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I Have Premature Ejaculation

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    Helped My P.E.

    I have been taking St Johns Wort 3 times a day for the last 4 months and have found that it really does seem to make a difference. Can't believe I didn't try this earlier. I would be really lucky to last a couple of minutes and yet now we seem to go on for anywhere between 6 and...
    jammiee121 jammiee121 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    One Pump Chump

    My absolute worst performance happened a few years ago, with my wife of 20 years. Sex is routine with her nothing very exciting or out of the ordinary, but this one time it had been a little while since we had sex, and after a little bit of foreplay I was poised to enter her...
    blade136 blade136 41-45 1 Response Aug 10, 2013

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    Didn't Even Make It Inside Her

    So yesterday afternoon I get my shot at the once every two months sex with my wife. I eat and finger her to ******, per usual. She then makes a comment about how she wishes my penis could make her *** like that. She assumes the doggie position, I'm not hard enough to get in, so...
    crankdingo crankdingo 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Pe

    I have always suffered from premature *********** but the most humiliating experience happend when i was married and my wife caught me dressed in her clothes understandably she was not pleased and refused to speak to me for about a week, and i had to sleep in the spare room. Then...
    carolesweetie carolesweetie 36-40, T 4 Responses Sep 16, 2011

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    Never Lasted Long

    I am in my early 50's and have never lasted long. I started ************ at around 12 and had trouble going more than 30 seconds to a minute. I could never control it, no matter how often I *********** I would *** fast. Don't last long with a partner either. Thank goodness I...
    AAinDC AAinDC 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Not To Big A Problem Anymore

    over the last 14 yrs about i have had times where i cam fast or before we even really got started.i had moments where girls would touch me and i would *** instantly but i was young then i'm 27 now and i dont really have that problem anymore,but it may happen once in awhile i may...
    cvw123 cvw123 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    My Name Is Dave And Im A Premature Ejaclator

    I remember the first date I had with my wife we got into bed together and she was spooning me, her hand made it down to my little fella lol, and started rubbing it through my boxer shorts and before I knew it I had blown my load, I got up and rushed to the bathroom pretending...
    doggsta69 doggsta69 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Another Sub-30 Sec.

    Another sub-30 second experience tonight. After penetrating, only was able to thrust once or twice before I could tell it was going to go fast. Was able to get about 10 or so more slow thrusts in. Usually, I can time it right and get in as deep as I'm able to when...
    rave756 rave756 22-25 4 Responses Jul 31, 2010

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    ******** - Private Lap Dance

    Many years ago, had a group of buddies and all of us had turned 21 except for 1 guy. For the last guy, we decided to throw a birthday bash for him when he turned 21 - really an excuse for us to have a party. The plan was to play some card, plenty of liquor of course, and while...
    rave756 rave756 22-25 May 11, 2012

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    What's Normal?

    I think I have a PE problem...These days I'm only lasting like between 6 and 10 minutes inside my girl.  I have a lot on my mind these days, and so that might be contributing, but what I"d really like to know is what's normal?She and I talk freely about sex and *******, and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 25, 2011

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    Can't Help It...i *** Very Fast

    I'll be the first to admit it, I have premature ***********. It's uncontrollable when it comes to penetration. During oral I can go anywhere between 1-10 minutes depending on how good the person is at it. Thank god I am very good at giving oral. Before I start to have sex...
    LowRider7UC LowRider7UC 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    I Have Premature ***********

    I am a 32 year old male. I am married to a beautiful, amazing woman.We have been married for 5 years and have been together for 14. We do not have kids but are planning to try soon. I feel we a great relationship and marriage except for our sex life. When we are intimate I...
    jpm32 jpm32 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    I *** Fast

    Sometimes I'm lucky that I get my whole **** in before I ***. I like to concentrate on giving oral sex to a woman or a man without any touching on my **** so that I can extend the lovemaking. I've even been known to *** without touching, though usually when I'm still wearing...
    jimz1000 jimz1000 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    30 Seconds

