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I Have No Sympathy For Child Abusers

For those of you who have no sympathy whatsoever for anybody who harms a child in any way. 994 People

    Stricter Laws Need To Be Made!

    I am a mother of a child who was abused and raped. I feel as though its not right that ppl who have drug charges serve more time then ppl who harm children. The MONSTER who harmed my son served only ten weekend days in jail and 10 yrs of probation. My son was 2 when it happened...
    mommyof1boyn3girls mommyof1boyn3girls 26-30, F Jul 31, 2012

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    Child Abusers

    My former husband sexually abused my daughter for 5 years before she told someone.  He started when she was just 11 years old.  She ended up telling the guidance counselor at school and all hell broke loose.  Police, Social Services, counselors, doctors..it was a...
    marthajc marthajc 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Wretched People . . .

    I grew up with my dad, he was a single father because my mother was too busy using heroin and robbing banks(and consequently being in prison) to have an active roll in my life.  My father was a supervisor for the Department of Social Services.  He is an amazing man...
    piscesgal piscesgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Ken

    Strange young man. Just shy of 30, defensive, socially awkward, Ken is a difficult student. I don't take his ****, and he is okay with that.  I'm not mean or stern with him, but I put my arm around him and say things like, "Ken, do you think that was a good thing to say?" or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    I Am Unsure...

    Theorietically, no I would not have any sympathy for child abusers, however... I myself was a 'victim' of what I am now told would be construed as abuse- both physical and emotional- but I know that my Mum loved and still does love me. She indulged in alcoholism a lot- still...
    Pileofskin Pileofskin 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Ok, Let Me Clarify...

    I don't excuse the behaviors of child abusers. Anyone who can intentionally harm a defenseless (or nearly defenseless) creature deserves the worst punishment available. I believe they should be punished extremely and rehabilitated as best they possibly can be. Howwever, I don...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Unforgivable

    I know a man.  He is dying.  He has lung cancer that spread to his brain.  He was my patient while he was in prison for sexually abusing a 15 year old girl at gunpoint.  I do not believe he changed, and I do not believe he feels as though he did something...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    No Sympathy Whatsoever

    even if they have been abused in the past themselves. It is still not an excuse to abuse your own children.
    coldasice209 coldasice209 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I Believe The Cchildren Are Our Futuure

    I am fourtunate to have had amuch better upbringing than many, but that does not mean I am not aware of the cold hard facts. I have friends who have been abused as children, both physically and emmotionally. I have no tolerance or sympathy for anyone who does harm to a child, no...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    Finding out that someone else within the family

    was abused by the same person as I was as a child breaks my ******* heart. I would never wish abuse of any sort on my worst enemy never mind someone close to me. I hope the abuser gets found out and they rot in hell. Feel sick to my stomach thinking about how you could do...
    herebutinvisible herebutinvisible 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    Abusers Don'T Know Any Better

    When I was growing up, I saw many children get spanked, often for no reason and more often on the bared bottom. Back then, it was considered good discipline. Today, that's abuse. It didn't hurt any less then than it does today - sometimes worse. When does spanking end and beating...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2013

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    Never Forgotten...

    I hear all the time about abuse breeding abuse....as someone who has suffered abuse as a child from several "trusted" people I have never ever been tempted to put anyone through what I went through. It has been years since my innocence was stolen and it has shaped who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    My Three-month Old Granddaughter...

    This past Easter my ex-wife and I were invited to my son's home to have lunch with him and his family. The baby girl was asleep, and my son was holding her in his lap. My ex-wife became worried when she saw that the baby's right arm and leg were twitching. My son said that...
    fairforest fairforest 66-70, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2010

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    I Am A Victim, And A Speaker Against It.

    As a close friend of a once abused person, and a victim of it myself, I can't stand to see it happen. They all need to be abused themselves. When I started talking to my friend, I admitted I was abused. I was fourteen and he was the first person I told. He also told me that he...
    Hopeless0Nerd Hopeless0Nerd 16-17, F Aug 29, 2010

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    Abuse Needs To Come To An End.

    Sympathy = Hell no!  What for?  They know exactly what they are doing.  They have a sick, twisted mind and deserve to rot in hell.  Who are they to decide that they need to take away something from an innocent child?  If they have been abused...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 19 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    Parents

    Most especially I have none for parents who abuse their children. Spanking is child abuse people, it's a fact.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I Try To Love Everone

    i try to love everyone its impossible i know but i was brought up to believe in the golden rule to treat others as you would like to be treated with respect and love you may say im a dreamer but im not the only one
    lovelypaul69 lovelypaul69 36-40, M Oct 12, 2011

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    No Sympathy For Child Abusers

    I'll make it short and simple.I think whatever a child abuser or murderer does to a child should have the same thing done to them.
    ayankee ayankee 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    Just to Make It Clear......

    NONE!  Period!  If they have been abused, they need to get help for it.  I think these people should be put in a mental ward to heal and recover and get that stuff out of them (if it is possible).  They should be separate from us.  As someone who has...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    The Story Of My Abuse

    I was abused by a step-father from the age of seven to eleven. I was told everyday that if I told anyone that I would be killed. For five years I dealt with the physical abuse, mental torture and abuse. He would beat me and laugh at me. He found out I was afraid of mice and he...
    Brokenlikeaturtleshell Brokenlikeaturtleshell 36-40, F Sep 7, 2012

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    No Sympathy !

