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I Have Problems Being Alone After a Breakup

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    Life Without You

    When you left me and found someone else 4 months ago I felt like my life shattered. I feel life is like walking through heavy snow while everyone else is skiing past me. I put on a front to everyone that I am strong, that I can deal with everything but in reality I want to run...
    Iamstruggling01 Iamstruggling01 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    It's Been About A Month...

    Every second of every day is a struggle not to think about her, and when I do, I feel awful. I feel like it's my fault that we broke up. I honestly think it's because she was very pretty in my eyes, and now I can't live with the fact that I can't be with her any more. I feel like...
    karkapariah karkapariah 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    Going Through A Hard Breakup

    Okay so.. About the beginning of May my boyfriend of a year and about two months broke up with me.. He told me he didn't love me anymore and then got with another girl two days later, a girl no offense or anything but compared to her I think I'm much prettier and shes like 100...
    Whisper15 Whisper15 13-15 1 Response Aug 28, 2011

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    Im Feeling So Lonely And Im Kind Of Missing Him

    last year i met a guy who has a girlfriend,but they had a distant relationship,when he tells me that he loves me i believed that he is the one.we took 5 months not having sex,then after that we had sex and he told me that he love me,he told me that he is no longer loves his girl...
    khomotso khomotso 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2012

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    I'm Alone And Depressed

    i recently broke up with my long distance girlfriend of 9 months and i just feel incredibly alone and depressed. no one is as close to me as she was and as a result there a big void in my life now. the break up was completely necessary but i'm just having such a hard time coping...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Ever Going Battle

    im a 42 year old male who has a real hard time after breakups ...its almost like i lure them in then push them away...then it kills me when there gone ....breaks my heart but i dont blame them
    confused383 confused383 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2007

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    I Cant Deal With My Breakup.

    Im 17 years old and i was with my ex for 3 and 1/2 years, He split up with me in december just as my nanna was dying of cancer. He was my first love and i was dealing with it okay, but now ive found out he's in love with my friend and its killing me. I got rid of all of his...
    Princessxx Princessxx 16-17 4 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    I Lost My Him.

    You would think when someone says "ill be here forever" they mean it but, Since July 2009, I have been in love with this boy. Last summer we started talking a lot. I developed feelings for him. We went out in July then Broke up at the end of August, He is the love of my life, But...
    Noregreats121 Noregreats121 13-15 3 Responses Mar 31, 2012

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    Its Been 4 Weeks Now

    My partner started loosing interest in me 3 month ago and decided to leave July 1st. Since then I suffer from nostalgia, light depression and worst insomnia. Because I suffer form anxiety at night Its hard to get up and face the day, eat and smile while going to work. Why is it...
    Mrnostalgia39 Mrnostalgia39 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 28, 2009

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    And quite honestly, I don't see

    why I have to be. I've heard of plenty of people who broke up or divorced, then immediately got with someone else - sometimes even a person they wanted while they were still with the last person. Why can't I have that? Every time I've "done the right thing" and honestly broken...
    Tertiary Tertiary 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Think It Is Pretty Common To Have Feelings

    after breaking up but if they are still alive there is always a change it may work out i lost the one i loved to death and i never could get death to claim me no matter where i chasted it Roberta 2 As many of you know from past post we were different then other kids our own ages...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 10, 2011

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    Facing Being Alone. Again.

    Last two years I´ve been sharing my thoughts, my bed, my apartment, my money, my life, my tears, my laughs, my fears, my everything with a man I love. We met, fell in love, I moved half a country just to be closer to him, been working and studying, been working on myself and...
    layuna layuna 22-25, F 2 Responses May 21, 2013

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    I Thought I Have Moved On..... But...

