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I Have No Friends

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    I was always alone in high school,

    and I would always find myself wandering around campus alone during college. All of my 'friends' had and still have other friends they'd rather hang out with. I find myself alone in my house on my days off, and none of my coworkers are really interested in getting to know me...
    TommyMeToo TommyMeToo 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have a lot contacts in my phone books,

    but no one ever call to talk to me. I have a lot friends from my highschool and college, in my facebook, but I feel like I don't know any of them. I have friends but my phone never get a call from friends. I just don't understand.. I always try to be a good and fun person for...
    heartandbrain heartandbrain 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I've come to the conclusion

    that having friends is bullshit, and I've also gotten to the point where I can't trust anyone not even my own family, and I become more suicidally inclined to kill myself more and more each day, because why not?....who would give a **** right? ??
    PleasureOverMatter PleasureOverMatter 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Seriously, everyone just ignores me without

    saying why. I don't consider that friendship. At least tell me I'm being an a$$hole then I'll know
    MCstate MCstate 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I have no one. The only person I have had to

    talk to over the past 18 years is my wife, who I am now wanting to divorce. I have no friends. I have no one I can talk to. It's just an empty space in the universe. It doesn't matter how loudly I scream, no one will hear.
    callmejohann callmejohann 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I wish I could have friend

    that loves what I love listen to what I listen that would be so awesome
    jumanachan jumanachan 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 43 Responses Jun 10, 2014

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    It's my birthday soon.

    A party by myself isn't ideal :/
    ssssmills ssssmills 18-21, F 25 Responses May 21, 2014

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    In class pretending like I'm texting

    because I have no one to text and I don't want people looking at me xD lalala
    SadLittleFlower SadLittleFlower 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Wandering Alone At Night.

    It happened again last night, that feeling. I went out on a very busy street at night and had a walk, there were clubs, pubs, cafe's restaurants, etc. The walk started out fine, when I locked my thoughts up in my own little world and keep them to myself. But I soon found out...
    ForestRain ForestRain 31-35, F 13 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    In high school, I had the best friends—and

    not just in a "my friends are THE BEST" way, but in a "we are a group of four people and are all so close that we are psychically linked and feel no need for other relationships because we are all in love" way (if you've ever seen Community, we were all basically Troy and Abed...
    sixpercent sixpercent 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    quinnie385 quinnie385 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's not that I don't want friends.

    I just find it difficult to be friends with people my age. I've always been told I'm more mature than people my age. I need a friend that will talk about serious things with me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life with people who don't care about anything.
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I Have No Friends...

    All my life I have wished for a "best friend". I am tired of having no social life. I just want to have someone to laugh with or hang out with. I want to talk to someone when I am upset. I have always wanted to just have a friend. I try my best but it does not work :(
    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    I truly do have no friends.

    It is really sad because these people I used to call my 'friends' said they would be there for me, that we are the best of friends and that anything I tell them is between us. I am one who has been abused their whole life in all aspects of abuse really, I deal with bullying...
    XxMisguidedxGhostxX XxMisguidedxGhostxX 13-15, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    Friendless

    Regardless of the fact that I think I am a good person, and help others when I can, I find that no one wants to return the favor.  I am continually overlooked and just plain left out.  People at work have even commented that I just assumed I had friends in the workplace...
    Zvezda Zvezda 41-45, F 15 Responses May 4, 2007

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    When it comes to the real world I have no

    friends no one wants me to hang out with them. However in the the world of video games the guys and girls of my gaming guild are the only friends i need we all get on amazingly well we love playing online together. Our favourite game to play online is GTA V here is footage from...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am so lonely. I was doing

    so well pretending everything was ok and trying to feel happiness. But now i'm back in the dark. I feel numb, lost, scared, confused and very empty. I feel like i'm heading down a road to nowhere when all I really want is to be heading somewhere with good friends.
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    I Finally Figured Out Why I Have No Friends

    All this time, I thought it was because there was just something repellent about me. Or that it was due to my lacking social skills, or a doomed fate to forever-alone-dom, or mismatched frequencies between me and the rest of the world. But the real reason why I have no friends...
    toba122 toba122 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    I just started a new job.

    I'm a waitress at a cheese and wine bar. I was really proud of myself for getting this job, because I am very shy around people and thought this would be great for me to socialize more. But now I just feel so down about it. The people I work with are all young and funny and cool...
    Derpkitty Derpkitty 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Don't Care For Them

    For the majority of my life i have been a loner , in school i was really quiet and shy so i didn't go and approach people like other kids did. It was the same through out elementary, middle and high school- the so called "friends" i did have were just people that approached me...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Trying To Survive College Without Friends

    Hi guys! I'm currently an undergraduate freshman at a good-sized school. I just started my second semester and I realized that I have really no good friends here. Yeah, I get along with guys that live with on my floor, but I've never really "hung out" with any them on a regular...
    DK248HR DK248HR 18-21, M 61 Responses Jan 27, 2012

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    The fact that I'm not someone

    who puts a lot of effort into developing relationships could be a good reason for why I find myself in such a state. But it's also about circumstances and luck, I guess, because it doesn't all belong to our control like you can't control how many people or what kind there will...
    somniatorlupus somniatorlupus 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    i think i don't have any friends

    who can share each other..from silly jokes to meaningfull and deep soul conversation. And l’d love to make good friends who is fair for two of us. The end of the day,before go to bed, if we can share something like that... That must be peaceful and beautiful.
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I used to be a happy person with loads of

    friends. We hang out every weekend for years and I felt so lucky. Then life turned to **** and I got so depressed. Turns out no one will be your friend in the hard times. Only happy you is worth being a friend too. Seems they weren't really my friends to begin with. Now I'm so...
    aussiegirl2014 aussiegirl2014 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    When I was in school I saw how my classmates

    were bullying weaker ones, I listened how they talked **** behind their own friends backs. And I always imagined what it feels like to be bullied, what unwound do at their position , in fact I even wished to be bullied yet I was let's say to strong for other to bully me.... I...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Not that I went through life without friends.

