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I Have No Sympathy For Child Abusers

For those of you who have no sympathy whatsoever for anybody who harms a child in any way. 980 People

    Just to Make It Clear......

    NONE!  Period!  If they have been abused, they need to get help for it.  I think these people should be put in a mental ward to heal and recover and get that stuff out of them (if it is possible).  They should be separate from us.  As someone who has...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    I Try To Love Everone

    i try to love everyone its impossible i know but i was brought up to believe in the golden rule to treat others as you would like to be treated with respect and love you may say im a dreamer but im not the only one
    lovelypaul69 lovelypaul69 36-40, M Oct 12, 2011

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    I Am A Victim, And A Speaker Against It.

    As a close friend of a once abused person, and a victim of it myself, I can't stand to see it happen. They all need to be abused themselves. When I started talking to my friend, I admitted I was abused. I was fourteen and he was the first person I told. He also told me that he...
    Hopeless0Nerd Hopeless0Nerd 16-17, F Aug 29, 2010

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    My Little Sister

    I have a sister, she's about ten years old. A while ago, I think last year, it was Christmas, she told me about a few things that had happened between her and my father's best friend. She had been sexually abused.  I carefully asked her a few things, where has he touched you...
    breathinghole breathinghole 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    They Should All Die.

    It upsets me heavily that there are some drug dealers in prison that are doing more time than child abusers.  I think child abusers should get the chair.  I know that's old school and they do it by way of lethal injection, but honestly, I don't think they...
    HisONEnOnly HisONEnOnly 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Ken

    Strange young man. Just shy of 30, defensive, socially awkward, Ken is a difficult student. I don't take his ****, and he is okay with that.  I'm not mean or stern with him, but I put my arm around him and say things like, "Ken, do you think that was a good thing to say?" or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    Not Just The Abuser...you

    For those who know it is happening. Those who see something is wrong.It is the same darn thing thank you. If you know someone is abusing achild verbally, emotionally, sexually, physically. If you suspect someone is.Don't fall back on well I don't have any proof. I don't want to...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    No Sympathy !

    The abuse and neglect that I was forced to endured was repulsive and excruciating. I was physically, mentally and sexually assaulted on a daily basis. Over the years it ate away at my mind, body and spirit like a crippling disease. I have no sympathy for child abusers!
    shannon1970 shannon1970 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    The Story Of My Abuse

    I was abused by a step-father from the age of seven to eleven. I was told everyday that if I told anyone that I would be killed. For five years I dealt with the physical abuse, mental torture and abuse. He would beat me and laugh at me. He found out I was afraid of mice and he...
    Brokenlikeaturtleshell Brokenlikeaturtleshell 36-40, F Sep 7, 2012

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    Abusers Don'T Know Any Better

    When I was growing up, I saw many children get spanked, often for no reason and more often on the bared bottom. Back then, it was considered good discipline. Today, that's abuse. It didn't hurt any less then than it does today - sometimes worse. When does spanking end and beating...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2013

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    Stricter Laws Need To Be Made!

    I am a mother of a child who was abused and raped. I feel as though its not right that ppl who have drug charges serve more time then ppl who harm children. The MONSTER who harmed my son served only ten weekend days in jail and 10 yrs of probation. My son was 2 when it happened...
    mommyof1boyn3girls mommyof1boyn3girls 26-30, F Jul 31, 2012

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    >_>

    Or abusers in general... apparent this has to be longer....so lalalalalalalala cx
    thatoddgirl thatoddgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    Wretched People . . .

    I grew up with my dad, he was a single father because my mother was too busy using heroin and robbing banks(and consequently being in prison) to have an active roll in my life.  My father was a supervisor for the Department of Social Services.  He is an amazing man...
    piscesgal piscesgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    I Am Unsure...

    Theorietically, no I would not have any sympathy for child abusers, however... I myself was a 'victim' of what I am now told would be construed as abuse- both physical and emotional- but I know that my Mum loved and still does love me. She indulged in alcoholism a lot- still...
    Pileofskin Pileofskin 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Child Abusers

    My former husband sexually abused my daughter for 5 years before she told someone.  He started when she was just 11 years old.  She ended up telling the guidance counselor at school and all hell broke loose.  Police, Social Services, counselors, doctors..it was a...
    marthajc marthajc 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I Believe The Cchildren Are Our Futuure

    I am fourtunate to have had amuch better upbringing than many, but that does not mean I am not aware of the cold hard facts. I have friends who have been abused as children, both physically and emmotionally. I have no tolerance or sympathy for anyone who does harm to a child, no...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    Abuse Needs To Come To An End.

    Sympathy = Hell no!  What for?  They know exactly what they are doing.  They have a sick, twisted mind and deserve to rot in hell.  Who are they to decide that they need to take away something from an innocent child?  If they have been abused...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 19 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    My Three-month Old Granddaughter...