    My bf of almost 6 years broke up with me 2.5months ago, my reaction changes from totally cant take it, to let it go, to kick him out, to wanna get back with him, to a few messy meet ups and try to get back together, to let go and kick him out again...! i thought i am totally...
    snowcrystal303 snowcrystal303 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    Taking Baby Steps

    Well I am trying my hardest to stay above water.  This was  a very toxic relationship and he broke up with me. He broke up with me on and just keep sticking around I said I have to leave, it is my house, and told him not to call anymore.  He left after me I found I...
    kathe1278 kathe1278 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    :(

    Relationships are like butterflies that I can never catch.  As soon as they are there they leave.  I am left alone feeling worse than ever, sitting in a crowded room with silent tears that nobody hears nor sees nor cares.  I knew the end was coming and feared it so much that...
    toragirl toragirl 18-21, F Mar 27, 2012

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    I Wish I Could Move On...

    I'm going to give a little back story on myself before I dive into this post. I'm twenty years old (turning twenty-one in August) and I'm planning and dealing with things right now that most of my friends, same age or younger, aren't even thinking about.  Up until about my...
    JDAlphin JDAlphin 18-21, M 1 Response May 4, 2013

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    Broke up with my ex bf.

    ..only because of distance and that was it. Makes it harder because there was nothing wrong with us as a couple. I miss him like crazy :(
    geo14 geo14 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Im Dont, Your Done, Were Done.

    You probably have read a few of my stories... well, its been about a month. Me & the boy i have loved for years, havent talked for months. We started talking again, but we got into another fight! & that just told me, Im done, Your done, were done. I dont wanna even have contact...
    Noregreats121 Noregreats121 13-15 1 Response May 26, 2012

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    Breakups Suckkk..

    I broke up with my ex cuz he cheated on me 1 week ago....I jus feel so lone...I dnt feel like talkin to anyone...N i don't want him to know that i m sad cuz f all this...I want him to repent cause the gurl for whom he left me ditched him...Nd he wanted me to take him back...I...
    teengurl teengurl 13-15, F Feb 9, 2013

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    Recent Break Up Is Killing Me

     I recently am in the process of going through a break up with someone who lived with me. Their stuff is all packed and ready to go, but the finality of things is starting to set in and I am having a horrible time. The thought of watching him come in, get his stuff and leave...
    Gorilla1980 Gorilla1980 26-30 8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    Breakup

    HI GUYS,  I HAVE RECENTLY BEEN HEART BROKEN REALLY BAD . MY EX BOYFRIEND AND I WERE GETTING MARRIED AND WE EVEN CHOSE THE ENGAGEMENT RING TOGETHER, BUT WE HAD SOME ARGUMENTS AND FIGHTS SO WE BOTH DID NOT TALK TO EACH OTHER AND HAD NO CONTACT FOR 5 MONTHS. I THOUGHT HE WILL COME...
    SAMANEH SAMANEH 26-30 2 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    I'm Lonely And I Hate It

     We broke up over five months ago and I'm still not over it. I feel like somethings wrong with me, the thought of being with anyone other then him hurts-the thought of getting back together with him hurts. I feel so stuck. It doesn't help that we're still friends, that...
    calicoqueen calicoqueen 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Here To Listen.

    Going through a breakup is an incredibly painful process...I've been there, and I know how much a listening ear can help. If you ever feel the need to talk to someone but are unsure whom to reach out to at the moment, we can connect you to good listeners who are here to support...
    wholemilklattes wholemilklattes 22-25 Apr 18, 2013

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    I Want Him To Move On But I Know I'll Get Hurt

    My boyfriend and I have been on and off for a few years. I'm moving in June and I really don't want to have a long distance relationship and I think the best way is for us to just break up. I want him to move on, I really do but my own selfish feelings and barricades for myself...
    Whisper15 Whisper15 13-15 Nov 25, 2011

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    Lets Just Cover It All.