    The abuse and neglect that I was forced to endured was repulsive and excruciating. I was physically, mentally and sexually assaulted on a daily basis. Over the years it ate away at my mind, body and spirit like a crippling disease. I have no sympathy for child abusers!
    shannon1970 shannon1970 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Not Just The Abuser...you

    For those who know it is happening. Those who see something is wrong.It is the same darn thing thank you. If you know someone is abusing achild verbally, emotionally, sexually, physically. If you suspect someone is.Don't fall back on well I don't have any proof. I don't want to...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Zero Tolerance

    I think we can start right here on EP to let people know they are hurting others or supporting those who think it is okay to prey on the innocent. If we make friends with these people and turn a blind eye to their comments or stories supporting ******, rape, or child molestation...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 2, 2011

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    ZERO Tolerance

    I have no sympathy for child abusers. NONE. Children are rare and precious gems and should not be harmed in any way, shape or form. They should be loved, cherished and protected. God bless all the children of this screwed up world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    >_>

    Or abusers in general... apparent this has to be longer....so lalalalalalalala cx
    thatoddgirl thatoddgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    Scum

    I used to be a prosecutor and now I'm a defense attorney, and have to deal with lots of cases involving some of the most vile and wicked behavior imaginable. Prosecuting them was rewarding. Having to defend them is a very unpleasant job, a profound test of my professionalism, but...
    Cowboy1969 Cowboy1969 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    I Have Been There...

      I have been abused as a child. I also protected my sister and cousins from the abuser, my grandfather. I have been beaten, severely at times, as well as raped, threatened, intimidated, and taunted. I have seen down the barrel of a hunting rifle. I have had that rifle dry...
    13guardianangel 13guardianangel 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    They Should All Die.

    It upsets me heavily that there are some drug dealers in prison that are doing more time than child abusers.  I think child abusers should get the chair.  I know that's old school and they do it by way of lethal injection, but honestly, I don't think they...
    HisONEnOnly HisONEnOnly 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    My Little Sister

    I have a sister, she's about ten years old. A while ago, I think last year, it was Christmas, she told me about a few things that had happened between her and my father's best friend. She had been sexually abused.  I carefully asked her a few things, where has he touched you...
    breathinghole breathinghole 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Power and the Powerless.

    Child abusers....URGH. Sorry. Before I write this I'm going to have to get the rage out of my soul. AAAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! YOU EVIL SODS!!!!! *Cough* Grr. Anyway, yes, as I was saying. Anyone who abuses a child does so because the...
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    This is a tough one however I do have feelings for my exwife. We shared a life together and kids. We had beautiful moments and our kids are so beautiful. I decided that it is what...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F a week ago

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    My 'crush' and I have both admitted that we have feelings for each other but we agreed to 'get to know each other first' and decided that now wasn't the correct time.. But I want...
    rachieu rachieu 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    I realized that my abusers were the abused. Their actions were imprinted on their minds. It confused me how much they loved and nurtured me until they got angry at me. I wasn't...
    SheSaidx SheSaidx 22-25, F Jan 10

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    I my exwife is beautiful she is biracial black and white ( We used her genes to make our kids) I personally love that mix but I love mixed race people in general My children are...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's been almost three years since we first met. I still remember the day. I had been back in my home town for a few months after I'd convinced myself to stay because I'd missed it...
    minernick minernick 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    When I was younger I was always envious of my brother who was 3 years younger than me. Both of my parents were working, therefore my grandparents would babysit us until they pick...
    kkechara kkechara 18-21 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was 5 years old when I promised myself I would never try methamphetamine. Like most nights I woke up and couldn't get back to sleep so I went in my grandma's room and laid in her...
    Sapphic33 Sapphic33 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    So I was talking to my friend yesterday and I realized that I was never hugged as a kid. Idk I just didn't. Any memory I do have of hugs It was because my parents did something...
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I like you. There's no reason to tell you this but I have to because if I don't, it's going build up until I explode. You tilt your head when you think as if you're inviting all...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    My amazing son surprised me today.First, he came and sat next to me and unexpectedly gave me a gentle kiss on the cheek. I know he very rarely gives kisses. When I asked what I had...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    The uncle I suspect of raping me died this Monday... And memories started to haunt me again. All the things I keep inside... Most of them are about my grandmother. He used to live...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Let's face it, I don't make an effort to eat REALLY healthy. I will eat pizza, steak, fried foods, but I do not put globs of mayo on my sandwiches either. I may not be a health nut...
    twitch2oh twitch2oh 22-25, M Jan 2

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    I spend money on you to have fun to cheer you up on your worst days. Here I am struggling never asking anything from you because I love you. But j am breaking.
    saint0928 saint0928 18-21, M Jan 5

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    If that's ok with you i much prefer afters! I haven't sweet tooth!
    CautiousCoitus CautiousCoitus 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    I make sure I do all the little things. I do my best. The few times I forget. I am the enemy I am the bad guy. I am the *******. Why can't she see all the little things I do
    saint0928 saint0928 18-21, M Jan 11

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    I spent a good couple of years working for a mix-practice veterinarian and gained a lot of experience working with animals of all sizes, from huge bulls to tiny kittens. I've been...
    WildRoseBeef WildRoseBeef 26-30, F Jan 19

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    Here's an interesting 3 course meal for your brain: If time travel were to become possible in the future, why have we seen no sign of people traveling back to our current time and...
    theycallmetk theycallmetk 16-17, M Jan 22

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    Husband: Kenneth 'Ace' C. Henderson, [Classified] Wife: Zarinah Austins, CA. America(me) Future Daughter: To think that this could be the best for her. Tiffany C. Henderson...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    That scripture makes so much sense. The theme was forgiveness and confession/repentance. I admitted a part of me was jealous and he admitted that he crossed the line. He said he...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1