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I Have Often Felt Unwanted

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    it's very sad but it's the cold hard facts of life, no one has ever wanted me nor will anyone ever want me. all pass me by to make up for being unwanted i threw myself into hobbies, and that worked for abit anyhow. but hobbies alone can't take away the hurt of being rejected. i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 2, 2012

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    Have Felt That Way Many Times.

    For most of my life, I have felt so alone because I could not find someone that cared enough about me to enjoy life with.  It took a long time for me to come to the realization that I want me and that's all I really needed.  Yes I still need to feel loved and wanted by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 12, 2008

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    But I'm Not Alone?

    I've often felt unwanted... By my ex, by my fiance (back before we were engaged)... By my parents. Its better now... Now the moments of feeling unwanted are few and far between, but... Sometimes, I go through a period where no matter what I do, I feel like I'm unwantable...
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 1 Response Aug 11, 2008

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    Today on the school bus back from the movies,

    there was only one seat left. so I asked the guy if I could sit on the other side of him (the other side because I knew he wanted to talk to his friends across from him) And he sighed under his breath "oh my god" all drawn out and got up so I could get in. I could clearly see...
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2014

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    All My Life No One Wanted Me

    When my mom was pregnant with me she told my biological father and he was furious. He told her he was married and she needed to get rid of the baby. My mom told him she wouldn't and he sent his wife to fight my mom so that she would miscarry. My mom got beat up pretty bad when...
    living4my2boys living4my2boys 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    Maybe Now You Will Listen ?

    My name is.. doesn't matter..does it? You can say my story starts the same way as many others because it does and they always do.I grew up with no friends from 5-13 i only had my parents,through out this time i was always reminded by both of them how alone i was which only made...
    whocaresaboutmyname whocaresaboutmyname 16-17, F Dec 12, 2012

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    "If I Had Known....

     "If I had known your father would die I would have never had you!" said mother "Just don't be too much like you." "just be normal" "What are you doing here" "Oh...its just you again"   ....yea well i have heard...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2008

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    Worthless

    I've often felt really worthless. I don't feel like people understand what's going on with me. I was just diagnosed with major depression and borderline personality disorder. I also suffer from ADD, anorexia, bulimia and SAD. It's quite a lot that has caused me over time to...
    Donny1987 Donny1987 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2012

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    Extra In This Big World

    hi ny1 out there can tel me how to cope up with job depressions. i don't feel like doing nything. always have weird things on my mind like wht if i die all my problems wud end. wht to do help pls.
    extra extra 22-25 1 Response Jul 6, 2008

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    I'm Hurting

    The past 12 years of my marriage has been so hard to deal with, i wish i never met this man. He has no idea what marriage is, or how to deal with issues. Sometimes i can't believe he has so many  insensitive self centered hang ups  that my heart gives up. The "I'm sorry" crap...
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F 28 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    Why Would People Want Me?

    sometimes its just hard to see why people would want me there. what have i got to give them that they want, why would they want to be friends with me, why would my parents want a problem like me, why put up withme? its all just constant questions against myself, its hard to say...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    For a Long Time

    I have felt unwanted since I was a child.  I was moved around so much between my real father, grandparents and mother until I was about ten and my mother married my step father who I call my daddy to this day.  I feel my grandparents are the only ones that have ever...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2007

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    i was born in a family where people r over intelligent & expects same from me too. i tried all my life to live upto their expectations. even got double bachlers & a masters degree also.but still they r not happy.iam their third daughter but often felt my family is...
    extra extra 22-25 2 Responses Jun 2, 2008

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    ok ...I have always felt alone ...like everyone judges and studies me I hattte it bc honestly I don't care what I look like ...I just want some one to talk to . ....I hate being...
    imissdnce imissdnce 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 5

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    God give me a chance for closure, or let me find her, bring her to me. Because you know the warrior spirit in me never gave up on his princess, no matter what he never gave up...
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    How my mother shows me how much she doesn't love me: I got up and she was awake. She was awake to get HIM awake for something for the car. She was cold and uncaring to me. Felt so...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Mar 9

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    sorry guys I have been really busy so yea ill try to be on more often
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11 13-15, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    GRANDMOTHER. My grandmother obviously had some issues. I'm going to start with the mild things first. Normally you spill something, you clean it up that's the end of it, right...
    DeluxedEdition DeluxedEdition 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    That I do. I never let others I to my core but I had a sudden realization. I felt it needed to be said so I can organize it in my head. some background info on me. my childhood was...
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I did it again. I let my ex back into my life, despite knowing it would once again not work out. He gave me much of the same lines he gave me the last time he tried to get back...
    mel121212 mel121212 26-30, F Mar 20

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    Been awhile now since I felt this way and it only increases with. Each day. Don't feel wanted by anyone. Almost like I shouldn't exist anymore
    anton88 anton88 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I’m writing this because I literally have no one to talk to and give me an advice. Before anything else, I’m sorry for any spelling and/or grammar error, English is not my...
    xSN0Wx xSN0Wx 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I woke up today, looked at myself in the mirror and for the first time in weeks I felt truly beautiful. Acceptance is happening within me. I can feel it.
    ryhp ryhp 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    Well my heart got broken last night, my best friend send me a picture of her new tattoo she got with another girl, it's her other best friend. The reason it hurt me so much, I felt...
    choli choli 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    Crazy Girl by Rehab lol when my husband first heard this, he said it felt like someone turned our life into a song.
    Lostonaroad Lostonaroad 26-30, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    When I was young my brothers had this weird friend who was kinda socially awkward. He was 3 years older than me and he would stay the night often during the summer. I had my own...
    alexxxxx96 alexxxxx96 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 18

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    I was diagnosed with it three years ago. I slowly started to realize that my level of pain probably wasn’t in the average range when it increased with each day. I sometimes...
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