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I Have No Sympathy For Child Abusers

For those of you who have no sympathy whatsoever for anybody who harms a child in any way. 984 People

    My Three-month Old Granddaughter...

    This past Easter my ex-wife and I were invited to my son's home to have lunch with him and his family. The baby girl was asleep, and my son was holding her in his lap. My ex-wife became worried when she saw that the baby's right arm and leg were twitching. My son said that...
    fairforest fairforest 66-70, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2010

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    Parents

    Most especially I have none for parents who abuse their children. Spanking is child abuse people, it's a fact.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    Never Forgotten...

    I hear all the time about abuse breeding abuse....as someone who has suffered abuse as a child from several "trusted" people I have never ever been tempted to put anyone through what I went through. It has been years since my innocence was stolen and it has shaped who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    Ken

    Strange young man. Just shy of 30, defensive, socially awkward, Ken is a difficult student. I don't take his ****, and he is okay with that.  I'm not mean or stern with him, but I put my arm around him and say things like, "Ken, do you think that was a good thing to say?" or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    Unforgivable

    I know a man.  He is dying.  He has lung cancer that spread to his brain.  He was my patient while he was in prison for sexually abusing a 15 year old girl at gunpoint.  I do not believe he changed, and I do not believe he feels as though he did something...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    Not Just The Abuser...you

    For those who know it is happening. Those who see something is wrong.It is the same darn thing thank you. If you know someone is abusing achild verbally, emotionally, sexually, physically. If you suspect someone is.Don't fall back on well I don't have any proof. I don't want to...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Ok, Let Me Clarify...

    I don't excuse the behaviors of child abusers. Anyone who can intentionally harm a defenseless (or nearly defenseless) creature deserves the worst punishment available. I believe they should be punished extremely and rehabilitated as best they possibly can be. Howwever, I don...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    I Believe The Cchildren Are Our Futuure

    I am fourtunate to have had amuch better upbringing than many, but that does not mean I am not aware of the cold hard facts. I have friends who have been abused as children, both physically and emmotionally. I have no tolerance or sympathy for anyone who does harm to a child, no...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    Power and the Powerless.

    Child abusers....URGH. Sorry. Before I write this I'm going to have to get the rage out of my soul. AAAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! YOU EVIL SODS!!!!! *Cough* Grr. Anyway, yes, as I was saying. Anyone who abuses a child does so because the...
    Emptysoul30 Emptysoul30 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11, 2009

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    Child Abusers

    My former husband sexually abused my daughter for 5 years before she told someone.  He started when she was just 11 years old.  She ended up telling the guidance counselor at school and all hell broke loose.  Police, Social Services, counselors, doctors..it was a...
    marthajc marthajc 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Abusers Don'T Know Any Better

    When I was growing up, I saw many children get spanked, often for no reason and more often on the bared bottom. Back then, it was considered good discipline. Today, that's abuse. It didn't hurt any less then than it does today - sometimes worse. When does spanking end and beating...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2013

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    Wretched People . . .

    I grew up with my dad, he was a single father because my mother was too busy using heroin and robbing banks(and consequently being in prison) to have an active roll in my life.  My father was a supervisor for the Department of Social Services.  He is an amazing man...
    piscesgal piscesgal 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Abuse Needs To Come To An End.

    Sympathy = Hell no!  What for?  They know exactly what they are doing.  They have a sick, twisted mind and deserve to rot in hell.  Who are they to decide that they need to take away something from an innocent child?  If they have been abused...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 19 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    I Try To Love Everone

    i try to love everyone its impossible i know but i was brought up to believe in the golden rule to treat others as you would like to be treated with respect and love you may say im a dreamer but im not the only one
    lovelypaul69 lovelypaul69 36-40, M Oct 12, 2011

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    No Sympathy !

