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I Have No Mom On Mother's Day

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    Mother's Day 2009

    Well..yesterday was Mother's Day. Another year has passed and yet another special day will be celebrated without my mom. I find that when holidays approach, I busy myself with menial tasks in order to forget how sad it makes me. Most of the time I distract myself enough that...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 3 Responses May 11, 2009

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    I Miss My Ma

    She's been dead for 15 years now, sad thing is she died 3 momths to the day after my Dad. She had her faults, as we all do, but she was still my Mother and I loved her dearly. It would be so wonderful to walk back into her home again, seeing her sitting at the table drinking...
    snoose78 snoose78 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2009

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    I Keep a Mother's Day Box...

    my mom passed away unexpectedly in december of 2003. she wasn't the best mom in the world, but she did provide for me and also provided many special memories that i will treaure forever. there were some things left unsaid and some things left undone, so to soothe my spirit, i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Mommy,Now I'm Older Than You

    Mommy, you died too young. I reached your age and I passed it. Each year, I pass a little bit more of the age you were when you died. Mommy, I wish you had been alive when your grandson was born. He looks like you, even though he's now almost sixteen. He has your "pug nose" and...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Hi everyone; I have posted a couple responses here, I am very familiar with PA Mothers now. I decided to share my story and see if anyone can relate to mine. For a brief...
    XXwoundedXX XXwoundedXX 51-55, F Sep 14

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    My first post about my passive aggressive mother, an explanation: EP Link I've been doing some research on passive aggressiveness and found that it's an actual personality...
    Cupcakes95 Cupcakes95 36-40, F Aug 28

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    I'm 55 and a 22-year survivor of ovarian cancer. I'm also a 55-year survivor of a passive-aggressive mother. My mom had a pretty tough childhood, and I am sad to know the awful...
    Katsez01 Katsez01 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I just realised I have been living only for the sake of meeting my mom's expectations and demands on me. And the more she pushes me to 'do the right things', the more stressed I...
    Tomtarin Tomtarin 18-21 Aug 24

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    I have been reading a lot of these posts about passive aggressive mothers and I am shocked to see that I am not alone. I cannot speak to my friends about my experience because they...
    karineka karineka 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    My family has known for a while that our mother has the early onset on Alzheimer's and we have watched her quickly go down hill. Early yesterday she called us and told us that my...
    ColumbiaTiger ColumbiaTiger 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I know that my mother did drugs while I was a kid I was never informed which ones. I know she was and most likely still is an alcoholic as well. Recently after visiting where she...
    Marie240 Marie240 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    At 19 years old, I am only now realizing that my mother is extremely passive aggressive. I have always felt oppressed by her and her emotional ups and downs, but am just now...
    hopeful1995 hopeful1995 18-21 3 Responses Sep 11

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    She expects me to read her mind when it comes to her wants and needs. If she wants or needs something, and I am busy with something else, she becomes very sarcastic and martyr...
    RTPerry RTPerry 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    i got my learners and i am 32 years old, i am lefty , from the caribbean ,well my boyfriend show me 3 lessons before i got my learners friday gone (19/09/2014) i did my first...
    blusoldierwoman blusoldierwoman 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    For some reason, every valentines day I have ends up bad. One year I got suspended ;'-(
    saboosa1 saboosa1 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Making Friends at Payless... Don't be afraid guys..."TRY THEM ON" Those are the three magical words my favorite sales associate, Maribel told me in 2010, and they still ring true...
    esthr009 esthr009 46-50, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I lost control of my bladder at age 11, I go through 2-3 diapers a day, and I wet my bed every night, I don't know why I lost control of my bladder! Can anyone help me?
    Jaylieg Jaylieg 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 1

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    I have worn and own many pairs of woman's shoes. And have now lived in most continents and trust me the conversions are still annoying. Best not of advice is to try them on before...
    SophieSeal SophieSeal 26-30, T 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I am 20 years old and I don't have my license or permit. Usually when people turn 16 they are so set on driving and get their permit and license right away. I am not in any kind of...
    Samhopexo Samhopexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Never was interested in getting my license. When I was going into high school, the standards were changed, saying that students aren't forced to take driver's class which meant for...
    deadlyrose88 deadlyrose88 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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    I feel as though I can commit great evil and not even bat an eye lash and not have emotions then my mind completely switches to how could I have ever thought that I don't know...
    MrStein MrStein 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I bumming it today sweat pants & a t-shirt blah
    ThaQueen1 ThaQueen1 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Any one want to talk about heels add me or message me
    Disturbedheels Disturbedheels 26-30, M Sep 4

