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I Have No Social Life

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    My Destiny

    I feel like my soul is lost in somewhere I dont know where can I find it .. And my body is just a collection of Broke pieces Is that my destiny ? Is my life meant to be a long hard road filled with people never loved me . I never want more than friends to love me for who I am...
    Deep11 Deep11 22-25, F Sep 21, 2012

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    "It's Simply Not In The Cards For Me"!

    I don't have much of a social life because I am in constant pain. Anyone who suffers with a chronic painful condition also knows what I am talking about.You can not simply go where you want, when you want. When you have an appointment that must be kept, it is worse than you can...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    I Have No Social Life

    I remember talking during my first few years of life (after starting to talk). Then probably during first grade I suddenly became extremely shy, and throughout the rest of my school years almost never talked, though it got a little better in my later school years.  I was...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    I Hate People

    They are trite, stupid ( who decided we were really intelligent anyway?), petty, locked up for life with no chance for parole ( Emotionally and mentally), boring, annoying, and well, stupid. It's a good thing I'm so smart and charming, and don't share any of those characteristics...
    Socklord Socklord 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    Next to No Social Life

    About the only social life I have other than with my small family is at work, if indeed you can call that a social life. If I'm lucky I might socialise with people outside work maybe once or twice a year. Must be nice to have friends. lol
    taloden taloden 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Used To Have A Social Life And Now I Don´t

    I live in a very secluded town where all people do is work.  Everyone is immersed in their professional lives cuz there´s not really anything else to do.  Its very lonely, ugly place and also sad.  I used to live in another city, one of the best cities in the...
    digitalcowboy09 digitalcowboy09 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Because Of My Mom

     Well my mom let my older brother have a social life when he was my age, but then he got into drgs and drinking, so now my mom has decided to crack down on me.. while my friends are making plans on a fiday night i am sitting home alone with my parents because i know if i ask...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F Nov 2, 2009

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    I Have No Social Life

    And I am trying to find it on the internet...
    artax1 artax1 26-30, M Jan 4, 2011

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    Ever since I kicked my roommates out life has

    become so dull! I miss having people to come home to everyday and it seems like most of my friends left along with my roommates. I don't like clubbing and money is always tight, I don't know what to do. Anyone else have this kind of problem ?
    Mackas14 Mackas14 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Trying to Jump the Hurdle

    I have the miserable task of reacclamating myself back into society which sometimes is like trying to figure out if infinity really does exist and how to I get there. My adversities and experiences have left me scared however not without ambition. But trying to jump into...
    2ndchance 2ndchance 41-45 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    Locked In

    I love to dance and I love music. Why am I on the social science course? Because I was forced into it. "You should have a good future. Music and dance wouldn't get you anywhere". I know that but taking the things I love away from me completely and making me concentrate on...
    IAMMELIKEYOU IAMMELIKEYOU 16-17, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Woooooooow ._.

    I am not a social butterfly. My time has mainly been spent in my bedroom on my computer. Parties are never my thing. I have been to one larger party where there were people I did not know and I was with a friend. We hid from everyone before leaving early. Woop woop. Party...
    RomanticSpaz RomanticSpaz 16-17, F Jul 28, 2013

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    None

    All my time is given to my husband and work. Right now it is just my husband. We don't go out so there is no social life here. Netflix movies and the computer is pretty much what we do. I came off the road as a Truck Driver in Feb. and staying with my daughter and son-in-law. She...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F Mar 19, 2012

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    I'm Happy

    None, nadda, zippo, nothing, not at all. Not in real life anyway. I talk to some people on here but I'm not sure that qualifies as a social life. ¬_¬ Believe it or not, I don't mind not having a social life. I've never really liked interacting with people that much and...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    I Have a Meager Social Life

    And quite frankly, I like it that way.  Sometimes I think I'd be better off if I did have a more abundant social life, but ultimately, in the end, I'm glad I keep mostly to myself and don't do a lot of socializing.  I don't NEED to be around another person to entertain...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    No Social Life!!!

    ive always been told that i should have a better social life, and i should go out to bars and clubs like everyone else and have a good time, but i just dont enjoy socialising, and im not even a big drinker either!!! but i do just wish i had a girlfriend, and that she was like...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 7 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    ...

    It's Friday night and I'm sitting at home talking to my cat- enough said :p
    0XxoOoxX0 0XxoOoxX0 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    Always Alone.....

                                                
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    Brainstorming Ways To Fix This

    So I have a friend who does recruiting. She's very attractive, makes quite a bit of money, and i think overall has had a pretty successful career. But she has trouble making friends, and I wonder if  working in HR is a way she can connect with people. I mean how freakin...
    emilystrange105 emilystrange105 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    And I Hate It...

    I rarely go out anywhere. I just stay indoors all day on the laptop. I have been invited to things before and people have made promise to go out places with me.. nearly all of the time though they never do. I just don't think people really want to go anywhere with me. They just...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    Never Really..

