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I Have Not Had Sex With Many People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 100 People


    I am 40 years old and have only had 4 sexual partners. My first serious boyfriend, the rebound from that boyfriend.  My husband, and my current affair partner. I do not think that is alot
    suez68 suez68
    36-40, F
    Oct 15, 2008

    11 ---more Surly But Slowly

    I'm 33 now...but have been without sex for over a year...
    AkA007 AkA007
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 19, 2009

    Just One Wonderful Man

    My husband.....I've been with him since I was 16 years old.
    Seul Seul
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2008

    Im On My Second Sexual Partner

    the first was forgetable-it happened on holidays. Now i am sleeping with someone i really love and care about, i feel very happy about that. i think to sleep with too many people would be quite negative because you are giving so much of yourself away everytime. save it for...
    Donalh Donalh
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

    Lots A Girlfriends, Lots A Flirting

    But only had sex with just a few... as in like 4. Most were in long term relationships. I did a LOT with others, but never sex. Part of the reason was that for a few years I was very religious a couple years out of high school. I do partially regret that, not because of the...
    passionateactorxox passionateactorxox
    31-35, M
    Dec 20, 2009


    It's always been just one at a time.
    IndyNudist IndyNudist
    46-50, M
    12 Responses Jun 17, 2008

    That Would Be One.

    And I'm  married to him.
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Jul 30, 2008

    Only You ...

    I have had sex with only my lover (current lover) .. I have dated so many guys since I was 14 .. and I'm 21 now but I'd waited until I found the love of my life .. when my heart said "go on girl" ;) and Im so happy to belong to him .. and he is so grateful to be my...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 20, 2009

    Were You Expecting More?

    I'm 27 this month; I have had 9 sexual encounters. Each while in a relationship with only one; Thus, I have had 9 relationships in my entire life. One guy I dated didn't believe me (and that was 5 years ago so at that point I had only been with 7). He expected that I had way more...
    star13 star13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

    Part of My Complexity

    The number of people I've been intimate with has been surprisingly few... Now looking at some of my experiences/goals you might think I was totally promiscuous... and though I am a very sexual person... for me there really is a dimension that comes from the psychological angle...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 6, 2009

    I Wasn't Going To Have Sex Until Marraige..

    This was a firm belief of mine. Went through high school as the only virgin (that admitted it). Not her fault my choice. Raised to believe this. A relative my mother respected said I was abnormal for being a virgin. I cared more about my parents views than my own. I don't think I...
    wanni wanni
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 20, 2010

    Only Two...

    I got married at 25 and she was my first... too many other things going on in my life up to then... lasted 14 years... and she switched off and drifted away... some of my fault too.. Been re-married 7 years... Even my new wife wishes i'd been 'around' a little more... not...
    simplyus simplyus
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 12, 2008

    In Fact...

    I've not had sex with ANY people... I win... Or lose... Depending on the definition, lol.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 25, 2008

    Old Fashioned

    When I was in high school I meet this guy he was handsome,smart and I had known him for five years or more before I dated him and months down the road, we ended up have sex its was no surprise I really liked him an had like a love drug going on. But anyone I had before that was...
    Elizabeth1993 Elizabeth1993
    18-21, F
    Jul 26, 2012

    Only Five

    My first was when I was eighteen and in college(big surprise,huh?).Zak. When he got what he pursued and dumped me I stayed relationship-free for a few months. Started up with a high school sweetheart. Shaun. That was a very dysfunctional experience(on his part). Lived for three...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 25, 2009


    I have not had sex with many people.   Goats on the other hand.....
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2008
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