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    Ssooo I passed my driving test today...... :)
    whassupoldlady whassupoldlady 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am a woman in my mid-30s and have Asperger Syndrome. Even with that, I completed my MBA in accounting after toying with the possibility of careers in healthcare and even law...
    nschulm nschulm 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and his mom (and grandma) don't like me AT ALL. at first she was nice to me, she would always tell me how pretty I...
    lundenxo lundenxo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    My mother's name was Margaret Mandarinka Simza. Her middle name was the Slovak word for "tangerine" because when she was born, her parents had no food in the house except a basket...
    BlueMetalChick BlueMetalChick 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's only been a little over year since my mother walked out, and no one should ever have to brave that storm. I wonder still every day when it becomes easier. She was my...
    TheMostBeautifulBitterFruit TheMostBeautifulBitterFruit 16-17, F Aug 28

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    I inherited all of my mother’s best qualities. Yeah my mom was a peach. She passed on so many characteristics which are just now blossoming with age. More similarities present...
    dragonflEYEfly dragonflEYEfly 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I got a call the other day from my birth mom. The DNA was wrong she stated. The director of VS told her "although I can not release any identifying info to you, I'm looking at your...
    Back2Sue Back2Sue 46-50, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I sent this to my mother figure a few weeks back. I push thru suicide for her. I don't want her hurt. But I'm starting to feel this way again. Am I wrong for feeling this way...
    anonymouss2014 anonymouss2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    This is going to be a bit long winded, so if you do take the time to read it all; thank you. My son is 13 months old. His dad and I were together for five years and he asked me...
    SarcasticCommentLoading SarcasticCommentLoading 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 10

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    Background info: jr. In high school, my mom sits at a desk all day long then commutes 1-2 hrs per trip ( 4 hrs a day) to come home and complain about how bad the office is and get...
    SacredLoaf SacredLoaf 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    ...It is easier to fake happiness than it is to feel it. For years I have dedicated myself to upholding the narrative expected of me: feminine girl, smart student, bubbly and sweet...
    learningtoheal learningtoheal 18-21, F Aug 25

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    I can't eat anything because I am a fat *****! I can't do anything because I am FAT and DUMB! That is what my mom calls me! My mom will never ever me proud of me ever! I am going...
    oceanunique123 oceanunique123 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I'm not so self-conscious anymore. I met a wonderful man that taught me to love myself and I finally started believing it. It was a long, hard road but I finally accept who I am...
    jb1663 jb1663 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    13 years ago today I was 5 and I lost something I never had. It's a weird feeling to have a hole from something you never remember to begin with. She jumped out of a hotel window...
    idontknowidontknow idontknowidontknow 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Throughout most of my life, I've been closer to my mother then to my father, for various reasons, we don't get along. My mother has been the overprotective and controlling type...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Today was one of those days. On December 25th my mother will have been gone for 20 years, and two weeks before that I will be experiencing my 30th birthday, and also FINALLY...
    PhoenixLF PhoenixLF 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Next week, September 23rd will mark the 1 year anniversary of my Mother's passing. I can't believe it. The pain I feel is still so real, so new, so raw. I actually lost her a few...
    AnnaCrystal AnnaCrystal 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The Colosseum as well as the Sistine Chapel are just a couple of the unmissable points of interest On this historical metropolis. Yet another factor never to skip is sitting down...
    Wendolynce106 Wendolynce106 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    I just lost my mother 6 days back. It looks like world has ended for me. My life has stopped. Nothing makes me happy now. I lost her on 6th sep 2014. I bought gifts for her...
    gaytrinagpal gaytrinagpal 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    Hey everyone, I just wanted to drop a quick note on here because I’ll be leaving this forum at the end of the month. I’m sure if my MIL pulls a fast one on me or my partner...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 4 Responses Aug 28

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    I have an issue, an issue or few. My mom thinks I hate her because I talk so horrible 2 her... it's not that I hate her bc I don't I'm just upset with a grudge... see, she was an...
    regarnylkoorb regarnylkoorb 18-21, F Aug 30

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    It has been almost 18 months since my mother's death, and it is still painful for me. We had a very close mother/son relationship, and we used to do everything together. I miss...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I really have a dysfunctional family. It was an arranged marriage for my parents. My father married my mother out of greed. My mother is a high ranking government official and...
    Kurecca Kurecca 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Constant as the stars above Always know that you are loved And my love shining in you Will help you make your dreams come true Will help your dreams come true lamb lies down and...
    mommysbabygirl mommysbabygirl 18-21, F 1 day ago

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