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I Have No Kids

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    Hopefully Not For Too Long

    I love kids and im married to my wonderful husband... we already went through one miscarriage and sometimes i really wish that we would try again... however, i think that it should be at the right time in our relationship... i dont mind not having kids right now too much, but...
    sothisisme sothisisme 22-25, F Jan 5, 2009

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    I have no kids. I'm almost 30 & all my friends

    are married with kids or pregnant. I don't know if I want kids. I never really have had the urge but I find I don't fit in with my friends now even though I make an effort to maintain the friendship, I feel it's a really one sided effort. A simple lunch date is a big logistical...
    Lonesailor14 Lonesailor14 26-30, F Mar 1

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    I'm Thrilled That I Have No Kids.

    I never wanted kids and I was smart to not have any. My life has been a lot easier without (human) children. I do have 6 feline babies.
    Catslove Catslove 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2012

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    Well, Not Yet Anyway

    Maybe in like fifteen years or so?
    girlanonymous girlanonymous 18-21, F Dec 24, 2010

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    Not Yet

    I have no kids, but just because I don't have them doesn't necessary mean that I don't want them, because I do more than anything. My husband has a low ***** count so we've had a time trying to get pregnant and we just pray someday that it happens.
    RealityTVJunkie RealityTVJunkie 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    Single With No Kids

    I'm 18, single, and no kids, and I like it that way.
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Why Me?

    Ever since I was a kid I always thought I would have lots of kids and be the best mom in the world.....and now at age 37 I have NO KIDS!! I thought that maybe I was so stressed but after going to the gyno she told me I have Fibroid on the wall of my uterus and the only way to...
    feelempty feelempty 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    I'm in my mid-30s. I know that isn't old in the grand scheme of things, but I'm getting somewhat nervous that I haven't had any children yet. I'm not married, but dating. The...
    Sdg9791 Sdg9791 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I believe that some people should have kids too. I know this lady that beats her autistic child because she can't handle how different he is. She also makes her kids lie about her...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Seems like more and more people are having kids at such a young age now a days. No one wants to wait until they are financially stable, married. I personally want to enjoy my life...
    iamnikki iamnikki 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    There should be an iq test amongst other intelligence tests before you can have kids
    smadathehut smadathehut 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm probably one of them with my track record. I'm great with other peoples kids and other peoples life's but I can always give the kids back etc but the accolades go on and on...
    jadedover101 jadedover101 22-25 1 Response Jul 3

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    I have to Many kids.. I really don't know if i enjoy being a mother.. Maybe I should but I don't know I love my kids but it's not what I thought
    cherrikisses22 cherrikisses22 22-25 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I don't like when people tell me how to live my life just because I'm a woman I should be married and have children even I'm not crazy about marriage or kids right now. I don't...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F Jun 26

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    I knew I didn't want kids from the time I was a child myself. Having a hysterectomy at 28, (due to severe endometriosis), was a blessing. Now that I'm in my 30's I hope to find a...
    Nikki351 Nikki351 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Have you seen the young Mum in the shop trying to get her young daughter who doesn't want to leave without this toy, that packet of sweets, behave and frustrated she starts...
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Seriously, some people are just not fit to be parents. A particular 4 year old's mother for instance. It's my boyfriend's son's mother. She can't hold a job, lives at home with...
    xXFemmeFataleXx xXFemmeFataleXx 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    For various reasons: I'm afraid of child birth, I'm afraid of raising them wrong and not being able to care for them properly, and when I'm being honest with myself, sometimes I'm...
    NoYourComstock NoYourComstock 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Wht happens I I have to many kid or what happens if they have cancer or they all ways get in trouble
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was married once, my marriage was annulled. I have a daughter who lives with me. She is always a part of me, and will always be with me. I need a man who will understand and...
    MissKassandra MissKassandra 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    because of him, he wounded me so bad that i am having major issues... its sad that a young girl like me is already worrying about those things, but the anxiety he gave me, causes...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Yes, like an incestuous couple, for example.
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    If you can't take care of yourself how are you suppose to take care of a newborn? Or a toddler? If you can't sustain yourself then how could you feed your hungry children? I'm not...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    In one of my dreams that really hit me emotionally... It started off with me in a black room that was covered in blood everywhere. I turn around I see a scale that weighs small...
    maliciousMartyr maliciousMartyr 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Why should we women be made to feel like, just because we can, we have to have kids? Every woman is supposed to have a maternal side to her apparently but who said that feeling a...
    abbietee abbietee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I have had 5 miscarriages over the past 2 years but my boyfriend does not want to ttc. We are not using any prevantive measures such as condoms or hormonal birth control as we have...
    amore1993 amore1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I honestly don't want kids. I know some people don't understand it fully, but kids scare me. They're always in everything and making messes and they never listen. If you love them...
    LilMissStats LilMissStats 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Kids are hardwork. that is afact you ahve to deal with it. I know that really good. I babysitt a lot mostly children around 5 and 12 years. But eventhough they can cost me my...
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F Jul 1

