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I Have No Social Life

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    I have no social life seriously.

    ..I mean unless talking to my dog counts, you know it's sad but kinda funny when I eat lunch by myself in an empty hallway and my cousin walks by saying oh I see your eating with all your friends damn you guys need to chill it's gettin rowdy over here lol I'm such a loser
    taylorsueb taylorsueb 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Trying to Jump the Hurdle

    I have the miserable task of reacclamating myself back into society which sometimes is like trying to figure out if infinity really does exist and how to I get there. My adversities and experiences have left me scared however not without ambition. But trying to jump into...
    2ndchance 2ndchance 41-45 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    I Have a Meager Social Life

    And quite frankly, I like it that way.  Sometimes I think I'd be better off if I did have a more abundant social life, but ultimately, in the end, I'm glad I keep mostly to myself and don't do a lot of socializing.  I don't NEED to be around another person to entertain...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2009

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    Locked In

    I love to dance and I love music. Why am I on the social science course? Because I was forced into it. "You should have a good future. Music and dance wouldn't get you anywhere". I know that but taking the things I love away from me completely and making me concentrate on...
    FloatingWithHope FloatingWithHope 16-17, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Used To Have A Social Life And Now I Don´t

    I live in a very secluded town where all people do is work.  Everyone is immersed in their professional lives cuz there´s not really anything else to do.  Its very lonely, ugly place and also sad.  I used to live in another city, one of the best cities in the...
    digitalcowboy09 digitalcowboy09 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    I Am Nowhere.

    hi every1.evey1 who is reading this story,i would really appreciate if you comment and guide me in sum away.i had a wonderful nearly perfect relation f 1.5 year but then i moved away and everything fell apart.it was after 4 mnths of the breakup that i sumhow managed to move back...
    healing25 healing25 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    Woooooooow ._.

    I am not a social butterfly. My time has mainly been spent in my bedroom on my computer. Parties are never my thing. I have been to one larger party where there were people I did not know and I was with a friend. We hid from everyone before leaving early. Woop woop. Party...
    RomanticSpaz RomanticSpaz 16-17, F Jul 28, 2013

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    And I Hate It...

    I rarely go out anywhere. I just stay indoors all day on the laptop. I have been invited to things before and people have made promise to go out places with me.. nearly all of the time though they never do. I just don't think people really want to go anywhere with me. They just...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    Need new people to talk to,

    bc my friends always leave me :/
    imNotCreative123 imNotCreative123 13-15, M Apr 29

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    I Hate People

    They are trite, stupid ( who decided we were really intelligent anyway?), petty, locked up for life with no chance for parole ( Emotionally and mentally), boring, annoying, and well, stupid. It's a good thing I'm so smart and charming, and don't share any of those characteristics...
    Socklord Socklord 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    "It's Simply Not In The Cards For Me"!

    I don't have much of a social life because I am in constant pain. Anyone who suffers with a chronic painful condition also knows what I am talking about.You can not simply go where you want, when you want. When you have an appointment that must be kept, it is worse than you can...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    My Life Is Boring.

    I have one boring life. i have no job, and I'm too late to apply for college/university. All I do right now is I get up and eat, play video games and wait till my family is done from their occupations. I talk to two of my friends, but rarely. I just sit in my house wanting to go...
    Marcellius Marcellius 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    I've literally been online all day

    and I have nothing to do during the day so I'm usually on imvu Instagram Facebook and YouTube all day so I have no ******* social life xD
    BloodyScarr BloodyScarr 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I Want To Be A Real Girl

    I feel like I am not a real person. I have two kids and no job, I live far away from my hometown and really don't know anyone in my city. It's kinda complicated; I stay here because this is where my kids' fathers live.  Everyone tells me I'm crazy and to just take my kids and go...
    ewiemama ewiemama 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    Never Really..

    I've never really had a social life. People don't generally like me. My way of thinking is quite outside of the box. It's too scary for some people to even grasp.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2009

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    I Have No Social Life

    And I am trying to find it on the internet...
    artax1 artax1 26-30, M Jan 4, 2011

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    Brainstorming Ways To Fix This

    So I have a friend who does recruiting. She's very attractive, makes quite a bit of money, and i think overall has had a pretty successful career. But she has trouble making friends, and I wonder if  working in HR is a way she can connect with people. I mean how freakin...
    emilystrange105 emilystrange105 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    (I think I said it before) I'm not into

    partying. I don't go out with the very few friends that I have and go with them to Buffalo Wild Wings, or go bowling. I'm kind of shy, not really into socializing with people I don't know. My Friday nights and Saturday nights are simple. Get some food and watch movies. I'm...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Feb 19

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    I Have No Social Life

    I remember talking during my first few years of life (after starting to talk). Then probably during first grade I suddenly became extremely shy, and throughout the rest of my school years almost never talked, though it got a little better in my later school years.  I was...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    Always Alone.....

                                                
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    None

    All my time is given to my husband and work. Right now it is just my husband. We don't go out so there is no social life here. Netflix movies and the computer is pretty much what we do. I came off the road as a Truck Driver in Feb. and staying with my daughter and son-in-law. She...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F Mar 19, 2012

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    It's Slightly Amusing, Really.