    This past Easter my ex-wife and I were invited to my son's home to have lunch with him and his family. The baby girl was asleep, and my son was holding her in his lap. My ex-wife became worried when she saw that the baby's right arm and leg were twitching. My son said that...
    fairforest fairforest 66-70, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2010

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    Ok, Let Me Clarify...

    I don't excuse the behaviors of child abusers. Anyone who can intentionally harm a defenseless (or nearly defenseless) creature deserves the worst punishment available. I believe they should be punished extremely and rehabilitated as best they possibly can be. Howwever, I don...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Parents

    Most especially I have none for parents who abuse their children. Spanking is child abuse people, it's a fact.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    No Sympathy For Child Abusers

    I'll make it short and simple.I think whatever a child abuser or murderer does to a child should have the same thing done to them.
    ayankee ayankee 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    Power and the Powerless.

    Child abusers....URGH. Sorry. Before I write this I'm going to have to get the rage out of my soul. AAAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! YOU EVIL SODS!!!!! *Cough* Grr. Anyway, yes, as I was saying. Anyone who abuses a child does so because the...
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2009

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    No Sympathy Whatsoever

    even if they have been abused in the past themselves. It is still not an excuse to abuse your own children.
    coldasice209 coldasice209 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Unforgivable

    I know a man.  He is dying.  He has lung cancer that spread to his brain.  He was my patient while he was in prison for sexually abusing a 15 year old girl at gunpoint.  I do not believe he changed, and I do not believe he feels as though he did something...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    I Have Been There...

      I have been abused as a child. I also protected my sister and cousins from the abuser, my grandfather. I have been beaten, severely at times, as well as raped, threatened, intimidated, and taunted. I have seen down the barrel of a hunting rifle. I have had that rifle dry...
    13guardianangel 13guardianangel 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    ZERO Tolerance

    I have no sympathy for child abusers. NONE. Children are rare and precious gems and should not be harmed in any way, shape or form. They should be loved, cherished and protected. God bless all the children of this screwed up world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Never Forgotten...

    I hear all the time about abuse breeding abuse....as someone who has suffered abuse as a child from several "trusted" people I have never ever been tempted to put anyone through what I went through. It has been years since my innocence was stolen and it has shaped who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    Finding out that someone else within the family

    was abused by the same person as I was as a child breaks my ******* heart. I would never wish abuse of any sort on my worst enemy never mind someone close to me. I hope the abuser gets found out and they rot in hell. Feel sick to my stomach thinking about how you could do...
    herebutinvisible herebutinvisible 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Zero Tolerance

    I think we can start right here on EP to let people know they are hurting others or supporting those who think it is okay to prey on the innocent. If we make friends with these people and turn a blind eye to their comments or stories supporting ******, rape, or child molestation...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 2, 2011

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    Scum

    I used to be a prosecutor and now I'm a defense attorney, and have to deal with lots of cases involving some of the most vile and wicked behavior imaginable. Prosecuting them was rewarding. Having to defend them is a very unpleasant job, a profound test of my professionalism, but...
    Cowboy1969 Cowboy1969 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    Exactly. I don't have time for people that are rude to me Tonight, I drove an hour to get this man from work and take him home. We arrive at his place. There's such limited...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    to have a foreign girlfriend it will make me proud and also my friends. ^_^
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    I was never abused by my parents as a child but my best friend of 13 years was by his Dad. When we were 9 years old, I knew his Dad beat him but if someone was in the house he...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Dec 9

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    Every day I learn more about my son, about people who have autistic children...it seems we're not as alone as I feel sometimes. Other families' successes give me hope that my boy...
    RNY83 RNY83 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am 21 and still have not found true love, it makes me want to cry
    kevin1080123 kevin1080123 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    I had a rotten dad that was "there" but we all wished he wasn't, because all he did was yell, and beat us with belts and put us down. But because he stayed and "took care of us...
    borielis borielis 61-65, M Nov 30

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    well, was woke up tonight to son puking on the floor....ugh...i got a pan for him and he went in the bathroom while i scrubbed the floor and sprayed some disinfectant. i'll have to...
    turnpike1971 turnpike1971 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I have my own 3 sons and also a friends 3 boys - we enjoy lots of sports and commit a lot of time to get the boys to training etc. I just wondered what other parents thought or...
    mikedadof3 mikedadof3 31-35, M Dec 9

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    And tonight, they're both in my room... We've listened to Satyaa & Pari and "meditated" on my bed, before turning to bollywood songs just for the fun of it. Of course we listened...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    I don't know how to get over or move on from the person I Love most in the world. This person broke my heart, she just left me and said we can't be together anymore. I cry myself...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 20

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    How do you start moving on from someone who falls out of love for you?
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 21

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    I had never seen you at the mall before Although every time I went I secretly hoped I would This time I went with the man you broke by stealing me We were trying to work it out...
    bethessel bethessel 18-21, F Nov 23

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    We all have. Don't even act like you don't.
    BON3S BON3S 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 8

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