I Have No Social Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,510 People

    Yanyka Yanyka
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Oct 11, 2015

    I have no social life seriously.

    ..I mean unless talking to my dog counts, you know it's sad but kinda funny when I eat lunch by myself in an empty hallway and my cousin walks by saying oh I see your eating with all your friends damn you guys need to chill it's gettin rowdy over here lol I'm such a loser
    taylorsueb taylorsueb
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2014

    I have this gut to not trust anyone quickly

    and seriously because i know they'll just leave after. I don't like chatting with people cos i think i won't have anything interesting to say to them. And i prefer music alone than being with a circle of people.
    Beliebingxx Beliebingxx
    16-17, F
    Sep 9, 2015

    Social media try's to make us feel more

    connected but for some it can make us feel even more apart and lonely....
    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    Whenever I decide to befriend someone,

    I am drawn back by a feeling of uselessness and fear of being rejected. I don't see any likeable trait or good things in me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2015
    burnner burnner
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    Expressing my feelings on the internet under an

    anonymous identity is so much easier for me than talking about them in real life ??
    AnAnonymousGal AnAnonymousGal
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    I only have one close friend at hs

    and I will move to another school in few months and that makes me terrified of leaving even though none apart from her likes me in my current school.
    AnAnonymousGal AnAnonymousGal
    16-17, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    Social gatherings are always awkward

    and uncomfortable for me. I'm the guy who' is always standing off by himself and trying to figure out how to fit in or what to say. It's easier for me to just stay home in the first place. I'm usually very content to be alone.
    elijarock elijarock
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    So I guess this has been a long term,

    like almost my entire life experience. Ever since grade school I haven't had many friends, and the ones I did, I think they were just using me. When I moved out on my own at 15 (long story) I became extremely isolated. I rarely spoke to anyone, familiy included unless it was my...
    ImOnlyMe84 ImOnlyMe84
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 17, 2015
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015

    I work, come home, sleep,

    get up shower, eat and back to work. On the weekends I usually sit at home by myself because I have no one in my life . I would like someone in my life, but everytime I get close they always walk away so I live my life of solitude.
    malexander564 malexander564
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 11, 2015

    I have co worker only

    because I work for 12 Hr per day, no friends
    m300g m300g
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 11, 2015

    I'm not social person at all.

    I feel sometimes restless when I'm on the bus around a lot of people / groups talk making noise. When I'm with friends at school I just stay quiet not talking much. I'm the quiet person. Rare to find someone fit my personality... But its okay. Having my girl in my life it's all...
    Mrwane Mrwane
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 11, 2015

    People claiming they have.

    No social life after 4 weeks. I haven't been out with a group of friends in years. I think 2-3 years. **** I am so lonely. I've tried everything, I help people, open up, act happy, give advice and try speaking to new people. WHERE HAS THAT ******* GOT ME. nobody even gives a...
    BeCautious1 BeCautious1
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 24

    What did you do today?

    I went to school Then what? Nothing I sat in my bed and wondered if I'm ever going to get fat by just sitting here 24/7 for school then for internet then for sleep ....okay
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015
    hereok hereok
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    I have no social life

    and can be veny shy when I am NOT at work it is not easy for me to make friends in my private life but that's totally different when I'm at work with my coworkers I can talk and make friends easier with coworkers
    eric8811 eric8811
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    I barely had a social life with my ex,

    and it's like I have no social life now. (Unless you count errands and lunch with my stepmom, which I do enjoy.) I lost an ex and two ex friends last year. Now most of my few friends have someone, have kids, or both. I rarely get to go out and just have dinner, sports, movies...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Feb 25

    I used to have a lot of friends

    and be very social until I met my ex. All my friends didn't like her as she created too much unnecessary drama and told me to leave her as she wasn't good for me. They gave me an ultimatum it was either them or her and I chose her being the fool I was at the time and forgot the...
    HAMSOLO HAMSOLO
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 11, 2015

    I really believe this is

    because I am so self absorbed. I have heard that for years but never thought it was true about me. I am not vain or conceited, I just enjoy myself. I have a bad problem with putting people off when I am invited to do things. It sounds awesome at first and then I just can't. I...
    bossvixen bossvixen
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2015

    No friends means more Netflix.

