I Have Parents Who Hate Each Other

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    It Just Keeps Happening

    My mom and dad have always hated each other. The only reason they stayed together was because I was born. My dad hit my mom for a very long time, and I thought it was normal for a long time. Then after she hit him back finally and sent him to jail he stopped drinking and never...
    taytayheyhey taytayheyhey
    18-21, F
    Aug 6, 2012

    My Parents Haven't Liked Each Other Since Their Wedding Day...almost 30 Years Ago.

    I hear the story so many times from my dad...my mom had second thoughts on their honeymoon. Ever since then nothing's been quite right, but now my dad has bad bipolar disorder among other health problems and seems to be having the early onsets of dementia, it's become more...
    liquidjenn liquidjenn
    26-30
    6 Responses May 23, 2011

    It Never Stops, I Thought It Would.

    My parents divorced when I was seven. I remember being sort of happy and thinking that "finally, the fighting would stop." I am now in my late twenties and they still despise each other. The only memories I have of us all together are them fighting. Neither of them have...
    marvelousdayze marvelousdayze
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 21, 2012

    Do My Parents Hate Me

    Ever since I was born my parents have hated each other and they keep dragging me into it. I just want it to stop. help!! Do they hate me
    Jayjay200124 Jayjay200124
    13-15, F
    Sep 30, 2012

    Hate Each Other? That's a Nice Way of Putting It.

    My parents divorced in 1995, and split in 1996/(or)7 (pardon my lack of factual certainty, but my memories of my early life are sparse). Judging by the stories they tell, their relationship was an abusive nightmare long before we children came into the picture. Either that, or...
    solowing solowing
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Sep 3, 2009

    A Nightmare That's Almost Over.

    I just turned 17. My mother had a previous marriage with 2 kids (my half sister and brother) then married my dad. Shortly after having me, about five years later I think, my mom, brother and me moved out. My sister had moved out before then. I'm not sure if they actually...
    DamagedGlass DamagedGlass
    18-21, F
    Aug 11, 2013

    It's Hard...

    My parents got divorced when I was eight, so five years ago. Whats hard about my situation is that they will not speak to each other. I am their communication. It's annoying. My dad is horrible, though. He screams at us at the top of his lungs, telling us that we are worthless...
    monkayyy123 monkayyy123
    13-15
    Apr 18, 2011

    Ever since I was old enough to remember (I'm 19

    years old now), my parents haven't exactly gotten along. I can count on my hands the number of times I've seen them kiss each other. They weren't ever the volatile types who would yell at each other or throw things--they mostly snipped at each other about little things around...
    susie15 susie15
    22-25, F
    Jun 11, 2014

    Just Plain Hate...

    My parents used to be "normal" and not fight all the time. Now, the only time that they talk to each other is when they're yelling. My mom keeps accusing my dad for stealing money from their bank account and not putting his entire paycheck in. Almost all of their fights are...
    bando105 bando105
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2010

    One Of The Regular Drama Reruns

    She placed money somewhere, later found it was gone, blamed him, morning fight, cursing from her side, asked me to drop her at college, i came back and found that my sister had found money from somewhere else. He took the chance and struck the iron while it was hot ie told...
    FreeFallWall FreeFallWall
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Mar 27, 2010

    I'd be surprised if someone read this,

    but I just want this out there. I've only told one person about this and its something I regret. Let me tell you my story (Don't worry, I'll keep it as short as possible without missing major plot points) I'm not sure how long my parents hated each other, but it is going on...
    jdslaw jdslaw
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 13, 2014

    My parents have totally opposing sides of the

    same events that have happened in the past...n they are both convinced they couldn't be any right-er. When i hear my mom tell me the mean things dad said and did, it WAS pretty bad alright...but when dad tells me stories about how selfish and cold mom is, i must say that's...
    lonewolf12358 lonewolf12358
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 8, 2015

    Missing Something

    my mom kicked my dad out when i was 17 months, and he was always a deadbeat wannabe hippie loser. I've never called him dad or father to his face and only ever use it for those who dont know his name. However, I am almost seventeen now and have let go of the angry little girl...
    Gracelovesyou Gracelovesyou
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2013

    They won't get a divorce

    because of money problems but instead they'll fight 24/7 and take it out on me.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2014

    Fake, And Angry

    My parents hate each other. They complain about each other to me, and I'm stuck in the middle of it. They pretend its just normal; its not. All I can do is watch, and listen to them ***** about each other. My mom talks about divorce all the time, but they are empty threats. I...
    fangirl86 fangirl86
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

    My Parents Absolutely Hate Each Other & I Wish They'd Get Divorced Already

    It's has been going on for 6 years now, since I was nine, my parents have been fighting at ridiculous amounts. It's not even over something worth fighting about, it's over the dumbest things. It became clear to me at age 11 that my parents had the most unhealthy relationship I've...
    eyeofthebeholder eyeofthebeholder
    13-15
    Nov 3, 2012

    My Dad Hates My Mom And Expects Me To Pick His Side.

