Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Have No Luck When It Comes to Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 69 People

    Still In Ugly Duckling Phaze

     The first guy I loved I met in second grade, a couple years later it was a full blown crush. So I decided to tell him. On Valentines day of sixth grade I sent him a special card, that he shared with the whole class. Everyone thought "I was just being cute." He...
    4Daereen 4Daereen 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Like Him So Much, Plese Advice!

    ok im just going to put everything out there and see what advice anyone recommends me.. i am 20 yrs old this guy is 36, we met at a school building he is a dean there and for the past couple months there has been this strong intense look between us, its almost unbearable, we r...
    memories789 memories789 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Love...?

    I am always blinded by love and fail to see reality. My love life is what I make of it even if it is not real. Guys always just end up cheating on me or "fall out of love" with me. So I pretend that I don't see it coming when I actually do. It is my worst luck ever.
    mysticallyinvisible mysticallyinvisible 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Just The Friend...

    I don't know what it is about me that keeps people from falling for me. It always stops at "just being friends". I guess I've had someone fall in love with me once. But she took it back and said she had mistaken her feelings. That hurt a lot because I loved her more...
    HypeZerauj HypeZerauj 18-21 Dec 27, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Broken Heart

    I've been deceived twice. All the guys I loved turned out to be loving someone else or married to someone else without letting me know about it. I only found out when the wife or girlfriend answered his phone. How could men be this deceiving? Or is it just because no one loves...
    vtqyen vtqyen 22-25 Dec 8, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Still In Ugly Duckling Phaze

     The first guy I loved I met in second grade, a couple years later it was a full blown crush. So I decided to tell him. On Valentines day of sixth grade I sent him a special card, that he shared with the whole class. Everyone thought "I was just being cute." He...
    4Daereen 4Daereen 18-21, F Dec 26, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When Opportunity Knocks...

    Almost every time I have a crush on a guy, he also has a crush on me, but the problem is that I don't find out about this until it's too late and he's already moved on. I'm completely clueless when it comes to guys because I can never tell when a guy likes me or is flirting with...
    hippie71117 hippie71117 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Works Out