    Im 27 and have both a quick **** and a small penis. Im 4 inches erect and last usually 30 seconds sometimes a minute. My girlfriend deals with it but is very frustrated. She enjoys oral but wants a ****. Sometimes I only get 3 or 4 pumps before I ***. One time we were visiting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Mar 6, 2012

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    Cure

    Finally, cured. When I don't *********, I don't ********* prematurely! I found a way to ****** without ***********. I know it sounds weird, but it's actually quite easy. Now instead if blowing my wad every time, I have an ****** without blowing my wad. I stay hard and enjoy more...
    Lightpeacelove Lightpeacelove 46-50 2 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Pathetic

    My partner is not really cooperative and I mostly end up doing simply what she wants, which is not that much fun, as I crave intimacy, not the ocasional copulation (Will spere You the details, but it always is same). I used to be able to go longer, when we were trying for a child...
    Drzewowit Drzewowit 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Last Only A Few Strokes

    well i was 18 and i was at a trina concert.it featured lil kim and missy elliot and timberland.well i was in the front row and lil kim was rapping with trina.lil kim pointed to me and took ahold of my hand and led me on stage it was awesomwe they were both rappin and dancing...
    casper27 casper27 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 10, 2010

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    I *** On Myself More Often Than Inside My Wife

    I *** on myself or inside my panties quite often. It usually happens during foreplay or just while kissing my wife. I get really worked up and cant stop it. She is more than OK with it and actually encourages it. She says its a power rush knowing she can make me *** anywhere and...
    squirtyshorts squirtyshorts 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    I Am With You Guys 10-30 Seconds In My Wife'S ***** And Pop Goes The Weasle

    Like a lot of other guys who posted here I am perfectly fine getting oral or j/o. My wife can blow me for an hour and I am in complete control and she give awesome head. The moment I spread those legs or even worse if I mount her from behind I am really lucky to get 30 seconds...
    Dman964 Dman964 46-50, M 6 Responses May 29, 2013

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    I Have Pramature ***********.

    I have never lasted more than a minute with a woman. Nothing I do helps.
    littlewhiteboy littlewhiteboy 18-21 10 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    I So Want To Star In A Pe Video

    I had a half day today so went home and as i had a couple of hours free thought i would check out a couple of premature *********** vids online there are a couple that really get me wishing i was the one being filmed. my favourite is the one where a cute Asian girl is giving a...
    carolesweetie carolesweetie 36-40, T 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    Here is my story, and its a long one

    but different and I guarantee interesting. I'm going to start from the beginning. I lost my vcard at age 15 and that was with my girlfriend till I was 21. My first time was actually pretty good 5 min. Also was the sex life in my first relationship, actually It was better then...
    quickshotturnon quickshotturnon 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    Tong Balm

    Just wanted to pass this on to the men of this group. Because of anxiety and relationship problems with my wife, lately I have become a minute man. I had never really had the problem before so I found it rather upsetting. I did research and knew it was because of my worries about...
    beery beery 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 23, 2012

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    A Major Cable Network Is Casting For Its Medical Series

    I work for a major cable network that is casting real-life individuals for its educational medical series. The series aims at shedding light on all sorts of sexual mysteries, conditions, and practices. It explores a range of topics from rare medical conditions to unique fetishes...
    strangesexcasting strangesexcasting 36-40 Jul 12, 2011

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    Pretty Quick

    In addition to having a small uncut penis, it is very sensitive and I come pretty quickly. When I was in high school I was kissing a girl at a party and she rubbed my **** through my pants and I came in seconds. Many of the girls I dated in high school I essentially came in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Can't Remember The Last Time I Lasted More Than Two Minutes

    Can't remember the last time I lasted more than two minutes, anywhere from near instantly to 30 seconds is more the norm.  Even when I was younger, I don't remember that I lasted that long at straight missionary position, thrusting, but we mixed up sex positions more, oral...
    rave756 rave756 22-25 2 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Quick *** Inside My Gfs Vagina

    lol...my **** gets hard easily. even with feeling or while i am thinking of being with a hot girl makes me hot. nw last time when i tried to have sex with my gf...i just exploded within 1 min...damm she made me hot as i shot my load on her body... i also ********** by watching...
    rancho1 rancho1 22-25, M Aug 19, 2013