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    First of all i dont have a plan to have kids right now because for one , im gonna finish college two, im still a minor, and three who the heck would want a kid this age? Anyway...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F Jul 17

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    Hey guys, it's past midnight over here and I've been trying to fall asleep but I got stuck reading posts, articles, etc. of HPV. I'm only 20 and not even two weeks ago I received...
    sunny1993 sunny1993 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't really plan on having kids just yet, but I would like to get married if I ever find that special someone. If I have kids once I'm a grown up, it will be one girl and one...
    ImaWeirdie ImaWeirdie 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    one crazy conversation... acquaintance: "Hey, you want to have kids one day?" me: "No." acquaintance: "Why not? You seem like you’d be a good mom. Or is it that you don’t...
    Neiymara Neiymara 22-25, F Jul 8

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    I haven't seen my kids in a month and its killing me. I was a great dad. How can someone rip that away? If you have kids appreciate them. Make them feel like they are the most...
    dontsaycant dontsaycant 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    We'll honestly I don't even know if I can have kids, an I don't even want them honestly... But I like the names Destry, Marni, Ginnty (of course) and Avie-roo (probs a nickname)
    Ginnty Ginnty 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'm not in a relationship, but if I do have kids one day I'd like to name my daughter Violet Kathleen, my son Nicholas Hunter.
    angkath80 angkath80 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    If I Were To Have Kids I'd want to name them something that isn't so common. My six choices for a girl is Violet, Willow, Heaven, Faye, Lucille & Brookelle (or Brooklyn, can't...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The Scar's Are Where I Have Been.. I first self harmed when i was about 11, i remember what i used too. I was alone and crying my eyes out i think it was the time my mum got rid of...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jun 29

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    I'm so glad that I made the conscious decision to never have kids because..
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Not right now! I just mean that I hope I don't have any daughters when I have kids someday.
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F Jul 7

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    It seems like every single time I get married ***** be getting jealous. We have kids and do our thing then another girl flirts with me and the wife sees it. She gets all angry and...
    Jackson2222 Jackson2222 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Travel for a year to central/ South America Have kids Learn how to cook Run the LA marathon And .... And ... Hmmmm it's a lot more than I thought it would be darn it ..
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    how do snakes have kids? I have a bald python and I don't see in man parts or lady bits
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have had bad luck for awhile.Right now my husband has been out of work for a week,and i have money to pay rent for august but thats it. .I'm working odd jobs right now.He was...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Where to start, well I guess the simple fact is that I'm 22 live and work with/for my mother. I don't have a drivers license, any friends, and have never had a boyfriend. She...
    ashley7007 ashley7007 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm 17 and I was diagnosed with Ovarian Cysts. My doctors said I have three choices.. I can get surgery and not be able to have kids in the future, do nothing, or get on birth...
    MacKenzie31113 MacKenzie31113 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    Echosmith - Cool KidsI wish that I could be like the cool kids cuz all the cool kids they seem to fit in.
    Maryahsings Maryahsings 16-17, F 35 mins ago

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    My husband and I are nudists and have been for 10 years. We have 2 sons and 2 daughters together. Plus I have 2 other sons from a previous marriage. My kids range in age from 2...
    leslieathome leslieathome 31-35, F 8 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Ghana, West Africa had held my heart since the day i stepped foot on their soil. Its so hard to put into words how much of an impact going to an African country will have on your...
    amandakleveland amandakleveland 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago