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I Have No Sex Drive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 28 People

    In The Last Month

    Literally... it's gone. I used to be the most horny person ever. My sex drive was mad. But now it's not there. I had to pretty much force myself to ********** this week. It's like a part of me died literally. Looking at **** does nothing. Looking at pictures does nothing...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    Thanks to the devil Depo Provera.

    I'm not interested in sex like I was before getting on birth control and it ruined my life
    MississippiGal MississippiGal
    26-30, F
    Aug 16, 2015

    I Feel Like My Body Hates Me

    i have never really had a sex drive, even in my teen years which was not so long ago(i just turned 20) so i have just come to terms with it. i never want sex at all even while watching ****, i last about 6 min in bed and can hardly go any longer then that without hating the whole...
    amicawinters amicawinters
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

    Ever since my twin daughter were born in

    December 2010 I have not been very interested in sex. I have never had an issue of low sex drive before, actually the very opposite. When I was pregnant I wanted it all the time, but the doctors told me not to because of pregnancy complications that I had because of the twins...
    Countrymomma24 Countrymomma24
    26-30, F
    May 4, 2015


    I am a 22 year old married woman. I'm extremely attracted to my husband and love and adore him. We have a close to perfect marriage except I have absolutely no sex drive for about 3 years now. I never initiate sex or making out or anything other then cuddling. He does it all...
    likeAsiren likeAsiren
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2013

    It left after I had my daughter.

    It didn't say goodbye, but it's ok - I don't really even miss it. I sowed all my wild oats (and then some) in my 20's. Have had my thyroid and hormone levels checked and they are just fine. I don't feel the need to really worry about it. I guess if I was married or in a...
    DaisyMe1975 DaisyMe1975
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2014

    My g/f has no sex drive.

    We have talked about how it has been frustrating for me that we can't share that deeper connection between us. I have tried many things to spice things up in between the sheets but nothing works. (This has been going on for 2.5 years) It's not like I don't know how to please...
    kevrobin123 kevrobin123
    26-30, M
    Aug 4, 2015

    It May End My Relationship..

    I have always enjoyed sex and have prided myself on being a very sensual and sexual lover. Two years ago, I met the man of my dreams. He is everything I have ever wanted, needed or asked for, He is amazing in bed, a very selfless man. Sex has never been boring or ritualistic...
    zaneselle zaneselle
    41-45, F
    Feb 26, 2012

    To be honest I am not sure

    if it is no sex drive... but my sex drive is kind of strange at the moment. I guess it has been happening for the past two or so years while I have been going off my healthy diet. I am not sure that I do not have any sex drive. It just feels like getting myself off is too...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale
    26-30, M
    Aug 30, 2015

    Low Testosterone Or Libido?

    I am unsure whether I have low test or something else. I can not go to the doctor as to me having no insurance and money and its not that important. My girlfriend is an 7-9 on days and she wants it more then me. Since I do not want it that much she feels unattractive and she...
    Noah916 Noah916
    26-30, M
    Jul 7, 2013

    No Sexual Drive

    Due to the medications I am on I have absolutely no sex drive. I have not slept with a man in 9 years. Sounds crazy but I have no desire.
    insomniac22 insomniac22
    41-45, F
    Aug 8, 2013

    Glad I'm Not Weird Or Anything

    Well I probably should start with a background check: When I was a little younger and still getting to know certain things about the world I stumbled upon what the other kids are calling "****." Simply abbreviated from ***********, I thought it was a type of photography (well it...
    AuroraSpectrum AuroraSpectrum
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 27, 2013

    Who Ever Would've Thought?

    I know it's only temporary - I'll get it back soon it enough, once the circumstances are better. But between having an ovarian cyst, stress from school and all its work, and getting over someone I loved, I just have none whatsoever... So weird to think, I used to be the horniest...
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery
    Oct 31, 2012

    I have been married for almost 4 years.

    I never had a high sex drive but i at least participated, i WANTED to do things for my husband. Now i just seen to prefer doing it by myself. My husband isn't bad in bed, it just seems like it takes so much effort and a lot of time for me to reach ******. Iv even caught him...
    ArmyWife316 ArmyWife316
    22-25, F
    Feb 21, 2014
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