    Actually I had a good group of friends when I was younger but its a small town and everybody moved away or lost touch. I find when you are not working or in school, it is hard to meet people at all let alone make friends. I don't count my old friends as friends because we never...
    Jackson2222 Jackson2222 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    shionhehe shionhehe 16-17, T 2 Responses Mar 30

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    When I say friend, I mean friend

    as in: Actual conversing with each other, not just adding someone for the sake of self-enjoyment. On the internet, that's basically all I get, just some random person adding me and never talking to me or acting somewhat interesting in engagement. It's stories like these, I'll...
    Lunakicker Lunakicker 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I have never had "friends"

    or a friend. Not the real kind anyway. People I hung out with once or twice or people who just used me. I last had one of those people many many years ago. Since then I've had no one. It is hard because I long to laugh and talk to someone. I just don't get along or have anything...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I Am a Grown Woman With No Friends . . .

    In a short while I will be 31 years old and I have no friends. If I had to ask someone for help at this very moment, there is no one I could call. However, I know lots of people on both professional and personal levels but not a single individual from these groups EVER...
    WynsomeGreen WynsomeGreen 31-35, F 127 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    I have no friends to talk to

    so I'm just going to sing HAPPY LLAMA SAD LLAMA MENTALLY DISTURBED LLAMA SUPER LLAMA DRAMA LLAMA BIG FAT MAMA LLAMA!!!!!!!
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My legs are crippled

    and everyone turns me down because of my horrible skin disease
    studmuffin17 studmuffin17 41-45, M 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Days Of Silence

    I can go days without any text messages or phone calls and the only people that do contact me are my two brothers. I get so jealous when everyone else around me are constantly on their phones. Sometimes I feel like I would be happier if I just gave up and accepted my loneliness.
    chasingMonday chasingMonday 31-35, M 26 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Does it make anyone else sad to be home alone

    on a friday night and not have any friends to call to hangout with?
    Mela22 Mela22 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I'm moving from the capital to a small city by

    the sea with 4.000 inhabitants. I know absolutely no-one. I'm excited but also scared that I will be alone most of the time. I suck at connecting with people. I can count my friend on one hand.
    mtea mtea 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Friends Betray...

    I've only ever experienced betrayal from friends, so I choose to no longer have any, and I'm happier that way.  My best friend slept with, and got pregnant by, my husband.  That was the last straw.  Because she wasn't the first.  I'd lost boyfriends to...
    aranarose aranarose 31-35 192 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    RedDog123321 RedDog123321 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm 21 years old and I have social anxiety.

    I feel like I will never have friends in my future. It's hard to meet people when I am shy and certainly not talkative at all! I get depressed about it, especially after I come home from class and do nothing exciting like going out and have fun... I have a feeling this will be...
    Whatsername21 Whatsername21 22-25, F 19 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    My supposed to be best friend turned her back

    on me twice. Once after high school and now. She had a controlling bf who told her not to associate with me. I kept trying to get in contact with her for years. Then one day out of the bleu she texts me and I forgave her and we were friends again. I had a controlling...
    DeeDoubleYoux DeeDoubleYoux 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I went out today to meet my friends to see

    Spider-Man 2. I was walking to the front of the theater when I received a phone call. Two of them were able to get tickets but the movie had just sold out. I walked back to my car so I could go back home. I don't even know what the other friends in the group were doing since...
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 36-40, F 39 Responses May 3, 2014

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    Lonely.

    Apart from the four friends I've made in the last year online, I have no "real life" friends. I've never been one to have a whole group of friends, only a few, but I lost those when I left school due to bullying in 2009. They weren't genuine nor did they really care about me as a...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 60 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Having an IQ over 130 makes you friendless.

    Thus the fact has been stated.
    Existentior Existentior 31-35, M 30 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    I have no friends. No fake friends.

    No kind of friends. No best friends. No "lets go shopping" friends. No one to console me when I cant talk to my husband about something... I dont even have family that I am close to. Dont talk to my mom, and dad doesnt talk to me because I dont talk to her. I miss having friends...
    HarborLove HarborLove 22-25, F 15 Responses Apr 23, 2014

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    I guess it's me I find it hard to keep people's

    interest. And when I try to talk about what they want I carnt keep the conversations going and they just start talking to each other. When I was at school, college and uni people only bothered with me to talk their issues thru and then would go off with others. No wonder the ex...
    teacupsandroses teacupsandroses 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 5

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    Sometimes, I feel like music has been the only

    real friend in my life. I've realized that I've never had the experience of a friend or just a person being there for me when I'm in a low mood. It's not poetic, it's not even a metaphor. Many people in my life believe that I am a talented musician and vocalist, but it's just...
    TheAnonymousINFx TheAnonymousINFx 18-21, F Apr 7

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