I Have No Self Esteem

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 197 People

    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Dec 29, 2009

    No One Is Interested In Me

    I have suffered my entire life with feeling ugly and miserable.  I have tried so hard to be more attractive which has included plastic surgery, other cosmetic procedures, working hard to be in shape and spending all my money on my appearance.  I'm at a point where I feel a...
    planofaction planofaction
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2011

    I Have No Self Esteem.

    Hi, my name is Tori. I'm 14 and starting highschool as a Freshman. I used to be so happy with my life, and I never used to care about the things I do now. I became obsessed with my weight going into 8th grade. I was the only one of my friends who was overweight and couldn't look...
    ladyyram ladyyram
    Aug 10, 2010

    I Don't Feel Like I'm Even Worth A Dime.

    I pretty much hate everything about myself: the way I look, the way I act, the way my brain works, etc.. It doesn't feel like I am here on this earth to do anything else other than waste space, be a financial and burdensome weight on the shoulders of all I'm close to, and to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 13, 2012

    No Life

    i have no self esteem. i live with an alcoholic father and a manipulative mentally ill mother... i am 20 years of age and i cry myself to sleep everyday. i have no friends to talk to and i am sure i will descent into madness very soon...
    nothingmatters20 nothingmatters20
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2012

    In that situation I am ruby(in the sense ruby

    just called herself dumb and her girlfriend starts crying)
    dominick6 dominick6
    18-21, M
    Nov 8, 2015

    My wife destroyed my self esteem.

    Married 17 years. She had nothing. Put her through college. Put a roof over her head. Brought her 3 Mercedes in that time. Took Her To Europe Around the world Always critical of me. Now my business is not doing well and she throws my lack of money in my face. says , look...
    bigrobery62 bigrobery62
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    Sometimes I Hate Myself Because Of This.

    I have never been happy with the way I look. I always try to avoid big mirrors, like the ones where you can see your whole body. I even feel like I must look horrible if someone in the street looks at me. Thoughts constantly race through my head of what they might think about me...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 2, 2013

    Not Being Good Enough

    After 2 years i thought i would be comfortable with myself and i thought my bf would be comfortable with me, he constantly says stuff that makes me hate myself, always talking about why i don't go gym, why i'm not in a better job and why i'm not driving yet. Does he not realise...
    dannilou dannilou
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2013


    Everyday is a cluster of things that I cannot understand..... I wake up with this hate towards myself that is soooo over baring i cant even function.... I never feel good enough to have friends or to be in a good relationship... I feel fat and ugly and a loser!!!! I feel like i...
    NinaSkylin NinaSkylin
    2 Responses May 28, 2011
    SadCaliforniaDad SadCaliforniaDad
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2016

    I Don´t Feel Beautiful Even When I Feel Beautiful

    I'm going to be brief: My self-image is so damage that I would feel flattered if somebody wanted to rape me,because that would be I'm desirable for someone. Yes, that´s how I see my self.
    thespeedofsound thespeedofsound
    1 Response Dec 26, 2012


    After years of people ignoring me, pitying me, or simply laughing at me, has me down. I have Athetoid Cerebral Palsy and am dependent on others for many things. I was in a special school were there are others like me but then I went to regular HS. My fellow alumni made jokes...
    Jan 21, 2013

    And this is why.. Today I went out with a friend

    and we were waiting on a line to buy clothes at the register. In front of us were two girls around our age. One turns around and tells my friend she's extremely pretty. She doesn't say anything to me like I'm a piece of trash. I know I'm ugly, but why did that girl have to make...
    aquasapphire aquasapphire
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    Zero Self Confidence

    I have this irrational inferiority complex..about a lot of things actually..i know that all this stems from all the bullying i went through at school..and maybe all the names they called me were true..but NOT anymore..i HAVE changed myself..but i still feel like an awkward 12...
    Jan 31, 2013

    My self-esteem is extremely low

    and that caused that I must've gone through severe depression because of it...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 19, 2015

    I Want to Change

    My hb tells me I am beautiful, but I see my self the total opposite. All started before my 20's. I was popular, had loads of friends and very lean. I started going out with this guy and gained so much weight and I cannot recognize myself anymore. I have no will to loose...
    Fridita Fridita
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 21, 2008

    It's A Wrap................................Totally Dead Inside And Out

    Well my entire life is in the toilet. I am happy that I have pushed everyone away. No one understands what I am going through. So ..........rather than to tell people how I feel I have finally shut down for good. I refuse to converse with my family. I refuse to do anything. Below...
    ChocolateSauce ChocolateSauce
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Jul 9, 2011
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