    i can never find anyone. am always the girl who all the guys think is either not attractive or skinny enough or just "one of the guys". i have always been called unattractive and have never really had a boyfriend. last time i had a boyfriend was when i was 15 and that was for...
    Silent20 Silent20 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I have never said "I love you", at least not seriously (though even counting those instances, it's rate). Words have more meaning when used carefully and sparingly; I'm saving...
    bakeittwice bakeittwice 18-21, M Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”~Oscar Wilde As human beings we all seek to love and be loved. Love cannot be explained, measured or seen. It...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    By peaceinmiles (my ex) you told me U loved me U told me that it was us against the world U told me that ud be there for me I was there for you anytime U needed me I put your...
    flyguy3326 flyguy3326 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have had family members overcome Cancer and beat it, but I have also lost family members from it too. A few years ago, I lost my grandmother. She had stage 3 bone cancer, and...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I keep having these premonitions and dejavu's either from dreams or visions that really come true either days, weeks or months after i dream about. I actually had it all my life...
    TheWorldVsJ TheWorldVsJ 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in love for a long time, I finally could say all I feel to that person, but, she doesn't says "I love you" I hug her, shes hugs me, we hold our hands, and she is so cute...
    Vardelos Vardelos 18-21, M Dec 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i remember the first time he told me he loved me. i spent the weekend over at his place. We were watching movies. Actually, the movie played in the background while we talked all...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F Nov 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "Little Things" Your hand fits in mine Like it's made just for me But bear this in mind It was meant to be And I'm joining up the dots with the freckles on your cheeks And it all...
    kitkat2797 kitkat2797 16-17, F Nov 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dated dozens of women from the ages of 15 when I started dating to age 38 when I finally got married and never once fell in love with any of them. I wanted to but it just wasn't...
    Elcoman115 Elcoman115 51-55, M 5 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The Death of My Mother She has Always been there Smiling most of the time And some times just a bit stern But always with kind words Advice designed to help And help me to get...
    dragonfang dragonfang 51-55, M Dec 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My neighbours kid who I used to baby sit was diagnosed when she was five and died when she was eight. Later I was diagnosed with leukaemia stage 1, I'm better now and when my hair...
    Puck4Eva Puck4Eva 16-17, F Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My dearest dad has passed away for five months. I just couldn't stop missing him. I often cry at night. Oh, How I want to hear his voice calling me again! He loved me so much. When...
    constantiajeng constantiajeng 51-55, T Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is the one I have been dreading. The year my husband died, during the first Christmas, I walked through it in a daze, numb, fog. I know I am going to have to face it again...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I am talking to someone and they start to lose interest in what I am talking about, it hurts my feelings and I have trouble walking away. I want to keep trying to get their...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I only say this because I think being in love requires both parties complete infatuation . I love people who love me but loving them doesnt mean I'm in love with them . People...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Coffee mornings...a piece of toast.. feed the pets.... pause. an act You used to do..... shake it off...sip caffeine....take a shower and roll off my back. towel dry, wander...
    NixGnome NixGnome 22-25, F Dec 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I lost him a month ago. We were together for 4yrs. He said he's unhappy, that I'm complex and he's basic, that he can't see me in the future anymore, that I don't hang out with his...
    misskc22 misskc22 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My grandpa...the only one that meant anything to me out of my blood relation. I never met him until I was 13. We weren't super close, we didn't visit often, but I could completely...
    orchids2blu orchids2blu 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's really hard to focus on my finals when you still appear in my mind. You should be here right now, crying over finals with me instead of crying over you. Why?
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi, im already in a relationship for almost 3 years actually. But there was this guy at work who really caught my attention. At first i really don't focus on it. I just like him...
    shinju03 shinju03 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    well I been in love before..a couple times in my life..but I thought I put this song on to share since it reminded of that dope track from Talib Kweli :)
    jonnygoode74 jonnygoode74 36-40, M Nov 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've had two or three major crushes max. but the 'in love' feeling is alien to me. i can't understand why people would go to so much lengths or trouble to be 'in love'.
    cooledown cooledown 22-25, F Dec 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    susancc11 susancc11 26-30, F Dec 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Friday, December 5th, I found out the worst news ever. My boyfriend of 4 months passed away on Thursday after 20 days in the hospital. A year and a month after my brother passed...
    xXJustMe123 xXJustMe123 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I lost my dad to leukemia almost five years ago.Words can't even begin how much I miss him,ever since he went life has never been the same. sometimes I wish I could see him just...
    mariaaonzo mariaaonzo 18-21, F Dec 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    it is time I realize that the saying there is some one for every one is a total lie. I know I will grow old alone and I finally have come to accept it. my life will be just fine...
    lostguy19892014 lostguy19892014 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think it's important to say "I love you" to that person every opportunity you get
    SairaE SairaE 16-17, F Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My grandpas service was yesterday and I don't think it did him justice. Lots of his oldest friends didn't even show up. The one thing that keeps bothering me is my sister showed...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm here so strong. So confident of who I am. But then you come and break my heart into millions of pieces. You said that you would always be there for me. That you loved me. And I...
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 11 Responses Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sadness and Loss Tears falling Like sprays of salt From a sea wave Like rain from The skies above To fall from sad eyes' Eyes that see into A soul filled with sadness A soul that...
    dragonfang dragonfang 51-55, M Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It was October 10th 2008 I had just gotten home from school and I thought that nothing could down me on a good day because tomorrow was my birthday around 5:00 I get a call from my...
    Mrgreenthunder96 Mrgreenthunder96 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    :) :) I guess it's not up to me to consider my giving an artful love! I will try my best to give more to those who give and also to those who need or want taking.
    Lovleyes Lovleyes 18-21, F Dec 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I had someone that said she loved me but her actions didn't show it. Had a daughter together and bought a house a year ago, she had secrets with her phone and was avoiding me more...
    needbetter needbetter 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    In other words I have been lied to. Repeatedly.
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter 18-21, F Nov 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I watched my Father die of cancer. For 3 years my dad fought terminal lung cancer. He died 3 years ago. I was by his side the whole time. I can never stop thinking about him. I can...
    heathermal123 heathermal123 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My best friend growing up died over 2 years ago. I still find memories of him float up in my everyday life. I joined this group to see what is more common with grief. He was...
    Shniddleyway Shniddleyway 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    She's amazing an I want to marry her an we've only known each other for 16 days an been dating for 12 days. I've fallen quicker and harder for her than I ever have for anyone. We...
    robotredneck robotredneck 18-21, T 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel