I Have No Idea How To Fall In Love

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    I don't even know what it is.

    .. I've always seen movies and read book where there are a huge chain of events and romantic gestures before people fall in love and when I look at the real world I see just people that barely know each other dating and saying they are in love. And when I look at anyone all I see...
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2014

    They say books are educational.

    Well, all the romance books I read DO NOT show me how to fall in love. You know the couple is going to have a happy ending in the end. Real life is totally not like that. Some books, the girl is flirty. Other books, the girl plays hard to get. Some books, the girl had sex on the...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2014

    I feel like I know how

    but just don't want to do it cause I'm afraid of the outcome
    Gian422 Gian422
    18-21, M
    Sep 26, 2014

    I don't really mind. People just take too much

    time to fuss about it like you should be aware when you're falling in love.
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2014

    I'm not used to "those things".

    When I had a boyfriend, most of the time I used to tell myself that "I don't know how to"couple"", so yeah. All that stuff is not for me. I'm kinda used to the solo life. And I'm happy with it its just that sometimes I miss the "perks" of being in a relationship. But I still...
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever
    22-25, F
    Sep 27, 2014

    I have no idea how to fall In love The longest

    I dated someone was a year or 2 years I think. It wasn't love. It was high school love my parents met him. Besides that I have no idea what love is. I get butterflies in my stomach but what is love? I would not know I don't think I would ever be asked for marriage. So while I...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2014

    I've always bought into the 'fall in love with

    your childhood bestfriend' idea but as i grew to realise, this fantasy will never cone through. Simply because: 1) my bestfriend is a guy 2) i dont have a childhood (sweetheart) Now i'm totally lost because, as much as i want and need company, i just cant seem to fall for...
    Nought Nought
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2014

    I just don't know how.

    :-/ or perhaps it is because I have not made an effort to open my heart to other people than my family. Or more likely, I had focused too much on my studies? Hmmm.
    deleted deleted
    Sep 26, 2014

    I don't know how. For example here was this one

    guy, who I really liked. Every morning he messaged me "good morning beautiful" and every night "good night beautiful", and he just treated me so well. Better than anyone ever did. And he was also very handsome. He had great sense of humour. We had a lot fun together. But just...
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2014

    Is Love At First Sight? Or Do You Grow To Love?

    I define being in love is when two people love each other. Something I have yet to experience. I have loved and been loved many a time but still have never actalluy dated someone. Mostly due to my choice. I just believe if u arnt attracted to the person physically AND mentally...
    sherahia sherahia
    Sep 6, 2010
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