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I Have No Sexlife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 106 People

    Im A Virgin That Doesnt Know If Its Time To Lose It Or Not.

    So i am 19, will be 20 in 6 months. I grew up in a family that thought abstinence. As such i always believed it. But im getting to the point in my life when i see no use for this. i want sex and i don't see myself getting married any time soon, if at all. So after a **** load of...
    jwood3 jwood3
    Jan 26, 2012

    1 Year Only.

    I've been with my boyfriend just over 1 year and at first our sex life was good and we must of had sex about 2-3 or maybe 4 times a week, recently I've felt like i cant be bothered to have sex, it feels like a chore and my boyfriend gets annoyed and angry at me because of it. the...
    dreammaker1234 dreammaker1234
    18-21, F
    Jul 26, 2012

    I Want One

    I want a sex life but noone wants me.  damnit I want a love life and a sex life.  I am sick of seeing and hearing about so many others having what I want.  hell with it I guess i will die never knowing what it's like to have a healthy sexual relationship...
    loneranger loneranger
    31-35, M
    3 Responses May 6, 2008


    While I don't know where to start.  I am in love with my partner which is female and we have been together for 31/2years.  When we first met sex was off the chain, now I have to literally beg for it.  With me situation I was with the father of the last child and he...
    bugfever30 bugfever30
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2010

    I Have No Sexlife! Help!

    I haven't had sex in 1.5 years and I am in a relationship. MY SO went to jail for something he didn't do a case of mistaken Identity and he was there for 7 months from Oct. 09 to May 2010. Since he's been home, we havent had sex at all and I sleep downstairs on the couch. The...
    Evette1 Evette1
    31-35, F
    Jan 1, 2011

    Not Since Deadman Inc. Was Sold To The Cm

    I have no sexlife, unless you count for the numerous occasions spent excessively ************ for the drug high or abuse of imagination necessary for cybersex which is pathetic. It really, really is. No, you didn't call it pathetic - I did. I used to have a sexlife in a...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 31, 2010

    2 Years.......

    I don't know how open I can be about this but I will try and share my experience as best I can. Basically I haven't had sex in 2 years and it sucks in the worst way. I know exactly how it happened I was in my last year of college literally a semester left. I was really excited to...
    bobeb8 bobeb8
    Nov 4, 2010

    Socially-isolated 30-year-old Clueless Frustrated Lesbian Virgin Asks The World, "where's My Share?".

    Okay, this is a long story so bear with me. But, I will try to present it in a logical way so it doesn't read too thickly. Bam! Plonked on the earth. Like everyone. Like everyone, with my hand of cards and its share of problems. So far so usual. Anyway, don't really want...
    Torthrodhel Torthrodhel
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2011

    When the Right Time Comes...

    When the right time comes, then it would be my first connection ever in my life. A precious gift i can offer to my husband to be. Full of love, emotions and warmth..heheh...
    bata bata
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2008

    Well I Do

    Does Betty thumb and her foer wicked sisters count? hehe
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jan 18, 2010

    This Can't Be Life...

    I had sex about a month ago and before that October 2011. What makes this so remarkable to me is that I am married. Its remarkable because it took getting married to become celibate which is seemingly counterintuitive. I'm not some older out of shape guy either (not saying that...
    jonc35 jonc35
    26-30, M
    Aug 30, 2012

    Heat In My Mind

    As of today, I have not been kissed (edit: I was kissed by a male friend on September 26, but my friend is seeig him...doh!) or had sex for 5 years and six months. It's not through lack of trying to make connections, rather a perplexing lack of interest from others. I enjoy sex...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2008

    I Have No Sex Life

    Is sex overrated? I don't know I am a 43 year old man who has not had a girlfriend in 7 years. 2006. Since then prostitutes in hamburg 2009 And a prostitute in amsterdam In 2012. The girlfriend before That was in 2001 and before That 1992. Every time i could Not do it properly...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    Oct 16, 2013

    Wasting Time?

    I am 25 yrs old and have been with the same guy since I was 16. over the yrs he has put on a few pounds and uses that as his excuse to not being intimate even though he knows I don't care. It has been 87 days -yes I've been counting- since the last time we were intimate and even...
    lostnlonely12 lostnlonely12
    3 Responses Mar 3, 2011

    Want I Want I Want I Want

    i want it all the time unfortunately i have'nt had it in a while so i guess im sexually frustrated, lol, want to do it with someone i care about and vice versa
    Donalh Donalh
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 25, 2008

    My "sex Life" Is Dead.

    i really have no sex life. i once went 2 years with out any female contact at all. my average is about once a year. twice if i'm lucky. i dont have any idea what its like to have sex on a regular basis. i'm sexually stunted.
    shintigercurl shintigercurl
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2011

    Well Duh

    I am also a part of the group titled "I am a virgin" I think they go kind of hand in hand.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    11 Responses Sep 28, 2008

    And I Won't Unless.....

    other than pleasuring myself, i haven't had sex in 7 years. before then, i had plenty of it, but i found myself getting more and more dissatisfied by having basically just sexual relationships. i always knew that i desired a deeper connection with a man, but i kept settling for...
    jerrica jerrica
    46-50, F
    31 Responses Nov 18, 2008

    I Want Sex

    my ex-boyfriend (wont name him) forced sex on me a few years when i was 17 years old... i hated him and we broke up well he just walked out on me... Im single now and i dream about having sex... havnt had it since i was 17 and im 24! how sad! i seem to date all the wrong, bad...
    bubblebutterfly bubblebutterfly
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 28, 2008

    I Don't ... and I'm Not Worried

    I have no sex life these days and that's fine. There is a lot happening and going on around me and within me. I'm not worried about it, nor am I anxious about it. It is not a driving force in my life, never was. I will hope that someday when all is right that this may change...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2008

    Boo Hoo For Me

    I'm not in a relationship at the moment, and seen as the whole sleeping around thing does nothing for me, I have NO SEX LIFE!!! I am quite a sexual person so its really sucks at the moment!I need to find a good sane man I can fall for and quick haha
    NiRiada NiRiada
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 18, 2008

    I Don't Either,so What...

    That's right I have no sex life and I DON'T CARE. Oh sure I would like to get my **** sucked once in a while,maybe even *** in a girl,but get real. I have been married for 27 years. My wife has zero interest,in me anyway. Once upon a time we did have sex,I think. I would pound...
    joad58 joad58
    Aug 4, 2012

    Sexless Marriage

    I have been married for 10 years to a wonderful woman.  Great mother, honest, hardworking dedicated.  Since the birth of our children, we have no physical relationship.  She doesn't flirt, seduce, or provide anything remotely close to physical affection.  I...
    starvingtodeath starvingtodeath
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2008

    Sexless Marriage

    I have been married for almost three years and my husband and I hardly have sex. I feel as if I am not wanted and of no use. Sometimes I feel like ending the marriage but I am afraid of been alone.
    angel4sure angel4sure
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Oct 26, 2007

    Where Has It Gone?!

    My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 and a half years. We have lived together for most of that time. Over he last year we have only had sex a hand full of times. Whilst he was never the most sexually experimental lover when we first got together our sex life was very...
    Hwho Hwho
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2009

    No Sex For Me.

    I used to have a ton of sex. I started out late. Like when I was 19. I think. Maybe 20. That's when I lost my virginity. But from then on, it was like mad. I did it a lot (with the same person.) Then I met someone else, and it picked up from there. But man, since I got...
    MyDreamGirlDontExist MyDreamGirlDontExist
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2008
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