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I Have No Patience For Whining Or Excuses

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    Yep!!

    Either you do it or you don't!! There is no mid-way. The bottom line is to get your job done. Rest is all BS!
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F Dec 26, 2008

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    Days of Whine & Neuroses

    Great topic!  I have no patience for whining and making excuses because this behavior reminds of someone I loathe, the person I used to be.  I grew up with every conceivable advantage, and a few others that happened to be lying around.  Despite this I was miserable...
    ElLagarto ElLagarto 56-60, M 8 Responses Jun 19, 2007

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    Yes, Too Many Whining And Excuses Gets Old

    Everything happens for a reason and we can either live with it or get over it. I choose to let past issues be in the past and therefore there is no need for whining nor excuses from those that commited those past acts. I like living in the present and thinking toward the future...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 23 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    So Annoying

    I can't stop and listen to someone who just whines or complains or just "can't do..." I am tired of hearing how bad someone's life is and that they can't do anything about it. I mean I will listen the first or second time after that I just want to tell them TAKE CONTROL...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F Dec 27, 2008

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    Whining About Life

    I have been thinking, how many times do we complain about the world around us?Many times we whine everything is bad and not interesting, sometimes we see our "world" as the worst one. I think and know I had moments like that. Once I was a member of the whining world...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 10, 2009

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    John Lennon Said...

    "I tell them there's no problems. Only solutions." I understand the importance of venting and working through problems.  Sometimes you have to scream, whine, *****, kvetch, etc, etc, etc, but once you've vented please move on.  Those of us who love you really...
    HeWhoPleasures HeWhoPleasures 41-45, M 17 Responses Aug 21, 2008

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    Cheese to Go With That Whine

    i tell whiners all the time; you got any cheese to go with that whine......
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Erm... No, I Don't

    It would be murder with my job. I hate giving out homework at the best of times, but the stories the kids come up with when they dont do it....God help me
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 26, 2008

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    I Just Did It!

    I'm sitting here cracking up, realizing that as much as I can't stand to hear anyone whine or make excuses, I just did it!! So, that's it! No more excuses. I'm picking up the damn guitar and I'm gonna rock out!!   Thank you and good night!
    notjustamom30 notjustamom30 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Title 1

    Some whining and excuse making is fine. Constant is not. Please. Just shut up and do what you have to do.
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2008

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    there's this classmate of mine whom I like. VERY MUCH. but he has a girlfriend. Im so damn classmatezoned !!