    Im young, i haven't made the best decisions. I was with an amazing guy named seth 4 years ago. well i left him 4 years ago. for a guy with all the spice and jazz, his name was brian. Seth and i had a sad breakup. he would cross oceans for me. he was the best guy ever. i felt bad...
    learntofly learntofly 22-25 1 Response Oct 13, 2011

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    It's really really hard

    for me when she told that she never loved me and she stayed with me all these days just not to hurt my feelings !! Then does that mean that i lived a lie from the very beginning. All those late night texts, long travels, conversation in absolute silence and the radiance that I...
    bharathba37 bharathba37 22-25, M Jun 29

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    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I always use to think that I loved to be alone and have time to myself. So much so, that if I ever met anyone who thought or felt the opposite, I'd basically view as weak. But...
    SweetKrazyChill SweetKrazyChill 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I like being alone. I just don't like being left alone with my thoughts. Especially if I'm feeling down.
    sara2016 sara2016 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Everytime I'm alone with my mind I start overthinking and once I start overthinking I think about self harming and suicide and just being alone I can't deal, whenever I'm left...
    imamascaradeball imamascaradeball 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    The fear of being alone as I am now overwhelms me. I become bored and agitated but most of all, when there's someone there suddenly I realise how sad and alone I am and pounce to...
    ellze ellze 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    It's not really about being alone but more about being the only one trying to maintain my relationships. I find myself being the first to text anyone. They never go out of their...
    savannah764253 savannah764253 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I hate being alone. But its even worse whe youre surrounded by people and you still feel alone and empty. Im trying really hard to be happy but its so hard.
    patric5678 patric5678 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Nothing beats being alone. You can do whatever you want without anyone having a say at it's nice.
    kieshi kieshi 13-15, F Jul 8

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    boyfriend emotionally/verbally abusive. cheated again tonight. just want to be happy again but afraid of being alone
    Stoller Stoller 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Half of me despises being alone, because eventually the loneliness goes away and Im left with this apathetic view towards life that makes it hard to give a damn about anything...
    seabassep seabassep 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    No matter how nature built us, making us needing company, we are also made to discover ourselves and ponder on certain things that many times, they cannot be shared with anyone but...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Being alone is my biggest fear.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This next month is gonna be tough. I'm really bad at being alone for a long time.
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    This will sort of be a stream of consciousness vent. I don't feel totally comfortable writing this here. Putting out my problems on the internet like this for strangers to read but...
    fibrodoodle fibrodoodle 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    It seams the more and more gifts and things I develop, the further away I am from other people. I don't talk to people very often... Because they just don't understand. They may...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F Jul 14

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    July 30, 2014 will be the International best Friends Day. feel a little bit jealous from the others because they are already planning on what they will do on that date. but me...
    kiminion14 kiminion14 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    the thing is im lonely when im not alone. when im on my own, i shed the several walls i have up at any time and let my guard down. When im alone, i can wear shorts and a tank top...
    FreeJazz FreeJazz 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I just had this epiphany that I really wish I wouldn't have had. Ever since I was little people have been leaving me. At 4, my mom and older brother and sister moved away. My mom...
    Jgil99 Jgil99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    No poem this time just broken hearted lonlyness. I hate living without being in a loving relationship. I feel lonley to the point of not even caring for the only 2 people I resist...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I hate spending time by myself.. Don't get me wrong there are times when I need alone time,but I only want this time to happen by my own doing not by people being too busy to...
    1eyeliner1 1eyeliner1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    15 yrs ago my grown daughter was going through a rough time & wanted to move from CA. She needed my help. I quit my job of 15 yrs, cashed out my pension & moved her, 7 yr old...
    usedup61 usedup61 61-65, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I was always alone before him. He became my everything, and I sacrificed so much for him... He was the first love I have ever had. Then things fell apart, and I despised him for...
    walker13sl walker13sl 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm lying awake at 4 a.m. terrified at the thought of being destined to be alone. I've been in three long-term relationship that all ended terribly. None of them will speak to me...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F Jul 15

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    It is literally my worst fear nothing can compare to it that feeling that no one needs you or wants you around and they just leave you behind alone and you know what it has already...
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109 13-15, M Jun 25

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