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I Have No Luck Dating

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    Look For My Book

      I have had so many bad dating experiences that I have been told by many, MANY people that I should write a book about it!
    missadventurer missadventurer 22-25, F Jan 13, 2010

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    How When Where

    I don't get out anywhere except the grocery store so where the heck am I expected to meet someone... and if I do, when would I go out on a date? It just doesn't happen. No time, no person, no fun
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    I Think I Scare Men Away

    That's what I've been told at least. And it isn't that I come on too strong, but people tell me that I'm intimidating. It drives me crazy! I try not to be, I try to be nice, I try to be funny, nothing works. Being myself doesn't seem to work either. So instead of trying anymore...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    My ex contacted me the other night out of the

    blue and invited me over because he got me my favorite candy. I was busy then and said ok I'll come over tomorrow, he gave me this little candy gummy hearts, we talked a bit at his place and then we both said we had places to go so we left, he hugged me and walked me to the...
    babylove1993 babylove1993 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2014

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    "Oh Well, Okay."

    These days, actually for awhile now, I have found myself having the worst of "luck" finding someone who is willing to be in a relationship with me. I find it easier to accept the fact that it wasn't meant to be, etc. but it still hurts knowing that there...
    bloodpromise bloodpromise 18-21, F Jul 5, 2009

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    Boys

    I have no luck dating because I don't want luck dating. I love being single. I don't have the time or the patience for a boyfriend right now.
    volleyballa volleyballa 16-17, F Dec 23, 2007

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    Between Work Art Business and Home...

    I barely have time to shower in the morning much less meet someone.  At first it was a confidence issue, now I just don't have any bloody time! 
    PhillipWallace PhillipWallace 18-21, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I Get It.

    I've tried eharmony and actually got past the personality profile. I've payed and start sending out starter messages to the matches they give me. I find out later that even though I am paying for the service the people who receive my messages must also pay in order to even look...
    Mattagus Mattagus 26-30 Sep 6, 2010

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    I'm not the prettiest

    or most popular girl in school so most guys don't go after me, but if I do date it ends up being horrible guys who treat me horrible
    Aubreygrace115 Aubreygrace115 13-15, F Jul 23, 2014

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    Just Lucky I Guess.

    i certainly know how to pick em. thats all. ugh.
    LittleLady LittleLady 18-21, F Dec 17, 2007

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    Longing

         I have had absolutely no luck dating at all. Most of the girls I have dated have been unfaithful. The last one I was in was for 3 years. I have tried at times to just date around and be honest up front saying that we will both date other people too. This...
    Xeno Xeno 26-30, M 5 Responses Jun 29, 2007

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    It's so **** I feel iv lost total confidence in

    myself because of this aswell...
    MS1SM MS1SM 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2015

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    In Order To...

    In order not to have luck dating, one would need to obtain that date first... I guess that makes me the unluckiest of the unlucky, lol.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    So I was told a few weeks ago by my supposed to

    be best friend that I never get dates or sex from guys or girls because I don't wear makeup. No I don't get dates because I choose not to go and I don't get sex because I'm not some easy chick that sleeps with the whole town and I want to wait until I'm in a serious relationship...
    canutomj canutomj 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    Tall Guys Don'T Like Me :(

    I am 5'11" and 21 years old. I'm at that point in my life where I'm seeing all the people I went to school with getting married. I've set my eyes on so many men taller than me that didn't seem to be interested in anyone over 5'5". I've had to mature a lot and come to a point...
    lovessunflowers lovessunflowers 22-25, F Oct 7, 2013

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    Nope Not Here....

