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I Have Premature Ejaculation

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    ******** - Private Lap Dance

    Many years ago, had a group of buddies and all of us had turned 21 except for 1 guy. For the last guy, we decided to throw a birthday bash for him when he turned 21 - really an excuse for us to have a party. The plan was to play some card, plenty of liquor of course, and while...
    rave756 rave756 22-25 May 11, 2012

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    PE Is Stopping Me From Really Satisfying My Partner (jess)

    I started a blog about my PE. My girlfriend Jess is joining me in writing about it. If you do a search .... premature *********** - josh and jess tell all .... you can follow our blog. I will also post some of the blog posts here. here's one of them. This is Josh. I have PE. It's...
    josh526 josh526 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    Here is my story, and its a long one

    but different and I guarantee interesting. I'm going to start from the beginning. I lost my vcard at age 15 and that was with my girlfriend till I was 21. My first time was actually pretty good 5 min. Also was the sex life in my first relationship, actually It was better then...
    quickshotturnon quickshotturnon 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    Helped My P.E.

    I have been taking St Johns Wort 3 times a day for the last 4 months and have found that it really does seem to make a difference. Can't believe I didn't try this earlier. I would be really lucky to last a couple of minutes and yet now we seem to go on for anywhere between 6 and...
    jammiee121 jammiee121 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    I Have Premature ***********

    I am a 32 year old male. I am married to a beautiful, amazing woman.We have been married for 5 years and have been together for 14. We do not have kids but are planning to try soon. I feel we a great relationship and marriage except for our sex life. When we are intimate I...
    jpm32 jpm32 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    Another Sub-30 Sec.

    Another sub-30 second experience tonight. After penetrating, only was able to thrust once or twice before I could tell it was going to go fast. Was able to get about 10 or so more slow thrusts in. Usually, I can time it right and get in as deep as I'm able to when...
    rave756 rave756 22-25 4 Responses Jul 31, 2010

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    My Name Is Dave And Im A Premature Ejaclator

    I remember the first date I had with my wife we got into bed together and she was spooning me, her hand made it down to my little fella lol, and started rubbing it through my boxer shorts and before I knew it I had blown my load, I got up and rushed to the bathroom pretending...
    doggsta69 doggsta69 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Quick *** Inside My Gfs Vagina

    lol...my **** gets hard easily. even with feeling or while i am thinking of being with a hot girl makes me hot. nw last time when i tried to have sex with my gf...i just exploded within 1 min...damm she made me hot as i shot my load on her body... i also ********** by watching...
    rancho1 rancho1 22-25, M Aug 19, 2013

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    What's Normal?

    I think I have a PE problem...These days I'm only lasting like between 6 and 10 minutes inside my girl.  I have a lot on my mind these days, and so that might be contributing, but what I"d really like to know is what's normal?She and I talk freely about sex and *******, and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 25, 2011

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    Never Lasted Long

    I am in my early 50's and have never lasted long. I started ************ at around 12 and had trouble going more than 30 seconds to a minute. I could never control it, no matter how often I *********** I would *** fast. Don't last long with a partner either. Thank goodness I...
    AAinDC AAinDC 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    A Major Cable Network Is Casting For Its Medical Series

    I work for a major cable network that is casting real-life individuals for its educational medical series. The series aims at shedding light on all sorts of sexual mysteries, conditions, and practices. It explores a range of topics from rare medical conditions to unique fetishes...
    strangesexcasting strangesexcasting 36-40 Jul 12, 2011

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    I Have Pramature ***********.

    I have never lasted more than a minute with a woman. Nothing I do helps.
    littlewhiteboy littlewhiteboy 18-21 10 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Didn't Even Make It Inside Her

    So yesterday afternoon I get my shot at the once every two months sex with my wife. I eat and finger her to ******, per usual. She then makes a comment about how she wishes my penis could make her *** like that. She assumes the doggie position, I'm not hard enough to get in, so...
    crankdingo crankdingo 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    30 Seconds

    Im 27 and have both a quick **** and a small penis. Im 4 inches erect and last usually 30 seconds sometimes a minute. My girlfriend deals with it but is very frustrated. She enjoys oral but wants a ****. Sometimes I only get 3 or 4 pumps before I ***. One time we were visiting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    Tong Balm