    The abuse and neglect that I was forced to endured was repulsive and excruciating. I was physically, mentally and sexually assaulted on a daily basis. Over the years it ate away at my mind, body and spirit like a crippling disease. I have no sympathy for child abusers!
    shannon1970 shannon1970 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Just to Make It Clear......

    NONE!  Period!  If they have been abused, they need to get help for it.  I think these people should be put in a mental ward to heal and recover and get that stuff out of them (if it is possible).  They should be separate from us.  As someone who has...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    I Have Been There...

      I have been abused as a child. I also protected my sister and cousins from the abuser, my grandfather. I have been beaten, severely at times, as well as raped, threatened, intimidated, and taunted. I have seen down the barrel of a hunting rifle. I have had that rifle dry...
    13guardianangel 13guardianangel 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 24, 2010

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    I Am A Victim, And A Speaker Against It.

    As a close friend of a once abused person, and a victim of it myself, I can't stand to see it happen. They all need to be abused themselves. When I started talking to my friend, I admitted I was abused. I was fourteen and he was the first person I told. He also told me that he...
    Hopeless0Nerd Hopeless0Nerd 16-17, F Aug 29, 2010

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    They Should All Die.

    It upsets me heavily that there are some drug dealers in prison that are doing more time than child abusers.  I think child abusers should get the chair.  I know that's old school and they do it by way of lethal injection, but honestly, I don't think they...
    HisONEnOnly HisONEnOnly 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    ZERO Tolerance

    I have no sympathy for child abusers. NONE. Children are rare and precious gems and should not be harmed in any way, shape or form. They should be loved, cherished and protected. God bless all the children of this screwed up world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    The Story Of My Abuse

    I was abused by a step-father from the age of seven to eleven. I was told everyday that if I told anyone that I would be killed. For five years I dealt with the physical abuse, mental torture and abuse. He would beat me and laugh at me. He found out I was afraid of mice and he...
    Brokenlikeaturtleshell Brokenlikeaturtleshell 36-40, F Sep 7, 2012

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    My Little Sister

    I have a sister, she's about ten years old. A while ago, I think last year, it was Christmas, she told me about a few things that had happened between her and my father's best friend. She had been sexually abused.  I carefully asked her a few things, where has he touched you...
    breathinghole breathinghole 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    Zero Tolerance

    I think we can start right here on EP to let people know they are hurting others or supporting those who think it is okay to prey on the innocent. If we make friends with these people and turn a blind eye to their comments or stories supporting ******, rape, or child molestation...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 2, 2011

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    No Sympathy For Child Abusers

    I'll make it short and simple.I think whatever a child abuser or murderer does to a child should have the same thing done to them.
    ayankee ayankee 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    Stricter Laws Need To Be Made!

    I am a mother of a child who was abused and raped. I feel as though its not right that ppl who have drug charges serve more time then ppl who harm children. The MONSTER who harmed my son served only ten weekend days in jail and 10 yrs of probation. My son was 2 when it happened...
    mommyof1boyn3girls mommyof1boyn3girls 26-30, F Jul 31, 2012

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    No Sympathy Whatsoever

    even if they have been abused in the past themselves. It is still not an excuse to abuse your own children.
    coldasice209 coldasice209 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Scum

    I used to be a prosecutor and now I'm a defense attorney, and have to deal with lots of cases involving some of the most vile and wicked behavior imaginable. Prosecuting them was rewarding. Having to defend them is a very unpleasant job, a profound test of my professionalism, but...
    Cowboy1969 Cowboy1969 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    >_>

    Or abusers in general... apparent this has to be longer....so lalalalalalalala cx
    thatoddgirl thatoddgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    Finding out that someone else within the family

    was abused by the same person as I was as a child breaks my ******* heart. I would never wish abuse of any sort on my worst enemy never mind someone close to me. I hope the abuser gets found out and they rot in hell. Feel sick to my stomach thinking about how you could do...
    herebutinvisible herebutinvisible 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I Am Unsure...