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    **** Ring

    Has anyone tried using a **** ring to help with PE?
    Dman964 Dman964 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    PE Is Stopping Me From Really Satisfying My Partner (jess)

    I started a blog about my PE. My girlfriend Jess is joining me in writing about it. If you do a search .... premature *********** - josh and jess tell all .... you can follow our blog. I will also post some of the blog posts here. here's one of them. This is Josh. I have PE. It's...
    josh526 josh526 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    Delivered at 23 weeks gestation. 1pound 1oz 11inches long. A boy, my 1st baby. He is currently in NICU with bleeding on his brain among other issues due to his premature birth...
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    I have 3 kids, 1 girl and 2 boys. My two boys are my premature ones. My first son started labor at 27 weeks and I was on med and in the hospital on bed rest for a month. When I was...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Hey...im 14 years young but I just have low self esteem. I was born 3lbs...i don't have many friends but people look down on me literally I'm going to 9th grade now before I...
    Djcovance Djcovance 13-15, M Aug 12

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    Just wondering, does anybody else who was born early have bladder issues as an adult because you were born early. That's what the doctor has told me. It also affected my eyes
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    She's taking me back to court, because her temporary maintenance payments were done as of the divorce trial, and her new maintenance payments don't take effect until September...
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    September 2010: Sometime this month, without knowledge, I conceived my second child. I was living in Dodge City, KS with my ex fiancé and his son. We were constantly fighting and...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I am 48 and have been experiencing PVCs for the past 15-years. They have me concerned because they have increased in frequency. I have seen a couple of cardiologist that have...
    Patsagenda Patsagenda 41-45 Aug 4

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    I have a 7 yr old adopted daughter that I'm very concerned about. She and her twin sister were abandoned at the hospital, born 3 mos. premature, and positive for methamphetamine...
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    I have stage 4 chronic kidney disease since last nov. Of 2013,right before Thanksgiving. And I do have couple donors to help me but I guess the hospital is still gonna take awhile...
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    I have been clean for 59 days and I don't want to relapse but I'm frustrated with myself and that's how it all started.
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    My vision was alledgedly 20/30 out of both eyes when I started Kindergarten. I don't know what went wrong. I had always been cross-eyed though. The vision in my left eye had...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 20

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    I honestly have no friends... I tell myself I'm better off but sometimes it gets lonely..
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    I love my children so much that I try to enjoy every second with them. I couldn't stand the thought of losing them. They are all I have and want in life. They mean everything to...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    We'll I'm a lesbian, but I love to be dominated it's amazing. My fantasy is to be tied up on a bed with restraints and have her do what she wants to me. Lol please no nags about...
    kittykat6918 kittykat6918 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm still with my abuser. Some of the things he's done to me caused me to have nightmares. I love him dearly and even though I know he is poisonous to my life I can't leave. Iv...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 20

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    I have two elephants and one baby gazelle that live upstairs. The elephants let the gazelle run back and forth and back and forth down the one hallway from the bedroom to the...
    simplycomplex82 simplycomplex82 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    'm sorry :'( I feel like a terrible person :'( I almost walked out of my job tonight because of my anxiety. My anxiety has never been a issue before but now it's getting worse. It...
    LostAriel LostAriel 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    Now I'm starting to worry. I just turned 15, and I still have no signs of puberty. No growth, no hair, no nothing. I've always been one of the smallest boys in my class, but it...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 8 Responses Jul 20

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    As of today I have officially given up on love and I really don't care anymore I tried pursuing relationships constant rejection I don't even care if I get married anymore I don't...
    SeanWarnerB SeanWarnerB 18-21, M Jul 20

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    I have pulled strength from this site from a long time now, just reading peoples stories about hs and knowing that I'm not alone. My outbreaks have decreased a lot. I started when...
    AshamedAngel AshamedAngel 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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