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I Have No Interest In Having a Boyfriend

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    This is something I think about sometimes because life can change in an instant.  Who knows where we will be in five years?  We don't.  I do know this.  If my husband were to die, I'd have absolutely no interest in dating, or a boy friend.  What...
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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     I have absolutely no interest in being in a relationship, whatsoever. I am 25 and my only concern is that this is really odd. i guess there are a few reasons why, mainly I have had a bit of a roller coaster ride of a life the past few years, i escaped a violent relationship...
    matilda25 matilda25 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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