    Dating.... Agh.. Well to say the least i suck at it.. You ever notice that what you think you want isnt really what you want after you get it..? Yea thats me.. I guess when it comes to getting dates I dont have a problem finding them its wanting to go further thats my problem...
    AuThEnTiC AuThEnTiC 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2007

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    About a year and a half ago I met a married man who was lonely and seemed broken hearted. We hung out for a while as friends and eventually turned into something more .... When he...
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    I'm all for women taking thier time to observe which man is a meaningful potential candidate for a long lasting marriage but I also want to remind ladies that their youth is a...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 8 hrs ago

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    Ok so it's only Feb but I've been away from here and people have been worried so want to update you. Im ok now but I was cheating lots over Xmas and my bf finally found out. He is...
    CheatingTracy CheatingTracy 22-25, F 12 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Would anyone be interested in a younger man? He's very intelligent, funny, spontaneous, and mature for his age. He's my absolute best friend in the whole wide world, the only...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Would anyone be interested in a younger man? He's very intelligent, funny, spontaneous, and mature for his age. He's my absolute best friend in the whole wide world, the only...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Would anyone be interested in a younger man? He's very intelligent, funny, spontaneous, and mature for his age. He's my absolute best friend in the whole wide world, the only...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Would anyone be interested in a younger man? He's very intelligent, funny, spontaneous, and mature for his age. He's my absolute best friend in the whole wide world, the only...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Would anyone be interested in a younger man? He's very intelligent, funny, spontaneous, and mature for his age. He's my absolute best friend in the whole wide world, the only...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    My dad has CF and was given till about 13 to live when he was born because there weren't many medicines in those days for it. Now days the life expectancy for someone with his...
    AnonymousKCQ AnonymousKCQ 22-25, F 22 hrs ago

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    I ain't here for dating! Please stop messaging me for role play , sex chats, or even ask for naked pics. For goodness sake find a suitable website for that.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    my husband says that im the most very lucky in the entire universe. which is true... lol welli dont know how i can describe this but i am lucky. im rarely sick in 1 year cant even...
    Ghe8 Ghe8 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Some people would not consider dating someone of another culture, not because they aren't attracted to them or that their social class may be an issue but because they are afraid...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There are many aspects to the initial dating universe that has become more of a nuisance than good for men with good intentions for a relationship. One in particular that really...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    I will admit it openly one of the pet peeves I have for the dating universe is when a woman is no longer in her physical prime been through every horrifying relationship imaginable...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    but it can be used like one can it not? Actually I have a friend who found their mate on EP. Person was probably just lucky! All the dating sites that I joined tend to...
    aquarius3 aquarius3 66-70 5 days ago

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    I AM NOT HERE FOR DATING OR FLIRTING OR FLIRTING OR DATING! THE END.
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    RedChaplin RedChaplin 22-25, M a week ago

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    Im in serious need of dating help
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 3

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    Happy V💘lentines Day, in advance! Oooh, this memory came to me. There was a period in my life when I wasn't permitted to converse with boys. I couldn't dream of dating. I would...
    nancycandy1234567890 nancycandy1234567890 31-35, F Feb 2

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    I need help, I started dating this guy who's black, we've been friends forever. My parents don't approve, it's really hard because I don't want to disrespect my parents but at the...
    kpool88 kpool88 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Im dating a woman. I pay for everything. Now she wants me to pay for her and her friends too. Why do women play me for a trick...
    xIcexColdx xIcexColdx 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    I have this too and on my scalp I have some bald spots, luckily my hair is very thick and it covers it up but this isn't good, I'm using head bands and perfumes to stop this. I...
    CookieTracker7 CookieTracker7 16-17, F Jan 28

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    For ***** ‘n giggles of it, I compiled only ‘some’ of the dating questions I would now ask at this point in my life. These questions are rhetorical here. I could come up with...
    OlivePhire OlivePhire 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I've never really talked about it except to people I'm closest to, so here goes nothin. When we started dating he treated me like I was precious and gave me attention i had never...
    SnowWhite87 SnowWhite87 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I've been texting with a guy I used to go to school with. It's been 6 1/2 months now and I thought he was beginning to like me... flirting and such. But twice now he's suggested we...
    vickie8669 vickie8669 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 26