     I was talking to my mom on the phone just now, and she said I should really go out to a bar with some friends or something. I think it just about takes the cake when your mother is urging you to go get drunk. XD   ~Jennie
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    No Social Life

    i live in my own island no one to talk no one to see no freind meeting . all the day long alone infront of my PC im so tired of it but i dont knwo how to get out im scared
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 9, 2013

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    Broken Envious Shy Guy

    I'm a shy guy who has no clue how to change, and would be too frightened to try even if social interaction did make sense to me. I have no social skills, having been sheltered by relatives that I lived with for my entire childhood. I was homeschooled (I do online coursework now...
    TurboSaxophonic TurboSaxophonic 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Virtually

    I basically only have one local person, a guy friend I know from an old job I had who I occasionally hang out with. Then I have one friend I know from where I used to live in another state, a former serious girlfriend who I'm still friends with. She and I chat online and talk on...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2011

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    Next to No Social Life

    About the only social life I have other than with my small family is at work, if indeed you can call that a social life. If I'm lucky I might socialise with people outside work maybe once or twice a year. Must be nice to have friends. lol
    taloden taloden 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Which I Guess Is Why I'm On Ep

    When you can't make friends in "the real word", turn to another "reality"! Hah, I've always been fascinated with the concept of not living in the real world. Whenever I hear that phrase I just wonder what kind of other worlds people make up and live in. I go to community college...
    letsrunaway letsrunaway 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    Im afraid i will die alone and no one is gonna remember me, im 21 i live with my parents i have a ****** job and when i get home all i do is play videogames and watch movies, im depressed,  the only ppl i talk to are my friends online n the people i work with but im not close to...
    weirdkid20 weirdkid20 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    My Destiny

    I feel like my soul is lost in somewhere I dont know where can I find it .. And my body is just a collection of Broke pieces Is that my destiny ? Is my life meant to be a long hard road filled with people never loved me . I never want more than friends to love me for who I am...
    Deep11 Deep11 22-25, F Sep 21, 2012

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    Uneventful Yet Not Boring

    My life pretty much consists of waking up, getting ready for the day (usually with an outrageous look, sometimes I'll look like a dominatrix, sometimes like I'm ready for a fight, sometimes just flaming...the list goes on), and going to school. Yeah, I talk to maybe 5 people in...
    KeiKeiChan KeiKeiChan 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Because Of My Mom

     Well my mom let my older brother have a social life when he was my age, but then he got into drgs and drinking, so now my mom has decided to crack down on me.. while my friends are making plans on a fiday night i am sitting home alone with my parents because i know if i ask...
    NeverBeenKissed93 NeverBeenKissed93 18-21, F Nov 2, 2009

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    ...

    It's Friday night and I'm sitting at home talking to my cat- enough said :p
    0XxoOoxX0 0XxoOoxX0 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    I'm Happy

    None, nadda, zippo, nothing, not at all. Not in real life anyway. I talk to some people on here but I'm not sure that qualifies as a social life. ¬_¬ Believe it or not, I don't mind not having a social life. I've never really liked interacting with people that much and...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    anonymousfraud anonymousfraud 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    No Social Life!!!

    ive always been told that i should have a better social life, and i should go out to bars and clubs like everyone else and have a good time, but i just dont enjoy socialising, and im not even a big drinker either!!! but i do just wish i had a girlfriend, and that she was like...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 7 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have never been satisfied about my life, only brief moments..... I have low social skills and very few friends. Please keep reading. Sorry If my English is bad. This is a story...
    Needy18 Needy18 18-21, M Aug 30

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    I am soo dissapointed in myself! Last weekend was my ultimate social test and I failed. It was my "sister in laws" babyshower. (boyfriend's brother's girlfriend). We dont really...
    viavleiviax viavleiviax 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Yup. Social life level zero. Feels just wierd because it wasn´t always like that. I had many friends and great times but in time it all just dissapeared. And now with all by...
    Eyesonthesky Eyesonthesky 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Okay , I've been at my current job for about 2 months (I work at Starbucks ). I still have social anxiety. I don't really conversate with my co workers as much....I'm the youngest...
    girlygirl1995 girlygirl1995 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Yup I have social anxiety. I'd shake when I'm out of my element and seem like I'm being judged. I'm a very awkward person and I feel like I'm going to end up doing something...
    Mattsdragons Mattsdragons 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 6

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    it ruined me.i literally have no social life.i tried to tell mom i think somethings wrong because i dont feel well but she says im fine.i have no friends.i live alone and convinced...
    ohmigawshcookies ohmigawshcookies 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I used to have Social Anxiety ( I was diagnosed with it) but grew out of it! How? Well 1st off, I know that it was instilled in me during my upbringing to care about what...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Well, having read some other people's stories, I feel stupid even suggesting that I have social anxiety. I mean, I can leave my house and everything. I manage to go to school. I...
    SuspendYourDisbelief SuspendYourDisbelief 13-15 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have no life, I really don't, my days is spent as just sitting in my room playing games... And I'm always ruined by this: people think I have no life (agreed...) and my parents...
    WillToonz WillToonz 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I seriously have no life outside my so called life is consistent of eating, sleeping, internet, and binge watching movies and tv shows I pretty much sleep during the day and I'm...
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Entry # 1 Hello All :), Here is my attempt to record my progress toward becoming anxiety free. Ive been a shy person way before I could even comprehend what shy was. A shy...
    athion64 athion64 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I wanted to write out my whole entire battle with social anxiety. I remember it clearly the first day I chocked up I had cold palms and sweaty forehead, I could feel my heart...
    dassays dassays 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    It's my first week of college. I'm starting from ground zero; my high-school friends aren't around to save me anymore. I never realized how hard it is to freaking talk to people...
    ihugcats ihugcats 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    I just can't stand being in a public place with lots of people. I just feel like i'm being judged, watched, or compared to. I just hate meeting new people and I just can't stand...
    NicoBunny6 NicoBunny6 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Social anxiety showed up in me about 10 and since then it has made my life living hell, I can't talk to anyone without my face going completely red and getting embarrassed. Looking...
    Rachsong348 Rachsong348 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I have online social anxiety. Honestly, talking is easy for me, I can do it for hours (though some people might get bored and weirded out by me), but when I'm online, my SA makes...
    justicehero justicehero 18-21, M Sep 5

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