    My parents always had a terrible marriage, my sister and I always wished they'd split up. But when they did things just got worse really. My mother often told us how she started having second thoughts about her marriage on their honeymoon so it wasn't exactly a surprise when she...
    AmyKay91 AmyKay91
    18-21
    8 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    They Never Liked Each Other

    I honestly have no idea why two people who so obviously hate each other would ever get marry. They never loved each other, even when I was conceived. From my earliest memories, I remember screaming and yelling. The police were over constantly, arresting one or the other and...
    iLostMySoul iLostMySoul
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2012

    They Can Hardly Even Be Civil.

    My parents have been divorced for almost 7 years now. When I was younger and they were still together, they screamed and fought all the time. I've been told stories by the both of them... stories of knife threats, physical abuse, etc. After the divorce, I and my brother were...
    throughthewindow throughthewindow
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2011

    Okay so my dad had cancer,

    and we can't do anything about it. My mom tries her best to make him feel better or tries to serve him good food that his stomach can take, which is not a lot; given that the tumor is located in that region. However, he always says that she is trying to kill him and she does...
    suskypls suskypls
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2014

    My parents hate each other.

    They say nasty things about each other to me. They are divorced but they have to talk so they can decide when I go and visit my dad. They can only talk through a lawyer or they will get into a huge fight. I love them both. But it is killing me to be the in between them. What...
    lonelybuthappy25 lonelybuthappy25
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 7, 2014

    My parents got divorced 10 years ago

    and haven't spoken since. Their lives have deteriorated and they still won't speak. My father still hasn't spoken to my brother and sister and me about the divorce. It hurts to think that he trusts his friends more than his own family. My mother is a complete psychopath who...
    rainyannyan rainyannyan
    26-30, F
    Apr 29, 2014

    I Wish My Family Was Back To Normal

    Ever since my half brother came to visit me and my family, things got terrible. My brother hates my father because he is not his dad, and wants to get rid of him. He then called the cops and said that my dad was "threatening" him even though that he wasn't. Then he found out...
    ZillaRxs ZillaRxs
    16-17
    Aug 10, 2013

    My Parents Despise Each Other With a Burning Passion

    IF YOUR PARENTS ARE DIVORCED OR JUST PLAIN HATE EACH OTHER, JOIN THIS GROUP!!! OR If... ...Your parents refuse to speak to each other in person, on the phone, through mail OR over email (I.E. Their only communication is through you) ...Your parents are rich...
    OrangeSky44 OrangeSky44
    26-30, F
    42 Responses Sep 2, 2009

    So my dad is ditching me

    for the 4th to go see ONE of his girlfriends. I made plans (the same plans as always) to go Rockcrawling. I can get there myself and don't need his help. My step dad will be there and many other adults as well, but because my dad doesn't "feel" like talking to my mom or step dad...
    Anonymouslymistaken Anonymouslymistaken
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2014

    My Parents Hate Each Other But Wont Divorce

    My life is horrible. I don't have any friends because we just moved so the only people that I am around our my parents. They both hate their lives and whenever they try to talk it ends in a hour brutal fight and then like a week of high tension. They always try to ask me to hang...
    aloneinroom aloneinroom
    18-21
    1 Response Aug 4, 2012

    I am an adult, and my parents are married.

    They always will be until they die. But it doesn't mean they don't actively hate each other. They don't fight anymore, too old for that. They just try not to be in the same room at the same time and only talk if they must. They bought a vacation home and usually one of them...
    bananaforscale bananaforscale
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    What You Have To Look Forward To

    Parents split when i was 2, bad terms, not speaking Mom remarried at 4, had 3 more kids Now split from my stepdad, they dont speak either BOTH MY FATHER AND STEPFATHER ARE ATTORNEYS No one would pay for my college, and I could not qualify for loans because of their income. I am...
    damagedgudz damagedgudz
    36-40, F
    Apr 12, 2013

    I'm 15, my parents who have been married

    for 15 years, separated about a year ago. I am currently living with my mom, and my dad lives 2 hours away. He doesn't have a drivers license, and he's really trying to see me but my mom won't help, and she's really rude about him all the time, always putting him down in front...
    spaceykacee spaceykacee
    18-21, F
    Jul 30, 2015

    Not sure if hate is the wiord,

    but since they'll divorced now it's something along those lines.
    AfterFall AfterFall
    22-25, F
    Dec 10, 2014
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