    Just wanted to pass this on to the men of this group. Because of anxiety and relationship problems with my wife, lately I have become a minute man. I had never really had the problem before so I found it rather upsetting. I did research and knew it was because of my worries about...
    beery beery 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2012

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    Can't Help It...i *** Very Fast

    I'll be the first to admit it, I have premature ***********. It's uncontrollable when it comes to penetration. During oral I can go anywhere between 1-10 minutes depending on how good the person is at it. Thank god I am very good at giving oral. Before I start to have sex...
    LowRider7UC LowRider7UC 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    One Pump Chump

    My absolute worst performance happened a few years ago, with my wife of 20 years. Sex is routine with her nothing very exciting or out of the ordinary, but this one time it had been a little while since we had sex, and after a little bit of foreplay I was poised to enter her...
    blade136 blade136 41-45 1 Response Aug 10, 2013

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    Cure

    Finally, cured. When I don't *********, I don't ********* prematurely! I found a way to ****** without ***********. I know it sounds weird, but it's actually quite easy. Now instead if blowing my wad every time, I have an ****** without blowing my wad. I stay hard and enjoy more...
    Lightpeacelove Lightpeacelove 46-50 2 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Can't Remember The Last Time I Lasted More Than Two Minutes

    Can't remember the last time I lasted more than two minutes, anywhere from near instantly to 30 seconds is more the norm.  Even when I was younger, I don't remember that I lasted that long at straight missionary position, thrusting, but we mixed up sex positions more, oral...
    rave756 rave756 22-25 2 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    I *** Fast

    Sometimes I'm lucky that I get my whole **** in before I ***. I like to concentrate on giving oral sex to a woman or a man without any touching on my **** so that I can extend the lovemaking. I've even been known to *** without touching, though usually when I'm still wearing...
    jimz1000 jimz1000 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Pretty Quick

    In addition to having a small uncut penis, it is very sensitive and I come pretty quickly. When I was in high school I was kissing a girl at a party and she rubbed my **** through my pants and I came in seconds. Many of the girls I dated in high school I essentially came in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    I *** On Myself More Often Than Inside My Wife

    I *** on myself or inside my panties quite often. It usually happens during foreplay or just while kissing my wife. I get really worked up and cant stop it. She is more than OK with it and actually encourages it. She says its a power rush knowing she can make me *** anywhere and...
    squirtyshorts squirtyshorts 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    Last Only A Few Strokes

    well i was 18 and i was at a trina concert.it featured lil kim and missy elliot and timberland.well i was in the front row and lil kim was rapping with trina.lil kim pointed to me and took ahold of my hand and led me on stage it was awesomwe they were both rappin and dancing...
    casper27 casper27 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    I Am With You Guys 10-30 Seconds In My Wife'S ***** And Pop Goes The Weasle

    Like a lot of other guys who posted here I am perfectly fine getting oral or j/o. My wife can blow me for an hour and I am in complete control and she give awesome head. The moment I spread those legs or even worse if I mount her from behind I am really lucky to get 30 seconds...
    Dman964 Dman964 46-50, M 6 Responses May 29, 2013

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    I So Want To Star In A Pe Video

    I had a half day today so went home and as i had a couple of hours free thought i would check out a couple of premature *********** vids online there are a couple that really get me wishing i was the one being filmed. my favourite is the one where a cute Asian girl is giving a...
    carolesweetie carolesweetie 36-40, T 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    **** Ring

    Has anyone tried using a **** ring to help with PE?
    Dman964 Dman964 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    Pathetic

    My partner is not really cooperative and I mostly end up doing simply what she wants, which is not that much fun, as I crave intimacy, not the ocasional copulation (Will spere You the details, but it always is same). I used to be able to go longer, when we were trying for a child...
    Drzewowit Drzewowit 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Pe

    I have always suffered from premature *********** but the most humiliating experience happend when i was married and my wife caught me dressed in her clothes understandably she was not pleased and refused to speak to me for about a week, and i had to sleep in the spare room. Then...
    carolesweetie carolesweetie 36-40, T 4 Responses Sep 16, 2011

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    Not To Big A Problem Anymore

    over the last 14 yrs about i have had times where i cam fast or before we even really got started.i had moments where girls would touch me and i would *** instantly but i was young then i'm 27 now and i dont really have that problem anymore,but it may happen once in awhile i may...
    cvw123 cvw123 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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