    allkindsofcolors allkindsofcolors 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 7

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    michellerozsa michellerozsa 18-21, F 23 Responses Apr 15

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    quinnie385 quinnie385 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    In high school, I had the best friends—and

    not just in a "my friends are THE BEST" way, but in a "we are a group of four people and are all so close that we are psychically linked and feel no need for other relationships because we are all in love" way (if you've ever seen Community, we were all basically Troy and Abed...
    sixpercent sixpercent 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I have a lot contacts in my phone books,

    but no one ever call to talk to me. I have a lot friends from my highschool and college, in my facebook, but I feel like I don't know any of them. I have friends but my phone never get a call from friends. I just don't understand.. I always try to be a good and fun person for...
    heartandbrain heartandbrain 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I moved here and now im

    even more friendless than i was before 😓
    gloangel93 gloangel93 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Is it weird that I'd

    rather have friends and "socialize" on here than in the real world? I literally have no friends
    zarpanzur zarpanzur 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Friends Betray...

    I've only ever experienced betrayal from friends, so I choose to no longer have any, and I'm happier that way.  My best friend slept with, and got pregnant by, my husband.  That was the last straw.  Because she wasn't the first.  I'd lost boyfriends to...
    aranarose aranarose 31-35 192 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    How sad I have one friend on EP,

    and I am one in 65,000 she has. Hello ? Anyone there ? Oh there was that Nigerian prince that wanted to give me money, that was the only other one. LOL
    Hockeyplayer56 Hockeyplayer56 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 22

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    I used to be a happy person with loads of

    friends. We hang out every weekend for years and I felt so lucky. Then life turned to **** and I got so depressed. Turns out no one will be your friend in the hard times. Only happy you is worth being a friend too. Seems they weren't really my friends to begin with. Now I'm so...
    aussiegirl2014 aussiegirl2014 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I just started a new job.

    I'm a waitress at a cheese and wine bar. I was really proud of myself for getting this job, because I am very shy around people and thought this would be great for me to socialize more. But now I just feel so down about it. The people I work with are all young and funny and cool...
    Derpkitty Derpkitty 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 14

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    I've never had a lot of friends,

    but once I became a single parent no one wanted anything to do with me.
    Salem27 Salem27 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Trying To Survive College Without Friends

    Hi guys! I'm currently an undergraduate freshman at a good-sized school. I just started my second semester and I realized that I have really no good friends here. Yeah, I get along with guys that live with on my floor, but I've never really "hung out" with any them on a regular...
    DK248HR DK248HR 18-21, M 61 Responses Jan 27, 2012

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    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 43 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    RoughDiamond17 RoughDiamond17 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    When it comes to the real world I have no

    friends no one wants me to hang out with them. However in the the world of video games the guys and girls of my gaming guild are the only friends i need we all get on amazingly well we love playing online together. Our favourite game to play online is GTA V here is footage from...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I Finally Figured Out Why I Have No Friends

    All this time, I thought it was because there was just something repellent about me. Or that it was due to my lacking social skills, or a doomed fate to forever-alone-dom, or mismatched frequencies between me and the rest of the world. But the real reason why I have no friends...
    toba122 toba122 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    When I was in school I saw how my classmates

    were bullying weaker ones, I listened how they talked **** behind their own friends backs. And I always imagined what it feels like to be bullied, what unwound do at their position , in fact I even wished to be bullied yet I was let's say to strong for other to bully me.... I...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 70+ 5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    It's my birthday soon.

    A party by myself isn't ideal :/
    ssssmills ssssmills 18-21, F 25 Responses May 21, 2014

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    I have no {real} friends,

    which is why I'm here. Let's talk.? :) inbox is always open.
    MysticRosee MysticRosee 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 19

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    I have no friends to talk to

    so I'm just going to sing HAPPY LLAMA SAD LLAMA MENTALLY DISTURBED LLAMA SUPER LLAMA DRAMA LLAMA BIG FAT MAMA LLAMA!!!!!!!
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15 1 Response Apr 12

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    I'm not sure what's wrong with me.

    .. I'm always nice and helpful to people, yet I can't seem to make any friends. My whole life I'm always the first to talk to people, nobody ever talks to me first. The few friends I thought I had in high school started disappearing during college and became pretty much non...
    TealStar3 TealStar3 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Having an IQ over 130 makes you friendless.

    Thus the fact has been stated.
    Existentior Existentior 31-35, M 30 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    Wandering Alone At Night.

    It happened again last night, that feeling. I went out on a very busy street at night and had a walk, there were clubs, pubs, cafe's restaurants, etc. The walk started out fine, when I locked my thoughts up in my own little world and keep them to myself. But I soon found out...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 13 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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