    I've never really had a social life. People don't generally like me. My way of thinking is quite outside of the box. It's too scary for some people to even grasp.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2009

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    Im afraid i will die alone and no one is gonna remember me, im 21 i live with my parents i have a ****** job and when i get home all i do is play videogames and watch movies, im depressed,  the only ppl i talk to are my friends online n the people i work with but im not close to...
    weirdkid20 weirdkid20 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    Which I Guess Is Why I'm On Ep

    When you can't make friends in "the real word", turn to another "reality"! Hah, I've always been fascinated with the concept of not living in the real world. Whenever I hear that phrase I just wonder what kind of other worlds people make up and live in. I go to community college...
    letsrunaway letsrunaway 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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    (I think I said it before) I'm not into

    partying. I don't go out with the very few friends that I have and go with them to Buffalo Wild Wings, or go bowling. I'm kind of shy, not really into socializing with people I don't know. My Friday nights and Saturday nights are simple. Get some food and watch movies. I'm...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Feb 19

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    I Am Nowhere.

    hi every1.evey1 who is reading this story,i would really appreciate if you comment and guide me in sum away.i had a wonderful nearly perfect relation f 1.5 year but then i moved away and everything fell apart.it was after 4 mnths of the breakup that i sumhow managed to move back...
    healing25 healing25 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    My Life Is Boring.

    I have one boring life. i have no job, and I'm too late to apply for college/university. All I do right now is I get up and eat, play video games and wait till my family is done from their occupations. I talk to two of my friends, but rarely. I just sit in my house wanting to go...
    Marcellius Marcellius 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    I Want To Be A Real Girl

    I feel like I am not a real person. I have two kids and no job, I live far away from my hometown and really don't know anyone in my city. It's kinda complicated; I stay here because this is where my kids' fathers live.  Everyone tells me I'm crazy and to just take my kids and go...
    ewiemama ewiemama 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    It's Slightly Amusing, Really.

     I was talking to my mom on the phone just now, and she said I should really go out to a bar with some friends or something. I think it just about takes the cake when your mother is urging you to go get drunk. XD   ~Jennie
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    Broken Envious Shy Guy

    I'm a shy guy who has no clue how to change, and would be too frightened to try even if social interaction did make sense to me. I have no social skills, having been sheltered by relatives that I lived with for my entire childhood. I was homeschooled (I do online coursework now...
    TurboSaxophonic TurboSaxophonic 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Uneventful Yet Not Boring

    My life pretty much consists of waking up, getting ready for the day (usually with an outrageous look, sometimes I'll look like a dominatrix, sometimes like I'm ready for a fight, sometimes just flaming...the list goes on), and going to school. Yeah, I talk to maybe 5 people in...
    KeiKeiChan KeiKeiChan 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    anonymousfraud anonymousfraud 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I miss my social life when I was younger. I was a fun person to go out with. I was into heavy metal, and went to different bars with my friends and drink, dance and play pool...
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    Hi everybody. First of all sorry for my English, I'm an Armenian. I'm so sad because of my poor social life. I have a girlfriend who really loves me and she does everything for me...
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    Social anxiety is from low self esteem and self shame. Tell me, have you ever seen someone who thought highly of themselves have social anxiety? I don't think so, I never have. Or...
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    I'm not sure i actually have social phobia or not, but the other day my friend said that I was showing "classic signs of social phobia." I've always been very shy and find it very...
    madelinemaryann madelinemaryann 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I recently told my dad i have social anx and he said i will grow out of it and that im just shy. I want to go to therapy but everyone will think im overreacting.
    RichyF RichyF 16-17, M 8 Responses Mar 31

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    My public speaking is 0% I have social anxiety and am self conscious
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F Apr 5

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    My public speaking is 0% I have social anxiety and am self conscious
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    To those that have social anxiety, I want to remind you that you are not your anxiety. Do not let it define you. I know behind those irrational fears and involuntary impulses is a...
    athion64 athion64 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm in nursing school, i've been required to go to these meetup groups once a week for the past 4 months. I never thought of this as a place for friendships to be made..but i...
    7Saren 7Saren 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    And I'm bustin it square in the chops... Okay check it out social mizfitz... You're a wreck in the world some days right? People seem all frakked up around u and ud like some...
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M Mar 24

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    I just turned 34, and I am seeking treatment for social anxiety, in earnest, for the first time in my life. It was pretty severe and is still at least moderate. I've made some...
    bewareofpity bewareofpity 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I am sick of this social anxiety and social phobia. I am a shell of what I once was. I have always suffered from anxiety and depression but seemed to manage with the help of...
    GroundedButterfly81 GroundedButterfly81 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This has totally changed my life in everyway. I can't just easily talk, walk, think, etc. without over-analyzing it has seriously opened my eyes to all of the amazing things I...
    freeebird freeebird 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    This is probably my worst problem. I want to be social so effing bad. My boyfriend is a social butterfly. He is THE social butterfly. He isn't scared to talk to anyone, he is so...
    Nessybabi Nessybabi 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    and depression and ocd. but, lately the social anxiety just gets worse and worse. i cant even keep a job because i cant stand that people see me. it makes me want to hide.. i get...
    lt623 lt623 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I really just want people to stop pointing out my lack of social skills or my being too uptight/serious. I just want to live my life. I do what I love and I'm good at it. I don't...
    firemedic12 firemedic12 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I've always had this when I was little. I've had low self esteem since I was a child. It didn't help that my sister was emotionally abusive and my parents were generally dismissive...
    preeez preeez 18-21 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I work 50 hours a week, which is exhausting both physically and mentally and holidays aside I rarely seem to have anything to look forward to, to help keep myself motivated. I...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    It may not be as bad as others, but social situations scare the crap out of me. I hate being around a lot of people, but I'll tolerate it if needed. I just don't like big groups of...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I have a difficult time working because of my social phobia and anxiety. I have a great personality friendly kind and funny but my anxiety holds me back from so much. I figured i...
    tb2985 tb2985 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can't go to college, I can't work, I can't do anything anymore, I'm to anxiety to go outside. I spend all my days almost 2 years in front of books and on computer. I finished...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 22

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