I Have No Idea Where I Fit In

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 465 People

    And I Dont Even Care

    I like having friends to play with but I also want to be alone at times. im not gona be who they all want me to be! so I go off on my own hikes to get away from this messed up world they think is so cool and it feels great to blend in with nature. im not lookin for answers...
    Wolfbrat Wolfbrat
    13-15, M
    Jan 30, 2011

    Trapped In Between

    I am transgendered. I was born with a female body and raised like I was female. However I have always known that I didn't fit in with women. They have always made me feel like an outcast. They just plain made me uncomfortable whenever I was forced into a group of them.However, as...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    41-45, T
    May 14, 2013

    I Like Being Unique

    I don't even try to fit in. I like being me.  I am unique and there is no one out there like me.  I am proud of that fact. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2010

    I Can't Be

    I am so odd that I can't be classified
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    4 Responses Aug 19, 2010

    To Many Options Is The Problem...

    Throughout my life I have been told these things..I am the shy girlI am a lonerI am emoI am gothI am popular I am easy going and many more things. I can honestly say I do not know " where I fit in " or " where I could fit in " But the older I have gotten the less I have...
    purplebutterfly14 purplebutterfly14
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2011

    I'm the girl that wears band tees

    and skinny jeans, but listen to anything but bands. I listen to Kpop, Jrock, Cpop. I even know a song in Icelandic. I play soccer and tennis, but don't participate in gym. I get good grades, but I don't do most of the work needed. I'm friends with at least one person from every...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 10, 2015

    Humble Random Thought .../my First Story Posted

    The funny thing is I don't even know what or why to write. Most people have some kinda recent event what upsetted them or even made them feel more suicidal than ever. There are many events such as losing a job, a girlfriend, having fights with relatives, or realising how much of...
    StotheG StotheG
    18-21, M
    Jul 9, 2012

    I know I fit in somewhere.

    .. I want to find a place I belong, to find my self-worth, I just haven't figured out where it is yet.
    Letmebee Letmebee
    26-30, F
    Apr 3, 2015

    I Wonder..

    Because I have been shuffling around the places all through my life. I have no idea where I really belong to. I have lived in the most remote village to the busiest city. Never missed a peaceful town life too. Henceforth acquainted different kinds of people I met all my way...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 24, 2012

    Where Do I Belong Now?

    I've always been an ugly child, and an even less attractive teenager. (My worst years were my "tween" years.) And now that I'm finally reaching 20 and soon will be expected to let go of my childhood and all that that implies I feel kinda lost. Being an unpopular girl I grew into...
    keniakittykat keniakittykat
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2011

    Stranger In A Familiar Land

    Not exactly sure what prompted it in the first place, or if it was actually the default state of affairs, but I've always felt like something vaguely alien to this world. Not in the sense of "I'm not sure what I should be doing in this situation" but in the sense of "if I draw...
    doctormadmann doctormadmann
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2011

    The World You Love

    I'm lost, plain and simple.I can't make up my mind on anything and when I do, ask me again in a week and 9 times out of 10 my answer will have changed. But of course no one I physically know knows that. They just all assume I have the same opinions as I did when I was 4, and I'm...
    complexitykills complexitykills
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2010

    I don't quite belong to a social group

    nor have any good friends. The best friends I do make seem to turn out to be rude or abusive. I'm fairly smart but not smart enough to hang out with the intelligent kids. I can decently draw but not well enough to hang out with the artistic kids. I don't really fit in anywhere.
    QuietViolets QuietViolets
    18-21, F
    Aug 31, 2014

    I literally have no ******* clue what im doing,

    I know what I want but i don't know how to get it. I'm definitely not in the right place to be doing it.
    billdenberg billdenberg
    22-25, M
    Jan 8, 2014


    As I was browsing my EP I stumbled across this group. I totally forgot I created it after I joined! I'm so stoked that other people have joined it and shared their stories! This small thing had made me smile, and for that I am grateful. Thank you all so much. Keep sharing. I love...
    BlissfulDreamer BlissfulDreamer
    22-25, F
    Feb 16, 2012

    Lets be real here.if I was to break up with my

    bf,and then get back together with him. It simply just wouldn't work. Because you already tried one time and failed.
    Bassfisher67 Bassfisher67
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2014


    Up until recently I thought I was workin toward a common goal, with my long term partner. He has recently told me that he appreciated my efforts in making our lives functional but he has been fighting crushing lonliness because i have been here but not... disconnected... lost...
    MeaganBiXr MeaganBiXr
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2011

    Wandering Under The Radar Of Life

    Even though i have achieved a lot throughout my lifetime, coming from a broken home and environment, it does not feel like I have reached my potential yet. I know there is a whole life ahead for me, but there just has not been somewhere where I feel like i am at home and mesh...
    numb490 numb490
    22-25, M
    Apr 11, 2012

    Just A Little Of Everything.

     I don't, not, fit in anywhere. I fit in with a lot of people and groups. I have a very open mind and I dont dismiss anything until I have tried it. I love trying new things and meeting new people. I love having a new and odd story to tell people and new memories to have. I...
    BlissfulDreamer BlissfulDreamer
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2010

    I Don't Fit In But I Don't Care

    I have never fitted in to a specific mold but why should I. I'm not sporty enough to be a jock, not smart enough to be a geek, I don't wear the right things talk the right way or listen to the right music but why should I? Why should I listen to pop, wear designer labels and...
    Ravennatalya Ravennatalya
    13-15, F
    Apr 10, 2012


    I have moved around so much in my life I refer to myself as tumbleweed. I started life in the UK. I moved to Germany when I was in my teens, and in my late teens I moved to Canada. I started out in western Canada and moved east. where I currently live. When I talk to friends and...
    reveur reveur
    46-50, F
    Feb 6, 2012
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