    Theorietically, no I would not have any sympathy for child abusers, however... I myself was a 'victim' of what I am now told would be construed as abuse- both physical and emotional- but I know that my Mum loved and still does love me. She indulged in alcoholism a lot- still...
    Pileofskin Pileofskin 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    my name is nathan and i learned about this site from a parent at a children's hospital support group. i have a very sick son. i am going to give a little background info to give...
    singledaddy101 singledaddy101 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    I have compassion for "The Lost Souls. For The Lost Souls, who have lost their ways in life.Consumed & tried to escaped their darkness inside. We need compassion & helped them out...
    DiscoNight1970s DiscoNight1970s 46-50, F Sep 23

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    I love my mum, but it was not easy. Our relationship used to be quite dysfunctional. My mum's in-laws were awful to her because her first child, me, is not a son. (Makes me wonder...
    Eugene214 Eugene214 26-30, F Oct 8

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    I just found out that my autistic 5 year old has been hitting his EA and pushing his classmates. He is also being destructive. He never hits at home. We do not spank him and he...
    Hoping11 Hoping11 36-40, F Oct 3

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    My childhood was great fun up until about the age of 10, I loved it and was proud of the good old days, and still to this day I enjoy reminiscing about them, probobly because they...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I felt I had a good future until I was 8 and a half. I was traumatized and scared to death of my stepfather as a child. He booted me up the backside multiple times once and he told...
    T3chmupp3t T3chmupp3t 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I first wore pajamas when I was child I remember I get the pair of pajamas from my cousin it was white blue striped pattern,in fact for the child like me at that time really didn't...
    sleepwear sleepwear 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    Things have always been rough for me... Here's why my life sucks... 1) my parents split when I was 2 2) I'm an only child 3) I was made fun of in elementary school, and barely...
    ashcash97 ashcash97 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I wrote about my son'a condition which is really rare usually it's cancer patients that get it (to anybody who has a love one fighting cancer ask about the effects of chemo btw...
    singledaddy101 singledaddy101 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 29

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    I have a 13 year old daughter that holds her Bowel Movement all the time. Private message me. I need help
    herlover1531 herlover1531 26-30, F Oct 6

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    I have 2 daughters with a lot medical problems. They are considered disabled and I do not deny it. However disabled doesn't seem like the right word for them. Or maybe it just...
    Li1miz Li1miz 26-30, F Oct 7

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    I used to like to hang out with my brother, but he didn't want his little sister tagging along so he left me at his friends house to play with his sister. She wanted to play house...
    lalalagirl40 lalalagirl40 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    Growing up It was just me and my mum. We lived on a main busy road. It was scary. One time there was a car accident metres from us where someone died. I went on the news with my...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 6 days ago

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    For those of you who read my last story..... I have been having a relationship with my nephew(32).....Trust me it's true... And I have proof. I'm pregnant. He doesn't know yet and...
    juicy12smith juicy12smith 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 22

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    I'm a senior in high school and one of my teachers is in his 20's. At our school we call all the teachers by their first names and we are therefore, all pretty casual with them...
    Lizzy332iop Lizzy332iop 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    TGIF! It was on my calendar for quite some time, and the day has finally arrived. Just had a shower about 2 hours ago, wore neon pink underwear and translucent cotton sleeping...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F Oct 3

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    Bad prank on me. Not cool. Because those two pants look exactly the same from the outside. I was gonna bathe when my mom called me to do something for her, little did I know...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F Oct 4

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    I have this too. I was not diagnosed with it until 2014 but have been experiencing these symptoms since October 2008. The doctors all told me it was eczema. I have used every over...
    Rosalindjts Rosalindjts 26-30, F Oct 7

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    I love it when I get forgotten by my friends,it's the best feeling ever.....yeay friends
    ZnikiZ ZnikiZ 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Might write my story one day. Don't really remember all that much of it. I think because it hurt me so badly. It was so bad, that the moderator joined in. They were incredibly...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F Oct 12

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