    That's how I see it. I guess I have my dog but he doesn't keep much of a conversation going.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    I don't drink alcohol,

    so this cuts me out from a lot of social activities. I'd actually love it if people asked me to go out with them more often, everyone just assumes that I'm boring because I don't drink. In view of the above, I really like staying at home and being lazy in my pyjamas. I guess...
    oddpodd oddpodd
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    Locked In

    I love to dance and I love music. Why am I on the social science course? Because I was forced into it. "You should have a good future. Music and dance wouldn't get you anywhere". I know that but taking the things I love away from me completely and making me concentrate on...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 9, 2013

    I have no friends by choice.

    In 8th grade I decided I'd rather sit alone at lunch than sit with the 'weird' kids. The boys and girls that were friends because they didn't want to sit alone. The rejects, the misfits, the leftovers. Back then, I was a complete weirdo, I still am. The only difference is, now...
    FireflyOasis FireflyOasis
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    It's a very important aspect of people's lives.

    .. so I don't think I am living anymore. I have to either end this life or see a miracle for this problem to be solved...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I Want To Be A Real Girl

    I feel like I am not a real person. I have two kids and no job, I live far away from my hometown and really don't know anyone in my city. It's kinda complicated; I stay here because this is where my kids' fathers live.  Everyone tells me I'm crazy and to just take my kids and go...
    ewiemama ewiemama
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2011
    LORDBURNNER LORDBURNNER
    56-60, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    It's a shame and is one of the reasons I

    contemplate suicide. Constantly, I am bombarded with images and videos of social events that make me jealous, they are all having fun, drinking yet I don't drink, don't have the friends, or the environment to do fun things. All of my friends I once knew have separated from me...
    BeCautious1 BeCautious1
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    Social life? What is that?

    Lol :p :) :/ :(
    Josimms23 Josimms23
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    I Have a Meager Social Life

    And quite frankly, I like it that way.  Sometimes I think I'd be better off if I did have a more abundant social life, but ultimately, in the end, I'm glad I keep mostly to myself and don't do a lot of socializing.  I don't NEED to be around another person to entertain...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2009

    I sometimes walk around my home stressed about

    what I can do to go out?. I have no friends, and I get stressed because I don't know where to look and I'm too shy to jump into friendship. I do get lonely, so I come to EP which makes me feel like I have friends. what do you get up too ??
    foReverYOURS3211 foReverYOURS3211
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    I keep looking my social network.

    Again and again. Yesterday I realized that I need. I need to be loved.
    Keepflying Keepflying
    36-40, M
    Jan 6
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    16-17, M
    1 Response Oct 10, 2015
    HeadInTheCloudz HeadInTheCloudz
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 26

    I go to work. I go home.

    I earn money. I pay my bills. What a life... yay freedom.....
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    I will never have a social life ,

    every time, I get to know one, and oppen up, which is hard to me they , leave , or just stay to not be the as-...... ones, and me I can't talk like normal people I'm not interested one who people will stay with, I can't even ask questions her, they make fun of me, which is OK cuz...
    justforgottenSOS justforgottenSOS
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 11, 2015

    I don't need anybody

    and nobody needs me. Socialising with others is of no use for me and other people.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2015
    Potchii Potchii
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    Thanks for the response about me not having

    friends I realise if it's affecting me which it is I need to Start being social and not be inside my house everyday
    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    With my job I am social.

    With my dysfunctional disagreeable family I am pretty social. But when I get off work, or when I wake up on my day off, I just want someone to spend the day with. Someone to call that knows me. I have no real social life at all. It can be a good thing of coarse, there is good in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Nov 22, 2014
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